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| 1 | CMV: Ran-through girls make better partnersSorry bro, I'm not willing to have bad sex with an inexperienced girl or willing to put up with the insecurity of not knowing I'm the best man she'll ever meet. We all gotta make sacrifices, and for you its reading my posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 02:07 PM |
| – | Boycotting sex with men won't work..Oh you don't have to tell me. We piss and moan and begrudgingly vote for the R or D muttering about lesser of two evils while wagging our fingers towards them saying they need to do better next time only for the parties to get worse as the culture war gets even more stupid and ever increasing amounts of liberties and wealth are stolen from under our nose. Sorry to say but the same elements that are ruining our country extend their shadowed claws towards yours and you better believe the US will d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 10:22 AM |
| – | Boycotting sex with men won't work..Also, it's more than just 3 states, buddy. You're right! I had no idea it was 13 with a ban instead of 3. I looked it up after posting my comment and was surprised, my bad. I'm not really posting a critique of birth control efficacy but rather it's strange to suddenly put a stop to it when you were fine beforehand despite no planned changes federally. I suppose states may change in the coming months sure, but things are just as hazy as they were prior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 09:03 AM |
| – | Boycotting sex with men won't work..Except 47/50 states still allow abortions and cheeto man said no federal ban. I'm not even sure what to call it because saying you're putting a moratorium on bareback sex with strangers isn't exactly a virtue signal, but it's certainly something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:30 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Ran-through girls make better partnersMy girlfriend wasn't the best in bed when we started so I offer her to my co workers and friends from hobby groups. She gets to try a bunch of different men and gets a lot more experienced while also getting to see how much better I am to other men since she keeps coming back. We're trump supporters so when she got a Q tattoo on her ankle I was ecstatic, got a matching one myself but without the spade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:07 AM |
| 0 | Tragic Story: A Texas man who wanted his wife to be a tradwifeYeah but are you sure killing women doesn't sound even the slightest bit interesting to you? I'm really tired of this personal agency doesn't exist garbage that people keep pumping and that information is inherently dangerous. A normal guy goes schizo and kills his wife for an indeterminate reason after posting some socially conservative shit, he can't just be crazy he was ODing on TRP tradcon suppositories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 12:45 AM |
| 10 | Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want.I don't need multiple smoke detectors in my apartment but it still makes me sleep better at night. We still have those primal feelings and even if we're cognizant of them they don't go away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son?Uh, did we read the same article? She didn't want a son for a bunch of petty reasons but she's accepting of it and looking forward to her children growing up together since her daughter prefers playing in mud over tea time; that's rather distant from the origins of this reply chain being internet extremists in echo chambers posting insane shit. Is wishing for a child that's your gender even an uncommon one? How many men would say the same things about having a daughter? The good old American dre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:45 AM |
| 11 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?There's a /s at the end, they didn't actually mean it. I know it's REALLY hard to tell at times if people are being sarcastic here because some troglodyte will unironically post something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son?AVERAGE PERSON internalizing the idea of killing their child over gender An article for a woman apprehensive of what it's like to raise a boy and so she wished for a daughter a decade ago DIDN'T terminate the pregnancy over his gender Warms up to the idea at the end What was this meant to prove? Do you think she regrets not terminating the pregnancy 12 years later after seeing some random psychopaths post online? Or do you think she loves him more than anything in this world. You know, there's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 04:49 AM |
| -3 | Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son?It's about as digestible as dish soap. It's an abominable thought with the only way it could even come close to that is if you've deluded yourself into thinking people are overwhelmingly unfeeling monsters. While there was within living memory instances of aborting children of the "wrong" gender it was because of child limits and familial wealth, working and passing on your earnings to a son seen as preferable to "rewarding" your daughters husbands family. We don't have that today, (en mass...) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 03:12 AM |
| -1 | Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son?I don't believe that the average persons going to see a post of KILL YOUR UNBORN SONS and internalize that. I think the internet can be good for gauging the collective consciousness but with the advent of chatGPT it has gotten a lot more muddy telling what is and isn't candid conversations and even less so when money is involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 02:03 AM |
| 16 | Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son?Extremists in echo chambers aren't representative of the average person at all, especially not on a platform that has 70% of its userbase botted. Keep in mind twitter now pays users for engagement so it's an unending deluge of insane clickbait trash. There's entire bot farms doing shit like this and linking each other/liking each other. Look at most influencers on it and how 99% of shit they post has like 20likes despite having hundreds of thousands to millions of followers. Twitter somehow mana… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 01:37 AM |
| 6 | Men dont struggle to get relationshipsVery cool submitted history. People love to take the bait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 07:13 AM |
| 2 | If you’re following a normal life path, sex will require more hoops as you get older.I wouldn't take random posts on the internet as fact for how the average life turns out and what your expectations should be. This woman's only point of reference is her own experience, and every generation has pretty different experiences when it comes to sex and relationships outside of the act itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 02:09 AM |
| – | Should A Broke 30(M) Year Old Student Avoid Serious Relationships Until His Life Is In Order? What Are Your Thoughts?If you wait to get into a relationship until everything's perfectly set up you're going to be single forever. Women earn their own money, you being broke isn't an absolute deal breaker for everyone unless you need to financially rely on them so if you pay your own way plenty will still enjoy your company. I've seen enough chronically broke dudes in the midwest doing fine with women in their 30's but YMMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Politics and dating is so annoyingThose in tune with politics in the USA share a similar outlook. For most it's just another sports team situation but with people even less educated on their efficacy. Both parties are very closely aligned on their domestic and foreign policies bar some mild differences in execution that ultimately mean nothing to the average person 10/11 times. They both preach about how the other side is going to take away their rights and then when the opposing party gets in power nothing happens because it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:25 PM |
| 9 | OECD fakes the Social Institutions & Gender Index to paint women as victims at all costFor religious purposes it's not outlined as that, it's a covenant between man and God and used to be far less skin being removed. But the modern version is explicitly to cause less sexual pleasure for men initially pioneered by Seventh Day Adventist sex haters and sold as a means to prevent young boys from masturbating. I don't have any quotes on hand but there's been several prominent figures throughout history who explicitly outlined circumcision as a means to prevent "excess pleasure" which l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:49 PM |
| 5 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?Yeah, because of fucking NIMBYism, as I said. a person who objects to the siting of something perceived as unpleasant or hazardous in the area where they live, especially while raising no such objections to similar developments elsewhere. The fucking tweet outlines they support the creation of these things but nowhere near where they live. The same can be said for every previous example I used, if it was affordable housing they'd start talking about how unsafe the lower income undesirables would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?And the community did the typical NIMBY response so nothing moves forward and people still suffer. The longer I live the more I'm convinced the people should be given as little input as possible on certain topics because they preach about support of issues but the moment it might impact their lives they lose their shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?Is it some impossible task to verify their claims of who they are before letting them stay? Everyone has some form of identification proving who they are, if I claim I'm Jack Smith born in 1972 to Abigail & Joe Smith last 4 digits of my social is 1882 there's a record of my birth and they can piece together other bits to verify I am who I say I am. Clearly if someone's demented they need to go to a specialized care facility, not a homeless shelter for those with addiction and mental health issue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 06:55 PM |
| 22 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?This is just typical NIMBY bullshit and why nothing ever advances in our society. The solution is obviously not to let any sex offender stay instead of immediately assuming all homeless men are stalking women and children (what stops them from already doing this?) People are all for us having homeless shelters, but not near them, people are all for having nuclear power plants, but not near them, people are all for welcoming immigrants, but not near them, people are all for affordable housing, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 06:26 PM |
| 3 | q4a: is sex a need?Maslow doesn't have sex on his hierarchy of needs at all It absolutely is on the hierarchy of needs - "REPRODUCTION" is sex. We're not asexual creatures capable of parthenogenesis, there is a certain act you have to do that's known to result in offspring. You can have sex without intimacy, but it is often intertwined. I define need as previously outlined. Sex is clearly more important than safety seeing as throughout history men went to great lengths to secure it at great risk to themselves. It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 06:13 PM |
| 3 | q4a: is sex a need?It's under reproduction which is in the first tier as physiological needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 07:39 AM |
| 5 | q4a: is sex a need?I'll use the definition that's been used for hundreds of years that has widely been accepted hence the whole "Maslows hierarchy of needs" that clearly outlines sex on being on the same level as food, water, and shelter. Not the reductionist needs = food and water only that's popular on this website to downplay the necessities of relationships in social animals. As I said there's been extensive research on this showing people who don't have sex have worse health overall. You won't suddenly die fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 05:09 AM |
| 6 | q4a: is sex a need?They go hand in hand. Sex is a human need, but not a human right. We've heavily researched this and seen its effects on our physical and mental health. Shit, it's literally in the very first tier of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. It's like arguing that a human doesn't need a balanced diet, they can survive on lentils and rice with deficiencies that leave you looking like a walking corpse suffering through deteriorating health compared to your peers and may pass away a fair bit before them. Does a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Which is more important to you, height or family of origin structure?I don't quite think earning 12% more over a 5'8 dude is raising QoL by any significant margin but I concede that it is in fact a benefit. The statistics I seen indicate you're very much unlikely to be getting into corpo jobs where that will matter if you're from an unstable household to begin with; my thoughts drift towards it being a far larger financial impact than being average height. I suppose I might take my height for granted, but I've seen the effects of a broken home first hand and I'd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?And what about the games and anime that doesn't do that but still gets an "Ech, anime and videogames are trash" (this is way more common than actual critique hence selection bias, I'm not sure how you're coming to the conclusion women don't hate on shit for no reason when twitter exists for all to enjoy) I typed up a small paragraph going over how the vast majority of the mediums don't portray women as air headed sex objects yet still get flak but it's just way too much of a tangent for an offha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?"don't usually" isn't a very strong start to saying it's a specific genders issue. It's really not a gendered issue at all; people will complain about anything and the more ignorant they are the more opinions they have - it's very easy to blame problems on something you know nothing about. I could go digging and start posting the mountains of asshurt from women about anime and videogames but that's some serious selection bias of those who are vocal online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?I think you could skip the men bit and simply say people. The internet is filled to the brim with those who will tell you their factually correct opinions on things they know nothing about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Which is more important to you, height or family of origin structure?The former has statistics that outline a significantly better life outcome while the latter's only benefit is inconsequential shit for dating apps. The average man's 5'9 my dude, your QoL doesn't skyrocket with extra inches but you can bet your ass having a stable upbringing will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why?women will always find a guy who will like them. I have no doubts that a woman will have little difficulty finding a guy who will like them but liking of them doesn't translate to liking their kids. Men aren't lining up to be a stepfather, general sentiment tends to be negative at the connotation. Women can always find a man who's willing to have sex with them sure, but stepping up and raising their children? That's asking a lot more and very few are willing to entertain the idea unless they the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why?How many single fathers are there compared to single mothers, though? Single mothers (within the <40 age brackets) have difficulty dating specifically because their options get severely limited. I have a feeling there's significantly more women raising their kids on their own than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyYou'd be surprised how common that mentality is among UMC women who have had their opinions shaped by social media. In the past it wasn't really an issue but the bar is much higher today due to women's barriers being removed in the last two generations so they're now competing in life with the men they want. As for the financial hit it's a lifestyle thing; two people making 60k affords a pretty big lifestyle change than just one. You cannot afford a home in any metropolitan area if you're making… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 07:56 AM |
| – | Porn Is The Main Destroyer Of Modern SexualityLay out how that is because I'm calling cap. I cannot fathom how you could get anything that high without making up some bullshit like "Uh, well actually he's thrusting too fast so she's going to bruise..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:57 PM |
| – | Porn Is The Main Destroyer Of Modern SexualityANY woman with an ounce of self respect would not tolerate the behavior of men in porn. Hah! I don't think that's true at all. Admittedly my experience is limited with only 4 partners but I've been able to get away with whatever degenerate desire I've had with a smile on their face. Could they all have been pretending just to appease me? maybe. I think it's more likely that with someone you trust in private you're willing to explore the things you're not so hot on for the sake of novelty. There'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:44 PM |
| 7 | The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to meAnd what age can men most likely afford those material vanity things for younger women? NGL this age gap shit is so boring, why is everyone so obsessed with what two consenting adults do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 03:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no actual problemOur collective pool of resources is increasing every day. No. Certain peoples collective pool of resources is increasing every day. You and I do not have access to them. We do not live in a collectivist society as you so clearly outline in the OP. Again, -modern- life is not comparable to great periods in the past. If Generation Z has a harder time than 2 generations ago does that not count because your great great grandpa was being shot in some trench somewhere? The opinion that your life can't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no actual problemI suppose if we ignore the fact that everything is becoming increasingly unaffordable, as such the many luxuries we've been used to for decades becoming considerably less accessible, deterioration of every public service, implosion of the education systems, another looming economic collapse, credential inflation, etc etc. While the march of progress continues on I don't really quantify my phone being able to remotely adjust everything in my house with life getting easier in any meaningful way. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:19 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's no actual problemThat's fine, you can continue to intentionally misconstrue what's said to make snarky comments. This is reddit after all and someone has to be that guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 02:57 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's no actual problemYou know, I never really thought about it in depth. Thanks for the edification on this topic. This entire time I just assumed everyone who felt a little down got prescribed SSRI's instead of petting a dog, silly me! I don't know if you're being intentionally dense at this point but I cannot make my position any more clear. The fact other people have chimed in and understood it perfectly fine (and I know your username for being intentionally obtuse in other posts) I have to assume you're just bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 02:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no actual problemWhy do you think the number of people who need them is the same as in the past? There's no shame with getting help if you need it, but the fact more people are needing help today indicates people are having increasingly more difficult times in the modern world. And why wouldn't they? Life IS getting harder in so many different ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 02:49 PM |
| 6 | CMV: There's no actual problemWhere did I imply that? I stated that we're getting increasingly medicated to deal with the fact that we are becoming increasingly unhappy, coincidentally we're also becoming lonelier. I have no doubts that people went un-medicated for issues in the past but medications for treating these issues are getting exponentially more common indicating that there's societal wide issues that are causing anguish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 06:00 AM |
| 19 | CMV: There's no actual problemThe ever increasing amounts of young people on antidepressants paints a completely different picture than the one you're presenting here. There's a fairly large difference between being okay with how things are and meekly accepting your place within it because you feel you can't change them. Using your example of covid lockdowns - would people have been fine with the isolation if they weren't being inundated with YOU ARE KILLING PEOPLE IF YOU GO OUTSIDE and the social & financial ramifications o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:05 AM |
| 6 | Q4 Average looking dudes who are struggling romantically? Do you party? Do you host social gatherings and invite others? Do you get invited to social gatherings?This is one of the things therapy is great for; therapy isn't just going to someone and talking about your feelings it's also got plenty of acclimatization too. Not all therapists are worth shit, but that could be said about any occupation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Is male anger towards women just a result of men not getting laid enough?Not really quantifiable; enough to be heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 03:13 PM |
| 55 | Is male anger towards women just a result of men not getting laid enough?Somehow getting my dick wet hasn't made me indifferent to double standards and inequalities across life. Think most people just want to be loved and accepted, and when you're neither you start getting a bit pissy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves.You're not weeding out men only looking for sex by raising your standards for a first date, you're weeding out the men who've been burned on expensive dates enough to warrant not doing it anymore. Chemistry isn't guaranteed and when you're footing the bill a few times a week as you meet new people you're going to quickly cut that habit when it leads nowhere especially in this economy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 09:27 PM |
| 10 | Virgin women are not as desirable as social media makes it seemThe only men that don't want to deal with it are those who aren't really serious about a relationship with her. Your average Joe isn't a sociopath, they do care about potentially hurting peoples feelings and a virgin is walking on eggshells since they've not had any real relationship experience negative or positive. If you're so-so on someone like that it's probably best to not go forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:23 AM |
| 10 | Virgin women are not as desirable as social media makes it seemHaving sex with someone casually doesn't mean that you're being "used" How is it anything but when the OP is relationship minded? It's literally two people using each others bodies to relieve urges. Just because they're friendly to each other or attempt to be fair and get the other party off doesn't make it any less. Losing your virginity in a hook up with that mentality sounds like a recipe for regret, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Women's SMV is the highest in history, when will it come down?Who's blaming food? The point being its human nature and hardly anyone is strong willed to go against their instincts as outlined by the obesity epidemic. For thousands of years there's been countless writings and religious societies outlining the weakness of humanity and how easy it is to fall to our base desires, and somehow even the most devout still fall to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Women's SMV is the highest in history, when will it come down?Yeah, and that's the majority of the human race. A parallel would be the obesity crisis sweeping the globe as people continue to overeat despite knowing better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 06:25 PM |
| 3 | You wouldn't have more luck in the dating markets of the pastIt would help tremendously, but people allude to the obvious before times in their posts constantly. Frequently seeing "the number of incels is the same" here but the question is the same as when? the 19th century western frontier of the USA that was 80% male? Or a social survey from 8 years ago? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:20 PM |
| -2 | Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying.Sorry, outliers exist and whatnot, when making generalizations I don't include every possible contingency. While there's probably a number of women like you, most that reach that point I feel probably aren't like you though. But that's just my feelings, I have no real ability to back any of this up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying.Yes, none of that is exclusive to women, but the topic at hand is about women. It's wishful thinking to believe a woman would pass up every potential suitor for 15-20+ years of sexual maturity purely through self control, that she was waiting for a special man to enter her life at 30+ before finally giving it away to consummate her marriage. You yourself say how easy women have it today, but somehow such a woman couldn't find a man who would date with the intentions of marrying until that point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:09 PM |
| 8 | Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying.Well, seeing as 92% of the world is not white men I'm still not sure that makes it common. I could point at japan and how a third of their 30 year old male population are virgins, but that doesn't really paint a proper picture of the situation in Nepal, does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:01 PM |
| 7 | Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying.That's true, they simply asked what your thoughts are on it. You answered "I don't understand the question whats the problem" and I gave a PoV outlining potential ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 12:56 PM |
| 9 | Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying.I don't know if I'd say expected it's not exactly common. Though the 40 year old virgin is a bit too on the nose to recreate today I think. If you said men are reaching their 30's with less sexual experiences than the previous few generations I'd be inclined to agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying.What’s the conflict here? If you're 30+ years old as a woman and still a virgin but you haven't been in a coma or trapped on a remote island there's most certainly something off about you, the question is what. A few that come to mind are being asexual, severe mental illness, disfigurement, a traumatic event with the opposite sex, helicopter parents hamstringing their development, agoraphobic, social recluse being locked in a basement for half of their adult life. You don't reach that age someho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 12:36 PM |
| – | Are women really wary of men?Trust is earned, it’s not a default. Surprised more people aren't living with this mentality. Humans are tribalistic, we've had an insanely long history of being wary of strangers but somehow it all comes to a close in 2024 because some factoid says you're more likely to be killed by falling piano than murdered. High trust societies don't exist beyond small communities anymore OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with himThey made a post showing themselves in a bad light. The dude makes a few social faux pas and shows it to the internet for imaginary points. Pretty decent L in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:14 PM |
| 6 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.This is cyclical reasoning. Like you might as well say love is magic because there's nothing that binds two people together other than being at the right place at the right time. Love doesn't have to be materialistic to be transactional, holding someone just the right way as you kiss them can be all you need, but it's ridiculous to say "uh, that wasn't real love" when someone falls out due to their partner no longer doing the things that made them fall in love in the first place. The world doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:07 PM |
| 3 | That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with himSlang, L means lose. W or dub means win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:50 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?A good personality with no sex appeal gets you platonic attention. Invited out for a fun night, not invited back to someones place for a good tumble in the sheets. There's a looks threshold and your personality is not bypassing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:09 AM |
| 7 | Are most women not interested in casual relationships?When alcohol and drugs are involved the threshold for being a "top man" gets increasingly larger. Most women aren't going to fuck a stranger sober even if he's chaddeus maximus the mewking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 03:48 AM |
| 13 | Are most women not interested in casual relationships?Whoa, you're telling me the average woman isn't aspiring to be a strangers fleshlight? If you're looking for casual sex try going to places where it's frequent, Tinder, clubs, festivals, trap houses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Redditors rush to defend a neglectful mom, claiming "post-partum depression".I mean, yeah? This is a well documented fact that reddit is heavily biased on gendered topics. People post the same threads with roles reversed and get wildly different responses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 01:38 PM |
| – | Political idealogyFor most Americans, no. For terminally online redditors? absolutely. No one with a personality gives a shit about your political affiliations unless they're fucking you, and even then it's flexible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Would you gossip (i.e. tell other people such as family and friends, in a slightly to very mocking way about your man/woman not being good in bed?) Question for BOTHAnything in the bedroom is kept in the bedroom. I have literally never been in the position to describe my sex life to anyone because no one I know brings up the topic. I can't imagine badmouthing your partner to friends for even regular shortcomings. Hell even discussing positive sex things is weird to me. Why the fuck do my family or friends need to know how tight she is or how she cranks my hog? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Why do some women use men's feelings/vulnerabilities against them in arguments?The same reason childish men do? People retaliate when they're angry. Have you never played an online videogame before? I'm sure someone has/will say something about how women being the physically weaker sex hurt people emotionally or some stupid shit like that but the reality is humans suck and the more immature among us can't help themselves when flustered. I've had partners throw things to hurt me when upset, shit, I've had my family members do it, only you can try to break the cycle and try … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 03:23 AM |
| 0 | Age-Gap Relationships (Remixed)I don't think they're comparable myself. But that's beside the point; it's not about which is worse it's about how society arbitrarily decides youth agency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 06:44 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: You're alone in the woods... Would you rather be vulnerable with your SO or with a tree?The alternative is to be completely alone for a lot of dudes. Plenty of women won't leave you over something so petty, at least solely for it, but why risk it if you really like them? It's sad but I'd reckon most men have at least one story where this blew up in their face in some way. Lord knows I've learned my lesson to not open up beyond minor vexation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 03:53 AM |
| 7 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?Children can be far more cruel, man. I remember when I was 14 this slightly chubby girl came up and confessed to me and asked me to be her boyfriend. I being an incredibly immature boy with his eyes set on someone else responded by laughing in her face in the hallway with a resounding hell no which made my group laugh and her run off crying. The memories haunted me for the better part of a decade now and I can only imagine how that fucked her up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 08:01 PM |
| 13 | Dear gentlemen: How much "power" do have OF models, IG influencer, etc.?Let them try and emulate it. The average OF girl's monthly take home less than they'd earn working a day for minimum wage. Women seem to have no idea how many men die virgins. Never sired ≠ Virgin. We literally do not know why that genetic bottleneck happened. OF girls are here to take advantage of their humanity. If you're stupid enough to pay a woman online to show her butthole when there is, quite literally, more free pornography than any one person could conceivably view in a life time you d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?Of course it's morally wrong but some people just do things just because they can dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 11:26 PM |
| – | Would you date a broke man?Bit slow, but I'm glad it worked out for you in the end. Really though if it was so cut and dry there wouldn't be so many underemployed people right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 09:14 PM |
| – | Would you date a broke man?I don't make sweeping conclusions based on the friends of someone on an online message board. Well it's a good thing that I didn't either? I stated that for some people it feels like it was the wrong choice for them even though the degrees themselves aren't inherently "wrong" Additionally more than half of the people holding bachelor's degrees in the US rn are working in jobs that do not require bachelors degrees. Clearly the college career centers either aren't providing enough support or certa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 08:58 PM |
| – | Would you date a broke man?Alright, you're not bothered by your exorbitant student loans and the fact you're making the same as those without them, that's fine. but as I listed my friends believe they got the wrong degree and are still paying for their mistake 10 years later. Seeing as they don't even work in a tangentially related field and still have student loan debt I feel their grievances are a bit more salient than your indifference. Doesn't mean any degree is "wrong". I literally just agreed with you...It can feel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 08:44 PM |
| – | Would you date a broke man?As much as I agree with the idea that no major is "wrong" they can be bad investments that leave people feeling as such. If you live in a country where higher education is cheap/free it's cool to follow your dreams, but when you live in the USA where you go into crippling debt and earn the same as someone who didn't go to college you fucked up. Like, half of my friends with bachelor's have been seething for a decade that their diploma isn't worth more than paper to wipe their ass with and don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 07:59 PM |
| 12 | Do women often marry men that they don't passionately love?Ah... I don't know, man. That's not really an indication that they're marrying someone they didn't passionately love at the time. The winds can change and you find someone you were once head over heels with no longer the same person, and for that matter neither are you. While I do think people take till death do us part a little too flippantly today I'm not convinced separation is worse than unhappily ever after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How would telegony proven real affect dating?Oh don't think I'm agreeing with the premise, I'm just adding commentary that anytime there's something that could threaten the status quo to that extent there'd be a number of accidents and it'd never reach the light of day. The virtue of us discussing its potential existence right now is enough for me to shrug and say that it's probably not a thing, as it's been theorized to exist for hundreds of years yet only a single experiment a decade ago has produced anything of note and nothing since. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 06:14 PM |
| 0 | How would telegony proven real affect dating?That is like dropping a nuke on society. If it existed it would end dating as we know it overnight. How many men would be cool with the fact their child is taking after the first man the mother slept with? I can tell you right off the bat I would refuse to have children at that point. Of course it doesn't exist in mammals, but if it did you bet your ass that'd be a secret that gets all research sabotaged and torched. That would cause such a societal shitfit it'd make the fall of rome look like a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?For wanting it + your personal requirements that aren't listed here, a bit. If all you're looking for is a matching or higher salary then you're golden, but as I'm sure you've learned by now there's more to a good match than how many shiny things they can purchase. That's why I said more limiting the higher the number goes The more you make the more that list shrinks not only because of fewer people making comparable incomes but also because of all our intrinsic qualities that make us great & te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:16 AM |
| 7 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?Are you apologizing to yourself? They're reiterating that you have quixotic standards and are severely limiting your pool if you intend on sticking to them. You're not only looking for someone with similar values and is attractive to you, but also needs to have a similar education and income potential. All of this while being single and within a certain age bracket - mind you. How many out of the tens of thousands working in your district does this actually entail? It's like the virgin men deman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 09:43 PM |
| 19 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?"Why do people enjoy pleasing their partner" Might as well ask why people eat ass, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Can we finally end the objectification nonsense? Can't we think critically?I dehumanize everyone EQUALLY Well, not many share that utopian worldview thankfully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:49 AM |
| – | Should the manosphere be held accountable for misogynistic mass violence?I think he's pretty on the money when you're talking about holding someone accountable for the actions of another for the crime of putting wrongthink in their head. It's denying self agency and gets really hazy on where we stop pinning the blame. Why specifically the manosphere figureheads? Why not hold their parents accountable for failing to raise them better? Their teachers for failing to deradicalize them? The CEO of the factory that produced their vehicle/weapon? Ultimately it does affect t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:13 AM |
| 8 | Fear mongering women over “dying alone”Nature of these kinds of outlets I figure. The few people without chips on their shoulder get drowned out from every thread inevitably devolving "no ur gender sux" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:40 AM |
