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consensual vore for the sub might be more about giving away their autonomy It depends on the person, but for me, it's more being desired to the point where the other person doesn't care about my individuality or freedom. They want me so they're gonna do whatever they want to me. Where do you think your model fails?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:43 PM
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Dude, this is like a standard model for sexual dynamics. From this statement, almost all kinks and fetishes can be derived. Like dom I'm pretty sure comes from enjoying other people expressing their desire through devotion and surrendered autonomy. Thank you, you helped me gain incredible insight into my own vore interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:47 PM
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What about a guy who doesn't share the fantasy, but instead that guy has a submission kink, and being forced into doing things that he doesn't want to do for someone else's pleasure is what turns him on. Is this dynamic problematic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:37 PM
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I can explain, it's called evolution and progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:26 PM
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No, people is plural. Just her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:23 AM
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Nope, a person, her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:56 PM
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I think we need to accept the fact that there are women who date and prefer misogynists and abusers. Most antisocial men get frustrated when people insinuate that the reason they can't find a date is because they are a misogynist or abusive, when misogynistic abusive men easily find women. A part of the reason why misogynistic abusive men treat women like disposable objects is because they can easily get a new woman after disposing of their current.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:10 PM
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You cant have relationships if dont want to interact with people I did, for me it wasn't until I accepted how much I hated interacting with people that I was able to truly connect with someone Ever since we started dating she's been pretty much the only person I spend time with and I couldn't be happier. Before when I was constantly forcing myself to go out and interact with friends, I was miserable. Back then I thought that if I engaged tried and to have fun with others in social settings, I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:57 PM
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Speed dating you have to pay for and is almost all men. In my experience, "Open" social groups aren't open to men when those men start asking who else is single. I'm not sure how it is now but in my college days I used to literally just walk around looking for house parties. So you're either a woman or a very attractive man I agree dating is a game of chance and the only way to raise your chances are to try Just to play devil's advocate, it's not the only way. Culling the competition would also …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:20 PM
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What else makes you think men don't like being approached? Not every woman is thrilled everytime they get approached either. Any man that would say "women don't like being approached" would be called a dumb, lazy, creepy, antisocial, loser who's making excuses, and just needs to stop being a coward
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:57 PM
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😭😭😭 LOL, what a bozo. How hard is it to get a good mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:04 PM
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If a man said women don't like being approached because in his experience the only 5 women he tried approaching rejected him, would you say that's a reasonable assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:24 PM
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I built like 20 of those in Civilization V, no women. Also in the US, the only people there are old, retired Irish people, 50+
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:37 PM
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They won't be gender neutral after these men start joining. One look, and those women are finding new hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:22 PM
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That's not what he said at all. He''s just pointing out that at most parties with singles, like frat parties, they try to get as many women as they can, and limit the amount of men. Everyone hates a sausage fest. Getting invites and group acceptance as a woman is a lot easier than as man. It annoys me when people try to imply these men are single and lonely because they refuse to put in the work. I see the men with difficulties putting in tons more work than the men who "have game". It was never…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:19 PM
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How many men have you tried approaching? And did they say they didn't like it (you made them uncomfortable) or that they just weren't into you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:03 PM
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I 100% agree, it would be so nice if the women I've tried dating just told me what they expected of me instead of ghosting me when I fail to meet whatever expectation they have of me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:12 PM
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If they're not openly communicating what they want from you or vice versa, it's a game
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:00 AM
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There is the disconnect that hopefully starts sinking in. Living your life through the eyes of other people doesn't make you nicer, it just makes you a doormat. Almost everyone lives thier life through the eyes of others. As you mature, you generally just become more selective of who's Len's you want to be viewed through, how you want them to view you, and why you want to be viewed that way by them. Some people are just less cognizant of that. Those that don't live through the eyes of others usu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:11 PM
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Raised liberal never dated, no woman has ever wanted me as anything more than a friend. Not having grown up a man you wouldn't understand. Boys raised in liberal households are generally taught to let everything be handled by professionals, and constantly reflect on how our actions are being perceived by others, or else we're being toxic. You put effort into trying to make things better for others (In my experience, women find this repulsive to date, but fun to pity) Boys raised in conservative …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:00 AM
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A willingness to take a chance on them and go on a date at least So yes lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:02 AM
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This wasn’t a debate. You asked a question wanting an honest answer and you got one, you then turned it into an argument but if dudes simply wants the truth as they say there should be no arguing. But arguing is fun tho😢 what's the point of posting on reddit if you're not looking for an argument? The subreddit has debate in the name. Like where am I supposed to go for a good argument then? Snapchat ai won't even argue with me. It just keeps replying "I'm sorry if my unwillingness to argue with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:36 AM
