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This usually means you’re not good at it.
/r/seduction27/05/26 02:06 PM
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If they’re good at it they do. To what degree do you enjoy doing something in relation to how good at it you are? It should be said though, the better the partner the more enjoyable as well.
/r/seduction27/05/26 02:05 PM
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There are plenty more than just one “weirdo”. I’ve encountered many in the kink scene that like to be left bruised and whipped etc. Though she’s the only one I’ve ever met who wanted CNC without ever meeting me first, which I considered very brave and unusual. She was extremely well adjusted, and had high paying engineer job at a huge tech company that everyone has heard of. You would never suspect this about her at all, nor many of the other women I’ve been with who like more extreme play. Many…
/r/seduction22/05/26 09:34 PM
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Rape play. It’s extra special intense when it’s with someone you’ve never met, dont even know their name, and they give you their address at 11pm on a school night.
/r/seduction22/05/26 07:25 PM
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Online Dating…. Consensual Non Consent. PSA: Take screen shots of everything if solicited.
/r/seduction22/05/26 06:54 PM
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These are all different women, I married one of them.
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:50 PM
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Puts the elevator at work on emergency stop to blow you. Moves into your neighborhood and runs by your house everyday to keep tabs on you. Offers to roll out your sore muscles on the floor with foam rollers, leaves room comes back in when you’re laying on the floor in her fitness model bikini and heels. When you get up to leave, she punches you in the face and tries to start blowing you before you even know what happened. Does her most popular strip routine from her exotic dancer days to Black S…
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:27 PM
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10s are toxic narcissists who are deeply insecure because they’re personalities suck and they have no character, and issues with men in general. The second they feel too weak, too unloved, too threatened, or insecure enough they compensate by turning to what reliably sustains and reinforces their ego… sexual attention from other men. So if you give them any emotional leverage it will be a game of Russian roulette with a gun pointed at your head the whole time. Don’t give her enough attention, lo…
/r/seduction19/05/26 02:08 PM
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I dunno bruv. Sounds like you have some social awkwardness issues. I would suggest alcohol or other substances like marijuana to loosen your inhibitions and social hangups.
/r/seduction04/05/26 04:09 PM
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Well there’s your first problem. You’re a virgin. I don’t know how old you are, so don’t get all upset, if you’re under 25. You need to go out and just get laid, and that’s not gonna happen only talking to 8s who are your friends, unless you’re a 10. But You’re a 5, so you need to start talking to 3s and 4s while doing everything you can to be a 6/7. Be friends with girls who are 2 points below you. Start there. Then have sex with one. Then you will start to learn about what sex is, and how to t…
/r/seduction04/05/26 03:44 PM
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What do you rate yourself honestly 1-10 physically? If you’re a 6, find a 4 with one physical feature you can objectify, like a butterface with great tits. Just so long as you’re clearly a step up for her, and you have one thing you can focus on her, that will make you hard. Sounds shitty but it’s an exercise and not meant to turn into a relationship, or even actual sex. Just a successful flirtation. A thought experiment manifestation. Talk to this 4 about anything, in a fun way, if she starts s…
/r/seduction04/05/26 03:24 PM
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It’s having an ongoing conversation with someone about anything, and having it being enjoyable and fun. The only difference is with flirting, it’s with someone where both parties find each other physically attractive enough to fuck. So if you’re ugly and or socially retarded flirting probably seems tough. If you can have a fun conversation with another dude, and can also find a woman uglier than you who would consider you physically attractive by her standards, then you can at least find a woman…
/r/seduction04/05/26 02:53 PM
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I’m a 7 on my best day. Usually a 5. I could get a roster in 3 months of 8s. Muscles etc are last on their list. Funny Fun Style Social Confident Then your face Then how you fuck. After the first 2 on the list they’ll sleep with you, if you get high points on the last one on the list, they’ll fall in love with you.
/r/seduction01/05/26 02:22 PM
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You can learn just as much sexually and about game with women at your level or below. Women are women, and have the same feelings and needs. Pro sports players have to play in smaller leagues to get the skills same goes for anything else. Then eventually you will have learned how to socialize, and fuck like a Swiss Army knife and the opportunity will come where you will know just what to say to a baddie, and how to be the fuck of her life, and she will be wrapped around your finger not even sure…
/r/seduction31/03/26 05:12 PM
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This. But then make sure you make them cum multiple times and they have fun. That’s how you get a roster going.
