Complex_Vanilla_2542 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What is it like interacting with attractive guys vs an unattractive guys vs so-so guys? I've not said every attractive person must be your personal favorite, but even Channing Tatum is an attractive man, 99 out of 100 people would agree on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:29 PM
11	How do the women who are always aloof and dismissive towards men’s approaches expect to meet someone? This is how most normal women and men want to meet Yet most of them meet via OLD these days, 2nd place is via common friends. What you're describing does nearly never happen, and is a romantic fantasy at best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:08 PM
5	How do the women who are always aloof and dismissive towards men’s approaches expect to meet someone? They're only dismissive if you're not attractive enough. I've seen really cold women turning into literally little giggly girls when the guy was hot enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:06 PM
-1	What is it like interacting with attractive guys vs an unattractive guys vs so-so guys? And of course, they all probably have their own views of how attractive I am or am not. Nearly all people can agree on who's attractive, and who's not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:04 PM
2	How come TRP doesn't teach betas in how to become alphas? Emrace your betahood. Whatever that shall mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 09:43 AM
–	How come TRP doesn't teach betas in how to become alphas? DING DING DING we have a winner!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 09:42 AM
6	Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first dates It absolutely is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:52 AM
1	"just be skinny" doesn't work Give me a picture of you, some superficial details and by the end of the week I'll bring you at least a dozen dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 08:03 AM
1	Permanent sterilization should require many sign offs and the approval of your partner I agree, but that's not what OP is implying at all. According to her logic, the society should have a deep authority over ones physical body, way beyond what we have today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 02:13 PM
2	Permanent sterilization should require many sign offs and the approval of your partner Mens body, mens choice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 02:02 PM
1	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? Who is actually saying women should lower their standards? IMO the RP guys here only want women to be finally honest about their preferences, I've never actually read women should lower their standards. At max, this is used as a meme response, since it's actually the first thing men get to hear when they talk about their dating frustration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 10:52 AM
1	Men today act so feminine Thanks mate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 08:34 AM
2	Except for gym, i don't see TRP helping men get laid, at least honestly. I completely agree. IMO the single most important factor TRP is teaching men is going to freakin gym, putting that fork down and getting fit. Everything else depends on that, getting physically more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 11:32 AM
8	Men today act so feminine They never want to pay for anything because "thats unfair". Like aren't men supposed to be natural providers? I guess not. There's no problem (for me) fulfill my 'traditional' role during dating and in a relationship, if she does the same. It's not stupid or unmanly to refuse acting traditionally, if she's not willing to do the same. Men are also suppose to be protectors. But most fathers leave their families, thus not being the protector of the household Most men leave their families? So the ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:10 AM
1	The gamification of the dating marketplace - the nature of women and brutally competitive landspace requires constant adjustment/change in strategy (even micro) to appeal to this dynamic. This results in loss of authenticity/natural progression of things. It's only creepy if the guy is not attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 02:06 PM
1	Question for the men who have trouble meeting women: have you tried signing up for a Ballroom dance class? I'm curious, are you currently employed full time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 07:33 AM
15	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man Stop gaslighting us, it's vastly better to have a sex live instead of being involuntary forced to live as a monk. Get real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 12:03 PM
19	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man It's way better to cry inside a Ferrari than homeless on a park bench. And it's way better to fill the void inside you while you're balls deep inside a hot blonde, instead of crying alone at home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 11:51 AM
21	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man Somehow this sentence comes always from people with enough sex. Just as only well fed persons can actually think food isn't that important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 11:29 AM
3	If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractive You're speaking for men too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 06:47 AM
3	Men are hypergamous when it comes to looks Women may also be objectively better looking. Care to elaborate a little bit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:53 PM
7	Men are hypergamous when it comes to looks Are you implying men are not swiping right on basically all women on Tinder? Because that's exactly what your comment implies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:51 PM
9	Men are hypergamous when it comes to looks Men are delusional about what the average looks like is the thing. Seems like men and women are playing in the same team.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:51 PM
10	Men are hypergamous when it comes to looks People (women also of couse) want unrealistic things all the time. Actually, the ability to imagine unrealistic things is a major driving force of mankind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:49 PM
12	Men are hypergamous when it comes to looks You have no idea of reality if you actually believe men are only attracted to 18-21 slim women. Especially men who fuck anything with a pulse, even that is optional in some cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:48 PM
8	Men are hypergamous when it comes to looks Most men get whatever women shows sexual interest in them. It's ridiculous to claim a notable number are even able to frequently attract hotter and hotter girls. Most men never see a pussy outside a LTR in their entire life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:46 PM
2	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? True. Hence why a large part of the beauty industry advertises rejuvenating effects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:01 PM
–	If a sexually experienced woman begins a relationship with a sexually inexperienced man, she should be willing to experiment with him and teach him hahaha you're a literal meme bot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 08:19 AM
2	I think people have unrealistic expectations of what a first date should be as long as they don’t try to rape me on the first date so I guess I am the odd one out lol That sky high standards of women these days!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 08:08 AM
