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Complex_Meal2687/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 04:01 PM
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It's a stall tactic. It's meant to buy her time, do additional investigative work on you OR set you up for behavior she can use against you. On top of that, it is possible that if she is seeing someone else the possibility she can transition to that situation has been in flux. Trust and believe it is not about working it out. Something doesn't smell right with the story. Don't set yourself up like that.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 10:49 PM
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GLP 1 and before that it was gastric bypass surgeries. With most women it was an automatic result. The rate of divorces or relationship endings were extremely high. Mix in the current social media "you go gurlz" and everybody is a 10, nothing is wrong with you, it's everything and everybody "around" you, with the cherry on top of no accountability and this is what you get. Reality usually hits them within 5 years after it. Age doesn't matter 20s-60s you see them all do it. It's comical.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 01:30 PM
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Agreed to a point. With the prominence of a lot of foolish social media takes, attention seeking, and misery pimping, with women it has gotten waaay worse. Over time you will find a good mix of how to carry yourself going forward. They are not the end all be all. Don't fall into the extremes.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 01:28 AM
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Screw the initial topic. The use of the word "wifey" speaks volumes. You are not ready.
/r/askMRP08/02/26 01:36 PM
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I second Rian Stone.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/25 11:05 AM
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I'm incredibly proud of the responses in this thread. The fact tellers are back, and vocal. OP heed the advice here you are getting here in mass. It may be a bit much but it is real. So glad all the gang is back. I've had my concerns it was being hijacked again by the "am I being romantic enough" and "I need hugs, because I saw 100 texts after hours from her coworker Preston McSlayer from the accounting department"
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/25 10:49 AM
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Your reply was fine. The way it was written was / is a common way to address a situation slang wise or guy to guy caution. "Don't do stupid" " "Don't let stupid catch you" etc... You didn't say "hey Stupid", "don't do, Stupid" Out of all the stuff to take out of what you said it was that? Geez....
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 11:01 AM
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No truer words spoken. Excellent analogy. In the long run at least 85 percent of us on this page will see that.🍻🍻🍻✅
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 06:18 PM
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Pandering if it was a platform issue. And by the time YOU think you can benefit from anything you perceived that will change just cause some political party figurehead is in office during a highly tv driven election, will be useless to you and you'll be well past it. Show me where that was on anyone's "platform" seriously this election cycle. Possibly some things perceived coming out of Florida maybe? I think I saw an article or two. I hate when the talk of national tv politics get up into these…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 01:37 AM
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This right here. Make no mistake about it. Her front facing image will mean as much if NOT more to her than it is best for your kids to have you in their lives equally. Heed all warnings from people here about it. 🍻✅🎯🎯
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 11:14 AM
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Jelly? How old are you? Is this a paragraph for a describe your imaginary celebrity crush?
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 12:32 AM
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If you do it again, I will, if you do it again, I will, I swear if you do it one more time, I will, this is one of my last chances that I'm giving, LISTEN!!!, you are leaving me no choice, now are you going to act right this time? Don't push me to do something we'll regret, trust me I will! You are giving me no choice!, now will you come to the table and be reasonable? ( meanwhile she was given time to get her escape plan perfected and already had the wheels in motion way back when ) And you're …
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/24 02:02 AM
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These are the reasons this reddit exists. All of us need to value this part. Lately it has been overrun with "the opposite". This story and many many others NEED to remain the focus. These are the stories that will help the many who find their way here. 🍻🍻✅
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 11:16 AM
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🍻Agreed. AND get the praise and "you go girls" and "dump dat bum" and "hez a narcissist", and "you need to leave him" and whatever "you feel is good and whatever his story is I'm sure it's all bad". And as usual, the white nights swarm and forget why the space was originally created. Will even fight with the men who have had waaay worse stories just to be a "beacon of shining light" for a woman who repeats the same story thousands of men have told here. Make it make sense.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 04:20 PM
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This ⬆️🍻. I can't seem to understand why they come here throw out the question, think we are all lying or something or joking just to leave, and do it anyway. Yet he knows something isn't right about it, enough to seek advice in the first place. I almost feel if we had all said "hey dude!! sound like a blockbuster deal for you!!! and a can't miss!! push those chips all in pal!!" ONLY then would he take it seriously and do the opposite. Yikes.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 03:54 PM
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This right here. ⬆️
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 09:59 AM
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Exactly!🍻Excellent point. The tone here has "shifted". From caution and information sharing as priority one, to exactly that, moping. Ex. "My wife has changed, she was cheating, after I confronted her with obvious proof she said that she will stop if she can bang the two guys that she just met at the same time at the local dive bar. I was so hurt, but if I give her 200 dollars for drinks and allow it, do you guys have any tips for how I can romance her back and make it work? I'd like to get her …
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 11:00 AM
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The fact that this is a "conversation" for a divorced / divorcing man to ask here is stunning.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/24 03:44 PM
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You win this one. This comment should be pinned.😂✅🍻
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 03:17 PM
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Zeus level breakdown here. Kudos. Well f#€kin done. Amazing. 🍻🍻🍻✅🎯
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 09:04 PM
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Statistically you had a 65 to 70 percent chance of it happening, shes on her 3rd, it's as high 70 to 80 percent. When you factor in the "things" between the both of you not resolved from the first couple of marriages on both sides. Add 5 to 10 more percent. Bringing those lessons not learned / issues over and thinking the honeymoon stage of a relationship will mask it or fix it is a recipe for exactly this.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 01:33 AM
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My last post SPECIFICALLY spoke about this kind of stuff. Wow....