/r/seduction12/03/26 03:22 AM
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French people say disgusting A LOT, for a lot of different contexts. If the whole description wasn’t first prefaced with the fact he was French I would have read it a different way. The French aren’t necessarily wrong either. And negging is still talked about in here especially when women ask about male behavior. Like “was he trying to create psychological tension”?
/r/seduction26/02/26 01:37 AM
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Maybe. He still had sex with the other woman, so couldn’t have been that disgusting. Are you a man? Have you ever lived in France? Know lots of French people? I am, I did, and I do.
/r/seduction26/02/26 01:27 AM
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I read “disgusting” as “ridiculous” not literally disgusting. Like comparing the roller coasters you’ve each been on at an amusement park and calling the drop on one vs the other disgusting. But then again I guess I just approach sex and talk of it through a more carefree lens. My bad, I shouldn’t expect that in a seduction sub, where negging is a common strategy.
/r/seduction26/02/26 01:18 AM
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Or maybe he’s just a man and French and thinks sex and the female body is fun to talk about without an American frame of shame or competitiveness. I once dated a girl who on our second date joyously showed me the plaster cast of her last boyfriend’s giant cock that she knew was significantly bigger than mine. She also showed me her favorite porn of Rocco Sefredi fucking a girl on a stair case and verbally degrading her. My immediate reaction wasn’t insecurity about my dick size, my less filthy s…
/r/seduction26/02/26 12:01 AM
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She stops chasing that’s more time with the rest of the roster.
/r/seduction25/02/26 05:26 PM
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Who TF even wants this? Herpes wants this. It’s better to have a roster of 6 quality women you can escalate with kinkier and more novel sex, and slowly cycle through and renew them if they get jealous and cranky. Real players, prefer top shelf over numbers, learn their bodies, keep them horny and hungry for more, sharing you, and often times even at the same time.
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:58 PM
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This isn’t true. Her looks threshold changes over time and or is informed by her previous life experience. For example: Shes fucked a guy who’s a model but left her traumatized or emotionally devastated, then an emotionally intelligent woman will adjust her “threshold”, which is basically the definition of maturing. So if you can increase your status you can still bag women way better looking than you. Most of what OP says is true, but EVERYTHING is context specific especially for women. So it’s…
/r/seduction01/08/24 04:25 AM
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Took a date to a secluded spot on a white sand emerald water beach, laid down inside a makeshift fort made out of huge chunks of driftwood… She’s lying next to me in her bikini, I find a bright green dragonfly that’s weirdly frozen but alive and lets me pick it up. She’s finishes her third freezy pop I’ve spiked with high proof rum, and a bit tipsy, and not creeped out but intrigued by the large gleaming winged bug. Holding its tail, I start to caress her nipples through her bikini top with the …
/r/seduction11/06/24 04:38 AM
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Over 30+ years of experience, my body has made little to no difference. My age, experience, demeanor, career, and partner have made all the difference. Even your clothes have far more of an impact than your body. Age: At 30 suddenly all the women in their 20s became far easier to date, as well as the women in their 30s. Experience: The more partners I dated the better I got at everything from conversation, to life experience to share, to sex. Demeanor: Add the first 2, and I became more confiden…
/r/seduction21/03/24 09:35 PM
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Over 30 years, my body has had little to no bearing. My age, experience, demeanor, career, and even my bi-partner have made all the difference.
/r/seduction21/03/24 09:27 PM
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Big cities. Washington, DC is crawling with single ladies who went to good schools, speak multiple languages, and make more money than you, while flying around the country and the world for work.
/r/seduction29/01/24 05:25 PM
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Came here to say this. You have a ton of personal growth to do. Try being single for awhile and stabilizing your hormones, dopamine, serotonin, etc being alone, before even trying to pick up women. Then try to meet women in a normal setting that’s not designed to exploit you. Right now you’re radioactive, your experience and confidence are super low, and the last place you want to be is a strip club.
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:18 PM
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Watch “Don Jon”.
/r/seduction30/08/22 03:51 PM
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I say define slept with? Intercourse? Oral? Men really don’t count? If she gets uncomfortable, she’s not for me.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:28 PM
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I started in preschool.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:58 PM
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CrossFit, or group exercise, you can be social and it not be creepy.
