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I heard some things bro, but this is different at every level that I can even comprehend. If Jesus Christ is real, burn this planet down.
/r/MensRights14/07/24 10:37 PM
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I just want those women To leave us alone bro. We chilling gang. Edit: I think the feminists and a modern women forget that we as men could just find Hobbies to do or find a purpose other than being in a relationship. Shout out to the women that don't hate in disregard men.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 06:30 PM
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That's why I only read books about masculinity or come to this sub Reddit. I don't use Twitter anymore . The Google search engine is bad but if you putting keywords you can find support groups for Men. I'm tired of overall being gaslighted that men are the problem.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 06:21 PM
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I overall do not care about the gender. Just don't make the character annoying and don't make their gender, sex, or/and race their whole entire identity and play victim because other "gender/race/sex bad" philosophy. Just write characters that developed a philosophy a way of living, those philosophies being challenged by antagonists (good or bad people) , and overcome the enemy's philosophy or understand their perspective. NO REAL LIFE POLITICAL IDEOLOGIES IN MOVIES! Just make movies that challe…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 11:32 PM
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Women is not gonna be the solution, your ex wife got you in this position from the start so another woman in your life will make it worse. Focus on yourself and find male friends.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:44 AM
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Thank you. I'm just tired of the overall mind games women play in relationships. I'm tired of trying to be a mind reader and focusing on her problems. I just want to overall focus on my goals, my problems, and die a happy man knowing what I accomplish in my life that I find fulfilling preferably alone unless I can find a good woman that respects my leadership.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 09:35 PM
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I assume you don't find her sexual attractive so I'm not gonna judge the friendship but I just don't believe women and men can be friends. We overall live in two different views of reality. I don't think she a man hater but you may need to consider cutting her off if she gonna make remarks on an whole entire gender. You not gonna understand her problem as a man and she clearly doesn't understand men's problems form her insults she said to you.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 08:54 AM
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I can smell the hatred for men from that comment. We need To start giving these feminists bears or even polar bears so it can finally feel safe. Comments like those feminists make are the reason why a lot of men become misogynist due to The hatred of men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/24 02:06 AM
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Your in highschool so is it not over for you overall. I'm Not going to invalidate how you feel because you going through something that is extraordinary unrighteous but keep your chin up. You're going to be an adult soon and your high school days will soon be over. I recommend this at this moment is to focus on yourself and focus on things you're passionate about. Also hang around with people that care about you for who you are, Don't try to fit in with the "popular" kids . They going to get wha…
/r/MensRights04/07/24 08:45 PM
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I'm voting for daddy Trump
/r/MensRights01/07/24 03:14 AM
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Hell yeah, that why I joined this sub. I low-key need a hobby or Hobbies that can compensate being in a relationship with women to be less needy. Gotta save this for my notes.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 03:10 PM
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They'll call you a Incel for disagreeing with feminists . I personally don't believe that being Incel is a bad thing. The best solution I have for you is a lookup covert contracts which is basically me doing something out of the expectation of getting something returned (a.k.a manipulation). The best solution to stop being "incel" is to focus on yourself. Focus on doing things that makes you happy outside of relationships and sexual gratification. Learn how to be truly happy by yourself alone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/24 07:27 PM
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Oh, okay then.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 10:40 AM
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That great, but still don't sleep with women who are intoxicated. It is a moral thing for me personally. I want my partner to be fully conscious if she consent.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 10:17 AM
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They wouldn't be believe their 1000 genders and recognize their only 2 (intersex is reasonably debatable as it is a real genetic phenomenon, but you still either have prominent feminine or masculine characteristics with physical, emotional, and behavioral traits.)
