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Outer Game Comprehensive-Ad3016/r/seduction11/09/22 12:53 PM
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(girl last night was like 5’1”) How do you actually make out with girls like that though? Having to either strain your neck or bend your knees is so uncomfortable
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:43 PM
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I would say height doesn't really matter if you are between 5'6 and 6'1, there aren't any major advantages or disadvantages to being just average. I'm around 5'10-5'11, below-average looking (I have been improving my physique, style, dental care and skincare though), and I am doing just fine at clubs. If you are self-conscious, you can always just wear some boots with insoles that make you 1-2 inches taller.
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:41 PM
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To add to this, also start mewing and chewing hard gum if you haven’t already to make your jawline more defined.
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:37 AM
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Exactly! So many unattractive guys are like ‘oooh im ugly it’s over’, but that’s not true. As a somewhat ‘ugly’ guy (been improving my physique and style though), sure I don’t get the best results but I still do get occasional results.
/r/seduction13/11/24 04:10 PM
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Yeah but cold approach isn’t seduction so what skills do you learn or need from that?
/r/seduction11/11/24 09:46 AM
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Most of the time when I’ve been with girls at clubs, we hardly talk at all. We just make eye contact, smile and grind or make out with the occasional words. There was one time when I made out with a girl at a bar without saying ANYTHING to her. I didn’t even know her name 😂
/r/seduction10/11/24 09:13 AM
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Hey dude, I can see why you think you might be ugly, but I'll tell you right now that you look 'normal'. As somebody who's somewhat 'ugly' myself (I have a somewhat asymmetrical nose due to a birth defect, but I have been told I have pretty eyes though), I've had a pretty miserable experience back in 2015-2021 where I didn't really try to approach girls at all and just assumed that I was 'creepy'. The main thing is that your expression and behaviour in the pictures comes across as somewhat 'hope…
/r/seduction07/11/24 06:53 PM
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In some countries (such as Poland, Romania or the Chech Republic), being non-white (exotic) is actually a pretty polarizing (both positive and negative) as well.
/r/seduction07/11/24 06:37 PM
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Exactly! If you got somebody from a club or bar, she's most likely drunk/high and she doesn't care about any guy she's hooking up with. However, the morning after, you have massive regrets (it doesn't even have to be about you personally, but rather the fact the slept around with another guy at all), and she doesn't want to have any attachments. It's likely that she's just horny, desperate and drunk in the moment and doesn't care in the moment. It's similar for guys with 'post nut clarity'
/r/seduction05/11/24 08:43 PM
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Boho/hippie chicks are the ones that do it for me.
/r/seduction01/11/24 11:21 AM
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“ Countless other times their boyfriend or husband shows up out of nowhere and wants to kick my ass for talking to his woman.” I honestly don’t understand why somebody would take their wife or girlfriend to a nightclub if they can’t handle other guys talking to her smh.
/r/seduction30/10/24 10:07 AM
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Damn… I’ve never seen a club with a shared bathroom ever (at least not in Western Europe). Do you usually go to bigger clubs (like 300+ people) or something more small scale (like 30-50 people)? I kinda wanna try something like this when I go to a festival though, where Ill bring somebody back to my tent or hotel room close by.
/r/seduction30/10/24 09:53 AM
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“I usually just like to fuck in the club toilet or something“. Ive been wondering about this, how do you logistically pull that off? Aren’t you worried about security seeing you go in or other guys raising an eyebrow when a girl enters the guy’s bathroom? In fact, I cannot even imagine fucking any girl at all in a bathroom, the positions to make it work would feel really awkward to me. The only thing I can think of would be a separate handicap toilet room rather than a small stall, but I highly …
/r/seduction29/10/24 10:29 PM
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I don't really know though, because height DOES give an advantage and guys that are insecure about their height will likely feel more confident wearing shoe lifts than not wearing them. The thing is that no matter what your height is, you'll always get a benefit from being taller. I'm 5'9-5'10 myself, and I do wear shoes to make myself appear as 5'10-5'11, and considering getting shoe lifts to go up to 6'0-6'1. However, I would still wear them even if I was 4'8, 5'2, 5'7 or even 6'1. The only in…
/r/seduction21/10/24 11:14 PM
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EXACTLY! Seduction for a hookup is pretty much like marketing/selling a product, and products all do this to a certain degree. As long as you don't overdo your shoe lifts (like not adding more than 2 inches), I highly doubt girls will even notice or care after you've taken them home.