/r/seduction22/07/22 03:39 PM
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Look at this way. You’re sudden approach… is on par with a random salesperson trying to sell you a Bible or Timeshare while you’re trying to watch your favorite show or game, and have 5 salespeople a day pitch you. At the bare minimum, unless you take even 5 minutes (within a semi appropriate context) to start and maintain a halfway stimulating conversation for her, you’re just bugging the shit out of her, and putting her in the awkward position of telling you to fuck off without hurting your fe…
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:49 PM
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You’re 24, girls around you are girls. They are too immature to know better.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:18 PM
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Of course life is easier if you’re good looking, duh. Women have the same reality when it comes to attracting men. If you go through life bitching about it being unfair rather than improving yourself, you are opting out of life and gonna have a bad time in everything you do. There are lots of men who are with women much better looking then them, and there are good looking men who are alone and can’t get dates. The unifying factor is a good personality and character.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:15 PM
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All those years of BS PUA clowns and hotel workshops summed up in one sentence. Be confident and don’t be a loser.
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:21 PM
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Thankyou. Half of celebrity “relationships” are BS for publicity.
/r/seduction18/02/22 07:40 AM
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Now I know why I never comment on this sub anymore, it’s 15 year old boy level maturity. For the record there are women who are “slutty”, who are also good mothers, have great careers, and love adventurous sex while having it with their “6 figure” making husbands. There are dudes on OF fucking their wives with 3,4,5 other women at a time, and men if they happen to like that too. Seems like a good deal to me. If OP thinks that means she’s is a “slut” that OP has a very basic understanding of huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:25 PM
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One mans “slut”, is another mans treasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:35 AM
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Male, 6 figures here, I’d marry a slut, especially an attractive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:43 AM
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Learn to dance! It’s a club, context is everything with women.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:32 AM
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Context is everything with women. Adapt to the context. If it’s a club learn to dance, if you’re good then women will dance with you on the floor without ever having to approach them. One night I started dancing by myself in a group, a gorgeous girl liked my moves and started dancing with me, then another girl saw that and started dancing with me, later I saw both of them outside in the courtyard area, chatted them both up, went home with one, got the number of the other, and went to her place t…
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:29 AM
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Depends on your maturity and confidence levels. If you start a career in your early 20s, by the time you’re in your late 20s - early 30s should be your prime. But even your early 40s can be better, so long as you take care of yourself.
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:39 PM
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Ok. I read some of your comment history, and it’s not surprising you have a conservative bent and are a frequent poster in FDS. I never said money was the only factor to a high value male. He is far more multifaceted than that. Fucking duh. Your litmus test for “ethical bent” can be interpreted in any number of ways. Most truly multifaceted “high value” men will have more progressive democratic partnership values towards women, and be willing to share in things like doing the fucking dishes. Big…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:33 AM
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Men who look like Superman and aren’t famous do get approached. It’s just usually more subtle. In causal settings (WHERE SHE IS NOT OBLIGATED TO TALK TO YOU), they will full on smile at you, make prolonged eye contact, start conversations with you, double back and re-engage if the conversation ends. I once worked at an independent video store, and numerous times had women call the store after leaving and ask me out on the phone based on the conversation and advice I gave them on movie rentals. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:19 PM
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I’ve lived in, and dated gen z and millennial single career women in high income destination cities all over the country and the world; and I was never really referring to the issue of marriage. I’ve dated women who worked in high level marketing for major tech and media companies, posed in playboy and numerous other publications, national television correspondents, international travel nurses, a Harvard grad gynecologist/roller girl, a Thai fashion model, many with family money.... and while no…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:13 PM
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I’m 5 seconds away from unfollowing “pill subs” especially this one. I just can’t anymore with these delusional mass generalizations, and sexist scapegoating of women because of lazy misanthropic social disfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:49 PM
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I live in a big city too, 6 figures standard, I make it, travel internationally for work, blah blah blah. What men and women want to commit or to just have a fuck, depends highly on what their age, family and personal wealth is, as well as their standards. Nice generalizing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:54 PM
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Men do the same thing bro. Man becomes rich, trades in wife his age for newer younger hotter wife. It’s not exclusive behavior to women, it’s human. If you can’t figure out and accept that making yourself as valuable as your partner and staying as valuable as your partner is the rule of the game for both sexes then you will never have a relationship. It’s simple market math. If you don’t like the game fine, then don’t play it, but don’t blame the black checkers over the white checkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:23 PM