| 3 | What You Do To Get Into Top Part of 80/20Well this is just the issue of you assuming because a dude is interacting with women he's going to find himself a girlfriend eventually. Self improvement goes pretty far when it comes to attracting someone else, how many stupid, obese, broke, socially clumsy men have you entered relationships with just because you were around them long enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | What You Do To Get Into Top Part of 80/20It's pretty complicated, if attracting a partner was so simple this subreddit and intersexual studies wouldn't exist and we'd have boilerplate advice; which I suppose could be argued is exactly what she posted but I don't agree in its validity over something like get fit, get a skincare regiment, and try to carve out a niche in your personality. Most people can hold a conversation, most are also overweight and boring. Unless you literally don't give a shit about the person you're trying to woo o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:30 PM |
| 5 | What You Do To Get Into Top Part of 80/20Well, it's more that it's the most generic of advice and doesn't really lay out any actionable paths to bettering themselves. I know some posters here really do scream that they haven't had a single positive interaction with a woman but there's a bit more than b urself and just vibing. I can understand that if you post here long enough you start to notice...trends - that make it seem like some people really can't muster even the most basic like holding a conversation or enjoying peoples company,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitOh? And how do women sort through those options to find the man whose intentions are genuine? You didn't answer "What's the right man" nor where the power is outside of "glorious white pussy" It's as if it's not all bells and whistles and they got their own hurdles to jump. Further, I'm selective and somehow I ended up in a relationship with a gorgeous woman and she thought I earned a third of what I do until 5 months in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitYeah I'm not going to counter argue a list I made in 20 seconds of benefits, if you don't agree with any of them that's cool; most seem like cope to me but to each their own. We'll just pretend that there's no inherent advantages for us Y chromie homies and that the XX witches be the shit. if I could have a female body I'd take it in a heartbeat, at least it would be a body with potential to be sexy, unlike the male one Strange that you don't think men can be sexy, could it possibly be because y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitpretty men don't even have advantages as great as average women Cap. I know you've never worked in the corporate world if you're saying this. They're at the top of the totem pole even outside of dating. not to mention how hard it is to be "pretty" as a guy vs how easy it is to look good as a woman Also cap. You literally said pretty woman, meaning baseline, and nothing is stopping men from improving their looks like women do. that's due to a different reason, can't bother to go into in here Righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitit is difficult to choose the right men, but your glorious white pussy gives you options. Wow. I didn't say "allat". Just like I didn't say anyone was forcing you to be creampied? But you and others seem to genuinely think being a woman is easier without actually saying how outside of sex is easier to get and alluding to (affirmative action?) with "great power" It's very difficult to select the right man when those men put on a facade to get what they desperately want. What's the right man? with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitPretty men have even greater advantages, why don't you wish to be one of those instead? Strangely enough most positions of power are still men despite women being given these golden ladders? I suppose if I watched a few more tiktoks of talent managers in big tech of their daily life that's essentially adult daycare (that are used as recruitment tools but reposted as ragebait) for people I'll understand that it's only an upside if I was some valley girl, yeah? Can't possibly be that both genders … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitYou people sit there and just dream up fantasies where women don't have most of the same struggles as you outside of securing casual sex. You mald over how much easier it is while blind to them having their own struggles, ignorant of what it is to be a woman and covet it because you can't get the average woman to spread her legs for you - thinking it's the easiest shit possible because you see some woman with an OF spreads her ass cheeks raking in insane amounts of money but can't see the vast m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Would men do the same in the current dating market?I didn't claim monogamy is "right" but the vast majority of people on the planet are monogamous. It has existed in every single culture that has ever been, there is even indications in pre-history that it existed (though this is oft an iffy subject usually filled with bullshit) it is defacto primary. That doesn't mean other lifestyles are inherently wrong, but it also means it isn't the default. In the same vein as when we make the assumption about someones sexuality we don't default to gay. Can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 06:55 PM |
| -2 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitIf your lifetime goals to be creampied daily, I guess. Grass is always greener on the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Would men do the same in the current dating market?it simply shows how conditioned you are to monogamy Couldn't this be uno-reversed unto you? Such as your lifestyle has lead to/been caused by issues with forming attachments to others? I wasn't beaten over the head by women to feel this way - I got a long term girlfriend and the joys she brought to my life made me realize that dream at 15 of my own anime harem was infantile and empty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Do the plethora of choices in men when it comes to online dating and social media make it more difficult for you to commit to one man long-term?I mean she doesn't have to pretend it's normal and a good thing or have any part of it. She's entitled to her opinion just as much as you are homie. I must have missed that part of growing up, because I'm pretty sure you don't have to do that at all lmao. Of course they shouldn't be out in the streets lampooning those who live different lifestyles (within reason, I suppose) however people who have irreconcilable beliefs tend not to associate with that shit. Not a fan of drug addicts; think they'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 12:19 AM |
| 0 | How a major lack of media literacy is affecting people’s view on relationships and the opposite genderThat's not what he's arguing. He's saying that people are knowingly or unknowingly seeking out inflammatory content and judging the other sex as a whole based on the biggest clowns possible because no one pauses to say "Is this real?" which is fucking stupid. I'll use PPD as an example - I've seen enough posts from women living "alternative" lifestyles poisoning my outlook enough to assume my girlfriend prior to meeting me was looser than the bolts on a boeing 737; I'm wise enough to know that s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Do the plethora of choices in men when it comes to online dating and social media make it more difficult for you to commit to one man long-term?Surely there's an app specifically for poly people to find each other too, right? They're not obligated to adhere to her values but she's also not obligated to tolerate it either. Fun thing about opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:42 PM |
| 3 | The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occurThey're being pushed by the algorithm my man, don't assume it's a grand conspiracy that someone who is interested in the topic of intersexual dynamics might click a video on it and get this guy in their feed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyOh I've learned it's a fruitless endeavor to argue with certain people here, I'm just chiming in to clown on the premise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyA schizoid is perfectly fine having no close friends so we should extrapolate that it's the same for everyone even though we have literal proof that our closest relative species will die from long term isolation. Homie's really ignoring all the social degradation around him and saying "but how does this affect society?" as if severely depressed individuals don't develop extremely dangerous antisocial disorders and clock out affecting societal cohesion, development, and social progress as a whole… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 09:41 PM |
| 4 | Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you?Sucks for them, but I think basing our entire reality around seeing a few delusional people making an ass of themselves isn't the healthiest outlook when we're seeing a societal wide loneliness epidemic with men at the forefront and women trailing not too far behind. Perhaps the truth is that things are more complex than we're willing to admit and the simplest answers aren't always the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 01:01 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAnd they said that seers aren't real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 12:53 AM |
| 13 | Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you?If only there was something between virgin and woman who fucks strangers for money on camera. It is a shame we only have these two extremes in this world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you?The exact same. I ain't having a kid with him, his shame is his and his future partners/kids to bear not mine. In one of my friendgroups there's a dude who draws gay furry pornography as his income source, he keeps that shit under lock and key because even though the money is great it will absolutely destroy his social life if that spreads around town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeYeah, I covered that with "wealth alone won't make them fuck you" You still gotta pass a physical attractiveness and personality threshold. Compared to all the other men they interact with I wasn't considered a prospect until after they learned I out earn them significantly. Think of it like adding garnishing on dishes; not the most important part but it makes it more attractive overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 09:53 PM |
| 7 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeWealth absolutely adds bonus points to your RMV. Wealth alone isn't going to make (most) women fuck you, but it's definitely something that can turn a maybe into a yes. I can attest to a number of women who were meh about me suddenly getting interested when they learned I made just short of 6 figures in an area were the median income is 30k. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 05:59 AM |
| 6 | A thought experiment for menThere's quite a bit of wiggle room between hot and not attractive though. A relationship where someone isn't attracted to the other is doomed to fail and there's no getting around that no matter how many good qualities they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: How would you feel if your SO regularly watched pr0n?It's not about adding motion, it's doing something more than just laying there and letting it happen to you like running your hands around your partner. My current girlfriend doesn't starfish; if we're doing it missionary she grabs my ass and locks her other arm around my neck kissing me. I'm still doing all of the work but she's passionate and showing affection. So my personal experience kind of matches up with what some guys complain about on here, previous girlfriends all just laid there unti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 02:07 AM |
| – | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changewar that was worth fighting Sorry, best I can offer is a slapfight over nebulous reasons between two geriatrics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 01:13 AM |
| – | Men need to be on social media to be relevant in today's dating market & economyNot only shouldn’t you be too concerned about your privacy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 11:06 PM |
| 2 | When will very authentic looking and affordable sex bots become a norm?Not in your lifetime. "AI" is incredibly stupid and we can't even get a humanoid robot to carry boxes five feet before fucking up. Best I can offer you in the next 20~ years is a luxury masturbator that hooks into an app and anime girls that give simplistic responses to things you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 02:38 AM |
| 5 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Well, I don't really get to decide that, I get to state my opinion on how it looks from my point of view. I don't understand the reasoning behind an action and thus question it, if I get no or a strange seemingly unrelated answer I'm going to chalk it up as illogical. I'm not the grand arbiter of what is and isn't an acceptable answer; I'm an observer trying to make sense of something. I'm certain men do plenty of things with no rhyme or reason in your eyes as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:47 PM |
| 4 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?I can understand that it's not inconsequential to you, but that doesn't make it logical. I feel 2+2 = 5 but does that make it? My truth isn't necessarily the truth. If you can't articulate why your relationship's failing and then hyperfixate on some random shit, yeah, dude's are gonna think you're reading a book ending to beginning. I outlined this in my comment earlier I'm willing to admit I don't always comprehend the way women think, but it works both ways seeing as books like Men are from Ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:49 PM |
| 13 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Okay, copypasting that doesn't really answer how it's not illogical to turn what is otherwise a good relationship into single over something silly and inconsequential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:37 PM |
| 0 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Entirely dependent on context; in the case of the post you link it does scream illogical to end a good thing for no good reason. Like yeah, we don't have the full picture here so for all we know the relationships had some glaring flaw that we're not privy to. On the flipside a shitty reason doesn't make it any less irrational. I'm willing to admit I don't always comprehend the way women think, but it works both ways seeing as books like Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus exist. What seem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a broke woman?Yeah. Like 3/4 of my GF's have been broke, I don't really care as long as they make an attempt to show they actually do appreciate me as more than the wallet. My current GF makes a third of what I do a year and if she quit tomorrow it affects literally nothing seeing as she lives with her parents. Not really thrilled about doing nothing but playing videogames all day but I can think of far worse uses of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 06:43 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.Yes, violence is the basis of all authority in the world but senseless violence isn't. Fuck me or I'll kill random people isn't a threat to any actual entity, the people you're killing have nothing to do with whatever societal shifts are occurring and it leads to no changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 05:06 PM |
| – | Why are single people told not to actively pursue a relationship, and one will come to them when they least expect it? Does this ever actually happen?Because this advice is primarily given from older people who really did meet people by simply existing. Keep in mind the average age in every western nation is like 40 rn and the vast majority of people alive did not grow up with access to the internet and all the misery it entails. They had to go out and socialize or die from boredom, hardly anyone was locked up in their room all day like every other kid is today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 04:10 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.The supreme gentleman shtick poisons the well and prevents people from having pity for anyone in this situation. If anything it reinforces the just world fallacy that's so often brought up here. Seriously walk me through how wanton slaughter of innocents is the end result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:57 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.No one hand waves violence or sexual misconduct and to pretend they do is peak clown take. You're also pretending that having testicles mean you can act like an unstable manchild and that it's normal and tolerated. It's not. Go touch grass and actually interact with men, and if the men you're interacting with behave like this you have only yourself to blame for enabling that behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:20 PM |
| 4 | If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single?I'll throw my own little anecdote in, I'm an asshole and only 1/4 of my girlfriends were a bad person. Just because you're an asshole doesn't mean you're an asshole all the time and to everyone, your partner included. Few people want to be around those who treat them like shit, but most turn a blind eye when it's others who are treated badly. There is a lot of masculine traits that being an asshole comes with that can be considered attractive - Like being domineering, assertive, arrogant, aggres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Men who complain about how average women can "easily get casual sex from Chad," would you want to be in the same position?Yeah, well, this hypothetical isn't exactly comparable to the real world from the get go, is it? Our social dynamics would be completely different if everyone was fucking whoever, whenever, for whatever. Marriage is already dying and that's without everyone participating in an unending orgy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about how average women can "easily get casual sex from Chad," would you want to be in the same position?If average guys could easily get sex with a hot girl who is sleeping with a different guy every week, would they want it? You're outlining casual sex here, not a serious relationship. Men like sex, some don't care if they're hitting the town bike as long as they're getting their rocks off. Would this girl be attractive to you and would you potentially marry her? Physically attractive ≠ romantically attractive. I've had the opportunity to get with "easy" party girls who were gorgeous but I knew b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:41 PM |
| – | How to tell if she is witholding or really not interested?Sure everyone has their own rules for a relationship. I'm high libido, laid out that I expect frequent sex, but I ain't dangling 3 strikes and you're out over her head here. My question is how do you even remotely think that's reasonable? Do you even care about them if you're willing to end it over something so petty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 11:35 AM |
| – | How to tell if she is witholding or really not interested?Suppose I'm unreasonable for thinking that's the exact opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 10:58 AM |
| – | How to tell if she is witholding or really not interested?That's their lesson to learn. I say this as someone who had to in their teens, if your affection isn't reciprocated why the fuck are you continuing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 10:51 AM |
| 5 | Women, what do you bring to the table?I refuse to believe it's sincere as well, it's clearly a question to put people on the defensive and make them feel inadequate. "companionship" is the only valid answer because of that. You and I are both more than a series of checkboxes and it's ridiculous to demand someone list out their pros and cons to see if they're worthy of your affection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How has your image of how life 'should' go contrasted with your actual lived reality? Do you feel as though you've missed seemingly 'obvious' milestones/rites of passage for someone at your stage of life? Have you 'fallen through the cracks' and how do you regard your future prospect?It has gone nothing like I imagined it as a kid and a part of me will eternally seethe over it. But the thing about that is, most young peoples hasn't. The current world is not the same one that majority of westerners grew up in for better or worse, the milestones older people experienced in their youth aren't really applicable today - or at the very least are much more difficult and take much longer for a lot of people to reach. People aren't having kids until their 30's, are unable to purchase… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Metal illness and loneliness is now a joke, glamorized by sexless teens. (Reposted)Surely you can tolerate it in your teens. I don't know man, during covid we hit record amounts of teen suicides and haven't recovered. It's almost like for a social species being asocial during your most formative years puts quite the strain on your mental well-being. Never heard of the term "the straw that broke the camels back" ? There is a lot of shit young people are chronically worried about because it's blasted in your face day in and day out and with it we've seen an unprecedented rise in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | What have you guys learned from this subreddit?I've heard similar musings in context to politics; one doesn't understand the issue until it affects them or someone close to them. I've said this for years. I'm not affected by a lot of the issues here, but I'm also not blind to what's happening across society. Alarm bells are being rung by social scientists and people are plugging their ears pretending nothings wrong attributing it all to a small minorities woes. It's like talking to a boomer about the economy, they still think it's 1991 and y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 12:00 AM |
| 10 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Except they don't use them when there's too many men lol. There's a reason why bouncers exist at clubs and why women are let in for free, look at OLD gender ratios if you want to see what it's like when you're known for hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 11:32 PM |
| – | CMV-Men are more emotionally monogamous and attached than womenIsn't this just the alpha-widow theory but gender reversed? I'm pretty sure anyone can get emotionally attached to someone and be unable to move on regardless of gender. Throughout history there's been no shortage of men & women recounting the one who got away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Population collapse and datingBrother the original post you replied to was about how no government has survived a collapsing taxbase. If issues existed in a vacuum spending less would help, but they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:30 PM |
| 0 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?I'm just saying your odds are shit so don't stick to a single avenue especially if it isn't working out. In sports I can score multiple goals and still not win but manage to have fun - it's how you perceive the whole ordeal. Getting a woman interested in me and having a fun night out even if it lead nowhere is miles better than sitting in the dm zone since I had my attempt at wooing her, so I look at the dates the same as I do with nights out with friends; paying for their time and my entertainm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Population collapse and datingSpending less would fix the issue i'm responding to. No I was directly addressing that. If the economic system collapses there's nothing spending less can do, your monetary trickery stops working when the people keeping the system running stop working because they can no longer get basic necessities. One of the biggest contributing factors for Rome's destruction was it's inability to pay it's military and they took said pay by looting the cities they were to protect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Me striking up a conversation with a cute woman and gauging her interest in me before asking to meet her again is the same as floundering and sexually harassing her. Posts like these often reminded how fucking bad people are at socializing these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:52 PM |
| 4 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?It absolutely is a numbers game as a man. 9/10 women aren't interested in me, already have a partner, or we learn after a date or two won't be a good match. I have to sort through the 9 to fine the 1 It's true that in the past people were more willing to build a life together despite incompatibilities, but it's not the past and in this abundance market it's sink or swim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Population collapse and datingSpending less won't fix what's to come, we already spend more than we earn every year through debt magic with no intentions of paying it back. Our current economic systems are built around unlimited growth and shrinkage would be catastrophic to say the least. The world financial system is intrinsically linked and ripples can be felt when even small nations hit a speedbump, if the big boys had a serious issue like demographic collapse you'd effectively see the implosion of multiple nations in a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:08 PM |
| 3 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Dating is a numbers game no matter what avenue you pursue so you should try everything regardless of whatever fake bullshit you read online. If you keep swiping eventually you will get a match, if you keep approaching eventually you'll get a number. If you're not getting anything pause and reflect on if you're batting out of your league or if there's something wrong with your current approach. I'm 5/10 as average as they come and through enough frustration swiping every few days I did score date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 04:20 PM |
| 7 | The gender war is not just an online thingCircumcising is a religious thing Outside of a few African and Middle Eastern nations, not really. North America it's a practice to make extra money by medical establishments. It's also political because everyone trips over themselves to prevent female genital mutilation if it starts to pop up but the moment someone brings up male everyone's dead silent. The draft was also invented by men, because they want woman to look after the kids The year is 2024 women are just as capable as men at dying f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Society is finished, terminal stageYou know I see that a lot but I don't think I really agree with it. Statistically, yes, poverty is on a downward trend (even though every country cheats on it's reporting...) life expectancy is up, medical science is charging forward but like every other metric is fucked. Off the top of my head deaths of despair (suicides, OD's, complications from substance abuse, etc) mental illness rates, and cost of living are at historical highs, people are the loneliest they've ever been because communities… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Are women not getting approached anymore?Unfortunately most who see that don't assume they're unhinged outliers because it's genuinely that common. I personally approach but I also don't really give a shit what people think of me and would rather deal with a potential bruised ego than wondering what if later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 07:42 PM |
| 16 | Are women not getting approached anymore?Nah, it's a ton of women parroting it online. I'm not often one for generalizing but your genders online presence has been screaming don't bother me for over a decade at this point and now we've had a generation raised respecting that because men do care about what women think and want. I understand that the people content with something aren't going online and whinging so hard, but I also understand that plenty of men are picking up the do's and don't through osmosis skimming past asshurt women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:09 PM |
| 19 | How can LTRs last when modern men discard women who reach thirty or forty?Because the vast majority of men are not Leonardo DiCaprio pilled and aren't going to throw away what they've built together over something as petty as wrinkles and a number going up. If I end up single when I am in my 30's I'm going to aim for a wide pool of women including those I find most attractive, which just so happens to be women in their mid 20's. Will I find many takers in that age bracket? Nowhere near as many as I do right now at 28 but I've got nothing to lose increasing my pool of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Do women want their partner to say yes to their wants?Because he doesn't have the backbone to set boundaries and is caving in to every whim. That's a recipe for getting yourself used or ending up in a loveless relationship if you stop being the jester. Like, if my girlfriend has to have frequent expensive experiences to enjoy spending time with me over sitting on a couch together she might not be with me for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 03:09 PM |
| 5 | The DHS paid almost 700k to a counter-terrorism NGO to intercept and divert Twitter traffic away from people in the “manosphere” and those who take issue with promiscuity. Do you agree with these actions and the funding of this report?Grim truth, the only time you see government spring into action is when their own financial assets are at risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:24 PM |
| 0 | It is okay to quit dating but not okay to quit striving in life.From where you think the money comes that put a majority of women in HR that are know to have a bias in hiring other women and hot men? The truth is that a very very small amount of people's labor is keeping society running and those people aren't dropping out so whatever the managerial class for service busy-work does is immaterial, if a job is truly important labor will be sourced from abroad. Every impact counts Perhaps if you wound the clock back prior to the removal of the gold standard but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | It is okay to quit dating but not okay to quit striving in life.Okay, but that doesn't matter to her unless she plans on going onto welfare in the future. It's also under the impression the current debt spending needs this small number of net positive tax payers, I could write up a multi-paragraph post explaining why it doesn't matter but I'll summarize it with if you haven't noticed the world governments spend more than they get from taxes every year with 0 intentions of ever paying their debts back you're living in a cave. The laying flat revenge narrative… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Are beautiful people more well equipped to survive?In what way is it a sign/indicator of health? Because they lucked out and got a great facial shape? How at all does that indicate their insides aren't rotting and that they aren't carrying a myriad of health issues? This is like the haloeffect taken to some weird pseudoscience extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 06:00 AM |
| 3 | It is okay to quit dating but not okay to quit striving in life.Okay, well, your well-being is not in her interests. She doesn't know you and can earn her own money. OP's entire post is about avoiding giving up and finding reasons to do things outside of the reward of pussy. I would even one up it and say there's more to life than the materialistic bullshit our societies financial districts push, you don't have to be a worker bee throwing all of your time and money at getting as much cheap plastic crap and vagina as possible to feel good about yourself. You'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:05 AM |
| 5 | What are some unique burdens that the opposite gender has?Except it's not just war, it's literally anytime there's a disaster women and children get preferential treatment. In the past I can largely agree that women are not built for marching to foreign lands and attempting to cave another persons head in, however in the 21st century women can serve a militaristic purpose that isn't march 20 miles carrying 100lb's of shit and partake in a counter offensive. You don't need to be keep up with 6'4 230lb's former linebacker Jethro as a drone pilot, as a ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:59 AM |
| – | Debate : Claiming that most People wouldn‘t cheat if a perfect replacement came is complete delusion.Whoa, what are you implying here? That a self admitted homewrecker might be dishonorable enough to lie? Why would someone with a financial interest do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.Yes, I'm sure they're happy single and it's not just cope. Seeing every option around you as unworthy of emotional investment is a clear sign of you being content and not at all a deeper indicator of problems. Much like my nephews were happy going hungry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.I severely doubt that all of the options are unappealing, there is clearly a point when you're too picky. I often had troubles getting my nephews to eat; they have a plethora of meals I can cook and yet they'd refuse something if a single ingredient wasn't up to snuff. Was that an issue that all the options I offer are bad, or is it that their nurturing was scuffed and they now have a warped palate. You shouldn't settle but the only constant is you and at some point you should look inwards for w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 12:33 AM |
| – | Having a skillset or not?Keyword is may be. I'm wondering where this great sexual incompatibility that's often posted about comes from because it's not been my experience that the women I've dated have had such grossly different libidos, tastes, and expectations that we couldn't enjoy each other. Has it really been a fluke that 4/4 LTR's I have had near daily sex and we find things we both enjoy? I did agree, despite what some posters would have you believe here I don't think the no hymen no diamond gang has any purchas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:48 PM |
| – | Having a skillset or not?In real life men who demand virginity may as well not exist. I've got a feeling it's only the most terminally online people who espouse such beliefs because the logistics of it in the English speaking hemisphere is impossible unless you're a discord moderator. Even the most devoutly religious are having sex in their teens today, how the fuck are you going to get one unless you're actively preying on highschoolers? I imagine even many of those who claim to value inexperienced virginity, will at s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 08:52 PM |
| 5 | For married women who have cheated on your 1st spouse but not your 2nd one, why did you not cheat on the 2nd one?It's not a real answer friend, it's a post to get a rise out of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 08:05 PM |
| 11 | For married women who have cheated on your 1st spouse but not your 2nd one, why did you not cheat on the 2nd one?I have a good feeling your pool of respondents will be non-existent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 06:09 AM |
| 2 | What’s the plan?I'll keep vibin' Life has given me every reason to be a cynic but that doesn't mean I don't still have some hope and agency to try and steer things in a positive direction in spite of my darker thoughts. My girlfriend doesn't deserve being treated worse for the actions of another and I'm not going to hold back my love because I and a bunch of other people got fucked over in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 12:13 AM |
| 15 | Debate: free romantic love has failedIf people didn’t base their relationships around love - which can be fickle, then yes. How does this prevent a deadbedroom? Because it's suddenly her duty to fuck you instead of wanting to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:57 AM |
| 7 | How often do you and your friends discuss/gossip about the sex lives of your social circle?28years - next to never. There might be a joke cracked about someone's sex life but that's the extent of it. Relationship (and lack of) woes come up every now and then but hardly ever sex. All said I learned far too much about other peoples sex lives from overhearing coworkers (mid 20-30's) & when I lived with my sister; I know who's done what and where. It's entirely up to the group of people you're hanging around, my co workers are gossiping hens and my sisters friends are all shameless party … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:03 PM |
| – | I don’t understand men’s arguments for why it’s only okay for them to have high bodycounts.Depends on ones definition of high. Either way I can assure you sluts are a minority and even they aren't in a new bed every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:26 PM |
| – | I don’t understand men’s arguments for why it’s only okay for them to have high bodycounts.I have no doubt in my mind the average woman on OLD crushes, but she is not fucking a new dude every night, much less "most women" Potential to does not mean will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Manchester night life guy issueWell, businesses and Uncle Sam aren't trawling city streets at night looking for embarrassing moments to record and upload, are they? but industrial society and it's consequences, etc. I understand that it's probably too late, doesn't mean people with my disposition can't let their voice be heard and say "hey, I'd really like it if the past stayed the past" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Manchester night life guy issueThere should be. Few places have made it illegal to record others without their permission, not everything needs to be archived just because you're in public. It's one thing to tell your friends you seen some woman wasted to the point shes pissed herself but it's another to show them in HD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 08:15 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.That's like saying party culture doesn't exist because it's mostly college aged adults, eventually people grow out of it and a new set plant their roots. What you're doing here is setting an arbitrary limit as to what defines hookup culture; if someone has 1-3 hookups...they partook in hookup culture at some point in their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 07:41 PM |
| 14 | Everything about the current dating scene makes it far more likely for sexually successful men to become unempathetic and leave women emotionally hurtAnd I don't necessary have full sympathy for the men either No. It's highlighting how common immorality is today and how unethical behavior can lead to being rewarded at expense of peace of mind. Like many things in life ignorance is bliss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Is it common to look up the salary of your date's job?They have, it's just that in the past cost of living was much lower and purchasing power was far greater meaning even a modest salary was good enough. Today people doomscroll through trustfund kids timelines and start to expect a luxurious lifestyle despite living in a high CoL area where someone making double the median wage still lives like the working poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 04:59 AM |
