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2

Smh
/r/seduction23/06/26 11:54 AM
7

That means that she wasn’t very interested.
/r/seduction03/05/26 04:31 PM
7

Why didn’t you pull her off the app and ask her out in the first few messages?
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:58 PM
5

Exactly!!! You’ll be surprised at the amount of women who say they rarely get approached in public. You set yourself apart just by cold approaching.
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:02 PM
27

It doesn’t matter how many times you say this, they will never believe it. It’s a numbers game!!!!
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:30 PM
7

If a woman gives you a shit test, that just means she thinks she is better than you. Let that sink in…
/r/seduction27/04/26 09:43 PM
11

I just don’t get it. Why don’t these guys use texts to set up a time and a place to meet the woman? The phone is supposed to be used for setting up dates.
/r/seduction27/04/26 07:46 PM
2

OP. You said that he doesn’t use any “Game” that is completely wrong. He does use game. Being able to recognize if a woman is interested in you during a conversation is using “Game”.
/r/seduction27/04/26 09:06 AM
3

You just have to put yourself out there bro. Just start taking action. Use dating apps, go to bars, singles events, etc…
/r/seduction27/04/26 06:25 AM
1

You’re welcome. I’ve met a lot of cool women on there.
/r/seduction27/04/26 06:18 AM
1

Just use FB dating. It’s an app. I’ve had some success on there.
/r/seduction27/04/26 06:14 AM
0

Yup
/r/seduction26/04/26 07:33 PM
28

That’s the game in a nutshell. You’re supposed to find the women who are into you from the beginning. It’s supposed to be easy, if it’s not easy move on.
/r/seduction26/04/26 03:15 PM
2

I actually think this is true. If a guy made it his mission to approach 100 women in a week, he would see a lot of improvement in a short amount of time.
/r/seduction26/04/26 12:24 PM
1

Idk man. A lot of guys would still be afraid to approach a woman in a one on one situation due to the fear of rejection.
/r/seduction26/04/26 12:10 AM
2

It’s because he’s able to recognize the women who are naturally attracted to him. He knows his type and the type of women who gravitate towards him. That comes through experience and practice.
/r/seduction25/04/26 05:27 PM
2

I think it is easy depending on your mindset. The main problem is that most guys fear rejection. If a guy could get past the initial fear of rejection, he could get laid. It’s a numbers game so he might have to talk to 10 women, 50 women, or 100 women. If he talked to enough women, he would eventually get laid.
/r/seduction25/04/26 05:25 PM
10

That’s your answer right there lol. A lot of women are down to hook up at clubs/bars.
/r/seduction25/04/26 05:22 PM
4

As a man you should always be dominant and take charge in bed. With consent of course!!!!!
/r/seduction25/04/26 05:21 PM
2

That’s the main issue though. You have a lot of guys/kids who watch the looksmaxxking videos and develop a false perception of the Game. They never go outside and talk to women and get their own experiences.
/r/seduction15/04/26 10:12 PM
1

First off, quit comparing yourself to other guys in your group. It’s doing you more harm than good. Just because something doesn’t work out with a particular girl doesn’t mean you’re losing. Always remember that you’re gaining experience every time you approach no matter the outcome. That should be your mindset. You’re doing a lot better than most guys out here, most guys are afraid to even approach women. Just keep approaching and it’ll eventually fall through for you. You have to remember that…
/r/seduction15/04/26 12:00 AM
2

That’s the problem. You need to increase your volume. If you’re in college you should be at least talking to 5 women a day. You gotta get your reps up bro. It’s easier in college, due to the abundance of women.
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:53 PM
1

How many women have you approached this week? Or are currently talking to?
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:47 PM
-4

This is sad. A grown man complaining about not getting p*ssy🤦🏿‍♂️
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:21 PM
1

What was the most amount of women you approached in one day?
/r/seduction14/04/26 01:42 AM
1

Point blank period. If a guy went out and talked to a few hundred women in a month, he would start to pick up on things and a lot of stuff would become second nature to him.
/r/seduction03/04/26 02:48 PM
3

This is true. As a man you have to go against society and do your own thing. Only a weak man would allow society to dictate his actions and his agenda
/r/seduction15/03/26 03:36 PM
6

Believe it or not. Good Teeth are very important to a lot of women.
/r/seduction11/03/26 04:40 AM
2

Imagine being a grown man who’s scared to approach women smh….
/r/seduction11/03/26 01:40 AM
2

I’m gonna be honest with you, I shoot my shot everywhere and anywhere I go. The grocery store, Lennox mall, piedmont park. Literally everywhere I go I shoot my shot.
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:46 PM
18

