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Outer Game Competitive-Link-912/r/seduction03/03/22 10:00 PM
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Mans asking whether or not looking like baller is weird. Lol.
/r/seduction29/10/22 07:21 PM
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This man knows
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:15 PM
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He’s likely a crocked tooth inbred hillbilly
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:30 AM
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You sound like a tranny fucker bro… something on the internet is always triggering you to new levels
/r/seduction17/10/22 09:58 PM
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You suck
/r/seduction17/10/22 09:56 PM
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You suck and bullshit on this forum.
/r/seduction17/10/22 05:31 PM
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You are officially the least confident, easily triggered incel on this forum…. I dunno what’s going on in your life bro, but don’t take it out on the internet, it won’t fix it 😜
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:29 AM
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Clutching at straws bro 🤣😘🤓😜💁
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:28 AM
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I think your the saltiness uncel on this forum 🤣 men ask you to define what your failed to define and your are just belligerent. Like bro, you get so triggered so easily and you are the one talking about knowing what confidence is 🤣🤣
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:20 AM
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Bro get off the internet and start living life. You are a salty weirdo.
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:18 AM
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Salty 💁
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:18 AM
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I think that nothing being outside your control is delusion not confidence. Confidence is mowing what is and isn’t under your control.
/r/seduction14/10/22 08:06 AM
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Tolerating and being comfortable being uncomfortable are two completely different stages. Confidence in any endeavor comes from experience. What would your definition of confidence be if it isn’t gained through exposure and putting yourself out there?
/r/seduction14/10/22 08:01 AM
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I disagree. Exposure to difficult situations mean you are now comfortable being uncomfortable. This is as close to confidence as you can get imo.
/r/seduction13/10/22 09:06 PM
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It doesn’t matter what your height says. Guys lie. Put it up however you want, just don’t overthink it. Photos with friends smaller gets the point across.
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:59 PM
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slapped
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:56 PM
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Accidentally responds off second account 🤣🤣
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:03 PM
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Hey I got your number from your kids professor who said he/she needed tutoring. How about I tutor your pussy 🤣🤣🤣 OP sucks
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:48 AM
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Lame.
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:46 AM
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Oh ok sorry bro, I didn’t know you asked, not nearly as bad 🤣🤣 Hmm anxiety on both sides from my experience, it just manifests differently
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:54 AM
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This is 2022. With the amount of anxiety people suffer from now calling is just not going to come across as well as you would think. I think you’ll be red flagged if you call girls you barely know.
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:40 PM
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College is great for people that don’t try because you are surrounded by hot women. When you get to work, there are less hot women around so you have to start trying. However, the best years of a man’s dating life will be 28-35 when he has some money and has peaked physically. You just need to actually try and put yourself out there.
/r/seduction29/09/22 07:45 AM
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Hahaha oh my dear lord, you are a baby. I know a guy that was literally sexless between 18-29 minus hookers and is now a playboy at 30 with a bit of work.
/r/seduction29/09/22 07:43 AM
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Haha
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:10 PM
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I fuck with this
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:34 PM
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Not uncommon at all. Have you ever walked down a busy street in your life.
/r/seduction27/09/22 06:06 PM
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Also, your description of a beautiful woman sounds so cliche. You just listed a bunch of stereotypical traits.
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:44 PM
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Lol I am not gonna post anything on my girlfriend on a reddit forum and you know this, because privacy is the purpose of this type of forum. But yes, objectively a 10/10 in everyone’s book. Yes of course there is competition for beautiful women. Everything in life is a competition, if you are too scared or insecure to compete, listen to this lame tryna convince himself 6/7s are better than 9/10s. Your description is quite simple, the 9/10s you’ve dated are just not into you… the answer is not go…
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:43 PM
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That’s shit and a facade for intimidation/excuse. Level up and get the most beautiful woman out there 💁.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:33 PM
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Playing hard to get is poor use of terminology. But filtering men is a very real thing for highly sought after women.
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:45 AM
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It’s a lot more common than you think, especially for highly sought after women. The modern dating world has resulted in everyone thinking men are lying and only looking for sex. When your are 10/10 you can get anyway with being a little unresponsive at first and men will still flock. Confuse them unresponsiveness via text with clear interest in person and you have a nice receipt for “only men legit interested in me will stay around and the ones looking for just sex will vanish”.
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:44 AM
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The ones that are trying to filter you and being a little aloof during texting will always show interest in person as well as almost never cancel a date. If they are aloof in person or cancel dates, bad sign. If she is being aloof and not meeting bro move on. If she is being aloof, but very into you in person and willing to go on whatever dates you set she is filtering you and I’d say stay the course. In terms of making them less dry, you really need to make an emotional connection and that only…
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:40 AM
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This is an interesting post. I didn’t really think about how important it is, but I think you could be on to something. I am objectively attractive and I know it. Handsome, tall, confident, charismatic, very well dressed with a job that women generally find attractive and helps amplify these things. Without being famous or mega rich, it would be almost impossible for me to do better. All of these things get commented on regularly, but do you know what the most common compliment is? You guessed i…
/r/seduction22/09/22 07:54 AM
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Your too insecure and a pussy. Work on approaching and start conversations first. If you let the other guys go first you are already losing.
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:14 PM
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Nope. They are just a modern tool used by shy and confident people.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:57 PM
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The pickup stuff doesn’t work. You are addicted to it for the same reason people are addicted to almost anything, dopamine. When you read this nonsense, you get a dopamine hit. When you pussy foot and get rejected, your dopamine levels drop and you come back to pickup for a pick me up of dopamine. Deleted this account and stop scrolling on here.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:58 PM