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You’re supposed to be improving yourself for yourself, and the love of the thing itself, and for life first and foremost... not women. If your attitude is that the primary motivation to improve yourself, is for a woman’s approval or access to sex, that’s the first big issue right there. You lack a lust for life, and have only a lust for approval and pussy. Women are attracted to men they admire. Generally, unlike men they are attracted through their minds/context, BEFORE or in conjunction with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:14 PM
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Speaking of generational schadenfreude. Check out @middleclassfancy on IG, it’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:57 PM
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Yes exactly and OLD is a shit place to look for love. It’s tone deaf, and shallow by nature. If you’re a guy with physical handicaps short, ugly, whatever, you’re gonna need to step up other virtues like resource potential and personality. That’s just life man. Women have to do it too if they’re ugly. And the problem with OLD is it’s much harder to show those other virtues vs a picture, because as they say a picture tells a thousand words. So OLD makes people lazier and shallower and more misera…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:44 PM
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They all make arguments out of nothing. It’s just a self pity party. I can give countless examples of unattractive men with superior looking wives, and very few examples of the reverse. Including my own friends. In fact the male obsession and emphasis on looks around sex, is exactly the thinking they themselves are demonstrating so forcefully by arguing that women are just as shallow around looks. Gay men take better physical care of themselves than straight men precisely because they are trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:33 PM
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Send me a link? I’ll wait. I’ve got more examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:17 PM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6566897/Disabled-man-able-bodied-girlfriend-document-relationship-vlogs.html And incidentally just has dinner with my 19 year old cousin she is one of the best looking in the family. We always talk about how gorgeous she is, and is also one of the smartest in the family, and she has had several boyfriends many of which match her hot looks, she has new boyfriend now who I met tonight and I learned who she finally gave her virginity to. His name is Sam, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:52 AM
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I meant both men and women are shallow, but men are shallower, at least in terms of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:51 AM
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Do you prefer women with big perfect boobs? Do you still find women with other great features and a flat chest attractive? Does an attractive flat chested women have other ways of getting you off, with her mouth, hands, etc? If a flat chested woman was amazing in bed, and the perfect girlfriend in every other way would you care about her chest? If flat chested girlfriend was the perfect girlfriend, amazing in bed, but ashamed of her chest and never wanted to to take her shirt off especially duri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:34 PM
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I never said women don’t get as horny. It’s how they get to horny. There are countless women who have had bad sex with romance novel athletic looking dudes. And there are plenty of women who have had their worlds rocked by a man who is not conventionally attractive. There are countless ugly musicians who are fawned over by women. How do you explain the fact that I am a 40 year old dude with a dad bod, a much younger objectively hot GF, we have an open relationship, I can easily meet young “hot 7…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:39 AM
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Women like sex, just in a far far different way then men. I shouldn’t have to explain the obvious. The overwhelming majority of porn is consumed by men. Proof? There are “gonewild” subs with naked dudes and their cocks out, and the overwhelming comments/compliments are gay or Bi men, not women. If women wanted and related to sex and looks the same way men did, any naked pics of men on Reddit would be filled with female commenters begging for DM’s just like men do to nude female pics. And OF woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:19 AM
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I think we have our first attack👆🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:55 AM
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There is plenty of impotent rage in here regardless. Of course women and men are attracted to conventionally attractive features over less attractive ones. But, the fact remains women are more flexible when it comes to what they will accept as “attractive“ when they partner. There are far more many doors available to “physically ugly” men to walk through to a more attractive woman’s heart and body, if he just takes the time and effort to work on himself enough to get the other keys to the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:30 AM
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The men are bitching about not be able to get easy, plentiful, casual sex. Women can get that, but want actual good sex with a decent guy. The men can’t understand what that means to a woman, and why. And the men resent the women for being able to get sex casually and not liking it when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:34 PM
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Exactly. Even that group of guys taught you social skills which benefit you in terms of relating to women and humanity in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:23 PM
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Politics and their minutia bore people. Because being good informed citizen is work. So just because one candidate is more charming, and the other makes you feel nothing it dislike him, voting in feelings is not a good way to vote. Wether of not it feels good to murder people is debatable. As crazy as that sounds it’s about context, social conditioning, and an individuals culture. We are animals after all and it’s within our chemical makeup to kill and it can feel exhilarating. Why do you think …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:17 PM