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Plenty of good attractive people date plenty of charismatic people date, plenty of assholes date, plenty of bitches date Good attractive charismatic people don't date, and they don't play the field. They find each other and get married before they have to get to that You’re placing a moral compass on sexuality as a way to feel superior My superiority isn't a feeling, it's a fact You don’t go up to men and question why they’re with the hot bitch when the sweet fatty is pining over him. If someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:42 AM
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I don't know what you said, it was too long. Summarize it, one sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:07 AM
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Not trying to invalidate your experiences, or the feelings that came from them, but your interpretations are a little off. Try talking to a therapist to help get a better understanding, much healthier than ranting to randos on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:02 AM
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🤢 tldr, use smaller words
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:50 AM
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Why do most women only go for the most disrespectful, arrogant, and self centered men they have available to them, while ghosting any man that doesn't immediately display those qualities? I don't understand why so many women want to be condensed to and emotionally hurt down the line Unless you're not like the majority of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:47 AM
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Giuliani, the man who threw his positive reputation and licence to practice law away for Trumps approval was acting smart in your opinion? McConnell, Graham, Thomas, and Paul saw opportunity in working with Trump and difficulties in not. Trump didn't get their support till it was pretty much just him and Hillary, and Trump didn't need their support to crush every other Republican primary candidate. In the end Trump managed to rally the aid of a number of talented people, and it wasn't because of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:46 PM
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Kinda bs when it comes to socializing. Most people lie right to your face say you're fine, leaving you with no idea what you're doing wrong or what improvement looks like Trying to improve in something when you have no idea what an improvement looks like has an equal chance of backsliding Talk to more strangers, learn all the sociology, psychology and behavioral economics you can, it wont make you better with people, or make people more enjoyable to deal with. That really is one of those luck of…
/r/seduction04/06/23 02:22 PM
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Yeah, who? Steve Bannon? Kellyanne Conway? You really believe these were the smartest people out of all the election campaigners in 2016? Ik this is the exact opposite of what you should do to attract women, but for the future, just think before you speak
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:36 AM
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More like they deserve to at least know what they're doing wrong instead of being expected to read minds. Considering the number of privileged, entitled blue pilled sheep who believe their above putting work or effort into helping others, I should have known where this was headed. Sorry I don't support your genocide of the dumb. I respect others too much for that Was Donald Trump the smartest person running in 2016?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:59 PM
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1/3 men have no hookups or sex in a year. That means that the other 2/3 have to average 4.5 for the total average to be 3. (0+4.5+4.5)/3 =3 Or more likely the middle third averages 1 and the top third averages 8 (0+1+8)/3 =3 Pretty straight forward🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:26 AM
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Why would a genius have malpractice suits? They might get cocky and careless. Doctors at the bottom of their class are more likely to fail than heads of class. You got any evidence to back that claim up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:59 PM
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You do realize that there has to be men having loads more to offset the 1/3rd of men who get none right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:12 PM
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If my life were on the line, I wouldn't care how hard it was for them to get the degree, just weather they can perform. I'll take a surgeon who struggled and got crap grades over a genius surgeon with a stack of malpractice suits against him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:08 PM
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That is sus
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:45 PM
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Have they been doing this with men too? I don't look at magazines, so I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:42 PM
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Women are the ones with loads of options to sift through. If you're an average guy, putting in your best effort, you'll get at most 3 matches a month, and only around 1/5 will actually reply It's ridiculous that women still try to put this on guys saying "they need to be better communicators" when most guys don't even get a chance to communicate. The guys that get matches and women to go out with them never need to learn communication because women want them regardless of how crappy they are as …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:09 PM
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Zoomers are the ones complaining about emotional labor. How many people under 25 have to do all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:53 PM
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But of course if a man doesn't like being seen as a replaceable part in massive machine, that makes him a lazy, worthless incel with stunted development, and he should be treated as such. Not even worth the effort of letting him know what he's doing wrong🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:42 PM
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They could literally approach anywhere. The “fat” or “ugly” (who are actually just average ) women aren’t being approached 10 times a day like the super pretty ones. Nope, but if you're approach isn't close to perfect " almost exactly what they expect from a guys approach" you're still getting rejected. Women are scared of men these days, and if you come off as the slightest bit awkwardly, huge red flag. Lucky if you don't get posted on her socials with a 🚩 Respectful and nice comes off as the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:24 PM
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You're wrong man, I was in the same boat as them until this Monday. It really was just having absolutely no Idea what was expected of me. I humiliated myself asking fiends, family, the internet, the people who had just rejected me "what could I be doing better" to get the kind of useless responses you would give to a 5 year old "it'll happen when it happens" "did "try talking to people" "you just gotta find the right one' But then I saw always sunny season 5 episode 8 (the DENNIS system) and I r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:19 PM
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I disagree. I think plenty of them are approaching women, they just aren't doing it right to get what thier looking for, and no one let's them know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:47 AM
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most of my fraternity brothers paid their way through college and through grad school. That doesn't say anything about their parents income, or wealth And it's a stereotype because it's true. If you're going to an American university, you're more likely to have rich parents than the rest of the country Genuinely don't get why so many privileged people get offended when you say their life was easier than most. I grew up privileged, I know I had a much easier life than a lot of the other people I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:07 PM