| 6 | Is it common to look up the salary of your date's job?Look up pedantic & etymology while you're at it. If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck it's probably a duck. You might not be physically touching those Johns but you're still trading your body for monetary compensation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 03:46 AM |
| 7 | Why do men want girlfriends so badly?Like the women who come here are a good representation of what regular women are like. They're not. If I internalized everything I've seen on this fringe subreddit I'd become the most vile of misogynist's. (or misandrist for that matter) Your online interactions with strangers of questionable mental stability and motives shouldn't be taken to heart; you don't know who's trolling, who's cognitively challenged, and who isn't willfully ignorant leading to a cacophony of vitriol and bad advice. I've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:17 AM |
| 8 | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"I assumed blackpilled like so many doomers here are. Of course you'll get better as you get practice but you can still do fine without any. I made my girlfriend orgasm my first time by simply keeping the pace, I might've been a virgin but the idea behind thrust with rhythm until she's quivering wasn't so alien. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 04:59 AM |
| 13 | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"Hell, I'll bite for him. Why should someone invest time, intimacy and effort just to possibly find out the other person isn’t capable? That's literally every relationship though. Do you not have ex's? Did you & they not change as time went on and over time become less compatible? Did you know for an absolute fact before the deed they weren't shit at sex? It's always a gamble and if someone is perfect in every other way does it really hurt to give them a chance? Say, one dude's a virgin but he kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 04:36 AM |
| 18 | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"Brother it's not rocket science, this fatalistic stuff is so tiresome. It's like people say this to justify not even trying. You have the sum of human knowledge at your fingertips if none of this shit comes natural, there's plenty of guides on how to escalate, how to pleasure your partner, how to be good at foreplay. If you pace yourself and touch their clitoris congratulations, you're already better than most of the men women hook up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Wh do some people feel so desperate to not be a virgin especially under 20...okay. I'm not really saying you should give Trump supporters a chance or claim you should date someone so ideologically different than you, but that most people aren't going to end their relationships over some minor differences even if they're strong in their beliefs. When you get to know someone it's relatively easy to look past any perceived flaws in their character when you've already seen the good in them and know they're not some malicious dolt but another person who's life experience h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Wh do some people feel so desperate to not be a virgin especially under 20That's skirting around the question though, isn't it? You've rejected a number of Trump supporters before a relationship but have you never looked past a character flaw in a partner? Have you ended it with someone you've been in a relationship with because they expressed something you fervently disagreed with? No one is ideologically pure and you'll find even the biggest Bernie bro might hold at least one conservative viewpoint; unless you're going over every single political topic on the first … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | International dating is generally good for men and a life changing positive event for the women they marry. Scholarly research - mostly by feminists -has repeatedly proved this. Lonely guys should consider it - particularly otherwise successful guys who are a bit socially awkward or shy with women.Haha, holy shit dude good call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Wh do some people feel so desperate to not be a virgin especially under 20Few people have strong enough political beliefs to the extent they will cut off all contact with someone over one or two issues, I know it's 2023 and everyone online is stuck in their echo chambers and thus some form of extremist but in person it's easy to find common ground and overlook differences of opinions. You, I assume, have overlooked faults in and disagreements with your partner because you cared about them much as I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Wh do some people feel so desperate to not be a virgin especially under 20Why lie? Just don't talk about it. I've never been pulled over to discuss my sexual history, it's expected someone's not a virgin past a certain age. If you somehow get a woman who does ask these questions just play it off with something along the lines of "I know what I'm doing" and laugh; if she really likes you she won't give a fuck about you "lying" about your virginity after the deed as long as you click. I know this because I've had girlfriends loudly proclaim political beliefs and how the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Wh do some people feel so desperate to not be a virgin especially under 20Doesn't matter, it's still blasted in your face 24/7 from those partaking in it. When you're young and horny you don't give the slightest fuck that some dork in academia published evanescent bullshit about decreasing rates when your lying eyes are met by an unending torrent of media be it hollywood, music, or social either tacitly or directly implicating a mass orgy and you're the only one not in it. It's further exacerbated by teenage dudes boasting & lying their asses off about their bodycount… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What age is it weird to still live at home?You do realize that's not the case for everyone? Do you think the rich and elite families ship their kids off to a legacy admission university and say that's it? They're involved constantly pulling strings to ensure their kids futures are fruitful and set in stone. I make more than my siblings and my father did before he retired (though not more comparatively due to inflation) but very few of my college friends are in such a position and we're approaching our 30's. Those who are were placed in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | What age is it weird to still live at home?MC/UMC do both though lol. Successful families don't just cut their kids off past a certain age because they're adults now, it's a lifelong commitment and if you want to ensure their success you'll be with them every step of the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 07:17 PM |
| 2 | What age is it weird to still live at home?That's true, except rent is so out of control it's priced the majority of those in the dating range (gen Z, younger millennials) out so they're living with their family now. They get to spend their entire check on rent and experience the luxury of visiting food banks for a crumb of snatch. Try making friends with people under the age of 30 and you'll get a sweet picture of how it is for millions of American's now. Or don't, and simply google what every other boomer/gen x parent is incessantly wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What age is it weird to still live at home?Housing is both an expense and an investment, I'm no stranger to the costs of maintenance as I've worked for a general contractor and handled my parents for a decade now overseeing major renovations. Have to wonder how you managed to throw more at houses and come out worse than throwing it away. Yes housing prices aren't going to grow forever, in fact they wouldn't be where they are today without investment firm speculative bullshit, but it's still better for the vast majority of people to have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What age is it weird to still live at home?I get that, but it's not that difficult to find places to fuck while living with them and it's self filtering if a woman won't want you because of it, hence me nodding in agreement they're a gold digger or clueless. Shit today ain't how it was even 10 years ago, more than half of gen Z are still living with their parents so it's not like people ain't getting the message this is the new normal, older people speculating what's weird for a world that no longer exists means nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | What age is it weird to still live at home?Alright, you can have the slightly less damaged bag of ramen for dinner, don't say I won't treat my woman right before we go to the air mattress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:01 PM |
| 2 | What age is it weird to still live at home?t. pod enthusiast There's more to life than many things people chase but some things in life are still pretty huge and make it much easier. There's nothing wrong living your life renting but you are pissing away a huge amount of money, money that if you ever intend to have children would be infinitely better invested towards a house to build generational wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 11:13 AM |
| 4 | What age is it weird to still live at home?If everything else about you is fine but they got an issue with you living with family past a certain age when the economy is objectively the shittiest its been in decades yeah, they're either a gold digger or not too bright. What sounds better:A fully independent man who drops their entire paycheck on rent just to have their own gooncave, or the one who stays with their parents and manages to save the vast majority of it for fun and investments like a home. I'm looking at this from the perspect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Would you date a women who has lost a significant amount of weight?The scars aren't so bad today with all the treatments available. Won't look fantastic but you also won't look like Frankenstein's monster. Know a dude who was fat AF as a teen and now religiously works out and had it done, he doesn't look horrendous in trunks but like he got into an accident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 07:33 PM |
| 7 | Do You Think Being Platonic Friends With Women Is Worth It?In what way? Yeah they can get dick on demand unlike you and me but that don't mean they're from another planet. You don't have to be the emotional tampon, you don't have to volunteer to do everything for them or pay for them either. You know what I talk to one of my 30something woman friends about? Warhammer 40k and other tabletop crap. She doesn't use me to dump whatever cringe garbo or emotional neglect her dork husband's doing, we just meet up and talk about nerd stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 08:07 PM |
| 8 | Do You Think Being Platonic Friends With Women Is Worth It?In the same way that being friends with men is also worth it. Though if people expect you to pay for everything and its never reciprocal they're not your friends bro. I have a wide range of male friends who've had vastly different experiences than me and that hasn't really made us unable to find common ground; throwing a vagina into the mix didn't change every dynamic either. I'll never know what it's like to be a woman but it's not like they aren't suffering through most of the same crap I am d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingNo, I don't see it as being an example of the problem, it's an example showing there's no shortage of bad men having sex with women. I should've clarified that I'm not saying that women exclusively fuck bad men or that being a bad man increases your chances but rather I am saying that being good/bad is irrelevant to your chances of scoring because if a woman likes you she will overlook whatever fucked up faults you have. Agreed wholeheartedly with everything else, I see too many people screaming… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:34 PM |
| 2 | It's honestly extremely based that society is just tearing apart at the seams and neolibs/bluepills are like "Hell yea man, products to consume"The lines are getting blurrier with every year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingI think that advice may end up with me getting HR'd but unfortunately I'll be filling someone else's stocking this year so I'll have to leave it up to some other brave soul to find out for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingWell, strange as this is, I've not slipped and fell into one of my friends or coworkers vaginas before so I think there is indeed some attractiveness barrier there. Maybe I'm the outlier here because when I had a several year dryspell not even my bosses secretary offered to give me something as small as a handy at the company Christmas party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 11:42 AM |
| 19 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingChrist I hate seeing this same reasoning everytime this topic comes up. I have no fucking clue how you people keep drawing the same conclusion that these sexless men are treating women as inferiors or whatever, like you can't grab a random user in a female dating subreddit and get a story about them fucking the CEO of misogyny himself who they didn't find out until later was "toxic" despite showing more red flags than a game of minesweeper. There's a million reasons why someone might be sexless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you agree with the following phrase? "Men protect their emotional sanctity the same way women protect their sexual sanctity?"Oh lord. It most certainly did not. I suppose if you don't read my fucking comment it might seem like that but I shouldn't expect strangers on the internet to possess reading comprehension nor attention spans to spend a whopping 10 seconds processing what was written. Here let me further break it down for you: (why am I bothering when you clearly don't care) We use things we consider NEGATIVES to hurt others. People could make fun of Peterson for any of the dumb shit he's done like retweeting ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the following phrase? "Men protect their emotional sanctity the same way women protect their sexual sanctity?"Yes but this just goes to show that people do inherently believe these are negative qualities for a man to possess otherwise they wouldn't dunk on him for it. Making fun of someones intrinsic characteristics is bad until they do something that's considered wrongthink then we're fine with holding people to the norms of gender/race/sexual orientation. I think he was a decent example to use and I'm the furthest thing from a fan myself; I think he's an unstable cringey boomer way out of his lane whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 11:29 AM |
| 3 | If you frequently hook up, how do you keep oops babies from happening?Judging by my tinder queue being an unreasonably large amount of single mothers I have to imagine they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How would you react if a woman asked, "What do you bring to the table?"those things are part of my personality and i am happy for men to know these things and then make decisions about whether they want to date me? That's great for you but they're not for me. My job is a means for the lifestyle I want to live, not my reason to live. While I am happy I received my education it by no means defines who I am as it was only a part of my life and anyone fortunate enough to come from a good position in life can get a degree from the paper mill we call academia today. Both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How would you react if a woman asked, "What do you bring to the table?"That you think my job, my education, and my plans for my future is my personality and aren't stating them as prerequisites for dating you. That's part of the problem here; I just listed what me and my GF did on our first date and how she got to experience my actual personality without treating me like some prospective employee she met on linkedin. It's fine if there's passing questions like what did you learn in school, what do you do at your job, do you enjoy it? - the issue is when it's rapid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How would you react if a woman asked, "What do you bring to the table?"There's nothing stopping him from lying is the point, you're not really doing anything but stating "why are you worth my time lol" I'm not embarrassed at all to share who I am and what I'm about, as I quoted jeans in the difference in views on romance, love, and partnerships is why I don't want to continue after it, it comes off as transactional and I'm not about that. My current girlfriend? The first date we got ice cream and discussed our hobbies, our favorite movies and shows, we already had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 05:34 AM |
| 24 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernThis a hundred fold. Look up the process for people being recruited into cults; it isn't just the dumbest and most pathetic dregs that end up in them. They find lonely, isolated people, and slowly begin to shape them. This is happening every day within extremist communities; there's an increasing amount of young men and women with virtually nothing tethering them to this society and plenty alienating them from it. No greater good worth striving for, no sense of community, no hope of a better fut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How would you react if a woman asked, "What do you bring to the table?"I don't think this is a particularly good way to choose better, unless you expect him to bring proof of his W2's, a full reference history, and several contacts to verify what he says you're not doing a whole lot but souring the mood. Honestly it's unnatural and robotic, it signifies you're not actually invested in the other person in front of you and is the epitome of the transactional relationship. As Jeans stated it shows a difference in views on romance, love, and partnerships. You will even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 04:39 AM |
| – | Bluepill ideology really only works for those who have lived charmed livesAverage looking men are going without for years. Was this not the case in the past too? To my knowledge men didn't trip and fall into sex outside of some pockets in the sexual revolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Is dating just depressing in the 30s or what?It's been my experience grandparents/siblings are willing to watch kids once in a while. It's only a problem when they're expected to do it frequently. Babysitter is a small price to pay for a stable marriage either way. I'm not disagreeing that men are still expected to be the provider despite the fact women are earning equal if not more these days, I am saying that continuing to date each other while married isn't that difficult. While a man grinding work 14 hours a day is going to be much mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 12:51 PM |
| – | Bluepill ideology really only works for those who have lived charmed livesThat's pretty on point. A lot of people are woefully ignorant to the realities of the world outside of their bubbles and it isn't until things begin to personally affect them or people that they know that they're willing to lend an ear to those who've experienced different. A big part of it is how easy it is to end up in echo chambers these days. The wealth & education gaps have grown so large over the decades and with being part of a larger community no longer required we realistically don't in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 11:01 AM |
| 9 | Q4M: How would you react if a woman asked, "What do you bring to the table?"I would smile, thank her for the night, and explain that I'm not interested in pursuing anything more. These questions are offensive in nature. I'm looking for a life partner and there will be times where I'm not at my best and not able to bring anything but my companionship. If I answered I bring my well paying job, my physical health, my education, what happens if (when) the economy tanks and I lose my position? If I get injured or sick and become unable to work out? If that education can't la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Is dating just depressing in the 30s or what?Does it? You know what my siblings did when they needed date nights? They asked family to watch their kids so they could blow off steam three or four times a month and use that money that would otherwise go on a babysitter on themselves. You're not going to go out and have fun whenever you want like before you have responsibilities but you can still carve out a fun life if you actually try. From my understanding many couples just stop and wonder why their lives feel so monotonous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:20 AM |
| 4 | Is dating just depressing in the 30s or what?People getting psy op'd by talking to the small minority of players and 304's on dating apps and projecting this onto every potential partner. No shit you're not getting the best on hook up apps, there's plenty of great single people out there but you ain't meeting them on tinder, they use it for a bit and suffer enough negative experiences to not go back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 07:44 AM |
| 0 | If she waited to get in shape till after the breakup or in another relationship, did she even wanted do it for you?I can attest to this. Gained a lot of weight during the covid lockdowns from being trapped in an apartment eating garbage for the better part of a year, entered a severe depression after breaking up and being trapped alone in said apartment and ended up not eating for a week at a time. Lost that weight I gained pretty fast and I'm in good shape now but it wasn't so much a journey of self improvement as it was hitting the ground running from the self hatred that brought me here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 07:00 AM |
| 2 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?Yeah, it's an actual thing. After their divorce he quit his job and uses his looks to get women to buy him shit & give him a place to sleep. Not all roses though, one of the women ended up hospitalizing him with severe poisoning a few months back and he's yet to find out which. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?I wouldn't wait until you're financially stable. Literally no one is financially stable RN, over 60% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck and household debt is at its highest in history. Don't preclude yourself from finding happiness because you need to fill out a bunch of imaginary checkboxes for some vain person. You're not going to do too hot with the MIT grad who wants a large family as a late 20's gas station attendant but there's plenty of other women who make their own money and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:48 PM |
| 3 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?I don't get it personally, people pretend that sex is some act that requires lots of experience to be okay, lots of different vaginas or penises to somehow make you better. I don't know about other people but while my first time wasn't fantastic I wasn't horrible either; perhaps if you're some Amish boy but I lived in the digital age and saw exactly what I should be doing on my PC late at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:48 PM |
| 6 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?Every woman has different needs and not every man cares/can fulfill them. My cousins ex-husband is very handsome - so handsome he's a late 30 year old hobosexual with a small harem; my cousin when liquored up has talked in depth about how bad his performance was throughout their 10 year marriage. I'm not sure why you're snapping back about women having the potential to be shit at sex too, I never claimed they couldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:43 PM |
| 1 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?Is there potential to use that mystical power women have for good? Like how we taught some dogs to alert us to when someone is about to have a seizure? I have no idea the show you're referencing but unless that dude was literally Steve Urkel I have a hard time believing that, it's entirely possible this """reality""" tv show heavily filtered to find the most awkward man possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:35 AM |
| 6 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?Well put! So many people are stuck in their own head here turning full doomer about it. Like, no man, she's not going to smell your virgin pheromones - she literally cannot know unless you tell her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:30 AM |
| 21 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?You know what they're going to assume? You're shit at sex. That's common enough that I've heard multiple women over the years complain about their new boytoy being shit IRL. Bad at the act ≠ inexperience. There's plenty of men slaying who are awful at sex because they couldn't give less of a shit about their partners experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:23 AM |
| 5 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.How the hell is it delusional to expect a woman not to be the town bike, not to have an OF, and not to be entitled? Chasing after chad is w/e we all like attractive people; but the previous 3 aren't some gargantuan task to avoid as a man unless you exclusively date the trashiest women possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:58 AM |
| 7 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.You at minimum have another 40 years of life, not dating for 10~ of them isn't that terrible in the grand scheme of things. Additionally plenty of people end up in their 30's single because of circumstances or a relationship where both people changed and it didn't work out, not because they're chronically damaged and terrible people. I don't know why reddit has this obsession that 30+ singles are the "leftovers" and all fuck ups incapable of fostering a proper relationship, it's entirely possibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:43 AM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.I literally opened up with I'm not an intelligent man deeply educated on the topic of sex and relationships but I can fire off ideas and then followed up with I could also further argue why this will never happen but my comment is long enough. I literally do not have a solution. You are free to hyper-fixate and judge whatever off the cuff garbage I came up with in the grand span of 20 keystrokes and get angry. If there was a simple solution to any modern problems for either gender you can be ass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: how old are you, and what is the oldest age of woman you are willing to marry?28 and I couldn't see myself marrying a woman past her early 30's unless I've known her a very long time. This number will obviously go up as I age. It's primarily the same reason why I avoid dating women that much older than me, I'm somewhat uncertain if I want to be a father and I really, really, really don't want to waste a woman's limited time on my indecisive ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 08:05 PM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.You ever read a comment and it causes you to roll your eyes so hard it's painful? That happens to me here. A lot. Nowhere was it stated that state mandated pity fucks be a thing, the post was saying that men contribute a hell of a lot more towards women's issues than the other way around even through indifference, further there is more to men's issues than simply having an unenthusiastic orgasm in an unwilling partner. I'm not an intelligent man deeply educated on the topic of sex and relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other?Hey so have I! The comment had nothing to do with how good or bad the orange man was, it was mentioning that many people who were apolitical became politically cognizant at that point (myself included!) I was saying that people drew lines in the sand over inconsequential bullshit and deciding I can't be friends with someone who disagrees over 2% of topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other?Orange man caused a great political awakening and everyone began to foam at the mouth over minor disagreements over social issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 05:25 PM |
| 18 | Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other?Haha, same. I've found a lot of the women I've dated to compromise on their political beliefs when they find out I was one of the boogiemen that airheads on social media whine about. Almost like people read shitty websites like this and build up narratives in their head that the other side are unfuckable and inhuman monsters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 05:14 PM |
| – | Men have a hard time dating because most women are Lesbian or AsexualTrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 02:17 PM |
| 3 | The problem with stepdads is that most of the time these women wouldn't date them if they didn't have kidsDon't lie to people but also don't tell them hurtful truths. I'm sure everyone ganging up on OP are saints who hold no negative opinions of family members as well. Like why are people trying to shame them over an anonymously shared opinion on someone no one knows? Maybe you'd actually agree with her if you knew him, maybe not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 02:09 PM |
| 3 | The problem with stepdads is that most of the time these women wouldn't date them if they didn't have kidsMaybe he's just a goober, man. My dad can be considered cool if it was the 1980's but he's a lame as fuck boomer to anyone under the age of 50. Conversely he was and is extremely popular with other people born in the paleolithic era. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 01:56 PM |
| 3 | If you never had a relationship by 24, it too late to ever? And why?People change as they grow, and sometimes people just change in ways that are incompatible with people they met 1, or even 10 years ago This seems to elude a lot of people on this sub. People are always changing, for better or worse, and as such not every relationship was meant to last. Doesn't mean it was a mistake or that every relationship is destined for entropy and decay. But I'm also a part of the "It's better to have loved and lost" gang. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:27 PM |
| 6 | The real wall is the fertility wallFuming. My hands tremble with rage making it difficult to hold my phone; a woman made a silly comment and sullied this once great subreddit of intellectuals. PPD, much like the west, has fallen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 06:14 PM |
| 8 | The real wall is the fertility wallWell of course you've never hear a remotely quality man use that term, few people say blatantly prejudiced things in public like a socially inept clown. I know "quality men" who've said a number of spicy things about women behind closed doors, do you think they're dumb enough to commit social suicide like that by uttering it when women are around? I don't believe the wall exists FWIW I just think it's silly that you made this statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:13 AM |
| 3 | I really don't think it's respectable for women to have children outside of marriageYeah because that's exactly what the OP's getting at, right? I said there's many reasons to have an abortion and the only thing OP lays out is people will say mean things about her. The inhumanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 07:36 PM |
| 3 | I really don't think it's respectable for women to have children outside of marriageIt boggles the mind trying to figure out the demographic OP belongs to, huh? Kind of fucked up that they laid out flushing a child down the drain because the social stigma of giving birth without a ring though. There is many reasons to have an abortion but purely to protect your social standing among your "peers" is fuckin' sad, yo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why don't you post more selfies?I don't think I'm particularly handsome and was explicitly taught as a child not to share anything online so I have next to 0 social media presence. I'm more of a share pictures of of cool stuff I see and cats I meet to my girlfriend kind of guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.Since my post just got shot by a moderator for "racially charged content" I'll repost it without the literally not race-baiting or racially charged bit! :: Yes, just like women and other people should've figured it out on their own decades ago too lol. #notmansproblem The rising loneliness epidemic isn't going to just fizzle out; if the numbers continue to rise there will be ripples felt throughout society in a myriad of ways. Women who are shrugging today may end up with their future sons/nephe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 05:07 PM |
| 4 | "Progressive" women falling short?How low in the 20's are you? I was 17 in 2012 when it blew up; it was literally at the forefront of pop culture. All across the internet, all the news stations & papers, every musician got on stage to talk about it, the president of the USA even spoke about it. I don't really see it as anything more than slacktivism myself; many people espouse beliefs to fit in that they don't really care about. All but one of my girlfriends considered themselves progressive leftists because that's what their fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHaha. Alright dude I can understand dismissing his opinions after those statements. His closing statement is pretty level headed so I think his input is still valued even if his lifestyle is an extreme outlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:44 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDid I miss that in the sentence or did they make a previous comment saying a man should make his wife communal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t care about loveSing it brother. In the same shoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:59 PM |
| 2 | More women should use men for free dinnersObviously in this case it's about deceiving someone to have sex with them. Woman goes out with you with 0 interest of a relationship because you have something she wants (food) Man goes out with you with 0 interest of a relationship because you have something he wants (vagina) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:43 PM |
| 4 | Men don’t care about loveYou genuinely think it's just for sex? That the most famous poets and musicians didn't have legions of impressionable fans willing to throw themselves at them? You think the most powerful men in a nation would start a brutal and bloody campaign they could very well lose getting themselves and their lineage executed because that one girl alone was the only one who could ride them like a horse? Get fucking real, dude. Love has and will always exist and I actually pity you if you're so jaded you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.Well, racism, income inequality, and a two tiered justice system doesn't affect me personally so I'm not sure why I should care about them either? Other than y'know, ignoring massive issues like this inevitably destabilizes society and explodes in one way or another and overnight becomes your problem. I don't know why it needs to be explained that we're two sides of the same bronze coin and when one side starts to oxidize the other soon follows. You may not feel it today or even years from now b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 12:24 PM |
| – | We raised a generation of progressive men and traditional women.Women always worked but not all jobs and not necessarily for monetary compensation. The post war boom that made a lot of women able to be housewives was an aberration, yes. However spending all day helping on the family farm or your church isn't the same as spending all day working for a megacorp; it wasn't until the desperation of WW2 that every world government saw how much mass employment of women in otherwise male dominated fields increased productivity and pushed for getting them all in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 07:18 AM |
| 5 | Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women.I mean...yeah? Unless you're dating exclusively through chatrooms it's going to be difficult to find men who aren't motivated first by physical attraction. I've asked out women because they were cute; the entire point of going on a date is getting to know someone you fancy better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:56 AM |
| 4 | What are the most common reasons women get divorced?I just roll my eyes at it now, caught myself writing up the same comments too many times to the same people who's opinions are cemented before deleting it. Feels like a madhouse reading through here at times with how everyone's talking in circles hoping something changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:27 PM |
| 2 | There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point.Nah homie I want you to google the definition of strawman because I'm not making one, the topic at hand is you don't need to be violent to be dominant and you write up a fucking paragraph on how women are clueless and deserve it. Yeah dude, it was definitely unhinged and it was most definitely a tirade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point.It was a tirade that blames women for the actions of men so naturally I'm going to sneer and ignore it. Dominant man doesn't mean violent, I don't hit my partners and yet they still submit to me - curious, isn't it? A woman liking their man to taking lead in parts of their life doesn't mean they want to be physically abused, that's not selective dominance, that's called being normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:37 PM |
| 5 | There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point.I'm going to ignore the unhinged tirade that made up most of this post and instead focus on the first sentence. You don't need to ask permission, you have discussions about what each other like in the future for Christ's sake. Yes asking what a woman wants is a mood killer so just do some fucking vanilla PiV for a first time without the donkey punches. Once more you don't need to get physically violent to be dominant, women do everything I tell them to without me needing to hit them first. Unles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:10 AM |
| 15 | There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point.You can be dominant without getting physically violent, man. Yeah I've been with a woman who liked to be choked but no one else has asked for anything more than an ass slap or two. You have to be incredibly stupid to start getting "physical" with someone you just met without discussing it first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Would you be ok covering all expenses for a relationship partner if they lose their job ?I'm a male, partner's a female. Right now? probably not, I've been with her for two months and it's a pretty huge red flag to drop everything this early in unless you got injured or you got laid off. In the past I've had partners where I covered their share of expenses since I cared about them; my rules have been as long as someone's doing something productive and isn't emptying my bank account I'm pretty indifferent. You quit your job that's driving you insane to donate your time/go back to sch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 01:49 AM |