/r/askMRP20/04/24 07:11 PM
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Can I jump in and add that we need to have this attitude across the board with this situation regardless of the type of question. We already have some men in this space who already excessively grovel with women as they are sleeping in the backyard while their wives/ex wives are in the house with the new man of the moment and are here asking us if it's ok to wave to the kids in the window. It makes me question why they are here as well, since clearly they have no desire to learn from a lot of the…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 07:36 PM
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Just scratch "Entrepreneurs in Cars" off that list, substitute The Rational Male book series. I said book or audiobook series. Live like you are broke for a couple of years. Still treat yourself. It's ok to have a beer every now and then, don't get lost in it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 09:35 PM
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Pin this post. Excellent points.🍻🍻 Make notes of this gentlemen. There will be times where it is done intentionally for that reason. To obstruct time .
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 01:56 PM
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Pin this response. Immediately. 🍻
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 07:07 PM
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Never understood why they just don't stop and stay in the r/Divorce reddit. Try asking that there.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 07:36 PM
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I wouldn't call it an "odd" fraternity. It's a normal truth that A LOT of men never find, or realize since there is a big big lie about marriage and the evolution of society, especially with the dominance of social media. They will suffer til the end in silence for some foolish self inflicted noble reason. In my opinion, we are to some degree, lucky. To all that have learned and hold that new truth with you then mission accomplished. Safe journey forward. Hopefully you don't find your way back f…
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/24 01:43 PM
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My man, solid as f#ck response. 🍻🍻✅🎯🍻
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 09:27 PM
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Never direct a woman to red pill content. With the intent to have whatever videos "speak for you". Bad move. Even if it is "red pill women" stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 08:48 AM
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My man. Every time I come across a post like this I have to hat tip. Well done. This exactly. 🍻🍻🎯✅
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/23 01:30 PM
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🤔
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 01:57 PM
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Clearly we have found the winner of this post. Well done, and to the point. ✅🏆🍻🍻🍻🍻
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 04:48 PM
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🍻🍻✅🎯🎯. Exactly this.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 09:29 PM
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As crazy as this sounds, what most of us are saying is she is acting unhinged to draw you out, and to get you to do the same. That behavior was always a part of her. Her ace in the hole. When the honeymoon stage wanes in the marriage she steps closer to that box to open it. When she thinks it's a worst comes to worse set of scenarios for her, she will NOT hesitate to play it. Unfortunately, society and the courts/law enforcement will overlook a woman's behavior or the MAJORITY of it, and dictate…
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 02:30 AM
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Stopped at paid for her attorney twice. I will never understand that.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 01:55 AM
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Run on and finish that story. 😬
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 10:02 PM
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You dropped this. 👑🍻
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 09:21 PM
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I was all set to pile on and rip into this one, then I remember that there are a lot of new folks here, or that pop up when specific things occur. Worrying about things like this are the remnants of a time that has passed. You don't get brownie points for doing it. There is no moral victory waiting for you if you do it. In the same regard there is no grand life punishment for not doing it. These types of thoughts having that much weight on you is a sign to shift gears. Let it go, and take back t…
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 12:20 AM
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I know the statistics vary depending on what study but in general. 40-50+ 1st marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages jump another 10 to 15 percent, 3rd marriages + are in the upper 70s or close to guaranteed to fail. What is generally overlooked is these numbers jump significantly if, the ex jumped right into another marriage quickly within 6 mins to a year ( rebound, looking for a sucker to help with basic life needs ). I call it settling for survival. You throw in these additional issues. Lac…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 04:26 AM
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No truer words spoken. 🍻. It only catches them if they double down and continue to operate in that behavior that put them there and the odds decrease in their favor due to multiple incidences. For the most part, I do think it catches most of them at some point.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 09:15 PM
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Good grief. Here we go. I put way more priority on the many stories of men here who have gone through (in most cases)) unnecessary hell, have had false charges brought against them, and had their lives upended all because the ex wanted to play victim without any accountability on social media. Or win a court case to remove good fathers from their kids, or play victim to endear herself to a new guy. Or to bury someone just because they can. The men here have every right to go through the stages o…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 01:10 AM