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Sorry, your post made it seem like you were only here until you graduated college, and that you were only socializing with people who have rich parents
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:46 PM
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If the guys you associated with had friends, then they are not the average "normal" American man https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2023/02/23/6-out-of-10-young-men-are-single-disturbing-reasons-why/amp/ Actually get to know a country and it's inhabitants before spewing misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:28 PM
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If you expect something from your partner, let the candidates know Most men just wish women would ask for what they wanted instead of waiting for someone to come along and guess right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:46 AM
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But I don't think someone would put on an act by behaving "sexually charged" that doesn't make sense It does if he's afraid you'll think he's not interested in you. Been there personally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:34 AM
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This subreddit is so weird. It's not weird. It's frustrated, bitter and lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:28 AM
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Sure. If that's what you want, let him know. Most guys just get frustrated when a woman wants something, but won't say what it is. Keeping them guessing and getting annoyed when he guesses wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:05 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/crime/dallas-jamie-faith-murder-wife-tv-b1929649.html%3famp Woman gets her alpha boyfriend to kill her beta husband
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:09 PM
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Some men put in no work and get everything. Some endlessly struggle and are judged, looked down on and ridiculed for not getting anythig
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:05 PM
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You're chance from getting aids in a sexual encounter is something like 3%, in both cases there are dire consequences if it happens, and the odds would have been 0 otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:59 AM
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If their promiscuous past left them with violently angry, jealous exes, it does too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:24 PM
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You aren't even aware of the game you're playing, and your calling the people who found the rules stupid Forget about opening doors, is it sexist that the man is expected to instigate every boundary crossing in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:06 PM
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Having a partner with a past full of STD's isn't the only thing that can affect your health going forward
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:58 PM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:44 PM
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All the curiosity and care in the world won't help you if your delivery is off
/r/seduction25/04/23 12:19 PM
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If they have a violent past, they'll probably have a violent future
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:55 AM
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It's pretty easy to be attractive to women, just pitty and look down on other men. Women love that shit, as long as you talk about these men like they could never be your equal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:27 PM
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Cause they wouldn't. Who would spend all that money and time adjusting to another culture if they had options closer to home?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:52 AM
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Do you really believe "go to therapy" is actual advice?You say that like they've never even tried therapy. Many have a been there done that mentality towards it. It's not a one size fits all solution because some people respond better to therapy than others, and some waste heaps of money and years of their life for nothing. Therapists are the most despicable marketers because they make you believe you need them for imaginary healthcare. Some people see a benefit, most just waste money and time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:22 PM
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Going through the basic steps with examples Display smv value by... Gauge interest by... Initiate intimate contact by... Instead of just saying more or less "do what you feel like, but with confidence. If you're not seeing results, work on yourself, something about you isn't good enough". This way, more guys would know what to do, instead being put down for failing the most agonizing guessing game
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:57 PM
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But yes greta thunberg, in the ass. The fucking slut. ???Wtf is wrong with you! She is a child, who is committed to solving an issue and doing everything she can to fix it. Are you really doing more for anything, than she is doing to fix climate change? Every human does it. How many people you know give a fuck that America throws bombs around the world? yes, yes, America is the best country in the plannet, but how many inactively allow America to throw bombs around the world? Almost everyone I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:24 AM
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We know they weren't unless you think owning people makes the world a better place. They had a vision, other people had a better vision. The objectively best values held by each individual did win and continue to win out. Most motivated people push for a collection of good and bad things and don't hold consistent values. The good things they push for win out. Freeloaders don't push for anything because they're too lazy to find the objectively good values and work towards solutions. They just sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:34 AM
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101%. Do I believe you think otherwise? 202% What makes you think that? Do you have a reason for thinking that? And yes some people do take pride in virginity. Would you say that's a part of the mainstream accepted values?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:33 AM
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Whatever label you give to slavery, and the holocaust doesn't change the point. Or do you think they were working "with other people to find standards we can all work with to leave the world a better place" They were working with other people to make the world a better place. They came up with bad standards that didn't work, and that's why they're gone. Good people came up with better standards based on more consistent values. Lazy people draged and freeloaded from all the hard work and effort t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:28 AM
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Yes and you all do not pick those standards off trees, you make them up by trial and error. From enslaving people to killing them for witchcraft to now. Is trial and error without reason or system? Is making a decision based off of trial and error just random choice, or a whim? Does trial and error result in arbitrary decision making, or decisions based on what did and did not work? !!?? When did I justify it? But the American founding fathers did. Not in a way that was consistent with their sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:45 AM
