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If you're not already in the habit of checking post histories, I encourage you to start with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:47 AM
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men being attracted to purity I only have to go this far into this post and I know the rest isn't worth reading. I mean, I knew before I got here but I was 200% sure at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:18 AM
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What if I think that "neat and tidy" isn't as important as "accurate"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:13 PM
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So if you entertain the notion that there are a set of gay genes and a separate set of lesbian genes What supporting evidence do you have for this notion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:47 PM
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Great, that's close enough that we don't need to get into the granular details—and the period and regional differences don't matter that much. We're just establishing that prior to the late 20th century, LGBT people had kids. And we know that in the late 20th century and on, there are more options for both gay and straight people to conceive. So we can agree that LGBT people were having kids throughout history and well into the present, if they so chose. Having established that: This indicates t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:02 AM
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Ok, good, you seem to have a grasp on human reproduction. So let's move onto step two. I want you to speculate on how homosexual relationships might have worked prior to the late 20th century. There's no wrong answers, we're only speculating. Take a stab at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:14 AM
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Well, at least you have lots of time for hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:38 AM
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If women from most of history were fully free to choose which men to mate with, they would have also been free to choose no men at all. I have to ask. How do you think babies are made?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:43 PM
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If OP was a hand grenade, this would be a hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:29 PM
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I’m more interested in how I could possibly be wrong about my initial two premises (i.e., the definition of eugenics I mean, this can be answered by skimming wikipedia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:23 PM
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Ask your parents when they're finally going to get around to arranging a marriage for you, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:12 PM
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"When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me." Your boy is in the first half of that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:05 PM
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Ok, I've translated this screed. The only important part is here. Replace "the guy" with "I/me/my" and it makes sense: But if the guy is an actual friend but just so happens to have ended up attracted to you and you take advantage of that by messing up his feelings then that’s what we call stringing someone along and sometimes you don’t know that you’re doing that, he’s not a diet boyfriend or a “kinda” or a “maybe one day” no he’s a friend or in this case… was a friend. Translated: But if I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 12:17 AM
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James Purefoy who tf is him lol Jesus Christ, get some culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:10 PM
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I mean, why would I care who replaces me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:26 AM
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Go ahead, if that's what you want. But this speech isn't going to convince anyone to not give you the side-eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:16 AM
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Maybe she's just not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:51 PM
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thousands of influencers Maybe you should stop listening to all these thousands of influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:48 PM
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The point is that people will accuse you of having your whole personality going to the gym when that is just one aspect. Ok, just don't talk about the gym all the time. Most people, outside of the most obsessed gym goblins, don't find talking about the gym all that interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:26 PM
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So, are men oppressed victims? Individually? As a group? Systematically? You used the term, I'm asking for clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:56 AM
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Men are oppressed victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:05 AM
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What's stopping you from validating men's issues and showing men empathy? Be the change you want to see in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:52 PM
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No, I get it, the point is just to complain about women and not look for solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:18 PM
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men are more likely to have no close friends Men opening up more won't solve the underlying problem that society just doesn't really seem to care Ok, how do you expect society to solve your "few close friends" problem? Or any of these stated problems? What are your proposed solutions?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:04 PM
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Can't develop a skill if you never exercise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:12 AM
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I mean, the underlying reason is probably not going to house parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:40 AM
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I think you are really underplaying how much social anxiety and social issues younger people this days have Are social issues and social anxiety a fixed, rigid state that is unchangeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:15 AM
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Yes, this is all very plausible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:10 AM
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Uh huh, they were together for a decade and a half because he didn't love her. I mean, who hasn't been there. A tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:09 AM
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Look, I get that your job is just posting on PPD so if you were fired from this "job" there would be zero social and professional consequences but that's generally not the experience for most people when they lose a job. I give this fanciful story you've written a 1/5 stars. Don't get me wrong, it had some highlights. Like when a 32 year-old man was "pressured by his parents to marry" another 32 year-old. I love that kind of attention to detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:48 PM
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45F lost her job because of the affair they faced nearly 0 consequences socially and professionally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:40 AM
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I'm never going to use a flair. Would you date a woman who uses cocaine at least once a month? Fuck no. And same with most drugs. Too much hassle. Would you date a woman who doesn't like drinking alcohol? No. The sole exception to my drug policy. And she wouldn't fit in with my friends if she didn't and it would be too weird. Would you date a woman who doesn't like doing physical activity? Literally don't care. Would you date a woman who voted for Donald Trump? No, I have an intelligence and edu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:49 AM
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AI will. It won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:50 PM
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"Yeah, I just look at a crowd of people and can read their thoughts and feelings at a glance", he declares, confidently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:33 PM
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mowing I got you. take out garbage I got you. Just leave the can on top of the robot and have it programmed to roll it out to the curb on your day. massages I got you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:19 PM
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"For every X there is Y times a million", I say, speculating wildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:12 PM
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No, we just went out and met people in meatspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:01 PM
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You misread me. I'm not defending anything. I'm simply stating that runners are weird and I want nothing to do with them. But, on the second point we agree. I had one friend who briefly dated a woman who was almost 20 years younger than the rest of us. It was weird hanging around a child—they weren't an actual child, but they were the same age as one of my friend's kids. No one liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:51 PM
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I mean, I do too. I do my annual checkups. I just don't run. And I think runners are weird. We have different lifestyles. I'd rather move a half-dozen yards of gravel in direct sun or dig fence postholes than move at anything over a brisk walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:23 PM
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I asked you for degrees and you have me courses which leads me to believe you don't actually know what kind of master's degrees are offered, what they entail, their course of study, or their utility. For your example, those courses would be covered by a Masters in Fine Arts. Dance MFAs are usually highly competitive because their entry prerequisites are quite high. These people aren't shooting for a mid-level office job. They've been doing dance, performance and theater for years and their goal …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:12 PM
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Sociologists are a behavioral science. A master's in sociology will give you advanced classes in statistics, data processing, and research methodology. Basically, the foundation for analyst jobs. Which is why you see these people working on the QA/QI side of healthcare, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:53 PM
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a lot of women studying useless degrees. What's a useless master's degree? Like, give a real example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:51 PM
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If it's so easy, I assume you got a master's degree in something like that just to show how easy it is, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:48 PM
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Likewise, I am not interested in morning runs, going out constantly, and whatever passes for music these days. I want to spend my weekend tending to my gardens, renovating my basement, and taking vacations where the days are filled with long walks through museums and evenings are spent on patios where I eat too much. We're just in different life stages. And neither one of us would find the other interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:43 PM
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Took it personally, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:55 AM
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That happened to my wife (girlfriend at the time). I was meeting her at a pub. I walked up as she was talking to him. He offered to buy her a drink. She said sure as long as he bought one for me too. We had a good laugh. To be fair, he looked sheepish and laughed as well. I think it was an honest mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:10 AM