/r/seduction21/10/24 11:09 PM
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Badoo was AMAZING back in 2015-2018, even when I was 190 lbs with a double chin, terrible pictures, terrible fashion sense and 3 nasty birthmarks used to get matches on there. Around 2019-2020 it became INCREDIBLY monetized and overall just got worse and worse.
/r/seduction16/10/24 08:35 PM
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Where do you live though, because I don’t think I’ve ever seen a guy approach a woman IRL at all outside of clubs/bars.
/r/seduction14/10/24 09:00 AM
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Here is some advice Stand up straight (posture) become leaner (I think 160 lbs at 5’7 is fine-ish but I think you wanna be around 150lbs? Don’t quote me on that though). in pictures, play around with angles and settings to make yourself appear taller. wear monochromatic clothing, ideally with vertical stripes. apply hair gel if you’re not bald.
/r/seduction11/10/24 03:05 PM
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I just give myself goals and directions on what to do in the short term. Currently, my goals are to get 2 instant dates from cold approach on the same day, to bring a girl home with me from a bar or club, and to make out with at least 6 girls at a festival. Long term, I’m not really thinking about marriage just yet. Maybe when I turn 32 I’ll think about it, but at 27 it’s not really something on my mind.
/r/seduction11/10/24 02:51 PM
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Yeah, there are also various ways how you can appear taller in person as well. Stuff like getting lean, standing up straight, wearing monochromatic clothing with vertical stripes and also getting thicker boots (not just shoe lifts, but stuff like chelsea boots during autumn/summer or thick fur boots during the winter), and if you are at nightclubs, festivals or bars just position yourself further away from the taller guys.
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:06 PM
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Exactly! And if you want to go the extra mile, wear some shoe lifts to give you an extra 1-2 inches (or chelsea/desert boots with shoe lifts which will give you 2-3 extra inches). If you are 5'6 normally, you'll get up to 5'8 with shoe lifts and you can put 5'10 in your dating profile.
/r/seduction10/10/24 01:13 PM
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Totally agreed! The worst rejection I’ve ever had is something ‘sorry not interested’ or ‘GO AWAY!’ (Which was when I approached at a school party by tapping her on her shoulder from behind), but most of the rejections I got were something like ‘ah that’s really cute, but I am busy / I have a boyfriend’, and then you just move on with your day. Chances are, if you’ve approached a woman (or another man for that matter), you’ll very likely end up making their day.
/r/seduction06/10/24 08:38 PM
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As a rule of thumb, you should compliment things that they can control and that they've purposefully done to get attention like their outfit (especially colors/prints and general vibes)
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:56 PM
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It is a more pessimistic look based on the data from https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F3x6esre9rzl81.jpg However, this is only based on women that have the premium version of Bumble, so this likely only includes around 20% of the total woman users on Bumble. It is very likely that the actual estimated number of likes could be a lot higher than what I've outlined, but I wanted to provide a more pessimistic look (and even in that instance, 60 likes over 48 hours is still r…
/r/seduction30/09/24 12:23 PM
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Here is the thing though, since he already got 200+ likes, it's very likely that he would still get a fraction of these numbers even if he were 5'4 or something. Edit: Originally I had an estimation of how many likes one could receive at different heights, based on the 200+ at 6'0 which was based on the data from https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F3x6esre9rzl81.jpg (bear in mind that you need to have Bumble premium in order to set a height preferrence). However, my intent…
/r/seduction30/09/24 12:03 PM
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I think the most amount of people I ever talked to EVER was 20, and that was at a networking event, and I felt exhausted afterwards. The most amount of girls I ever approached in a day was around 5, and around 8 at a club/bar. I cannot image ever approaching 50 in one night. I am planning on going to a party town with a friend in October though, so maybe I can just go from bar to bar and approach 5 girls at 10 bars each? The most bars I've ever visited in a night is 3, so this'll be fun haha
/r/seduction29/09/24 06:52 PM
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How old are you? Did you already graduate?