| 0 | Politics defines modern dating.I'm glad you have access to google but there can be many differing ideologies on the same X axis. Nazism and Anarcho-capitalism are both far right ideologies, but vastly different in their execution and beliefs due to that funny Y Axis I literally just mentioned existing; once more people rarely agree 100% with any political ideology they simply pick the ones that mostly align with their values, as such you can have a person who's vehemently against abortion but is in full support of contracepti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Politics defines modern dating.Because they don't share those beliefs? I understand this is reddit but politics isn't a switch on a horizontal line and as such there can be many differing ideologies on the same X axis. Sex and politics aren't inherently intertwined. You have men and women on this subreddit who are devoutly progressive politically but are conservative when it comes to sex and relationships thinking a man should take lead and be dominant. Ultimately politics is "I agree with this group primarily" because there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Politics defines modern dating.Makes plenty of sense if you actually go out and learn that there's different political factions on any given side and that people don't inherently agree 100% with any ideology. It's like saying a democratic socialist and a communist are the same thing because they're both left of a neo-liberal. Again just because they're far-right doesn't mean they're devoutly religious and thus against onanism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 05:41 PM |
| 7 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFBecause they want the social status, regular access to sex, and the tax benefits marriage entails. I don't know, man, why would anyone choose to have a kid? It's just a net drain on resources and you don't need them to survive old age yet anymore; some people want a legacy and the full life experience, some people want to make their partner happy, some people simply want to show the world how much they care about their SO by making a vow before god. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Turning 30 and worried about losing desirability from men.As long as you keep working on yourself you'll be fine. My sister is 36 twice divorced with three kids, a bit overweight and still has plenty of men chasing after her. No guarantees, time is a bitch and takes us all, but I've seen smoking hot women up to their 60's A few wrinkles isn't going to get you that much less attention, "the wall" is kind of a joke outside of fertility concerns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | We raised a generation of progressive men and traditional women.No, that's a result of more people in the workforce in general; when you gain 50% more workers in half a century you also cut paychecks in half. There's also that whole thing of America being a powerhouse when Europe had 0 non bombed out factories but I won't be touching on that. Take your shitty mcwagie low skilled labor - people often regurgitate that because anyone can do it that it's low wage, but on the other hand employers complain no one wants to work for them and they struggle to keep em… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 01:01 AM |
| 3 | It's not a coincidence that women who have high amounts of experience tend to hate men and be the most cynicalI'm not going to tell you to give men a chance, but I will suggest finding the root cause of these feelings. I was a tad bit misanthropic in my youth, turns out it was just the company I was keeping and not people as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Would a lower male libido pill solve most male dating problems?Bro people are out here going bald because taking rogaine threatens their libido. That pill is hyper niche and it doesn't solve the crippling loneliness those men are having as is, I don't see many people taking it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do even women with high libidos prefer monogamy or sex with just one partner?psychology of compulsive man-whores which is almost never healthy. Fixed that for you. Hypersexual people in my experience always had some form of trauma that lead to that behavior, I've got a very high libido and those dreams of spreading my seed long and far went away after my first relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 06:52 PM |
| 7 | Our generation's complete and total dependence on emotion based decision making early in the courtship process is killing good potential relationships from forming.What exactly am I supposed to elaborate here? Ignoring the fact that the pill means you don't marry the first man you bed today: Your great great great grandparents didn't hitch up off of good vibes most likely, your grandfather checked off enough boxes paid the dowry and wasn't viciously offensive to your grandmother and that was that. If we go into pre-history I can assure you the courting process was bartering food and shelter for sex - assuming they bothered to barter at all. Nothing in toda… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:56 PM |
| 8 | Our generation's complete and total dependence on emotion based decision making early in the courtship process is killing good potential relationships from forming.How about I have my own opinions instead of random people on reddit speaking for me? What one person wants isn't reflective of what everyone wants; unless you truly believe in things like AWALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Our generation's complete and total dependence on emotion based decision making early in the courtship process is killing good potential relationships from forming.My dude the grand majority of people picked mates off of necessity of survival not chemistry, modern day relationships are an aberrant speck on the asscheeks of history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:27 PM |
| 9 | what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially?They exist in certain areas, but even then they're not really social hangouts anymore. I'm in middle of the rural USA right now and every social gathering place that was a smash hit with the community when they were teens/early adults have been converted into parking space for walmart. All the kids here do is travel to whatever house has the weed or booze, if you don't drink there's literally nothing for an adult to meet others unless they drive an hour into a city....to go to the places people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 06:57 PM |
| 20 | Not coming across as creepy to women when approaching is incredibly simple and boils down to 4 things, does not involve "mind reading", and coming across as creepy once will not ruin your lifeYou're overthinking it. It's a time old ice breaker. If it's not well received you take the hint like the man in that story. Literally no one is chasing a woman down and demanding sex over it, even the cheapest street walker would spit in your face if you thought $6 is a good barter for their services. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Why go on dates if he's not attractive ?I have been fortunate enough to have an insane amount of disposable income so I don't really fret over spending (my monthly expenses are about $800) I am however like most men a fan of cheaper places because the intention is getting to know each other rather than flaunting what I earn and I've thankfully yet to be burned by those hitting me up for free meals; a luxury many other men haven't had. My current girlfriend thinks I make half as much as I do for instance because I've never really talke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Why go on dates if he's not attractive ?I absolutely would because one in person date is infinitely better for getting to know someone than weeks of texting back and forth in my experience, it's not just the raw information of "I work at Jackson's, I am an Aries, I'm unsure on children" It's showing them who I actually am, the way I interact, playing off of things they say. Text is not a good format for expressing yourself and it's hard to stand out vs the multiple other men they're probably chatting up too. I have a much better chanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?But we're not in the wild so acting like one is indeed a negative thing. I'm well capable of being a savage, better than most even, but I understand that my behavior in a society isn't reflective of my base instincts. If I debase myself to be a slave to my impulses I'm on a fantastic and short road to prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 12:51 PM |
| 7 | Are women really that disgusted by inexperienced/virgin men?It's false to believe it's solely that it's because they're negative people is what I'm stating here, very few people have the emotional intelligence of a lamp post to be that guy. It's a trope but true that men don't bring others into their problems and limp along, like how a cat that gets sick acts normal until it finds a crawlspace to die in; so those emotional vampires are really fuckin' rare to meet in my experience. I've heard more news of people I knew ending their lives and no one knowin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 07:04 PM |
| 23 | Are women really that disgusted by inexperienced/virgin men?A depressed person who hates his body, life, friends, etc is not pleasent to be around. I hate to lend credence to blackpilled beliefs (at least for dating) but most people put on a facade instead of sharing their true beliefs and feelings. If what you said was true I'd be vastly less popular than I currently am with how much latent negativity I harbor but if you asked anyone I'm one of the most upbeat people they know. While it's true that better looking people are treated better I don't necess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 03:50 PM |
| 11 | Dating would be so much easier if there were wholesome communal meeting places for younger peopleThere is nothing sadder I can think of than attending a church to meet people without sharing their beliefs. I'm agnostic but raised in a catholic family; if I show up to church looking for the one without sharing their beliefs I'm rightfully kept at arms length. Seriously, why would someone who's big enough into their faith to actually go to mass want someone who's flippant on it? To church goers the fate of their and their loved ones immortal souls is THE most important thing in their lives. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 12:08 PM |
| 13 | You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith.I genuinely don't think there's anything that can be done about this because it's not inherently women's fault or in the interest of parents to teach their daughters to expect less (rightfully so mind you) - while these issues did exist in the past they weren't anywhere near exacerbated to the extent they are today. In a sane world we'd first set our sights on things like social media which are having tremendously negative effects on both sexes expectations and self esteem or the commodification… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 10:43 PM |
| 19 | Everything In Relationships Ultimately Comes Down To Power For MenYou literally say You can never be fired from a job where you are the boss. You will never be divorced by a woman who you never married in the first place, and who needs you more than you need her. The typical man wants a life partner that loves them and wants to share a life together not someone to lord over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 06:55 PM |
| 7 | Women don’t respect the average man?Respect is earned not demanded. It's cool that 200 years ago a few dudes built the shithole I'm residing in, but I'm not going to revere them much less their bloodline that did fucking nothing for the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 05:03 PM |
| 8 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?Well I was more interested in the I'd be able to do the same things but more easily and with less pushback. Clearly you had something in mind with that statement. It piqued my (and the other persons) curiosity in what exactly you do to get it for being a woman in 2023 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:14 PM |
| 6 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?You don't need to list everything. A few examples is all I've asked for. It rings hollow when you can't articulate what supposed difficulties would make you snap your fingers and become a man if given the opportunity is all. The grass is always greener on the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:05 PM |
| 7 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?Listing a few things that you do that currently get pushback would be much preferred to saying "yeah actually everything would be easier lol" I've not walked in the shoes of a woman like you've not walked in the shoes of a man and as such I'm not enlightened on what inherent privileges men have in Ireland that would make you forgo your current life to become one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:36 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe general statement that looks and height were significantly less important a decade ago is a bit farfetched. Dating is definitely different today than 10 years ago but peoples preferences haven't had that extreme of a shift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:22 PM |
| – | Why does it feel like there is a concerted effort to keep men and women from becoming 'intimate' with each other?I'm all for peddling conspiracies but if they gave a shit about population control they'd be sneaking sterilizing agents in Bill Gate's vaccines for the third world not pushing gender war bullshit in the west. If anything westerners aren't having enough kids so they're importing immigrants en masse to fill out the labor forces to prop up the ponzi-scheme welfare states that are about to implode from demographic collapse. No - it's in the states best interest for you to live "normal" lives and ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 07:53 PM |
| – | “good girls” still slow me downSeriously, what the hell. YOU are making a conscious decision to blow off whatever you were planning on doing before. She's not giving an ultimatum here that you have to stay home and slam back to back bowls of ice cream or she's gone, she's simply trying to please you. Why is it her fault you can't say no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 08:40 PM |
| -2 | How is it that some people see being used for sex as sexually liberating?I don't know, but the women here seem to cry an awful lot about the orgasm gap anytime casual sex is brought up so I can see how someone could get that opinion. Almost like it's a debate subreddit and people intentionally take positions they don't believe in simply to argue for team XX vs team XY whenever possible so you shouldn't take anything written here as gospel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:31 PM |
| 2 | This video proves what a lot of guys complain about is real.Huh? It's not out of malice or retribution it's so they don't reach out to you again in the future. It doesn't tell them you blocked them, it's not some I win shit. OLD is superficial bullshit, they're perusing the store and last minute decide to go with something better; if it doesn't work out they'll crawl back to try option #2 (you) Don't give people second chances who are quick to throw things away, you're not a consolation prize and you're one argument away from them chasing down strange di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?It doesn't justify anything, and I didn't say I agree with what he originally said. I asked a question (which you are dodging) and followed up with a statement that you know a lot of extraordinary men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?How much is 'a lot' ? I mean that's great for those kids but it doesn't change the sentiment of the average man being that they don't want to pick up for someone else's mistakes. If you ask men who aren't infertile, don't have kids of their own, and have options to get with childless women they're going to overwhelmingly tell you they don't want to become step fathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Are single moms the "red flag equivalent" of older men?I know single moms in their 30s and 40s dating normal or attractive guys 10 years younger. Seriously dating or merely getting railed by? I also know a few people "dating" single mothers. They've already had the discussion that it's just for fun and won't ever progress into something deeper. I believe single mothers sex lives are probably the same as childless women but I don't think their dating life is anywhere near as good as them; many men are willing to have sex with a woman but few are will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:23 AM |
| – | Misandry doesn’t existYou touch upon the hating of religions bit for a single thing (misogyny) but not the LGBT or racism. Single issue voter I take it. Those hateful men fall under the cyclic line of thinking; they're reacting to what they perceive is unjust treatment and now you are angry at ALL men because of the actions of a FEW men. There are 4 billion men on the earth and you're excusing bigotry you personally agree with for a few million assholes across the globe. I could sit here and ask a million questions a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 01:50 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign?Yeah I know, it's a joke. Your average dude is not achieving that any other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 01:43 PM |
| 11 | Men are projecting the whole 'alpha widow' thing.Dude there's no universe that this will be well received male or female. Seriously who would do that to their partner? That serves nothing but to cause conflict! "Yeah I'm hung up on this girl I loved 20 years ago but you'll do now I guess..." if you're keeping momentos 2 decades later you're clearly unable to let go and need therapy. There was a post on the relationship subreddit a year or two ago about a dude who's wife was helping their daughter after she experienced her first breakup and he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:11 AM |
| 3 | How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign?I think all but multi million dollar company and professional athlete are doable if you dedicate yourself but I don't see anyone dedicating enough time to doing more than 1 or 2 total. 100k/year and fuck a bunch of women who are hot go hand in hand. You spend your entire time on the grind and turn to escorts like the techbros today do. Wikipedia you simply do something so vile people will never forget you, go post in extremist discords until an FBI agent contacts you for a prank. Just hit the gy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:05 AM |
| 5 | Misandry doesn’t existYeah men totally don't get dogpiled when they voice any frustrations, concerns, or inadequacies. We've never seen that happen here. Men don't go online and come across women saying XYZ about how awful they are because for some reason misandry is okay to leave up but misogyny isn't, this shithole hasn't hosted a number of hate subreddits that had targeted campaigns against men with wrongthink. (yes the 'cel's subs existed here too but they weren't left to fester like others) We see what we want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:20 AM |
| 6 | Misandry doesn’t existAh okay, so Islamophobia, racism, and anti-LGBT bigotry are all excused because out of 8 billion people enough from that class did something bad. I'm not a misogynist because I arbitrarily hate women, it's just a reaction to some bad ones stealing guys money, the courts being rigged against men, and making false accusations against guys to ruin their lives. See I'm not a bad person, I do bad things and have terrible prejudices but I'm really an anti-hero who despite not having anything actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:37 AM |
| 29 | Misandry doesn’t exist"Well, you see, my hate is a reaction to these other peoples actions, so it's actually valid and not a real thing" Interesting, do you feel the same way about other forms of bigotry? Is it excused because the few of a certain class of people did something bad? Reducing misogyny to simply being unable to get laid and women not liking them is ridiculous; the vagina isn't some magic cave that cures men of their deep seated beliefs and traumas the moment they get a whiff of it, there's no shortage o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 03:48 PM |
| 0 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractivePrimate brain scream copulate. All the time. Flood of hormones makes rational decisions take a backseat and has you tolerate whatever to reproduce. Post nut clarity then makes you realize exactly how stupid you've been. Thankfully not all of us are slaves to our endocrine system after our teenage years and don't put ourselves in those situations...anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 02:47 PM |
| 2 | What is behavioral masculinity?You posting this is incredibly annoying and disrespectful. Nah man don't take offense to it, it's like rings on a tree telling you how old they are. If you see someone unironically using a signature, let alone actually attaching one to a website that doesn't host them you can assume they're closing in on that pension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 02:41 AM |
| – | Let's be honest. Dating for men is an incessantly painful numbers gameI can't tell if you're shitposting or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 12:35 PM |
| 7 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they arePretty much this. Women do the same too. A lot of women end up amongst handsome, successful, and educated men and think that's the average guy and come here to tell people about how none of the average men they hang out with have ever struggled blissfully unaware of just how above average the lot of them are. Our environment leads to our biases, someone in a large coastal city is going to see a different average than the one in a small city in Kansas. God knows I'm one of the more attractive amo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | So I see men here say women having male friends in a red flag, but also that women are unreasonably mean to single men. How are women supposed to navigate this?It doesn't need to be widespread for enough people to experience it and report that it exists, like hook up culture. My sister has them, my ex had them, a few co workers have them. It's not always malicious with the intention they're kept around for things, they just don't see it as a problem. I've been the backup option before and only learned of it years after they had already rejected my advances. You can argue I grew and became a more attractive option later on but I know better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating, would not change anythingMight as well just start relationships/friendships with guys you’re interested in a serious relationship with only. Hey if that's what's best for you knock yourself out. You have to protect yourself too. I understand that it hurts that you lost a friend, just like he hurts that he also lost a friend. But the alternative is he sticks around and causes himself serious pain just so you can feel things are still normal and okay. It can work for some people but not everyone, not me. In my case everyd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating, would not change anythingI'm not arguing that you should be friends with men, I'm simply saying I didn't become your friend with the goal of eventually fucking you like a lot of women believe. So again, whats reallllly the point of cis-hetero men and women being “friends” Enjoying each others company and having fun. Not all friendships are meant to last forever. Lord knows I've got more than a few that as we got older our lives drifted apart and we lost contact, or one/both of us changed and we weren't really a good fit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 07:15 AM |
| 2 | As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you?Not always, a bigger issue is unless you're in a college town you're not getting young women. If you're into cougars with failing marriages by all means sign up for those dance classes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not?Now, being someone with an IQ of 196 I'm able to deduce that women are more attracted to men's bodies than they are to other women's. I hate how I look in the mirror too but my girlfriend still likes to get handsy with me so I think it's all in my head. You got body dysmorphia bro, not uncommon. (though wishing you were a woman is moreso) seek therapy on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating, would not change anythingA lot of women don't realize this happens and immediately assume it's the worst like someone is really going to pretend to be your friend for years to get into your pants. No. I've been down the road of trying to stay a friend to a woman I fell in love with because we were close for the better part of a decade. All it did was make me clinically depressed and having to put on the masquerade that everything was fine. I felt genuine physical&mental pain seeing her with her boyfriend and it eventual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Most men who are so worried about their gf past partners are projectingMore like you'd be 7 years old and lose your footing hitting your head. Children are in and out of the ER in our bubble wrapped society as is. The point being the average person wasn't dying in their 20's, they were dying waaaay before sexual maturity even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Most men who are so worried about their gf past partners are projectinglead to an average life expectancy of 20-25 ¼ of all newborn babies died and about half of all newborns did not survive to become an adult. You're misunderstanding. It's brought down heavily by childhood mortality and complications from birth. If you made it to adulthood your chances of becoming old and infirm were drastically higher; our lifespans are largely the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 11:10 PM |
| 7 | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?You literally asked if someone wants to be with the same person for most of their life and then claimed most people don't. People might not end up with the first person they have sex with but most people do look for and end up with a life partner by their 30's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 10:41 PM |
| 8 | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?If you eat nothing but vanilla forever, yeah, it's going to get bland. But the good thing about vanilla is you can add all kinds of garnishing on top that improve its flavor profile, it isn't absolutely necessary to throw out the pint and get a spoonful of butterscotch. A healthy sex life is always experimenting and evolving so you don't get bored. To me this reads more more of an issue with society in general with people chasing trends being hedonistic and needing instant gratification. There's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 10:30 PM |
| 11 | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?Most of us don't I got some real hard doubts on this but we'll see in the coming decades if this generation really is so damaged as to never form any lifelong bonds. I'll be watching those 60 year old 'last call' dating events with great interest and showing the highlights to my grand kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I'm not a woman and you said it yourself they didn't disclose it. No one is going to disclose it. This is some weird fucking mental shit people are getting hung up on with the most random of extreme gotchas. Me being an asshole in my past isn't comparable to being a pedophile or a rapist, and neither of those will ever tell anyone in a million years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Yeah. It'd be really weird to tell me they changed as a person without telling me what they did first though. I doubt they'd bring it up too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.You're right. As good Christian's we should accept the reformed rapist and place them on the same level as the school bully, or college party girl. It's the rapists solemn duty to inform everyone they meet of that thing that fills them with terrible shame, and ours to accept them for who they are. Turn the other cheek, my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.You didn't tell someone something never asked? You're in the wrong bro. Me and this other dudes morals trump yours, dude. We've got the superior angle because we tell our partners the weirdest pornography we beat off to, man. You really should inform your partner of that time you got peer pressured into shitting in a mailbox, these are totally organic conversations that you've somehow managed to not have to date, homie. I fundamentally disagree that we deserve to know explicit details of things … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Just be sure you format yours properly, in xerox preferably, and compare it to theirs before the vows are said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 12:58 PM |
| 5 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.If you take everything literally yes, I'm in the exact same body with the same name and answering the same posts. No, I don't behave the same, I don't hang out with the same people, and I'm not still a teenager filled with hatred for the world with a brick as my brush and car windows as my canvas. I don't need to offer jackshit unprompted, it's not unfair to my partner because I don't live that life anymore and I have no intentions of ever living it again. Once more you weirdos are free to tell … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Yes that's the secret message I wrote. I was somewhat afraid it might have gone over the readers head. Read the sentence again maybe you'll find another hidden meaning we can discuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.hey i can pretend to be ignorant too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 11:53 AM |
| 6 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Because a serial killer is going to admit it to you because you asked nicely, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 11:27 AM |
| 5 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.This sub sure loves its examples taken to the extreme to the point it's stupid. Accused and convicted aren't on the same level for starters. Entirely depends on what they're accused/convicted of too! An 18 year old was having sex with a 17 year old and caught a charge? A-Okay to me! Person convicted of spiking drinks? Doubt it! Thankfully CONVICTED = they're on a sex offenders registry so it's easy to check! Accused usually means fuck-all, go to the police and file charges. Thankfully I'm not a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 11:26 AM |
| 10 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Yeah, the divorce rate is so high because...we don't talk about that time we stole a car or sucked off a stranger at a concert while on molly. Not because like I laid out people change over time and find their needs not being met, it's entirely because you're not telling your darkest secrets and entire sexual history in explicit detail to your partner and you're not interrogating them for theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:58 AM |
| 13 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I would commit myself to marriage after seeing how someone is for years; I'm not just taking them on their word. Talk is cheap and however you were in the past isn't relevant to who you are today. The past influences our future but it isn't the determinate factor for it; we still have the capability to learn from mistakes and better ourselves along the way. You're free to inform your partners of every minute detail of your life, I'm free to not cross examine them and assume my partner truly is w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:46 AM |
| 12 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I'm not the same person though. Through great pain and effort I've taken the steps to change who I am, so why would I tell them my darkest moments if they've never asked? Does this virtue extend to potential employers and friends? Do they not deserve to know how horrible you once were? I see it works out well for felons. Sitting someone down to discuss the worst things we've done, our deepest fears, the raunchiest sex each other has had, the concept is odious to me and I'm not going to bring any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:30 AM |
| 15 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Interesting that's what you took from the comment. Everyone's had behavior they're incredibly ashamed of: I'm no paragon of morality and the things I did when I was young haunt me to this day - I would never in a million years want any of my partners to know the extent of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Women being stringed along by high value males(chad) is not their fault.Ah okay, fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Women being stringed along by high value males(chad) is not their fault.Yeah there are people hanging around sports bars sure, but you name dropped applebees of all things and I'm lost at how someone was clueless enough to have done that unless they've literally never been to one or they're in their late 50's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Women being stringed along by high value males(chad) is not their fault....what? I think this is actually the most out of touch comment I've seen here and that's impressive. How old are you? Do you think people just...congregate at applebees to make friends...to meet romantic partners? Do you not stop for a moment and consider maybe this isn't a global thing but a local? That they show up to eat with their friends lmfao, it's not a social gathering spot you can't just pull up a chair and join in. In fact applebees is fucking dying because young people literally aren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship?that’s like age 20ish or way lower ... And men don’t require much maybe once a week or once every two weeks to keep things somewhat manageable I don't know man, if you tell me I'm going to have two orgasms a month and think I won't be on edge I'll have to wonder what pills you're force feeding me. It ain't anywhere near as bad as when I was a teenager but I'm still overtaken by the unholy spirit of horny frequently enough in my late 20's that it's an inconvenience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 09:00 AM |
| 1 | The men who say 'Don't chase Women' are actually the ones chasing women. True or false.I think that's reading a bit too much into it. I chased my best friends sister for most of my adolescence because I thought that's what men were supposed to do, there's no shortage of romance stories where a guy proves himself over time and eventually gets the girl so I figured if I kept going at it I'd show I really care and was a worthwhile partner. The years of suffering taught me that attraction is not negotiable, if a woman isn't immediately receptive no matter how much you work, how many g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW)To each their own but that sounds to me like an unfulfilled sex life. As someone with alternative tastes myself I'm sure my perversions have been the talk of the girls table but I'd rather get my rocks off than worry what other people with their own kinks think of me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW)because I don't want them to see what I'm actually into Huh? Why are you afraid of showing them what actually turns you on? I'm pretty open with my partners about my fetishes and encourage them to tell me theirs since I want both of us to be pleased. Are you afraid of scaring them off early with some of the more saucy things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 12:51 AM |
| 4 | I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are neededSince people are unhappy with the current economy/working conditions wouldn't it be better to be unemployed? You'll live in abject poverty but there's government aid you can claim so you won't die. I can hate the current dating climate (holy fucking shit is it awful) but still enjoy the fruits of the effort I put in - I've had plenty of bad experiences but I only need a single good result to make it worth the time, effort, and sanity. If I was to simply opt out forever I'd still be pissed off fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 09:40 AM |
| 3 | I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are neededWe don’t need dating. No, but we need physical and emotional intimacy. They release chemical cocktails that have positive effects on your physical and mental well-being. Men were made for women and women were made for men. We need each other. No amount of community interaction or consumerism will ever change the fundamental need to hold someone you care about in your arms. There are always going to be outliers that are happy being single forever, but that is not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 08:34 AM |
| 5 | Toxic pill not purple pill?!It's reddit. This site does not facilitate conversations well at all. However this is one of the few subs that tries despite that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Is it really that important that men have a degree or other education?It's not intelligent, but it's equal to the current educational system in the west being rote memorization not application. The AI can tell you what's in the book 1:1 just like I can, but it's as dumb as a box of rocks like a lot of the """"educated"""" people I deal with. Simply having a degree isn't an indicator of intelligence these days. I'm not saying the 42 year old drop out diesel mechanic is going to blow your mind with his deep philosophical quandaries, but the average 25 year old MBA d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 04:48 AM |
| 3 | What can be done to prevent being trapped in a bad relationship?People who enter relationships for places to stay. My cousin's ex husband went from back breaking labor as a farmhand in his 20's to an unemployed hobosexual plate spinner in his 30's. He's got 5 women on rotation that he bounces between their places and they fund his lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 03:17 AM |
| 2 | The women telling you to not approach don't care about your successA++ mentality right there. It ain't going to work most times, but it's better to feel discontent than regret over never trying later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersso you wouldn’t be interacting with some barista on the other side of town. I literally just said that like the OP you responded to I'm also interacting with the working class enough to build rapport. The slip of paper I have doesn't mean I'm better than them and that I turn my nose up when they speak to me, I'm not settling for one of those untouchable dregs like the picture you've painted; they're people like me who've had less opportunities in life. If you get a man and a woman interacting en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersYeah bro you're just more likely to divorce by a bit and also they're going to steal all your money if they do why even get married at that point dude like the odds are against you naw mean. You do you, man. One dudes marriage not working out isn't exactly what I'd call proving someone right but this is purple pill anecdotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:07 PM |
| 9 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersUpper middle class men do not generally marry working class women. Because they're around people in similar backgrounds and that's typically how relationships start. If I'm an investment banker I'm not going out with co workers to a dive bar in the other part of the city where the working class congregate, we're going to the cocktail lounge down the block that they can't even afford to look at. I'm UMC but 70% of my socialization the last few years has been with blue collar workers. I'm not hold… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersAs we all know people married in the same social class almost never divorce and when they do it's entirely mutual and one side isn't left emotionally devastated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingNeither would I. You grew up in a different world, with different societal norms, different economic prospects, and different expectations. You might be able to get some applicable advice from them but they've not been out of the game long enough me to take anything said that isn't about maintaining a relationship with skepticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 08:34 PM |
