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| – | Women/bluepill men here downplay the relevance of women's online discourseOnline is the real world now, this isn't the 80s - 90s where it's a niche thing. The discourse you hear online is how that generalized gender feels about the other. They're allowed to openly state their opinions safely behind a screen knowing it'll disappear into the void within a month max. Also being openly toxic is rewarded now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:05 AM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Your standards are fine and normal but just remember, average isn’t dating average these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.Personality only starts to matter once other people get involved in the dynamic like non close friends, family, coworkers etc. The only personality that matters from day 1 Is, “is this guy going to murder me” (threshold) after that’s vetted and her subconscious stabilises, it’s all looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.A lot of guys believe it. Stems from the rise of single mothers trying to turn their sons into “good boys who’ll never end up like their father”. So they push and say niceness is what gets women and being subservient to her emotions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:32 PM |
| 7 | LJBF after 2 months of exclusivity + sexJust remember you cannot force attraction. Sooner or later that lie dies down once the idea of a big wedding and kids pass, and there's no future milestones left to hide behind. Find someone who regards you as worthwhile, not an out. Prime scenario for affairs and divorce rape. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 11:03 PM |
| 4 | LJBF after 2 months of exclusivity + sexbutterflies / tingles is just a feeling that arises from hormones firing when a guy who's sexually attractive, socially respected, makes her emotions swing back and forth, and she views him as powerful appears in their life. Women love to feel and be valued by someone or something powerful. They flock to it like how sheep flock to a shepherd. Makes them feel worthy, valuable and wanted. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 10:24 PM |
| 15 | LJBF after 2 months of exclusivity + sexShe's trying to settle for you, sorry mate. 27 (age when this starts) + 3 dates before sex then does the "I've never gotten physical that fast with anyone else" thing but apparently only slept with 3 guys before in her whole life (trying to sell the whole "I'm wife material" even though u met on the apps). Also doesn't have butterflies (code word for sexual interest and attachment) but is constantly trying to force it to develop. I'm going to assume you're a fairly put together guy. Got finances… | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 10:10 PM |
| 8 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.I’ve seen the opposite way more. Usually a lot more attractive or above average looking guy with an average or below women. It’s not uncommon to see guys who’ve poured years into the gym or just plain attractive with a women who’s fat or below average and most of the time, her personality isn’t carrying her either. The dating markets have shifted post Covid and tiktok. 7/10 guy is the equivalent of a 4-5/10 woman now. The only instances of women being more hot than the guy is either A) she’s onl… | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Pursuit of muscle and money is futile for attracting womanGym doesn’t matter. I’ve never seen it actually benefit a guy directly outside of attracting obese women. It’s just got the secondary effect of making guys more confident. If you want to break it down into specific traits. face + height are non negotiables to the point most modern women don’t even mention it as an attraction trigger, it’s the bare minimum. Personality and finances follow that. Finances matter more on average but if you’ve got a captivating personality and it brings some level of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Why are men seemingly uninterested in marriage now?I won’t spoon feed the watered down version to you. You’ve missed the boat. Sit and think for a second the type of people who are single at 34. It’s non monogamous types, people with mental issues, extreme baggage or ones who enjoy living alone. Everyone who wants to settle down is out of the dating market by 30 (the “best” picks are gone by 25). Only people left are the stragglers. Also you’re mid 30s. This isn’t your teens to late 20s anymore. People are established, they have their careers, d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 04:25 AM |
| 6 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mosti mean are good men even trying to fuck as many women as predatory men are? Yes. A lot of them mistakenly get grouped in with "nice guys" even though their approach isn't manipulative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Men do peak in their 30s, just like TRP says - Just not with the women they wantThere are great women in their 30s but even then, what percentage of those great women aren’t playing it up because their subconscious is freaking out to settle down. Also what percentage of those women are even a good match. So many show their true colours the second the honeymoon ends. Ideal age to settle down is your 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Online dating will not decline in popularity because women aren’t receptive to approaching or being approachedYea I’m gen z. It’s not a thing for us unless you’re actively seeking it out in every situation or forcing interactions if you’re not in school. Everyone meets through apps more or less. There’s a fair amount who’ll infer they shot you down because u weren’t originally screened safely behind a dating app. Social media perception and the game of “is he my current best match” are defaults for my gen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest groupThe data is skewed. Women who are single and childless but “date around” / have fwb / ons situations are the happiest demographic. Single women with minimal interest are some of the lowest in terms of happiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 11:47 AM |
| 4 | Online dating will not decline in popularity because women aren’t receptive to approaching or being approachedIt’s roughly 55 - 60%. Meeting through friends is still falling. The only demographic that’s increased in “through friends” is the early - mid 30s crowd, specially geared towards women for obvious reasons and people who met through high school / early college. Anyone below that age bracket is all apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Are zoomers more promiscuous or less then previous generations?The answer is gen x parenting. Instilled fear and conformity culture, helicopter parenting, parents being best friends with their kids etc. Won’t allow their kids to grow and prosper | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 03:24 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about this ?Terrible advice. If you set a sexual mood the entire night and leave with just a number. She’s either A) gonna be horny af and find someone else to fuck B) get pissed off You’re going to have to re-escalate the whole thing again in a non alcoholic / party setting tomorrow, hoping you recapture that sexual magic. Way harder to do unless you want something serious. Act when the opportunities right in front of your face, don’t delay for the unpredictable tomorrow | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 03:04 AM |
| 6 | Just Be YourselfBecome the best version of you. As in, if you’re a true introvert, don’t try learning vapid night time game. Stick to more quiet locations around topic. And vice versa for extroverts. Learn from people who are similar to you in temperament, but with a different outlook / traits you aspire to have. Pretend to be them and mimic said traits (what would … do?) until you’ve mentally become them, discard the garbage traits they have. You really only need to shift your personality 1% that’s it. Again d… | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Are zoomers more promiscuous or less then previous generations?Also a lot of zoomers are fronting a sex life. The whole lying about your sex life during teens has only gotten worse in adulthood for some reason. A lot of women pretending to get pumped and dumped because they think it makes them fit into social media standards + “valuable”. A lot of guys fronting fucking a lot to not get group in with incels and losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Are zoomers more promiscuous or less then previous generations?A very small percentage of zoomer males and a fair amount of zoomer women are the most promiscuous group probably ever. If I had to put numbers on it 10% max of men and ~30% women. This is a group that’s basically slept with dozens of people, had a few threesomes and some more kinky / extreme bdsm all before 21. A lot of this subset are on OF, always hopping on any person they can find, on dating apps, social media and in clubs constantly searching. For the men it’s mainly anyone who’s very attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 02:00 AM |