/r/seduction27/09/24 11:40 PM
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Meanwhile my gay friend who just stays at home every weekend and meets people on Grindr…
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:06 PM
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As a tip, ask if they would like to go out on a date before you get their number. “Hey I do gonna go, but would you like to grab a coffee some time?” If she responds positively, you can ask for her number.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:46 PM
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I know that Bumble has a rule against that, but do shirtless pics still work on Hinge?
/r/seduction21/09/24 08:19 AM
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Here is my preferrence. "So I do gonna go soon, but how does a coffee (or whatever) some time this weekend sound?". Alternatively, something like "It was nice meeting you. Let's keep in touch." "Sure, why not?" (or however she decides to respond). "Well, you know what to do" while handing her your phone. And then you just continue talking about whatever the two of you were talking about prior, and I also like to stay for a little bit to 'finish' the conversation so to speak.
/r/seduction18/09/24 06:35 PM
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You can ask it to evaluate separately for body and face, but getting a 4.8 and 5.8 is honestly not that bad especially since you have room for improvement. The average is 5/10, so being at 4.8/10 (or even a 4/10) is honestly fine. Sure, you’ll need to put in effort for dating but it’s not hopeless.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:05 PM
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That’s primarily on dating apps, and while woman do have standards IRL it’s not nearly as extreme as on the apps.
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:23 AM
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ChatGPT also has a feature where you can browse between public GPTs, you can look for ‘looksmaxxing AI’ and upload a picture of yourself there and ask it for a rating and what you can do to improve. I personally thought that I was ugly primarily due to my crooked nose (due to a birth defect, I have a picture on my profile, it’s kinda old though), but when I showed myself to the Looksmaxxing AI it gave me a huge laundry list of stuff that I could improve on. It’s also highly unlikely that you are…
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:20 AM
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I have a 41-year-old friend who's average looking, but he's hooking up with 21-50-year-olds quite frequently on the apps, which is primarily due to the fact that he has big muscles.
/r/seduction10/09/24 10:13 AM
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Bruh exactly same situation here. I went to a mostly male-dominated college (applied mathematics) and even when we did go to other countries for trips with our fraternity, we rarely had any sort of intense action. The closest I had was when we went to a club in Portugal, and a girl from my class that was about to drop out hugged and kissed me and said 'I really appreciate you' (not even 'I like you or anything').
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:34 PM
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I feel like that’s most of Europe though.
/r/seduction30/08/24 09:33 AM
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Doesn’t the navy have a reputation of a lot of gay stuff happening? I guess it would be time to stop suppressing my bisexual urges?
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:01 AM
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Off-topic but what is your weightlifting routine? I have 6 months of free-time coming up soon and want to dedicate at least 2 hours per day 6 days per week to the gym
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:15 PM
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I don’t get the ‘don’t post shirtless pictures’ sentiment at all. It’s not like you wake up with a good body one day, it takes EFFORT to get something like that. Covering up your abs is like having a massive trophy collection and storing them away in the basement. Also one thing I should add is that you wanna get shoe lifts to raise yourself by 2 inches or any way to look taller. Are you technically ‘cheating’? Yeah, but ‘angels that don’t lose to devils that do’ (I can’t remember where I got th…
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:57 AM
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Ah, we’re actually going from 20-23 of September (one of my friends is staying longer in Aruba than expected). We’re 25-27 years old.
/r/seduction04/08/24 06:01 PM
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For how long will you be staying there? I'm planning to go to a hotel near Amsterdam (close to the beach at Amstelveen) with a few friends in 2-3 weeks from now. If you want, we can meet up
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:54 AM
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It could work, but the main issue is a lot of Swedish guys tend to be quite attractive and charming so the competition is quite fierce
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:52 AM
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Poland, Hungary, Latvia, Portugal. You can also have some success in Scandinavia and The Netherlands (mainly in Amsterdam during the summer though)
/r/seduction26/07/24 08:11 AM
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I think it's also if they have big earrings but I'm not too sure on that
/r/seduction18/07/24 09:04 AM
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Yeah I feel the same as well, but I just don’t want to damage my brain and liver. I really wish there was any sort of alcohol without the nasty side-effects
/r/seduction17/07/24 07:56 PM
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How young would you consider 'young'? I am currently 27 years old, so I don't know if that would be consider 'young' or 'old'? Also, where do you tend to find older woman with drinks, because most of the time when I go to a bar or club, I usually just see 20-30-year-olds.