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I’m glad your “body count” has gone up old boy. You’re still mass generalizing women. If you are saying that women are more attracted to pictures that show you are handsome and healthy, and fun, then well.... DUUUUUUH! ALL people are, not just women. But long term success, that goes beyond just getting a first date, past some sex, is far more complicated then your looks or the job you have, especially when it comes to women. I’m sorry if my previous posts were tinged with exasperation towards th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:03 PM
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Your first paragraph... The fact that you think that women are something that could be analyzed, computed, and hacked into compliance with rigid technocratic ideas about sex and romance, will be obvious to most women. You don’t have to literally have text books and a notepad out at dinner, it will permeate from your personality if it’s what you actually believe. Women sense these things, they are attuned to it. Sure sign of lack of orgasms to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:03 PM
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Truth. That’s the part where I said “if you leave the house they’re still tethered to the alternate reality dopamine dispenser”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:37 PM
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OMG it’s like The Shimmer from “Annihilation”, the spectrum is so strong it permeates your DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:57 PM
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Of course it existed. But you grew up in a time and went to college in a time where it was harder to socially isolate. So you and others were pushed together by external factors that gave everyone better social skill, and made them happier, and more successful adults long term. Nowadays you can stay home, hold down a job, masturbate, and even get groceries without ever having to use your imagination, leave the fucking house, or see another human. And if you leave the house you are still tethered…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:48 PM
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You are giving too much context, nuance, and holistic analysis. It won’t compute, will... break... 🤖incel...processor💥
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:34 PM
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Exactly. How many voters actually vote for the hard facts and cold analysis of political issues. They all vote for the politician with the rhetoric. They even followed Hitler and it wasn’t just women. EMOTION is just as important if not more so than hard cold analysis. But the monkeys in here are all tone deaf, and tormented by the very thing they pretend to be superior to. VAGINA!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:16 PM
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No, no, no! It takes instincts! Not “Analysis and investigation”... that’s the exact thing that repels women. Yes of course women are attracted to physical features, HUMANS ARE, but unlike men, physical features are not a priority especially for more mature women. And mature can be 25 or 45 depending on the woman. Women are holistic you robot. Sex and attraction for them is about context, not just the individual parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:11 PM
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Just for the record. I’m nowhere near a boomer, those are my parents. I’m not even solidly Gen X, I was born right on the line between Millennial and Gen X. My partner is 8 years younger than me and she is a “millennial”. We are not having kids, but if we did we wouldn’t let them touch social media. Watch “The Social Dilemma” on Netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:04 PM
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That’s a good plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:41 AM
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Welcome! I was an early Reddit advocate well over a decade ago. It’s changed a lot, gotten better and worse in different ways, but it can be very useful if you curate it well. I’d steer clear of the negative feedback loops like the pill subs though. If you’re looking for sex and relationship advice, there are superior subs. I’d still recommend getting outside and traveling more than anything. I will admit tik tok is fun though, and people are so creative in there. It’s too fun though, addicting …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:40 AM
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Plenty of people my age have social media. We just remember a time before social media and the internet. And I agree it’s boring me too. I deleted my Facebook account a few months back and haven’t missed it, and I’ve had FB since 2008. I only got back on Reddit recently after 10 years off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:08 AM
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🌳🏠🔥🍆🍑💦...to flirt with the sad parlance of our times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:10 PM
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LOL! I always liked the name Jason, so epic voyagey. Sadly I’m not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:09 PM
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I know! I was a latchkey kid too. I used to masturbate over the phone together with girls from the neighborhood at 12 fucking years old after talking for 5 hours until 2am. We would then meet in a treehouse in the woods and have oral sex. I had a fucking oral 3some with two “preppy” neighborhood girls when we were 13, after I snuck into their tent at their backyard sleep over once. We planned it over the phone together and their parents had no idea. My first friend was the literal girl next door…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 06:27 PM
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Are you telling me you still haven’t developed some instincts? To this day you still avoid people and are single? Hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:12 PM
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Most people aren’t born handsome, pretty or rich, but in the 80s nerdy kids still had to learn to thrive in the real actual world while using their actual words face to face. That’s how instinct is developed, there is no instinct development through text messages on the internet and phone. It’s tone deaf one dimensional half speak. Imagine “The Breakfast Club” with smart phones, they would have all just sat there on their phones, learning nothing of each other, and there would have been no movie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:29 AM
