Complex_Path_4821 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Moving on	Need Support	Complex_Path_4821	/r/Divorce_Men	12/04/25 10:12 PM
17	Reconciliation		Complex_Path_4821	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/26 08:51 PM
3	Divorce anxiety?		Complex_Path_4821	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/24 08:56 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	I hate this shit. You’re not being a little bitch, you’ll get there man. If she’s happy already just like my ex was then she isn’t facing her emotions at all. My ex looks like she’s living the best life, money, travel, friends but in reality her days are packed with distractions from waking to bed time. She’s still the same person and it’s sad to see but it is what it is. You’ll come out of this far happier than what she’s making herself out to be	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/25 04:00 AM
5	I hate this shit. I know man, weekends still hit me hard too. Especially through winter right now where most people are cooped up inside, it’s lonely. I’m lucky I have the best dog a guy could dream of, he’s helped me through a lot and honestly the one thing that I would tell anyone is DO NOT DROWN EVERYTHING YOU’RE FEELING IN DISTRACTIONS! The moment I started to see everything I was doing to escape my pain, everything changed. I thought I was feeling everything and doing it all the right way but whenever there …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/25 03:56 AM
7	I hate this shit. I was exactly like you, it’s taken me well over a year and i’m still not completely there but i’m finally seeing the light. Now when I’m true to myself and really think about if I would ever take her back if she returned, I honestly don’t think I would. I have grown exponentially, i’ve faced everything head on, I didn’t turn to distractions and i’m in love with who I’m becoming. Now that I know what truly matters to me, there is nobody that will ever get in the way of that again. Sure I have low…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/25 03:42 AM
2	Felt this is appropriate to ask here. Girlfriend seems to be moving toward a marriage… a need divorced guys advice. That’s fine but that’s your conditioning. Let yourself see things from others point of view because not one persons view on life is “truth”. You’re just creating a wall that’s going to be slowly built up with everyone you ever meet because you’re not willing to evolve and empathise with others. Life isn’t about money	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/25 01:18 AM
3	Felt this is appropriate to ask here. Girlfriend seems to be moving toward a marriage… a need divorced guys advice. I mean i get where you’re coming from but life isn’t about money. Just be mature and actually talk to her about this rather than asking strangers for advice and coming up with your own image of who you think she is. Your values in life at this moment just don’t align but that’s not the end of the world. Be mature, discuss it without being defensive and hostile and allow space to see it from her point of view too, not just a narrow financial view	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/25 01:07 AM
2	I truly hate being divorced For me it’s just clocked over a year since separation, dreading the divorce part.. I feel as if it’s going to send me straight back down into depression. I’ve just come out of it this last month and the thing that did it for me was finally just cutting off contact and deleting her number.. I had gone through stages of no contact for maybe a week here and there but I would always cave and end up just swamping her with useless messages. At this moment I feel very proud of myself and all the intern…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/25 04:35 AM
2	Divorce broke me, so I mapped the chaos. Did it help? (M36) I’ve been on a year long mission of learning a great deal about who I am and why I’ve done certain things through therapy which has been extremely eye opening for me. It’s revealed so much that I was very naive about in the past. Even though this divorce has brought upon the worst pain i’ve ever experienced it’s also becoming the most exciting journey of my life. Could you explain more in depth about how you’ve mapped your moods and patterns?	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/25 05:51 AM
2	Just a kind word. Thank you man, I needed this. It’s so difficult to talk to most guys that have been through a divorce because either they left the relationship themselves or they see their ex as evil. Their advice is generally not what I need because they are coming from a place where they have shut off their emotions or have already moved on though I feel less alone when I come across someone like yourself that seems to be learning and working through the heartache and becoming a stronger person emotionally th…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/04/25 07:50 AM
3	For those of you in the middle of divorcing... I’m almost a year in and I thought I had reached a good place.. I was moving on, kind if happy, I was putting so much energy into my new job, new hobbies and into therapy which was helping me become a much better and understanding man, but out of nowhere it’s all come creeping back in and all I can think about is wanting her back again..	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/25 12:24 AM