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Yes, I'm aware of the statistics and you've parroted them at me perfectly. But you did no deeper analysis. Western countries are rich countries. By extension, there's a ceiling on the number of kids any couple might have. But the floor is zero. I'm not saying my approach results in 5 kids per couple. I'm saying my approach results in 2 kids per couple instead of zero. Do you want a modern, rich, service economy with young couples that have, at most, 2 children or do you want a poor, subsistence …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:05 AM
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Society has a stake in mating and always has. Society has a mechanism for incentivizing behavior. It's called money. Do you want to cultivate an industry? Subsidize it. Do you want a manufacturing plant in your state? Offer tax cuts. Do you want people to have kids? Make it easier, and cheaper, to have kids. Having kids is expensive and it starts from conception. There are healthcare costs, costs to the individual's health, there are daycare costs (either paying for daycare or eating the loss of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:36 PM
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I tried hitting on older women and 99% of the time her hubby would come out of the restroom and give me a nasty glare I'm just enjoying the visual of OP lurking behind a plant in the lobby until the man gets up from the table to go to the bathroom. Skulking over to his wife to shoot his shot in the narrow window of time it takes to take a piss then zoidberging away when the husband returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:58 PM
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you guys will always find an excuse to not do it lol This should be the subreddit slogan.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:49 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? OP literally said he sees this among his group of friends. And now you're demanding "pics or it didn't happen". Do you hear yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:44 PM
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You want pictures of OP's friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:34 PM
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I was looking for an example. This is not that. Do you have one or not? Like, do you know him or something? Like, if he said, "Amy" you'd be all, "Oh yeah, Amy, I know her, good example." Like, anyone with a normal sized social circle can name an example. I know at least three women in my social circle where looks are far below "funny, social, smart, educated" and are married to pretty average-looking guys. But same can be said for all my guy friends. They're all married to women who are similar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:14 PM
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but it's like many of y'all live in another reality. Correct. This subreddit is fun to read. Also correct. I'm here to read the hilarious manifestos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:42 PM
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You asked for thoughts, I gave you one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:34 PM
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Thoughts? I'm not sure that shouting a manifesto at the perpetually online will get you what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:29 PM
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No idea why you're lumping in cheating with casual sex. Because he's not a behavioral researcher, he works at a gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:26 PM
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Any time I see a post like this I check the OP's post history. It's always illuminating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:12 AM
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This is what I imagine when people say "brain rot".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:29 PM
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Then so are millions of women on tiktok who make this content and upvote it. Guys, is tiktok real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:06 AM
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I get a lifetime supply of it If we assume a person who likes carrot juice might enjoy 8oz of it a day, over the course of their entire life, that's ~240,000oz or juice, or 1870 gallons, or 34 drums. Assuming the drums or perfectly "canned" so that the contents don't spoil, you still have to consider storage of 34 drums. You also have to deal with the preservation of the contents of one drum once it is opened since that opened drum's carrot juice would need to last 2.4 years (assuming one glass …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:48 PM
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you think the a list celebrities in 1-2 decade age gaps also have this issue? Imagine believing celebrities are relationship role-models.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:28 PM
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digging through piles of dirt to find him Yeah, but all that's happening here is shifting the obligation of doing the labor onto women. And, yes, they might get more likes in their inbox but now the expectation is that they go and look at the photos, read the profiles, and do the work because guys are using the shotgun approach. It doesn't surprise me to find out that women only respond to a handful of likes based on a simplified criteria and avoid the labor of reading each profile and looking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:50 PM
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I have no idea what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:36 PM
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s the reason why dating apps have this feature behind a paywall subscription This is how slot machines work. Spinning the wheel is paywalled. You might win, you might not, but you gotta slide that bill in the slot to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:30 PM
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My understanding is that on many dating apps men outnumber women substantially. If you're getting 0 matches consistently then why continue using it? Are there no other avenues to meet a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:27 PM
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Ugh, you're not OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:04 PM
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Oh come on, we're deep in the comments, no one else will see. Just you, me, and your spicy take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:14 AM
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Yeah? Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:53 AM
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that you are walking on egg shells to avoid triggering a post removal or a ban. What topic do you want to talk about that you're afraid will trigger a ban?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:21 AM
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At the risk of admitting I have a reading comprehension problem To be fair, most people who object to the term "toxic masculinity" interpret that term to mean "masculinity is toxic" instead of it's own, separate thing. It's a sub-optimal label. Swap "toxic masculinity" for "tryhards" and that's all it means. Dudes who try hard to appear masculine. And that's the other component, it's entirely surface level. It's a layer of paint, but it's not even very good paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:45 PM
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You didn't read the post at all lol. Oh, that's 100% true. Few posts on this sub are worth reading in their entirety. Nonetheless, when I say you struggle with boundaries, I know I'm right because you keep saying that men aren't mindreaders. Which tells me you struggle in social situations. No man is a mindreader, yet most men don't struggle with this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:31 PM
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Let me illustrate to help you understand: Original topic: "women sexualize themselves so why can't men sexualize them?" --> "boundaries" Offshoot topic: "I don't have magic powers" --> "you don't need them" --> "women also don't have magic powers" --> "you're getting off track" The topic isn't whether you need magic powers. The topic is about appropriate behavior given time, place, situation, and context.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:22 PM
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I've never once gotten mad about a dumb opinion including this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:17 PM
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Do you not feel confident in your argument to stay on topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:16 PM
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Everyone gets divorced anyway. So we're starting by making things up? 41% of first marriages end in divorce which means that the majority of people who enter into a marriage never experience divorce. Let's stop playing fantasy You first. For the record, I've never been married. You don't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:14 PM
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You don't have to be a mindreader.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:07 PM
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Masculinity (in terms of character and not physicality), even PEAK masculinity, cannot be and is not toxic. "Masculinity" is the root word. "Toxic" is an adjective. "Toxic Masculinity" has a separate and distinct meaning from "Masculinity". Toxic masculinity is not, in fact masculinity, but a form of performative masculinity—note the adjective "performative" modifying the word "masculinity" which indicates that this, too, has a separate definition—and is when an individual "performs" qualities t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:01 PM
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Katy Perry It feels like men are both demonized for sexualizing women In my past career I was a therapist. In my office, during office hours, I will help you solve your problems. If you approach me off the clock with a problem and demand I solve it for you, I'm not going to be enthusiastic about it and will tell you no. Do you see there's a boundary there? Is this a problem of not understanding boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:42 PM
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If you're that Christian then don't you go to a church? Churchy people meet people through Church and Church events. I know a few Churchy people, this is pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:41 PM
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Be Yourself: yeah except if you’re being yourself and you get dismissed anyway then what??? That might be a clue. But you're in luck, core personality traits might be more rigid but the expression of personality traits is not. If people find you unlikable, you can work on that. Put Yourself Out There: this one’s a classic I’m sure you’ve all heard, apparently dating is like professional acting or singing you just need to put yourself out there more someone will discover you eventually right??? Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:40 PM
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Social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:51 AM
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The red pill is like a slippery fish Bingo. It's also a vector for grifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:50 AM
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Joint. Big purchases: Discussion and mutual agreement (one veto rule). Small purchases: Use your own judgement. Neither of us have any problem spending behavior (no gambling, no drug abuse, no shopaholic behaviors) so it works. We probably overspend on home renovations but that falls under big purchases and we both decide we want the fancy heat pump or brand new kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:42 AM
