Competitive_Motor840 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	There is always someone else Incidentally this is the 3rd day you have chosen to post negative comments about me directly towards me. I haven’t been on this forum for 3 days nor have I posted anything. You’re behaving like a psychopath and you continue to harass me.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/24 09:24 AM
0	There is always someone else No you’ve missed my point, and you seem to be obsessed with chastising and scolding me in an attempt to discredit my statements and assert your opinion of your superiority. What’s with that? Feeling threatened? I’ve never told anyone not to speak their mind. You are the single person in this forum whom I’ve asked to leave me alone and shut the 7777 up. Incidentally you should look up the meaning of countermand, because you have used it incorrectly. Oh! Also it’s anyone and based upon. So to repe…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/24 09:05 AM
-1	There is always someone else Nonsense	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 08:32 AM
0	There is always someone else Now I get it… You’re an attorney or a want-to-be, in the legal realm. No wonder you’re such an ass. If you actually passed the bar, heaven help your clients, particularly since you have such a restricted vocabulary. One key aspect of successfully practicing law is all about the usage of words; I shouldn’t have to explain that. If you’re a want-to-be, well… that explains your arrogance and attitude.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 08:23 AM
-2	There is always someone else Let’s let the unfortunate folks within this forum be the judges of that. What don’t you get about do not continue this nonsense? I won’t engage with you further.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 05:26 AM
0	There is always someone else I won’t waste any more of my time or of those reading. You really need to look in the mirror because your comments don’t apply to me. If anything they apply to you. I never attacked anyone, not even you. I simply stated my opinion in a respectful manner. Do yourself a favor and can it. Ever heard that expression? It means drop it or shut the 7777 up.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 05:24 AM
-2	There is always someone else Just plain rude and unnecessary	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 05:16 AM
-3	There is always someone else I totally agree and have never stated otherwise regarding “state of mind”. It’s your insensitive approach (the belief that harsh language may be necessary) with which I don’t agree. Who are you to make that decision? Who appointed you to determine when and if such an approach should be used? I don’t wish to create a novella as have you but I am compelled to point out that you have made an extreme assumption which is totally unwarranted.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 05:12 AM
0	There is always someone else In other words (which you can hopefully understand) Shut the 7777 up and leave me alone you 7777777 pisher.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 05:10 AM
0	There is always someone else Now you are starting to irritate me. This is a place— supposedly a safe place, for people in need to find haven, yet you continue to advance an insulting, pointless attack on a person whom you do not know, simply because I politely criticized you. YOU are harming people by creating contention. It’s not right.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 05:09 AM
-3	There is always someone else Seriously? Presentation … well you may not understand but that is actually an incredible compliment. WHY —It demonstrates that I am cogent. … not letting my emotions interfere with my comments. You see that’s the problem I have with you… I have no doubt whatsoever that your intentions are to help, particularly by sharing your thoughts and feelings based upon your life experiences. I have stated, and will state again (and believe me you should be thankful because I rarely repeat myself) that your…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 05:01 AM
-6	There is always someone else I will be very direct and upfront with you. It would appear you are harboring very negative feelings and it might have been better if you had not re-made your account. In my opinion you need to exercise more self introspection before you attempt to counsel others.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 03:15 AM
-4	There is always someone else Based upon the vehemently negative tone that comes across in your comments, I suggest that you reconsider your attempts to help/advise others, at least until you have reconciled your own feelings.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 03:11 AM
0	There is always someone else Respectfully although I understand you are trying to be helpful, I find your comment extremely wordy and presumptuous. I’m not saying you are completely wrong. I just think that your presentation is insensitive.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 03:07 AM
-1	There is always someone else I don’t understand why people downvoted your comment because I believe it is true and insightful.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 03:05 AM
7	There is always someone else I’m very sorry for your loss and pain. Unfortunately I have come to realize that it’s the truth, plain and simple. These people don’t have the same mentality as someone who is not… (I’m trying to be sensitive and not disparage anyone but I don’t know how to say it any other way.) … who isn’t narcissistic/insensitive/screwed up. They will use you until you are drained and when they see they are getting close to that point, will put into place a replacement for themselves, so they can transition. …	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 03:01 AM
1	How do you justify leaving Good luck to you as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 12:10 AM