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This is it in a nutshell. I too am 42. My experience was much like OP’s, but I never took the PUA stuff seriously, as most of it I already learned on instinct, and when I got lonely, I went out and just found a girl using the social skills which I learned in actual fucking life. And the red pill shit is just tragic. The difference is people our age didn’t have technology like social media and the internet, that makes you feel like you’re socializing, living, and learning about human nature and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:10 AM
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“We have tested this” LOL! 👆🏻Autist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:12 PM
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Creativity implies abstract, figurative, and holistic thinking. The opposite of literal mechanical thinking. Neither kind is right or wrong, both are good and a balance is needed. In general by nature women think and feel more figuratively/holistically, men think more literally/mechanically. NATURE seeks balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:11 PM
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Preach sister! I’ve been saying this for months on these pill subs. I’ve never been a musician but many of my friends are, and I’m a photographer. My job has taken me all over the world for the last 20 years, where I have to meet new people, from celebrities, to gang members, to presidents, and I have to not just be sociable and likable, but put them at ease within minutes of meeting them to have them let me photograph them. SHOCKINGLY I’ve always had fabulous success with women and I’m not a “C…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:49 PM
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🎻
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:17 PM
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They’re called musicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:42 PM
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That’s some hard core science right there!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:33 AM
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See thouwontthrowaway below.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:41 AM
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You’re my perfect example. Spend the next 30 years learning nothing about sex, yourself, women, and life for that matter, because you won’t have sex with a cougar or single mom. There is more to sex and pleasure, then genetics, looks, age etc. If you actually grew as a person with grace and maturity you would open your mind and love and enjoy more about life as a whole. At least women in general think about life and sex more holistically. No offense dude but you’re a misanthrope, and you’re miss…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:40 AM
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At 5’4 120lbs, sense of humor or not, there are plenty of women who will fuck that guy. Problem is that guy doesn’t seem to have realistic adjustment of his own standards. If one goes through life with an over inflated sense of their own value, and expecting more than they are worth themselves, that’s a recipe for cognitive dissonance. Problem is not your size or whatever, problem is your willingness to adjust your own standards, attitude, humility, and to accept market dynamics. You can trade a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:26 PM
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Bi sexual guy here. All relationships male and female, are eventually work. Key is eventually. In the beginning, the honeymoon period, is the easy fun part. For many people “wining, and dining, and romancing” is fun, not work. The big magic trick is enjoying those activities. And “wining and dining” is just a term, it could be video games and pizza, or whatever feels romantic because both partners enjoy it and each other. It’s not supposed to feel like work, until you have done it so much with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:52 PM
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Oh my god this is complete bullshit. It’s not because she is more afraid of scrawny creepy guy’s dick or seed, than she is big strong rapist’s. Like... “oh if I get pregnant and raped at least this guy is better looking and has better genes!” She is afraid of both men. Because both men can over power her physically. What she is most afraid of, and attuned to as a female, is either mans emotional and mental health, and his subsequent capacity to snap, rape, attack, or even kill her. “Men are afra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:51 AM
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I wasn’t referring to all people on this sub as damaged, or even just this sub. I was referring to all the pill subs. Specifically the extreme red ones male and female centered. And damaged may have been a harsh term, let’s say jaded. I don’t disagree that men and women are fundamentally different especially when it comes to sex, but they are far more alike then different in general. And how either gender experiences sex with one person or many, has more to do with context, their environment, th…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 02:04 AM
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This is mostly nonsense. People are individuals. I don’t care if my woman has slept with 50 guys or 5, what I do care about is the quality of her overall character. Her heart, her mind, her career, and yes how good she is in bed. And how many people you have slept with does not reflect upon your character if the sex was done for the right reasons, in the right context, and helped you grow as a person. There may be people who have slept with tons of partners male or female, and are also emotional…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 11:04 PM
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It’s not just about being ugly or “Beta”, it’s also about being conservative, inexperienced, or immature sexually. This factor is huge and wildly over looked because its a huge part of puritanical American culture. People are ashamed to admit they are adolescent level around sex physically and emotionally. Conservatives and Christians are even proud of it as a virtue. And high “n counts” are assumed slutty or whatever in a man or woman. And sex is used and sold as a commodity to be either protec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:00 AM
