Complicated_Business Archive

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3	I asked her out today, she told me she had a coffee with a friend but they’d love If i join. What do i do? Not sure if this is helpful, but here it is. I met a girl at a meetup once and we clicked pretty well. I got her info and invited her out and she accepted. What was supposed to be a brief 30 to 45 minute get-to-know-you coffee turned into a 2.5 hour caffeine frenzy as we had so much more in common than we realized. One of the things we bonded over was our dorky fandom of MST3K. She invited me to come with her the following week to a meet and greet with the original cast and I was stoked. However…	/r/seduction	02/04/24 02:20 PM
53	Best job for young Men Good luck making friends with the bartender at $10 / night.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 02:48 PM
1	Should men still cold approach women? As long as you follow rules 1 and 2	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 12:52 AM
-1	"Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it? Half of the truth	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 02:44 AM
69	Cold Approach Kinda deflates your point if your one and only cold approach example is pure fiction.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/22 06:00 AM
1	What do you think of Jordan Petersons claim that “marriage is for children”? "The problem I had growing up was that my parents were in a committed long term relationship and shared responsibilities in my upbringing." - no one ever	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 12:46 PM
5	Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview? Despite it's length, this isn't an actual conversation. This is a hit piece and in a hit piece you rarely cede ground. There is no exploration going on here and it's a waste of time. I thought the explosion of long form podcasts was precisely because it was antithetical to this nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 01:46 AM
2	How to deal with a low effort person? Three text rule. After three texts, you're done and it's on them to follow up. Just stick to that and you'll be fine.	/r/seduction	11/10/22 01:28 AM
42	Her friend is way more my type You ask for a threesome. The first girl gets grossed out. But when she tells the second girl, she'll be flattered because you wanted to include her. Then you can date the second girl because the first girl says, "Good riddance!" It's a perfect plan, Jerry!	/r/seduction	01/09/22 02:33 PM
1	I think the idea that men have it easier time getting relationships is incredibly false. 2014 timestamp	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 05:30 PM
0	Help me heal guys!! Women are so weird. They want the guy to approach. Then they warn other girls when they see a guy approaching.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 07:54 PM
8	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) Pornhub makes it look inevitable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/22 08:48 PM
10	Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and loneliness Meetups. Just about everyone in a meetup that is socially oriented is single and looking. Go find one, even if it's not something you're into. Let them know you're trying new things. Actually try to learn the new thing. Then practice casually flirting.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 02:04 PM
19	Does the average guy really not get casual sex? Average compared to what? In some online studies, women rate only 20% of men to be "above average". The 80% below them would - by a man's standard - contain many "average men". But in no way are those men having comparable sexual partners to their female counterparts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 03:36 AM
4	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Rage and morality have become synonymous. If you're not angry, you're immoral.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 05:10 PM
2	Went on my first proper date - report & analysis I don't get you younger cats. If a girl checks her phone I'm like, "Who texted ya?" If it's a friend or something, I can bounce off of that, asking how they met, what do they like about them...that sorta stuff. But if I get something like, "No text, just checking something." I'll end everything in five minutes. She's not interested, and I'm not interested in trying to convince her otherwise.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 05:50 PM
0	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? Ah, the "Everyone who is a public intellectual who thinks different from me is a grifter" line...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 05:50 PM
2	Is this a good text to ask a girl out? The "No Dad" thing is totally screwing you up here. Get involved with something where you're hanging with strong, good male role models. Go join a weightlifting group. Find a group that does those rough mudders. Start doing MMA. Do all three. If you don't get something soon, you're going to get hammered in the dating scene. Women date men, not their cute younger brothers. And as much as your mother loves you, she can't teach you to act, talk, and think like a man. And she'll never be able to tea…	/r/seduction	31/05/22 05:11 PM
2	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? Imagine the elastion you feel when someone says, "I love you," and means it. Sex feels like that...with an orgasm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:38 AM
2	Why do a good amount of women like being degraded by men in bed? Women are so unlike men it's unreal. I have never had a thought or experience akin to this. "Man, taking responsibility for so many things is so stressful. I wish a women would choke me right now to make me feel safe." I mean, I'm glad for the differences and I'm glad I get to boss in the sack. It's just so weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 09:18 PM
-1	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me Men are more immature on average than women, especially up to about 30. So a 30 year old dude might not be on the same maturity level of a woman his age. It's more the norm than not that women date older men and conversely, men date younger women.	/r/seduction	01/04/22 02:36 PM
1	Women love it when men impress them Never go full r-worded-ed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 05:23 PM
29	If you were a man, how would you get a date with a woman? 6'2", fun lifestyle, debt free, own my car, 6 figs, dog owner, a little underweight at 185lbs but otherwise healthy... Tinder says, "Fuck you, you're outta likes for the day. Do you want to pay to see all of the the bots that matched with you?" This game be rigged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 02:20 AM