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let’s take the training wheels off and say what we mean Saying exactly what you mean is leaving the training wheels on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:14 PM
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I saw a guy on the tram today shoot his shot at a girl Yeah, I wonder why this didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:06 PM
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Yes. OP has porn brain. It's a specific variant of brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:35 PM
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Porn brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:24 PM
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Ok, so don't be so thirsty for low-effort tiktoks. Give the bakers more attention. The power is in your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:05 PM
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Attractive people get attention, News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:49 PM
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looksmatch I hope, for your sake, you never actually say this stuff out loud. cringey Indeed. guy posted anything like that video Search for "sexy baker" on tiktok. Just go and watch a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:33 PM
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If any group of comparable attractive guys just bopped to some song it would be a joke. I'm addressing this argument. You can be a guy and sexualize yourself if you’re very attractive, it works. Or girl. Or are you saying the girl in your video isn't attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:06 PM
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If any group of comparable attractive guys just bopped to some song it would be a joke There's a whole genre of tiktoks of shirtless male bakers who put on a show of sexily baking bread (or cookies, or scones, or whatever). I just put "sexy baker" into the search and found dozens of examples with most of them having far more likes than this video. I dunno OP, maybe learn to bake?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:55 PM
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Snort
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:53 AM
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will Snort
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:34 PM
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OP waiting for societal collapse based on his meandering dissertation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:22 AM
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tl;dr
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:45 PM
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This is why men’s strongest bonds are found in street gangs, the military, fascist movements, etc. Men aren’t going to bond over making cupcakes. "Men don't bond over creative pursuits", states insane man on the internet arguing in favor of more violent white supremacist movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:38 PM
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The skill used to make friends and the skill used to find a partner are the same skill applied slightly differently. Making friends and maintaining friends is a skill. And if something is a skills that means it's something that can be improved with practice and repetition. To use an analogy that is likely familiar to most people here: if you're not coding all the time, you're not improving your programming skills. It doesn't even matter if you're programming dogshit. Because even programming dog…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:35 PM
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Don't have the chance to actively form friendships and maintain them? Do they live in a cage in the dark? Making friends is not hard. It takes effort but it's not difficult. But you have to expend the effort, you have to go do things where you meet other people. All you have to do is go where people are, on or offline, reach out, say hi, express interest in them, get to know then, see if they want to do it again. It's really not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:39 AM
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And this is why the vast majority of men turn to crime. TIL, the vast majority of men turn to crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:34 AM
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Maybe he's not lucky. Maybe he just does the work of actively engaging with his friends and maintains those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:32 AM
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Right? This reads like a /self post. Swap the "you"s with "I/me" and you get a picture of a woman who isn't that into him. And her friends aren't that keen on him either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:36 AM
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From my cold, dead hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:56 AM
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HagMaxxing Y'all have the stupidest lexicon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:53 AM
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Just a messy cry fest. Ding ding ding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:52 PM
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Grifts play on insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:47 PM
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Well, you see, I had ghosts in my blood and despite doing cocaine about it I couldn't get them out so I went to get audited with an e-meter because I can't wait to get to my end phenomenon so I can go on my freewinds journey and finally apply to the Galactic Confederacy after vanquishing the thetan in my blood. Yeah, this ain't a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:43 PM
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The red pill is a grift. It's about making you feel like there's something wrong with you and then selling you a solution. Too fat? Here's a diet plan only 3 easy payments of $19.99. Too loser? Just watch my youtube and click on my sponser and you'll be a chad in no time. Also buy my program, only 3 easy payments of $19.99.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:18 PM
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The jargon always slays me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:15 PM
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General statement about all women in title. Very specific personal experience by poster who then takes that very specific personal experience and generalizes it to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:13 PM
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Me, 15 years ago, a newly minted psychologist working my first gig in community health at my first, ever, clinical staffing meeting with the county discussing a case involving my newly assigned client. Client was on hold at the hospital—I didn't even put him on hold, I haven't done the state certification yet—and we were doing a case review to determine whether he met diagnostic criteria for an extended stay at the state hospital. I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. I still have the stink of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:47 AM
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a) i) How many of these programs have you built? And I ask this as someone who has built programs and who has been called to save failing programs. And I understand this is early-stage, talking-about-it, pre-planning level but this is undercooked and vague because: ii) it's out of focus. What is it? Either you're underestimating the intelligence of men by saying "no, it's not therapy, it's martial arts" or you're conceptualizing it as an everything-for-everyone but actually nothing-for-anyone pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:41 PM
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can have these conversations without judgment. Workshops, meetups, or online communities focused on skills, hobbies, and personal development So you described the broad strokes of a healthcare program, specifically, a mental healthcare program. Something that men are famously enthusiastic about utilizing. So I have three follow-up questions: a) How are you going to get men to utilize these new programs that look suspiciously like mental health programs? b) What does the staffing look like? Degre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:55 PM
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encourage individual men Ok sure. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:34 AM
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If men collectively chose to opt out, Well, this is DOA. How are you going to organize enough of the men to completely stop participating in dating and sexual encounters for long enough for this protest to have any kind of effect? Is there a union rep?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:53 PM
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If you had proposed this to me when I was still young and single I would have shrugged, told you that's a great idea for you, and ignored your proposal entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:04 AM
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usually completely unbeknowenst Flirting (and knowing you're being flirted with) is a lost art.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:21 PM
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I want a traditional woman. I don’t want to be an ATM. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:03 PM
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10x better trajectory $1.2M/yr, 36 GPA, and 10 degrees from no-name liberal arts colleges? Not bad, homie, not bad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:48 AM
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I’m just wondering if it’s possible to show men that you don’t need to turn to hateful groups to receive support Who's responsibility is that? And I ask that rhetorically, recognizing that it seems you took personal responsibility for finding your own path and doing something that was healthy for you. If more men who struggle were like you, there'd be fewer men who struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:32 PM
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Let me know when you're doing your TED talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:27 AM
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so it will be moderated the way it was reported lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:04 AM
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And I'm saying I've already made a crayon drawing tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:01 AM
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See, now you're freed up to solve your own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:00 AM
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Isn't that interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:59 AM
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I've already made one crayon drawing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:59 AM
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Hear that ladies? You have to solve mens' problems now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:15 AM
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> According to statistics gathered from dating apps, women find 80% of men unattractive Here's an illustration of 10 men. In this illustration we have five women indicating which men they find attractive. In each of their cases, the five women find most of the men unattractive. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:12 AM
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Ok, so don't do anything to improve yourself. Does someone have a gun to your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:46 PM
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"What kind of marriage license do you need?" "Class A, commercial, multipartner." "Ok, that'll be $220. Renewal is 24 months."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:40 PM
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I can't change my aptitude Sure you can. Education is just a skill and anyone can learn that skill. Which is cool because then you can learn more skills more easily. susceptibility to anxiety Sure you can. Therapy and meds, if necessary. impulsiveness ADHD is rampant in highly educated people. I have completely unshackled ADHD and I pulled off 4.0 GPAs without meds. body Weights don't lift themselves face Depends but most people aren't as tragic as they think they are. Also therapy helps here to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:04 AM
