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>I also did it to show my kids that I am the bigger person and an actual adult, not a bitter child. You are bitter now instead of being bitter then. I'd argue that if bitterness is unavoidable, choose the path on which you will at least pay less. >NOT tell your kids it’s their dad’s birthday Couldn't you tell them that?
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 05:03 PM
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This idea that the child is necessarily most joyful experience is really an example of wishful thinking. I mean, for some women (and men) it is. For some - not so much. And even if it is a gift, their contribution to it is always bigger than ours. We only give our time and wealth, whereas theirs is time and wealth and health and risk of dying and physical suffering.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/25 08:02 AM
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>Any advice on dealing with this? Yeah. Calm down. Force yourself to calm down. All you need to do is just wait until she's done with her little ritual. Read a book, watch a youtube short or two. Nothing objectively bad happens to you or the kids. You are annoyed, that's clear; and that's why she does that. Stop reacting, and the troll will get bored.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/25 07:55 AM
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Have you at least learned your lesson? Stop investing. If you did what you did purely for the kids, you would not be disappointed. But you did it with hopes she'll reciprocate. Do not let yourself to have this hope.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/25 07:18 AM
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If I take a kitten, mistreat it heavily for a long time, but then feed it and take it to a vet, you'd consider it cruel. Same thing done to you - "oh thank you God". Classic believer's Stockholm syndrome. No, it wasn't necessary. You just had shitty years. Many don't.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 04:44 PM
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Is it really her behavior that's disgusting? Or your attraction to her despite the behavior? I mean, she doesn't seem to be doing anything out of the ordinary. You are becoming an ex. She is searching and experimenting.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 06:12 PM
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So, she wants this and that and something else. Is it your responsibility to give it? No. So, don't. There is no benefit in marrying someone, might as well skip the registration of your relationship with the state.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 03:59 PM
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Ah, then definitely it's a good personal growth step, even if it did not bring the result you were hoping for. But we shouldn't confuse our personal growth with being nice, valuable or interesting to others. You did well allowing yourself to spend; still, the affection can't be bought. Well, can be, but the effect is limited.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 08:05 AM
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Apparently her affection can't be bought, even if you spare no expense. You probably should consider this a lesson. It's bad idea to try and buy someone's love; it would be even worse if you succeeded.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 06:04 PM
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Looks like you don't have a shared understanding and an agreement on how the property will be divided. Most likely she doesn't want to be the party to ask for the conversation about how you split your stuff. No discussion happened, no agreement reached, you have not done your homework, that's how I'd read it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 07:35 PM
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