2	How do you justify leaving There is wisdom in your words. All I would add is the realization that life is too short for anyone to sacrifice their own happiness and sanity regardless of the motivation.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 12:09 AM
1	How do you justify leaving I fully understand your distinction between seeking happiness and the desire to end your unhappiness. It certainly seems as if you are successful navigating the healing process and I commend you for sharing your experiences in an attempt to help others.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 12:05 AM
2	How do you justify leaving You have a very nice attitude. That’s rare. I agree that self heart-searching is crucial.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 12:01 AM
1	How do you justify leaving I applaud your analogy. You’re obviously clever and wise. I’m happy for your continued healing and wish you the best. I also congratulate you for taking the time to try to help others by sharing your personal experiences.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/24 11:57 PM
1	Can I film my EX? I do understand your concerns and desire to protect yourself particularly because the legal system/process in this country is so convoluted. I wish I had more to offer however I’m not an expert and can only speak about my own life experiences and what I have learned through counseling. Hang in there. Perhaps you should find a good attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/24 11:50 PM
2	Can I film my EX? Seriously what’s the point? Don’t waste your time. Focus on yourself and your future and ignore whatever she does or says. I know that may sound harsh or insensitive, but it’s the truth. Every second you let her into your mind, she steals part of your life. Don’t let her take any more from you.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 03:51 AM
-3	Discouraged after 18 months trying to get divorced. Do you mean my reply? If so, I’m humbled.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 12:53 AM
2	How do you justify leaving Despite the nasty comment below, I will say that your comments do come across as very superficial. Seems like you should reevaluate yourself and consider counseling.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 12:41 AM
1	How do you justify leaving Nasty	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 12:39 AM
2	How do you justify leaving Firstly I’d like to say that your comment doesn’t make you sound like a jerk. People do change over the years. It’s actually quite honest and realistic that you can say you realize you are far apart in your aspirations for the future. You shouldn’t assume that in the past your hopes and dreams were so divergent. It doesn’t help to look back. You need to look ahead, which it sounds like you’re doing. It’s a good thing you can see you both have different visions/goals for the future. Unfortunately…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 12:27 AM
3	Discouraged after 18 months trying to get divorced. Don’t ask for advice then be nasty to those who attempt to help you.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 12:03 AM
2	Discouraged after 18 months trying to get divorced. Exactly	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 12:01 AM
3	Discouraged after 18 months trying to get divorced. I agree that meditation is a waste of time and money. Attorneys push you towards that when they are giving up on you.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 12:00 AM
1	Discouraged after 18 months trying to get divorced. It really depends upon in what state you reside.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/24 11:59 PM
0	Discouraged after 18 months trying to get divorced. If he takes all his money with him it will only make it worse for him during litigation, which he must suffer through to attain a divorce. In most states in the US there must be a divorce settlement in order for the court to grant the action.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/24 11:56 PM
-8	Discouraged after 18 months trying to get divorced. Don’t be nasty and mean	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/24 11:53 PM
1	How much money did you lose during the process of divorce? The legal system is so wrong when it comes to divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/24 08:47 PM
1	How much money did you lose during the process of divorce? I understand and totally agree. Money isn’t everything. We only have one life and should live it to the fullest.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/24 08:46 PM
1	How much money did you lose during the process of divorce? Most unfortunate. It’s unbelievable what it can cost us to be free. I keep telling myself it’s worth it to be free and feel like myself again; to awaken and have a good day without the stress, anger, hurt feelings and anxiety.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/24 08:45 PM
1	How much money did you lose during the process of divorce? I agree whole heartedly	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/24 08:42 PM
2	How much money did you lose during the process of divorce? Yes the financial cost is unbelievable.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/24 08:42 PM
2	I feel both disappointed in and betrayed by her family Yes I understand because after 23 years of hearing how much the sister, brother, nephews had ignored her and how disappointed she was, when it came down to side with me or them, I was dirt; discarded like trash.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/24 05:27 AM
0	How do I even move on! I don’t mean to be insensitive but nobody can “make you have a kid”, particularly when you’re a man. That was your choice and to start the healing process you need to acknowledge your own actions. I’m not saying anything she did was right but you have to man up and acknowledge your own responsibilities. I’m certain this is not what you want to hear however it is the truth.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/24 05:20 AM
1	Ex of course caused drama on Father’s Day Typical	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 06:40 AM