/r/seduction17/07/24 03:26 PM
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First of all, how old are you? I am 27 years old myself, and I do really feel like I don't want to drink too much either. I find optimal time for night game between 9 - 11:30ish. Where do you generally live? Because where I'm from most bars/clubs open around 10:00 PM the earliest, and usually many people show up around 11:00 PM. Maybe I'm just not looking for the right venues? Once it passes midnight, for me at least, if I am drinking too much, sure I lose my inhabitions, but also things like de…
/r/seduction17/07/24 03:24 PM
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Exactly, so if somebody like me at 5’9 can still make out with random girls at bars/clubs, there’s no real excuse for you not to go out and at least attempt stuff.
/r/seduction17/07/24 07:29 AM
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I thought he was sarcastic/joking when he kept saying that my style looked stupid 😭
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:38 AM
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Just as a bit of a tip, if you are balding just shave it off completely (unless you already are, judging by 'I keep my head razored').
/r/seduction15/07/24 01:05 PM
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I would even reckon that 0.05% of people are a 9/10.
/r/seduction15/07/24 08:56 AM
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What is your gym routine and age?
/r/seduction15/07/24 08:54 AM
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I also suck a LOT at this at well, which is why I vastly prefer clubs over bars or daygame just because you cannot mess up by saying the wrong thing. I am mildly autistic so it’s quite difficult to get a conversation going (even with my friends and family).
/r/seduction14/07/24 08:06 AM
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I have adhd and mild autism. I have 56 mg methylfenidate, and I am usually very quiet and reserved during the day but when the pills wear off I can talk A LOT. The issue is that some of the stuff that comes out of my mouth can be really weird and random.
/r/seduction13/07/24 06:01 AM
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Bruh you legit look like you went from a boring 45 year old to a 26 year old.
/r/seduction12/07/24 07:05 AM
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Exactly! I feel like the hardest part of getting a hookup at a club or bar is from the approach to making out. The moment you’re making out with somebody, I would reckon there’s an 80% chance of you having sex later in the night (or at the very least, the girl’s already thinking about having sex with you).
/r/seduction11/07/24 05:44 AM
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Where do you live? Depending on your city and country, you can expect different results. Also, it depends on the app as well. From what I’ve heard, Hinge is the best dating app but I’ve personally had the best experiences with Bumble. If you want to, you can DM me your profile and I can take a look at it (granted, I’m only getting around 5-15 likes per month but I wanna get a better physique before I take more pictures)
/r/seduction11/07/24 05:39 AM
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Is this mainly a thing in the US? Or does this happen in Europe as well? I feel like the main limiting factor is that you don’t really live in a dorm in Europe, but the majority of people stay at home with their parents.
/r/seduction10/07/24 07:27 AM
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Here’s the thing, we’re not denying the fact that if you are facially unattractive it will be more difficult. However, the key take-away here is ‘more difficult’ and not ‘impossible’. While it is unfortunate that you became less attractive due to puberty, you still need to play the hand you’re dealt (you can still win Poker with a 2 7 unsuited). While you won’t be having a constant supply of girls throwing themselves at you, you can still get a few girls here and there. From what you’ve describe…
/r/seduction10/07/24 07:16 AM
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Here’s what I’m curious about. At a house party, you kinda do ‘know’ eachother (or at least, you have mutual friends), so wouldn’t it be seen as weird to hit on people that you vaguely know? There was one time at a house party in high school when a girl flirted with me in the hallway, but I turned her down because I was afraid of what would happen if the other people saw us.
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:50 AM
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Ive been wondering about stuff like that. Lets say that you’re still somewhat young (like 26-27), would it be ‘weird’ to show up at random college cafes even if you’re not a student there but you are still in college (about to graduate)
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:47 AM
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Damn, looked like I missed out on college. My school was just a small technical college, with 80% guys and 3 frats (which were dictated by your study anyways). I’ve only really been to 3 house parties (2 in high school, 1 in college), and I had most success when we went abroad to Portugal and Poland. I do remember one night at a club when it was hot so I took off my jacket and one of the girls there screamed, ran up to me and hugged me but I didn’t make any advances. Are there any ways to get in…
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:31 AM
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Would you say that 27 is still fine-ish to be able to go to house parties (still in college, about to hopefully graduate next year)?