/r/MensRights14/06/24 03:31 AM
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That's fair. But let's say that you're not going to go against your parents teaching and making their teaching gospel. You have to deal with the consequences of your actions that you've been told at the end of the day on what you believe in by your parents. That's what is important to find different perspectives from other people. Also this isn't a really single mother thing. Bad parents teach belief systems and behaviors that is not conducive to serve your own best interest due to resentment , …
/r/MensRights13/06/24 08:30 PM
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I disagree with you, kids/teens/adults are naturally rebellious by nature to test if their parent/ people /Leaders teaching is solid or not to find their own identity without them. People tend to learn the hard way due to the consequences of their actions or other people's actions. There's literally kids looking up to Andrew Tate (I like him to some degree). Also, at any age, anyone can change their mind. Not everybody's stuck in their beliefs systems if it's not serving their best interest. Als…
/r/MensRights13/06/24 01:14 PM
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There's many other Male influencers. Don't worry too much. At the end of the day boys can decide what kind of man they want to be when they teenagers or when they grow up to be adults. One example, you don't grow up believing in God, someone else will convince you. Is it up to you if you believe it or not.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 04:56 AM
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Wow 💀
/r/MensRights13/06/24 12:21 AM
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I'm just going to therapy bro. I can't knock it until I try it.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 10:44 PM
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I appreciate your concern, I'm still going to go. I can't solve all my problems on my own.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 03:12 PM
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It is taking action, I'm talking to someone to change my behavior for the betterment of myself by challenging my belief systems that been taught to me to live the life I want to live. Taking action aimlessly without talking to someone is a recipe for disaster and will cause me multiple unnecessary mistakes.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 03:05 PM
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You don't know. Unless you take action. At least I give it a chance. Also, that's why I specifically pick a male therapist. They have a better degree of what I'm coming from cuz they're male
/r/MensRights11/06/24 03:01 PM
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$2,000 for child support and alimony. Send me to prison bro.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 10:03 AM
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Thank you,
/r/MensRights11/06/24 09:13 AM
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Thank you man. I guess I'm still going to therapy just for closure. Regardless, I'm going to take your advice to heart regardless if the therapy session goes good or bad. I'm just overall tired of proving to people especially women that I am a good person.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 08:48 AM
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I'm good with that, I just want to focus on myself at this point. I'll see what I want to do from there. I appreciate your criticism.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 08:32 AM
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I respect what you believe in but even still I do not want to hang around Feminists. I don't mind you guys calling out bad man but the generalization of men ruined my mental health. Trying to prove to everybody that I'm one of the good guys not knowing the consequences of my actions that it will never be good enough to see I'm a good guy by the women/ feminist to the point where I am being taken advantage of ruining my mental health. I just want to learn how to focus on myself better and stop ca…
/r/MensRights11/06/24 08:27 AM
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We have one? Interesting.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 11:56 PM
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Estrogen is in all humans but is predominantly in women. I do not fault women for their nature. It is what it is. However, I recognize that you should not be putting your self-worth and your identity on on your partner. This is a genderless thing. People come and go. The divorce rate speaks for itself. That's all I'm saying bro. Live how you want to live your life . I just don't subscribe to your definition of love.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 10:14 PM
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With all due respect, your kind of mindset will get you played. I noticed a lot of men who are relationship focused get played more than a man that's is mission focus. I respect how you live to live your life so do you. Edit: You should also look up estrogen. That's also human nature predominantly in human females.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 10:04 PM
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No bro. Not even the right one. You shouldn't be relying on her to feel fulfilled whatsoever. Women can change up by the second. It's Also burdensome on her for you to rely on her to make you happy.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 08:39 PM
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Get hobbies, find your passions, get rich, etc. It's not that hard bro. A lot of guys rely on women to find happiness and meaning in their lives. Women are not everything. Become a gladiator or a warrior or something.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 04:07 PM
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Women are not going to make you happy bro.Don't believe me, go and try to get a girlfriend.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 04:02 PM
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The feminists do not care, they want to justify hating men. Just let them die alone. There's no point of using logic to argue against emotion. To them, trauma will always be superior over facts.