| -1 | I frequently see various men complain about women supposedly being "hypergamous," but aren't the qualities they are said to require in a man also key features of traditional masculinity?There's a clear cut difference in how men act when properly raised is what I was drawing; if you leave them to fend for themselves you'll see a reenactment of lord of the flies soon enough. Even with our society doing its best to curb things like this men are still behind 97% of all violent crime, indicating that there is biological differences but it's not an excuse for certain behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 03:20 AM |
| 1 | I frequently see various men complain about women supposedly being "hypergamous," but aren't the qualities they are said to require in a man also key features of traditional masculinity?getting upset at us for hypergamy would be pointless if we're made this way. Throughout history people have been upset at things they deem wrong and unfair, especially in a society that has taken archaic & regressive stances and replaced them with more egalitarian ones. Men are brutish, greedy, and impulsive by nature yet we're (generally) not smashing each other over the head to claim the best mates and resources for ourselves. Why? Because we're educated that's not conductive to a functioning … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Yes men peak at an older age than women. But that's because most men start at the bottomThe data still shows that the average guy loses his virginity at the age of 17. That doesn't mean you're doing romantically well though, and it doesn't mean you've got frequent access to sex. Cite 63% of young men are single that this sub loves ad infinitum. Yes it doesn't mean they're sexless, but I doubt more than half of all young men asked are perfectly fine with it none the less. And plenty of men still get at least one girlfriend before the age of 25. "plenty" but not all in this new world… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOh I understand, I've had these little thought experiments myself. Just saying that the example here is on the extreme end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Yes men peak at an older age than women. But that's because most men start at the bottomI think that's a matter of perspective. It's very easy to see "average" (average in all things but romance) guys getting little to no experience today when their entire schedule since ending school has been work>home>scroll>sleep>repeat A dude who has had little success in his 20's and starts improving himself, becoming more extroverted, and becoming financially secure starts seeing results in his 30's is going to seem to him like he's hit his peak even though realistically if he did all of that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADa woman in her 30s sleeping with 20 guys is above average but won’t send most guys into OMG mode Shit dude that's way above average. The average is like 7 with a median of 4 lifetime partners, to think that the overton window has shifted to the extent 20 won't send most guys into "omg mode" really speaks volumes of how loose people perceive women today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:20 PM |
| 4 | Yes men peak at an older age than women. But that's because most men start at the bottomThe thought of 15 years without sexual or romantic intimacy since sexual maturity just to 'level up' your options sounds a little insane to to me personally. That sounds a lot like a recipe for unwarranted suffering just to get the "best" person possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:34 PM |
| 5 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those mencopy paste it one more time you almost got your point across | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | No, being neurodivergent is not the reason why you’re struggling at datingIt's entirely possible they're autistic they may just be extremely high functioning and aren't comprehending just how difficult it really is for other people. I think we've all had at least one thing in our lives that we breezed through and couldn't understand why others were struggling with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 09:59 PM |
| 7 | The insultsThey incite visceral reactions because they're potentially damaging to your reputation whether or not they're true. There's a reason why in the past people would straight up murder you for talking shit and it wasn't because they were insecure. Calling someone a small dick, a virgin, incel, etc is just a generic insult from people who can't think of anything actually clever to hurt someones feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.If the needs are voiced and ignored this circles back to not fucking randos 🤷 Yeah it sucks that there are selfish people out there but the problem is casual sex is 90% looks and everyones vying to fuck the most attractive people possible so those men can afford to treat women like talking fleshlights, but it's genuinely not a problem if you aren't out there having sex with people you barely know. If I see someone I know walking out in middle of a torrential downpour I'm pulling over to pick the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.Either or. If it's a genuine want their partner to enjoy themselves then they clearly don't know. If they don't care nothing is going to change it, and clearly they're getting enough strange to warrant not giving a fuck. I'm not blaming women for everything, I'm simply saying it takes two to tango and you're responsible for voicing your needs as a stranger has no obligations to go at it until you're done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.We aren't born with ethereal knowledge, if a man has managed to make it through his life unaware of these things the only people to blame is his previous partners. You can have casual sex and still care about your partners pleasure, but it doesn't mean you do or have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.That's true in a committed relationship. However I don't fuck strangers I've just met and I explicitly told my partners to communicate with me if their needs aren't being fulfilled; which apparently is a foreign concept to enough people that an orgasm gap exists. Perhaps the solution is not getting your holes filled by randos and talking to your partner instead of whining about it online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 11:53 PM |
| 10 | If you want to understand why women feel so adverse to being approached, try being a somewhat middle class person in a struggling third world country.“hey I want to fuck you” Wow, one of the core pillars of literally every romantic relationship ever. How insulting. God forbid someone who doesn't know you wants to learn more about you because you caught their eye. The barbarian. You can say it is unwanted, that it is annoying, but insulting is so hilariously off the mark and is why I said it's neurotic to think that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.I see this a lot and I'm always taken back by it. You see men endlessly shit on for the death grip but somehow it's a mans fault you've not had an orgasm and never said a word about it. There's nothing stopping you from playing with your self while he's thrusting if it's not doing enough for you too. It always seems more to me like women are just having sex with strangers for some sort of experience they're afraid of missing out on that isn't really enjoyable to begin with and are hand waving it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:05 PM |
| 12 | If you want to understand why women feel so adverse to being approached, try being a somewhat middle class person in a struggling third world country.The point being you don't understand sexual attraction? To think of how neurotic you would have to be to feel outright insulted. They're so attracted to you that they're willing to put themselves in an emotionally vulnerable spot just for the chance at seeing you again and it is somehow insulting that they want to learn more about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:32 PM |
| 2 | If you’re too scared to talk to women, that’s natural selection at workHyper niche nerd maxed personality doesn't matter as long as you're eyecandy. No clue if it was just American, I only remember a few women I know talking about it waaay back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:32 AM |
| 3 | If you’re too scared to talk to women, that’s natural selection at workHe was voted most handsome man last year in some poll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:15 AM |
| 2 | If you’re too scared to talk to women, that’s natural selection at workbut it's pretty obvious that natural fitness correlates with class. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:08 AM |
| 6 | If you’re too scared to talk to women, that’s natural selection at workButs hes never been "thirsty" like the men here are. You know this for a fact? I don't know your husband but I'd be real hesitant to let it slip that I was down bad and getting desperate before I met you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:05 AM |
| 2 | People who say real life is better than dating apps. Can you prove how ?I literally do not know of any dude IRL that ever got a girl by cold approaching, it's a made up PUA fantasy Talk to more men outside your social circles. I've done it, plenty of my friends have done it, the current woman I'm seeing I asked out while she was assisting me in assembling my order. I wholeheartedly disagree with the claim it's the best though; there is significantly more failures than success and that's exactly why most men don't do it anymore. The ego is fragile and it's far easier… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 12:00 PM |
| 2 | What if I'm authentically not happy being single?That's not usually what happens Speaking from personal experience or do you just feel that's how it goes? And then if we look deeper, would you be happy in a long term relationship, or go back to meh? Indifferent is somehow different than not caring? I suppose that means there's three levels of "happiness" in the world. Entering a relationship and it going well gives you 1 point towards advancing them: unhappy not caring > not caring > happy caring. You're entitled to whatever you believe, there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:47 PM |
| 2 | What if I'm authentically not happy being single?But what if the honeymoon phase ends...and you're still happy? Best to assume someone who has everything else sorted in life truly doesn't need the last puzzle piece to be complete. I could go back and forth about nihilism but I'd rather not. I'll end on the fact I've had several girlfriends and spent most of my adult life in relationships, I know I'm at my best in one and reject the belief that there's something wrong with me for being meh about the daily grind without someone to share it with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:09 PM |
| 2 | What if I'm authentically not happy being single?I absolutely can't truly be happy without one and I'm not going to pretend that's not normal. I make good money, I have many hobbies, I have plenty of friends and socialize a lot, but I'm not able to flip the switch off for craving romantic intimacy. I get that we're all wired different and some people genuinely do take being alone perfectly fine, but people pretending you need to become this hyper individualistic and functionally complete package okay with waking up next to no one or you're men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.They're good people but I'm not envious of the future generations stuck behind more of those fucking carriages on the highway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 06:07 PM |
| 7 | [Wall Street Journal] Dating Apps Put a Hefty Price Tag on Finding Love [x-post from /r/Economics]I don't know man, 10-15 more years of this shit and there's a real possibility that when millennials start taking over congress someone's getting whacked with an anti trust for all their shit experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | [Wall Street Journal] Dating Apps Put a Hefty Price Tag on Finding Love [x-post from /r/Economics]Near? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay menOther than...how strong of a feeling it is. Cap. There's varying levels of disgust as a reaction to everything. You wouldn't put poo play on the same level as missionary. To pretend that they are all equal tells me someone isn't telling the truth. I get that neither sound great to the woman, I disagree that they're anywhere equal in terms of reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 08:05 PM |
| 2 | The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay menHey that's great and all but that literally doesn't change that a woman having straight sex with a man she's not into is completely different than a straight man having gay sex or having sex with animals. They're not equal. They'll never be equal. Its only brought up because it brings a rise out of people. Anyone who genuinely uses it is disingenuous. I cannot make this position any clearer and I refuse to attempt to further elucidate on it. Agree to disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay menI am arguing in circles here. I cannot convey this any clearer. There's a difference between having sex with a HUMAN MALE when you are SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to HUMAN MALES but not THIS specific HUMAN MALE. It's not comparable to having gay sex when you're not gay. It's just not. This shouldn't need to be explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:47 PM |
| 6 | The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay menIt's pretty fucking easy, only one can consent but the big thing about it is I don't want to fuck dogs or men because I'm not sexually attracted to either. A woman is sexually attracted to men, they're just not attracted to THAT man. There's a pretty big difference here dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:36 PM |
| 2 | The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay menOne is far more repulsive than the other and that's why it's a stupid comparison. You don't need to go to such extremes to try and convey something to the point it becomes a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:33 PM |
| 0 | The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay menMyself, preferably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | If women want high status rich men, then why do poor people often have the highest birth rates?Ah you're right, I misread what they wrote at that point the first time and didn't double check, my bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay menYes, well, perhaps this is a male brain female brain difference because the idea of fucking a dog is a fair bit more repulsive to me than sex with the ugliest woman I can imagine but to each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:23 PM |
| 10 | The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay menNah dude it's not. You might as well say a woman's reaction to hooking up with a man she's not attracted to is on the same level as bestiality. Utterly ridiculous comparison. A better yet still cartoonishly stupid example is like a literal 1/10 most physically repulsive woman you will ever meet. There may be disgust and shame involved in sex with her but it's not a visceral reaction to going against your nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:14 PM |
| 8 | The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay menRarely ≠ never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:10 PM |
| 0 | If women want high status rich men, then why do poor people often have the highest birth rates?for being a single mom That implies there isn't a partner. Well in the "hood" There are no jobs in the hood. That's why it's called the ghetto. Most of the income being earned by people there is under the table. It's been a while since I've looked into this but I'm pretty sure you can get benefits despite having multiple incomes in the same household as long as they don't exceed their fair share of expenses (rent, prepare meals separately, etc) since those most likely to need government aid prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change?Funny how my logic is based on reality in the actual court systems we currently have and their thought processes as to why men can be ordered to pay child support for children that aren't even theirs in every western nation. I also heavily disagree with the notion that a child is better off as an orphan than potentially with an unscrupulous but loving mother, and I'm pretty sure everyone but those who came from the most broken and abusive homes would agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:32 AM |
| – | DancingGotta go where the fishes swim, man. Unfortunately there's not really any public place people congregate to play videogames anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:28 AM |
| – | DancingBy playing videogames. Valorants gender ratio is something like 60/40 for male/female. Two of my friends found their soon to be wives on it during the pandemic. If you're really good at twitch shooters (protip: become more adderall than man) and got a masculine voice it won't take too long to find your very own e girl. I speak from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change?Should be, could be, but that's not the reality we live in. You're drastically missing the point here. We can discuss what an idealistic world is like until the cows come home but no one in the government gives a shit. The justice system is anything but these days. You got a petition? I'll sign it, but two strangers on the internet agreeing over something is not going to change how it's currently set up as public opinion already rarely has an effect on what laws are put in place. we are probably… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change?Look man I agree but that shit just seems out of reach, you have to get everyone else to and they're not going to because idiots genuinely think it's not rape if a woman does it, or have stupid clauses like "was she attractive???" See how people cheer when female teachers molest students. It also gets really dicey proving it, we already have issues proving men raped someone to the extent people have had their lives ruined by false accusations with little to no evidence. Then you get into the can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change?Then it should be the person who has the sole decision on whether that kid can be brought to life: currently only the mother. The problem that arises is that the mother committed a major crime bringing the child into the world, so if we punish her we're punishing the child by proxy. Put her in jail: Who's raising the kid? Fine her heavily: Depending on her economic bracket this could force her onto welfare. Is that money not better put towards raising the child? It's a lose/lose for the governme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:27 AM |
| 4 | Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change?I'm all for expanding male rights but I don't see it as being realistic. Big issue is that someone has to raise and pay for that kid and Uncle Sam will do his damnedest to not be him. Brings up the question of proving that it was rape or that she fished a condom out of his trashcan, female on male rape isn't even considered a crime in parts of the country because of the lack of penetration of the victim, and an erection is considered consent despite that fact that it can be caused by strong emot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Shitty Bluepill dating advice creates entitlement, not Redpill talking pointsPerhaps they actually aren't chads in the grand scheme of things, I just found it disingenuous to neglect that information when days ago you painted a different picture is all. An issue is where 'average' begins. Average man&woman in LA is going to be far different than the average in St Louis- I've seen the definitions of average on this sub being far above actual averages more often than not. For starters people not realizing 70% of all Americans are overweight and I don't necessarily blame th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change?I mean it's been my experience that women are typically better with children than men...but that's also potentially because of the extreme social stigma of men associating with children that aren't their own. I wouldn't necessarily rule it biological than cultural, but women are far more socialized on average which helps tremendously with it for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:39 PM |
| 0 | For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worriesLiterally go to the redpill subreddit and on the sidebar there's direct links to all of the theory, there are archived versions of the subreddit, rehosts after it got quarantined, websites rehosting rollos website. It's not hard. I know google deranks all of the content in lieu of whatever random shit rags are complaining about and you need to use advanced search results just to find it so I'll get you started: https://gprivate.com/66b4k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:33 PM |
| 0 | For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worriesIt's literally fucking written and on several websites 1:1 in the most simplistic of terms. I don't give a flying fuck what someones personal bastardized version is. Fucking read it and actually critique the terrible pieces like its abhorrent, troglodyte tier views on women, not some red flaired nerd said something stupid and thus everyone now shares the same belief giving way to start whining about how they whine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 11:26 AM |
| 0 | For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worries"Blue pillers don't just bitch about redpilled men, they do so obsessively." Ah yes, while writing that comment I forgot that at the bottom of every website that hosts the redpill it says "Don't forget that its literally everyone elses fault but your own! Ignore everything that was written prior and don't forget to tell them!" as 99% of people here seem to think it has. You're critiquing random assholes and associating them with it instead of the thing itself. I fucking hate I have to even defen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 11:03 AM |
| 3 | For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worriesBecause it's not relevant to my comment and the entire purpose is that it's amoral. What you take from it is what you take from it, it's not the holy bible with the tenets you must live by to be sexually successful; it has basic guidelines to improve your chances and could include any number of ideological litmus tests but that wouldn't invalidate everything else there. Like everything else in life the truth isn't in the extremes but somewhere in the middle and TRP has some good advice for those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:13 AM |
| 2 | For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worriesAt some point you need to look inward and take accountability Thats...the entire purpose of the redpill. Fucking read it already, Jesus Christ it is literally your bogeyman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 01:03 AM |
| 11 | Shitty Bluepill dating advice creates entitlement, not Redpill talking pointsYou forgot to mention the rest of why they might hold those exact beliefs this time. I remembered your name from the "Very successful, handsome, college sports playing chads" post a few days ago claiming they're blue pilled and don't understand manosphere content. If women are falling over themselves to get with you all your life without having to put much thought or effort into it you're probably going to believe in those empty platitudes since you've never had to learn anything else, it just c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?The overarching context of...me treating my partners with "disdain" for drifting apart and not forcing contact for the sake of it. Alright, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:39 AM |
| 5 | For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worriesI'm not even redpill and seeing these constant threads of "RED PILL MEN ARE THE MOST UNHAPPY, UNSUCCESSFUL, IDIOTIC, THE UNWASHED DREGS RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERY INJUSTICE AND INHUMANITY EVER CONCEIVED AND NEED TO IMPROVE THEMSELVES BY DOING XYZ" shit is getting old. Why does it live rent free in so many peoples heads? Do they even read what the fuck it lays out? It's just a self improvement guideline, man, not a religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:37 AM |
| 0 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?Not reading my comment and responding in such a "manner" is a redflag. 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?Well it's a good thing you're not one of my dating prospects then. Where did I say I wasn't cordial or friendly either? They live over 100 miles from me now, I'm not a part of their life and I'm not going to extend an olivebranch to tell them how much better I have it now and start snooping into their lives just to see how they're fairing. I do still care about them, but I'm not going out of my way to interact with them again. If they really wanted to stay in contact they would contact me, yet t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:12 AM |
| 12 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?Is it being spiteful? I'm pretty sure it's just being able to let go. I wish them the best but I ain't dwelling on them forever; if their life is going great sweet, if it's not that sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:32 PM |
| 2 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?This. Don't stalk my previous partners, not my business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Do men want a woman like this?Sorry for that, man. I don't know what compels people to throw away everything chasing after quick thrills like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.Faking it until you make it works extremely well in every facet of life. There is literally no way for a woman to know you're inexperienced unless you outright tell her or act overtly nervous all the time fumbling up the most basic actions like going in for a kiss or have avoidant behavior like not looking them in the eyes or getting physical. Suck at sex? Kissing? Not too uncommon even well into adulthood from all the shit I've heard from women IRL and online. Nervousness is to be expected, shi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.I don't need to put my hand in an open flame to know that's not going to be a positive experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:38 AM |
| 10 | Do men want a woman like this?Do men really want a traditional relationship that has clearly defined rules and both people are genuinely happy in the arrangement? If they're a traditional man, yeah. None of that sounds sexist or wrong to me and I'm not a traditional man, that's just how they want to live their life; who am I to say it isn't right because I've been forcefed corpo propaganda my entire life for suppressing wage growth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 11:28 PM |
| – | I hate how society has idealized and romanticized people from bad homes as suitable long-term relationship partners.Don't think I've seen anyone celebrating or idolizing those who've had tremendously shitty lives, mostly just feeling pity and empathy that they've suffered so much. I have a feeling that may be difficult for you (Depending on their race of course). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionalUnfortunately not, I've had three sexual relationships in the last decade. I'm far from innocent, I simply hold a different world view than yours. And let me tell you, that worldview is extremely cynical in other departments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:26 AM |
| 12 | Discussion: What do you bring to the table?I can reach things on the top shelf at the store and am global elite in CSGO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:08 AM |
| 3 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?I feel like we're discussing two different things here. If you're failing to maintain a relationship past the early dating stage doing more dating isn't going to fix whatever's wrong with you. It's not an RPG you don't gain experience to the next level. If you're already getting these dates to get this experience clearly you are already at a point where focusing on taking more people out isn't teaching you anything you don't already know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionalNo she didn't lead me on, it's just the natural result of spending most of your free time with a woman for half your life. It's true, I've fallen in love with multiple women over the years, and I still feel that love today. It doesn't go away, it just dulls with time, but I'm not polyamorous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:49 AM |
| 4 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Several steps ahead of what? You can't learn what makes you happy with the person you're already with? Do I need to try every flavor of ice cream to know I really like chocolate? Perhaps butterscotch would taste even better but at what point is the current flavor you enjoy considered good enough? There's going to be ups and downs of any relationship, they're not all perfect, and a couple that stays together grows stronger together. This isn't to say you shouldn't end a relationship that's going … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionalSuppose that time I fell in love with my best friends stepsister and all the agonizing pain that came from it being unrequited was just me frustrated I couldn't spread my seed then. 🤪 If no man's ever fallen in love with you I'm sorry but we can actually feel that emotion, you need to be with the right person though and lust doesn't lend itself to finding them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Social isolation and male datingThat's not ugly my dude, that's called low self esteem. If you're sulking around and giving off bad vibes no one's going to want to talk to you and you'll get a reputation. Trust me bro if you're getting compliments and being flirted with by strangers often you aren't as bad as you seem, because that shit is incredibly rare. Like I objectively am not fat but seeing my body in the mirror disgusts me making me wish to cut even more. That doesn't mean I am fat I just have a fucked up brain that's g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Doesn't necessarily mean it's 14 years straight, just dating after one fails for one reason or another. People change and what not, we do be livin' in the most superficial of times. I could say the same myself when I first became active, but realistically it's more like 4~ years total. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 11:45 PM |
| 5 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?You also don't grow as a person or build any real bonds by swapping out your partner the moment any difficulties come up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 11:26 PM |
| -2 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menlol, I brought my painfully shy girlfriend around my friend groups plenty. She wouldn't speak unless directly spoken to, it wasn't a problem. they found it as cute as I did; you don't need to be the life of the party to have others enjoy your company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 07:28 PM |
| 7 | Are average men really desperate for sex?wow literally not an argument 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Are average men really desperate for sex?Sucks man, but I've had two partners that have taken accountability and I don't think it was a unicorn thing. Legit pick better, yo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | A big bank account doesn't make you an alpha male.Ok, doesn't matter what some random dweeb on the internet farming clicks thinks about two people who were together before they were wealthy. It's not about envy of someones money, it's making fun of the dude who gets the born again christian that a few years prior was partying her ass off fucking loads of broke men because they had something other than wealth to warrant pursuing a relationship with. You are paying for what others got for free. That's betabux. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 06:11 AM |
| 6 | A big bank account doesn't make you an alpha male.That's not what betabuxx is for. It's for the man who has to use his resources alone to secure a partner because he has literally nothing else going for him. It's not envy, it's mockery for being the stable guy to fall back on when every other prospect for her falls flat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:31 AM |
| 5 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenFinish that sentence, because if you're saying "no, bro, really it sucks ass look at these obviously upset people venting" like yeah no shit, internet forums on these topics are a lot like google reviews in that you only hear from 2 extremes who go out looking for them. Either you love being a parent and it's your whole world or you despise it and are stuck with the little bastards for the foreseeable future. No one who is simply content with their children is going to anything more than an advi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:23 AM |
| 4 | High value men do not want 21 year old'sIt's a troll. Click their profile and see the wonderful threads they've made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 07:43 AM |
| 3 | High value men do not want 21 year old'sor maybe your post quality is low and you post the same things, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 07:23 AM |
| 3 | High value men do not want 21 year old'sNo, I don't think I will. I clicked your profile after making the post and seen the threads and replies you've made and can tell you're a serial baiter, I'm not going to waste my time learning celebrity bullshit as a gotcha; I already wasted it typing up that and this comment. I've heard enough names incidentally from the women I'm around that I'm sure someone who really wants to prove you wrong and actually knows celebrity's as more than that guy who played Obi-wan could probably post a list, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 07:19 AM |
| 2 | High value men do not want 21 year old'sChrist, we could sit here and start naming off the "high value males" (how do you even quantify this bullshit other than rich and famous?) who are perennially with significantly younger women, too. Some of those men you've listed are also known adulterers, indicating both that their wives weren't physically pleasing enough to them and that they're tremendous pieces of shit undermining the supposed "high value" aspect of them. Humans are risk adverse and as such few people are going to throw away… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.Don't let opportunities pass by because 'what if' Oh, well, shit, I guess it's better to do literally nothing than to risk something and potentially find the love of your life. Put all your eggs in one basket and what not. Not like life is full of what ifs as is, and that any possible hundred things could happen at any moment so you should live while you can. I'm going to be enjoying the company of a beautiful woman tomorrow night, perhaps in the future I'll come to realize she's not as great as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:06 AM |
| 2 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.You can do both. "don't rely on one "strategy" alone" Literally as simple as don't let an opportunity pass by! If you get a home run you're on the path to finding love and all the joy that comes with it, if you strike out literally nothing changes. For all you know that girl at the kiosk is your future wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 02:02 AM |
| 0 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.Most men don’t get rejected, much less rejected 75% of the time. I'm sorry, what are you basing this on? The amount of times you've said yes to men or...? I'm a man, I know full fucking well what my chances are when walking up to a stranger. I've lived it. My friends have lived it. Literally any man who approaches will tell you the same, even the most handsome of us. This is why so many men are foolishly banking on OLD alone because it's not easy and rejection often hurts. As a 28 year old man w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 01:37 AM |
| 12 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.Alright man, I had some pretty bad teenage angst when I was young too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 12:14 AM |
| 14 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.We live in a society. You live by societies rules or you can leave it. The way you're laying this out tells me when we were less civilized as you act, you'd have been expelled from the villages of old. Also overly privileged? Not acting like a fucking cave dweller is being privileged? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 12:01 AM |
| 20 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.Everyone has a right to amiable treatment. Women should let down men easily unless they're not taking no. Men should accept no gracefully. If you believe otherwise you are, quite literally, everything wrong with society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:53 PM |
| 2 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.You are sober, no? Nothing you've said countered what was written. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:45 PM |
| 3 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.Hence why it's a numbers game. 70 women don't want to be approached, 25 do but not by you, 4 are receptive, 1 is overjoyed that you have. You will fail until you don't. That's why you shouldn't take a woman's feelings into consideration unless you want to risk being alone for the rest of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:34 PM |
| 3 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.Most of my LTR's have been from circumstantial events that bloomed into something more myself but not every man has the luxury of sitting around waiting for it to happen, plenty of men have done just that expecting the pieces to finally fall in place and find themselves approaching their 30's without anything substantial happening: as such we can't take our own experiences and use it as more than a guiding light, our own personal experiences are just that, personal, they don't necessarily work f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:30 PM |
| 6 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.What kind of asinine logic is that? It's expected in society you act as what is considered socially acceptable, I.E: Acting kind and respectful. Virtually no one wants you to come up and treat them like shit. Also they're literally saying that as long as you act with basic decorum however they feel is their problem, you can empathize that they may be uneasy but it's ultimately not your responsibility. I don't know how you managed to read that comment and come to any other conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:13 PM |