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For all you know I could be an ex-con or a CEO, why pretend you know me? And let's pretend I'm a lowlife. How does it affect our conversation? It doesn't I don't know you, and I'm not pretending to, it doesn't matter who or what you are, what matters is how you act Do you believe you are being helpful or constructive in these posts? True. But some do. We know some do. But you are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT, my bad, by NO MEANS not all Name one (no cheating with Google)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:28 AM
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Because you're bending something that's obvious. As if human standards aren't all arbitrary. Do you know what arbitrary means? Here's a hint, it doesn't mean disagreement Maybe you act on completely arbitrary standards, most of us work with other people to find standards we can all work with to leave the world a better place And please, justify slavery. I'm just a dumb black guy, I don't understand the moral justification of slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:06 PM
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Ask a religious person, they don't And there is a difference between thoughtful constructive disagreement and what you do Some people look at problems and say "the world is shit, what can I do about it" or worse " I might as well be shit too, everyone else is" Good, smart people see a problem and wonder "what could I do to fix this" It might help you to lead a more productive, and fruitful life if you learn to understand that difference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:32 PM
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Some people take pride in slutting and hoing around, especially men, people respect them for their desirability. No one takes pride in virginity, the best responses you can hope for from non virgin people are either pitty or suspicion Most people just get angry and hateful like you tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:58 PM
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The worst kind of men, but everyone still wants them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:51 PM
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The fact that virgin is an insult proves my point There are no insults for a man who has loads of sex, thankfully there are some for men who neglect thier kids. Almost no woman wants to be a "prude", it's worse than being a "slut"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:39 PM
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Every fucking human being has arbitrary standards What's with the hostility? Also just because everyone has arbitrary standards doesn't make all standards arbitrary. I'd say we have better standards than slave owners, and we should judge those with bad standards. Not wanting to date promiscuous people is not a bad standard, and has justification Btw, if you've been hearing the same insult since primary school, maybe it's time to make a change, try improving your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:31 PM
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Point being everyone has arbitrary standards, it's annoying that people like you degrade others for having theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:37 PM
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Agreed. But it's my business to care about it. That doesn't make sense in the context. You can care about the fact that you can't find women that are to your liking but it's non of your business what women do or not do. The fact that by not keeping their n-count low you are left without your desired woman it doesn't mean that what they do is your business If I were into blonds and all I lived in a society that could have loads of blonds, but all I saw were brunettes because; the media is pushing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:32 PM
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You wrote this Whenever a guy says he will only marry a virgin, or he doesn't like promiscuous women or won't date a girl with a body count above x Now you are saying virginity wasn't your point Can you read? He is obviously talking about general promiscuity, and how this does say something about weather a person would make a good partner, or not, "History doesn't repeat its self, but it does often rhyme.". It's pretty disgusting your straw-manning him as some Puritan purist who only wants virgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:25 PM
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I disagree. Some people for a variety of possible reasons are generally treated without suspicion by those around them. It doesn't matter if they are honest or dishonest, something about them allows them to garner trust, and retain it after being deceitful. They have an easy life, others aren't so lucky. The worst assumptions made about a stranger woman are that she is potentially manipulative, or mean The worst ones made about male strangers is that they are potentially a pedophile, rapists, mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:57 AM
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Fair points
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:55 PM
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Not a follower and never have been. He spreads knowledge and beliefs that I think are detrimental to society if adopted in mass. Probably why my sex life is non-existent. I have seen men turn their life around after becoming a follower tho, going from being seen as losers to being seen as liked and respected individuals by those around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:51 PM
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Lies like "it's unattractive for men to put others down, acting like they are better, and you're most attractive when you are your authentic self" "Forgive the wealthy and powerful for any past actions because they had to put work into getting what they have, unless they are billionaires" "If you're a virgin you are a worthless loser, misogynistic, violent and the biggest problem in society" "If alot of women want a man, it's because he's an amazing person" "If a man is getting his desires fille…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:35 PM
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I used to work at target. People without the mindset stuck to their role and did their best to be a the best person and team member they could, and we're seen as worthless and unattractive for it People with the mindset got promoted or moved on, often having little concern for how thier actions affected others and we're seen and treated as high status because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:07 PM
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Conmen need marks. Mainstream liberal values and culture created a population of easy marks Lonely desperate young men with no idea how to attract women because liberal media has spent the past 30 years pumping out lies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:01 PM
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Just because a father is authoritative and doesn't put a fantasy of having "inherent self worth" in their kids head doesn't make them abusive. Driven, confident and unapologetic men throughout time have been the biggest monsters in history, but women love them regardless of their monstrous acts, just encouraging more men to follow in their footsteps
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:55 PM
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He means a domineering conquest mindset, the "I'm better than most other people and I'm gonna work to show it" mindset. Almost everyone who isn't an average working Joe uses this mindset to gain social credit and broad approval. Most "appealing" aspects of masculine behavior come from that place
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:45 PM
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You learn from mistakes when people choose to communicate to you that you have made a mistake with them, otherwise you're left guessing what you did wrong if anything If you guess right, you'd better hope they let you know If you guess wrong, you're a worthless maladaptive piece of shit, figure it out People only open up to others when they see it as their last resort to get what they want from them, the people best at manufacturing desire are abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:37 AM