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:21 AM
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Funnily enough, I actually have a gay friend that routinely fucks guys that are married and their wives are fine with it.
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:48 PM
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Ive actually had more success on Bumble than Hinge weirdly enough. I feel like my issue is that pictures should have a ‘prompt’ associated with them on Hinge and I just make them extremely generic. Mind it I were to DM you for further advice?
/r/seduction08/07/24 12:30 PM
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Honestly, if your parents are fine with it you can just take them home. In my family, we’re pretty open about sexual stuff, so it doesn’t matter for us at all.
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:38 AM
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Dude I’m 5’10 and born with a fucked up nose due to a birth defect, and I still managed to make out at bars/clubs, went on dates and gotten laid. Also what do you mean you can’t join a frat? One of the people in my frat looked like a ‘cliche nerd’ in every aspect, and guess what, he also got laid.
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:34 AM
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/r/seduction07/07/24 09:11 PM
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Feel free to DM me your contact info :)
/r/seduction04/07/24 05:26 AM
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Yo dude, I’m in the Netherlands as well. I haven’t really been able to focus too much on girls due to my internship but I do want to give it a shot again after I’m done with my internship. I’m likely not going to be much use as a ‘wingman’, but I have pulled at clubs and bars before (never gone to festivals though).
/r/seduction03/07/24 06:28 PM
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EXACTLY! I’ve never even once considered my height until people on the internet started talking about it
/r/seduction03/07/24 06:24 PM
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My ‘golden zone’ for alcohol is 2-3 beers.
/r/seduction03/07/24 08:35 AM
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Wouldn’t there a massively skewed ratio is guys:girls at those parties anyways?
/r/seduction03/07/24 08:32 AM
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As a question, how much attention do you get from girls whenever you go out to clubs or bars (if you go out that is)? I would reckon that since it’s a darker area, your ugliness wouldn’t really be that apparent. Also, are you from the US or Europe? I feel like dating and hooking up in the US is a lot more difficult than in Europe from what I’ve heard (I’m from the Netherlands). What dating apps have you tried? I’ve personally used Bumble, Happn and Feeld. I want to make a proper Hinge profile wh…
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:26 PM
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Funnily enough ‘shave em dry’ was recorded in 1924.
/r/seduction28/06/24 09:22 AM
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‘Ugly’ guy here (I have a crooked nose, weak jawline and dry skin), and I’m doing decently. My main advice is to improve the aspects of your physique that you can improve, like your body and fashion sense. Even though there is this sentiment that your facial attractive matters most, the keyword there is ‘most’ and you can compensate with your body. Unless you are ugly to the point of being hideous (which you most likely aren’t; I’ve personally seen thousands of people in my life, and only one wh…
/r/seduction28/06/24 09:11 AM
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Technically, if you know how to play Poker optimally, there is a positive expected value because you’re not playing against the house.
/r/seduction28/06/24 08:54 AM
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Yeah it’s just sooo annoying especially when most public transports starts up again at 6-7AM
/r/seduction17/04/24 08:48 AM
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Ive actually been using Badoo a few years prior and it was really great. However, the quality of both the girls and the app itself has gone downhill massively from what I’ve experienced.
/r/seduction10/04/24 12:18 PM
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And to add to this, don’t fall into the trap of thinking “I’m ugly anyways and even if I get ripped it won’t matter”. Even IF you are ugly right now, losing weight will slim up your face and make you more attractive. Plus, taking shirtless pictures can help on dating apps (especially if it’s a ‘normal’ picture like at a beach or pool instead of a mirror selfie).
/r/seduction06/10/23 09:36 PM
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Ive been approaching girls myself for a few weeks now, but I still feel somewhat terrified before I make the approach. Whenever I see any girl that I’d be interested in approaching, I’ll just get a mad rush of terror which leads me to not approaching half the time and just settling for a simple ‘hi’ instead as I pass by them. My main issue is that I am not the best looking guy out there (primarily ugly nose and no chin/jawline at all (even at a healthy weight)), and even though I have dated and …
/r/seduction29/06/23 05:59 AM
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