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| 2 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearWith the first girl, I completely understand the need to warm up socially. I go out solo a lot and so I need to do it too. I initially try to get a lot of my warmup done with people where the stakes are way lower. So I'll be taking an uber/cab to the bar and I'll chat with the uber driver, then I'll chat with the bouncer/security for a second when I get inside, then I'll go straight to the bar and order a drink with the bartender and joke around with her and tip her pretty well on the first drin… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 05:47 PM |
| 8 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearThere's definitely some good in this but you're just doing what most guys do when they go out to bars and clubs that causes failure for the most part. And that's not talking to enough different women, not spending enough time trying to develop a meaningful connection with women, and failure/inability to escalate enough physically. People go to bars/clubs and nightlife spots to have fun during that specific night and to meet people for that specific night. And then wake up the next day (in most c… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | "You don't have instagram?" What's a good answer for this?As someone who is 6'4, makes good money, in good shape and has a big dick I can assure you that having a well put IG isn't really that important. I mean it can help for sure but there are many things that women care about way more. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herYou've clearly never dated a black woman before and almost seem more racist than OP with idiotic response after idiotic response | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Is this ghosting?It's not ghosting if she contacts you a couple days later...ghosting means ending all communication and avoiding contact with someone. Not really sure of the point of this post | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys interpret when a girl brush you off or ignores you but then is obviously staring at you for like 5 minutes after?Or maybe his game is trash and he says weird ass shit to them when he approaches them. Hard to really tell with such little context | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys interpret when a girl brush you off or ignores you but then is obviously staring at you for like 5 minutes after?How are you actually approaching them and what are you saying to them? | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 09:17 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys interpret when a girl brush you off or ignores you but then is obviously staring at you for like 5 minutes after?Way too vague of a post....need more context/details or an example. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Failure in real life approaches but master at online datingThere's probably just things in your profile turning women off, your photos aren't that good, or you're living in a more rural area where there aren't many people on the apps. I guarantee if you posted your profile people could find things to change to boost your results. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculineOh yea the girls that literally allow guys to stick their penis inside them but not trust at all and then have someone shake their bed to simulate sex....because that "technically" isn't real sex | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I can’t pick up women but succeed on Tinder datesWomen for sure enjoy being approached by some men. They just don't want to be approached by most men and don't like to be approached in the way that 95% of men approach women. That's the difference. People only like compliments from others if they are genuine and done unconditionally while seeking nothing in return. And 99% of men give compliments to women out of neediness or because of some idealization of who she is. They use compliments almost as a bartering tool to try to get into her pants. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 04:19 PM |
| 25 | I can’t pick up women but succeed on Tinder datesWhen you're cold approaching random women you also have no idea if they have a boyfriend or if they're even looking to get into a relationship right now. So you're going to get denied by shit tons of women for those two reasons alone. On the apps, even before you match with someone you know that every single girls you're swiping right or left on is single and looking for something. Which also makes the odds significantly higher. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Advice needed: How do I move forward with a girl after the first few dates when you want something more without appearing needy?Whatever you do, just don't tell her you have feelings for her or want an exclusive relationship before she starts bringing it up. | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | I’m 20 where CAN I go out and meet people?A lot of it has to do with where you live as well. I understand some people live in bumblefuck rural areas which makes it difficult. But if you live in any major city with over 500K people there are literally unlimited places to meet women, especially as the weather gets nice. For example, I could tell you hundreds of places in Chicago to go. It's absolutely insane how many women there are in big cities during the summer. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 07:01 PM |
| 4 | I’m 20 where CAN I go out and meet people?The gym, coffee shops, malls, street festivals, restaurants, parks, beaches, workout classes, coed sports, singles events, house parties, frat parties, concerts, music festivals, grocery stores, networking events, coworkers, social circles....the list is endless. There are millions of places to meet women that aren't bars and clubs. And honestly lots of people your age can still get into bars and clubs with fake ID's or on college campuses. It's really not that difficult. Just leave your house a… | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 06:41 PM |