| 0 | Are zoomers more promiscuous or less then previous generations?While true I recall seeing the stds rates sometime last year and it was a very large difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 01:52 AM |
| – | Double standards and jealousy of "Passport Bros" in the USA.You will never win this argument. As much as society tries to destroy gender roles they’re still desired in our subconscious. Women still hold the weaker / more lenient view in society. When people hear a guy fell in love overseas. Their subconscious thinks, strong man rapes and pillages weak foreign woman’s village. Inversely is more viewed as weak and lonely women finds foreign strong man from a far away land. Those ideas are so encoded in us it’s in all our media for the past thousand years. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxYea, I was curious how some guys became incels years back when I first got into self development / red pill. A lot of them from what I could tell are very autistic with terrible influencers in real life. Only like 25% are genuinely ugly. They’re obsessed with this longing for romantic love but trying to achieve any sort of connection with severe autism is very hard I’d assume. Extreme loneliness and longing creates extremist beliefs and resentment. Weird thing is all the modern incels from those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxThat’s more the incel crowd or guys who are genetically screwed and no amount of “building themselves” will change the outcome for the most part. Think really short guys, extreme asymmetry or ugly etc. Majority of them have a built yourself up and find a dream partner / sleep with a lot of women mentality, it’s fairly optimistic. Just the incelly ones are the loudest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:01 PM |
| – | What does 'status' mean to you?Elon and gates were both bullied but it gave them thick skin. They’re extremely ruthless when it comes to business. Everyone who makes the world go round is calculated and manipulative. Athletes and actors are just glorified entertainers. Their bosses can get them blackballed from industries if they don’t produce results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 09:54 PM |
| – | What does 'status' mean to you?Bullies with brains run the world. Look who controls all of the world’s capital, every finance guy. Hyper analytical + Narcissism + intellect + the ability to toggle on sociopathology when needed wins every time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 09:31 PM |
| 24 | If you have 32 girls and 15 guys coming to your party, would you invite more guys?Maybe 2 - 3 more. Ratio is good anyway because: Higher odds to find someone Women feel safer in numbers | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 09:55 PM |
| 7 | guys who are 24+ and/or well past/done with any education/training, where and what types of social settings are you meeting women?Anywhere. Bars, clubs, dating apps, gyms, any local activity that forces you to interact whether it’s some hobby or a food place, anything. Could game random women in target if you want. Just need to know how to get their attention first without being the “hey I think you’re hot” guy, have a lil convo for 2 - 3 minutes where u make her smile and laugh then close. Simple shit. Or if you’re charismatic enough make her tag along. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 09:06 AM |
| 12 | Women dominated spaces are heavily thought policedAttempt to ostracise you from society if you don’t fall in line. Getting “cancelled” just means going against the public approved narrative in any form. Originally they spam call your jobs and reported you until you’re fired, post covid businesses mostly just fall in line and fire you the second any negative attention occurs. Get you expelled from everything you’re tied to, drag your name through multiple accusations even if they’re not rooted in any truth. Shaming culture on steroids pretty muc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 09:01 AM |
| 11 | Women dominated spaces are heavily thought policedMen obsess over power because they fantasy and believe (even if it’s a very small chance) that they themselves will be in control one day. They obey out of necessity to fit in and survive. Look into any society that takes away the belief of any man having the ability to achieve some form of power, it quickly falls to decay and violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:35 AM |
| 11 | Women dominated spaces are heavily thought policedYea this. Women were known to be the biggest enforcers of right wing ideals when it was valued, now they’re that for the left wing. No one enforces it the basic tenants more than them. I mean look at who runs cancel culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:32 AM |
| 3 | When does millennial advice/experience become irrelevant to younger generations?You’re 5’10 lol you’re not short, only if u live in one of those 6’3 countries. Unless you’re one of those “5’10” in shoes types or rounding up. Only chance you’re getting rejected for height is if you’re so wide and fat it makes you look short or height is a go 2 talking point / whine about it all the time. 5’10 and above is viewed as tall by most women. Just 6’ sounds cooler because it’s a round number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | What is more important, status or money?It’s different for each person and what they consider to be an achievement, value or form of high social currency. It’s very loosely defined or tied to anything specific but usually involves something hard to achieve so you stand out, looked upon highly by society and other people want to be you. E.g. Being a doctor or a lawyer carries a form of status which some women value and look up to as attractive. Being in a high ranking position of a company or politician carries a form of status which a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 01:24 AM |
| 8 | How important is that initial eye contact?Very very important. You can win someone over from eye contact alone if they’re seductive looking enough. | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 09:28 AM |
| 10 | Current climate in Australia regarding DV/menYea it’s pretty bad here overall | /r/MensRights | 21/05/24 08:14 AM |
| 21 | As an average looking guy, what kind of success rate can I expect from attractive women?Depends on what u consider average. If you’re 5’8, levels of balding, round face with minimal jawline, skinny fat with sparse eyebrows then yea, no chance unless your status and/or money is high. Or you’re somehow blessed with those very rare but powerful captivating personalities that dominate every room. If you’re better looking than true average there’s a chance. A lot of really attractive women aren’t surrounded by rich / very attractive and live regular lives. The average guy usually doesn’… | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 07:06 PM |
| – | Womens non-verbal, physical cues of attraction - How to maintain frame?Forget about the whole alpha, beta shit. It’s mostly dumb. You got a higher chance of appearing like an idiot and odd if you’re highly focused on dominating the convo rather than enjoying it / gaining something from it. To fix your issue, put yourself in stressful situations where you’re forced to maintain yourself and think clearly, it’ll build up confidence and skill in that regard. Exposure therapy pretty much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 06:20 AM |
| – | Womens non-verbal, physical cues of attraction - How to maintain frame?Relax with the “I am comfortable to submit” stuff. It is a sign of an attraction trigger for sure but it’s no different than any other trigger. There’s no deeper meaning most of the time other than hormones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 06:16 AM |
| – | Womens non-verbal, physical cues of attraction - How to maintain frame?He’s applying basic body language readings that literally everyone knows to a scenario. There’s a fair chance he’s greatly overreacting but it’s not some grift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 06:09 AM |
