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I've not said every attractive person must be your personal favorite, but even Channing Tatum is an attractive man, 99 out of 100 people would agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:29 PM
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This is how most normal women and men want to meet Yet most of them meet via OLD these days, 2nd place is via common friends. What you're describing does nearly never happen, and is a romantic fantasy at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:08 PM
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They're only dismissive if you're not attractive enough. I've seen really cold women turning into literally little giggly girls when the guy was hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:06 PM
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And of course, they all probably have their own views of how attractive I am or am not. Nearly all people can agree on who's attractive, and who's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:04 PM
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Emrace your betahood. Whatever that shall mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:43 AM

DING DING DING we have a winner!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:42 AM
6

It absolutely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:52 AM
1

Give me a picture of you, some superficial details and by the end of the week I'll bring you at least a dozen dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:03 AM
1

I agree, but that's not what OP is implying at all. According to her logic, the society should have a deep authority over ones physical body, way beyond what we have today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:13 PM
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Mens body, mens choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:02 PM
1

Who is actually saying women should lower their standards? IMO the RP guys here only want women to be finally honest about their preferences, I've never actually read women should lower their standards. At max, this is used as a meme response, since it's actually the first thing men get to hear when they talk about their dating frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:52 AM
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Thanks mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:34 AM
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I completely agree. IMO the single most important factor TRP is teaching men is going to freakin gym, putting that fork down and getting fit. Everything else depends on that, getting physically more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:32 AM
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They never want to pay for anything because "thats unfair". Like aren't men supposed to be natural providers? I guess not. There's no problem (for me) fulfill my 'traditional' role during dating and in a relationship, if she does the same. It's not stupid or unmanly to refuse acting traditionally, if she's not willing to do the same. Men are also suppose to be protectors. But most fathers leave their families, thus not being the protector of the household Most men leave their families? So the ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:10 AM
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Yes, absolutely. However most ways of male birth control destroy a mans hormonal balance, since unlike women, there's no natural/healthy condition where a male is infertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:51 AM

You must be kidding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:03 PM
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It's only creepy if the guy is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:06 PM

Okay, where's a proof for the rest of your assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:06 PM
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I'm curious, are you currently employed full time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:33 AM

You have some serious numbers? Or is this just your usual misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:09 AM
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Stop gaslighting us, it's vastly better to have a sex live instead of being involuntary forced to live as a monk. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:03 PM
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It's way better to cry inside a Ferrari than homeless on a park bench. And it's way better to fill the void inside you while you're balls deep inside a hot blonde, instead of crying alone at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:51 AM
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Somehow this sentence comes always from people with enough sex. Just as only well fed persons can actually think food isn't that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:29 AM
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Because they have enough money to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:00 AM
0

Nothing is 100%. One of the worst aspects of post modernism is that unbearable mindset of universal relativism. But human sexuality and fluid and so are beauty standards. They're not, there is a certain window of course, but it's very narrow. Just look at how what is considered beautiful changes over time and across cultures. The standards for men are in nearly every culture close to identical though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:13 AM
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You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:10 AM
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Really? You're trying to gaslight me? Just take a look at /r/dating or /r/datingadvise , lowering your standards is literally in 9 out of 10 cases the first advise men get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:09 AM
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Being a PPD regular "Chad always commits to me" Topkek
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:07 AM
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Well, that's what men get to hear the second they vent about dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:56 AM
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Most people, IMO nearly all of them, can agree on who's attractive and who's not. There's a massive overlap of men women find attractive. To claim every human is a 100% individualistic being is just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:55 AM
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I'm not going to lower my standards. How about men: -increase their height -increase the amount of hair -change the bone structure of their face C'mon guys, it's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:53 AM
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I'm not going to lower my standards. Surprise surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:52 AM
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You're speaking for men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:47 AM
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Oh boy, you're talking meme. The moment you're out of valid arguments you attack my believed lack of sex with women. That's laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:07 PM
3