/r/MensRights29/05/24 11:40 PM
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Nah, women are weird but I do want the mother of my children to be part of my life. My children should know their mother, good or bad. I just won't have kids.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 09:10 AM
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I learned from my own experience that I didn't actually want to be in a relationship with women. It was due to my own insecurities of missing out and trying to win the approval of other people who was or had been in romantic relationships. I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with a woman but I would not go out my way to get into a romantic relationship. I have my hobbies that I find more enjoyable there being in a romantic relationship.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 07:42 PM
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Testosterone is both a gift and a curse. Luckily I got a sex doll so I'm chilling.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 07:35 PM
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I'll say it depends on what kind of relationship it is. I agree that we are social animals by nature as humans. I rather be alone than to be a toxic relationship. I agree that we need relationships but specifically romantic relationships it's more of a bonus than a need. I wouldn't want to tell my son that if you do not get in a sexual romantic relationship with a woman, you're a loser. I'll basically be ruining his confidence.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 07:27 PM
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That's awesome ! I'm happy those guys chose peace then chaos.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 07:09 PM
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Respectfully, you're not cooking . Just cuz you disagree with the philosophy, it doesn't make it automatically incel content.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 06:52 PM
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Exactly. Women are giving every red flag in the book and it is sad to know that there are men who will still pursue them because "Woman looks hot."
/r/MensRights17/05/24 06:26 PM
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I agree. I learned the hard way it is dangerous to put your self-worth to get sex from women. Women can drag men down to hell with no remorse by men trying to get sex from them and they know you want it. Women can be evil if you allow them to control you just to get the puss.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 06:03 PM
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I had sex, It is overrated to me. I rather beat my meat or buy a sex doll than have sex with a woman. It's cheaper/ free and there is no nagging. You right tho, men should do what they want overall.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 05:46 PM
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For me, I want to live so therefore I keep moving Forward. I know at any time I could just end it if I wanted to but couldn't do it. I accept The good and especially the bad with the world. I do not want to give up on my life because I want to live so I will go to the hardships for my own sake to one day eventually find peace in this world or the next.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 12:46 PM
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NAHHHHHHHHH THIS IS SOME EVIL THAT'S NOT EVEN COMPREHENDABLE.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 12:37 PM
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I personally don't care about Gaza or Israel. I care about America and men around the world
/r/MensRights14/05/24 12:18 PM
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Yeah I deserve the shame but I'm just speaking for myself.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 05:43 AM
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What she did was wrong but if I was that 17 boy, I'm clapping those cheeks religiously. Down vote me.
/r/MensRights12/05/24 03:22 AM
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I'll pick the bear, where's the woman doing the woods anyways?
/r/MensRights12/05/24 03:19 AM
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It was a feminist, I'll pick the bear. But generally I will pick the woman. My mom just drove me through work today.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 03:57 AM
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Feminist but generally women just want free stuff without reciprocating. That is female nature.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 04:04 AM
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I'll pick the woman. Mama bear going to eat me alive
/r/MensRights08/05/24 01:11 PM
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I like your mindset
/r/MensRights08/05/24 01:10 PM
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Ignore those kind of women. I find those kind of women unattractive anyways so I don't really acknowledge their existence. I just focused on the girls that don't take douchebags, good behavior, and who likes me. Me. Rest I ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:14 AM
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Are those the kind of women you find attractive? I don't date women who dating "douchbags" in there past.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:41 AM
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Understandable but I was just speaking to the men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:50 PM
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If you wouldn't mind, tell me what qualities you are looking for a woman. I will let you know If your mindset is a scarcity or abundance. Also, I want you to tell me the women you find attractive want in a man. There's a lot of girls that has unrealistic expectations and I avoid those kind of women. I knew a guy and helped him out for dating and he's doing pretty well for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:05 AM
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It's not a privilege brother, it's just what I find attractive. If she likes me, I find her extremely attractive. If she doesn't like me or shows any disinterest in the near future during our relationship, I will immediately find her unattractive and cut her off. I don't even acknowledge the existence of girls that don't find me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:55 AM
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Come on man , you know there's one girl out there that likes you. Have more faith in yourself. The alternative is to date girls that don't like you but look good as they going to be hard to get games, wasting your time, money, and your energy.. Trust me, there are girls out there that like you already just the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:45 AM