| – | Womens non-verbal, physical cues of attraction - How to maintain frame?This is just apart of life. There will be instances where you see a hot woman and do your version of this while your partner gets pissy. It doesn’t mean they want to cheat on you but seeing something that attracts you does this, intentional or not. Just observe and don’t comment while acting normal to gauge things. If you want to mitigate this, find a woman who’s deeply attracted and attached to you. There should be a line though. If she starts trying to establish external connection with said g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 06:06 AM |
| 3 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Yea she’s got that 1000 yard stare look. Her being ugly doesn’t help it either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:38 AM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?Getting to a high 8 - 10 figure net worth changes how you perceive and play with money. If you’ve ever associated with that crowd, they’re all stingy outside of experiences. Materialistic status symbols change the wealthier you become. It’s more about owning specific yacht makers or real estate in a very specific part of France. Less to do with owning stuff like a Ferrari which gets you associated with “poorer” crowds in their eyes. It’s the equivalent of you bragging about owning a guess shirt.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 03:12 AM |
| 5 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Because she’s heavily dishonest about her past, extremely bitter and acts in a very bitchy girl boss sort of way. Those influencers accept her in the hope it attracts more women, that’s why. She acts no differently to the women she’s criticising in terms of temperament. Idk nor care what or who these grifters date but the majority of people who adhere to some or all red pill ideas aren’t interested in these kinds of women. They’re interested in ones who (the non “never settle or start a family, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Does the so called manosphere highlight the conversation that had been happening for years, but in the dark?Idolising anyone is pathetic. They do offer their own important insights but most of the knowledge required for success is already there. There doesn’t really need to be a redpill space I do agree though about Blackpill. It’s the norm in my generation due to a decade+ of lookism through Instagram in our youth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:55 PM |
| 12 | "They can smell your desperation" is just proof that women attribute good personality to attractive people.I’d disagree in the sense that not every guy who’s having a rough time in dating at the moment is mad. But admitting that you’re failing publicly in any form has the same halo effect as an ugly guy trying attractive guy game. Everything you say from then on will be viewed through a nihilistic and desperate lens even if you aren’t. I knew one guy who admitted his short comings years ago and after that day most women around us started behind hyper critical of everything he did and insinuating he m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:49 PM |
| 18 | "They can smell your desperation" is just proof that women attribute good personality to attractive people.And lack of options will equate to being desperate 99% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Went out solo todayAnywhere’s fine just malls have the lowest ROI Bars would be easier than street | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?Physicians and top .1% are two very different groups. Above commenter and I were talking about the latter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:51 PM |
| – | Why do we pretend that dating priorities undergo a massive change after age 30?Beta bux definitely still happens though. Think the types who magically start withholding sex and acting pure until they get an engagement, even though they’ve slept around for years. Always end in a dead bedroom / “do tasks for me and I might give you sex” relationship. It’s so common that it’s a trope in media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:59 AM |
| – | Why do we pretend that dating priorities undergo a massive change after age 30?The shift is more in regards to settling. I’ve noticed this a fair bit but once a woman’s friend gets married or something triggers baby fever, it’s like a time bomb goes off and they panic to marry. Over a few years the people who would only settle for Mr right slowly start correcting their view until they’re willing to settle for anyone. It’s how women with a very particular type + attractive end up with someone so far left from that standard it feels wrong. The guys who would’ve gladly marrie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:46 AM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?No shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 09:32 PM |
| 12 | Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him?Boring person, too shy and insecure to purse a woman he wants and just takes what comes or boring as hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?Because they’re bored and want to stand out amongst their 700 brothers. The average person who built wealth themselves for the most part acts very differently to a 4th generation oil tycoon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:49 PM |
| 3 | What does a top 20% man look like?That’s for 2022 alone according to the article not lifetime. Anyway who gives a shit?? Pretty sure OP is just looking for goals to peruse. If it’s off, he’ll just come out more rarer in the end. Unless you want to write a 16 page thesis on all the possibilities on “well he’s 6’2 so according to the salary:height calculator he must make 70k to be top 20%” be my guest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?OP wants to stand out, that’s why I recommended it. If you’re talking about top .1% people. It’s always something reliable + low depreciation so you can trade it in once the warranties up. If you’re talking brands it’s always a Toyota for the cheaper option, merc/audi/porsche for the luxury but “blend in”, Bentley / Aston Martin if they want to stand out. No one who made wealth is buying collector cars even if they’re into it unless it’s some new one they can flip to hoarders in 5 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?Tier 2 city would be the mid range of what I said earlier Anywhere from 200 - 300k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?Tier 2 city, social and activity seeking sex. Could be anywhere from 3 - 2 dozen depending on your year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:24 PM |
| 2 | What does a top 20% man look like?Yea buying followers is a must if your goals solely to fuck a bunch of women. It’s not like you’d care if she’s wife material or not, just hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?Again it depends on where you live. Bum fuck nowhere, 100k be enough. In a big city 400 - 500k would put you well above the average guy. The partners per year is more of a personal goal one. You could be all those things on the list + active and social and still not do well. You could have a good year followed by 2 bad years, it’s not measurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:18 PM |
| 2 | What does a top 20% man look like?You need to be boastful to win at online dating. It’s marketing after all, even top percentile guys fail a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% man look like?Yea it’s just a basic outline. Not putting super serious thought into it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:05 PM |
| 4 | What does a top 20% man look like?Using ur things. For a top 20% I’d assume 5’10 - 5’11+ Depends on height but usually within that lean muscular size 12 - 15% 7/10 - probably has 1 or 2 desired traits like a sharp jaw, strong chin etc. clear skin, really good symmetry. No bad physical traits like severe balding. Depends on location but 6 figures Specialised / desired role at their job e.g. manager. Idk it would be above average so say 10 - 30 range Depends on the person. Some go crazy for a year or 2 then chill, others are alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:00 PM |
| – | Do you find overly political women (particularly super left leaning) a turn off?I can get along with them if we have an interest or just like fucking on some fwb shit, but could never take them seriously. You might need to stand your ground a bit because a fair few of them become overdramatic / seek out fights. 0 chance we end up in a LTR situation. Too politically different and it’s something I’m open about. Same goes for girl boss / very career focused or masculine acting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?When did I say genuinely creepy guys shouldn’t be called out?? Obviously they should, that’s stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 01:51 AM |