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She followed you back from numbers and she watches everyone’s stories. Her stories are not aimed at random dude that followed, they are aimed at dudes she met and have a connection with.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:31 PM
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Those are called emojis, I asked for more of your cool charts bro. You a bit slow aren’t you bro.
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:02 AM
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Anymore cool charts for bro?
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:41 PM
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I don’t think there is anything fundamentally wrong with paying for a girl when you take her out. It is not simping, especially is you have decent income. People who think otherwise have no experiences with universal 10s and effective dating / womanizing is an expensive game. However, what is simping is allowing her to decide let’s go here or there. If you are paying, you tell her, not ask her where you two are going. She should not be telling you where to take her, especially if she hasn’t kiss…
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:38 PM
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😘
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:08 PM
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Are you trying to imply that I am 4 or 5, a person you have never seen because I lol’d at your lame ass charts. 🤣🤣 you are so sensitive bro. I didn’t mean offense, your charts are just lame.
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:51 PM
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Lol cool charts bro
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:06 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:56 PM
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Man that is also lame. Pursuing is about making your intentions clear and communicating them. It’s not about saying cliche things good morning, sweet dreams yada yada yada. You must have something about you that stands out. Your texting habits, or lack thereof will not be it. I
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:17 AM
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Yes, but you are not in contact with all girls all times. So you need to use your phone. Don’t be a lame listening to the books.
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:54 AM
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Man you wrote a script with dialogue and description, Lame. Be yourself, talk and sparks will flair if there is attraction. Trust me for your own good. Or learn the hard way.
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:53 AM
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You are correct. Regardless of what the most of the posters here read in books. If you want anything in life you need to pursue it. How does anyone believe otherwise…
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:51 AM
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Nope don’t do this lame shit with these lame planned lines.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:21 PM
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Or just don’t be boring and annoying. If you don’t pursue, you won’t learn the tricks of the trade form trial and error. 10s do not want a man who is “not that Interested”. They have 100s that are. Sometimes it seems like guy who is not interested has all the girls, but it is for sure not to do with no being interested.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:20 PM
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Minimal contact outside of meeting is not a good idea. Ask yourself how many men you know with women that are universal 10/10. Now ask yourself how many of those men did not viciously pursue her. The rest is good bro!
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:18 PM
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Slight smile. If she smiles back, she is at least not saying no. If she doesn’t, don’t bother. There is no way to tell until you go up, but at least do something to test the waters a little.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:12 PM
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This is why you shouldn’t lie. There is nothing you can do but go and see what happens. Ditch the insoles going forward though bro, it’s too complicated.
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:19 PM
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That’s factually not correct
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:15 PM
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Lame
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:40 PM
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This 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:06 PM
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Very unlikely. Colombians are some of the best in the world.
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:29 PM
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God so lame.
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:14 AM
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Nah this is lame as fuck. The answer is I don’t know, I never kept count.
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:13 AM
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Yes the answer should be I do not know and I don’t have a list. Anyone above 50 that knows their number it’s either a really sad and insecure or lying.
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:11 AM
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Man I dunno what you said but you made me laugh. Upvote!
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:43 PM
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I dunno if it’s mind games really. Like that sounds so much more complimentary than what this is. She’s a woman bro. They act up and so strange shit. They actually are difficult to understand. Just go with the flow.
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:42 PM
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Yes silly thinking. No legit exp. Height matters, otherwise don’t be fat and your fine.
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:26 PM
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You can, but women are fun and add to life’s enjoyment
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:23 AM
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Christ almighty. Dating isn’t science. Just talk to people, talk about what they like, what you like and see what happens. How do I use one thing to become attractive so not gonna work my bro.
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:42 PM
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Try but try soon bro, once she’s emotionally connected with the guy your dusht until that emotional connection goes.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:21 PM
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In a weird way I actually think this is quite a good take
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:15 PM
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I doubt it.
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:53 AM
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Hmm I don’t think you “need” this sexual polarity. I’m not totally disagreeing though. It definitely helps improve the sexual experience, but sexual passion can be achieved by pure attraction to someone. Maintaining the passion is about satisfaction and I think humans can be satisfied in a variety of ways. Consistent orgasms is basically all you need to maintain the above. My thoughts though, subject to critique.
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:32 PM
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Yeah approaching girls at a wal mart sounds great online, but it’s not in real life. Go approach people in social situations where they are looking to be approached, not supermarkets. Also that line you gave about shoes and tacos… lame. I’m immune to rejection.. again lame. If you really had feelings for a woman that you were dating and she didn’t reciprocate you would be sad. I’m not saying you would be depressed, but sad which is a normal feeling. What you mean is I am immune to the impact of …
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:41 AM
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Shut up. I’m telling people not to be so hard on his post as he’s autistic and his mind works a different way. Be more subtle is what I said. You are a total moron.
/r/seduction22/08/22 03:34 PM
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You do need experience to become confident. Generally good advice, but fuck, never ever ever go on another date in your life without showering. That is just plain gross. Whoever told you that was a good idea is from the Stone Age.
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:53 PM
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Thank you
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:42 PM
