CompleteMan_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Stop Overthinking	Inner Game	CompleteMan_	/r/seduction	26/07/25 04:01 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social media Lol, I do. Get really good at something sexy, and you won’t have to jerk it to celebrity feet and anime all day.	/r/seduction	04/08/25 10:52 AM
0	It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social media Instagram is the easiest way to project status. I’m a published portrait and erotic photographer and I get baddies in my DM all the time wanting to hook up and flirt	/r/seduction	04/08/25 05:40 AM
1	Getting rejections recently from cold approaches Part of why I’m so militant about my health is I can’t stand being invisible to women lol. Shallow I know, but it motivates and it works. I have a beautiful and smart girlfriend and I’d like to keep her around. Also being desirable to other women is never a bad thing, keeps healthy relationships exciting.	/r/seduction	29/07/25 09:35 PM
1	Getting rejections recently from cold approaches You’re aging, that’s simply it. You probably can’t tell how different you look because you see yourself every day. My advice. Get rid of the facial fat asap. You mentioned that this was a priority but get on it. Buccal facial fat is a death knell for men’s looks. (We’ve all seen the Vance memes) Watch your diet. You have an intense job so don’t let your diet slip. Alcohol, junk food and excessive sugar cause inflammation that looks horrible in the face. Yoga/ meditation/ massage . Again this is …	/r/seduction	29/07/25 12:14 PM
-1	Where do I learn the text game? Follow me if you want. Gonna be sharing free theory pretty soon. You can look at my Tinder posts to see a couple of winners	/r/seduction	29/07/25 01:31 AM
-1	Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? Reminds me when I hooked up with a sexy massage therapist in Atlanta who was a MAGA influencer. Made her wear a MAGA hat while I gave her backshots. She knew I was leftist and was very into it lol. Pretty sure there’s a Curb Your Enthusiasm episode about something similar.	/r/seduction	28/07/25 09:32 PM
0	Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? LMAOOO	/r/seduction	28/07/25 09:29 PM
8	Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? Too true. Masculinity to me means being protective, decisive, empathetic, kind, and appreciating the beauty and brains of a woman.	/r/seduction	28/07/25 07:16 PM
2	Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? Yup! And I guarantee he’s gonna be getting laid more frequently than most of the CompSci guys while making as much coin.	/r/seduction	28/07/25 06:31 PM
1	Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? Agreed with most of what you’re saying but I think philosophy is one of the highest paid majors now lol	/r/seduction	28/07/25 06:26 PM
16	Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? I’m leftist and very successful. It’s actually funny because I’ve had more success with MAGA women than most conservative dudes I know because I’m masculine but don’t treat women like shit.	/r/seduction	28/07/25 06:24 PM
3	How to conduct myself in an age gap situation When I initially saw that 12–15 you should’ve seen my face lol	/r/seduction	28/07/25 02:53 PM
1	Stop Overthinking Too true lol	/r/seduction	28/07/25 12:38 AM
1	Stop Overthinking Join my free substack bro lol. Gonna be developing a program to get men in the game.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 08:39 PM
1	Stop Overthinking This is definitely good advice. I’ve personally had great success just capitalizing on i.o.i’s but I’m also highly sensitive to them and can mostly differentiate genuine interest. If in doubt, I agree, just go for it unless her body language is closed off like you mentioned.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 06:10 PM
2	Stop Overthinking Fleeting glances or staring (especially with smiling or laughing with her friends) Playing with her hair and exposing her neck to you Her body oriented toward you and especially her dangling foot of her legs are crossed. Bedroom eyes (seductively narrowed eyes or dilated pupils) Bending over and exposing her cleavage or if she’s away from you deliberately accentuating her buttocks If you’re actually talking to her look for these signs Staring at your lips while talking Giggling or laughing at yo…	/r/seduction	26/07/25 06:06 PM
3	Stop Overthinking Nah I’m about the same height (and old) and I’ve always gotten signals. I promise you that you likely don’t know what to look for.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 05:42 PM