She probably wanted to smash and thought you were moving too slow. We need more context. (FYI meeting her at a bar in person is considered a first date, so you technically went on 3 dates.)
/r/seduction09/03/26 02:45 AM
1

Exactly. I always compare approaching to gaining experience. You learn something from it either way it goes good or bad. There is no such thing as a bad approach.
/r/seduction08/03/26 10:57 PM
3

There is no such thing as rejection in my world. If a girl says no it’s her loss.🤷🏿‍♂️
/r/seduction08/03/26 10:51 PM
2

It only comes across as Creepy if the woman isn’t sexually attracted to you. End the date as soon as possible if that’s the case.
/r/seduction06/03/26 02:38 PM
17

That’s it. 5 rejections in a month? That’s nothing. I once had like 50 rejections in a month. Your volume is way too low. You’re not approaching enough women.
/r/seduction26/02/26 02:31 AM
1

By flirting and building sexual tension. You learn that through experience. You gotta go out there and talk to more women.
/r/seduction22/02/26 02:34 AM
3

Dude go get a life. This isn’t normal. You’re worrying about other men too much. I’m genuinely concerned. You comment or reply on all my posts.
/r/seduction21/02/26 04:04 PM
33

You can’t, you’re not “That guy” in her eyes bro. Sexual attraction is instantaneous. A woman knows if she wants to smash you in the first few minutes. You gave her way too much attention on the front end. If you just want sex, you have to lead with sex in the beginning. Just move on. Don’t fall into the trap of chasing her. Edit: Go check out a dating coach on YouTube called Mr. Locario Op. He gives really good advice. I have to shout him out, because this weirdo below me keeps stocking my post…
/r/seduction21/02/26 03:27 PM
153

She’s not interested in you sexually. She turned down your sexual advances multiple times. She only let you titty f*ck her so she can continue to get more attention out of you. She keeps bringing up her sexual past with other guys, to keep stringing you along to feed your hope of sleeping with her one day. You can’t be more sexual in her eyes, she’s already decided when you first met.
/r/seduction21/02/26 03:15 PM
1

I always go out solo.
/r/seduction18/02/26 01:38 AM
1

How long did it take you to sleep with these women via talking on the phone or dates?
/r/seduction15/02/26 04:09 AM
1

That’s because after you gain more experience dealing with women, you start to recognize certain things. For example, I can recognize within the first few minutes of an interaction with a woman whether she is feeling me or not. That all comes with experience. The more you approach the better at reading women you become. It’s like a sixth sense.
/r/seduction14/02/26 06:36 PM
1

I don’t know why guys don’t get this. It’s a numbers game at the end of the day.
/r/seduction13/02/26 08:12 PM
1

Yes. I can definitely agree with that.
/r/seduction10/02/26 10:27 PM
1

You have to take into account that women judge looks differently than we do. Women also have different tastes and preferences. Like I previously mentioned what one woman might find attractive, another woman wouldn’t.
/r/seduction10/02/26 10:07 PM
1

I get what you’re saying, But every woman in the world wouldn’t find Tom Welling attractive. I understand that being tall and other traits are universally desirable.
/r/seduction10/02/26 10:06 PM
1

Aren’t looks subjective? One woman might find a man average looking while the next woman might find the same guy good looking.
/r/seduction10/02/26 09:42 PM
5

I’m gonna give you some advice that you probably won’t like. You’re a virgin so getting laid by next week probably won’t happen. Now if you want to better your chances go outside and play the numbers game. Go and approach 100-200 women by next week. Women are usually a little more desperate around Valentine’s Day.
/r/seduction06/02/26 02:42 AM
90

That’s a real playa move right there. Picking up right before the club closes, is a literal cheat code.
/r/seduction05/02/26 03:01 AM
2

Definitely a top spot. Simply because of the amount of tourists who come through. You could talk to new women everyday.
/r/seduction04/02/26 08:18 PM
1

Mr Locario
/r/seduction04/02/26 08:15 PM
2

Atlanta, Georgia
/r/seduction04/02/26 04:45 AM
5

Listen to this guy. He knows what the fukk he’s talking about. I went on like 20 dates last year from Online dating, most of them were from Hinge. One thing you need to do is soon after you match send them a message and set up a date ASAP!!!!!
/r/seduction03/02/26 09:35 PM
1

I agree to a certain extent. Women don’t usually get attached through sex, they get attached because of the Man they are dealing with. If that was the case, then how are women able to have one night stands? It depends on if they really like the guy they are sleeping with and how the guy makes them feel. You also build up those feelings during the non sexual attention and intimacy you give her.
/r/seduction01/02/26 06:55 PM
1

Explain why white guys make up the majority of incel population.
/r/seduction01/02/26 04:29 PM
1