8	Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens? Shy men are always "hunting".	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 11:28 PM
1	Has anyone ever been absolutely destroyed by a relationship that only lasted a month or so and cannot bounce back? It's tough to hear, and you can't build your entire outlook on it, but with beautiful women like what you're describing, the following mantra should help you keep your expectations in check: She's not yours, it's just your turn.	/r/seduction	08/03/22 07:18 PM
1	Struggling to find and start coversations therefore our connection didn't improve any but I found out a little more about her. Bro. Women are women. None of them are turned off by Chris Hemsworth because they're the "innocent type".	/r/seduction	26/01/22 10:23 PM
2	Struggling to find and start coversations therefore our connection didn't improve any but I found out a little more about her. Don't be friends first. Most women know if they wanna sleep with a guy inside of a few minutes of meeting them. Chances are this has come and gone. She's not going to reconsider because you're friends. In fact, being friends will make it harder to reconsider. Get good fitting clothes, get jacked, and live a big cool life. Follow rule 1 and 2.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 08:31 PM
3	Struggling to find and start coversations therefore our connection didn't improve any but I found out a little more about her. Hit the gym. Get nice fitting clothes. Get your grooming together. If you do the socials, remove the bad pics of you and start replacing them with good pics of you having fun. Let her start asking you questions about what you're doing for the weekend, not the other way around.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 07:45 PM
1	Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrong I think you might be interpreting this wrong. You didn't fall for anything. Guys are the ones who have to pursue women and ask them out. That's what he did. There's no shame in him asking and there's no shame in you rejecting him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 05:16 PM
5	When it rains, it pours sperm in one basket...	/r/seduction	17/01/22 11:57 PM
31	Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you? The best I've ever been with was when I was 33 and she was 40. God, I miss her.	/r/seduction	11/01/22 03:31 PM
2	This girl who I’ve wanted since I was in 8th grade ( she was a senior in high school at the time ) told me her friend wants to have a three some with me. Just shave your junk beforehand in case it all goes well.	/r/seduction	24/12/21 04:27 AM
2	Are women really chasing after guys out of their league? Does every post on Reddit need a qualifying clarification? It's like, if someone said that Basketball players are tall, the top comment is has to be about Mugsy Bogues and Spud Webb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 03:43 AM
19	To those who have successfully shot their shot to famous actresses or models, how did you do it? ???	/r/seduction	01/12/21 07:59 PM
–	Why do guys need sex to feel validated? Men chase, women choose. Without being "chosen", the chase is incomplete.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 11:59 PM
1	What do you think a Red Pilled man actually is? DiCaprio is prolly a red pill man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 01:25 AM
323	[deleted by user] If it's your idea, then you need to take a second and get honest with the situation at hand. Chances are as soon as you sleep with someone else, your relationship with your bf is over. Just saying you want an open relationship probably already lit the fuse to the dynamite that will end it. If you're serious about maintaining a relationship with your current bf, help him get laid first. Or at least wait until he makes it happen for himself. But, if you're like the 99.9% of every other 21 year old…	/r/seduction	07/11/21 12:53 PM
385	[deleted by user] Was this your idea or your bfs idea to start an open relationship?	/r/seduction	07/11/21 03:55 AM
2	26 years old. Making big changes in my life. Never had GF, Sex or Kiss. But that’s changing. Should I tell women about my lack of experience ? I advise against this. I was a late bloomer and revealing my lack of experience - no matter how far along in the dating process - always backfired. I'm not going to psychoanalyse all of them, but the women were uncomfortable with being "the first", so late in life. I eventually met a great girl, didn't say shit, and finally got it all over with at 33 years old. I told her afterwards, after a few more nights together. She said she had no clue and frankly, hearing that was better than any kind of …	/r/seduction	29/10/21 05:32 PM
1	I feel like i cant be sexy Don't ignore plastic surgery. Every single celebrity gets it and in moderation, can do wonders. If your jawline totally sucks, this might be a relatively easy fix. Don't ignore fashion. Unique looking people can look awesome if they have a unique style to go with it. Too often, we dress to hide our bodies. But clothes look better when they augment them. Go spend some extra money, and get someone who knows what the fuck they're talking about to help get a look/wardrobe started for you. Don't igno…	/r/seduction	27/10/21 10:01 PM
2	[deleted by user] Just say you need to know by the end of the day, otherwise you're making other plans.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 11:22 AM
2	Is 24 too early to get a vasectomy? They're reversible. It's never too late.	/r/askTRP	04/10/21 07:09 PM
7	"Dont be friends with girls" Only be friends with the girls to which you're comfortable talking about your attraction/relationships with other girls, and their attraction/relationships with other guys. If that isn't comfortable, bounce because you're not being a friend, you're being a dick in a glass jar.	/r/seduction	30/07/21 06:00 PM
1	I think tonight I will ask out the girl I like from work. Don't. You should be able to flirt enough to get your answer without doing this.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 08:40 PM
6	AWALT kicks in after 2 years of plating She's a millionaire now, maybe he's playing for a cut.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/19 01:14 PM
6	Dealbreakers I like to joke I want to find someone smart enough to have a conversation with, but dumb enough to want to date me.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/19 04:21 PM