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Trump won 45% of women across all age groups. But once you start splitting the age groups you get a different picture. Trump won women: 18-29: 37% 30-44: 43% 45-64: 50% 65+: 45%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:21 AM
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What could've?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:35 AM
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women have right to vote because men decided that it's the right thing to do. So, what, one day a bunch of congressmen got together and were all "Hey, you know what would be the right thing to do?" Is that how it went?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:18 AM
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So now that you understand what a vasectomy is, can you answer my question? Do you think a woman should have a say whether you get a vasectomy or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:48 PM
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Depends, does a vasectomy involve a living being they both created and may be responsible for? My mistake, I figured you'd know what a vasectomy was. What you're thinking of is called a "pregnancy". A vascetomy involves the cutting or sealing the vasa deferentia to prevent sperm from reaching the urethra. I hope that clarifies things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:40 PM
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When you find it, link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:06 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:02 PM
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Do you think a woman should have a say whether you get a vasectomy or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:00 PM
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By your own logic, the denial can be a lie too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:55 PM
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Do you need me to explain the difference between magnitude and frequency?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:55 PM
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Here you go General John Kelly confirms the story about Trump calling troops suckers and losers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:47 PM
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men have never had any say in abortion Clarence Thomas, Samuel A. Alito, Jr., Neil M. Gorsuch, Brett M. Kavanaugh all had the last say about abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:39 PM
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they should’ve gone with bernie. Why? Bernie couldn't even win the primaries. In 2016 he got 3M fewer votes than Clinton (16M vs 13M). In 2020 he got half as many votes as Biden (19M vs 9M). The Democratic voters didn't want him. And if he can't even secure the majority of votes in a democratic only primary, what makes you think he stood any chance in the general?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:36 PM
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draft law doesn’t matter It doesn't. Any adventure the US would go on right now, we have plenty of manpower. Only time draft might be used is if there was an invasion of the continent. But no country has an expeditionary force nor support capability to mount anything at all, let alone in sufficient size to legitimately put any boots on the ground in the continental US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:29 PM
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It’s poorly written fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:32 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:52 AM
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statistically true experience Cool, post the methodology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:36 AM
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Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:06 AM
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based on the anecdotal evidence that...... your local uni has his reasoning is anecdotal too. Its really not though. I like how you talk out of both sides of your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:23 PM
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Do you think women are a different species?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:13 PM
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I talked to a lawyer and they said it was legal. Oh sure, of course, gotta check with your lawyer. Very important step.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:45 AM
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You read this whole thing No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:30 AM
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​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:29 AM
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some tend to project their experiences as if they represent MOST women’s experiences Replace "women" with "men" in that statement and you've accounted for at least 50% of the content of this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:17 PM
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Obviously generalizing to some degree but, yes, correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:10 PM
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You're coming at it from the wrong angle. I'm laughing at OP's belief that he'll find traditionally feminine and, presumably, "submissive" women in those countries. Any one of my cousins would eat that boy alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:50 PM
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I was like, "I bet this guy's post history is interesting" and boy was I not disappointed. Wowsers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:18 PM
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Feminine cultures Poland, Ukraine, and the Balkans I can't stop laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:04 PM
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Where we talk about abortion, where i go men shouldn't be responsible for children they didn't choose to have. Certain activities come with risks. And when you choose to participate in those activities you accept those risks. If you put $100 into a slot machine, you might lose $100 and win nothing. If you want to ensure you don't lose $100, don't put money in the machine. If you play a sport you accept the possibility that you might be injured. That's just a potential outcome of the activity. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:56 PM
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Whilst my statement may not be true We're in agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:57 AM
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Shit, this is a good use case for LLMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:31 AM
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It's fun to just make things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:30 AM
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This stereotype is older than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:47 AM
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You do understand that you don't have to take that statement personally, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:12 AM
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Whether you like it or hate it, trad wife does directly challenge the feminist way of living. Most (all?) of the tradwife influencers are marketing professionals. Hannah Neeleman, one of the larger tradwife influencers and mormon influencers, is a lifestyle influencer who markets via her "tradwife" lifestyle. Except that she doesn't actually live it. She has staff that care for kids, home and farm. They have a teacher who "homeschools" their children. She works outside the home in pageants. Of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:10 AM
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I mean, you yourself acknowledge that some men do this. Is the problem that you don't understand that this is a hyperbolic statement not to be taken strictly literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:47 AM
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Height, weight, and presence of tattoos is also a quality of appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:18 PM
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Do men no longer judge women by their breast size, butt size, quality of their skin, and waist-hip ratio? Wow, things really have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:45 PM
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And did you interpret my comment as a) agreeing b) disagreeing c) thinking everyone in this thread is fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:23 PM
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Who is "you people"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:19 PM
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Well, there's a thread full of people enthusiastically flying their red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:35 PM
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You're trying to score a gotcha Not at all. I don't care about your topic at all. I just thought the use of "euphemism" was weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:28 PM
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So you can see that there are many ways for a word or a term to be a euphemism. So you're saying that you think people say "social skills" in place of "superficially charming" because the latter is: something deemed offensive unpleasant taboo profane and that the former is: amusing an attempt to downplay the latter inoffensive I mean, that is the definition of euphemism but your usage of it makes no sense unless your argument is that "superficially charming" is offensive/taboo/profanity and "soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:23 PM
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I'm open-minded, define "euphemism" as you understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:59 PM
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Social skills is a euphemism for being superficially charming. So, you're not using euphemism incorrectly. "Euphemism" means an indirect word for something else. "Game" is a euphemism for "being charming". "Social skills" is a very plain and direct idea and not a euphemism. Secondly, "social skills" are not "superficial charm". Social skills is a very broad term that can describe a whole range of behaviors and skills when it comes to social interaction between individuals including: ability to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:45 PM
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Click on their post history, that'll answer many questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:37 PM
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I wish dudes on this sub would stop talking about their own personal preferences as though all men want the same thing Yeah, some people struggle with theory of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:44 PM
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I didn't question your ability to navigate the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:17 PM
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"Taking it as gospel" is what's called an idiom and that particular idiom means "believing something to be true". The internet, and reddit, are full of lies and half-truths. It's usually good practice to consider things you read from social media more critically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:35 PM
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I heard it on reddit, but I can't remember where, but despite that I take it as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:14 PM
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The only people that date in middle and high school are an extremely small select group of people. The ones with model level good looks and the athletes. TIL I have model-level good looks, and I'm an athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:49 AM