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Agreed. This right here. Then I'd like the to see the "tone" of the soon to be ex. While he's going through thisband just focused on the pre marital emotional side and the memories of the good times, she is and has been calculating about this way before he was aware. These moments are where men start making the mistakes of not being more focused and depending on "hope" to mitigate these situations. Excellent point. 🍻
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 11:39 AM
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It amazes me when I hear some of these stories where it seems that the next dude the ex wife shacks up with is almost given more parental rights than the biological father. Usually it ends up being that the new sucker is the one that the kids need to NOT be around. This act is all part of the continued attempt by the ex to use the kids like the majority of them ALWAYS DO as weapons, accessories, and props to (especially on social media nowadays) to hide behind and mask their poor decisions and p…
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 12:02 PM
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I have a hard time believing you weren't aware of that type of mania early in the relationship, yet you stayed. Playing the how "high or low" is my tolerance game. I think you knew this was inevitable. I agree with others, cut your losses. When it's that obvious from pretty much the beginning.... I could understand if she "jekyll and hyded" you after a few or quite a few years, but it appears she didn't. It was hella obvious, from the beginning.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 09:43 PM
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When I hear these stories I immediately think that the rush to settle into "let's be besties" it's done to set a tone for the ex to have a security net to fall back on. Or to continue to take advantage of. To have access to the things you can provide, access or resolve. She gets her freedom to chase butterflies in general or in her stomach with others. You will convince yourself to settle for that new dynamic, instead of having a person who appreciates the collective whole of who you are. In my …
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 01:03 PM
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Those first 4 sentences are gold. I've felt this plenty of times on these forums. I feel like 25 percent of the posters here are clearly in the wrong subreddit and haven't bothered to read the tone of this place. Or the replies in general. I don't get it. Excellent post.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 12:24 PM
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If you threaten you need to follow through. Sounds harsh, but you no longer have leverage. If it gets to a point where you threatened her with it. I have to ask, were you really concerned about saving it? I think it's a bad situation to put yourself in nowadays. Plus the bug is in her ear. She could be setting you up to file on YOU now. Never play the "if you don't do this, I will file/leave" game. You've played your hand. That game is usually reserved for women. Why were your other attempts at …
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 08:40 PM
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Pin this. 🍻🍻
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 10:57 PM
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Frame this. Rehearse it like you are performing on Broadway. Live it, believe it, do it, OR as much as you can. This is gospel. 🍻
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/23 11:49 PM
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This right here. Not going to lie, seems a tad suspicious. With that money and the circles that money keeps clearly he would have more than qualified individuals to help navigate this.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 11:26 PM
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Well said. 🍻🍻🍻🍻!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 09:28 PM
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Pin this. Perfect response. Perfect attitude to have with it. Pay attention fellas. 🍻🍻🍻
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/23 12:39 AM
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Understand this. Won't stick to just discussing the kids. Tries to interfere in things that don't involve her. I ignore her unless it's about the kids specifically. Then, if it's about the kids she will try and steer it toward her new marriage or get off topic. ( big shock she got married within 8 or 9 months after the divorce ) Keeps trying to talk about how wonderful her new husband is when we are supposed to discuss the kids. I don't care. She remarried for the money. Financially she was way …
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/23 03:35 PM
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OP. Read this response multiple times, then read it again. Do not overlook this advice. This is fishy. Clearly she felt this way long before you two conceived, if the child is yours. Her plans were set way before this. My math may not be the best here but she got pregnant at least 2 and a half to 3 months ago. 7 weeks in and she tells you that? Heed this advice above.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 04:51 PM
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The truth. Well said. Pin this. 🍻🍻
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 05:24 AM
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This is got to be a some sort of comedic sarcasm? A bit? Right?
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/23 02:45 AM
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Just jumped in just to comment that I saved this statement. Agree with it, learned through experience ( luckily I got out without too much damage ). To watch it happening while I am on the outside of it is fascinating. There is no greater truth in the world, right now, than this. It is NOT hyperbole.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 12:18 AM
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