| 5 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.Quite literally cannot win with this mentality is the problem. Ask out a stranger you've just seen in walmart because you fancy them? Well they're just going about their business and you're making them uncomfortable clearly indicating you'd make a terrible prospect. Expend the energy to try and get to know the stranger for an indeterminate amount of time before asking them out? You only initiated a friendship to get your dick wet hurting their feelings and further indicating they were right to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 10:46 PM |
| 7 | The best option for men who aren't top tier for casual sex are late 30's to early 40's womenYou're projecting how a man feels onto a woman. Women typically don't prefer younger partners, it's one of the reasons why the teen to early 20's bracket is so fucking brutal for men. If they were realistically able to hook up with cougars you bet your fucking ass everyone of them would be pining for mommy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Has a woman ever helped you get laid?My sister who seems to spend every waking moment socializing has actively tried to hook me up with friends who've expressed interest over the years. I'm pretty convinced it's never been for my benefit though. So while I've never actually gone through with it despite them being attractive I suppose that does count even if for nebulous reasons. E* I had this open from before work and didn't see your edit, then no I've never had her directly try and get me laid, it was to try and get me into a rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 09:04 PM |
| 21 | Q4M: Has a woman ever helped you get laid?You know it's entirely possible that men your age also felt the same about these situations even if you didn't, I'm pretty sure the only thing that's changed in the last 30~ years is that there's outlets to anonymously share your true feelings without risking the facade. Strange concept I know but some people genuinely do want to find a life partner and learning that person you thought you had a real connection with didn't actually like you but decided before the date even began they're going to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 09:01 PM |
| 2 | What are normal jobs that give the most status to a man ?As far as I can tell most of the women on this sub are AWFL's. The classism is not always so blatant but you won't go long without seeing someone scoffing at the lower rungs of society because apparently everyone is upper middle class and can't comprehend the super majority of the world is not fucking that. I suppose that's just natural though, we won't hear as much from the working class as they lack the luxury to spending what little free time they get arguing with strangers on the internet ov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:35 AM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveHaving a child you're paying for but aren't a part of their life is better than nothing? I think that's worse than nothing but I suppose I lack the appropriate mentality that often comes with trapping or being terminally online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 10:31 AM |
| – | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?It's one thing to come here and vent about how shit your experience has been, it's another to lash out at people because they have it easier than you in some ways. I would say mass replying to every woman in a thread isn't alleviating anything, you're sinking further into a pit and are already filled with so much hatred you're probably exuding it in real life as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 10:05 PM |
| – | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?I must have missed the part where she was complaining about it. If you're upset that you can't get any, I feel for you, but replying to everyone in this thread lashing out doesn't lend itself to anything productive nor does letting emotions like that fester improve your chances with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Where do you all go for dates? What is the general cost?I don't take anyone out for anything expensive until things are getting serious. Coffee dates, a trip to the movies, visiting a park, a small diner, one of the many bars, a local small concert, carnival or various seasonal fairs & festivals in the area. Really anything that's going to cost <$100 as I'll be offering to pay for it. When things start picking up it's all of the above + fancy restaurants, mini vacations to holiday resorts, that kind of stuff. It's not really a cost thing as I have se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 07:00 AM |
| 4 | If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life?Sums up my feelings exactly. My mother worked for a time in a home and told me stories of the same, if I somehow manage to not forge any bonds by the time my health starts to fail I'm going next and donating my organs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life?Assuming you have the most basic of anatomical knowledge and do the smallest bit of research, it is indeed an off switch like in the movies. I won't give out pro tips on how to ensure you die online, but it's simple enough where I could realistically do it in a hospital parking lot and no one could save me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:04 AM |
| – | Should they teach young people to take relationships more seriously, in high school?Yes...that's why in the areas of the USA that teach abstinence instead of actual sexual education we have significantly higher rates of teen pregnancy despite it being a hard requirement to have a license there too and every doctors office giving out free contraceptives. We only trust them enough to drive is because getting a license is necessary for survival in half of the nation, hence why it's so easy to pass the test, but I and nearly everyone else most certainly don't trust a teenager's abi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.Literally every fulltime? Bro I live in the middle of the fuckin' boonies where factories are so desperate they pay skill-less laborers 70k/y with excellent benefits, 4 on 4 off with options to make significantly more if you're willing to do OT, and 2x pay if you're willing to work weekends. Even Mcdonalds is paying $18 an hour in a town of 1k~ where rent on main street is $500 a month with all utilities. It might not be the case for the biggest cities where CoL is insane from overpopulation but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:54 PM |
| – | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.No, they really can't. The market is already heavily saturated and cornered by the top women, there's a finite amount of money and attention that can realistically be thrown around leading to pussy being at its lowest price in history: so if you've just got a pretty face with nothing else going on you're going to be pulling wages lower than part time at mcdonalds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.Yes? There's been a good number of former "actresses" that talk about their repeated failures in the dating market and the difficulties in securing someone who actually, y'know, gives a shit about them beyond their ability to handle a banana. They're women too, they already have to navigate the issues of commitment and you'd be hard pressed to find a man looking to start a life with someone who has spent the last decade getting every hole filled at 400 different angles. Especially so if they wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating in the west is a people problem, not a woman problem, and that problem is centered around an attitude of entitlement.I don't let him pay for me, and b, I make sure to let him know that I'm slow but I'm worth it in the end. If more women were like this you'd see a lot less pissed off dudes. There's nothing wrong with not clicking or taking it slow, but someone is going to get a sour feeling if they're consistently footing the bill and having it not lead anywhere. I've seen so many "no coffee dates please" on bumble now I can't help but laugh when it's a direct response to so many men planning intricate dates an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Is the average purple pill participant butter against women?It's paraphrasing your original post which you follow up on by saying here that they're all "chads" No shit none of them know what pill ideology is or know any manosphere crap when they're not the ones who ever needed to look any of it up. The average man doesn't have a college degree, and the average college matriculate isn't on a sports team, you're literally describing above average men and saying they didn't struggle and using it as a baseline for all men. They're not going to be bitter if t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Is the average purple pill participant butter against women?"all the men I know are the exact men that this sub complains about and they didn't know anything about any of this bullshit" I mean, yeah, kind of the point I guess? You're not exactly talking about average to below average 20~ somethings right there that turn online to look for the 'cheat code' for why they're unsuccessful yet their parents and grandparents weren't but instead get forcefed unending content of the worst women imaginable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex?But not necessarily from the same man, it's not just women who age and become less attractive as time goes on, ennui sets in, etc. Regardless, as marriages progress they become increasingly sexless on average. It's been a running joke for as long as television has been a thing that getting married means you'll never get any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?Lots of families do, but I learned throughout my life most families don't lol. Parents just drop their kids in front of the electric babysitter and hope things turn out fine since their parents did the same to them and they ended up ok in their opinion. Only difference is you aren't forced to socialize in person these days like you used to, so everyone's turning into oversocialized & maladjusted shut ins afraid of instigating basic conversation. You're absolutely right in it being critical to te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:01 PM |
| 7 | What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future?No, they really shouldn't be focused on their career for anything but achieving the life they want. Ignoring the logistical issue of finite well paying jobs, any relationship built off of winning women over with resources alone is going to be a shit one as your earnings are supposed to compliment everything else. Near me is a factory that starts out paying the same as my friend with a PHD in biology who's in charge of a laboratory, the factory workers are making more due to being in a lower CoL … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythDoesn't count...? Having sex with one person when people start becoming sexually active and then having none despite being capable of it a decade later means they can't be prudes? Brother I've seen them clock out of conversations when they got a bit risque, just because they've had sex doesn't mean they can't be prudish, it means they can't be virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:37 AM |
| 11 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythYeah I know some turbo sluts too. I also know extreme prudes who have had sex with one person in their teens despite being in their mid 20's You can't base everything off of your own anecdotes, man. The women in your circles might be promiscuous as hell but it isn't reflective of society as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:31 AM |
| 1 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexOh yeah, I don't mean to imply older men are putting in more effort either. They just had lower standards back then so it wasn't really seen as bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexIf by 'stylish' you mean they're more likely to have a broccoli cut and wear a trendy tshirt with those jeans, sure. I've interacted with a lot of 18-25 year old men the last 5 years both in a major metropolitan area and rural, for every 1 dude you see putting in actual effort you'll see a dozen who aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:55 AM |
| 2 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexSounds about right for the average sub 35 man. They don't have any skin care regiment, they don't work out, they see their future is kind of fucked so they're half assing it, they'll get the cheapest most basic haircut, only shave when they're starting to look homeless, their outfit of choice is a tshirt and jeans (hey that's me) and they cope with how shitty their life is with weed and videogames. Gen Z is down real bad, man, let me tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 12:24 PM |
| 1 | The bald mans handicapNot entirely true, the Y chromosome can also be damaged causing hair loss. It's a fair bit more rare than a damaged X though. It can also go way further back than just mother's father, if the stars align you can be getting it from your great great grandparents. With the rise of FTM's many are learning upon taking DHT they're carrying these genes despite their parents and grandparents having full heads of hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 03:49 AM |
| 2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeNah. Everyone should date no matter their life circumstances outside of the most negative of extremes. You got one life, you owe no one anything. It's up to the other person to decide if they want to spend it with you despite your shortcomings. I've dated broke women, I've dated women when I was broke, it's really not a big deal in 2023 when everyone's one missed paycheck away from moving back in with their parents anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:23 AM |
| 8 | Women do not become more romantic later on in the relationship, women that say this don't actually know how to be that in a way that the other person appreciates.Walk up, grab him by the ass and tell him the three magic words I love you "Nice cock, bro." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | “Ghosting” after sex is normalthere is nothing wrong with not telling you or calling you back. Crazy, just like with ghosting after sex today in the past they did both of those, so yes it is still wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.I'm sorry? Where was any of that stated? You got access to the Akashic records too? We know next to nothing about this dude, certainly you wouldn't be making things up to justify your prejudice against men, would you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:31 AM |
| 1 | People underestimate how circumstantial attraction isNo, the farmers market is a specific crowd. I literally live in farmland rn, and I lived in Chicago for most of my life where I'd frequently visit them; it's really not lol. It's like saying it's a specific crowd that shows up to the Amish roadside stands, it's just people looking for quality ingredients at a great price. Maybe where you live there's more to it but I've never experienced that. I'm not disagreeing with the rest of what you say, just saying that the farmers market's no different t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | People underestimate how circumstantial attraction isI don't know, the farmers market drop is pretty weak. It's literally no different than meeting a woman in a supermarket bar being outside, the vibes are exactly the same. Like yeah, you got something in common...going to the store for produce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Is it a learned ability to divine the future from snippets of text on websites or is one born with it? You don't know anything about that man but you immediately have the assumption he's an unfeeling machine that can't form attachment. If it was the case of wanting variety he wouldn't have made things exclusive or official, but perhaps that's his 4d mindchess shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:31 AM |
| 5 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Other than y'know, no longer getting sucked, fucked, and the woman who was head over heels with you weeks ago suddenly isn't because she was just playing with you emotionally for her own amusement. It's a crazy concept, I know, but trust me on this: Men have feelings too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Irl dating online dating, in your experience which one is more optimal and why?Yeah sorry bro not sure how you're going to be able to compete when all the women are going to try and get into the VIP area. Though there is a pretty decent way to quantify personality, if people like hanging out with you and invite you to places it's safe to assume you've got a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 01:35 AM |
| 5 | Irl dating online dating, in your experience which one is more optimal and why?OLD is like 90% looks and 10% personality, IRL is more like 60/40 so your personality might not be as good as you think, but I don't know you. I've seen women here posting about how they couldn't stand their dates but made up their mind that they were going to fuck them before they met anyways. Could also just be a location thing, the party girls in your area might just be snobs. I'm the opposite, I get decent amounts of attention in person where as on the apps I have to navigate an unbelievable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Men don’t get to have male spacesYep, I remember a few years ago a Canadian covid test awareness video had a woman wearing one of their member rings. Made quite the uproar on conspiracy outlets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 09:04 PM |
| 7 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldHe gets hit on in front of me. He's not been hindered. IIRC you're both in your 50's are you not? Not only is that a generation that spent half their adult life offline, but they've all also matured with age and aren't disqualifying people over the most superficial qualities. I can't speak to how bad it is seeing as I'm a tall man and I know a few 5'7~ in relationships (I don't know if they ever struggled) but I've seen enough filtering data for OLD and overheard enough girl talk and men's woes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:26 PM |
| 19 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.There are plenty of MGTOW that straight up go their own way. They don't tell anyone and they don't produce or consume ragebaiting content. There are plenty of "MGTOW" with profile pictures of them sitting in their car scowling wearing sunglasses and a snapback who vocally let everyone know they're MGTOW and attack women at every opportunity too though. They're sourgrapes personified and if you've ever used twitter you'll eventually run into Elon's finest who profess these beliefs at every opport… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:32 PM |
| – | If you aren’t succeeding at dating apps, it’s your faultDidn't you make this exact thread a week ago but with a wildly overinflated standard of 'average' ? Look dating apps are heavily skewed to a user base of anywhere as low as 4 men per 1 woman to as high as 9 per 1 That's extremely shit odds right off the bat. That's not even factoring in age brackets, wealth brackets, or other demographics of your area, maybe there's significantly less 2X year olds, maybe there's a surplus of 3X year olds, maybe no one has a college degree, maybe everyone does. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:28 AM |
| 7 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumDepends on the severity I guess. I did and it went well enough. I wasn't a tard wrangler, she was very shy (what had me interested in the first place) picky about what she ate, and easily excited. Autism is presented differently in women and men, it's usually not as severe for them and they more easily hide it. Hell I didn't even know she was autistic until I met her mother and she gave me tips, I just assumed she was a bit juvenile and overjoyed that we had overlapping hobbies. It ended because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 04:12 AM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?Yes, but that's not the point, you misunderstood what the two posters were saying and I was explaining what they meant. To touch upon what has been stated here: Men are able to interact with significantly less women through OLD than the other way around, you know full-well the demographics are completely skewed towards a male super majority and as such significantly fewer men are going to be 'benefiting' from this than the other way around. Can men benefit from it as well? Certainly. Will most m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent.Personally I think niceness in general is fucking disgusting and a sign of insecurity and weakness By any chance do you work on wallstreet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:54 PM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?But she's not going to be able to interact with the vast majority of them if dating apps didn't exist. A woman in 1980 didn't have hundreds of potential suitors coming for her in the flick of a wrist, she had to make a choice between the men she interacted with frequent enough who showed interest in her; you didn't need to be the best, just better than the other men. This isn't to say all of those options today are good, I'm sure a good number are 'low value' but that doesn't really matter, thro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:22 PM |
| 42 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guyMaybe you women are right on the men being pornsick if it's a common enough thought that a first kiss is meant to be lustfully wrestling each others tongues into submission. Yeah it happens eventually, but like, first kiss man??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Former. No thought necessary. The first influences literally everything in your life to the point attractive people advance their careers and earn more money than their peers anyways. I've never been a materialist, there's far more to life than acquiring assets, but assuming I was it wouldn't be difficult to foster a successful career again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 03:59 PM |
| 1 | The Manosphere/Red Pill gets women being masculine all wrong.Getting angry at the internet is fun for some people. Better than playing cornhole I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinitySimply have a gaze that dominates the 112 hour a week staff. Since I have to further elucidate the point it is that it's easy to tell when someones looking at you for long periods of time, one would think if you're a server you'd have the mental capacity to understand they want your attention. You don't need to flag them down, start snapping your fingers, or start screeching. Literally just look at them while maintaining a conversation with your date if they're supposedly ignoring you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityYeah, whatever works for you dude. If you're being ignored by a waiter it's better to do literally nothing because they might think you're weird, as their opinion is more important than your dates experience. I can't tell you how many women confided in me that meekness turns them into Niagara falls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:46 AM |
| 29 | What are your thoughts on MrBeast ? Does he show that ordinary men can greatly increase their attractiveness?Bruh I do NOT think you should cite an extremely wealthy and popular eceleb as an ordinary man. He is anything fucking but. When your average video is getting hundreds of millions of views you're bound to find an attractive person who also finds you attractive through sheer exposure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Why do men make weird jokes in public with women they don't know?Well, seeing as you say you exude I am a feminist/bitch energy maybe they speak to you and get the social cue to fuck off? I don't know you, I cannot gauge any of these interactions from the third person without actually witnessing it. People don't typically walk up to me or friends and say the most robotic shit possible before walking away unless they're tweaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Why do men make weird jokes in public with women they don't know?Yes. I make shitty jokes often to break the ice and not every single one is going to land with every demographic. You don't even see that with the best stand up comics. They do well enough for me to get invited to places because enough people find them funny though. As for paying for groceries or offering fruit snacks I've never heard or encountered anything like that so I haven't got a clue, seems more like being a dick to me but I don't know your age or region so it could also just be guys int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:52 PM |
| 7 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityWho gives a shit what they think? The point is to make yourself unignorable, they're doing a job and you need their attention. They're not blind to the reality that if they give you shitty service they'll get a shitty tip and potentially reprimanded for a bad review, the owners not going to take kindly to "ew, he was like, creepy though.." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityStare at them. It's hard to ignore a pair of leering eyes watching your every move from across the room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:52 PM |
| 8 | What do you think of virgin women?Don't think most people looking for LTR's are upset that their partner is closer. Seems more of an issue for people looking for casual encounters. Sorry if that was your lived experience though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?Terminally online people in echo chambers who've lived through traumatic experiences aren't what I'd call uncommon right now, extremism is on the rise across the board as more people are living lives of isolation. Hate begets hate, being angry is addictive and it has never been easier to mass consume rage inducing content. Whether what's posted is true is irrelevant, people just want to be mad at those that supposedly have wronged them and will jump at any opportunity to strike back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 12:17 AM |
| 8 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?You didn't say anything about stay at home parents, however what the OP you replied to was implying was all a woman has to do is spread her legs and she can end up in a situation where she's taken care of; you of course replied doesn't everyone in the greatest country have this option. Yes, I also understand that two income households are a necessity for most hence me in the first place sarcastically asking if you find an attractive and successful woman who will take care of me to send her my wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?Other than only 8% of households with children having a stay at home father compared to a quarter having a stay at home mother. It is by definition rare to find a woman who will support her man long term, but maybe things will change in the coming decades what with men decreasingly pursuing higher education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?Your friends aren't actively looking to find you a date, dude. They'll keep it in mind and if they meet someone pleasant enough who's also single they'll hook you up if they think you'll be a good match and the blowback of it not working won't fuck up the friend groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:53 PM |
| 11 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?Doesn't everyone in the greatest country in the world have that option? Hey if you meet the moderately attractive and successful woman who will take care of me for being a high endurance studmuffin send her my way, but unfortunately it's pretty rare to find a woman who will enter that agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:46 PM |
| – | Do you think there should be laws against "being creepy" or should the laws of dating be controlled by the state?Because you don't believe in private property somehow that supersedes their right to own it? Additionally why is it a violation of your rights to be removed from a venue if you've become a large enough nuisance to warrant expulsion yet your continued presence is not violating their rights? or do you believe they should have to leave if they've got a problem. Does this extend to their homes? Could you enter and do as you please and they have no recourse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Guys should filter out women who don't show any interest, romantically or sexuallyWhile I'm certain some women do need time to nurture attraction, going along with things you're uncomfortable with because you might be attracted later sounds insulting and idiotic. If I lean in for a kiss after a couple dates and I get the most unenthusiastic liplock of my life I've received the message and I'm not setting up another date. You can't control how you feel, but you also shouldn't string someone along out of FOMO since something could blossom in the future. Is it potentially missin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:42 PM |
| 3 | If you struggle with dating, you are BELOW averageIt's not just two people deciding to live independent lives and sometimes meet together, it requires effort from both parties to keep going. Dates have to be planned around both peoples schedules and taste, who's going to handle finances, which family are we visiting for this holiday, spending hours trying to find the perfect gifts, attending to their emotional needs when they're on edge/sad, and so on. There are many kinds of sacrifices both minor and major, my ex didn't like me riding motorcyc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.Straight up I cannot give you anything better than basic tips that google will probably bring up, as I said every woman has different needs. Focus on foreplay, pace yourself, perform oral on her first if you're uncertain you'll be able to make her orgasm with penetration alone (it'l get you bonus points if you turn down a blowjob in return and go straight to PiV) but even then that's not a guarantee since some women have difficulties orgasming from anything short of a vibrator. I imagine they'd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 03:43 AM |
| 5 | What do women get out of relationships with men?do you actually like sex... with men???? I just do not understand how a woman can desire sex with men. I imagine that most women do indeed like sex with men, else our species wouldn't be at its current population size, nor would women be actively looking for life partners beyond the basis of can he carry boxes up the stairs real good. Seeing as I've yet to struggle at pleasuring a partner, I have to wonder if I'm somehow a cut above the rest, if they've been lying to me for my ego, or if your kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 12:32 AM |
| 8 | Men and women will both choose thrill over stabilitypeople didn’t not regularly make it past 30 My man we have records of geriatric men and women roaming the streets throughout history. You're misunderstanding average life expectancy, it's brought down severely by child mortality. If you hit adulthood you're probably good for another 40 or 50 years. 5 people are sitting at a table, four make $10 a day, one makes $100 - The average daily wage is $28 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:27 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?No? A job's just a job. What's important is how much free time she has, if you're working 16 hours a day and sleeping in your cubicle just to meet a projects deadline that's not going to work. Money is nice, it's really great to have a surplus of it to do fun things, it doesn't substitute spending time with your loved ones though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:44 PM |
| 6 | Why are human attracted to “bad” role models?Those terrible people are propped up and put in your face by amoral corporations that want to make money off you. They challenge societal norms and as such enrapture the rebellious youth wanting to break the mold and lash out at their parents. They have everything that our society tells us is the most important things in the world: wealth, power, and influence which lets them live a lifestyle most can only dream about. This isn't anything new either, your parents had half naked dudes in leather … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 02:14 AM |
| 5 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldsignificantly older men that target them usually aren't a catch Unless it's vastly different in the UK this sounds a bit like cope because if you're pulling 18-25 year olds while significantly older you have to be a catch. No young woman's seriously considering the advances of a much older man unless he has some serious resources, looks, and a great personality. But I don't know, maybe you guys take coffin dodgers for a ride as some right of passage there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:43 AM |
| 24 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Yeah because the people who are unhappy aren't fuckin' posting it dude, that's the entire point. You're not seeing "Day eighthundred single! Drinking with my dog until I throwup and pass out haha #yolo #killinitnmyself" No one's updating their IG with the less than happy parts of their lives! They're effectively invisible to you even if they were because your algorithm is going to steer clear of that unless you forcibly take a trip down depression-avenue. You can't base your entire worldview bas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:48 PM |
| 28 | Are average guys really “struggling”?I never hear any of the guys I know complaining about being broke, I suppose none of them have financial troubles? I see plenty of couples 18-40 out and about every day, but I'm not exactly seeing the lonely men and women cooped up in their homes now am I? We don't exactly turn to social media to broadcast the worst of us, everyone curates what they're sharing to show everything is fine and we're living life to the fullest, never that we're miserable and losing hope. Not only is this content cur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:18 PM |
| 6 | How do you like Zac Afron physique?Can't exactly ungrow those organs or bones after HGH, though. That jaw and gut is there to stay I'm afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?The second half most certainly does not show your point, it casts doubt on it. Because they lost anywhere from 5-15 years of their career they're therefor entitled to someone else's money for the rest of their life? In what world is that considered reasonable and or fair? The purpose of alimony was specifically in regards to giving a spouse the ability to survive when split apart when women couldn't even open a bank account on their own, they have every capability to do all it themselves now, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?People living on social programs tend to have pretty bad life outcomes because a lifetime of poverty breeds a certain mentality of not giving a fuck and additionally creates a trap where if you earn past a certain amount your benefits get removed and you can end up worse than you were before for significantly more effort. The point isn't to stay on it forever though, there are means for people to escape this trap such as by getting a college education which opens you up to earning significantly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?I'll admit that my example was extreme, but I don't believe for a minute that people can't learn to adapt and will if they have children in the mix. It's going to be difficult and not necessarily fair but the alternative is a lifetime of indentured servitude to an otherwise able bodied person and that doesn't strike me as right either. Temporary alimony to get yourself together seems fine, but forever is some archaic practice for a world long gone. And it's understandable that they'd be disquali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?Yeah! Because of the whole there's a good amount of social safety nets in place especially when you have children to prevent you from having too terrible of a life even in the USA. Section 8, child care assistance, and child support still exist. Those are the few off the top of my head but there's a lot more resources there locally if you actually need them such as gas vouchers, vehicle maintenance vouchers, assistance in purchasing of school clothing, etc. I've spoken to mothers paying as low a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:59 AM |
| 6 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?I suppose if your definition of fucked is that she's not going to be making enough income on an entry level job to vacation multiple times a year, sure, but there's a good amount of social safety nets in place especially when you have children to prevent you from having too terrible of a life even in the USA. Your lifestyle will most certainly take a hit for a time, but there's nothing stopping you from pursuing an education after. It won't be easy but there's no reason you have to resign yourse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 09:45 PM |
| – | Question for the 35yo+ men who were/are the unlucky runts in your groups...(the ones that actually did try but still never found much luck)The gap between you and average woman's experience is simply insane. Even if she could truly desire you, it can't work and it will fail very fast. Bro it is not an end of the world scenario like that. There are awkward men and women stumbling through dating in their 30's who've not dated since they were teenagers. There are men and women awful at sex in their 30's despite having numerous partners. It's not over, don't give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The "Sex Recession" concept alarmist.I'm not going to make an objective claim with anecdotes on the matter, I interact with a number of sexless men because I share various hobbies that they have; this however is not a large enough sample size for me to say anything with 100% certainty. I'm nowhere near educated enough on this topic to come to any real conclusions, at best I can cast doubt on the validity of the methods people are using to push narratives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:53 PM |