| 3 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?He’s trying to say. Just because you don’t like someone, doesn’t mean you should insinuate they’re a creep and unknowingly / willingly get them ostracised from their social circles. It’s obviously fine to talk about rejecting someone, that’s not the problem. But I’ve seen a lot of women just drag the guy for no reason. Calling him creepy, shitting on his appearance or personality and convincing themselves he’s some crazed person off an approach. All it takes is a group of women to convince thems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 01:07 AM |
| – | Why is social status so important and why do people deny the importance of it?Social status is very fluid unlike money or looks in the sense you don’t need to be some famous celebrity. It matters more in regards to what they respect. If a women holds doctors or lawyers to a high degree, then that’s a social status. If she’s in a club and you’re the guy who knows everyone and can get backstage, that’s social status If you’re skilled at a hobby she respects and others value you for it + treat you like a teacher, that’s a form of social status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 09:01 PM |
| 19 | Ex cheated on me and now wants to get back. Im scared. Please HelpJust block or if u wanna be bitter say “don’t care” or some shit then block. Don’t be too emotional if you respond, it’ll backfire trust me. Hit the gym, look at it like a new leaf. Pick up a new hobby or listen to a new genre of music, something to clear ur head and view it as a new start. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 05:07 PM |
| 168 | Ex cheated on me and now wants to get back. Im scared. Please HelpDon’t even need to read your text wall. She ruined the 1 opportunity you should give regarding loyalty, she will cheat again or at minimum never respect you. Leave that bitch. Have some self respect and start a new journey You got 100 years. Don’t waste your limited time on a woman who can’t even keep her legs shut | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you look at and enjoy AI porn?People who’re into hentai / cartoon probably watch it, hardly a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Men aren’t allowed to show bitternessIf you capture their emotions, they’ll listen. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Men aren’t allowed to show bitternessyou do you then. Won’t change my view | /r/MensRights | 15/05/24 09:08 PM |
| 12 | Men aren’t allowed to show bitternessSounds great in theory but this will never work in practice. Humans have a desire for love and sex, men will always be throwing themselves at women no matter the counter cultural ideology that pops up. Look at South Korea, there’s a whole strike against men but that’s not stopping hundreds of thousands of women from dating. You will end up in a worse spot than you currently are if you run away and hide. Older with an even greater lack of women skills and the potential to die without experiencing… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/24 09:02 PM |
| 17 | Men aren’t allowed to show bitternessThe basis of red pill ideology. There’s a pretty simple fix as a guy. Date around and fuck as many women as possible and when you believe it’s time to settle down, you’ll be self aware enough to know the depth of women’s mind games and lies. It’s pretty easy to tell the difference between a promiscuous women and someone with more monogamous ideals. Any bad signs, avoid instantly. Don’t let it get to you. Keep searching til you find the good one and never get emotional over this shit again. You o… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/24 08:48 PM |
| 91 | Men aren’t allowed to show bitternessYea you’re right. But if she’s not your girl, who gives a shit. Don’t let women get on your nerves and stop being a doormat for her emotions. Stand your ground, if she’s an illogical idiot just leave and keep hopping around until you find a good, non bitter woman who wants to follow your lead + respects you. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/24 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Went out solo todayMalls are the worst place to start. Just solo night life and learn there, it’s easier and you won’t misinterpret signals. | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 08:17 PM |
| – | Being attractive,introverted and intelligent is the worst combination possible for a man.Nah. Attractive, smart but introverted is fetishised by a lot of women. It’s the mysterious, private hot guy living in his own world, and they wanna join. Ugly, introverted and smart is the worst. You’ll always be treated as that outcast nerdy loser who’s trying to overcompensate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 05:16 PM |
| 7 | Mothers' Day disappointments for feminists.You know it’s bad when I’ve got women in my life throwing fits because they didn’t get a $10,000 holiday for Mother’s Day and their work friends did. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/24 11:04 AM |
| 8 | Using alcohol to start cold approachingDon’t. You’re avoiding the problem and just kicking the rock down the road Sooner or later you’ll have to face women and flirt with them sober. You’re just delaying the inevitable, be a man and face your problems. And no, being drunk + seducing won’t magically make you feel more confident sober. You’ll actually feel worse and believe ur sober (true) personality is worthless, needing to mask it with a fake drunk version for an inch of success. Alcoholism speed run | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 08:20 PM |
| 5 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionThat’s what I said lol. It’s nice guy syndrome. Being an asshole does work though if ur not looking for anything serious. And for the hobbies thing. While important, isn’t a fix all solution. It can be used as a mask by boring people to appear interesting. No different than people who talk about their job or sports all day. Interesting for a convo or 2 but eventually follows the same structure every time u speak. Knowing how to converse about anything in a fun way and being aware of the current … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 04:31 PM |
| 3 | If a woman has the right to an outing to pregnancy, a man should have access to that same outing with no problems.A lot of idiots in these comments. Stop with the whole “don’t have sex then” narrative, we both know it’s dumb. Humans love sex and women have hundreds of opt outs at every stage of pregnancy, there’s 0 chance they’ll opt out of perusing sex for pleasure. Men only have condoms (unless ur sterilising yourself) and even then it can rip, she can cut holes in it etc. I do agree men should have a way to opt out. Aborting the baby??? No that’s the woman’s choice. Ability to have 0 financial responsibi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 03:51 PM |
| – | Ladies, there is NO SUCH THING as being "used for sex."Some women can be deceived for sex when they’re truely seeking a relationship. But most of the time it’s a women not wanting to carry around the slut badge after 1 too many nights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionTrue kindness and decency should be reserved for someone you deeply care about. No different than your emotional involvement with randoms vs a friend or family member. Do you show the bare minimum respect and decency when speaking to a random?? Of course, but you don’t go overboard or it comes across as needy, annoying and weird. If they treat you like shit, you treat them like shit. On the other hand you’re very open in this regard with friends/family you know and care about. Why should this be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 03:18 PM |
| 15 | Women desire to marry or date men who are more successful then they complain that the same man is keeping them down. They're attracted to someone who knows a lot and is capable then get mad about mansplaining or privellage. If they really believed in their strength wouldn't they marry an equal?Usually 2 different types of women or they’re getting manipulated online by radical feminist / poor single mothers after becoming comfortable with one of the lifestyles. Women are very susceptible to influence. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/24 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Too late?Yes you got time but you have to start now | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 12:41 PM |
| – | Another take on a HBC woman…It’s possible but I’ve seen the opposite more. Women with HBC usually get bored faster with partners. They’re used to a rotating door of new suitors, so expecting someone with hyper sexual tendencies and an obsession with novelty to want the same dick over and over again is low. Women I knew who were promiscuous usually end up in some cheating scandal or dead bedroom (I’d assume because their sexual & novelty needs aren’t being met + they value their partner enough not to cheat = Trading sex the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 10:29 AM |