Women may also be objectively better looking. Care to elaborate a little bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:53 PM
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Are you implying men are not swiping right on basically all women on Tinder? Because that's exactly what your comment implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:51 PM
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Men are delusional about what the average looks like is the thing. Seems like men and women are playing in the same team.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:51 PM
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People (women also of couse) want unrealistic things all the time. Actually, the ability to imagine unrealistic things is a major driving force of mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:49 PM
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You have no idea of reality if you actually believe men are only attracted to 18-21 slim women. Especially men who fuck anything with a pulse, even that is optional in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:48 PM
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Most men get whatever women shows sexual interest in them. It's ridiculous to claim a notable number are even able to frequently attract hotter and hotter girls. Most men never see a pussy outside a LTR in their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:46 PM
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It's very telling you immediately jump to ad hominems once you're out of valid arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:02 PM
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True. Hence why a large part of the beauty industry advertises rejuvenating effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:01 PM
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You know exactly what the term slut means, or rather, what it is used for to describe. No man in his right mind would call a woman with 2 sex partners a slut if he has only 1. But what about a body count of 50, or ridiculously high like 100? We have a very fitting term for these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:01 AM
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The keyword here is imagination. In my opinion, a lot of men are borderline addicted to porn which creates unrealistic expectations towards women and relationships. Are a lot of women borderline addicted to romantic movies, creating unrealistic expectations towards men and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:22 AM
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Women show empathy for children and other women, not for men. It's naive to expect otherwise, regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:21 AM
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I completely agree with you. Inexperienced men should never try to enter a relationship with a reformed slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:20 AM

hahaha you're a literal meme bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:19 AM
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This shows in nearly all aspects of dating an relationships. Women want to be loved by men, not love men themselves. Women want to receive resources from men, not giving them resources, etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:17 AM
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as long as they don’t try to rape me on the first date so I guess I am the odd one out lol That sky high standards of women these days!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:08 AM
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Oh I'm not judging you, I think it's perfectly common for women to like full hair and a tall men. It's just a shame for men, since we can't do anything about these traits. Even 25% of men at the age of 21 are already balding, that's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:37 AM
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a full head of hair doesn’t hurt That's a shame, by the age of 35 around 66% of men are balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:26 AM
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But you can't experience fooling around as a teenager when you're not a teenager anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:28 PM

Jim Cerry also suffers of depression, but it's way better crying inside a Ferrari instead of a park bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:43 PM

I'm just honest, it's not my fault if women usually don't have to deal with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:43 PM

Men should stop comparing sex to travel. Why? I agree with the rest of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:43 PM

Exactly, women ususally lie about their sexual background for this reason, since they know a guy wouldn't touch her with gloves on if he knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:25 PM
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Your problem was actually starting a relationship with a women, instead of dumping her after the first few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:15 PM

This, it seems like the "empathic gender (LOL)" isn't capable or willing to actually understand the situation of average Joe, or how it differes from their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:08 PM

Imagine a guy never went out of his hometown, but a woman he dates was already all over the world, and every single place he shows even the slightest interest in get's shut down "I was already there and didn't like it". Do you understand why this can be frustrating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:07 PM

It's perfectly fine she decided she would do anything (hot) guy A wanted in her 20s, just as guy B decides he won't spend a single second on dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:04 PM

But the end result stays the same, most men should just suck it up being used in their 30s and not even considered sexual beings in their 20s. That's basically what your comment boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:56 PM
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You don't realistically speaking. Just like there is no possibilitiy to turn back time, these lost years are, well, lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:43 PM
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No reply from her, as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:27 PM
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Logic and human instict often contradict each other though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:24 PM
1

I don't believe a single second you've seen a single university, at least not for history lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:24 PM
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You don't seem to understand the concept of systemic problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:37 PM
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His options are staying alone and staying alone while getting ignored on Tinder. Result stays the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:48 AM
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There are no individualistic solutions to systemic problems. And dating is systemically fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:40 AM
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People can change. A woman could have gone through a fuck around phase and decided it didn’t work for her, then switched to a no-sex until 10 date rule, or 90 day rule, or whatever. Don’t get mad at people trying different approaches just because you missed out on a phase you like. And men can stand up and go once they get to know she fucked a guy 15 minutes after meeting him, whilst letting you wait weeks for even a kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:37 AM
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Especially the burned as witches part. Women en large were never in history burned as witches, not because they're women. Nearly half of all burned witches were men, and again, never was their gender a reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:29 AM
2