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The problem is this. PUAs and dating gurus are nothing more that salesman. They are doing nothing but trying to make money. They create a web of lies and tactics that sound good in a book and are designed to hit the dopamine receptors of the male reading the book. They do not work or sound good in real life but instead of going oh this didn’t work, the man thinking let’s read more (dopamine!) and they take in even worse advice. The whole 10-20% of men get all the women is because 80% of men have…
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:00 PM
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Everyone talks about their exes. A first date it is off putting, but really, someone telling you about their experiences with exes will help you learn a lot about that person. I don’t think it’s as bad as people make it out to be:
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:32 PM
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Bro he’s autistic and was born this way. The you sound like you have no exp intro is for normal lames that can change. This guy cannot change and it’s not his fault. He needs a much for subtle approach with advice.
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:21 PM
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He is autistic so try and be understanding if. His concept of the world is different and he was just born this way. He really is not to blame for his weird views, the genetic lottery is.
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:19 PM
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I know right. Those last few lines turned dark real quick. My man went from championing masculinity and love to fucking sister’s in the space of 5 seconds.
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:13 PM
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Tell me you are the inbred spawn of a crocked toothed hillbilly without telling me you are….
/r/seduction22/08/22 09:20 AM
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Sucks
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:59 AM
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Keep up the work!
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:54 AM
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Just say something normal and less try hard. It really sounds so cliche. I get what your trying to achieve, but it is less effective than normal flirty slightly sexed banter.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:57 PM
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Am I missing part of your post?
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:35 PM
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It got you thinking what exactly?
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:56 PM
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Haha girl shows interest in me and texts me unlike past girls who showed no real interest. WTF?!?! 🤣🤣🤣 Bro, is this really a question haha. She is literally telling you I don’t play games. This is great. Enjoy it.
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:08 PM
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OG PUA basically means I’m a lame. Of course 90% of women are not interested in you.
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:01 PM
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No, these type of cringey lines are only funny when you have an emotional connection. You will come across as so lame.
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:00 PM
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Tone is more important that what you say. I disagree with the not qualifying yourself. You can own your qualities and not come across as an asshole if your tone and social skills are on point. Don’t say something pathetic “I’m rich and a nice guy” like a creep. But something simple and flirtly say “because I’m handsome”.
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:59 AM
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Yes naturally a nice body will look better with clothes. But different styles are better suited for different bodies. Principally don’t be fat. Anything else is fine.
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:07 AM
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Let her bring it up. She will do it eventually. Be honest when she generally asks if you are looking for a relationship at the start. If the topics comes up again about her in the early stage like her but need to get to know her better be committing. Intentions communicated generally without coming across as desperately infatuated. If things go well, you naturally fall into a relationship like lifestyle with her and she will bring it up. How she brings it up could vary from wanna be exclusive /b…
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:58 PM
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Haha yes many many times. It only feels weird until you’ve done it. If it is casual keep it that way. See other women and explore, experience different things. I think casual relationships can great and much more honest than ones than run straight into relationship labels. It would be a shame not to have the experience it. You can always say stop and bro, it’s better than a wank!
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:23 PM
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Those latinas aye boys
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:50 PM
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Experience is key. Do it, learn from it and try and enjoy it. If it’s not for you, you’ll know and you can stop. But maybe you will actually enjoy the casual nature once you see the benefits.
/r/seduction18/08/22 04:43 PM
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Women do not like assholes. Assholes are just confident and generally attractive otherwise they would be able to get away with being an asshole. Women like confidence and attractiveness. What a woman primarily wants from a partner is to have fun and enjoy herself. Forget about being an asshole or a gentleman, just be yourself and try and make sure she has fun.
/r/seduction18/08/22 03:53 PM
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You are so right my man. It’s the mental benefit and the changed internal perception of your own value that make the difference from working out, not the muscles.
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:24 PM
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Yeah see this so the type of thinking that kills men. Having tiers that they place themselves in and think I am automatically less attractive for this reason. I really cannot say anything else that muscles are not important. If you have legit experience with women, they will literally see this. Of course, a fitness bunny will be into muscles, but that’s due to her lifestyle preferences. There is also so much more to be attractive than physical looks. Also, there is no substitute for the face in …
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:49 AM
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Muscles build confidence and that helps get laid. Attractiveness has virtually nothing to do with muscles though. A nice haircut and style will beat muscles 4/5 times. As long as your not fat, don’t worry about muscles. This is what people use as an excuse why they don’t pull 9s and 10s.
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:12 AM
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No do not get an escort in this situation. I have no problems with escorts but they are not for losing your virginity. You need a real life experience for this. There is a very dangerous path men go down with escorts. When you pay you are in control and this is a skewed power dynamic. Men with anxiety can really get hooked on it as the power dynamic in real life is intimidating.
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:51 AM
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Man you don’t know what to say because you have no experience. Experience is what shows you what to say.
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:48 AM
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Or when they have no options
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:43 PM
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Haha man I love this comment
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:42 PM
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Man you can say that again!
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:07 PM
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Then be different.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:22 PM
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Oh man, how can competition be something you irk from? This is the real game, not nonsense one liners and strategies. The real game is to present yourself in a way that is better than the competition not run from it. I fucking love the feeling of dating a woman, knowing she is also dating very high value men (millionaires and celebs) and you being the one that wins. It gets me fucking pumped. There are 4 pillars of attraction for a woman. Learn them and beat the competition in them.