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LMAO, women like ball dudes anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:30 AM
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My fault, I'm bald too if it helps a lil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:24 AM
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Maybe it's a sign. At least you don't have to brush your hair. No more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:19 AM
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The only way this is possible that they feel invisible is that they're only focusing on girls that don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:05 AM
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I'm going to edit the post. I should have overall said date girls that care about you, not girls that look good. I've be seeing too many guys saying they're invisible. I just don't understand how guys can be attracted to women that do not care about them even if she is gorgeous. Must be a new generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:53 AM
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EXACTLY!!! That's all was saying. All the men here got to do is date girls that care about him and respect his boundaries. I don't care how gorgeous a girl is, if she not showing high interest and don't care about my boundaries the moment she speaks to me, I am cutting her off immediately. A disrespectful woman, no matter how gorgeous he is, is the most unattractive to me, especially if she has low interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:36 AM
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There are more or less 3 billion women on this planet . There's at least one girl out there that already like them for who he is. I don't know what requirements the men have here that they are looking for a partner but I know if a girl no matter how gorgeous she is that if she does not show extreme high interest in me that the moment that we speak, I will not find her find her sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:16 AM
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So why focus on girls that don't find you attractive? What are Men basing their attraction on when getting into relationship ? Are they focused on girls that look good or they focus on girls that care about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:48 AM
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I noticed a lot of guys here are attracted to women for the wrong reasons. I think women's beauty is a very great quality to have, but if she doesn't care about you or like you, why would you want to be with her in the first place? I think a lot of men need to change what they find attractive in women outside of looks . For me, I just couldn't date a girl that doesn't show high interest in me no matter how good she looks. It's very odd to me in certain guys mindset and looking for a partner in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:47 AM
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I noticed that a lot of guys are attracted to girls for the wrong reasons solely for her physical appearance. Putting yourself first is obviously a natural attractive quality to have. I try to tell these guys that you should be only attracted to girls that like you, not because she looks good. Maybe it's just me but I can't be sexually attracted to a girl that does not like me no matter how good she looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:36 AM
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I'm ready to debate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:31 AM
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I might have a ideal what you mean now. For me personally, I would rather be alone and then to be in a relationship with someone that dislikes me. There's so many fun things you can do with your life outside of a relationship. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that dislikes me and treats me poorly even if the woman I am with is a supermodel. My apologies if I came off insensitive but I couldn't imagine being sexually attracted to somebody that doesn't like me. I guess I just g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:34 AM
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My apologies but I just don't understand why you want to be around people that don't like you even if they look good? That's very odd. I'm new to Reddit, just wanted to help. There's a lot of good looking people but if they don't like me, why would I want to be around them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:15 AM
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Again, why are you attracted to girls that don't like you ? I never heard of this in my life and it's extremely weird to me. I don't care how good someone looks , if they don't show high interest in me, I literally cannot find them sexually attractive. Do not understand your perspective. Why don't you just focus on girls that like You ? Why would you be around people that don't like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:06 AM
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It a give or take. Most of values comes from Christianity. To me it better to be safe than sorry if I die. I just need faith and I won't burn forever? say less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:44 PM
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Exactly, I don't take life too seriously. We should all be having fun enjoying ourselves. God made an abundant world, why not utilize it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:29 PM
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Why would people be attracted to people that look good? Why don't people date people that likes them? This confuses me. I would never date somebody that don't like me but looks good. That's weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:26 PM
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Was a same boat but whoever created the laws of reality must be God. God lowkey made a big video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:24 PM
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Yeah I'm a Protestant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:13 PM
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Why would you want to be with a or even sexauly attracted to girls that don't like you? My meat only go up if a girl is showing high interest in me. Looks are overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:12 PM
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Mmmmmm bear meat 🍖
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:07 PM
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But you got community, Rivers, fish, air, and family. If you're religious, Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:02 PM