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What does a man really gain from this? It's always transactional, isn't it? You know what you gain from it? And I say this as someone who has stepped in helped a number of times—including one mugging—is the sense that you did the right thing, when no one else would. And, not feeling obligated to step in is the default position of most people. So don't worry, you're in large company.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:21 PM
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It's PPD, most takes are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:08 PM
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They don't have to be a perfect match. Most successful, long-term relationships are "good enough". Also, people aren't static. You adapt and grow with your partner so even "good enough" over time moves to "pretty good" but it's never going to be "perfect".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:05 PM
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Did you do the boss raids to max your equipment and grind enough gems to max out your looks stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:54 PM
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Yup, saw the same thing. Even the guys I knew with negative game ended up married. Disregarding older generations is cope for OP because most of the advice is “it’s in your power to do something about it” and they just want to wallow and point fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:44 PM
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TIL having friends at 40+ is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:34 AM
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Ok, so I'm pretty sure a made up person is going to have no economic effect at all regardless of if they "stay" or "move to asia" since they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:56 PM
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So which part of that is you? I assume not the San Francisco part and, presumably, not the 400k/year part based on your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:46 PM
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Video games are not an inherent turn off. What's a turn off is when it's the only hobby and/or it's all-encompassing. Swap drinking with video games. Is drinking a turn off? No. Is drinking all the time a turn off? Yes. Think "frequency" and "magnitude".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:37 PM
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real alpha males law enforcement what
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:34 PM
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Say there is a smart but socially and looks-wise below average guy. What options does he have? Make 400k/year in San Francisco and living in a burning hell of chronic loneliness. Do you know this guy or did you just make him up?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:33 PM
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Of course you can. Both partners have to value monogamy and trust each other to act appropriately but if those two things are true, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:29 PM
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"inexperienced" This entire sub can be renamed "10 blind men examine elephant for first time; produce theories about its nature".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:25 PM
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I spent years working as a bartender in a busy resort Ah, a highly non-biased and very representative sample of individuals: young, single people at a resort. It would be like looking at me and my friends on our weekend trip to Vegas and use that sampling to conclude that men in their 40s only ingest bucket-based Coronas for sustenance, can go without sleep for 36 hours, and average 20,000+ steps per day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:09 PM
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Just because PPD skews Western culture It's a much tighter, and more specific pie slice than the breadth of "western culture". Skim the front page on any given day to give you an idea of what kind of population this subreddit represents. Not just "your data is not representative" I already know that Well, if you know that then you can figure out why my answer to your question So why do you think women hold this requirement more strongly than males do? is I don't. (hint: I don't agree with your u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:07 AM
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Then the "data" you collected is likely skewed due to the non-representative population and self-selection involved in answering a question in a single post, no? Does that answer your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:33 AM
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Do you think PurplePillDebate has a user base that represents a normal and broadly representative sample of individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:42 AM
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I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:26 AM
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From your other thread: They are committed to you, your support system, emergency contact, reliable, dependable This is a close friend, maybe even a best friend. This If you're looking to hang out and have fun Is an activity partner. Activity partners progress to friends when "hang out and have fun" start to include features like "support system", "reliable", "dependable", "will help you bury a body", "helps you renovate your house". Those friends progress to "bestie" when they're your favorite …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:49 PM
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I like outfit videos or anime cosplay blah blah blah. Here's your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:59 PM
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I enjoy spelunking in weird parts of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:45 PM
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I guess I just don't understand the obsession over what women wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:49 PM
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I have no resentment about it at all! Just to clarify, I didn't think you were. I was just sharing my own perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:17 PM
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For some people education is a status thing, especially with higher the degrees. For some people education is marker for knowing if someone is intelligent—its' far from accurate but I understand why people use it. For some people it's just an easy way to find commonality with someone. For me, it's about how someone thinks. I have plenty of friends who are college educated, or have graduate degrees, and friends who only have a high school education. I enjoy being in all of their company and don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:07 AM
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These sorts of things, to me, sound like the dudes are saying "I can't come up with a single reason a woman would want a relationship with me." Which sounds like someone who doesn't like themselves very much. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:50 AM
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Probably because they make money. Anyway, why is your partner on hinge?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:56 PM
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And this is a caricature that keeps being trotted out on this subreddit. It's a clownish representation that makes men look like thirsty idiots. Frankly, I think it reflects more about the OP than being any accurate statement about men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:45 PM
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Men now live in fear that at any moment their woman can fire up her Hinge account Why is your partner on hinge?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:40 PM
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men generally have no standards. They will try to fuck anything that moves and thus male attention Not only is this far from universal, I think this is a caricature. It's a clownish representation that makes men look like thirsty idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:10 PM
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Wow, that's really nice of you, I didn't expect a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:02 AM
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Ok, don't go to bars then. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:54 AM
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Not all bars. If you had read my post, I was quite specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:49 AM
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Ok, got it. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:33 AM
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Maybe it's my migraine today—the air here sucks at the moment—but I read that twice and I don't think I got a clear answer. Correct me if I'm wrong, but are you saying that what you posted in your OP is not actually what you live by and, as a result, you can't report whether this is a successful strategy for achieving the objectives stated in your OP. Did I get that right? And don't take my scrutiny too personally, whenever I see a long post advocating for a certain approach I always wonder how …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:05 PM
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The preferences men have Again, I don't think you've been elected to represent the views and preferences of all men. Men aren't a monolith, either. I think this is where your perspective is struggling, you take your own personal experiences, and maybe those of your friends, and generalize them on all men. I can virtually guarantee you that mine and your preferences in women are going to be quite different. Almost all women prefer "Prefer" is not binary, it's a range. Everyone would prefer everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:54 PM
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So, it sounds like you're advocating this approach. Have you found this perspective and behavior has met your stated objectives?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:58 PM
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Women approach men they find attractive. Women think most men are unattractive. Most men are not getting approached. Its that simple. You're so close to getting it but you're too stubborn to see where your logic is flawed. You need one additional variable in here to understand it but it requires that you see this situation with nuance. Women aren't a monolith. If you and I observe ten women, each of us will find different women attractive. Maybe some of those women might overlap for us. Why? Bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:34 PM
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Women can just "approach" top men Hey, /u/Gullible_Amoeba6488 you hear that? /u/nightcall379 thinks you're a "top man".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:18 PM
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Most men How would you know? Or do you mean "most men I know"? never get approached in their entire lives Every man I know has been approached by a woman at least once. Most, myself included, have been approached many times. Most of us have even been approached, at least once, despite being married. Gen-Z Male So, given that, you can recognize that your experience in dating is not that long, right? I'm much older than you and have been exposed to dating, marriage, etc. over a much longer timelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:05 PM
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I've posted this before and I'll post it again. Bars are a good place to meet people in general because a) they're a by-default a place to social b) people are open to the possibility of interacting with people they don't already know. Not every bar is created equal in this regard. You want to look for specific characteristics. If you're older (30s) you want a bar that is nearby to where people work and it be a popular and busy 'happy hour' bar. If it's a popular happy hour bar then it'll likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:47 PM