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Anyone can give money, only you can give your body
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:12 AM
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It's not about developing skills, it's about finding the "right" things funny. Banter playing on rage or fear is off-putting for some reason but all you bozos out there find banter playing on romantic desire "exhilarating"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:46 AM
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If someones lying to you, they at least care enough to want something from you Rather something you have is valuable to them I agree that both men and women at the bottom have a miserable go about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:39 AM
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But the one that can hold a knife will, regardless of whether they are a good person or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:42 PM
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And you want 84% of violent crimes to go unpunished, that's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:39 PM
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In my "twisted vision" innocent people have all the rights, we know who isn't innocent, we stop rewarding people for monstrous behavior, and we stop scapegoating every societal issue on to groups of people who have nothing to do with it. In your twisted reality, 60% of violent crimes go unreported, 60% of reported violent crimes go unsolved, then we find a random group of men to pin the problem on "it's the black men, it's the illegal immigrants, it's the incels, it's antifa, it's the police, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:55 PM
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I'll take a doctor who can't hold a knife over a doctor who gives up half way through the surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:42 PM
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If you wanna apply that to modern times, then survival of the fittest is having as many children with as many different women as possible, then leaving them for the mother and our tax dollars to take care of, while he goes off to impregnate someone else. Bonus points if the demon spawn he leaves behind grow into horrible murderous monsters who go out and clear the "less fit" males. Men raised by single mothers are on average more successful with women, and are more violent individuals. Unlike yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:38 PM
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Being dishonest, pompous, arrogant, bold, self-important, domineering, conceited, ignores boundaries, high body count, has a bunch of "crazy ex's that just won't leave him alone"(more often than not, they're not the crazy ones), has kiss-up friends he doesn't respect, divorced, 🚩🚩has kids🚩🚩 Pay attention to not only how he treats you, but also how he treats the other people in his life, the other people in your life and how he treats strangers. Are his jokes uplifting or are they aimed at puttin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:25 PM
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That's what I'm saying, everything recorded inside and out, video and audio, no blindspots. Not like these would be publicly accessible cameras, or monitored by some government official, but if something does happen, the evidence is a warrant away. No more "who were they last seen with" if someone goes missing, we will know exactly who they were with so long as it is within the city limits. Humans have very unreliable memory, making witness testimony incredibly flimsy. We could also legally limi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:46 PM
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No, learn the habits of these horrible men, give non toxic boring guys a chance The study is from sweden https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3969807/ Here's a politifact article claiming 3% of the US has been incarcerated https://www.politifact.com/factchecks/2015/oct/06/dan-patrick/dan-patrick-says-all-crime-estimate-committed-15-p/ P
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:55 AM
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Real estate agents already lower home values in black neighborhoods because of the crime being more prevalent there. Are all city real estate agents who take crime into account racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:24 AM
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Who wants to enslave women? Also, eugenics and social darwinism are deplorable concepts that have lead to horrifying things being done to people. We are more than animals, we have agency and we can effectively communicate intent to other humans. Survival of the fittest is chimp-life. Warbands of males going in to other chimp camps, killing all the weak native males and children, then taking all the women. Seems like humans up until pretty recently (~1800ish) were a lot more like our chimp cousin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:14 AM
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We put in effort to build the society we want to see. The one we want out children and grandchildren to grow up in. You're describing a society where the virtues of loyalty, discipline and determination don't matter. Is that what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:45 AM
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I'm sorry to hear you were put in a situation like that. I'm being pompous posting like I have the solution in motion to this issue. But I do truly believe one huge step would be increased surveillance. My goal would be a network of government subsidised cameras set up by business owners, home owners, and land owners that would cover every square inch of a city or town, inside and out. That way no violent crime could go unseen. Pie in the sky fantasy atm, but I do want to work towards making thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:32 PM
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How many rapes are committed by non men? In case you were too lazy to look it up before trying to act smart, it's 1.1%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:09 PM
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But they're the only ones on the planet who know how to degrade women😩 not even the the Weinstein's or Saudis can do it like them, and the incels do it without even touching women Not the 30% of police officers who abuse thier spouses Not the 80 NFL players arrested for spousal abuse, nor all the ones who got away with it. If I can't talk to incels, where could I possibly learn to degrade women😫😫😫
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:39 PM
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Yeah? When a man tells you he can't find anyone willing to give him a shot, you don't just tell him to work harder? Not that all the men who do get a shot are all just putting more effort and thought into it, and these virgins aren't even trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:24 PM
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What about when you generalize about unsuccessful men? Who gets called out for generalizing all virgins as entitled misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:42 PM
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Its great all you have to do to gain acceptance is look nice and try to have fun with other people. Something you will never get as a woman is that some men actually have to put in effort. Some never see results no matter the effort, left guessing between hundreds of possible reasons or combinations of reasons for what their problem is. The men that don't have to try are usually the abusive shitheads that treat others however the want because no matter how horrible they are, they know there will…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:27 PM