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I’m an “8” on my best day, my female partner was a model “physical Stacy”, and is on the spectrum, but most wouldn’t know it, so she is your “borderline” on the spectrum (it’s called high functioning). I think you’re both right. It’s common knowledge that women on the spectrum cope better then men do who are on the spectrum, because women are more social creatures in general. They have to be, it’s a feature of being the weaker sex. Men are held to a higher standard in terms of personality over l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:29 PM
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From what I can surmise from this sub, and my own experiences as a man. Men tend to resent women for the ease in which women can get/have sex, the thing that men crave like food, but requires consent from the woman (in civil society), and an elaborate dance of seduction on the mans part. Additionally the average man if he’s not very handsome, has to work even harder to acquire sex. Further still, men tend to resent the amount of resources women can acquire simply from their sexual attractiveness…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:39 AM
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I wasn’t referring to you bro, relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:35 AM
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Women ARE more selective. Meaning they look for more than just looks. Despite what most of the mopey misogynists on here think, they stand a much better chance getting with an attractive woman then gay man. They just need to have more going for them, like personality, job, interesting, good in bed etc. So I’m saying it’s been easier for me, because I can talk my way into a smart attractive woman’s bed easier than a man. It’s all relative to who your chasing. Most men who are hot are just looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:58 PM
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Bi guy here, can confirm. It has always been easier to hook up with objectively hotter women then men. Women at least the ones with a maturity above sorority level, look for more then just looks and even prioritize character in sexual partners more than men do. Most men know they can orgasms most of the time, and are far less scared of being assaulted then most women. Most women’s orgasms are coin toss and heavily dependent on the mans performance and willingness to meet their needs, courtesy et…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:51 PM
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You don’t see Reddit flooded with ONLY FANS full of penis. Vaginas are the first commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 02:48 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:02 PM
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Most men are totally fine with sex recreationally, while most women not so much. Men will have sex just for the experience, to learn a new trick or to get off. Because most men can get off pretty easy, while most women can’t cum from intercourse alone. Throw in the fact that most men suck at oral and knowing how to get a woman off, and have fragile egos, and can over power and assault most women, or impregnate them; women should naturally be more cautious. The risks vs reward equation is much di…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:49 PM
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Is this same behavior in a man abhorrent to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:49 PM
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It’s bullshit. The only real difference between men and women, is physical strength, and the fact that on whole, men tend to want to have sex much more often and more RECREATIONALLY then women. This is due to inherent biological differences, that create different risk/reward equations for men vs women. Any other differences are on account of individuality among humans. All you have to do is look at gay couple patterns to see how the genders self select behavior when not in a hetero paradigm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:21 PM
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They look pretty much the same as low value males. Next question?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:47 PM
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It’s just like polling. Context is everything, are they choosing from speed dating, or are they choosing from spending a day together?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:08 PM
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It doesn’t work that way. If your good at sex and smart, funny, successful, the women catch the feels and try to make you a partner then playtime is over. Meanwhile Chad just saunters in and out NSA.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 04:03 AM
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Liberals want legal fair sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:52 AM
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Hey buddy, it’s not the liberal crowd you have to blame for trying to censor porn and prostitution, it’s the religious conservative crowd. If any thing it’s liberal values that bring you more porn and prostitution. Maybe what your complaining about is increased efforts to make sex work, safer to the worker, as well as more appealing to female sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 07:02 PM
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The same questions can be asked for just about any mainstreamed socially “mandated” behavior. Why is “Fuck” a bad word and why can’t we say it? Why do we have to wear shoes in a business? What are manners really for anyway? Why can’t I dress and look like tekashi69 and not be hired by most companies in a job interview? Why do I have to make eye contact while in a conversation? Why can’t a chew with my mouth open and belch loudly and frequently without scorn and judgement? Culture. Part of the bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:42 PM
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It’s called maturing, while the immature call it “settling”. Both men and women adopt this behavior. The older you get, the more you will hopefully realize how to best play the cards you’re dealt. Or just try to cheat with PUA BS, or don’t play them at all, while bitching about the game itself watching from the sidelines, and dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:19 PM