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So what's stopping you from inserting a mental "In my opinion, and I don't represent all woman..." in front of each opinion you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:27 PM
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they never approach Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:53 PM
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His explanation is that his argument is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:46 PM
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For example, red pillers around here frequently cite men's mental health as a serious issue (which it is), but then bizarrely blame women for not taking it seriously and, even more bizarrely, for not dating these men to improve their mental health. But then you point out that feminists overwhelmingly support universal healthcare with strong mental health services, and suddenly they're tripping over themselves to explain why mental health services won't help men's mental health. If they acknowled…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:23 PM
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Y'all are a very imaginative lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:35 PM
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If the constant in all these scenarios is you then maybe it's time for some introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:21 PM
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but also keeps him around as a shoulder to cry on, source of emotional support, or financial support. What's keeping him there? A chain around his neck?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:36 AM
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You didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:32 PM
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If simple sex is a "need" for you then there's multiple avenues to fulfill that need. There is a time-honored tradition of simply paying a professional. It's also one of the shortest distances you can travel to fulfill that need. But I don't think having or not having sex is the problem for you. Further down you state, "what it's like to never even remotely be desirable to the gender you are attracted to". I think this is the real issue. This is actually a better problem because it has contribut…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:43 PM
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I dunno about neurodivergent but I would say the content of many (most?) of the original posts in this sub have some poorly thought out and researched takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:46 PM
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I mean, just take a look at some of his comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:32 PM
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I did. My buddy was about 300ish pounds when he went to work for my dad. Saw him carry bags of cement into a basement where we were re-pouring a floor. This is after a week of digging it out to give it an extra two feet of height. He worked at the job for about a year. Always the same weight. He did put on more muscle though. But still fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:05 PM
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Lots of dudes in the trades are fat. They’re physically active most of the day. They’re not lazy. They just like to eat and drink. You can carry cement bags all day and be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:14 PM
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As someone who dated before apps existed I can tell you that I lost interest in a girl if she liked a band I didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:55 AM
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why not just live in separate worlds with minimal contact between the two? You're free to do that at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:10 AM
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why does everyone need therapy these days? There's not an uptick in people needing therapy "these days". People have always needed therapy because most people don't have the emotional intelligence, insight, coping skills, vocabulary, or resources to deal with challenging (relative to each individual) emotional experiences. What's different now is that you have a) competent and evidence-based therapy with consistent outcomes and b) significantly less stigma attached to individuals who seek therap…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:06 AM
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Well, it's a pseudo-scientific slash pseudo-psychological belief system not grounded in any science. Most pillers have their own interpretation of what it means to be whatever color of the pill rainbow they happen to self-select. They have their own version mapped onto their experience and existing belief structure. Ask ten flat earthers about the structure of the planet, get eleven answers. Ask ten redpillers what the redpill is about, get 11 answers. Like all beliefs without any foundational p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:21 PM
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I'm not specifically replying to you but I can't make a top-level comment without flair and I refuse to flair. That said, I agree with your point and want to add: If we're talking about social media tradwives then they're not tradwives. They're business owners who run a social media marketing company and they're using the tradwife lifestyle to sell products. Which, by definition, means they're not even proper tradwives since they have a job. It's not so much a grift as it's portraying a fantasy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:14 PM
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Well, it's like all pseudo-scientific belief systems, everyone has their own version mapped onto their experience and existing belief structure. Ask ten flat earthers about the structure of the planet, get eleven answers. Ask ten redpillers what the redpill is about, get 11 answers. Like all beliefs without any foundational principles grounded in evidence, it's all nonsense meant to make the person believing in it feel a certain way and reinforce that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:28 PM
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As someone who has experience marketing new products I can tell you that sometimes you have to market your product to different types of clients before you discover where the demand for your product exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:22 PM
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What was true before dating apps is still true now. Find a bar that is in a popular spot in your town with a good crowd after 9pm. Music should be medium volume (too loud to have a conversation across the room but not so loud that you can hear someone if you're sitting next to each other). Drink selection should be varied and mid-priced, food should be regular bar fare but maybe a bit fancy or with a twist. If they're only serving bottles or their taps are Miller you're in the wrong place. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:13 AM
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You don’t need a wedding to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:14 PM
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You're asking what would happen if the 90s came back?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:15 PM
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I've never been afraid to ask anyone out and have done so many times when single. I can't recall a single time when a rejection was personally embarrassing. Most of them were polite. A few I thought were a bit rude but nothing over-the-top or standout. When roles were reversed and I rejected someone else I was always polite about it. If someone is rude or inappropriate to you then that says more about them than you, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:29 PM
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I've always gone to clubs just to have fun and party. I frequently met people and would continue to party with them afterward at a different venue. When I was single I'd sometimes meet girls and we'd have a follow-up. I've found that if your intention is to get laid you will more often end up disappointed but if your intention is to just go have fun and party then you have a higher chance of meeting that objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:22 PM
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abandoning it No one's abandoning it. Some people just never joined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:28 PM
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But they don't seem to be as willing or aspiring. I have the capability to run but I neither aspire to or am willing to run. Me saying "men aren't runners like women" would be a silly statement. Men can socialize as well as women. If individual men choose to not socialize that's not a problem of "men are just not social like women" it's a problem of "this particular man doesn't want to socialize".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:21 AM
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Here's an interview with the Paul McCartney where he talks about the band masturbating together. I mean, it's not that uncommon of a topic for artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:17 AM
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I don't see this kind of loneliness among my peers (Gen X, older millenials) to anywhere near the degree that is reported among younger generations. And, if I were to speculate, us older folk grew up socializing in person because, aside from the kitchen landline, there wasn't any other way to do it. Socializing in person was the main avenue for entertainment so you held it in high value and cultivated both close friends and activity friends. Along the way you also developed the skills to make fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:10 AM
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This is absolutely not true. Men have just as much capability to be as social as woman. Men socialized differently than women but socialize with the same frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:57 AM
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You know how people get off on being mad? There's like a high from being outraged? It's like that. But replace "mad" with "sad". Or, in this case, miserable. Some people with deep wells of insecurity and/or low self-esteem feel like they don't deserve happiness. So misery and lashing out at happiness is that response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:10 AM
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Testosterone Level dropping declining testosterone levels downward trend in male attractiveness and testosterone Tell me more about this aggregate testosterone gauge. How does it work? Who is tabulating the data? Are there charts?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:04 PM
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I have known multiple men who were judged by women for admitting to touch themselves. Yeah, the highschool years can be rough. Hang in there, you'll be grown up in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:57 AM
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I said "follow" not "watch".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:13 PM
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I personally don't know of any man who follows the lives of celebrities on his own accord You don't know anyone who follows sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:14 PM
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Its impossible meeting girls outside It's honestly very easy. Find a cool bar. Here's several qualities to look for: Close to other bars and/or centrally located to other venues Has both a good taplist and good cocktails Has a patio. If it has a firepit, even better. Playlist is good. Volume has to be loud enough that you have to raise your voice to talk to the table or lean in to talk to one person. It's gonna be a bit pricier. It's a happy hour place for office folk but turns into a younger ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:33 AM