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We all need to work harder to find, convict and remove abuser's. Especially the people who let it slide, forgive, and go back to abusers because "he had it rough growing up" "he has a really sweet side" "he's a great guy deep down"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:54 AM
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Alleged criminals should have rights. Proven violent felons should not. Society doesn't care because they want these disgusting creatures running amuck. The people up top are just afraid we'll find out about all the depraved stuff them and their family members are responsible for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:09 AM
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What is then? No matter how much you say on TV "rape and violence is bad", and how much you impune young boys for engaging in "toxic masculinity" there will always be people who do it anyway. How else do you catch them? To prove a rape case as it stands, you need to prove not just that a sexual act happened, but that it happened against the victims will, without consent. How do you prove that without surveillance, wait till you got 20 victims all willing to testify? How do you suggest we find th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:55 AM
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If they commit inhumane acts, they should not be protected by human rights
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:32 AM
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Human rights are for human beings, not inhumane parasites that commit inhumane acts. I hope someday you'll stop protecting these festering maggots that infest our society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:31 AM
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Give me 10 years, you'll be thanking me. It's the only solution to the violence question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:28 AM
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I'm a man, and no I don't. I care about trust and safety, all else comes second Equality is a nice ideal to strive for, but an impossibility. Different people will always have different parents, some better at parenting than others
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:12 AM
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I think you're underestimating states rights. 🇺🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:08 AM
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My bad, assumed you had standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:03 AM
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When has our society ever been equal? Life's not fair nor can it ever be. The differences between men and women biologically are much greater than between any 2 "races" of human. Do you care more about stopping abuse or making sure violent abusers are treated with the same dignity and respect as all of us decent people?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:00 AM
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The very small subsect of men who are violent are responsible for 89.5% of homicides and 98.9% of forcible rapes. This small group of men is a much bigger issue than the small group of equally violent women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:40 AM
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Who's gonna be paying for their medical expenses when they're too old to work? One of the kids they abandoned after getting bored of that kids mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:32 AM
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Apparently I'm not alone with 1 out of 3 women having experienced abuse from a partner in their lifetime Curious when only 1/100 people are responsible for 63% of all violent crime convictions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:28 AM
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Surveillance on the men who use these apps. If you have one of these apps, it should always be recording, your location should always be shared and there should be no need for a warrant to access anything on these men's phones. If the phone is off, automatic assumption of guilt, very simple. There should be government programs to provide any woman who wants them high definition discrete cameras to put around their home so no more he said she said We will either find all the abusive men on these …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:09 AM
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Can and do for all the good that's gotten me. Lucky for me I also have some amazing people in my life who encourage me to pay thier kindness towards me forward Many men don't have this and never will, I just think those men need to be cut some slack. There are real abusers and horrible people out there who never see any sort of reprisal or justice for the things they do because everyone is too focused on beating down on the men who get nothing and did nothing. Always trying to find a new media m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:00 AM
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If they're not rich, they shouldn't be wasting disposable income at the club. That's what broke losers do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:48 AM
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Rapes in night clubs, book clubs and chess clubs didn't quadruple over the past 6 years. And prevention is easy, surveillance. Any man who choses to be on those apps should have no right or expectation of privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:19 AM
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If they're buying drinks at the club, they're either rich, or stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:15 AM
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While that's an important part of it, there's a lot more to it than that The real skill is listening to moaning. Being patient and supportive with all the entitled brats who moan about how difficult it is to have more than you without trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:14 AM
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From what I've seen, the people who act the worst, with the least regard for others get the most reward out of it. For him, it didn't matter how badly he treated the women he was with. He would break it off, and they would stay chasing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:59 AM
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How come you didn't stick to dating rich club boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:17 AM
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Easy for you to say, some people have to put effort into their personality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:08 AM
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The men who can get lots of casual sex want to move through as many as they can. Had a roommate like this, when he was single he was bringing a new woman back almost every other week. When he was in a relationship, he would treat the women he was with like garbage, cheat on them 2-3 months in. Go on to all of us about how "crazy" she was, then bitch and moan about how his life sucks because he can't help but cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:06 AM
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At the same time, would you not agree other paths to a relationship, like meeting through a friend, coworker, place of worship or festival were more common? Like it doesn't seem like it was an automatic, if you can't get a hookup, your not worthy of love like it is nowdays
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:57 AM
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Some may be in good relationships, but they had to try a lot harder to get and maintain those relationships than the abusers do. Abusers keep abusing because the women they abuse don't punish them, instead they reward them with love affection and devotion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:53 AM
