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Lmao she's not getting shit that judge is going to put her in her place.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 09:50 AM
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Rule with my new girlfriend is "don't be lazy". It's not specific, but it works. I'm not lazy and I don't expect her to be either.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 03:37 PM
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Fitness, it will give you confidence and teaches you discipline and consistency. ALWAYS do what you say, if you say "I'm not going" you have to stick by it and vice versa. Be careful about committing your word, but ALWAYS keep it. That'll change your life. Attack your career, if you're at a dead end find a new career, people can re-invent themselves professionally if they are clever. Some folks are capable of more than others though, so you need to be realistic, but think of what you could be ca…
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:10 PM
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Women care a LOT about image, internal and external. Essentially they are social resource gathering machines. Men compete for resources and they compete for the men who win. Once you understand that and understand that they can be ruthless in that pursuit of comfort you won't take it so personally when your wife convinces herself and everyone around her that she can "do better" and that you were the "problem". The best revenge is to be a guy that women will compete for and completely forget she …
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 10:13 PM
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women are wired to do that shit don't take it personally.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 07:43 PM
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You are 100% correct. Don't listen to most of the dating advice on reddit and especially not the divorced reddit lol that's like taking swimming advice from dead drowned one armed morons.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 03:46 AM
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You won't always love her, she will always be the mother of some of your kids. Get a new woman, have new kids, make more money, live a better life. That's how.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 03:51 AM
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Dear reddit: I fucked a lady raw in a rocky marriage then moved overseas and now she's carrying my baby and refuses to come with me what do I do? idk man you fucked yourself it sounds like. I mean why in the absolute hell did you try and have a baby with this woman knowing she could then trap you? You willingly walked into this and I don't feel bad for you. Go home and be a father and husband.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 04:51 PM
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This is a great post man. DM me if you need someone to talk to but I seriously recommend setting some goals for yourself and working really really hard towards them. You won't have room for anything else.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/24 02:32 AM
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been there man, the lady in your head is completely made up and what shes doing to you now is WHO she really is. Thats where a lot of the pain comes from, your reality is torn apart, in large part because she lied to you and tricked you and sold you a version of herself that wasn't real. Now you see the real her. don't kill yourself. the best revenge is success.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 06:38 AM
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I like the peterson argument that you cannot be good without being strong because otherwise you don't need self control because you aren't capable of anything in the first place. Strength requires discipline.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 07:18 PM
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Weak men get eaten alive by life. You should set out always to be a strong man first and then a good man.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 04:41 PM
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bro take a loan or something and move to thailand and pay to totally disappear for real. go ghost.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/24 08:43 AM
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Man I know what you mean. Women like to engage in reputation destruction thinking they are hurting you. In reality they are helping because you never ever have to second guess ending the relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 09:11 PM
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Fuck that bitch. Leave. Also start lifting weights. Sounds cliche but it works.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 10:00 PM
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its going and lifting weights when you have every excuse not to. It's holding your tongue or your fists, when you have every excuse not to. Master yourself before any thing else. Let your yes be yes and your no be no. A man who's word is meaningless is not a man. A man who is ruled by his emotions is a boy.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 06:04 AM
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buddy here's a harsh reality, you are 5'5, gtfo the apps, you do not stand a chance there, you're going to need to find women at intermural sports leagues, church, the gym, etc you gotta get outside and be doing some things you love and HOPE to meet one. Being fit and rich helps, it really does, but you have a legitimate massive thing to overcome, I bet you could find some chick who's like 5'3 and under who's pretty cute if you get really really lucky, but you might not. You're gonna have to lea…
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 02:42 AM
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A man is almost entirely defined in his life by how well he can control his emotions.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 01:48 AM
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60k in cc debt is insane how do people do it?!? It will never make sense to me, that is actually insane.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 06:08 AM
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You will absolutely not see this right now, but she is NOT who you thought she was. Hit this comment back in 2 years and see the difference.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 05:18 AM
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I want to hear her side of the story.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 03:44 AM
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Give this man a trophy he is the 1/1000 case of a man being treated fairly in this type of situation.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 01:09 AM
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Don't date women with kids, don't date women with money problems, personally I don't date over 31 either, have yet to find the exception for any of these. I don't think it exists. You're just barking up the wrong tree buddy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 07:55 PM
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sounds like you married the devil op make better choices in the future.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 04:58 PM
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I see you don't fully understand how they think yet
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 01:48 AM
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Damn that's horrible. Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately that story isn't all that uncommon.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 07:52 PM
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Why tf did you marry a woman like that?
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 03:44 PM
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It will take her about 6 months to wake up to the new reality of being significantly poorer. She'll try to latch on to another provider, but its a lot harder when you're not young and you've already been divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 04:50 AM
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That's pain brother....but there is light at the end of the tunnel, trust me. You will travel, you'll get a boat, you'll start keeping most of the money you make and you'll meet lots of interesting women, this time armed with the wisdom you have gained from this.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 07:35 PM
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They didn't flip a switch the scale of is it worth it to be with you tipped in her head and the answer became no. That scale was always there. You fundamentally misunderstand what's going on in 99% of relationships. It's ok, we all did at one point.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 02:57 PM
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she will be absolutely wonderful for the new guy.....at first.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 04:28 AM
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Women will do whatever they can to hurt you the most, its REALLY sad that I have to give this advice, but gents, never tell a woman your fears or vulnerabilities, save those for your friends.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/24 09:45 PM
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If you were the main breadwinner you can make more bread, she cannot. Half of a chunk of money now with no ability to make more and for a lot of women, no ability to control her spending will make her comfortable for a few years. You'll always be able to make more but when she runs out what is she gonna do?