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I imagine most single men probably don’t go out much Hey, look at that, easily identified the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:58 AM
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decifer what they mean I mean, the signals aren't exactly subtle. Maintaining eye contact, turning toward you, smiling/laughing, physical touch, shows interest in you or whatever you're talking about, asks questions, etc. Pretty obvious stuff. You don't need an enigma machine to figure it out. If those signs are missing then she's not interested. Also, the word is "decipher". It comes from the word "cipher" which means secret or code.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:11 AM
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Do you really think somebody funded people to conduct a study to find out about women and their desire to be loved, while not wanting to love? You'd be surprised what gets funded. Timothy Leary's entire career was getting whackadoodle research funded. Maybe do a search and find out if that topic, or something adjacent, has already been done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:10 PM
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Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed What does that look like? If you were to create an ideal scenario what are you envisioning?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:53 PM
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Easy to access contraception so there are fewer unintended children. Having kids is costly which creates a natural ceiling. Low infant mortality. You don't need as many (or any) backups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:35 PM
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Buying property is rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:50 AM
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Birth rates are falkong because society is becoming more secular, as well as contraceptives being more widely available. Don't forget low infant mortality rates means you don't need backups. Barring bad luck, Any kids you have will mature to adults. Higher wealth means you don't need as many kids (or any) to take care of you when you're older. That's what your retirement, property, investments, etc. are for. In developed countries, each child comes with an associated cost which frequently includ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:49 PM
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I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. I would agree completely. The only time I see this fantasy is when I put on my safari hat and go exploring the weird parts of the internet where pillers tend congregate—except for youtube as I don't want my feed to turn into garbage. This fantasy that single women end up miserable is the same energy as "You can't fire me! I quit!" And even if this imaginary, miserable woman exists, she's not thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:27 PM
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This reads like the the introduction to a manifesto.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:32 AM
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Literally all of human experience prior to 2004 was people going outside to make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:02 AM
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What’s stopping you from leaving the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:02 PM
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Ok, so you've seen it in sitcoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:31 AM
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he pays for the first date, he picks her up in his car and she's the passenger princess, he walks on the outside of the sidewalk closer to traffic, he's on alert for danger while they're out in public A Bronx Tale is a pretty good movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:10 AM
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Did you want a double-blind peer-reviewed study to know that bars are full of people socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:06 AM
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Imagine for a second, if you are able, that I both understood the OP and still disagreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:57 AM
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No, that's like saying "technology killed regular socialization" because you never leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:44 AM
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Technology killed regular socialization No it didn't. I had my machine shop, pre-covid, near downtown and it was across the street from a bar with a large outdoor patio. My partner and I would go there on wednesday and thursday after work for a few beers and to do design work because we both prefer doing creative work in a different environment. Every thursday the place was packed after 5pm with happy hour people. Most of them were our age (late 30s, early 40s). We spent half our time socializin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:21 AM
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they always had a million different excuses as to why the advice I was giving was wrong, dumb or wouldn't work It's less scary to point the finger outward than it is to point it at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:16 AM
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This sounds mostly like a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:03 AM
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Incel and virgin aren't the same thing. A virgin is just someone who hasn't had sex. An incel can be a virgin but isn't necessarily a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:12 AM
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What's the threshold for "significance"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:44 AM
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whole “we get killed” BS What’s BS about it? It’s a dumb argument/statement because the vast majority of women aren’t even getting killed on dates to begin with. Does it have to be 50% +1 for the statement not to be BS?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:48 PM
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I did. more cashiers are killed annually on the job than salespeople Did someone else say a vast majority of women/cashiers are killed and I missed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:09 PM
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The vast majority of women aren’t getting killed on dates. Really tired of this BS argument. Is someone saying that the vast majority of women are being killed on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:59 PM
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That's bs. It's unrealistic for everyone to be a social butterfly, A sizeable income and time off are also required for someone to take regular overseas vacations. If you don't have the income and don't work for a place that gives you lots of time off you won't be able to go overseas as often. Likewise, if you don't have a sizeable social network and don't regularly engage in that network, you'll have a smaller pool of romantic partners. More resources equals more opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:52 PM
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Also I doubt he's using rigorous sampling standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:45 PM
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45% of men aged 18-25 had never approached a woman in person for a date Are ya'll really that afraid of social contact or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:33 AM
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So you're saying that if Tinder didn't exist you'd just be drowning in pussy? You think that's all it would take?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:15 AM
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If tinder existed 20 years ago Tinder didn't but Match.com did. It's been around since 1995.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:58 AM
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Fellas, I think he's cracked it. Live in your mom's basement until the power runs out then fashion some mad max armor out of some metal garbage cans, get in your 2002 Corolla and rule the wastes with an iron fist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:38 PM
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I live in one of those states that is trying very hard to restrict gun ownership. Violence has increased by 80% since they passed those laws. Is what you said. Correct me if I'm wrong but you're linking passing a law restricting gun ownership with an increase in violence. Let me quote you again Violence has increased by 80% since they passed those laws. And following up with It takes a very stupid person to think bad guys are going to follow your rules. So your argument is that passing a law (yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:11 PM
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It takes a very stupid person to think bad guys are going to follow your rules. Sure. Murder is illegal but people still commit murder. Repeal the law since it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:59 PM
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So does it work this way? I have a "respect for women" token. One sex please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:28 PM
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As has been said a few times in this thread, there are problems with the book's conclusions. Part of the problem with a book published for a mass audience—versus peer-reviewed research—is that there is no one checking the data, analysis, or conclusion unless the author specifically seeks that out. It's basically a long form opinion without any of the rigor you'd find in proper research. Pop-science books are fun to read but, unless you're digging into the citations and data, their conclusions ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:12 PM
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Hear me out: maybe the smartest men and women are reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:58 PM
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For what reason? I don’t know. I'm sure "resentment" tops the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:48 PM
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yeah you're retarded I might take this seriously when you figure out how to type.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:25 PM
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But i dont see how any kf that has anything to do with what i said. I can just quote myself or, I guess, you can just get higher and see if that helps you reach understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:17 PM
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Here, let me highlight the most important part of my comment: The problem is that many of you are driving the second vehicle. I think alot of y'all think you're driving the Accord. But I'm a frequent tourist to this sub and I see alot of—so many—creepy vans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:00 PM
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completely missed the point. It s fini beinf tbe third car but the first car is just better. End of discusdion lmao Call 911, I think you're having a stroke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:48 PM
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better personality memorable and unique "Better personality" doesn't mean "unique" or "memorable". Let me use cars as an analogy. You don't have to have this personality. But do better than this personality. This personality is completely fine. The problem is that many of you are driving the second vehicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:36 PM
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People are just saying you look like you fuck No, it means that all they're good for is a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:02 PM
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Pew article Data
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:43 PM
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So stereotyping is acceptable to you. Evaluating a person's behaviors isn't "stereotyping". Not sure how you can "reasonably assume" that all criticism of female behavior Did you just make up something I said then argue against it? Hemingway What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:18 PM
