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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Passive aggressive STBX | Competitive-Donut790 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 03:33 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Did you guys give your STBXW the courtesy of letting her know you were dating again?Why does she think she can dictate your personal life? That's crazy | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 10:18 PM |
| 2 | "You should be over it by now"Many of us have been where you are and while we can understand, at some point, you will have to accept what's going on... not that she's moved on, but you have to work through the grief, not simply be sad. One will let you live, one will let you breathe to death. You have kids. That's your legacy. Let them experience a dad that is able to demonstrate bouncing back from the absolute worst heartache, pain, loss, etc is possible. Be the example they need. If you have resources, use them. If you nee… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/24 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Ex-Wife didn't show up for our son's school Christmas party... AgainSimilar situation as well. One of my kids is in band. Ex acts as it it's the end of the world to come and support him. Missed 90% of the band season: Friday night football games every week, competitions several times per month and basketball games several times per week during that season. Understand his pain bcz my mom wasn't supportive when I played sports I'm high school. Kid was so hurt he almost quit. I hate seeing this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 09:47 PM |
| 4 | When did you stop wearing your wedding ring?Several months after I accepted it was over (a few months before we left the family home and split for good). I kept the ring a few weeks, then one day as I was driving down the highway on the way to work I just rolled down the window and threw it out. It was kinda weird bcz I didn't think about it before I did it and i haven't had another significant thought about it since I was tired of being lied to and demonstrating a lie by portraying "husband" to the public or to a person who checked out a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/24 03:18 AM |
| 10 | Ex-wife treating me like a bankNEVER CO-SIGN. DO NOT DO IT. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/24 04:18 PM |
| 6 | According to study, “Women with divorced girlfriends are more likely to divorce themselves.”Man -- this is unbelievably familiar. I'm so sorry this happened to you | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Not afraid to admit it100% correct. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Unable to cryI'm not super emotional, but I had a good weep -- like sobbing from the depths of my soul, complete with headache for an hour or so afterwards lol After that, I was good. Still had some sad moments from time to time, but overall I'm genuinely ok | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/24 01:30 AM |
| 7 | Talking to this ladyA lot of us tend to feel good when we feel needed -- cut that shit out. Since you see the red flags early, just DON'T. Don't torture yourself. Don't waste your time. Remind yourself on a regular basis -- and literally say this out loud to yourself: SHE is not good for me She IS NOT good for me She is not GOOD for me She is not good FOR ME You owe it your future self to get some help to work through your own issues, so you don't repeat them again Also last but not least -- if you haven't already,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you see their ghost?42 years... damn. I'm so sorry | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Exwife's most recent disaster. The fix? Get money out of ex-husband!Her: you can just pay me more Me: I can? No foolin'??? Oh boy!!! Sign me up! 🖕 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 12:48 AM |
| 3 | It never endsThat was exactly what she planned. If you don't have kids together, the only invitation she needs to get is to a BLOCK party foh | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Ran into my ex and her partner today"Don't believe everything you think" just popped up on my recommend list -- gonna jump on it after I finish my next one | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Ran into my ex and her partner todayLiterally just finished listening to the last chapter at lunch. I'm gonna listen again and again until it's how think more naturally | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 08:10 PM |
| 5 | SuicidalJust breathe. Find a counselor. This is part of rhe stages of grief. If you have a safe group to talk to, do that. Vent on here. Walk outdoors. Breathe some more. It's literally one day at a time. Process those emotions. You got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | LonelinessSimilar situation for me -- still VERY fresh for me: STBX (40F) and I (46M) just left the home we rented 2 mi they ago. I went to a Mexican spot yesterday and had a meal and a drink in peace. I've been enjoying doing that more often lately. It really has been a long time since I haven't felt "guilty" getting myself things I either need or just want. I'm having fun planning on a solo trip sooner or later and just enjoying myself. STBX hated flying and hated the beach, so I'm flying my ass to a be… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 10:15 PM |
| 2 | How long till you took your wedding band off?Before the actual separation l, but when I accepted it was over -- it's on the side of the interstate somewhere. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/24 02:10 PM |
| 2 | How much did you spend?Yikes.... | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/24 04:17 PM |
| 4 | How much did you spend?Faaaack 👀 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/24 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Just found out she’s cheatingDammit man... sucks | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | JobsKeep in mind, for some people, no matter whatyou give it's NEVER enough. You know your Ex better than anyone, so if you know she's just there to prolong the inevitable, for God's sake do not gaslight yourself. Get the thing appraised cut her a check and give her 60 days or whatever your agreement dictates and close the door for good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/24 12:24 AM |
| 2 | My First Real WTF Incident with XW. How would you handle?I was just about to post this lol 😆 100% true | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I existMan. I'm working through the same process as all of are, it seems. Things that are helping me counseling - move on and find one who understands you and where you're coming from. Develop the necessary professional relationships YOU need. groups - I'm able to talk with several people who have been through the same hell and made it out ok. These are in-person friends and online groups. Some are men-only, some are men and women and there's value in both. I jeep em all separate and have variable inte… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/24 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Sounds crazy but I will do it again . Would you?I swear tik tok is the fruit the serpent offered Eve -- imagine having a whole world and she still wanted more. All jokes aside, the constant external validation and dopamine hit for a lot of people becomes an addiction. A lot of women just want to feel heard and feel community, so when another woman appears to be hurting, they are hardwired to rally around one another to offer support. What these women tend to forget is that a lot of social media influencers are peddling snake oil and bullshit … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/24 04:01 AM |
| 11 | Ex wife circles back 5 years later.Standard manipulating tactics -- read your post as if it was one of your friends who was going through this. What advice would you offer your friend? This ain't a "no" situation... it's a "FUCK NO!!!" situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/24 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Doing all the right things....still sad sometimesGrief doesn't always have a timeframe attached to it, nor is it a linear jkurney through the stages. Let it run its course and be ok with the fact this is legitimate loss. If you haven't been into regular counseling/therapy please consider it. It may help you navigate the grief and or other issues. Praying for all of us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 05:22 PM |
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