| 2 | If she had more relationships than youIt's extremely fucking normal for someone who's been through 4 years of high school and 4 years of college to have had 3 different relationships over an 8 year period. It does not make them less of a wifey material. Just because you didn't have any relationships when you were younger and happened to have a very long LTR does not mean you should judge others differently. If you're seriously not considering dating women because they've had 3-4 relationships by the age of 23-24 and you've only had … | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 05:50 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of messaging me the following day if he doesn’t respond when I reply? And y his work # an not personal?You said you met him at a bar....not saying he was hammered drunk but I guarantee he was drinking a little or doing some type of drug. Guys will say and do a lot of shit you mentioned when they are under the influence of drugs and liquor. And then reality hits the next day and they aren't that interested anymore. Also, here's some advice for ladies. If you meet a guy and you're attracted to him and you can see yourself wanting more than just a ONS, don't have sex with the guy the same night you … | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 09:16 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of messaging me the following day if he doesn’t respond when I reply? And y his work # an not personal?Yea he's a horny young guy who was drunk. Obviously he isn't going to hesitate when you tell him you want to go upstairs lol. 99% of guys in this situation are going to do the exact same thing, even if the woman isn't that attractive. Sending a text the next day means nothing at all. People text things all of the time and then change their minds or end up ghosting. You're a stranger he had drunken sex with once, you aren't that special. He's probably talking to other girls. It's just the nature … | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Want To Date But Not Have SexHonestly seeing your primary care doctor isn't a bad idea....they could run blood tests or other tests to see if something is off. Then refer you to a specialist or therapist. | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of messaging me the following day if he doesn’t respond when I reply? And y his work # an not personal?He's just not that into you or the sex was bad or you did something weird or awkward or came off too eager or he just wanted a ONS and nothing more or he was pretty drunk and came back to reality the next day. Nobody knows why but what we do know is that he doesn't seem to want more and you should move on. Or desperately text him and maybe he's horny and wants to fuck you again. Nobody cares. But if you have self respect you should move on. | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Are We Dating The Same Guy (AWDTSG) - Thoughts?Yea that's still a very small amount relative to the actual populations of those cities. And those totals are just people that have followed the group at some point in their lives. That's not active users or people that use it regularly. Most people don't even use facebook that much nowadays. It's really just not something you have to worry about much. Most of the people that actively use sites like this are trolls and incels. Not normal people. And like many people here have said, unless you're… | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 06:45 PM |
| 3 | How to Proceed?You need to be asking these girls out on actual dates instead of chatting all day about absolutely nothing. They are complete and total strangers also talking to 50 other dudes just like you. If the conversation is going good, there's no reason to wait. Just ask them for their contact info and set up a date ASAP. If they don't want to do this then they were never that interested in the first place and you can just move on and talk to other girls on the apps. | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 05:07 PM |
| -1 | First time texting on tinder need adviceLearning basic english and how to formulate coherent sentences would be a great start. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 08:30 PM |
| 5 | Texting after first date after having sex?You should definitely text her sooner than later...like today. Unless you don't ever want to have sex with her again. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 08:21 PM |
| 11 | Unlocking the Art of Closing. How do you guys go about it?When you're meeting girls out at bars and clubs at night you need to be trying to hook up with them that same night. Otherwise, getting numbers, planning future dates etc. tend to die once the liquor and drugs wear off and people are hungover and back to reality the next day. That's why logistics is one of if not the most important parts of nightgame. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Day game + Cold Approach in Grocery / coffee shops? Seeking critiques.You've approached 4 people and 2 of them went well and another had a boyfriend. Which is absolutely nothing at all. It's all just a numbers/volume game and you're doing fine. And this is why it's also helpful to be using the dating apps too and going out and doing nightgame along with daygame. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 10:20 PM |
| 12 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneI'm not OP I'm just pointing out how terrible your reading comprehension is with this post. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 08:06 PM |