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:31 PM
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The only way to not get attached is to have options. There is no way to not get attached to a woman when you don’t have options and she is the only goal. Once you have options, you’ll only get attached with women you like and are attached to you. Speak to multiple. Have dates with multiple and just experience life. It sounds cliche but with most of this dating stuff there are eureka moments where one day you have no confidence and your faking and then then next you actually are internally confid…
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:20 PM
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Exhausting is an understatement. It’s something you gradually steer clear off as you get older
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:27 AM
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Dated? 10s of times. I also had two relationships in the same city for over a year. It was the most stressful year of my life full of life. One of the girls knew and the other didn’t, otherwise it wouldn’t have been possible.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:26 AM
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Yeah never out this on your profile. Looking for a submissive fuckbuddy screams creep.
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:56 AM
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Dating apps work. Your profile is likely poor quality and swiping of 3/4s with your dick in your hand has told the algorithm you like the girls most men don’t swipe on. How is works is that your profile will never be shown to a 10. She will only be shown men that are selective in their mates the same as she is. The algorithm essentially works like this. If you swipe desperately the app identifies you as desperate and unattractive. If you are selective the app thinks your not desperate and must b…
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:50 AM
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To illustrate this point. Hugh Jackman is undeniably hugh value. His has committed to his wife. We do not as men look at her as high value because he is with a world famous actor. We do not give 1 fuck about that. We still wouldn’t want to be with her as she is objectively physically unattractive and therefore by definition not a high value woman. Correlating a person’s value or attractiveness to their selected mate is absurd. The mindset of a man should never chase is comical. If you actually h…
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:00 PM
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You’ve never been with a legit 10 so if you think millionaires and athletes don’t chase women. No women do not get their value based on a man they are with. No one looks at a woman and says, wow what a man she has she is such high value. This is fiction you read in a book to get your dopamine spiking. Of course 7s chase. 10s have too many options to chase. Women get their value from looks. Not the man she gets to commit 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:42 PM
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Follow up. Don’t be lame. You’ll be a sexless like the rest of them if you don’t.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:09 PM
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Fuck off listening to other advice. Confirm the date like a normal human lol.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:08 PM
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Good advice.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:03 PM
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If he did, he’s dusht
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:01 PM
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Why you think height?
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:01 PM
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A few points: High value women have men talking to them. The current girl I’m seeing had athletes, models and millionaires all talking to her and asking her out when we first met. Women are like anything, a competition. It should be a considered a good sign that many men are interested in her, especially if she is as you describe above and isn’t sleeping with them yet. You don’t win the competition by sabotage. You win by remaining unaffected and authentic to yourself and your qualities. Don’t a…
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:41 PM
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Man that’s a cowards mindset. The best women are being chased by millionaires and athletes and you gotta learn out to compete. If you want a woman with no other options, then she’ll be low value.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:34 PM
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Yes go. If she flakes again move on to the next one.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:31 PM
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Haha no don’t lie about trips. White lies that are ok include “don’t worry, I wasn’t that serious with her”, “I am not texting anyone else”, “you are way better in bed than her”, “you are funny” (when she’s not but hot) etc etc. Experiencing things is not something you should lie about. You’ll be caught out in the long run.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:27 PM
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I do no know I’m talking about. You won’t get high quality women with options if your broke and can’t bring women out. This is the reality of life. You’ll end up marrying a 6 or 7 if you think this isn’t true.
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:04 PM
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Boring questions are needed. They lead into different topics. Just try and keep the conversation going without putting too much pressure on what you are saying. How you ask questions is more important. Smiling helps a lot. The best relationship forming conversation is simple, when you tell a person and they reciprocate in kind stories or people in our lives. That’s how all close relationships and bonds are formed. It’s how we get to know the person. Try getting to this. It really helps create me…
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:23 PM
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Also guys, unless she really insists, splitting the bill in a date for a man is lame and looks stingy to high quality woman… of course you can get away with it sometimes but this is a competition and the best men come out top. Stingy is a terribly unattractive trait. You don’t have to be rich, but women hate a stingy man. Just take the bill, it’ll increase your chances of scoring later. If you cant currently afford this, I advise you get to a position where you can.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:11 PM
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Haha I can’t believe what I have read. What age are you? Drinks in a nice bar where I live for 2 coats 100-150 euro per night when including taxis and tips and dinner at a nice restaurant and drinks after easy 200-300 euro for the same. If 30 dollars is all you’ll spend on a date I’ll say a prayer. I’m for sure in your working life you won’t be able to get away with this with any high quality woman. I guess it’s different in college or school too your credit.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:05 PM
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Trial and error. Just speak with women, any women and normalize them. Friends, classmates, colleagues, family etc etc. Man even just speaking with men improves overall communication skills and will indirectly help you. In particular when the man is in a position of intimidating authority such as a teacher or high ranking businessman. Just start doing it and trust me it will eventually coming. It takes years bro but it is worth it . Confidence is built not born. You can start whenever you want. I…
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:05 PM
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Way too complicated. Dating costs money. The simple things like dinner and cocktails work.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:54 PM
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On to the next one
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:48 PM
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It’s how a woman’s mind works. I know my shit. I’ve been in 3 situationships with married or engaged women. All women I know and had a reason to intercept with, I.e work and friends. One turned into a 2 year relationship after she left her fiancé. One had a family and I knew the husband well and had met the kid. All started because of bad sex and stale relationships at home. Women primarily cheat for sexual reasons, but their attraction is very different than a mans. It’s very emotional and they…
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:46 PM
3

