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I have given up on talking to anyone about it. To others it all seems that it happened since February, oh that’s a long time already. You should be feeling better, so far from the truth. Thanks for sharing your experience. Good luck to you too
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 09:33 PM
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I like that idea of having a funeral for it. Thanks for sharing
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 09:15 PM
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Thanks for sharing this
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 06:07 PM
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Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 05:50 PM
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That was the most difficult part, being made to feel like the bad guy because you want her to at least do something, not just sit, watch TV, play with her cat all day, or be on her phone. I didn’t mention this earlier, but I think her parents did her a disservice by not letting her grow up. Last year I was in military training, and I couldn’t communicate for 2 months. During this time, she was supposed to graduate from college but she couldn’t because she somehow couldn’t find the motivation to …
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 12:26 AM
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lol
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 09:18 PM
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I have a couple of attorney friends, and that was the first thing they all said. That I am lucky I don’t have kids with her
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 08:23 PM
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I think she is convinced she will get alimony, hence she got a lawyer (probably money from her parents to pay fees). My attorney doesn’t think she will be awarded alimony either. It has all been a mess, I honestly don’t know where she is getting advice from, or if she knows what she is doing and is just trying to make things difficult for me
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 08:12 PM
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This is true
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 07:54 PM
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I was 25 and she was 23 at the time we got married. My experience has left a sour taste in my mouth, I don’t know if I want to do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 07:44 PM
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They often think it’s greener on the other side, until they get there.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/25 12:51 PM
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Damn, she was subtle. Almost got us lol
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 02:43 PM
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Women are definitely more social, and their circle of influence can really affect their decisions, couldn’t agree more on that. I think that can be said of men too, regarding their circle of influence. Both genders need to be more aware of how this can influence their decisions. This can be tied to how people’s decisions are influenced when they spend too much time on certain contents on social media as well
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 02:23 PM
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The safety of the law in dividing assets 50/50 when in most cases it’s all being the husband’s hard work. Of course there are cases where the women deserves that because they assist immensely in other ways. However, there are cases where the husbands work their asses off outside and inside house. And the woman just tags along and enjoys being taken care off, she gets 50/50 when she eventually gets bored of it all and files for a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 02:12 PM
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I had a couple friend who got divorced recently. I was friends with both of them, so I tried to keep it that way and not be judgmental. The lady told me that they were getting a divorce because the guy was abusive, she said he emotional abused her and the sorts and that is why they were getting divorce. I felt sorry for her. A couple of months later the guy told me that she had an affair while he was on a deployment. She never mentioned that, and honestly she didn’t even need to mention anything…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 01:59 PM
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When things get difficult in a marriage, men sometimes stick strongly to values that they live by, somewhat settling, even when they are not happy in the marriage they still stay. This can to an extent explain why men are a little more apprehensive about ending a marriage. Unfortunately, after acceptance do men then see the red flags, as you pointed out, after this some men might develop a hatred towards women.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 04:23 PM
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And men get the opposite treatment
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 05:27 PM
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And they say men are the problem, just men
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 04:41 PM
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I have heard a couple of people share this same concern. At this point, the key is to sign a prenup and never put yourself in a position where you are the sole provider. As men, we want to provide because we care and love our spouses. When the day of reckoning comes for a divorce, that care and love we show is used against us in court. The system has us keep helping the women maintain the standard of living, that we could not keep supporting hence the divorce. How messed up is that
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 04:40 PM
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That ties into the fact that there is an explanation for abuse for anything a man does. You bring the topic up with your wife about how suspicious her relationship with some guys are. She shares it on Reddit, the normal response from most women are, your husband is insecure, they then find a convincing way to tie it to the husband being abusive, again, divorce his ass.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 02:02 PM
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Exactly, it’s not all roses on the other side. A majority of women of this generation think it is, until they get there
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 01:56 PM
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That erosion of internal character oftentimes no longer seems to be the case, since they now have a very active community of divorced women, found easily on social media, who are always so eager to welcome them into the fold.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 01:50 PM
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That is part of the problem, but it seems unintelligent that none of them ever say something like, you know what, I am not going to join in and crucify your husband today because there is always two sides to a story. I have in a number of occasions see some people say this, but they get attacked for trying to be unbiased.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 01:43 PM
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Low morals is a big issue, as well as the benefit of getting a divorce for women outweighing the cost. The benefit needs to at least be made to equal the cost. We also have more and more miserable divorced women having easier access and a greater influence over married women who do not really know whey they are married, or have no strong conviction
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 07:43 AM
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It is about money, pride, peer-pressure, the safety that the law provides women, and a great deal of short-sightedness
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 07:35 AM
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lol you’ll get through it. We all do because we have been conditioned to always find a way. I have heard that a lot recently, divorce is a business, just give her some money so she can go away. Some BS
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 07:31 AM
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Honestly, I blame women for their increasing entitlement. There are countless posts and comments in numerous subs on Reddit, of women raging about how they deserve to ruin a man’s life and get all his money because they had kids. The decision to have kids is not made only by a man, if you feel having kids is too much of a burden share that with your partner before things get serious. The same women are sometimes in relationships with a man who has a full-time job, comes home and still cleans the…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 07:24 AM
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Sorry about that. I just had a friend give over $800k in cash and assets to a wife who he put through medical school. Same wife ended up having an affair with a co-worker while the husband was home taking care of their 4 kids. The man is still the one who got screwed over. The system is rigged
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 07:07 AM
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True, feelings which in turn makes them continually justify themselves
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 05:39 AM
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A good amount of women regret their decisions though, especially if it was unwarranted
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 04:47 AM
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Seems so selfish. A man works his whole life for a wife and kids. After a divorce, the man keeps working for the woman
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 04:44 AM
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That’s fair too
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 04:32 AM
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lol that’s fair
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 04:31 AM
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