| 19 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneNobody is saying that you can't have female friends and that's not what this post is about. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Did she have buyers remorse?You're acting extremely needy | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 09:43 PM |
| 80 | Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours?The women who are still at nightclubs at 4-5am, hammered drunk and willing to go home with any guy they met 10 minutes ago are also the lowest quality form of women humanly possible in most cases. And often not worth the headache for 20 minutes of terrible, drunken, smelly, sweaty sex with a women you'll likely never see again. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Any one ever use business cards?There's really never going to be situations where you're able to hand someone a business card but can't spend the extra 10 seconds just asking for their number. This is also a very beta thing to do...you hit it off with this girl, why not be a man and ask for her number instead of weirdly handing her a card without saying anything. You're also putting the ball in the girls court where she's forced to text you and lead the interaction going forward. Generally it's better to get a girls number so … | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Worth starting cold approach now when braces come off in 3 months?(20M)You only live once and you can literally die at any moment. Also April - September is by far the best time to meet women in public. Any large city is absolutely ridiculous how many women are out. I live in Chicago and it's absolutely retarded how many good looking women are out at bars and patios on the weekends when it's above 60 degrees. There's no reason to wait. You're going to get rejected all of the time now and rejected all of the time when your braces come off. It's better to get more ex… | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 11:44 PM |
| 0 | what to do?I just want to say that men (and especially young men) make it extremely obvious when they like a girl. And women are extremely good at reading men and knowing when they have crushes since men hit on them and act weird around them all of the time for their entire lives. So I wouldn't be so sure that she doesn't know you like her. If you've talked to her and interacted with her in class while having a crush on her, there's a strong chance that she's picked up subtle cues that you're into her. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 11:37 PM |
| 0 | Its me or is almost imposible to get an stable relationship due to the easyness women have to meet new guys?Imagine blaming Joe Biden because you can't get pussy LOL | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | I keep getting ghostedYou're probably just boring as hell, don't know how to flirt, say weird things, ask too many interview questions, pictures probably aren't that great, have weird things in your bio that turn women off, don't move fast enough so women just move on to their 100 other matches, etc, etc. Hard to really tell without seeing your profile or seeing examples of conversations you've had. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 10:25 PM |
| 1 | An unanswerable question from a woman:100 miles is a ridiculous distance to start dating someone for most people. That can be almost a 2 hour drive each way just to see someone one time. It is a very valid concern for anyone. And most people don't want to deal with it. Especially on the dating apps where women have so many options. Many are not going to want to date someone initially that lives that far away. It just doesn't make sense and it's not worth the hassle. Relationships like this generally only work out once you've been da… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Need advice about dating in collegeYea I get that and I'm not familiar with universities in other countries but it's still bullshit nonetheless. I mean even in high school people date and hook up all of the time with people in their classes and high schools have way less than 2k students. I think the recent breakup is probably the main reason and she just added the other part to be nice too. But either way you should be talking to other girls and not focus too much on this one since she doesn't seem to be interested right now for… | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Need advice about dating in collegeI will also add that women generally are attracted to men for various reasons and physical attractiveness is usually not the most important thing. Behavior is extremely important. And women (and also people in general) are generally nice and don't like confrontation so they aren't going to be super direct with why they deny you. When they say things like "I have a boyfriend" "I'm not looking to date now" "I'm getting out of a relationship" "I don't want our classes to be uncomfortable.", that's … | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Need advice about dating in collegeThe "being uncomfortable because you're in a couple classes together" is complete and total bullshit. People in college date and hook up all of the time and are in the same classes, clubs, intermural sports teams, etc. I mean you're in a small town with like 10k-40k students...you're gonna see each other randomly a lot. If a girl is into you and likes you that won't matter at all in the future. I wouldn't worry about future girls. This girl seems to be not that interested and that's her way of l… | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 09:58 PM |
| 3 | How do I keep calm when I "found out" the girl I was DM'ing is very attractive?How many times have you messaged a complete and total stranger (who is attractive) on reddit that you don't have photos of, got her to come out on a date with you and had sex with her? | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 04:50 PM |
