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DISCUSSIONCompetitive_Teach628/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 08:29 PM
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Competitive_Teach628/r/RedPillWomen11/12/24 08:04 PM
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Her last post mentioned that she is still a student and has two or three more years of schooling. She cannot move at this point, and it seems like she intends to move to him after she is done with school. Given the circumstances, he has the money and resources to move to her and should be the one moving to her.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/25 04:21 AM
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I agree. It seems like he is treating her as a placeholder. She can return the energy, keep him in her life as a "friend", and continue going on dates or getting to know people for marriage without engaging in physical intimacy.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/25 04:09 AM
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Congratulation on ending it with him, girl! I know it is not easy. But eventually!??? How much longer does he need ? Words does not mean anything anymore. I am sure he did that for the past 5 years. He promised to change. Alright let’s watch his ACTIONS - not what he promised you to do. What do you want from him? A ring ? Him moving to your city? Paying off your student loan if you have any? Monthly vacation trips? Gifts and flowers? I would let him know that, and make sure to keep those standar…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 07:59 PM
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Of course, girl! My DMs are open if you want to talk more. We are around similar in age. I am 25. I am still processing and healing from that relationship even though it ended a long time ago - it is not easy when you care a whole lot - and figuring out the next steps as well.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/25 10:04 PM
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Yes, even in LDR. You are in school and have 3 and 4 more years to go. I was in a similar situation with schooling and LDR. The relationship is long-distance, but don't you guys get to know each other through FT, text, and calls and some in-person? And not only that, you both knew each other for 5 years. I genuinely believe that if a man truly wants to marry you, he will TAKE ACTIONS to be with you, move close to you to build a relationship with you, and not give you a vague answer - I don't kno…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/25 03:58 AM
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26-30 is not pretty young, if not, it is getting late very soon. We are similar in age. 26-30 is a good age. Imagine if your next relationship is another 4-year relationship, not including the dating and vetting phase, then you only have enough time for one or two relationships before you reach 30. Now is the good time to find your husband!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/25 03:43 AM
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Yes, girl, please leave, especially since your goal is to get married and have kids. I was in a similar relationship and wish I had gone way earlier. Four years are way way way too long. The man ended up cheating on me. The longer you wait, the more time you waste of your precious years finding a man who genuinely cherishes you and wants to grow a family with you. I truly believe that a man does not need 4 years to know if he is ready; if he is not by now, move on!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/25 03:29 AM
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Of course! And I saw that you mentioned he said that you should be treated like a princess. The guy I talked to also called me "princess" on our first date. TikTok videos about the "princess treatment" have been around. I'm not saying that the guy you are talking to is the same, but if he happened to send you memes and reels on Instagram, these might also be considered low effort. I thought it was cute at first that he was thinking about me, but he was mass-sending those to other girls. How did …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/25 07:01 PM
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I would be very cautious and try not to get too attached. I have been in a similar situation (somewhat LDR) where the man was lovely with his words and love bombed with promises such as marriage, gifts, and date night but rarely followed through. He also FT and called me every day in the beginning because these guys know they are charming with their words. I later learned he was talking to many other girls and promised them the same things. Men like these know what girls want and use their words…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/25 06:36 PM
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I really like your approach. How did you communicate that to them? Did you bring that up at the beginning or let him know when he asked you to be his girlfriend?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/25 03:42 PM
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You were absolutely right! I just found out that he were talking to and dating multiple girls while he was away so the lack of communication was concerning and reflective of what was happening.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/25 10:36 PM
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What are some of the feminine hobbies you would recommend?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 05:51 PM
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Yes, somewhat honestly! Since RP encourages looking for a man who is a provider, and for more of a traditional relationship, I can’t help but wonder if providing your girl “princess treatment” could possibly one of the traits of a provider, and if the man does not “invest” in you and take care of that way, especially during the vetting/dating phase, he might not be a good provider. At the same time, I also feel like these “princess treatment” videos are somewhat unrealistic, and that there are c…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 09:31 PM
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Yes! I read it! Thanks for the clarification! I think I only mentioned briefly in my original post, and should have been more clear but we don’t really text much - maybe once or twice a week (which is totally fine with me) and call maybe twice or three times a week. He is very busy so we don’t always meet in person on a weekly basis either. I was fine (while I do want more communication from him) with the current arrangement since I am also busy with graduate school, jobs and hobbies but it was …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/24 06:56 AM
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Thank you! It is helpful seeing it from a man’s perspective. I am not a big texter either but I did feel like a week without much communication was a little concerning for me. Thankfully he has been a bit better after last week.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/24 05:54 AM
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I will definitely do that! He has been better about communicating since I reached out and expressed my need!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/24 05:53 AM
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It is definitely so hard not to overthink the situation ! Thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/24 05:52 AM
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Thank you for your input! That really helps to put things in perspective for me 😊
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/24 05:52 AM
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He has invited me to go with him back home and to meet them but I have declined due to work and since in my culture, when we meet the family/bring the family in, that means you are in a very serious relationship - getting married soon stage. On my end, I am still evaluating the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/24 05:51 AM
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