| 5 | For those of you who have 'studied' and practiced The Red Pill, did it help? What are your positive takeaways? Did you really swallow the pill or were you selective on what suggestions to adopt and which ones to discard?It’s worthwhile. The more original Redpill (and pickup) concepts gives good insights into female psychology, mating strategies, maintaining partners, attraction triggers, identifying certain subtle positive / negative signs early on, confidence maintaining frame, physique, facial appearance etc, and if u wish to go down a fuckboi path there’s that also. Modern day redpill has just devolved into a whinnying shitfest. The problem lies when people follow redpill like a religion. Life isn’t black an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 07:04 AM |
| 9 | Is dating worth it in modern times?You’re going to get a lot of doomers but yes dating is worth it. I would go about it differently in modern times though, no expensive dates until you’re sure she’s worth it. Keep it casual from the get go so it’s less of an investment. There’s still amazing women out there but the numbers are falling | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 05:35 AM |
| 3 | I think people need to accept the fact women just don't enjoy sex.Women enjoy sex, not to the level men do where sex is almost required like eating and drinking is but they definitely do enjoy it. Thresholds are different though. Us guys will fuck anything depending on how horny we are, it’s very very rare for women to go that far without drugs, they usually only fuck guys they like / find very hot. Also depends on their vaginas as well. If she can fit 8 inches in her, shes usually gonna need 7 - 7.5 to really enjoy it and hit everything right. If ur fucking w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 03:33 AM |
| 0 | Ghosted after first date - double text adviceMove on. It hurts but it’s important to become numb to this feeling. You got ghosted, process that emotion. Assume why they ghosted and make the change. Could it happen again in the future?? Sure but you popped ur cherry for this experience. It’ll never sting as badly again. | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 12:37 AM |
| 2 | First solo night experienceIf people ask just say your friends are somewhere and look around blanky for a second or be semi honest and say u randomly felt like going out Don’t let ur emotions get the better of u | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 06:17 PM |
| -3 | I love it when they play hard to get but you still winGood shit | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 05:56 PM |
| 6 | How should one act when a women send you choosing signals than says “I have a boyfriend”Either ignore, bore her til she’s gone or double down. Could be a shit test for all you know and she’s interested, just doesn’t know how you’ll act. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?That would be misogynistic /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | approaching while watching a movieThis more or less. If you’re cuddling, touch / rub around her leg area and see how she responds. If her body language is screaming fear, she’s moving away / positioned away or just tells you no / moves away then give up. If the opposite happens e.g. leans in more / positive emotion then slowly escalate | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 10:36 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach in 2024The latter has a higher chance of working than the former in this situation. You’re not going to get a random women to stop so you can ramble game at 3am without her anxiety spiking minute by minute, lowering chances. Might as well be direct as possible in a situations that’s got a very low % yield. Obviously, exact opposite approach in any other scenario. I wouldn’t approach personally anyway, it’s too tense of a scenario unless she was 100% my type. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 09:48 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach in 2024Yea my bad. Watched it on speaker originally and thought he was pressing her. Guy did nothing wrong. Wasn’t smart to speak to a crying girl though, that’s a whole host of problems. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | I was falsely accused (m17)I’d get a lawyer fast. It’s pretty clear he’s going to murder you once you’ve both graduated and your ex is complicit | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 08:52 AM |
| 4 | being a bear in the woodsThis. OP should also remember. For every radical there is, there’s at least 2 women who aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 07:33 AM |
| 0 | Would you rather be stuck in the woods with a bear or with a woman who believes it’s morally ok to falsely accuse men of rapeThe bear has a high chance of killing me while the woman has a high chance of getting me killed while she’s yapping about her asshole manager | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 06:15 AM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.Nah it was an attempt to call out sexual assault and abuse (which is good). But feminists do what feminists do and converted it into another “All men are monsters if they don’t do or say as I want” It wasn’t a trap, feminists just trapped themselves. I also find it interesting how these same women are the pro prison reform, “everyone can be rehabilitated” crowd. Anti rape but pro rehabilitating rapists is a wild stance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 05:57 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach in 2024This guy is an idiot. One of the only times to not cold approach is when a woman’s walking alone in the dark. You could still do it but you’d need to be extremely quick and appear non threatening about it. Just a simple “damn you’re cute, could I get your number?”. If it fails, instantly say bye / good night and walk off. The second u start rambling about anything else in that setting, her anxiety spikes like crazy and u look like a psycho. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:31 AM |
| 10 | is it my age group or just meA bit older than you. They're either nervous / attention seeking or ur too ugly. From what I've seen. 18 - 25 is when women chase and fuck their ideal type, after that they slowly start to force themselves to settle for guys with money or any other level of stability. Keep trying | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 07:14 AM |
| 12 | Are there any good seduction/pickup youtube channels/podcasts ?Don’t fall into the loop of living out your fantasies through a screen. Those “creators” usually fake their shit and say the most cringe shit. It’ll get you a few numbers, maybe the odd date, but won’t get you laid. Watch Jon zherka’s old stream reuploads on YouTube from around late 2019 - early 2023 before he became famous. Genuinely good advice. Then mix what works into your personality and remove the filler. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals?Romanticising every aspect of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Girl denied date saying it’s too early.High chance she’s only speaking to you because she’s either bored or wants attention. Move on or keep her on the back burner on the off chance she’s genuine and just a slow dater | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 10:06 AM |
| – | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?While in Australia this is happening https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cd1wpegrnrxo.amp You either push for a fair and equally shared society or you divide things into gender roles. Not the double standard “women are allowed into all male hobbies because misogyny, but men cannot be allowed into ours” that’s being attempted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:48 AM |
| 4 | I approached my Gym crush and got rejectedGood job. Use it as learning experience / tuition fee to the game. Some pointers: Initial interest is short lasting, capitalise off the newness aspect fast or be forgotten (max this period lasts is 2 weeks) and rejection is part of the game. You’ll start to pickup on these things the more you do it and learn how to spike her emotions fast. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Men can now message first on BumbleDating apps aren’t failing in gen z. People still use them as the main place to find dates but it’s only for casual now. Everyone i know uses it for casual hookups frequently while “taking it slow” with the friend they like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:53 AM |
