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I think it is useful for some guys to grasp the concept that women’s attraction is more “holistic” and based on the way that he makes her feel rather than hitting certain stats (that’s not to say money or gymming isn’t important, but they’re more like attraction proxies than attraction itself). OPs example will succeed sometimes, but can come across corny to some girls if they don’t know him well enough, or fall flat if it’s perceived as insincere. But the point still stands, the fundamental ess…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/24 07:27 PM
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For me, 8-9/10. If she’s my ideal, then yeah making her happy does bring me a lot of joy and purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:57 AM
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Most women do indeed prefer to be the primary recipient of these things. However, if a woman is actually into you, she will reciprocate many of these to a good extent; but many men are not capable of managing the relationship to be able to strike that correct balance due to deficiencies in understanding women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:48 AM
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Yeah, kinda like an easy win to rebuild a little bit of self esteem and get back into the swing of knowing how to chat girls up again after a fry patch. It’s not particularly enjoyable, I much prefer to do it with a girl who I’m actually interested in. But needs must 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:57 PM
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I’m slightly ashamed to admit that yes, I’ve done this a few times. I think a lot of/most guys have at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:37 PM
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It isn’t even about being a dirtbag when it comes to hurting someone; you can be a perfectly nice person but if you have to reject someone for failing to meet your standards for a relationship, it is nearly inevitable that they will attribute some negative characteristics to you as a result to protect their own ego. The trouble with many people, Red Pill or not, is they assume the rejections they face are due to other’s moral failings as opposed to their own inability (due to a combination of lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:05 PM
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I get you. I think it’s wise for men to take the understanding of women’s typical nature that is espoused within the Red Pill (i.e. attraction to masculine characteristics, whether socially acceptable or not; capacity to be opportunistic and to be easily capable of dropping a guy if the tables have turned) quite seriously; but use this information along with the understanding of one’s own inclinations to inform future interactions with women rather than being bitter towards them. Put simply, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:16 PM
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I’m a chap leaning towards the RP being useful for describing the general behaviour of women in romantic/sexual relationships, but I agree too. A lot of the guys who get into it were poorly socialised from the beginning and carry that over once they have acquired the Red Pill, and lack the capacity to segregate women’s romantic preferences from their moral characters, so tend to demonise or stereotype women excessively
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:58 PM
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I think men can indeed show emotion, especially with regards to portraying an appropriate degree of protectiveness/possessiveness to a woman. Women want to be loved by a man, but in the fashion that a father loves his daughter, as opposed to how a son loves his mother
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:28 PM
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To be truly affectionate to a woman, one must have a degree of vulnerability. I think what women tend to prefer is that a man is emotionally tough with situations outside of the relationship, but has a degree of vulnerability (a soft side) with her; although they prefer if he displays this in a protective manner than than affirmation seeking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:24 PM
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Does it specifically have to be a side-hustle? No. Do you need to develop the combination of soft skills and technical knowledge within fields which will continue to be in high demand? Yes
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 11:34 AM
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I wouldn’t be so pessimistic OP, the “original” Red Pill is simply education towards men on the traits that women sexually select for in men; it can be thought of as lying outside the realm of morality. Many men tend to feel bitter upon learning of these things, and that bitterness is what fuels the popularity of Red Pill “Creators”, as opposed to the original message itself being a prescription for action in the world. I would give myself as an example; I believe that the Red Pill is 80-90% cor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:36 PM
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By attractive, I don’t mean only looks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:02 PM
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OP tell me if I’m wrong, but I think most women would prefer a guy who would be widely considered attractive and desirable to other women, but who chooses to “simp” for her a little but without being overboard. I have personally found that treating a woman nicely in person (taking her out, being affectionate, etc.) has helped to deepen her emotional investment, so long as I don’t do those things if she behaves in an undeserving manner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:46 AM
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I’ve gotta second this. Most men do have Blue Pill tendencies which is why many get vitriolic once they have been burnt a few times and have read about the Red Pill. That doesn’t mean that the information is incorrect, even if many of those espousing it are bitter or use it to proscribe “immoral” solutions. Personally I prioritise forming relationships with women with a strong emotional bond in addition to the sexual one; the Red Pill has allowed me to achieve this with the women I like with a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:59 PM
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It’s not low self worth, it’s just that the standards which a girl must meet for sex and for commitment are at two different levels. Guys are much more strongly driven than many women can understand, to the point where a barely attractive woman will do the job. On the other hand, when it comes to investing into a woman for the long term, that’s when much higher standards are in place for physical attractiveness and personality. Sex with these higher quality women is MUCH more fulfilling, but als…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:49 PM