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What do you think all these men have been sinking years of their life and energy into Then to get called lazy and entitled by the people who never had to try
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:49 AM
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There were only so many bars and clubs they could frequent back in the day. They couldn't move through as many people as quickly as they do nowdays They couldn't go from swiping on tinder to hooking up with a stranger 15 minutes later back in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:47 AM
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Good for you man, none of the matches I got replied Hinge, tinder or bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:37 AM
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I think what has changed now is that back in the day, most people didn't start a relationship after a hookup phase. To get to the relationship phase in today's culture for most people, you have to go through the hook up phase (after matching on some app or making eyes at a bar) if you're not selected for a hookup, you're out of the market. Probably gonna die alone after never experiencing romantic love and getting called an entitled, annoying, whiny, virgin if you ever talk about how lonely you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:28 AM
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Over the past 6 years, rape reports linked to online dating rose 450%. More than quadrupled More choice isn't better if there are less safe choices proportionally Not saying women should have their choices controlled, but dating apps need to be much more heavily regulated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:14 AM
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If this evolution is positive, then why are so many women still going for violent abusers, killers, and worse, while there are so many average working non psychotic men who get absolutely nothing no matter how many people they approach
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:06 AM
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No, he's moaning about never being seen as the object of someone else's desire Never being accepted as someone worthy of love having had no opportunity to show how he could add to someone else's life And then getting called an entitled, loser, whiny, virgin for voicing any feelings or opinions on the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:00 AM
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Would you want to be held responsible for the actions of the worst women a man has had to deal with? Cause that's all the average guy gets now. Grew up internet age. From what I hear talking to men who dated before the internet, back in those days, the average guy would at least get a shot at love, instead of getting reprimanded for the things the men who get dates do It's all women cycling through the top 1/5 guys, some keeping the good ones, but the bad ones get to treat the women their with l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:54 AM
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I don't know if this is a shared experience or if I'm just worthlessly stupid, but the annoying thing is that I don't know what to do in the future, because I don't know where I messed up or how to figure that out. Ill ask for them to say it's nothing before they drop me for someone else Ill self reflect and come up with an exhaustive list of reasons, only one or two might be a worthwhile take away, and lose them apologizing for the wrong thing. It really just feels like natural selection at wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:44 PM
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I'm with you, I'm just tired of people assuming it's some gross kink or fetish on my part for liking it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:32 PM
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I feel you, tall guys are the worst. They only care about others so far as it benefits them, and it doesn't matter how they treat others, because there will always be loads of people trying to gain their respect because they are tall. This isn't to say all tall men are automatically horrible people, I know a couple of great tall men. But they are allowed to be a lot more horrible to everyone else around them with less, to no blowback because they are tall. Tall guys are the only ones judging, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:30 PM
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Personally speaking, I'm into taller women. Whenever Im honest about this I get accused of objectifying people and fetishizing them. Most of the taller women I've met want a man taller than them tho. When they do go for a shorter guy, it's always some asshole who belittles them and tries to make them feel insecure about their height Saying things like "I'm into shorter women, but you're special"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:13 PM
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And being able to hold a conversation with a woman, and make her feel comfortable won't help if she's just not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:13 PM
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Because treating it like making a platonic friendship got me nothing but platonic friends. Very grateful for all the people who accept me and want me in their life, but personally, never having met someone who would be willing to try a romantic partnership with me can make me feel isolated and worthless. This kind of stuff makes it harder to keep those friends and have fun with them too because time around them just feels like a reminder of what a failure I am romantically. It's a jealousy that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:04 PM
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"I like things and I like to do things, but they're not my personality" Not bad advice, just obvious. Like something I remember hearing on pbs kids My guess is men don't discount your advice because your hot and rich, they discount it because you talk to them like children
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:28 AM
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Who didn't have to care about others because other people wanted them regardless of how they treated others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:17 AM
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You receive the energy you put out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:09 AM
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People would find a way, we always do. Everyone within every group is always making individual comparisons, and rankings. When a lot of people in a group agree on a ranking it creates winners and losers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:03 AM
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He means they take all your money, and spend it on advertisements and amenities like "a new gym" or "new dorms", making it cost 4 times what it should. Chem undergrad here from a Midwest state school. Other than the lab experience, I could have gotten the same information for free on Google. The degree just gets employers to trust you. I can only guess, but seems like ivy league is just the same education for 5 times the price. It does give you access to people conducting research if that's the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:42 AM
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I don't think they care, haven't seen it. With mansluts on the other hand, the more they get, the more entitled they become.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:50 PM
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You're wrong. I've never met a virgin guy, or anyone lonely into purity. Only guy I knew kinda into purity was a complete slut, new girl every few months when we were living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:10 AM
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The men on here aren't complaining about no sex. They are complaining about no companionship, no dates, not being given a shot. If they ever get a shot, they are greeted with suspicion and contempt because of what the last asshole she chose did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:04 AM