| 8 | Best Ways to get out there more6’4 and ugly?? Yes. Heights important but it won’t overpower ugliness unless she’s obsessed with height | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 09:22 AM |
| 7 | Best Ways to get out there moreAus as well. Night clubs, pubs & dating apps are pretty much the only ways. 6’4 + if you’ve got an attractive face + level of wealth if ur in a major city= very easy. If you don’t have the other 2. Try friends of friends or work buddies, much lower chance but it’s not 0. Aus is very anti social compared to other dating cultures. There’s no pickup culture really, We all just hang around our high school / uni friends and never meet anyone else. If ur just tryna hookup. Follow the first 2 points an… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 07:19 AM |
| 5 | Height/Weight/Status/Income do not really matter that much!In their perception yes, he’s ugly. You got to remember “I saw a short ugly guy with a hot woman” can mean anywhere from truely short and ugly to 5’8 and an average ranged face. Women’s attraction standards are very different to men’s, they don’t have an even distribution in every study done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys ever deal with imposter syndrome?Yes. Even when I'm doing well my subconscious is thinking "It can't be that easy, what's the trick?" even though i've done it so many times. You need to learn to ignore it. | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Trying to Make out for the first time.Go to a club or party, put yourself in a situation to start making out with girls with 0 expectations and leave if it gets embarrassing. You could go the dating route but it can get very awkward if you’ve got 0 experience and expectations have been built up over the night | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Many men who complain about being alone have high standards too.I believe it’s more to do with the stereotype of 30+ year olds usually having a promiscuous past and not actually desiring their partner, rather settling because their friends are getting married at that age. Most guys just want to have a loving wife they feel happy waking up next to everyday. No guy wants to feel like he got played by someone who doesn’t desire him, just desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 08:03 PM |
| – | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?It's not, and anyone saying otherwise is an idiot. A guy is meant to lead, be the rock and support. The whole trade off of family dynamics is the guy commits his time + effort and takes a majority of the suffering + sacrifice, in turn receiving an environment he controls. While he provides a safe and secure environment for his wife and kids, she turns that shitty environment into something warm, maintaining while nurtures the children. The problem lies imo when a women who's average financially,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Why does red pill give conflicting messages about what men want?Red pill has 2 sides really. Guys who want to sleep with a bunch of women then settle down with a good girl. So they enter the space to learn about female nature, advice, how to "game", picking the ideal mate, seduction, mating strategies / 2000s - early 2010s red pill concepts, "be masculine / confident and content" in an era that promote femininity etc. These guys are usually good people at heart. Outside of that original red pill rage, they don't hate women on a personal level (might hate cer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I think some people here undermine the fact that attraction can grow on an individualWell this is pretty much the debate of nature vs nurture. Repetition creates the feeling of "warming up to their appearance" and attempting to create a sense of intimate connection, but it's no the same thing. Throw one of these people into a room with someone who ticks a fair amount of their looks and mental standards, that guy she's been married to for years will be forgotten about. The "attraction can grow" narrative is solely to build to keep the nuclear family unit going which is good imo b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:08 PM |
| – | Would you say (especially in Gen z) most relationships start with sex first?Just going based off things i've experienced and seen personally. I pointed out to another commentator it's not every women, that's delusional but it's a large majority from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 07:42 AM |
| – | Would you say (especially in Gen z) most relationships start with sex first?What's your age range?? There a major difference between early gen z (pre 2019 grads) and the covid era - post covid groups. I'm the latter and it's very different to how you're describing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Did reading books improve your game?Books won't change your game / make you better but they'll change your perspective on attraction and women. You either need experience or at least 3 different role models to emulate. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Would you say (especially in Gen z) most relationships start with sex first?Women are people so it's different for every person but from personal experiences if she gets rejected, they usually just cut them off / keep current fwbs and wait until another guy comes along unless they REALLY want the guy. You only really see the second best stuff if there's 2 guys she really likes. Either way, I'd never accept that position. Also, what if someone is relatively unpopular on social media? Does that mean they get discarded as a FWB once some recreational sex has been obtained,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up?No but you need to have fun also. Don't wanna be that guy hopping from bitch to bitch in hopes of getting laid while faking fun, makes you look desperate. Drink a bit or take a small amount of drugs, find a place with music u enjoy, dance and have fun while scouting for prospects without being obvious. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Would you say (especially in Gen z) most relationships start with sex first?I'm gen z. From what I've experienced the more introverted side do it a traditional way, courting etc. Extroverted people (majority) run into someone through dating apps/party etc, hook up and If they stick around (just means dming them once a day) they go through a "talking stage", hook up again which leads to fwb. Both people usually have multiple of these fwb / "situationships" going on at the same time where they hook up and do pseudo dates. Eventually most just part ways after sex for 1 - 3… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:42 AM |
| 52 | Most things in dating that men complain about are caused by men themselvesPeak bait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.I'm fairly red pilled but making up false scenarios is loser shit. I've never met a women (or anyone for that matter) aware of that movement. It's something only know and actively spoken about by people in the male pickup circles or radfems. Stop lying and creating scenarios in your head to continue your bitterness, it won't make things better. Be red pilled to understand women nature so you can do better, go through a crazy hookup stage and find someone who genuinely desires you. Don't let it p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:49 PM |
| – | Late stage feminism leads to population collapseWe are nowhere near critical population levels. If anything it's a farming efficiency and zoning issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 12:11 PM |