But most women (or most people in general) can't identify the dark triad traits. That's why they're different from 'usual' disorders like depression, ADHD or autism. They fuck your social life, whilst dark triad people actively use these social tools to their advantage, people with autism doesn't even understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:21 AM
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You were not referencing history at all, but a made up boogy man that only exists in your head. That's why I called it pseudohistoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:16 AM
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Ironic, you're blaming white people whilst the vast majority of interracial crime is white victim, poc perpetrator. Since I'm not interested in discussing race dynamics, I'd prefer to stop here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:35 AM
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is already reality, most women show their interest very obviously, if they're actually attracted to said man. and 3. should be indeed change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:22 AM
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You're pseudohistoric anecdote served what purpose exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:44 AM
3

This may be true, but men tolerate even untreated mental disorders way more than women. Telling a woman in the early dating phase you have a mental disorder is a guaranteed death sentence, whilst the same is not true in reverse, at least not to the same amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:38 AM
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That may be true, but the vast majority of women, and clearly way more than men, submit to social conventions and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:35 AM
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Why would there be a prize and what would that prize be? A woman? A job? Respect? In the past yes, being a working respectable man would surely lead to a family. How can y’all say why are men falling behind in society while also saying why should men follow societal norms? If you don’t follow the social norms, you won’t succeed within the bounds of them. Men are opting out of society precisely because there's no incentive to do so anymore. Most men don't get the benefits of a modern society, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:07 AM
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Why should men obey to the social conventions? It's not like we are getting something for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:45 AM
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Because men and women are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:35 AM
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I actually like being a man, and I don't want to end up sex- and genderless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:43 AM
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Women across all cultures tend to follow social conventions and laws (written or unwritten) way more willingly than men, hence why a large population of (unemployed) young man is a threat to the stability of any state, whilst the same is not true for a huge amount of (unemployed) young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:22 AM
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Most men are willing to tolerate any mental disorder in their partner, whilst women are not. To answer your question, pick any mental disorder and most women will have it vastly easier to find a relationship than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:20 AM

You have something free? I'm not willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:17 AM

Source, especially for the male part?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:09 AM

The projection of most women in this thread is stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:08 AM

It wasn't until I was roughly 16 that guys were actually interested in me. Which is more than most men get, let alone neurodivergent ones with something like yourself have. ADHD is a death sentence for a young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:06 AM
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But they're nudged into this direction nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:02 AM
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Who ever ever ever said this like what the freak, Tell me you're mentally 10 years old without telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:58 AM
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Sure, if you can tell me it would be methodologically possible to find out. Since you're suggesting the possibility most people suffer from clinical anxiety is even remotely true, it's up to you to provide any form of evidence. No, sounds like the person saying that kind of crap is the one with issues That's exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:02 PM
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For the vast majority of men casual sex is practically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:00 PM
1

Since you seem to be incapable of forming whole sentences I'll help you: Men have more sex than anyone. How does this make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:57 PM
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Okay, did you ever consider that anxiety might be the default for most people? Source? What makes you believe this would move any responsibility from women? "Oh, she's just an asshole because she suffers of anxiety, it's not her fault for treating you like a dog". Does this make it clear?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:53 PM
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More than what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:52 PM
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For the vast majority of men, this is just straight out false. The average man and the average woman are not even remotely comparable when it comes to access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:48 PM
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I didn't assume anything, I'm not the one claiming something. Usually the one who actually claims something has to provide any source for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:37 PM
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It would be easier for both of us if you'd tell me your thesis right away instead of playing this childish games.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:36 PM
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Are you trying to troll me? Nothing in this world is easier for women than to get sex from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:18 PM
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Whilst I'm not an old veteran (about 3 years of gym experience) I've never seen a woman in any gym I were who wasn't either with her SO or staying exclusively in the women area. You're not describing reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:12 PM
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On dating apps, yes, Source for that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:00 AM
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It seems like the majority of women have BPD apparently then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:57 AM
3