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Can you read minds? Don't need to. You can make reasonable assumptions based on another's outward behavior and comparing those behaviors against past experiences with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:54 PM
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superiority complex Inferiority and superiority complexes are just different outward expressions of the same thing: an internal feeling of inadequacy and inferiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:51 PM
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I visit the zoo to look at the animals not because I'm looking for care and feeding tips for my elephant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:37 PM
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That sounds tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:36 PM
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Please note I don't actually subscribe to the alpha/beta paradigm Good, you shouldn't. But, as I listed above me, there is some updated research that explores the concept and has drawn different conclusions. You may actually find it interesting. confident, is ENTJ-T, is 6'4, and does combat sports I don't know what to do with this info. I'm just a tourist here in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:49 PM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:02 PM
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Well, comparing wolves or chimps to humans is the analogy. identical Identical means 1:1. Even people who subscribe to the outdated research don't think it's 1:1. Just that some patterns of behavior may also exist in humans. That said, you want to use it that way, there's updated research and some applicable comparisons and lessons. But the updated research doesn't correlate with your post. Here's Frans de Waal talking about chimpanzee "alphas". That said, it's still a study of non-human social …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:02 PM
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The study is about wolves. Completely irrelevant to humans. We're saying the same thing. Why would you accept it at all? Also it's been debunked and retracted, even for wolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:19 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:59 PM
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Why would you accept it at all? David Mech (researcher who coined the term) himself has stated that the original idea was flawed and has updated and elaborated the concept. Using this term in it's original understanding is like believing that left/right brain is still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:46 PM
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Don’t have a shit personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:34 AM
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If you're being shamed for being a virgin all the time then I would say your bigger problem is the people you surround yourself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:40 PM
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open sexualization of society, which came to be full force less than 10 years ago. When I was in my teens we didn't have dating apps (or cellphones) and porn was limited to magazines, VHS, and 320x200 pics that took minutes to download over your 1200 baud modem. We just went out in meatspace and had sex. Y'all undersexualized now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:01 AM
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The thing about the pillosphere is that it’s compromised of people who have very poor emotional intelligence, poor insight, and don’t want to take responsibility for their actions. It’s easier to blame someone else than it is to look inward and realize you’re the problem. Any relationship is an ongoing negotiation and compromise where two people are looking to have their needs met. If you understand that and understand your role and responsibility you’ll be successful. Make yourself a person of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:09 PM
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Self-assuredness does alot more heavy lifting than physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:39 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:08 AM
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Incels are to interpersonal relationships what flat-earthers are to science.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:04 AM
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If the majority of your socializing isn’t meatspace-based your social skills are underdeveloped. Reddit is a very narrow slice of real life that poorly represents the rest of the world, online dating is not dissimilar.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:00 AM
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Most people overestimate how good their personality is CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:56 AM
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I assume this is rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:44 AM
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RPers live in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:26 AM
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If everyone prior to your generation learned to play an instrument because there was no other way to listen to music and then along game an app where you can play an instrument on your phone, you might not have the incentive to learn to play a real instrument. I think this is what happened with social skills. I’m gen x. I still meet people and make friends in meatspace, in-person, and pretty regularly —including with people younger than me. But this is a skill that’s well practiced and for peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:16 PM
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Just follow St. Gretzky’s wise words: you miss every shot you don’t take. Also, I think it’s social skills. There’s a segment of people—represented by this sub—who seem to have underdeveloped social skills. I don’t think it’s innate, I think it’s a lack of practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 06:45 PM
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Making friends is basically impossible as an adult. This may be true for you but it is not an absolute by any stretch. I'm in my mid-40s and—pre-covid—still regularly make new acquaintances and, occasionally, new friends. This has been consistent throughout my life. The trick is to be approachable, friendly, and open. I have made friends with people at work and our relationships maintained even after one or both of us left the job. I have scheduled coffees/drinks with them—pre-covid—so that we c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 06:08 PM
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You’re saying that being minimally emotionally intelligent and minimally socially competent results in good outcomes??? Burn the witch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:20 PM
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I doubt marriage and long monogamous relationships are biologically wired. TIL sandhill cranes, macaroni penguins, seahorses, gray wolves, barn owls, shingleback skinks, bald eagles, gibbons, black vultures, beavers, and swans have also socially constructed monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:42 PM
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I stay subscribed to this sub because of idiotic posts like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:26 AM
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TIL the DynaTAC 8000X had a camera.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/07/20 06:58 PM
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I have a problem. Do I: a) Attempt to fix it b) Demand someone else fix it c) Complain about women d) B & C
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:24 PM
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What's this "traditional courtship" thing? Do you leave your calling card at her dad's place and then ride off on your penny farthing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 11:05 AM
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The actual divorce rate for all marriages is approximately 42-45% and that includes first, second, third marriages, etc. The stat you're looking for is "first marriage divorce rate". That is, what percentage of people end their first marriage which then gives you the percentage of people who stay together in their first marriage. This stat varies by year and even by generation (boomers had a higher rate of divorce than younger generations, for example) but it seems to be roughly in the mid-30% f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 07:39 PM
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It's an answer but I think you're over-complicating things far too much and it seems you're setting yourself up to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:53 AM
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Patriarchy. Kids are free with expressing emotions and then they’re taught not to if they’re male because “blah blah boys don’t cry blah blah” and you get a bunch of emotionally stunted low eq dummies talking about red and blue pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:19 PM
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Why wait at all? If you’re interested in a person and you feel like it might be mutual there’s literally no harm in asking them out for a coffee or drink. Everyone knows what that means, it’s a low risk, zero commitment invitation to have a mutual interview to explore the possibility of a romantic relationship. Worst thing that can happen is they say no. Now you know. There’s no “right time”—excluding obvious scenarios like them already being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:12 PM
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Ghosting is just a fancy term for not returning someone’s call back when people had landlines and physical answering machines with those tiny cassettes. And yes, it happened then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:07 PM
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The ideas are fundamentally stupid so you’re just trying to put lipstick on a pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:03 PM
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She’s not into you. This ain’t a puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:01 PM
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The reason men complain about it Some men. I've only ever encountered someone using this term online and used by men who don't cultivate actual, meaningful friendships with women. The strangers->friends ->lovers sequence of romance is very popular in the media and some dudes fell for it.Even though it's probably the worst possible strategy. First, the fact that you call it a "strategy" is almost entirely the reason why it doesn't work for you because women aren't idiots and you're not as crafty …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:39 PM
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You care far too much about what reddit thinks about anything cmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 12:44 AM
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The entire pill paradigm is incredibly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:16 PM
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Just looking at this photograph it seems to me that someone is trying to misrepresent actual situation. You just described this entire subreddit.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 06:47 PM
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The law should be changed. Yeah? How do you propose getting around the inevitable "I didn't know X was illegal" defense now that the law has been changed?
/r/MensRights06/12/15 12:26 AM
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You got it. Age of consent in Florida is 18.
/r/MensRights05/12/15 09:45 AM
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That's not how the law works.
/r/MensRights05/12/15 09:43 AM
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This. Florida has incredibly strict age of consent laws. Girl was 14, guy was 18. Full stop.
/r/MensRights05/12/15 09:41 AM
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