| 10 | Some girls truly aren’t loyal lolBest advice is to have a list of definite no's in a partner and subtly steer the convo in those directions over a 6 month period. Make it feel like they're the ones who are willingly opening up, make them feel comforted and don't be judgemental. Women panic like crazy at the first sign of fear / abandonment. speak minimally, let her ramble and just observe. Her body language, eye movement, confident vs fearful vocal response, words she uses, does she steer the convo away from it etc Also alcohol… | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Women have more options than men in the dating game until their 50s when the game starts to shift in favor of menThe wall is the biggest cope the red pill invented. It might've worked in a mono, religious culture where divorces were frowned upon. Not in a hyper sexual culture where MILFs and fetishising sharing your middle aged wife in a cuck kink is reaching the mainstream. Don't focus on the deeper social issue of it. Just focus on yourself. Fuck the bitches u wanna fuck, find a women you love to settle down with. Don't get caught up in other peoples bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women?I'm only against extremist left positions or hyper promicious. Not interested in dating commie / socialist / marxist women. I've found most women eventually pickup your political beliefs and sometimes become a more radicalized version of yourself besides the above. Only ever ran into very vindictive and accusatory marxist types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Don't be bothered by it. It's an intended shun tactic. The same people eventually escalate to meeting anywhere outside of dating apps and clubs (places women can be incredibly harsh and picky) is creepy or whatever word they use to demonize it. The guys who usually do best don't really care when or where they approach BUT they know when to pull away. The ones who fail with relationships / getting women always follow these stupid rules and cry when that girl from the club doesn't want him even th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Has a Redpill concept ever protected or broken your heart in dating?A few Monkey branching, alpha fucks beta bux, alpha widow, keeping a masculine frame etc have saved me from terrible women and have also shown me some amazing women I've made sure not to break their heart when I bounce. A lot of the general concepts that have stuck around from it's inception to now are genuine, great advice every man should learn but there's a whole heap of shit surrounding it. 10 - 20% of red pill advice is good, remaining 80% is bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Society looks the other way a lot more with women's toxic behavior in heterosexual relationships than with men'sLook at how society treats women raping men / attempting to seduce minors and physical abuse. There's a lot of cleaning up needed on the other side | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:19 AM |
| 1 | People used to openly acknowledge that women liked assholes until Blue Pillers fabricated this whole narrative, making it a taboo subject and trying to shame people for itYes, the narrative began to shift in the late 80s - 90s when hollywood started to promote the "nerd steals the bully's girl" fantasy. Most knew it was a fantasy / wishful scenario but future generations weren't brought up in those times and started to believe it as fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 09:31 PM |
| 18 | How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game?If you're player and still chasing women for short term gains after 100 - 150 bodies, it's pathetic There's nothing more sad than being on your death bed, reflecting on the life you lived and only having experienced it from one angle. You want to live multi faceted. Have a stage of your life where it revolves around fucking multiple women, crazy degenerate sex, ONS, threesomes etc BUT also have another stage revolved around a connection to one person, deep loyalty and emotional connection. Same … | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?Nah it's not white knight to think that. Most men have these thoughts. I always view each genders ideals as this: Women want the asshole who is good only for them Men want the good girl who is bad only for them You need to be some level of asshole / non pushover in life, women respect it and follow. Assholes always win at everything. Also, you'd be surprised how reserved over 50% of women are, it's just the other 40ish% are very vocal, promiscuous and present everywhere. A lot of them commut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketYou can't deny there are a fair amount of bitter older women with age gaps but that's life. Everything is multifaceted Personally guys who are 50 yr old guys chasing 20 yr olds is weird af imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | For men, being able to shrug at rejection is paramount in datingSome and i'm genuinely happy for them but most people are fairly miserable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketHardly anything to do with OP but As an early 20s male. This age gap stuff is really bad now. I've had people (specifically women) try and insinuate that me dating an 18 year old is creepy and borderline pedophilia. Gen z is weird af about age gaps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 09:09 AM |
| 3 | For men, being able to shrug at rejection is paramount in datingMost marriages are broken, they just stay together because of the kids and/or don't want to be single. Very few are truly happy. half of them have a medical condition OR lost a job OR had a dick that stopped working Most of these are some of the top catalysts for divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:55 AM |
| 11 | For men, being able to shrug at rejection is paramount in datingIt's the best strategy for our times Contemporary relationships aren't meant to last forever and society openly advocates for divorces / cheating. Everything now ends due to cheating or boredom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?Most end up settling for someone they dislike out of desperation (baby fever) or focus on 1-2 traits that are most important to them (this is where looks > personality comes in) I do feel sad for women though. They have huge social pressures to whore around for years, destroying and cutting off anyone who genuinely cares for them under the belief prince charming will come along in their late 20s and save everything + women usually having short term, highly emotional planning. It's a scary comb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:21 AM |
| 7 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Personality means nothing if your hormones aren't firing. Sexual attraction is paramount to a relationship + from what I've seen, women (unsure if you as a group do this subconsciously or consciously) pick men based on what your friends and larger society deems to be socially acceptable at the moment. There's a reason so many want to fuck timothee chalamet built men all of a sudden. I'm not saying women lack free agency but I've noticed options tend to trend towards the above + the idea of "will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:09 AM |
| 9 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?Very few men have a well paying, respected career + height + good looks + socially sound and a good conservationist + (usually) a confident, asshole like personality but is nice to them. Those are very rare traits together and mainly cover the basis of what women want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:00 AM |
| – | The decline of the James Bond franchise shows how traditional masculine values are quickly fading into the background.traditional masculine values are valued more than ever. Most men are weak because they fell for the lie. If you pay attention to women's actions and not their words you'll see it's still alive. Most want to still be lead by a give no shits man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 09:26 AM |
| – | Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working?It's just the collapse of the old guard with sex / relationships reverting back the mean, which is 10% of men control all sex, 90% of women follow, remaining 90% of men fight for the scraps. Single mothers with multiple baby daddies aren't stigmatized socially anymore with the whole "father who stept up" narrative alongside cheating not being considered taboo and more or less expected now, in turn, leading to a major fall in willingness to commit, collapse of marriage and higher levels of divorc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 07:24 PM |
| – | What do you honestly think about 22yo male virgins?Yea understandable. Porn and hookup culture over the past decade have drastically changed what's considered normal for younger people, it's hard to grasp unless you've grown up in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:14 AM |
| – | What do you honestly think about 22yo male virgins?Do you realize that in a healthy relationship, both partners will have to teach each other? yes. We teach each other different things and bring different aspects into a relationship. That's the beauty between men and women. A man willing to learn how to please the woman he is with is a priceless attribute Yes I agree, but there's a big difference between needing to baby a man through intimacy vs learning what makes you tick. It's not some secret. Most guys are aware women don't like virgins af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:02 AM |