This is actually pretty good advice. Except the part where good sex is the way women get emotionally attached.
/r/seduction01/02/26 04:26 PM
5

It’s always going to be a numbers game no matter what. You’ll always get rejected, it’s just going to happen.
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:49 PM
3

Find the women who are attracted to you. All women don’t like the same type of guy.
/r/seduction21/01/26 12:20 AM
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No it’s not.
/r/seduction19/01/26 12:17 PM
1

But this doesn’t make any sense. It’s a numbers game either way you look at it. Everyone plays the numbers game both men and women. You have to approach. Some guys have to approach more than others depending on their level of game.
/r/seduction18/01/26 06:44 PM
1

Ok. Just because it doesn’t work for you, doesn’t mean that it doesn’t work for anyone else.
/r/seduction18/01/26 06:37 PM
1

Do you cold approach or have you cold approached in the past?
/r/seduction18/01/26 04:58 PM
1

No it’s not.
/r/seduction18/01/26 04:53 PM
2

That’s not what I mean. I mean you start with flirting/light touching and see how she responds. Then you move on to kissing. You should know if it’s ok to kiss, based on how she is responding to you. You can’t build attraction from scratch. A woman is either attracted to you or not.
/r/seduction05/01/26 07:41 AM
1

Build chemistry 🤣🤣🤣 As long as there is attraction, there is chemistry.
/r/seduction05/01/26 07:33 AM
0

How many women did you cold approach last year?
/r/seduction04/01/26 08:02 PM
6

You have no idea my man. You fail to realize that just that women treat men that they deal with differently. Just because she is easy with one guy, doesn’t mean that she will be easy with the next guy she deals with. I’ve experienced this a few times. Get out the house and touch grass.
/r/seduction12/12/25 12:50 AM
7

A woman rushing the process doesn’t make her cheap or easy. You guys really don’t understand that. A woman being very sexually attracted to you, doesn’t make her cheap. That can indeed become a normal situation if you know the type of women that gravitate towards you sexually. Those are the women you want to take seriously.
/r/seduction12/12/25 12:41 AM
-1

No it doesn’t.
/r/seduction12/12/25 12:08 AM
151

This is the real secret. I have a homeboy who’s the same way. He always approaches women everywhere he goes, he doesn’t even think about rejection and always gets laid. Not giving an F is the secret.
/r/seduction12/12/25 12:08 AM
-1

You’re still not following her lead, if you created that situation. Hear me out. You obviously approached her via dating apps or irl. You created that situation for sex to happen, so you aren’t following her lead.
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:29 PM
1

I understand. Just be careful not to carry that trauma into the next relationship/situationship.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:30 PM
5

Did you kiss her? You should’ve said come here and give me a kiss when you get done with that lipstick.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:23 PM
7

You have to grow a pair. Women like when men (who they are attracted to) give them instructions. It really turns them on, regardless of what they say online.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:22 PM
1

Yes, but without the bitch part. You simply say are you ready? Let’s go. You’re killing 2 birds with one stone. You’re giving her a compliance test and you’re gauging her level of interest.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:18 PM
5

Noooo!!!! You’re supposed to let the woman bring up the relationship and confess her feelings for you. Not the other way around.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:15 PM
-5

She told you to sit down and you did it? Never follow a woman’s lead. You don’t know if she is dtf until you’re actually f*cking.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:14 PM
1

I understand that, but it’s obvious that he is punching above his weight. He approached 100-150 women and didn’t get a single number. Either he doesn’t have any Game, or He needs to expand his horizons.
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:48 AM
1

Ok. I’m not familiar with Seattle, so I don’t know the logistics. Women closer to your age usually shop at places like Whole Foods, Publix, or Target. Even bars and lounges are a good place. One more question. What exactly are you saying to these women?
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:50 AM
7

Ok I have 2 questions. The first question is why are you only approaching women on college campuses? And the second question is do you look 40? Or do you look younger for your age? Younger Women will date an older guy if he looks good for his age.
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:39 AM
2

🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:37 AM
1

Check my response above
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:11 AM
-1

The Game isn’t about women. The Game is about You.
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:07 AM
-4

The Game is about you and not about women. So when you understand yourself, you know what you are looking for in a woman. You know what kind of attributes and what types of things you like about women. You then just find the women who align with you and your program.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:59 PM
-12

I think the advice went above your head.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:21 PM
2

Why does that matter?
/r/seduction17/11/25 01:39 PM
3

💯
/r/seduction17/11/25 01:39 PM
2

Brother no disrespect, but you have a lot to learn about women. Just because a woman goes out with you on a date doesn’t mean that she is interested in you sexually. Women like attention from men and crave that ish like crack. A woman can be going on a date with you just for the non sexual attention and validation. You don’t know if a woman is interested in you sexually until you have sex with her.
/r/seduction16/11/25 09:27 PM
4