She blew you off. You don’t as you still think chemistry instead of nice and charming.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:39 PM
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She opened the door, but really that’s all it is. Keep messaging her and see what happens. But don’t focus on one message and think it means anything in particular for than a slight and short invitation to continue. You opened well, congrats. Now onto the real part. Good luck bro!
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:43 AM
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Man you are both likely teens. Difficult to give advice to teens. It’s gonna be very hard for you to implement anything you read that is based on being older and understanding women. As a teen, you don’t even understand yourself let alone women. Go with the follow bro and don’t overthink it. You have years of women ahead of you ;)
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:20 AM
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Man, your obviously not good at feeling out situations. You think you are, but you don’t have the experience otherwise you’d be familiar with this exact situation. Nice charming girl, gives odd vibes of being interested in a man’s eyes when she’s not. She smiled because like anyone, a random approach feels good because it tells you that someone found you attractive. This is all this was. Don’t get hung up on one girl. On to the next one bro!
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:17 AM
5

Scarcity mindset. This is no good. Girls don’t cheat with random men they are approached by on the street unless you are famous. Girls cheat with men they have feelings for, such as friends and co works that they know and have an emotional connection with. A women will not be approached, tell a man she has a boyfriend but secretly think she wants him to keep pursing her to have sex. She can have sex with people she knows and she would prefer this than you. I don’t mean to be harsh, but you need …
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:15 AM
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All that perceived good chemistry is such a friendly charming girl. She has no interest in you. I know guys that get hung up on how a girl acts because they don’t know enough women to see certain behavior for what is it. Friendly and non sexual.
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:12 AM
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There is no such thing as a copy and pasted best reply. Are you looking for an answer in real life or via text?
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:00 AM
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I don’t know what it means. I mean someone hesitated saying their name, there could be a million reasons. What I am saying is don’t focus on it. Maybe she is shy, maybe she has a boyfriend and felt nervous, maybe she doesn’t find you attractive. When you find a woman attractive in life and you are single, go for it. There is nothing negative that can come from a man respectfully pursuing a woman or asking her out. At worst, she’ll say no and take it as a compliment. She won’t think any different…
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:59 AM
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You are overthinking something minor. Forget about it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:57 AM
2