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So why would you want to be attracted to girls that don't like you? That's kind of weird. My family never taught me to date girls because she looks good. That's kind of weird. I'm only attracted to girls that like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:01 PM
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What is redpill? Maybe just me but I'm only attracted to girls that like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:57 PM
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I don't understand why you are so attracted to girls that don't like you from the start. The most unattractive thing that I find in a girl is a girl that don't like me. I stay away from girls that literally don't like me. If a girl do like me and show high interest in me, it literally raises my libido. Good luck to you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:53 PM
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I don't understand what you mean ? Why are you attracted to girls that don't like you anyways? Their opinion of me of how I look to them is irrelevant to me. Looks are subjective. You can go outside and see couples and the men (from My point of view) are uglier than me. A girl that looks good is cool but if she doesn't like me and don't have good character, why would I want to be with her in the first place anyways ? I solely only date girls that like me and pick out the best ones from there to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:50 PM
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There's a book called dating essentials for men by Dr. Glover. Give it a read. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong. Dr. Glover is the goat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:40 PM
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Just take care of yourself first and put yourself first. Be attracted to women that like you and don't be with women solely for her physical appearance as she will most likely have a mean attitude and won't like you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:38 PM
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You should be attracted to women that are attracted to you. I don't know why you are attracted to women that are attracted to superficial things such as looks. You need to overall change what you find attractive in girls. I don't know what standard you're basing attraction from in the girls you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:30 PM
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Why are you so focused on people that don't care about you? You're too focused on women you like instead of focus on women that are showing interest in you already. I understand you want the girl of your dreams but if she doesn't like you, it doesn't matter what you do and you should move on to people that care about you . Not everybody's going to like you but you need to like yourself first to start the process. Why would you even want to be with a girl that finds you "Ugly" anyways ? There gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:19 PM
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Brother, if you don't care about yourself, she's not going to care about you, and the people around you are not going to care about you. If you care about yourself, a large number of women are going to care about you, and a large amount of people around you are going to care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:13 PM
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I am a man of culture
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:11 PM
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There was an anime called Fate that said the same thing. The King was awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:10 PM
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I personally don't like calling it "alpha." I just call out bad behavior when I see it solely because I care about myself. You don't got to act "alpha", just have boundaries and walk out whenever you feel disrespected. Stand up for yourself sometimes too. I know this may sound harsh, but I care more about myself than I care about my partner. It'd be upset if she left, but at least I got myself and millions of other women out there that want to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:05 PM
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You can literally build confidence just by taking care of yourself. The more you take care of yourself , the more confident you will be. If you're only taking care of yourself to build confidence to get a specific woman, obviously you will fail because your confidence is based on getting an approval of a specific woman. That's what I said date the girl that likes you, not the one you like. There's 3 billion women out there that that has the potential to like you, she may not be your dream girl. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:01 PM
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Nature is a beauty. I think it's awesome because I can generally actually show to the world that I Care about myself and still get girls even if I show a sense of arrogance (thankfully my arrogance is not stemmed from external factors but internal). It's a wonderful world and truly a abundant place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:53 PM
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I agree but beauty to a certain degree is in the eyes of the beholder. People have their kinks. If a girl feels any kind of neediness come out the man, she going to runoff (pick up artist). What I'm saying is when we interact with women and people in general, we should going up to them with a sense of contentment that you don't need anything out of them . Neediness is like me buy her a drink and expecting her to suck my meat. Contentment / confidence is me buying a girl a drink and being okay wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:50 PM
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All you got to do is take care of yourself first, do things that makes you happy, and watch everything else follow. People can sense that you are genuinely are having a good time doing the thing YOU want to do and people will want to be around that kind of energy. You shouldn't feel guilty taken care of yourself first because you are human and you matter too just like anyone else on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:38 PM
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Looks do matter but if you don't care about yourself, you not getting any woman regardless with or without the beer gut. I seen some big fat dude with a girl so I say looks is subjective. I would say it more how she feel about you than you overall physical attractiveness. Feeling will always be irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:30 PM