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For god sakes thank you this! Unless every person has total individual freedom sexually, financially, romantically, who also incidentally don’t age, which is of course impossible; then everyone settles in some respect at some point. Most people “settle” in a multitude of ways. Everyone is constantly consciously and unconsciously sizing up their mates for a whole multitude of sexual and social value, and that’s to be expected, it’s human. The only thing that turns me off is when a partner’s “SMV”…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:11 PM
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This comment is sadly funny to hear. Just wait 10-15 more years of post-capitalist plutocratic rule, the US will follow Europe. This statistic already exists in the US in many minority communities, what you think won’t happen in the US, is that happening to most white people. It’s coming that’s what Trump was all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:10 AM
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Grow your character and others will see it. Learning about having to giving up that dream that was sold to you by Hollywood and Capitalism, that’s called growing up. Life is fucking hard for everyone, but the right woman will be the greatest ally you have in life, but you half to be willing to meet them at least half way with some character that you earn yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:04 AM
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After a date rape, and or numerous sexual encounters with no orgasms from Chad xyz, then countless other lesser non Chads, they eventually meet a dude who considers them a person instead of a program, and he finally makes them cum. Then they catch the feels for that dude and or settle, or completely readjust their dating radar. I know plenty of hot women who look at profiles on sites full of chads with their abs out and swipe left. But I guess we are exclusively talking about teens and 20’s basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 07:47 PM
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The men in here are hopeless. Whatever buddy, it’s got nothing to do with how educated you are. Good luck at the incel self pity party, and attributing human nature exclusively to “AWALT”. Both men and women are attracted to beauty, but they are also attracted to lots of other things too like confidence and positivity. One thing people are universally not attracted to is self pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 07:40 PM
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I didn’t finish college. I met my current GF of 11 years now. Up until 3 years ago she made more than me, we both had careers, not jobs. Hers right of college mine 10 years in, same career at the time. Since we first met I’ve traveled all over the country following her career, since she was starting out, then she changed her career halfway to one that doesn’t make so much money, and now makes less than me, while I made it to the top of my career, so now I make more. Also, she’s objectively hot, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:34 PM
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Yeah there’s a lot of shit people in the world. There are also lots of good ones. Improve yourself and Hang out with different ones if this is your only experience. Try using the word “people” in place of “women” from now on, and it might help you reframe and focus more on yourself and your own real positive improvement. Also read a book. Lots of them, like classic works of literature about romance and intrigue, rather than shit self help hack crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:55 AM
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The key here fellas. Is high school. The girls were dumb kids, if they actually grew up, matured, and had a rich life experience, and success as an independent woman, as many do... they will have no doubt learned there’s more to a good partner than just looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:55 AM
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There is truth to this foreign lands thing. I had a friend who while physically attractive enough was pretty much autistic when it came to talking to women. He moved to Thailand for like 6 years, learned the language, upped his social and SMV through location, and after he fucked girls for money enough, and got comfortable with the act of sex, he learned I can actually have a GF. Then he learned with a real Thai GF how to relate to a girl as a person rather than an object, obstacle, or puzzle. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:15 AM
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Sir, I’m calm, I’m perfectly calm. AND I WANT A DOUBLE STACK, DIET COKE, I REPEAT DIIIIIIIIET COKE!!!.... also a large chili please.... BUT DON’T FORGET THE FUCKING CRACKERS THIS TIME!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 12:57 AM
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I'm not pointing out the number of partners I've had to brag, merely to demonstrate some empirical life experience. I'm not a "Chad" and never will be, I'm average if maybe a little above average looking. But I have spent the better part of 35 years enriching myself in countless ways, and I have been able to cultivate relationships with lots of people male and female, sexually and otherwise, who were above my "lot in life", because I was interesting and passionate about interesting things. And I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:37 PM
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Jesus Christ. Women are NOT ALL THE SAME! A woman who ignores the guy who actually improves himself vs a hook up with a “chad”, is inexperienced, immature and a shit woman. Just because she is objectively hot does not make her worth fucking, or even a good lay. You can get nearly the same physical sensation or much better by staying at home and jerking off to an endless stream of better looking women with porn. The “chad” girl is shit if she is shallow and unable to distinguish between physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 08:18 PM
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80/20 means fuck all without context. Trying to quantify in silly ratio rules, the complexity of human attractions is stupid as fuck. Single one night stand type hookups tilt towards looks, while considering mates for partnerships involve far more complex and diverse exchanges of an individuals objective value intrinsic to the individual, male or female, doesn’t matter. Guy could be short, but a millionaire, who is funny as shit and great in bed. He will get plenty of sex and potential partners …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:57 AM
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