| 6 | How do I keep calm when I "found out" the girl I was DM'ing is very attractive?One of the most absurd posts I've seen here and that's saying A LOT. It's basically fucking summer guys....go outside and touch grass for christ sake | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | The Internet will kill your masculinity.The algorithms for Instagram and Tik Tok show you videos based on what you like to watch. So if you're constantly seeing pictures of hot girls it's because you're searching for and interacting with those videos all of the time. My instagram and Tik Tok feed is filled with cooking videos, sports videos, workout tips, etc because those are the things I like and watch. I don't ever have random girls popping up or pregnant teenagers or videos of girls being cheated on. Also the internet and porn hav… | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 09:22 PM |
| 41 | guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high statusYou have zero chance based on this post and your overall attitude and confidence | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 09:23 PM |
| 4 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?You're delusional | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:07 PM |
| 20 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?Guys, if you have sex with a woman and she starts ghosting and acting different and uninterested after having sex it generally means that the sex wasn't that good or you did something weird/off putting before or after. Women (and people in general) don't have sex with a person once and not want to see them ever again if the sex was really good and they are attracted to that person. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 03:37 PM |
| 8 | I trained an AI to help me flirt betterThese AI responses are so terrible that I actually encourage people to use them....eliminate as much competition as possible lol. Also, this may help for text messaging but you'll be super fucked when actually in person and have to come up with shit on the spot. People will literally do anything but actually try to talk to a human in person nowadays it's honestly insane. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Already fumbled this. But what would you have said?How do you know this girl though? Is she from a cold approach? Online dating? Friend from school? You don't need to seed a date. If a girl likes you and is attracted to you and is serious about dating and finding a partner she will go on a date with you. If she's beating around the bush and making you wait she's not that interested and most likely just using you for attention and you need to focus on other girls. It's absurd to have pet names and shit with girls you haven't even been on a date w… | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 04:35 PM |
| 10 | Already fumbled this. But what would you have said?Have you even been on a date with this girl yet? Have you hooked up with her? Even just a make out? Have you spent time in person together? Why do you have pet names? Why are you sending her pictures of dinner? Why are you spending all of this time messaging and saying stupid ass shit that's just killing your chances with her? Why are you texting so much and not just taking her on a date? | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 04:16 PM |
| 10 | Best Smaller Dating AppsHonestly I live in one of the top 3 largest cities in the US and I've found that most of the smaller apps really just aren't worth the time. The main 4 are really all that you need. The small apps have too many bots, fake profiles, not enough women...it's just a crapshoot. If you aren't doing well on the main apps and don't have good photos you aren't going to do any better on the small apps with way less people. And if you're doing well on the big apps there's no reason to even waste time on th… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 04:34 PM |
| 37 | Girls gave me their instagram…Following back means absolutely nothing....again most people in general are nice and polite. And it's really easy to unfollow or hide their posts later down the line. Anything in person said to someone's face will completely trump anything online. Her literally saying to his face she's has a boyfriend and just wants to be friends matters WAY more than any small little thing done on a social media app. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 08:55 PM |
| 32 | Girls gave me their instagram…But here's the thing...no woman is truly "taking a break from boys and dating." They just don't want to date unattractive men. If Michael B Jordan walked up to her and said the same thing she's not going to say "sorry I'm not dating right now." And if a woman was truly attracted to you and found you physically attractive, she's not going to blurt out "sorry I have a boyfriend" or "I think we should just be friends" in the first 2 minutes of meeting someone. Why would anyone do that, if they actu… | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Girls gave me their instagram…You need to think about this logically though....if you approach a woman and she's actually really attracted to you and she's also willing to cheat on her boyfriend then she's not going to bring it up. Women who are happy with their boyfriends will bring it up. If she's unhappy and wanting to meet other guys she's not going to say she has a boyfriend. Because it's idiotic. Women that have boyfriends and are willing to cheat on them don't bring up pretty much ever. You'll usually hear about it ri… | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 07:35 PM |