Yeah lol, the pua says are gone. Even if you are, never say it.
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:36 PM
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You must be young. There is no such thing as bro code in a situation where someone likes and pursues but no real relationship forms. As you get older you will see this happens and is normal. You’ll get used to it and understand it when you see it happening as you get older. Bro code is this, if a friend has had a real relationship with a girl, she is off limits for a certain period of time which is not specific but purely based on when your friend has happily moved on. Once a friend has moved on…
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:41 PM
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100%
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:34 PM
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A few points: You are obviously young and haven’t much experience. This is what happens and will happen many times in your life. Girls like men to and often in a group of friends there will be a lot of swapping of romantic and sexual partners. You basically need to experience this multiple time, deal with it, learn how people romantically interact and you will see this as normal. You were pursuing a girl for 6 months. It didn’t work out. Now she shows interest in your friend and you are obsessin…
/r/seduction14/08/22 05:48 PM
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So simple and yet so few just be direct and honest with intentions.
/r/seduction14/08/22 05:38 PM
1

Just tell them it was nice meeting them but you don’t see it working out. Simple. No need to overthink or lie about this bro.
/r/seduction14/08/22 05:37 PM
3

Yeah she’ll be with someone else by the end of the summer and will forget all about dude with no balls to ask me out.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:24 PM
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Lame. Make it intimate the first date. Drinks or dinner. Everything else is just try hard.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:23 PM
1