| 11 | CMV: The "Sex Recession" concept alarmist.If you actually read the GSS survey data people love to quote you'll see the sample size of them is so hilariously low it's almost worthless. The 2022 survey for instance was only around two hundred people asked and nearly 60% of responses were thrown out. Does that sound credible enough to take to heart? Is there a sex recession? I can't say, but I've seen enough young men I know chronically single to tell me there's definitely something wrong today and I'm uncertain of the future as a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV Many People in Dating Strategy subreddits (doesnt matter what pill, pua or whatever) have no reallife experience and therefore claim dumb delusional things, which makes finding the truth harder.OP discovers different cultures/nations/lifestyles exist. Clubbing in western European cities is going to be a different experience than hitting up the bar after work in small city in the US, hence why everyone's lived experiences are different. There's a saying I once heard: "They're an LA 5 but a midwest 7" so an attractive man in an area lacking it will obviously be more sought after. Anecdotal evidence is useful but not the end all be all for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?I'm wondering have you? It's hardly overwhelmingly "I don't care" Those okay with it and not are almost equal in terms of upvotes and posts. Again, that's on a predominantly American left leaning website not reflective of societies beliefs as a whole. I'm also not certain where you're got many men, especially the redpill, have an issue with bi guys. Most men don't give a shit about bi-men because they have no intentions of having sex with a guy to begin with, meanwhile lesbian's are fetishized t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Man we've had threads here for women where it is clear it's a highly contentious topic. And that's anonymously on Reddit, an overwhelmingly left leaning website. I have a hard time believing that it gets better if you ask the general female population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?Elucidate alternate expression of masculinity because to my knowledge you're either masculine or not. If you're an effete man that's cool, I don't mind and if my son was that I'd say whatever; it's your life express yourself however you want, outside pressures be damned. I however am wholly masculine in every sense of the word. I'm an assertive, confident, tall, muscular man covered in hair, with a deep voice. I don't resent anyone who chooses to live their life alternative to the norm, don't do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys even like women? Why?Of course I like women, why wouldn't I? I've yet to feel anything more pleasurable than being around the woman I loved. I don't let the bad minority of any group heavily influence my feelings towards the majority, but I also won't pretend there isn't trends being followed by both men and women in the dating world (especially online) that's wack and protect myself accordingly. For the few men that see women as lesser beings here lamenting their wickedness they still have a primal urge telling the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.Gonna be honest you're probably not getting to the sex part if you can't learn to relax around women in the first place, man. Fake it until you make it has been the staple advice in everything, you don't need to outright lie just believe your own hype and fluff up your non answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:40 AM |
| 0 | Men are attracted to narcissistic and BPD women because they are also hypersexual, not because of their personality.Wouldn't surprise me, it wasn't until I met the woman after that I realized "oh they're all not merely pretending to be sane in public" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Men are attracted to narcissistic and BPD women because they are also hypersexual, not because of their personality.Can confirm. First woman I had sex with was BPD and love bombed me/put out early and frequently. Four years of my life were a living hell, but I thought that's just what all women were like at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:24 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?I said there's a cutoff for that, not that the moment you get married what you say is instantly irrelevant regardless of how long ago it was. A 35 year old who met someone 5 years ago and got married recently is vastly different than a 35 year old who met a person at 20 and has been together for 15 years, you've not partook in the dating game for over a decade and therefor your advice isn't going to be wholly applicable to the current market conditions. The latter still has good advice to give i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 10:06 PM |
| 7 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.There is, quite literally, an endless amount of material showing you what you should be doing. I feel like somehow my experience was different from the grand majority of people when I read stuff like this, my first time I wasn't the greatest but I wasn't some nervous wreck unable to figure out the most basic concept of insert into receptacle thrust with rhythm. Unless you mean they'll know you're a virgin because you're mid, in which case my retort is that plenty of men are terrible at sex becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:37 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?There's a cutoff for that though, because trusting what someone who's not dated in two decades says is like getting modern investment advice from assholes who cashed out prior to the dotcom bubble. Can it be useful? Sure, in the most basic sense. Is it still relevant? Most likely not - no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?Purely for gaining a bit of weight? No. I don't put too much pressure outside of not being morbidly obese. However I'd certainly have a talk about it. I put on that much weight over the pandemic, the forced sedentary lifestyle, the depression that followed from it and a bad breakup from the pandemic straining our relationship, it's easy to let it creep up on you if you go from an active lifestyle to not without giving a shit what you're eating so I know full-well they don't feel good about it an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Say what you want about TRP, but it's messed up that nice, perfectly normal dudes struggle to get basic women while literal thugs and walking red flags slay with women just because they're overconfident.If a man has been told he's nice multiple times, he starts to think he's nice. Armchair psychology doesn't need to come into it. I've been told I'm funny by people, I suppose I should just assume they're being kind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if your daughter became a sugar baby?Livid and full of shame knowing I failed to raise her with my values. I would want something more for my daughter than being someones plaything, if I somehow manage to go 18 years without teaching them they have far more potential than that I have to wonder if I tried at all. Of course you can't really control your kids once they become teenagers, just hope that some of what you've taught sticks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:21 PM |
| 5 | How would you feel if your daughter became a sugar baby?Not sure where you're from where it's much preferable for your daughter to be a mans disposable jizzrag for temporary monetary benefits instead of her own person trying to make the world a better place, but it says a lot you immediately lock onto "YEAH BUT WHAT IF SHE HELPS MEN" Shit, if you're so against them helping downtrodden men teach your daughters to help battered women or care for animals instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:08 PM |
| 11 | It’s obscene that in 2023 there’s still a pervasive stigma that people who are single king term must be lacking in social skills or something majorThe issue is just that, it's only some people. As OP points out most are quick to assume social skills not social life as the primary factor someone is single in adulthood. Think you'd find most average guys struggling would be fine if there was more places for them to interact with the opposite sex. Got a few dudes I play valorant with, they were single up until their early to mid 20's where one of them ended up hitting it off with a girl in a match and she invited him into a discord with her f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 07:18 PM |
| 4 | How hard or difficult is it for you to find a hot, handsome guy for some fun ?Ethical as in the immorality of fucking with strangers for your own "scientific" curiosity. There are real people on the opposite side of that screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeYou're right, it's more apt to say "young women like the hollywood romanticized qualities of bad boys but many find out they don't actually like their behavior in a relationship longer than the movies length" hence why so many women have stories about their asshole ex's. You said they left after getting into a relationship thus they weren't attracted to it, I stated that you don't need to like something to have initial attraction, not that women like the behaviors as they mature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeCan't say for certain, it's most likely a person by person basis. Some people know they don't like that flavor the first time they try it, some might start a love-hate relationship with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeHindsight is 20/20; you don't need to like something to have originally been attracted to it. You've never seen a film, bought a game, or went to a restaurant that looked like the greatest thing ever and it was actually thoroughly mid? Maybe it was just that one - you'll buy a couple more Ubisoft titles, see a few more movies from that director, or try something else next time just to be sure it wasn't just a one time thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:05 PM |
| 11 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeYou're not the only one who's witnessed that in well off women who would otherwise be considered "high-value" (whatever this bullshit means) I won't pretend to know anything about psychology so the only things I can chalk it up to is the men having the confidence to do whatever they want and the women craving excitement of which there's no shortage. Until I was 22 I was a bit of a shitheel myself, while I can't say it played a huge part in my dating life as I was already taken by an equally shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:16 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Women with high functioning autism have it easier than menIt's pretty big, and diagnoses are increasing year over year which is leading to a not insignificant amount of adults struggling. Humans are still tribal and any outlier behavior is immediately identified, while they might not get expunged from a group outright for being a bit off they'll be excluded from social gatherings and forming deeper connections. In the past men that were 'eccentric' still found partners because we had to make due with what we had and learned to appreciate people for who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:20 AM |
| 11 | Impact of aspergers/high functioning autism on menSomething tells me men on the spectrum already are trying to build relationships as soon as possible and aren't intentionally forgoing them as their options are rather limited unless they're so handsome a woman will put up with his 'quirks' As someone who was in a relationship with an autistic woman and from reading about it online it seems even autistic women don't really like autistic men so their options are pretty limited leading me to believe this advice is on the same tier as "b urself" As… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:47 AM |
| 28 | There is no hook up cultureOur society top down is hypersexualized, that's why. You can't go a day without seeing an advert, hearing a song, watching a show, or browse the internet without hitting something that's explicitly sexual. Even if most of society isn't partaking in something if the few that are is blown up and in your face enough to be "normalized" it will cause distress to those who aren't able to partake in it. Social media is causing a lot of mental illness in young people by causing them to live by unrealist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 10:23 AM |
| 7 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?Hits what on the head? He didn't tell me he has nothing to come home to, I can infer that's why. If you don't have a family to support what's the point of chasing after more money when you already have everything you want? There's only so much you can spend on yourself and he's an extremely hard worker often pulling 70 hours a week. He doesn't complain about being lonely, he didn't even talk about any of this until we were all drunk and harassing him about being single years ago, he's a living e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:07 PM |
| 7 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?What do you mean not really? Do you think men just slip and fall into relationships? It takes advances from one party, and if you're not passing an attraction threshold or not out attempting to initiate one it's not going to happen. I've got a good friend that's a solid 5/10 who caught oneitis in college for a Japanese international student and their relationship ended when she went back home after obtaining her bachelors, he's now 36 without another girlfriend because hasn't pursued anyone and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:24 PM |
| – | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsI'm not a tech dude, but they absolutely are, people consistently say shit about how people date within their own class so religiously here not realizing that's entirely based off of proximity, and I still interact with the working class every day; I don't turn up my nose because someone's less accredited than I am. You know what working, middle, and upper middle class women love to do? Party. Do you know what working, middle, and upper middle class men like to do? Party. You know what people do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:06 AM |
| – | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsIf you're worried about being a single mother...yes? What exactly is the deadbeat man meant to be vetting here? Men relentlessly get shit on when they think with their dick then hook up with mentally unstable women or gold diggers and shit on extra hard when they impregnate them; when women are told to do it suddenly it's a men's issue again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:36 PM |
| – | we should criticize deadbeat dads (to an extent) not single momsSpending large amounts of time with them and seeing how they've developed since you started dating before you decide to have a child? Yeah okay contraceptives fail, but that's a risk you're taking fucking a person you're unsure of. I've met single mothers who were the victims of circumstance and I've also met single mothers who were victims of their own hubris thinking they can change the dude who's spent the last decade in and out of jail; you don't need to be nostradamus to see the outcome. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussiesI'll throw my two cents in. Way too many women are acting mannish is a major complaint I've seen. Women don't need to be timid and submissive like a 50's housewife but there's a lot of boss bitches who are considered insufferable in the dating world right now. I've personally tried dating one recently; It was refreshing seeing a woman with a spine at first but the constant competitiveness and assertiveness got old pretty fast. She said she was raised in a family of mostly boys and it showed, it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 04:50 AM |
| 0 | What is exactly emotional labour which women do?I'm paralyzed by fear of it every day, it haunts my every interaction with the opposite sex. The thought of not doing what I already don't has driven my sanity to the precipice of shattering. Literally just said weigh your options, if you take this as living in irrational fear I genuinely wonder if you've ever cared about someone enough to put effort into keeping a relationship going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:48 PM |
| 4 | What is exactly emotional labour which women do?If it was just some you wouldn't hear random teenagers or 40 somethings offering their anecdotal advice in the real world as well. You're playing Russian roulette with a few less empty chambers if you do it is all, and it's up to you to decide if it's worth potentially losing your SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:09 PM |
| 13 | What is exactly emotional labour which women do?There's been multiple threads on r/askmen where thousands of guys echoed the sentiment of never open up to your woman, it only brought them further suffering. You can say that perhaps they did it in an unhealthy way, perhaps their relationships were already on the rocks; there's no way to know but there's one common occurrence in the stories and it was the relationship ending shortly after doing it. It's not a redpill talking point, it's genuinely a thing that young western women will do to men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Is there any benefit to being a traditional woman?Do you need benefits to do something in your life? Does there need to be benefits to be kind to others when being a flagrant asshole can be so much more lucrative and fun? If you're a traditional woman, it's a safe assumption you're not wearing the skin to attract traditional men just because it's expected...you're actually traditional and already believe in those values. Why would you do the exact opposite of your beliefs because they'll just assume you're (x) anyways? If you're not traditional… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Loneliness in Men is different to Loneliness in WomenYou're mistaken in thinking I'm circling back to women for anything more than explaining why traumadumping is a thing, other men don't ask because men won't tell. I've had exactly one friend in my life open up and that's because he was so smashed the mask slipped, the day afterwards he pretended like nothing happened. Men are suffering because we're still operating off of old societal pressures where men are mocked at best for showing weakness and ostracized from groups at worst. Although societ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 03:40 PM |
| 17 | Loneliness in Men is different to Loneliness in WomenVery rarely about topics as serious as this. You need not just a friend, but someone who you unequivocally trust to disclose your deepest feelings. And even then there's the mental barrier of not wanting to make someone else's burden worse; we all have our own problems and dropping the weight of the world on their shoulders isn't fair. Men already live a life of bottling it all up, that's why you see women talk about traumadumping when they asked their man to open up - they have literally spent … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 03:15 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women age like milk while Men age like wine is a fallacyHenry Cavill didn't have a glow up. I didn't claim he wasn't attractive beforehand, I would also add he is considered more attractive today than in his youth if I am to take my female co workers opinions seriously. I claimed all but a fraction of men aren't going to get a glow up and end up like him. but how many 23yo women do you actually see committing to/marrying 38yo men? I didn't claim they were, hence the "This isn't to say a 23 year old woman is always going to find a 38 year old man more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 10:13 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Women age like milk while Men age like wine is a fallacyIf we're looking at it through the lens of purely physical attractiveness, maybe. At best a fraction of men are going to get the Henry Cavil glow up, but if we're looking at it with everything else factored in? what's important to men isn't the same as what's important to women. The peak SMV for women is at 23, for men it's 38 Why? Because women aren't looking for just physical attributes. Men want their partner to be beautiful to them first and agreeable second, women want their man to be confi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 07:23 PM |
| 31 | CMV: Women age like milk while Men age like wine is a fallacyMost men and most women age terribly. They damage their skin through unprotected sun exposure and no skincare regiment, they don't stay physically active, the rigors of life slowly embitter. But a number DO age like wine. Yes, physically they're starting to decline, their testosterone is slightly lower, they're finding it slightly harder to keep up with young people, some are starting to go noticeably bald, but their wealth and status have continued to grow, they grew into a more masculine looki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:01 PM |
| – | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeThat's because you're weren't on the dedicated board for firearms and military equipment that repeatedly posts videos of people getting turned into vegetables and shouts from the high heavens to clap anyone who is a threat to you and your families safety. What does the smaller man use to defend himself against the bigger man, the man with a gun himself, or the group of men? As enjoyable as incurring brain damage or bleeding out in the corner of my room watching my partner get ravaged sounds I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingBro I have given up trying to educate boomers about literally anything. Everything you say is taken as an attack on their character or world view no matter how you structure it and they immediately get defensive. I've had the inflation discussion multiple times and was hit with the fluoride stare at best, immediate hostilities at worst. I can only thank god I've been exposed to microplastics instead of lead like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Purple Pill Debate Going Dark June 12th for 48 Hours to Protest Reddit's Ban on 3rd Party AppsFirst they came for the racist's, but I wasn't a racist... End of the day people only care if they've been personally affected, principals extend as far as it's convenient at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Do hormones dictate what traits you are attracted to?Think that's just a coincidence, man. Wouldn't say hormones don't play some part but we're influenced primarily by our environments. For instance obesity was considered a sex symbol in various cultures throughout history, yet today you'd be hard pressed to find someone who would say they are attracted to it by randomly picking people from a crowd but there's still a good number of chubby chasers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:31 PM |
| 21 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingI've seen a lot of what OP's said myself, some extremely delusional old people endlessly repeating that you should entirely focus on yourself grinding as hard as you can cutting out an "amazing" life so people will flock to you. It's such bad advice given so frequent it spawned this image It's bullshit, there's 0 reason to wait until you're "perfect" or "worthy" to forge friendships and relationships, every year you ignore it these things become harder as your market shrinks and friends have les… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The biggest problem in this sub is people beginning with concepts that are based in truth then taking them to the point of absurdity. And as if that isn't bad enough they double, triple and quadruple down on the absurdity when called on it.That's kind of a basic premise for a relationship, two people being attracted to each other in some way. Plus he didn't state they needed to be physically so, just not obese. I know this sounds like I'm grasping for straws but I do agree with you, a better statement by them would've been -aren't as shallow in the same ways- I'm not going to claim men aren't shallow, they just consider themselves less so since women want a lot of additional dressing men on average don't care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 02:10 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The biggest problem in this sub is people beginning with concepts that are based in truth then taking them to the point of absurdity. And as if that isn't bad enough they double, triple and quadruple down on the absurdity when called on it.Well, seeing as your personality isn't skin deep I don't think wanting someone to be nice can be considered shallow at all. I will agree that not wanting someone who's obese can be that way if we're going purely off sex appeal, but there is non shallow reasons for it as well. impulsivity, lifestyle, and overall health. You're looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with so it does seem prudent to get someone who will last around the same time as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:40 PM |
| 14 | CMV: The biggest problem in this sub is people beginning with concepts that are based in truth then taking them to the point of absurdity. And as if that isn't bad enough they double, triple and quadruple down on the absurdity when called on it.How is being normal BMI or only overweight considered being hot? Why is being nice not the default when selecting a partner? I'm having a hard time imagining what redeeming features an obese asshole could have to make me love them, perhaps a cool car? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:38 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The biggest problem in this sub is people beginning with concepts that are based in truth then taking them to the point of absurdity. And as if that isn't bad enough they double, triple and quadruple down on the absurdity when called on it.Going to be real I don't think a woman being mentally retarded will stop her from being able to attract men, especially if she's physically attractive to offset it. Not anywhere near as if she was neurotypical but significantly more than a mentally retarded man. It brings up a whole load of ethics issues though. There was a video a while back of a physically fit down syndrome woman and people couldn't help themselves from posting about wanting to fuck her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.It's a strange position because you added an assumption that I never made. Hyperbole, yes, you didn't say that specifically, I was making fun of your statement of it being sourgrapes. It's a weak premise. you're making a bold assumption that people that sleep around can't form attachments. There are many many people who choose to sleep around, and then settle down when they find the right person Yeah, bro, happens all the time. Despite the fact we have statistics posted here bi-weekly backing up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.They haven't proven anything to me? Did peoples past actions suddenly stop being reflective of their character? Yeah, you can change and grow as a person but if you've not shown me that I'm not taking your word, talk is cheap. If I met that person and I learn of their heavily promiscuous past early into the relationship I'm going to bounce, if they've told me after we've both become invested into it and they've not planted more red flags than a game of minesweeper I'm willing to believe them, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.There is no issue, they're just not worth expending time and effort in trying to foster a relationship with if they've so far proven they're unable to. If you've had some failed relationships, shit happens, people change over the years and you're not always compatible. If you've had A LOT of failed relationships or none of the many people you've had sex with wanted to progress into one the only constant here is you. Perhaps in time some can work through their problems that's caused commitment is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.The only men that criticize sexually active women are lower value men who are frustrated at their own low count. You don't want a girl who's fucked half the town? You're just jealous and frustrated that you're not valuable enough to have fucked half the town yourself is a strange position to take. I've met many guys who have a high count, and they don't give a rat's ass about the girl's count. I won't even assume for long term. Naturally for short term who gives a shit about a woman's past or fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:30 PM |
| 3 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?Get into the culture and hang out at the trap houses. Sure you'll live a life of abject misery but at least you'll be having frequent sex. Know two ex dealers who did time in fed; they were swimming in it because there's no shortage of women from broken households, those needing a fix and willing to "trade" and curious people wanting to party in general. As a result they each have no less than three baby mama's and quite a few STI's under their belt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 11:16 AM |
| 10 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?Not like they're in the public square announcing it to everyone they know. Much prefer people being honest on an anonymous account than holding their tongue to curate their internet reputation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?If you asked me when I was 18(m) and constantly horny I'd probably be all for it, but I was in an LTR for most of my youth so I didn't act on anything like that. As I've gotten older the less attractive it sounds to me, from everything I've read it seems like a high effort, awkward, degrading experience that's barely above (or below for women) masturbation and all the risks that come associated with it for a momentary bout of pleasure. Sounds whack. At 28 I think I'd rather just have one person … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:17 AM |
| – | CMV: Men today have a massive victim mentality, and it is holding them back from finding success.252 comments and only two people calling it out. I am in awe at this bait; masterfully written and goes to show no one gives a shit about anyone's sources they just want to be mad at the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.Yes, that's clearly what they just wrote out. A young woman has absolutely nothing else to offer an older man, it isn't until you're 30+ that you develop any qualities someone might find attractive, you're basically a personality-less fleshlight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:42 PM |
| – | Why do Red Pillers (and men in general) have such a doomer mentality about divorce?I think the last 60 years of seeing it play out in action lead to this doomer mentality. It didn't come from nowhere, the survivors of divorce shout from the hilltops their experience. It's the same as modern women seeing how their mothers, aunt's, and grandmothers were basically subservient to their husband and strived to make sure that doesn't happen to them. Men seen their fathers, uncles, grand fathers, and role models turn into broken men in real time and decided that's not going to be them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Men need to be held accountable for their shitty behavior, but that doesn't negate that they deserve compassion for the social conditioning they're subjected toHigh IQ, Did you used to live in a cabin in the woods and send fanmail to industrialists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:41 PM |
| 5 | dating isn't easier for womenThe comparison isn't about not having sex, it's about mentality of the individual being unbalanced. I'm certain you've seen some...questionable things posted by men here that oozed 0 interaction with women. I say this as someone paranoid enough to carry a gun when out and about, there's mitigation and then there's living in constant fear. In reality the vast majority of interactions with the opposite sex are not going to be anywhere close to dangerous, it's not typical in the slightest and the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:29 PM |
| 14 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?Because the entire concept itself is so alien people can't begin to fathom it. Look, man. I'm not going to pretend dating isn't fucked up right now compared to how it was even fifteen years ago with all the window shopping fomo shit. It ain't come close to this cataclysmic level of robotic transactions and I can't see it happening in my lifetime either. Most people are risk adverse, they're not going to piss away something good for something that might be better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 02:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?How likely is it that the better guys are available to date though? As you get older this shrinks significantly. A cute 20 year old can monkey branch their way pretty far, you can't say the same for a mid 30's woman. There's that delusion calculator people toss around a lot; while it doesn't tell the whole story due to some locations being better than others it's a pretty decent guideline in general. You're not the only one chasing after the best available afterall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.Your lack of interest in what I say isn't indicative of me "ignoring you". My lack of interest was not replying on the focus of pedophilia as it's irrelevant. Has nothing to do with what I said. You ignored what was written to answer what wasn't. Twice. In most aspects of human life, people aren't walking around completely naked and bald Once again point missed, intentionally so I assume. Pointless continuing any further if it's just going to be this. Tells exist, whether irrespective of whether… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.That's a lot of words for questions not asked, and points completely ignored (again) If I gave you a stack of pictures of men and women completely naked and asked you to tell me what their economic bracket is you wouldn't be able to tell. I am not buying your claim that affluent people have a unique gait, are the only ones who stand up straight, with access to braces and whitener, or clip and clean their nails. It's not the 18th century anymore. The only tells feasible are the clothes they wear … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:38 PM |
| 1 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.The point isn't about what pedophiles want, the point is that the worlds most wealthy and elite men were more than happy to have sex with poor teenagers. Presidents. Royalty. Investment bankers. Actors. Racial preferences are immediately obvious, you can tell someone's race by looking at them - you can't do the same for wealth bracket if I gave you a stack of pictures. Finally, are you certain that the women were physically attractive? Because it's sounding more like sour grapes and smug asshole… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:03 PM |
| 2 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.They're not even sexually attracted to most people outside of their class irrespective of how "attractive" they are. Huh? Did you mean romantically or did I somehow miss the part in biology that we have external organs that indicate what social class someone belongs to? I can understand romantically...but sexually is a bold claim to make and as a man I can say with 500% certainty not a single one gives a shit about someones upbringing when it comes to sexual attraction, it's as simple as having … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:32 PM |
| 6 | What is the source of men's motivation for working hard?At this point not wanting to be homeless and funding my expensive hobbies. Once it was wanting to make a mark on the world, getting women, and buying into the "go above and beyond and they'll notice" boomerism that endlessly expanded my duties but never my pay or promotion chances in various jobs. As the years have gone on and I've been cheated/exploited/abused for my naivety that motivation to excel has cratered to near 0; if I wasn't sure I'd totally regret it a decade from now I'd probably dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 06:01 AM |
| 6 | People who are casual about sex get laid more often than people who aren'tDid it need to be explained that people who consider sex to be a sacred bond don't get frequent casual encounters? I would argue however that the people in committed relationships are having more sex since they don't have to try and woo a stranger, unless you're the 666 gigachad boogieman with half a dozen women one dial away from coming over you're going to spend a lot more time and effort than the LTR guy getting frisky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 12:44 PM |
| 2 | All pills - Is (seriously) dating a single parent off the table for you?Off the table? No. But I am extremely hesitant to. Two general exceptions I'll make is if the father is dead or if the children are nearly grown. If there's ANY chance of him coming back into the picture fuck no; I am not putting up with any love triangle bullshit. I've already had more than a few single mothers of my sisters social groups come onto me, and I know for a fucking fact it's not because of my wit, charm, or masculinity driving them wild in the first few hours of meeting. It's becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 12:12 PM |
| 28 | Have we discussed socioeconomic pressures as to why there are so many single young men?Definitely. I wouldn't attribute men not getting any because they're 26 living with mom and dad alone, but not having a place to bring a date home certainly isn't helping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 10:40 AM |
| 22 | Is it hypocritical not wanting your girl to go on a girls trips/clubbing, but wanting to yourself?It is 100% a double standard and if you're going to hold them to it hold yourself as well. women don’t just come up to you and start hitting on you. But that doesn't stop you from going up to them, does it? You believe that she trusts you enough to not try and cheat but you don't trust her to deny male advances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 09:20 AM |
| – | Men need to stop focusing on body counts. From a man.People change. It's such a shallow thing to concern yourself over. And old habits die hard. I can still believe people have the ability to change without having to invite them into my life; there's plenty of other fish in the sea that lived the same and won't care. if someone were to break up with me or turn me down for the amount of people I've fucked that would really hurt. You willingly partook in the activity and are upset that your actions have consequences? twitter post related Casual sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 09:27 AM |
| 0 | Personality can't compensate for looksSomething as vain like attractiveness? My dude that is a core basis of a relationship; you can't build a house without a foundation and expect it to last. At some point you're both going to be dried up raisins, but that's still decades of mutual attraction and bond building leading to that. If you're not physically attracted to your partner you're doing both of you a disservice, I've seen enough r/deadbedrooms to know I am never entering a relationship like that under any circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Personality can't compensate for looksThere's compromising and then there's admitting you don't find your SO attractive lmao. If it worked for people in the past when it was considered a taboo to leave, cool, but I certainly wouldn't want to be in a relationship where attraction is one sided; if I heard that shit from my SO I'd immediately break it off since we're both wasting our time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | What makes you think the “unlucky” men are average?They mistakenly claimed this as their smoking gun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What makes you think the “unlucky” men are average?I just found it. After doing a quick look at the results I'm not going to hold this in super high regard due to the sample size, the new sampling method, and the fact that over half of the responses were "inapplicable" (though the previous 4 were between 30-40% as well) Interesting if it continues into next year, but upon actually reading this myself I'm taking anything they publish with an entire container of salt. As for the topic I'll have to disagree that it's "debunked" as sexlessness isn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 04:54 AM |
| 5 | What makes you think the “unlucky” men are average?Can I trouble you for the source debunking it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 04:14 AM |
| 8 | The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it allThose things are really important to women That's been the opposite of my experience. Perhaps when closing in on 30 that becomes a focus but I've seen more than a few women throwing their lives away in their 20's for a chronically unemployed man or drug dealer. Most did have nice cars though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Women don't appreciate male breadwinnersIf they're earning and paying less then they are absolutely contributing less. If you can't support a stay at home parent on your income alone, which I may add MOST cannot, you have no right to complain about this for starters. Women on average earn only 20% less than men, you're telling me that the 20% difference of incomes means you're contributing so much more that it makes up for not contributing around the house? Or are you going to take an egalitarian petty approach and simply do 20% less … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 08:57 PM |