| – | What do you honestly think about 22yo male virgins?Men are meant to lead. No amount of social conditioning can change that, it's the basic dynamic in 99% of long lasting, healthy relationships / sexual intent. The idea of a woman needing to lead a guy, teach and baby him through sex for most is usually a major turn off from what I've seen. You can get by in ur teens because everyone's expected to be virgins, but 20s???. There's a subconscious stigma of being undesirable and unmanly in your 20s. It's more common than most would admit though, espe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 07:30 AM |
| – | What do you honestly think about 22yo male virgins?How long do you talk to a woman before asking her out? (if the vibes are good ofc) The second I have mental confirmation she's interested (we're both flirty, she's reciprocating and clearly enjoying talking to me), I usually turn the convo in that direction. Either suggest meeting up to do some 1 on 1 interest u both share but the flirting before hand will make ur intentions obvious or be direct. Don't flip flop between both and sound afraid, a lack of confidence will kill all interest (no matte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 07:14 AM |
| – | What do you honestly think about 22yo male virgins?Yea you're behind. Most of the people telling you it's fine are women, but truth be told. If any of them met a 20+ year old guy who's a virgin during a date. Instant turn off and disgust unless she's very inexperienced. Is it recoverable??? 100000%. After 25 i'd say it's genuinely late where you can't catch up in terms of sexual development and everyone around you's gone through nearly a decade of relationships and hookups. Unless u plan to hold off until marriage, i'd suggest being proactive an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 06:19 AM |
| – | What do you honestly think about 22yo male virgins?He's over exaggerting but also not wrong. We're in an era for young men where their looks matter more so than women's. You could have all the great conversations you want, be funny af etc but unless he's got that charisma to draw in women deeply that the 1% of the population has, he's gotta look his best. 9/10 that just means lean with a little bit of muscle. 3 months of work unless OP is a fatass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 06:05 AM |
| – | You're focused on the wrong qualities that are triggering her lust: He's more attractive than you because he's more masculine, not because he's an asshole.: It's that the alleged "asshole" is presenting as bold, assured, sociable, playful, outgoing, non-neurotic, and uninhibited. A.k.a. he is presenting as attractively masculine Yes these are more or less the social traits women are drawn to but you're missing the major fact criminals, murderers and people with severe mood disorders reproduce at higher rates than anyone else in the male population. Why is that? Women are hormonally drawn to assholes / violent figures. That's why serial killers a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 05:58 AM |
| – | Why are single people told not to actively pursue a relationship, and one will come to them when they least expect it? Does this ever actually happen?Yea ngl you're right. If you were past the age of 25 when covid hit it still had a huge social impact, but those age groups had years to develop social skills and with effort can rebound. Anyone under 25 got completely fucked over. Either socially stunted during the big final years of high school or the party / college years. Every house party or event (even some clubs) i've gone to post covid that's predominately those age groups is odd. Everyone hovers around the friends they came with in isol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 08:47 PM |
| – | Why are single people told not to actively pursue a relationship, and one will come to them when they least expect it? Does this ever actually happen?It's a coping mechanism to get people to calm down and avoid over exaggerating themselves on dates and constantly stressing / wasting their life. The truth lies somewhere in the middle. A high majority of women (not all) can live by the "a relationship will come to you when you least expect it!" advice and have options appear through their day to day life (friends, work, hobbies etc). For men, this is mostly false unless you're insanely rich, famous, model like looks or have a day to day perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?Young women actually prefer older men on average. It's far from uncommon to see an early 20s woman dating a late 20s - early 30s man willingly. Also current dating statistics back it up. 63% of young men are single, less than 1/3 of women are. Unless u want to assume most women are lesbians, they're dating older men. It's a right of passage of sorts for men to loose a girl they're interested in to an older guy. Women like comfort, resources and a leader so the connection makes sense also. Now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?Schrödinger's feminism "a woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered, until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most." Obviously idk her life but here's what usually happens During the younger years, i'd bet older men make her feel wanted (empowered) and probably entertained, agreed with said maturity comments + enjoyed the fruits of it like most young women do. While considering ideas of it being abusive or manipulative as "jealous old women" She's now reach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?But criticizing women who focus on dating older is out of the question i'm guessing??? a lot of the grown women who go for older men are the same women who would go for their father if they were allowed to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 06:12 AM |
| – | The gender divide has become undeniable , can anything be done to solve this?yea, you can mix and match anyone in these situations and it'll still work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Casual Sex: Popularity of straight-up paying "civilian" single women for sex?So prostitution??? Don't need to type a whole essay for this lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:20 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about MGTOW and WGTOW?Better for people to go that way than become raging incels but it does paint how decayed society is. Movements like these getting that big isn't a great sign | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:17 PM |
| -1 | Would you LTR/marry a woman who has had an abortion?No, because of Telegony and Microchimerism For the sake of society I hope that never goes mainstream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:16 PM |
| – | I think the issue with dating is not that the good people get snatched up first, but rather that they’re more likely to get hurt and give up on datingThe dog eat dog world is due to social media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:04 PM |
| – | The gender divide has become undeniable , can anything be done to solve this?Most women can obtain resources themselves, businesses are hiring more women on average to fill quotas and women are outperforming men in their age brackets. Most young women are fine with remaining single, have easy access to sex, easy access to bonds through friendships / companionship and any form of loneliness can be drowned out with the millions of hours of entertainment avaliable. The only use for men now is to reproduce or fulfill a social urge to form a relationship. The latter (as we al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 05:36 PM |
| 11 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?They get called bitches by women in private but if a man states the same or society at large, it's misogynism / internal misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 07:05 AM |
| 0 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Cake and eat it too scenario. This has and will always be women's biological desire to be either the submissive and dominant roles depending on the situation and whichever outcome will grant the best outcome. It's why most women expect me to pay and lead most parts of the relationship (submissive) but flip masculine when and dominant when it's regarding housework, what you can spend money on etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse?you need to be vulnerable in order to form a close relationship and humans need close relationships in order to survive def vet and wait until you trust someone to be vulnerable with them, maybe start small before disclosing things you are very sensitive about. if women react badly to it they are shitty human beings. This doesn't work and it doesn't make women shitty human beings. It's a very natural response due to men needing to be the rock in their wife's life. I've seen this scenario play … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 06:22 PM |
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