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Exactly. We wouldn't be here as human beings if we didn't had a certain degree of narcissism and self- reliance. Hard times require hard decisions for the survivor of yourself and the well-being as others you care about. It was (some degree still is) literally essential to care about yourself in order to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:15 PM
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If men prioritized self-care as much as they prioritize caring for women, society would greatly benefit. Too often, men focus excessively on what they can gain from women instead of focusing on their own happiness and well-being. When women, and people in general, observe men enjoying themselves and pursuing activities that bring them joy, it naturally attracts others to join in because it appears enjoyable. She would naturally want to have sex with him than making her feel obligated to have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:11 PM
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I don't disagree but how you get needs met can be unhealthy, wrong, or immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:31 PM
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I guess I am, good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:29 PM
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Is literally called existing and survival. If you don't care about yourself, how do you expect people to care about you? Who knows though, I could be talking out my butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:27 PM
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Simps care to much about getting things from other people convertly than taking care of themselves and having self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:12 PM
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no problem, Just want to help the guys have an healthy dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:01 PM
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Individuals labeled as simps, Nice Guys, or people-pleasers often perform acts of kindness with an unspoken expectation of receiving something in return. When they don't get what they desire, they persist in their efforts until they either succeed (which is never) or hurt that person. This behavior reflects an unattractive trait known as neediness. In contrast, a confident man prioritizes self-care by fulfilling their own needs. When they extend kindness or make a move like asking someone out, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:55 PM
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exactly. Some girl think looking good is good enough. She must have good character.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:49 PM
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You summed it up perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:42 PM
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I overall telling men is to not give women the pressure of making her responsible for your happiness as a man. You should be happy with or without her. She should not have to power to control your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:31 PM
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Debate me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:26 PM
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Simps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:17 PM
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You right but if you have time, look up covert contracts. Some men don't know this knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:16 PM
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Bro it the opposite, YOU are the prize. Humans tend to want what is is difficult to acquire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:10 PM
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Or you could live live life and do thing you like or don't do things you don't like from life experiences. Not all fathers out the key on how to live a good life. You can ever go look for other male role models, books etc.. Some fathers give simp advice. That all I'm saying. If your father was a cuck, you take his advice?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 03:21 PM
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Amen to that. Nothing wrong with being feminine as a man. I love taking care of myself. I respect your opinion. God bless
/r/MensRights01/05/24 01:02 AM
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With all do respect, if that masculinity than I am not masculine. I'm not dying for some because it my "job'" If you were to tell a woman to die for men, they look at you crazy. My life is important like anyone else out here. What if I told you to die for me because "it your job." If I'm going to die for someone, I'm going to do because I care about, not out of obligation. I don't subscribe to your kind of masculinity.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 11:47 PM
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I basically have the same mindset as you. I would like to be in a relationship but I understand there other things I value more than my being in a romantic relationship such as my hobbies, religion, ECT.. Those things help me become less needy in a relationship as I got other things going on that are more important than that relationship. Do I love my partner? yes, but I love myself, my mission, and my hobbies more. The advice I give the "incels" (I don't like to use it as a derogatory word) is …
/r/MensRights30/04/24 09:57 PM
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Yeah, you pretty much summed up what I was trying to say, but in a clearer way. I'm glad I had the chance to live with my father for a while and see the kind of man he is, but I was wise enough not to follow his simp advice blindly. While I value the relationship with my dad, I also recognize there are other male role models I can look up to. Even if I hadn't had any male role models, I know I would have prioritized myself and acted accordingly. Putting myself first would have naturally made me …
/r/MensRights30/04/24 01:43 PM
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Better yet, let me ask you this question. Do you care about yourself more or do you care about being in a relationship more? I believe your priorities is going to determine your self-worth and identity of who you are and you will have to deal with the consequences of whatever you prioritize. They both have their pros and cons.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:40 PM
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I'm just overall saying not having a father in your life is not end and all be all. You can make your own independent thought process on how to live life without the influence of others through experience by going through life difficulties. A lot of people learn how to live life through philosophy, religion, and etc through plethora of experiences through life. Knowledge is the key to everything My brother. You can even make your own philosophy or how to navigate life. God bless brother. Mine is…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:36 PM