3	Stop Overthinking I’d find it hard to believe that women don’t at least glance at you if you look like a model. Could it be you’re not paying enough attention?	/r/seduction	26/07/25 04:55 PM
-1	Stop Overthinking It’s not necessarily a matter of being ‘good enough’, if she has a specific type she doesn’t deviate from, you’re DoA right off the bat— no amount of ‘holding frame’ is gonna change that. You’ll waste a lot time if you watch for signals.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 04:53 PM
7	I think im afraid of women and I feel that Im going to die alone if I dont change nothing. Spot on	/r/seduction	26/07/25 02:45 PM
7	I think im afraid of women and I feel that Im going to die alone if I dont change nothing. It’s because you’re trying to be too safe and not embarrass yourself. The next time a girl is staring at you and giving you signs, literally walk up to her and say ‘hey I think you’re pretty, can I buy you a drink?’ Put your cards on the table, don’t protect yourself. Women appreciate some amount of audacity. Get her a drink, learn about her without any pressure or expectations. Even if she isn’t interested you’ll gain rizz points that you can use in the future or later in the evening. Practice,…	/r/seduction	26/07/25 02:16 PM
-6	It’s not so bad once you put yourself out there Lol just trying to protect you guys. No one is telling you not to approach girls, but hitting on every girl you find attractive irrespective of vibes is a recipe for trouble.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 01:42 AM
-7	It’s not so bad once you put yourself out there Honestly just be careful with this. If you’re not waiting for signs and signals you will gain a ‘pest’ reputation in a hurry, depending on your approach. There are plenty of people that don’t want to be bothered, especially nowadays, so def learn to recognize the signs.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 01:11 AM
15	Help! Can everyone learn game and be atrractive ? Tell me your story please When I was in my early 20s I got absolutely no women— none. From my late 20s to my current age of 43 I’ve slept with about 60 women so I can speak from experience. People are giving you a lot of good and cute advice but I’ll try to give you something a little more concrete and actionable. Don’t get some muscles, get jacked. It’s very important at your height. Stay a good hearted and kind guy but assert yourself and don’t tolerate disrespect. Don’t turn down opportunities to be friends with women…	/r/seduction	25/07/25 09:15 PM
1	I get unmatched due to no text game? Do you have any hobbies? Are you well traveled? Well read? What are your aspirations?	/r/seduction	25/07/25 05:23 PM
2	I get unmatched due to no text game? If she’s a 10 and you’re a 7 then what do you have to keep her interested when 20 other dudes are in her DM? If you can’t answer that then start there. This isn’t meant to be mean but you need to decide what makes you interesting and sexy and sell it. The confidence of knowing that you have something that those other 20 dudes don’t have is what gives you the confidence to put in the work and keeps her from getting bored.	/r/seduction	25/07/25 03:51 PM
2	Advice on how to text should mainly be ignored? Three main rules for texting. Be interesting early. Tease her with some sexy hobby or something that signals your adventurous nature. If she’s not bored then texting games won’t matter. Once she’s interested and comfortable convert to a meet up as quickly as possible. Don’t be needy but show some urgency to meet her. If SHE ever double texts just because you got busy or whatever, you’re golden. She’s already very interested in you. Free up the schedule and hang out!	/r/seduction	25/07/25 03:45 PM
2	Age gaps in seduction No problem. If you’re into Substack drop me a follow. It’s new but I’m dropping all of my experience there (and I have plenty lol)	/r/seduction	25/07/25 03:33 PM
7	Age gaps in seduction I’m around the same age and used to be into younger women (mid 20s). First thing to remember is don’t be a lecherous boomer about it, being pervy is especially problematic with that big an age gap. Laying dirty talk on too early will kill the vibe. The women that love older men will find YOU. Remember what you have to offer— Wisdom, maturity, and easy drama free company. The kink aspects are always bubbling underneath and you’ll know the right time to tease them. BDSM and daddy dom kinks are pre…	/r/seduction	25/07/25 03:24 PM
11	Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with Women You’re probably becoming too stoic and self aware in female company. Loosen up, smile and have fun. Good looks just get you in the door, the rest is up to you.	/r/seduction	23/07/25 11:25 PM