But having sex nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:50 AM
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If the guy is attractive this will be interpreted as a confident look.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:42 AM
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Yes, get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:38 AM
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It's almost like there is a kind of great...placement? Replacement?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:31 AM
2

recessive/weak cultures will simply perish. That's how evolution works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:28 AM
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From a female perspective yes, there is nothing easier for a woman to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:23 AM
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For men swiping less is just artificially decreasing your chances even more, without gaining anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:19 AM
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Then why do you suggest all asshole women online suffer from anxiety (just another way to move any responsibility from women)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:18 AM
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Some men are deemed creepy way before they even spoke their first word, what could be the decisive factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:17 AM
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Imagine saying you're a straight woman and are attracted to attractive men FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:16 AM
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This a hundred times. 1. be attractive 2. don't be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:15 AM
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It's absolutely delusional to advise sports clubs/gyms to meet women. Most gyms here will throw you out immediately if you're harassing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:14 AM
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I'd like to hear an answer to this reply from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:08 AM
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They should be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:08 AM
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Did you ever consider your personal situation is not even close to be the default for most people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:06 AM
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That's like a walking meme lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:59 AM
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I find it interesting how some women interpret certain sexual acts as no 'real' sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:51 AM
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You think it's realistic that a women will have no more than 2 more sexual partners on average past 27?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:43 AM
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It's also not more than 100, or 1000 or 10.000. So why mentioning that specific number? Still, even half of that, 5 partners during college is nearly as much as an average male gets during his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:55 AM
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Acting traditional around non traditional women is idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:55 AM
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That's not my experience. Yes, women are more open, yes nearly all of them had one or two hookups, but not more. True sluts (for the lack of a better term) are rare even here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:48 AM
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Do you have any idea how physically exhausting nursing and service work is? How many overweight servers do you see? Do you even respect physical labor at all? What percentage of all working women are employed in this fields? How can you speak this way without inviting criticism of the pale, hunchbacked, sedentary nature of computer science? Are you sure you want to have this conversation? You're doing alright with that much foam coming from your mouth? I have two Master’s and masons and carpente…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:19 AM
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You're right, I've misinterpreted your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:11 AM
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For the average to be 10, either more women you think are having many partners, or a few of them are having orgies every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:07 AM
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Beside a grey soup containing all micro and macronutrients, we do not need anything else. But a fine meal and a good drink are amazing, still.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:05 AM
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I'm not from the US, so maybe there's a disparity, but this number in early 20 seems absurdly high to me. And I'm not living in a prude country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:02 AM
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Of course women lie, they're human and humans lie in every aspect of their lifes. Not all the time, but still. IMO it's not that women consciously lie, but rather, they have no idea what gets them going. Just like men have issues with correctly interpreting their emotions (not every emotion is anger or frustration guys) women have no idea what turns them on in a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:01 AM
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maybe i’ll have sex with 40+ people within the next year and a half lol based.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:58 AM
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A body count of 10 for a college girl (early/mid 20) is insanely high IMO. That's like 30% more than an average man gets in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:57 AM
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In my anecdotal evidence, even the most shy and plain looking girl had at least a few hookups in college. And I'm not even in the US, where it seems to me, hookup culture is the most present.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:56 AM
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No doubt, I know a really good looking guy (who does modelling as his side income) and he has a narcissistic personal disorder, is in therapy for years and at least his parents home. I wouldn't want to switch places with him, but I'm fully aware that most good looking people are not narcissistic assholes, and contrary to the usual redditors revenge fantasy, most I've met are kind, intelligent and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:50 AM

Because it's an amazing song.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:32 PM
0

But maybe it is...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:29 PM

I don't necessarily agree nor disagree with OP, but solipsism is no proper answer to social issues (or any issues at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:26 PM
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I'm straight and it's just ridiculous to claim that there's less drama in homosexual relationships. Even the beauty standards are miles higher (at least for men) in the queer world. It's a common topic for gay men, that they're not feeling hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:19 PM
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Chad probably doesn’t have the most fulfilling life as he ages. Tbh, that sounds like a revenge fantasy of a teen. Most good looking people will lead amazing lifes, that's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:14 PM
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