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I also concur with this, the difference in being 205lbs and 175lbs for me is huge in terms of the ease of generating interest in new women I come across irl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:36 AM
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I would disagree that men don’t actually like women. There are definitely some women who are nice to spend time with outside of the bedroom; these are the kind of girls guys want relationships with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:21 PM
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Man, it’s so weird seeing such well thought out answers on this Sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:55 PM
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A lot of behaviour that receives some kind of internet “label” is actually relatively normal when adjusting for the subtleties of the real world. An example (not the best, but one I can think of now) is “No always means NO”. In the real world, a girl might teasingly tell a guy “no” whilst clearly indicating via body language that she wishes him to continue; this kind of nuance is often lost on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:00 PM
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I don’t think there is much evidence to say that it is only “lonely men” who have a preference for young ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:51 PM
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What does “older man” really mean? I see plenty of guys who are in their early 30s who do well with girls who are 10 or so years younger, and not only due to their money. An attractive, well put together man at 25 isn’t going to be that much different when he is 31-32 if he remains in good shape. I myself have found it easier dealing with girls who are 19-22 since getting in my mid 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:45 PM
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It must be an American thing, cause to me that girl looks enormous 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:07 PM
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The bubble guy is usually caused by bloat rather than overgrown organs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:01 PM
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People’s metabolism isn’t subject to very much change simply based on hormones (barring thyroid, of course). Don’t get me wrong, hormones can affect your levels of hunger and satiety, but not your metabolism as much as folks say. It is quite understandable to find it trickier to be in athletic shape when kids come along, but it isn’t that hard to eat correctly and to refrain from overindulging in vices if you are committed (I say this as someone who has a baby, yet manages to work out an hour a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:24 AM
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That final paragraph is something I’ve not actually thought about before 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:26 PM
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I think a lot of the stuff on here is over exaggerated when it comes to the plight of the average man (in the UK at least, I can’t speak for over the pond) however I would indeed say that things are worse in ways. It is undeniable that online dating has changed the landscape somewhat due to the access to a higher tier of men that average girls didn’t have such easy access to prior. Whilst things might not be “quite” as bad as made out to be on here, the reality is that many average girls on Tind…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:44 AM
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For a period of time, yes, or go down to part time. Others are entitled to their own opinions, but for me I would rather my children spent their first formative years with their mother rather than strangers at daycare/nursery
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:13 PM
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I meant I don’t care as in it is not something I consider too much, but if I were pressed for a choice I’d prefer the min wage one. Not to say I’d never consider a girl who had a career if she was just trying to establish herself well in her early 20s before starting a family, but if she placed career over family/relationship then it’s an absolute no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:13 PM
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If she won the lottery, it would be no issue to me. If she had a higher income or worked as much/more than me, then that would be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:50 PM
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I earn enough enough money to give myself and my partner an above average lifestyle, but to do so I work away a lot and longer hours. I prefer a girl with whom I can relax with and neither of us have to think about work outside of it. In addition, I want children and think that it’s best that at least one parent is very present for the first few years. As much as people say “well why can’t you stay at home and she be the breadwinner”, the reality is that that is an unusual arrangement which I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:15 PM
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I don’t care about a girl’s career or income tbh. I would sooner choose a girl who earned minimum wage than a “career woman”. Some people will become defensive over this, but for 90%+ guys this is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:53 AM
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I’m 24, girls from 18 to 26 are most attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:00 PM
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You look much more than 170lbs, mirin brah 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:24 AM
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One of the few answers on these threads that actually reflects reality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:50 AM
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I wouldn’t really say it is of concern to most people as most wouldn’t typically notice until they were told, and wouldn’t be too concerned unless the maturity gap was so immediately apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:01 PM
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I think this is a bit extreme though. I am 24 and when I come across women who are 18-19, I don’t find that the gap seems significant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:12 PM
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You’ve given a pretty good assessment here imo. I had often wondered why most of the women on Reddit seem to be so much more bitter than women I come across irl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:53 PM
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