3	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? Oh I'm not judging you, I think it's perfectly common for women to like full hair and a tall men. It's just a shame for men, since we can't do anything about these traits. Even 25% of men at the age of 21 are already balding, that's insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 06:37 AM
1	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? a full head of hair doesn’t hurt That's a shame, by the age of 35 around 66% of men are balding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 06:26 AM
–	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Jim Cerry also suffers of depression, but it's way better crying inside a Ferrari instead of a park bench.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:43 PM
–	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? I'm just honest, it's not my fault if women usually don't have to deal with reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:43 PM
–	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Men should stop comparing sex to travel. Why? I agree with the rest of your comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:43 PM
–	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Exactly, women ususally lie about their sexual background for this reason, since they know a guy wouldn't touch her with gloves on if he knew.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:25 PM
–	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? This, it seems like the "empathic gender (LOL)" isn't capable or willing to actually understand the situation of average Joe, or how it differes from their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:08 PM
–	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Imagine a guy never went out of his hometown, but a woman he dates was already all over the world, and every single place he shows even the slightest interest in get's shut down "I was already there and didn't like it". Do you understand why this can be frustrating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:07 PM
–	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? It's perfectly fine she decided she would do anything (hot) guy A wanted in her 20s, just as guy B decides he won't spend a single second on dating her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:04 PM
–	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? But the end result stays the same, most men should just suck it up being used in their 30s and not even considered sexual beings in their 20s. That's basically what your comment boils down to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:56 PM
10	Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. Logic and human instict often contradict each other though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:24 PM
2	CMV: People try to blame their personal problems on society. For females, it’s usually their self-esteem. For males, it’s usually their dating problems. You don't seem to understand the concept of systemic problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:37 PM
1	CMV: People try to blame their personal problems on society. For females, it’s usually their self-esteem. For males, it’s usually their dating problems. His options are staying alone and staying alone while getting ignored on Tinder. Result stays the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 10:48 AM
3	CMV: People try to blame their personal problems on society. For females, it’s usually their self-esteem. For males, it’s usually their dating problems. There are no individualistic solutions to systemic problems. And dating is systemically fucked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 06:40 AM
2	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? Especially the burned as witches part. Women en large were never in history burned as witches, not because they're women. Nearly half of all burned witches were men, and again, never was their gender a reason for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 06:29 AM
2	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? But most women (or most people in general) can't identify the dark triad traits. That's why they're different from 'usual' disorders like depression, ADHD or autism. They fuck your social life, whilst dark triad people actively use these social tools to their advantage, people with autism doesn't even understand them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 06:21 AM
3	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? You were not referencing history at all, but a made up boogy man that only exists in your head. That's why I called it pseudohistoric.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 06:16 AM
1	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? Ironic, you're blaming white people whilst the vast majority of interracial crime is white victim, poc perpetrator. Since I'm not interested in discussing race dynamics, I'd prefer to stop here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 10:35 AM
-2	You have three wishes, what dating behaviors in men/women would you change? is already reality, most women show their interest very obviously, if they're actually attracted to said man. and 3. should be indeed change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 10:22 AM
3	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? You're pseudohistoric anecdote served what purpose exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:44 AM
3	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? This may be true, but men tolerate even untreated mental disorders way more than women. Telling a woman in the early dating phase you have a mental disorder is a guaranteed death sentence, whilst the same is not true in reverse, at least not to the same amount.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:38 AM
6	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? That may be true, but the vast majority of women, and clearly way more than men, submit to social conventions and expectations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:35 AM
6	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? Why would there be a prize and what would that prize be? A woman? A job? Respect? In the past yes, being a working respectable man would surely lead to a family. How can y’all say why are men falling behind in society while also saying why should men follow societal norms? If you don’t follow the social norms, you won’t succeed within the bounds of them. Men are opting out of society precisely because there's no incentive to do so anymore. Most men don't get the benefits of a modern society, whi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 08:07 AM
2	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? Why should men obey to the social conventions? It's not like we are getting something for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 07:45 AM
1	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? Because men and women are not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 07:35 AM
2	The problem for all of us is sex itself. I actually like being a man, and I don't want to end up sex- and genderless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 06:43 AM
7	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? Women across all cultures tend to follow social conventions and laws (written or unwritten) way more willingly than men, hence why a large population of (unemployed) young man is a threat to the stability of any state, whilst the same is not true for a huge amount of (unemployed) young women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 06:22 AM