Great post from a man that clearly knows what he is talking about from experience
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:22 PM
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You make no sense and should stop posting. You advice and attitude reek of no experience.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:00 PM
1

The first man I saw on your link is David Harbour 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:54 AM
4

“Thank you, I appreciate that. My name is ??? Btw, nice to meet you…” I think if you do not automatically know what to say in this situation, I’d have bigger concerns than game.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:51 AM
1

Meh not true. Some girls sure, but muscles are not for getting girls they are for your own set confidence that will help get girls. Go to the gym for 10 years and you will see no improvement on your overall attractiveness unless you were really out of shape. Go to a shop, get some nice clothes and a haircut and in 1 hour your overall attractiveness goes up big time.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:08 PM
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Man the only thing I will say in congratulations on starting the journey to understand your value and become confident. Amping yourself up and then having a crash is part of trial and error. Do not stop, do not be discouraged and it will happen one day. Trust the process. This is one of the hardest journeys a man can take, but also one of the most rewarding.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:04 PM
1

Haha really good bro, massive save right there
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:58 PM
1

Finally, a genuinely insightful post on this sub from someone with genuine experience instead of theoretical shite they read. I really like the go to date spots, I never thought about it but I basically bring all my dates to the same bar for a first date as the setting works well to get to know someone. It is an absolute must and really makes your life easier.
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:51 PM
1

And we have found a virgin that likes to theorize. Chase women or you won’t get any simple as and any other advice is just wrong.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:40 AM
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This is rubbish. Total garage advice. You want a woman or partner, actively find one. Nothing in this world just comes you have to put the conscious effort in. I have some very objectively attractive friends that get no girls because they do not actively pursue them and are just waiting for it to happen. Do you know what we all call these men? Lame. Self improvement is very important, but you cannot meet women by not meeting women 🤣🤣. These are the types of posts I see and it reminds me that thi…
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:36 AM
2