| 33 | Girls gave me their instagram…Yea that is a godawful line to say | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 07:00 PM |
| 72 | Girls gave me their instagram…These girls aren't interested at all....If girls say they have a "boyfriend" or "are taking a break from dating" that's there way of saying no in a nice, non-confrontational way. Giving an instagram means nothing. They just get a new follower which benefits them and are able to end the interaction with you without causing any drama. You could try to message them as a hail mary but personally I would just move on. You should focus on girls that actually want you instead of wasting time trying to … | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys be interested in workshopping parts of game?Dating apps, bars, clubs, malls, grocery stores, the gym, work, beaches, coffee shops, sporting events, casinos, restaurants, college campus, hobbies, etc, etc, etc, etc etc,....literally every place that's existed for hundreds of years where people have met women. What are we talking about here? LOL | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I get back in the game?Are you in college? Or just doing absolutely nothing with your life? | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 04:06 PM |
| 8 | How hard is it, to take 2 Women from the Club home with you?Extremely hard....especially if you're only a 5 and 5'9 and only 20 years old. It's hard as shit for most guys to take one girl home. I wouldn't even think about it or care about it too much or you'll drive yourself insane. It would be a once in a lifetime miracle for 99.9% of men | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 12:37 AM |
| 17 | Software Developer Picks Up GirlsThis guy is also tall, white, in very good physical shape, physically attractive, has tons of experience approaching girls, is very confident and not anxious, has good body language and vocal tonality, is funny, etc. And these videos are cherry picked to only show the best possible interactions and not the failures That's why the opener doesn't matter at all....girls are judging you on million other more important things An actual coder or software developer (not some youtube personality) could … | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Too much texting before first date?The problem with texting a lot with people you've never met before is that there's a much higher risk that you do or say things that turn her off than doing or saying things that make her more attracted to you. So it's best to limit as much as possible. | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Are concerts and festival a good place to find partners ?Yes, concerts and festivals are a great place to meet women. Especially if you are into that type of music too since you'll be way more comfortable in that setting and having fun. | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLDAs someone who lives in one of the top 3 largest cities in the US with a top 5 nightlife scene I can assure you that this is not the case at all....especially during spring and summer. Shit tons of women go out to bars and clubs | /r/seduction | 08/03/24 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLDThe problem is that you're projecting your own failures on the dating apps onto others. Like I live in one of the top 3 largest cities in the US and everyone I know has had success on the apps. Many have even found long term partners and wives on the apps. Some absolutely kill it. And many of my friends are below 5'8, not white, some are getting grey hairs and balding, some are slightly obese, etc. The apps are amazing for a lot of people, not just super attractive Chads, especially when you liv… | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 06:37 PM |
| 61 | Today I'm 1 more rejection closer to becoming the person I want to be.I'm glad you're breaking out of your comfort zone but you gotta be careful doing these super direct spam approaches at places like gyms where you go a lot and see the same people over and over. You should also not be directly asking women if they want to date you in the first sentence of meeting them. At least try to get to know them a tiny bit first. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Book suggestions: Manipulation/Seduction via nvbl meansPeople that actually get girls don't even waste time on coworkers....especially in super high risk jobs where there are actual consequences. Since there are unlimited options that aren't coworkers. Asking reddit how to "manipulate" coworkers into liking them is something that Average Frustrated Chumps do | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Book suggestions: Manipulation/Seduction via nvbl meansYou sound like a creep...stop trying to harass innocent women in the workplace | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Yea anyone saying alcohol isn't the main factor has no idea what the hell they're talking about. And it's similar for men and women. I've made out with, danced with, talked to for an hour, flirted with shit tons of girls while out drinking and had no desire to meet or see them ever again the next day. It's just the nature of bar game. I've also met tons of women that I've briefly talked to at bars and wanted to see again and been able to set up dates. It's all a crapshoot with bar/night game. Th… | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 12:10 AM |
| 3 | My attempts at flirting don't feel "flirty"You can't just read a bunch of "tactics" from a reddit filled with strangers of all ages, experience levels, races, etc, living all over the world and randomly employ them in real time....especially since most people don't know what they're talking about. Women aren't robots and that isn't seduction. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 11:35 PM |
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