| 29 | Women don't appreciate male breadwinnersThe key problem with your post here is you're under the assumption it's the 1950's and women aren't also in the workforce by necessity. If both parents are working full time, as most are, both should share the responsibilities of the household be it chores or children regardless of who's making more; they're contributing to the household income too, just because they're making less on average doesn't mean their contribution is somehow less valued. The advent of social media has certainly taught … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 08:30 PM |
| – | People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average manMaybe to some; to most men intimacy is also a part of sex and they don't know how to separate the feelings. We're wired differently, we don't just want to cuddle to show how we feel about our partner. This is why anytime someone brings up an escort I roll my eyes, sex between two people who care about each other is leagues different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:40 PM |
| 5 | How has dating changed substantially in the last ten years?Only if you're not considered attractive enough, but who gives a shit? So you've inconvenienced some woman for a whopping 5 minutes and they now feel the need to weep about it later; the alternative is you don't meet anyone worth meeting. Just don't desperately ping pong between all the women at a social gathering and you'll be fine bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | why do people argue they are afraid to marry a virgin because the sex might be bad?Yeah, the topics about why people don't want to be instructors for virgins...because they're awful instructors. Everyone has to start somewhere and it's really not that difficult or time consuming to teach. Unless you're into some heavy kink there's nothing to lose giving someone a shot who's less experienced than you other than potentially wasting your time which shouldn't matter if you actually had feelings for them. As enjoyable as it sounds searching high and low for a mythical beast to tame… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | why do people argue they are afraid to marry a virgin because the sex might be bad?It would make sense for someone who's had sex to improve at it assuming their partner wasn't also shit. Sex is a lot like charisma in that it doesn't come natural to a number of people. Your man just jackhammers away and rolls over after he's done, never experiencing an orgasm in 4 years of your first relationship; if you've never masturbated you might think that's just how it's meant to be. Likewise a woman just lays there and lets her man do all the work because she wasn't ever told to get han… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 06:18 AM |
| 2 | why do people argue they are afraid to marry a virgin because the sex might be bad?I mean yeah, not at first but it doesn't take years to get good at sex dude. I've had two girlfriends that just starfished despite not being virgins, it didn't take more than a couple weeks to get them up to snuff and being proactive. This topic always seems like people are looking for any and everything to excuse why they're horrible at communicating with their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 06:04 AM |
| 12 | Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sexWow that is a hyperbolic mess. Nowhere did I come close to apologizing for rape, slavery, racism, or homophobia. You whipped yourself into a furor and I'm genuinely shocked you somehow came to this conclusion. Not appreciative of the immediate attacks on my character either. Literally everything you typed but the ending bit missed the mark on the subject at hand; I'm unsure if this started out aimed at someone else's comments because it really feels like you wanted a soapbox to stand on for this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sexOf course I can see a difference, however hardcore pornography was all over the internet even back then and it sure as shit did not contribute to any of the modern dating problems. Sucks for those with ED, I'm simply built different. In the early 2000's I absolutely did not wait 5 minutes to download an image lmao. You're thinking of the 1980's there dude. Things weren't as ultra HD as they are today...because the cameras were shit and the monitor resolutions were small. There was hardcore porno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:15 AM |
| 1 | PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaicHey, they're free to stop at any time if it really isn't a big deal. Surely they can give up an evolutionary function that's constantly screaming in the back of their head to do it. I'd be willing to say it's one of the most important - if not the most important thing in a relationship but what do I know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:13 AM |
| 8 | Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sexThere was porn on the internet 20 years ago. I was there looking at it. But lets assume for a moment it wasn't a thing: It's a lot like how dating done on the internet is light years different than the situation that happened 20 years ago. In fact, if we go back a century 14 year olds were fucking brothel workers. The point being access to pornography isn't new and it's an equal scapegoat like to videogames for the crime epidemic of the 90's; there are other factors at play here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:46 PM |
| 8 | Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sexBrother I can assure you kids had access to pornography for as long as it's been a thing. It's not caused the last decades issues. Me and the boys gathered around the computer to access newgrounds in the early 2000's and our fathers magazines; my father's generation mail ordered issues while watching the mailbox like a hawk and swiped them from news stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sexIf you got rid of porn without touching upon the factors that are making both sexes asocial you're only going to see the escort business and male suicides explode even more than they already have. A good example is South Korea, they have a ban on pornography yet still have an abysmal birthrate and the highest rate of male suicide in the world. There certainly is a number of men that are social caterpillars needing a nudge to metamorphosize into a butterfly and this change will force them to star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:37 PM |
| 3 | How do you think feminism and general push for gender equality has changed the way relationships are now? Did it change for better or for worse?It didn't need to be WW1 WW2 or a crashing economy; there would be any other catalyst to bring women into the workforce at some point because more workers = more productivity = less wages for more goods = wealthier business owners. See how everyone's making the mad dash to India to exploit the caste system due to Chinese demographic timebomb and manufacturing being less tolerant of slaves wages. I don't refute that men in the past had trouble stepping up to the plate and women wanted better; my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:00 PM |
| 2 | How do you think feminism and general push for gender equality has changed the way relationships are now? Did it change for better or for worse?Does there need to be a grand femmedictator to instate changes overnight? Are we ignoring the 100~ years of progress to this point? They fought for their rights and became 50% of the workforce over two generations and as such things have changed to accommodate them. Additionally people aren't monolithic, there's always going to be outliers and that's why I said on average not every woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:14 PM |
| 10 | How do you think feminism and general push for gender equality has changed the way relationships are now? Did it change for better or for worse?Only one gender has accepted and adapted to how society and the economy has changed? It changed because of that gender. We're in this weird bubble where despite having these new freedoms and capabilities they still expect traditional male roles to be filled while not fulfilling traditional female roles, to claim it's about housework is hilariously reductive. A good example is the whole breadwinner argument people bring up endlessly where on average a woman expects a man to outearn her even if sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:56 PM |
| 4 | PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaicYeah and shelter isn't important to someone who owns a house. You're underplaying it a fair bit, if it wasn't a big deal we wouldn't see shit like deadbedrooms or hookup culture existing as people would be fine with having friends and tugging themself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?People approach them...? I've seen numerous posts on this subreddit alone that women have an unending deluge of would be suitors harassing them every waking moment of their life; it's not hard to imagine at least one was attractive enough to see again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 05:46 PM |
| 10 | Dating apps are a good thingThere's no way you could have that many options without dating apps. I think that's one of the bigger reasons why people are pissed at the apps existing. You're not attempting to be the best man in the room anymore, but the best man in your nation. Additionally there's the frustration from filters existing so people feel pressured to lie on certain things to maximize their profile exposure, an example being you've been vibing with a dude for a couple weeks only to find out in person he lied abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Young Men Cannot Compete With Older Men For The Most Attractive FemalesI did not, you edited your post to add further context later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Young Men Cannot Compete With Older Men For The Most Attractive FemalesYeah, I personally deal with teenagers a lot as is. I'm only 28 and it makes me relentlessly cringe talking to them for long periods of time hearing the worst takes on repeat. I cannot imagine dating someone under the age of 24 at this point, and can only imagine how much more horrible it could be if I was as old as their father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Would you marry someone that was not very bright?Yeah I can make it work. Being intelligent is sexy, being the opposite is cute. While I'd prefer someone intelligent to have stimulating conversations with on complex topics I have a wide group of friends who can already do that, so if I and her vibe pretty well I wouldn't care. Plus I've met more than a few "slow" people who despite being a bit naive and clueless were intelligent in other ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Young Men Cannot Compete With Older Men For The Most Attractive FemalesWhile I agree with the idea I don't with the extreme example. 30-50 picking up highschoolers is some weird fucking pipe dream repeated that 99.99% of men cannot hope to achieve, seeing as most men aren't going to be the 30+ year old let alone 40+ year old with enough wealth to offset their looks or vice versa to pick up girls fresh out of highschool. The only real "threat" to young men is slightly older young men; a 25~ year old with a car and a fulltime as a paper pusher is going to dunk on a 2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Would you give up video games for sex?Nah. Look I like sex and I enjoy the company of women; however I'm not giving up one of the few hobbies I can still share with my friends after we all moved apart. To me their friendship is worth far more than sowing oats for another decade or two. how do you reconcile not wanting to give up something to improve your chances but then also lament the frustration of not getting sex? In my experience women don't give a shit that I'm doing what literally 99% of other men are doing. In the case of ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 01:20 AM |
| – | From a selfish male perspective, feminism and 'childfree' women are great for us.I refuse to believe you lack reading comprehension and came to this conclusion, there is 0% chance you're not posting in bad faith but I'll take the bait anyways. This is a crazy concept but parents want what's best for their children, and to most finding the one they loved and settling down was far more rewarding than the alternative of a lifetime being a literal sex object. If you like to fuck and are fine with being childfree, cool, power to you, but don't pretend that majority of parents are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 07:40 PM |
| 10 | many men need to do a better job at realizing that wanting sex =/= “dating options”Except it's not just sex, the men in reference are also lacking abilities to get into relationships too; they however don't get the chance to sort through bad actors. Women certainly have their own hardships, but to someone dying of thirst in the desert the person lost at sea seems privileged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:14 PM |
| 5 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Yeah, what I wrote is a bit reductive however I was just reiterating Reflexsave's point that being fat is preferable to being poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:17 PM |
| 9 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?No where was it stated to be 'fit and attractive' the topic at hand is not overweight and you don't have to sculpt yourself for that. 99% of people it's calories in calories out. There's a finite amount of opportunities and not everyone's going to be able to be a high earner even if they get the required skillsets, but they can certainly starve themself. Source:I gained 70lb's over the pandemic and shed it in 4 months with fasting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:51 PM |
| 3 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Overweight is not descriptive enough since most American's are just that. Being a broke man past a certain age is worse IMO unless we're talking my 500lb life fat because while you can theoretically lose that weight there's still the extra human sized loose skin that has to be surgically removed and leaves you covered in scars. There's no shortage of chubby chasers, the average woman (person) in America is overweight, but having no money in your late 20's+ requires you to either bring a golden s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.First impressions are certainly important but I can all but guarantee most men can't sweep a woman they just met off their feet who wasn't already dangling from a rope of their own volition. You don't have to be casanova, you just need to be able to hold a conversation. If consistent one night stands are the end goal, yeah, being extremely socially intelligent and moderately attractive is a requirement to turn maybe into yes. You know how those guys got that? By going out and talking to lots of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.Bro I ain't going to say it isn't easier if you have previous experience, but it's far from over like people make it out to be. You're always going to be worse off than someone who started practicing something earlier than you, sure, but you can still learn despite all of that. Stop worrying so much about how you compare to everyone else. As I said, if someone actually likes you they'll be understanding - people aren't going to let you touch them sexually if they don't already like you. It's a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:26 PM |
| 16 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.You don't suddenly stop being a social klutz just because you've kissed a girl when you were in highschool, man. That can come by simply interacting with others often enough as improving your social skills doesn't need to be with the opposite gender. Most women also aren't these dystopic harpies that will cast you down for the smallest infraction, in fact if they like you they'll give you a LOT of leeway for your 'eccentric' behavior. I can also assure you that you'll still feel those butterflie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 08:11 PM |
| 8 | Did having a sibling of the oppostie gender make you more sympathetic of the struggles of the other gender?All of my sisters relationship (and general) problems have been of her own making, so no, I've not become more sympathetic towards the plight of women through that avenue; if anything it's made me less empathetic to some of the problems I've heard from friends and coworkers since a man's shown up to rescue her from every worry and she's never dealt with the consequences of her actions. The longest she's been without a relationship since she was 14 is a few months, has lived(and is still living) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: How do you define “fat”?BMI isn't really catered to individuals, it's an imperfect guideline for populations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: How do you define “fat”?Nah I agree, it's not all about BMI it's how it's distributed too. All of those women wear it pretty well so they seem fine, it's a real issue when it's all being deposited in a few areas alone. Like the OP I live in a rural area where the women(and men) are rather...portly to put it politely, and these women look better than most of the 'fat' ones I see IRL; so I guess that's my answer to the OP. Suppose this could be considered a weight overton window, people have gotten so fat today that what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if a husband cheats, does that mean he doesn't love his wife?I don't know, man. People do all kinds of rationalizing for their abhorrent behavior every day. The concept is as foreign to me as you but if you look through the lens of an impulsive dumbass you can see the entire scenario of a person loving another yet being a tremendously selfish piece of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?If she's able to support herself I don't really care; there's more to life than how much money you make and I wholly support people doing what they want instead of endlessly chasing the bag or prestige that won't matter in your old age. If she's unable or unwilling she'll have to make up for it some other way. The CoL in my area is low enough where I could easily support them but I'd expect my SO to be active in some form whether it be through volunteer work, bettering themselves through educati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 02:47 PM |
| 11 | Just pay attention to herUh, well, you start off as one of those rando's with "ulterior motive attention" too. You can make an ass of yourself like the people in the curated for maximum engagement videos but you're not making them feel special. If this subreddit's women are to be believed they're being approached to an obnoxious extent every day, so there's no shortage of men giving them attention IRL too. Really though my man you've been off the market for nearly 2 decades, you're giving baseball tips to people playing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 09:37 PM |
| -1 | What is your age and what age do you find most physically attractive in women?I'm 28 20~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that male sexuality is shamed in modern society?Alright, whatever. You can walk around naked and complain that men had the audacity to look at you merely existing in your god given form. You and the other women have shown me that you can, indeed, have your cake and eat it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 04:35 PM |
| 20 | What are your thoughts on the research consensus being that women initiate domestic violence significantly more than menIt's because they've never been hit back and know that men are taught not to strike them under any circumstances. I experienced it firsthand with a BPD ex. She would frequently get physical and was quick to mention it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that male sexuality is shamed in modern society?I pity your inability to understand what was stated myself. Do what you want, don't whine if people start eyeing you. That's it. Literally no one stopped them but not wanting to expose themselves to others, if you want to take out your breast in public by all means. No one has an obligation to look the other way if you do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe that male sexuality is shamed in modern society?Breasts are for feeding children the world round Yeah, and vagina's are for birthing children the world round too, no one argues that they aren't. They're both an organ that men derive sexual pleasure from. No matter how many times women piss themselves and cry breasts are not doesn't make them less so. Babies have to eat They do! I just said how my mother, my aunt, my co-worker, and two of my sisters handled the situation without having to free a tit in public. Whether or not you believe it's s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that male sexuality is shamed in modern society?A bikini, the outfit that shows 95% of your body isn't showing off your figure? Not wearing padding between your shirt tight enough your nipples are poking through and you know it isn't? Wearing yoga clothing that wraps around your figure leaving nothing to the imagination and going out in public isn't? Taking your breasts out to feed your kid in public isn't? The only one here you can kind of argue for would be the feeding baby bit which I would understand if it was the 19th century, but you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that male sexuality is shamed in modern society?Alright, then don't be upset men are going to look lol. You can't show off the goods and complain attention is unwarranted nor unwanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Do women really care that much if a guy has done gay stuff or swings both ways?It's consistently shown that a majority to super majority of Americans accept LGBT people, so I'm going to assume most aren't going to have an issue coming out unless it's to a super religious family, and even then I don't think saying you kind of like cock is going to go over any better than saying you're full on homogay. Coming out as bi as a stepping stone to homosexuality...then dating a woman for it...doesn't really sound like something an adult would do. If you want penis you can download … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Do women really care that much if a guy has done gay stuff or swings both ways?I would think most bi guys are bi, otherwise they'd call themselves gay. It's 2023 if anything people are significantly less tolerant for being bi than simply saying you're gay if your statements and this thread is to be taken seriously so I'm not sure why you'd be a stepping stone. Someone can have multiple types, so why couldn't they have multiple types for different sexes? You don't have to assume you look like a man and they're taking their urges out on you to be a little less gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Do women really care that much if a guy has done gay stuff or swings both ways?This is not the response I would get in real life with my friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 11:59 AM |
| 3 | I think most men don't truly understand what being attractive is, and can be just as entitled delusional as the women they complain about.Almost every man I've been around that complains about women being shallow gold dogging harpies, isn't remotely attractive , physically,mentally, personality wise. Probably because an attractive man physically/mentally/personality wise isn't going to attract women who only want their resources. At the same time men really , I mean really for a small percentage put in literally no effort into being attractive. It isn't just about lifting weights, it's also a mentality thing, your mannerisms. This… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 08:25 AM |
| 6 | Do women really care that much if a guy has done gay stuff or swings both ways?They might change their tune if they posted anonymously online too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 06:54 AM |
| 3 | How important do you think teen love is?I don't think it's unimportant but wildly overblown by those who haven't experienced it on just how important it is. It's definitely something I have fond memories of and despite it not ending how I wanted it to I'm happy it happened. Looking back I don't think I'd really have missed out on a whole lot outside of memories if I didn't experience it, it didn't really affect any of my future relationships outside of the most insignificant amount of experience that you can easily read a few pointers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given?It's not even close. I want someone who is focused on me 100% and I'm not going to abase myself trying to beat out the competition. I already did that when I was younger and a slave to my hormones, the process left me spiritually drained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Many young people nowadays say dating is more trouble than it's worthI have. It and the rest of his writings didn't turn me into an unrepentant anprim but they were very well written. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 10:44 AM |
| 3 | As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted toWell, this was written specifically in regards to in person approaching. I understand that women are inundated online with the same questions and answers, I've experienced it on the apps with the basic 1 or 2 worded replies because they've clearly had this conversation 100 times before and are mentally clocked out. As for being approached everyday by the ugliest creatures to ever exist I think I'd be perfectly fine. Even though it might not happen in the most convenient times it's really not tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 11:20 PM |
| 2 | What effect do you think video games are having on male dating and mental health?I don't subscribe to the belief that things like videogames or pornography are the reasons for modern men's dating issues or deteriorating mental health. "For every complex problem there is an answer that is clear, simple, and wrong." The truth of it is that men spending exorbitant amounts of time and money on them and other forms of escapism at their own detriment is merely a symptom of our current societal woes. Be it horrible economic prospects, mental health crisis, or simply no one extendin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Many young people nowadays say dating is more trouble than it's worthThat's a matter of perspective. If you look at it through the lens of technological progress and mindless entertainment, sure. I can order Chinese food with three flicks of my index finger and bring up the latest late night comedy special but do I feel fulfilled? Yeah we don't have to struggle everyday just to survive, food is plentiful, entertainment at our fingertips, most people have no tangible hardships compared to even their great grandparents. But overall people feel ever increasing amoun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 09:55 PM |
| 46 | As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted toThink this is more of a perspective thing, as a straight man I've been hit on by nearly a dozen gay men, I was flattered every time and didn't mind it because people aren't mind readers and you miss every shot you don't take. Gently letting them down by telling them I was straight and appreciated their interest wasn't this great burden like you're presenting here. With all of that said, I DID feel uncomfortable when a man sent me an unsolicited dick pic because they mistook my joking around as f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 07:54 AM |
| 1 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”I think you'd find most people say they're never going to be conservative when they're young, but will adopt some conservative viewpoints sometime in their life. Not everything is black and white, people are more nuanced than team A or B even though posting online would have you believe they're all in on one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”Everything reflects your values past a point and age. You're still in highschool so being a virgin yet progressive leaning is pretty common at that age, most young people are not conservative, or at least, are far more left leaning than right in their respective countries. You're incredibly inexperienced and in the next 8~ years you're going to completely change as a person, so what you believe and do now isn't necessarily reflective of what your actions will be over the next decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”The porn actor is just an extreme example of someone who has done the act so much with so many people and there's clearcut proof of it. You can insert chad/stacy super slayers who are well known as well. I don't think that's necessarily a sign of them being abusive, in the case of this sub it's because those men are young, inexperienced and want someone to share a moment with. Sure, some I imagine want an inexperienced woman who doesn't know their own worth because there's always going to be shi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”It can be insecurity, but I'm of the opinion that's more often projection than not. You go up to most men and ask them if they'd marry a woman who laid down for an entire football stadium and you're going to get an overwhelming no, you can see this in action with porn actresses who report having a very difficult time dating because most men aren't interested. Now it's a different story when they actually get to know the person, I've compromised on things that would be automatic dealbreakers in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”People who aren't promiscuous tend to find the behavior unattractive for a number of reasons. Disgust, unshared values, lack of impulse control, higher chance of STI's, different life experiences, etc. People often cite how higher number of sex parters = less chance of marriages working out, but honestly they need to stop trying to rationalize it and simply say they don't find it particularly attractive. A piece of unsolicited advice - Men aren't scared off by you being seen as loose, if anythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?Of course I don't get it, you're in a thread for one topic arguing against a completely different one. Women are not interested in your bank account value In a thread specifically about traditional women, yes they are. A traditional woman is going to care about traditional expectations such as supporting the family. They are interested in how much you value yourself. You literally just read "interesting, intelligent, enjoyable to be around" and instantly start going on a tirade about how wealthy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?Being an interesting person who's enjoyable to be around and can financially support a family isn't enough? Do they need to juggle too? What if they were really good at cornhole? In all honesty this is why you see so many posters here get asshurt when told they need to do better, you're literally pointing at the top 10% of earners and saying "yeah he's interesting and funny and in the 90th percentile of earnings but he doesn't offer enough" like bruh, the fuck more does he need to be considered … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do men even like women when they hate us so much?Probably has something to do with the millions of years of evolution that resulted in rewarding you with happy chemicals when you spend time with one. yes, most of them are like this You're overdosing on curated content from the algorithm. Seriously man, in a world with 8 billion people a good number are gonna be shitheels, it's not gender exclusive. You complain that there are gold diggers, women complain that there are men pretending to be something they're not and only looking to hit and quit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Why Are You Single?28m, Job's hours don't exactly give me the ability to socialize as much as I'd like combined with living out in a dying rural town for it without really knowing anyone outside of work or the area having a nightlife, and I'm not attractive enough to do well on the apps. I get some attention from the locals I interact with but a good amount of it has been from what I'd personally consider undateable; single mothers with fathers still in the picture, drug addicts, and obese women. Sometimes a mix. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:18 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalI think it will be difficult. It's far easier to do a cursory glance at their phones browser history and look at their recent text messages than to dig through potentially decades worth of reddit messages in various eyebrow raising subreddits. That's also under the assumption people will hang onto their reddit accounts for said decades too, especially so when the posting history is questionable at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:31 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalAnd you can personally link each and every one of those posts with someone in real life? Or do you think that they're going to share their old social media accounts with their children. I have a gaiaonline account with cringe ass posts from my youth, there isn't a chance in hell that I'm going to acknowledge its existence with my friends let alone with my kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalWhat, do you think people are going to keep a scrapbook of the shit they say online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?I ain't going to pretend relationship dynamics aren't completely fucked right now, but there's no guarantee it will stay this messed up. Perhaps world government's will step in when they realize they can't indefinitely prop up the workforce and births with immigration. Perhaps gen Alpha will look at how dysfunctional their parents generation is and swerve away from that future. Maybe people will adapt to the new norm. Can't say, I just don't personally see the AI being a replacement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 07:21 PM |
| 1 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?There's always going to be outliers in everything and I do feel for them. I'm just stating my opinion that this certainly isn't "the future of relationships" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?I think this falls under "well adjusted individuals" as most people don't look for any and every reason to dissuade themselves from interacting with the opposite sex on a deeper level. Yes, life is filled with low's to complement the high's. Not every interaction I've had with people has been positive, not every relationship ended amicably, not every competition I've entered I've won. That's not to say it wasn't worth experiencing. If you're excited to have heart to heart's with Cortana and sexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?Oh okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?Well, seeing as you single out feminine there; do you think women lack the capability to love back or...? Like yeah, relationships can lead to you being hurt, but I don't think most well adjusted individuals will forgo the joys of humans for the honesty of a machine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 03:48 PM |
| 2 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?A robot regurgitating samples of text will never replace the need for intimacy. A prostitute will never replace the need for intimacy. It'l be there as an option, sure, but neither will leave you feeling fulfilled and I don't see many people opting for this setup than actual person to person relationships because a modern day tamagotchi and orgasm can't compare to holding someone you actually care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 03:02 PM |
| – | Are men today too fixated on attracting women?There was more to it than wanting to fuck someone off how handsome/beautiful someone was. Your ancestors weren't slaying puss because they were handsome, they brought resources/security/threats of violence/etc. You replying to someone saying "most men are too fucking ugly to ever be chased" isn't disproven because your cave dwelling ancestor was a giga chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:43 PM |
| – | Are men today too fixated on attracting women?I really have my doubts that was entirely because most mens ancestors were irresistible sex objects. Do you think that the humble subsistence farmer that looks like a raisin with a hunchback from spending 24/7 working the farm had the same challenges as the modern day techbro when it comes to physical attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sOh yeah there's a ton. Admittedly I've had to pause and actually search for some of them to figure out what the hell's being referenced myself. Enjoy your stay, and don't take any of this to heart; there's a lot of angry people screaming to the void here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sBruh PPD is the name of the subreddit. KHHV = Kissless Handholdless Hugless Virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever give a reformed OF model with a promiscuous past having a high body count a chance if she changed her ways ?You'll be very disappointed if it wasn't. Almost like you're planning to spend a lifetime with this person, and can reasonably teach them to be better at it. Seriously, if you're planning to grow old with someone the prospect of having a heart to heart about sexual performance shouldn't be so daunting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 03:27 AM |
| 2 | The disgust some men feel towards promiscuous women is not biologically inherent and we should aid men to handle their insecurities not bathe in themIt’s only now becoming a trend to pretend otherwise What? Why has there been such a massive push to stop "slut shaming" for the last few decades if it's only now becoming a trend? Promiscuity has been looked down upon for most of recorded history, it's a relatively recent experience that women don't get ostracized from their communities for engaging in it. I would say that most men desire promiscuous women. While true, most men desire promiscuous women, it's not because they're promiscuous; more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:07 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.I figured as much which is why I added the upper class might roll their eyes, but everyone else tends to not give a shit in my experience. But perhaps me and my middle class social circles are outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.The original comment as far as I understand it is that given the option between two equally attractive women with similar earnings the one with higher social status isn't more valuable to men, which I agree with. As for your question it would depend on the circumstances behind why they're working there. I'm not going to shit on someone because they found they actually liked the job, their coworkers, and ended up in management or they're working part time because they can't get anything else more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:19 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.Can't say I've ever met anyone like you, but different walks of life and all that. I can see how someone who's upper class might roll their eyes at the lack of prestige, but the average man is average they're making 30-50k a year so someone making equal or less as whatever isn't that big of a deal to them. They're not really looking to flex their average girlfriends occupation and education when out with friends, they're simply looking for companionship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 01:30 PM |
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