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I don't really care. I personally don't need recognition for my Good deeds. I do good because I like doing good for my own selfish reasons.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 11:24 AM
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Absolutely, I will say it will be better to have a male role model in your life which is absolutely masculine but I don't believe it's necessary as you can learn to live life experiences through reality by trial and tribulation. Books helps too. I just disagree that the only way to be masculine is that you need a father in your life because a lot of fathers these days are weak-minded and have no boundaries. Honestly, however they learn to put themselves first and have boundaries from whether fro…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 11:20 AM
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Then this is where we disagree. With all do respect, your two statements contradict themselves. I absoulty agree with your second statement. Having a good Mindset is more important than whether you have a father in your life or not. There men out here that question their self-worth because they did not have a father in their life. Go to a male prison (even a female prison) and ask them if they had a father in their life. I know for sure if they had the right philosophy to build a good mindset, t…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 10:43 AM
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Let's say all women want a 6-ft 6-in 6-figure guy which is 1% of the population. Would you even want a woman with that kind of superficial mindset in the first place? Those kind of women will suffer and will never find that kind of man which will take her seriously for a relationship. I totally understand where you coming from but no matter what we can do as men, we cannot control women like or dislike regardless if it is reasonable or unattainable. Women are going to do what they want regardles…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 10:10 AM
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I appreciate the sentiment but please do not feel sorry for me. I'm actually doing pretty well for myself. I grew up with both a single father and a single mother and still had to figure out on my own. My overall argument is that having a mindset on how to through experience, trial and tribulation is superior on whether or not If you have a father in your life or not. I don't want men out here to make excuses for themselves because they use statistics to prove they did bad things because they gr…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 09:51 AM
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Both a single mother and a single father. My argument is being taught to having a good mindset to navigate life in Superior then If you have a father in your life or not. I agree that we need fathers in our lives but however don't believe that just because you don't have a father in your life that you're's going to be a loser.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 09:40 AM
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I overall agree, just be careful placing your self-worth on somebody else's happiness. When you get somebody the world, they may want the sun.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 01:06 AM
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One good example . Let's say I do a nice thing for you such as open up your door for you, cleans your car, and fix your house. Throughout my time of being nice to you, I was secretly expecting you to give me $100,000 for my acts of kindness. Am I actually a good person that did it out of goods in my heart or being "nice?" That's how a lot of women feel whenever guys do nice things for her. She doesn't know whether or not he's doing it because that's who he is or to get something back in return.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:55 AM
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You also missing the biggest important person in the relationship, you. Are you not also a person? Do you deserve to be happy as well? Is that person also follow up to your standards? Would you even want to be with a woman with high expectations anyways that most men can't accomplish ? I believe people with high standards for other people will suffer as no one can live up to them and the person themselves don't live up to those standards they give to others. That's why I'm a big supporter of peo…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:46 AM
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Sounds great on paper but bad in practice. Some people can't be pleased and you're basing your self-worth on whether or not it's somebody's happy or not on a certain set of expectations. You're assuming the person you're with has reasonable expectations. That person you are with can set the goal post higher and can make you feel inadequate for not fulfilling those expectations to make that person happy to which will make you suicidal for not being good enough.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:38 AM
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You should be improving yourself for yourself, not to be in a relationship. You can't control what women like or dislike. That's why you focus on girls that already like you and go from there regardless if you improving or not.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:33 AM
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Why would you want to be with a woman that's unhappy? It is not your job to make her happy, that's her responsibility . Men are people too and not obligated to Make other people happy. Men deserve to be happy too.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:29 AM
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I have empathy for incels however their philosophy to get into relationships is wrong. You shouldn't try to be nice, be rich, be successful, and etc to get someone to like you, which in case the woman. What most incels are doing is called a covert contract by doing something and expecting something in return. To get into a success relationship is to take care of yourself first by putting yourself first and be around people that already want to take care of you. Be with women that care about you,…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 12:09 AM
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Okay, let's test that theory, if every Father was a pandering feminist man-hater, was society be successful?
/r/MensRights29/04/24 11:58 PM
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I agree, We do need a school for men (I may sound sexist but prefer all men. Most women just can't comprehend the male experience even if their some male simps in the male school).