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Chicago is one of the last real cities with a sense of community. The ivy league north east coast is who sucked the soul out of America
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:39 AM
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"have a good personality, and work on yourself" is awful advice. All it's saying is "I'm better than you, it's not my job to explain to you how to be as amazing as me". If you have found acceptance, you are not weird. There are a million hidden rules everyone judges everyone else on. Breaking them gets you labeled mentally ill, and mentally ill men are "the biggest danger to society". Some of us are lucky enough to intuit these rules without having to put any work or thought into it. Others are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:28 AM
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Much better point than anything the op brought up. Bugs me when people virtue signal trying to show how much they know about an issue that they couldn't care less about solving.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 02:38 AM
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I don't think you know what bragging looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:36 PM
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Because its more people that they can compare you to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:44 AM
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The other dude is wrong, but you are more wrong. We owe the people at the top of whatever hierarchy we find ourselves in as much as we can offer. When you take on a responsibility, (like a job) you owe the people who trust you to fill that responsibility your best attempt at meeting the expectation. We have an obligation to meet the desires of anyone who funds our existence. Life sucks then you die, but less so for people at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:32 PM
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Its not about attention, its about who ends up with what they want. Sometimes its both "Chad and Stacy " but more often than not its just "Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:05 AM
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I've never come across men like this, you should probably find new spots to hang if thats how the people act
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:49 AM
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Women don't have it easiest, top tier men do. 6 figures, 6 feet, 6 pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:48 PM
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If you're self esteme is dependent on the comparisons you make in relation to your peers, you're probably not mature enough to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:46 PM
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I value social intelligence Coming from someone who thinks groping someone and using a curse word in a conversation are the same Because some people need this explained, groping someone shows an extreme level of disrespect for another person's bodily autonomy. This is an obvious red flag because it shows he is willing to cross clear boundaries without consent. Not just "trashy/tacky" Cursing at worse is just "trashy/tacky".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:36 PM
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If your self esteme is being eroded by someone rejecting you, your self esteme is not ready for an open and honest relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:12 PM
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Getting comfortable with the idea of living and dying alone. Also realizing that the people who aren't doing that aren't better than me, they are not more mature than me, nor do they know more than me, they're just luckier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:08 PM
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Ive seen this too. Specially when they chase after much younger. Yep, or just cheat and hoe around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:00 PM
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Tried that for the first 20 years, got nowhere. If you don't know how to help, don't try
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:50 PM
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I agree with you, but it is kinda annoying that if a guy dosent land an approach right, he is known to everyone she tells as a creepy misogynist and a potential threat, while the worst a woman will get is that she is weird or awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:31 PM
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If you cant handle rejections, you shouldn't be trying to date
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:25 PM
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I love how you threw men who say bad words in the same boat as men who grope, take your stuff and physically restrict you. Like a man says "___ fuck ___" in a convo and all of a sudden he's the same as a man who gropes you from behind? This is why I dont approach women, say 1 thing a little off and all of a sudden she's going around telling everyone about how she got harassed by you, a horrible creep that should be austrosized. No "I dont like it when people say ____", just interaction over, tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:21 PM
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Its motivating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:08 AM
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Personally I think the opposite, It takes a lot more effort on the man's side to cheat than the woman. Women are more likely to already have people going after them, a man usually has to actively pursue someone to cheat on thier partner with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:44 PM
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Im just a lonley guy trying to get comfy with the Idea of living out my life and dying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:40 PM
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Smoke a ton of weed, like every waking moment high for a year, then quit. Wakes your brain up, makes it angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:40 PM
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Megachads melt into betas as soon as they're in the presence of an ultra
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:02 PM
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You clearly haven't gotten to know someone who "just gets it"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:49 AM
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I dont know thier specific success stories, but most hypersuccesfull Americans get there by exploiting other people, taking advantage of some power dynamic they have over others.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 03:07 PM
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Just because you don't wanna talk about your issues in comment board doesn't mean you have to snap at this guy. Try having a little perspective, it looks like he made you mad by "making up a lot of opinions for me to have" while in the same post you siad Is there an unjust world fallacy? Because that’s you: “Everything is terrible. Wah.” This is probably untreated depression, btw. Can you see how he might feel you are making up a lot of opinions for him to have
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 09:27 AM
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A little exclusionary to lump all of humanity throughout history into the binary of hetero cis men and women
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 09:07 AM
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What kind of bullshit you gonna say next? That horoscopes aren't real? You're delusional.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 08:54 AM
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