You need better wingmen. I am quite conventionally attractive and I have certain friend that is not nearly as attractive and we kill it together. I do a bit better that’s him in terms of quality, but infiltrating groups we are both good at. He never pulls me down. If anything, he takes advantage of the fact I’m more attractive and pulls more because of it. I also have other friends, who are more attractive and we are way less successful as a team. I have another particular I lived in a foreign c…
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:38 PM
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Christ… has anyone in this threat ever dated. Of course it is ok to text with a “are we still on for later”… I do this with girls and they do it with me as well. To think that a simple question like this lowers your value is absurd, unless all your value is created via a facade and you are horrendously insecure. The higher value man who gets multiple dates with multiple beautiful women a week does not even think “if I text this girl in advance” I’ll come across as insecure. He cannot be insecure…
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:28 PM
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Oh man, you have just been bodied while trying to body someone else online. The cringe of a 50 year bald hillbilly talking about fucking girls at parties 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:11 PM
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That second one never worked…
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:28 PM
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I don’t agree. Unless your famous, 90% of women you interact with throughout your life will not have heard or known of you before you meet them. I have had relationships with models and strippers, it actually intimidates girls instead of making them more attractive. Looks, dress sense, being in decent shape and grooming will attract them. Being fun, having charisma and being charming will make them want to you. Money and security will make them want to marry you. And regular orgasms will make th…
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:58 PM
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It is quite apparent the number of lays you have had is low, so her being the most difficult or one of it not so hard
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:18 PM
8

Or more men that get women in real life and can tell people from exp… no the internet pretenders
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:17 PM
5

Man the only people that do that are people that cannot get people who are attractive. So the fuck 3/10s in the dark, but are too insecure to show the world it’s 3/10s they get
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:12 PM
8

This!!
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:11 PM
15

That incorrect. You are just repeating internet nonsense. I think you are very insecure about yourself. This is probably the first time you have had this exp.
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:09 PM
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Do not go… Christ you are a moron. Go to a party where I know no one and barely speak with the person who invited me. Are you 16?
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:06 PM
16

If you don’t want to be seen with her, why would you want to sleep with her? Another little boy…
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:03 PM
2

I love this comment
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:13 PM
1

Man, she considered you attractive. Doesn’t matter what you think of yourself.
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:04 PM
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But that’s fantasy land. Random girls are pursued, not the other way around unless they are desperate. The only situation where an attractive women will pursue is if she knows the guy personally and likes him. You could be a 10/10 and approached by women in a bar, but you will not be approached during the day. Expecting women to do this is mad.
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:01 PM
1

Another man wasting his prime 😘
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:27 PM
0

😘
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:25 PM
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I do not know a single man with a 9 or 10 that did not viciously pursue his girl. They were their primary focus in life at least for a certain period of time. Thank you for telling everyone they shouldn’t, because it makes this era the best to be a man in. I agree you need to have the other things because they are normal. No hobbies, no male friends, no competitiveness means your a weirdo. It’s nothing to do with being in a feminine state crap that you read in a boo or her on YouTube.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:17 PM
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Nope women like attractive men. Boldness is irrelevant. It does not matter what you say, you just need to initiate a conversation and let it flow. Cringey lines that “escalate” are terrible.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:13 PM
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Firstly she is a girl. Secondly, what desperate college student wastes their time fucking a 40 year old woman when they have in their prime women all around them. The older they are, the more desperate they are. No one picked them.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:10 PM
2

Your stupid line about a big ass worked because she found you attractive. Your stupid line had nothing to do with it.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:08 PM
2

Cool story bro… conversations are not just a bunch of 1 liners… she is not interested. She likes the attention. Girls with interest go on dates and find a way to go on dates even if it means changing her plans. No one who is interested is too busy to get a drink with you.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:04 PM
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These are terrible women, she has 100s of guys, trust me this one is a goner, the ones that stand up you without explanation yet still speak and arrange prospective dates that they never attend lol
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:47 PM
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I think that a lot of men’s issues with online dating is the inability to set up a good profile. I can say with confidence, I am a 8.5 or 9/10 man. I get checked out by women every day in real life to the point where work colleagues and ex girlfriends will point out that I’m being eye fucked as we walk down the street or comment on how handsome I am. However am never taking photos, have no idea how to do it properly and have a terrible selection for my dating apps. Because of this, I get way les…
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:48 PM
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Lol are you for real??? It’s a relationship and they have a kid. He believes his fiancé is depressed and sex is a common up and down in a relationship. I feel you are a simp who has been very mistreated in relationships then read a few PUA books and now is an alpha bro. Correction an online alpha bro.
/r/seduction10/01/21 10:30 AM
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