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 03:56 PM
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Find a group to do trivia with my man
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 12:44 AM
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she fucked a LOT of different dudes WHILE you were married. Its likely that she never loved you. Be a man, build yourself out a BETTER life and forget that bitch. Buddy...whatever idea of her you have in your head/heart is false. She sees you as weak because you have been. The minute she was fucking someone else you should have divorced her on the spot and started working HARD on yourself, your income, your body, your mind etc....IMAGINE where you would be right now if you had stood up for yours…
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 04:54 PM
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Younger is real tough to talk to they have never been in the real world.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 09:05 PM
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I can compete in the looks department and if you can't it's because you should eat healthier, stop drinking, and work out. Do those things and then go buy some decent clothes and you'll be drowning in options in that range.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 04:16 PM
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The most insane thing about society today is that they believe this woman can choose to terminate a pregnancy without approval from her husband. Honestly I am not pro abortion anyway, but from a logical secular pov it makes sense for single women. However in a marriage??? No. That is THEIR child. Not HERS. Reddit of course will praise her, but deep down everyone knows she just murdered this dudes kid and will get half his stuff on her way out. It's evil actually. Be very. very. Careful who you m…
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/24 06:42 PM
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23-29 is the range for sane women. sorry not sorry.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 04:41 AM
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Remove your wife from the equation. What do you need to make you happy. this is horrible advice and the exact rationale of extremely selfish people who do not seem to understand that marriage is a comittment to sacrifice, it isn't about being HAPPY. life is not about being HAPPY. I don't like to call people out on this sub but if you're giving someone else horrible advice to follow down your same path I feel I must. If you commit to someone for life you are not owed happiness but they are owed l…
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/24 08:43 PM
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yeah man you gotta learn to be alone, there is NOTHING wrong with being alone, but you will either choose to frame it in your mind as "peace" or "rejection" it is peace. It will take some time to find a community and that's important no doubt. For now my reccomendation would be therapy, learning to be at peace and enjoy being with just yourself, AND make sure you're doing something social, even if it's just once a week. A bible study or inviting some people out for trivia or fishing with a frien…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/22 10:53 PM
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Huge L living in a state that actively hates you. I'd leave man. whatever it takes.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/22 03:09 PM
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lmao
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 10:03 PM
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honestly insane that she gets to fuck someone else and leave you and she gets child support and 40% of the house.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 08:38 PM
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You are a fool and you will regret it if you don't get everything from her recorded NOW and get her the fuck out of the house and life that you paid for and built. She's cheating, she's been cheating, and she still wants to mooch off of you. Women are incredibly good liars. Don't believe her tears or her words, get a divorce asap, she has a job which reduces alimony, and you may get to keep the house if you act quickly while she's still being dumb.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/22 01:58 AM
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appreciate it
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/20 05:32 PM
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dont kill yourself. My SO cheated on me with my best friend 1 year ago today and my life has exponentially improved including a partner who respects me and friends who love me all during a pandemic, in ONE year. A year ago today suicide was a daily struggle.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/20 12:40 PM
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the honest truth is this is going to be a journey for you, but one thing I can say, don't stay in something longer than you have to, don't give in to the temptation to try to fix someone. I'm so sorry for you man, I know its really hard right now, but you're not alone, there are thousands of people every day dealing with extreme heartbreak, betrayal, death, agony, etc. Some of us survive, some of us even thrive with our backs against the wall. Be a fighter, your backs against the wall? Fuck it, …
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 10:30 AM
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let someone else delete them for you, that's my plan.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 08:21 AM
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Not divorced but same boat man... Same boat. Be strong. Every time you resist that urge you take back a little bit of yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/20 03:25 AM
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yes. You also probably suck at sending good messages to the attractive ones, you probably respond to quickly, etc etc etc. There are levels to the online game because it is HIGHLY competitive. Just the way it is my man. Understand you're trying to play in the NFL and if you've never done this before you're playing at an elementary school level. If you have a good job make sure to include that. I could teach a class on this shit but I really don't want to, just letting you know.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 05:47 PM
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this is great man I hope you help a lot of people.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/20 09:28 PM
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the only thing you can control is yourself. YOU are the master of NOTHING except that you can LEARN to be the master of a few things. 1. Your thoughts. YOU choose what your thoughts are. If you're having negative or confusing thoughts, stop, acknowledge that you cannot figure it out, acknowledge that you're not in control and that this in uncomfortable, and THEN CHOOSE to have different thoughts, ask yourself, hmmm what would be positive/helpful to think about right now? Then put your mind on th…
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/20 08:51 AM
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But no amount of 'paying' is going to be enough. It's not rational, and never will be - it's 100% pure emotion that's at the center of this. You see whatever he did.. he's not 'supposed to get away with it' in her eyes. No one pulls anything over on her. man. look I'm not divorced, but I just got out of a relationship with a girl that I'm 110% sure feels this exact thing about me, no amount of apologizing or forgiveness or anything I tried was enough. Mind you I didn't cheat or anything I was ju…
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/20 06:53 AM
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gather real evidence man, real, hard evidence, and then fucking leave. You'll respect yourself more in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/20 10:20 PM
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not a MGTOW (not sure what that is tbh, I'm here from regular reddit) but I disagree. Netflix has WAY more competition and that competition has WAY more leverage than the examples you've used. Netflix is fucked unless they hit some homeruns fast and it doesn't look like that's going to happen.
/r/MGTOW03/08/19 08:38 PM
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