/r/MensRights29/04/24 07:54 PM
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I understand the sentiment, but I felt compelled to diverge from the teachings my father imparted to gain a fresh perspective. My overarching argument maintains that embracing reality and fostering independent thought yield superior outcomes. Not all fathers fulfill their responsibilities adequately, akin to any other guardians raising children. While I seek counsel from various male figures, I remain skeptical that some biological fathers adequately nurture their sons, potentially leading them …
/r/MensRights29/04/24 07:23 PM
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I agree, what would you say about pandering weak feminist men who raise boys. My father was like that and I despise him for it it.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 06:37 PM
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I agree, I just don't want the simps to raise a new generation of men. At least for me personally. I rather learn it on my own than to be told I should be chivalrous for no reason. Overall statistics proven children do better with their fathers. I overall believe it's a matter of mindset to teach your children than the gender as it been proven Single mothers do not have the mindset in order to raise children. However, I believe if the mother had the right mindset to teach children on how to navi…
/r/MensRights29/04/24 06:24 PM
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Why do you need someone to tell you how to be a man if you're already a biological male ?
/r/MensRights29/04/24 05:56 PM
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Stay strong brother
/r/MensRights29/04/24 03:51 PM
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I don't disagree with that, there's a lot of pandering men that give advice on how to live life. That's where I disagree that certain fathers /people shouldn't get advice.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 12:30 PM
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That book is Is amazing, I just read it today.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 11:44 AM
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You should run for president. NGL. You put my thoughts into words.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 10:46 AM
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Papa trump
/r/MensRights25/04/24 05:28 AM
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I with the men rights. No cap. I"m just tired of seeing man haters.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 01:09 AM
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I got you brother, I checking her behavor 24/7
/r/MensRights25/04/24 12:32 AM
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Also we are dating, bro she loves rubbing my feet. I fell like a princess. No cap
/r/MensRights24/04/24 11:54 PM
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Too many feminist and mainly simps on this planet bruh. I don't care about the feminist but the simps have to go bruh
/r/MensRights24/04/24 10:28 PM
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We in the end times bro, she literally carried a dead corpse to get some money.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 01:38 PM
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Never having sex again
/r/MensRights23/04/24 01:12 PM
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Exactly king. No more broke women. Drizzle drizzle
/r/MensRights12/04/24 01:50 AM
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I deadass in my soft guy era. If she don't pay, no date. Drizzle Drizzle
/r/MensRights11/04/24 11:15 PM
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The simps are strong.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 03:31 AM
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You do you then big dog. What you doing is call a covert contract instead of being who you are regardless if you're going to relationship or single. What you're doing is called being a chameleon. I'd rather be who I am and be around people that like for who I am than to change who I am so people can like me. You are putting her on a pedestal instead of putting yourself first.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 07:03 AM
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If the girl you like want a cuck, would you become an a cuck to get her to like you ? I will rather be alone with self-respect than to change who I am for her or anyone to like me. My values come first before her.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 06:07 AM
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I refuse to trade my identity to get some vagina. It is not worth it. When trying to get women to like you to have sex with you is when you lose yourself.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 05:36 AM
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You can't please women, the only person you can please is yourself
/r/MensRights06/04/24 05:30 AM
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Because what about the man? They deserve respect . Can't give respect to others If they don't respect you . There's a lot of evil people out there that don't care about men and we should respect them regardless? I'll be with Andrew tate call a broke man then becoming a "real man" Also double standard.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 03:50 AM
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Someone needs to make a new philosophy of what means to be a man specifically were you as a man must put himself first before helping others.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 03:43 AM
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L Google
/r/MensRights06/04/24 03:42 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I do understand society have a overall anti- male narrative. However, outside the internet, generally people do not care as long as you're not interfering with their lives. Also we have this safe space for men and other spaces on the internet. The only sub I am subscribed to is this one. I usually banned other subs like two x chromosome and etc. maybe it just me but I usually get all my information from audiobooks about masculinity.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 07:10 PM
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Is overall just the internet, most Reddit spaces are echo chambers. You can go on YouTube comments and generally speak your mind.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 06:37 PM
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Embrace it! It who you are. You are a man. Also what help me reduce my sex drive is the mindset of women who are beautiful with toxic bad behavior are not good partners. Women with good values and character that are not that attractive are wife material.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 09:01 AM
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