2	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? Most men are willing to tolerate any mental disorder in their partner, whilst women are not. To answer your question, pick any mental disorder and most women will have it vastly easier to find a relationship than most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 06:20 AM
–	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? You have something free? I'm not willing to pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 06:17 AM
–	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? Source, especially for the male part?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 06:09 AM
–	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? The projection of most women in this thread is stunning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 06:08 AM
–	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? It wasn't until I was roughly 16 that guys were actually interested in me. Which is more than most men get, let alone neurodivergent ones with something like yourself have. ADHD is a death sentence for a young man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 06:06 AM
2	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? But they're nudged into this direction nonetheless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 06:02 AM
1	Is it more difficult for guys to get sex than it is for a relationship? For the vast majority of men, this is just straight out false. The average man and the average woman are not even remotely comparable when it comes to access to sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 01:48 PM
1	Is it more difficult for guys to get sex than it is for a relationship? It would be easier for both of us if you'd tell me your thesis right away instead of playing this childish games.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 01:36 PM
1	Is it more difficult for guys to get sex than it is for a relationship? Are you trying to troll me? Nothing in this world is easier for women than to get sex from guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 01:18 PM
2	Is it more difficult for guys to get sex than it is for a relationship? Yes, get sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:38 AM
5	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? It's almost like there is a kind of great...placement? Replacement?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:31 AM
2	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? recessive/weak cultures will simply perish. That's how evolution works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:28 AM
3	Is it more difficult for guys to get sex than it is for a relationship? From a female perspective yes, there is nothing easier for a woman to get sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:23 AM
2	Body count disparity That's like a walking meme lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 09:59 AM
0	Body count disparity I find it interesting how some women interpret certain sexual acts as no 'real' sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 09:51 AM
2	Body count disparity You think it's realistic that a women will have no more than 2 more sexual partners on average past 27?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 09:43 AM
3	Body count disparity It's also not more than 100, or 1000 or 10.000. So why mentioning that specific number? Still, even half of that, 5 partners during college is nearly as much as an average male gets during his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 08:55 AM
6	Body count disparity That's not my experience. Yes, women are more open, yes nearly all of them had one or two hookups, but not more. True sluts (for the lack of a better term) are rare even here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:48 AM
1	Body count disparity You're right, I've misinterpreted your comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:11 AM
3	Body count disparity For the average to be 10, either more women you think are having many partners, or a few of them are having orgies every weekend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:07 AM
1	Men dont NEED casual sex Beside a grey soup containing all micro and macronutrients, we do not need anything else. But a fine meal and a good drink are amazing, still.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:05 AM
4	Body count disparity I'm not from the US, so maybe there's a disparity, but this number in early 20 seems absurdly high to me. And I'm not living in a prude country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:02 AM
4	CMV: It's not necessarily that women lie. It's just that questions are interpreted differently based on people's experiences. Of course women lie, they're human and humans lie in every aspect of their lifes. Not all the time, but still. IMO it's not that women consciously lie, but rather, they have no idea what gets them going. Just like men have issues with correctly interpreting their emotions (not every emotion is anger or frustration guys) women have no idea what turns them on in a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:01 AM
4	Body count disparity maybe i’ll have sex with 40+ people within the next year and a half lol based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 05:58 AM
12	Body count disparity A body count of 10 for a college girl (early/mid 20) is insanely high IMO. That's like 30% more than an average man gets in his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 05:57 AM
24	Body count disparity In my anecdotal evidence, even the most shy and plain looking girl had at least a few hookups in college. And I'm not even in the US, where it seems to me, hookup culture is the most present.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 05:56 AM
1	Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him? No doubt, I know a really good looking guy (who does modelling as his side income) and he has a narcissistic personal disorder, is in therapy for years and at least his parents home. I wouldn't want to switch places with him, but I'm fully aware that most good looking people are not narcissistic assholes, and contrary to the usual redditors revenge fantasy, most I've met are kind, intelligent and funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 05:50 AM
–	In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the woman Because it's an amazing song.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 01:32 PM
0	Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him? But maybe it is...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 01:29 PM
–	In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the woman I don't necessarily agree nor disagree with OP, but solipsism is no proper answer to social issues (or any issues at all).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 01:26 PM
1	What would you do if you had the ability to change your sexual orientation? I'm straight and it's just ridiculous to claim that there's less drama in homosexual relationships. Even the beauty standards are miles higher (at least for men) in the queer world. It's a common topic for gay men, that they're not feeling hot enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 01:19 PM
14	Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him? Chad probably doesn’t have the most fulfilling life as he ages. Tbh, that sounds like a revenge fantasy of a teen. Most good looking people will lead amazing lifes, that's just reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 01:14 PM