Of course you need to talk to get to know each other. The flirting happens during the conversation. There is no reason to want to get to know a woman if she isn’t sexually attracted to you.
/r/seduction16/11/25 08:48 PM
5

Nope. It doesn’t matter whether you want a serious relationship or not. You still have to see if the woman is interested in you sexually. Would you want to be in a serious relationship with someone who isn’t sexually attracted to you?
/r/seduction16/11/25 08:27 PM
2

Exactly. Let her know that you’re interested in her sexually. The sooner the better.
/r/seduction16/11/25 05:47 PM
62

You should be doing 70-80 percent of listening instead of talking. You should also be flirting and building sexual tension. That’s the main goal.
/r/seduction16/11/25 04:30 PM
1

He’s approached a lot of women and doesn’t fear rejection. How many women have you approached this year?
/r/seduction16/11/25 03:54 AM
4

Don’t focus on the outcome of the interaction. Just remember that no one can really reject you, if they don’t know you personally. You can only reject yourself. Also remember that the rejection is based on her perception of you, not the person you really are.
/r/seduction15/11/25 06:50 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction15/11/25 12:43 AM
12

U did great. You read her body language and her reaction and realized that she wasn’t interested. You’re developing a sixth sense, that’s going to help you the more you approach women. Keep approaching, I’m gonna follow your journey.
/r/seduction14/11/25 08:40 PM
3

You’re absolutely right. Why did someone downvote you?
/r/seduction14/11/25 06:35 PM
1

Are you serious? Just because you’re a guy doesn’t mean anything. I’ve heard a lot of stories about women setting up men. I don’t put anything past anyone. Again I agree with you. I’m just saying I would feel more comfortable meeting up in a public face versus FT. You’re right about vetting, but everyone doesn’t have that level of experience or discernment to vet women that quickly.
/r/seduction14/11/25 05:56 PM
1

I agree, but you have to look at the context. If you are meeting online for the first time, you should meet up for drinks for your own personal safety. You have to make sure that person is really who they say they are. Honestly you really wanna go on at least 1 date and the 2nd date should be at your place.
/r/seduction14/11/25 05:49 PM
1

No it’s not. This definitely sounds like it was inspired from Real Game and Theory. They always talk about this. It’s ok to admit it and give them their credit. The first few paragraphs sound like Kzaggin. The last part sounds like something Steve would Say. Why do you hate yourself young man?😂
/r/seduction14/11/25 05:46 PM
11

A woman spending time with you should be considered a luxury. Don’t just freely give out your non sexual time and attention to women. They have to earn that. Just meet up for drinks and call it a night.
/r/seduction14/11/25 05:44 PM
2

They eat like us. Burp like us and they also shit like us. The only thing about them is that they bleed once a month. Other than that they’re cool for the most part. Even when I get rejected, most girls do it in a nice way.
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:56 PM
1

They’re just women bro. They aren’t gonna hurt you 😂
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:51 PM
1

Why don’t you approach women in public and flirt in person?
/r/seduction13/11/25 12:43 PM
89

Nice job Chat GPT.
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:53 AM
1

Come on Bro, Give Locario and the real game theory panel their credit. You’re repeating what they say about cooperation all the time!!!
/r/seduction12/11/25 07:26 PM
2

Exactly. I do at least 5 a day. I live in a small city.
/r/seduction12/11/25 04:10 PM
2

I get it
/r/seduction12/11/25 02:11 PM
1

You didn’t answer OP’s question . lol
/r/seduction12/11/25 02:08 PM
1

Why didn’t you get her number or contact info? She probably wanted you to ask her out? She probably took it as a rejection. I don’t know if you can fix this.
/r/seduction12/11/25 02:07 PM
10

You have to approach them. That’s the only way you’ll know if they’re attracted to you.
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:04 AM
13

This is literally it. You never know if a woman is attracted to you, until you talk to them.
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:03 AM
4

That’s not true. You have to be sexually attractive to them. Being physically attractive is a bonus. There is a difference between the two.
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:03 AM
3

I agree, it depends on the context and The Person saying it. You see we could pull that off, because we would say it with confidence. OP couldn’t pull that off though, you could tell just by his advice.
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:25 PM
3

Exactly. And people in the comments are actually agreeing with it. SMH
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:06 PM
1

Yes it does. Why would you ask permission, if you already know she wants to kiss you. That doesn’t make any sense.
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:04 PM
2

Why would you ask permission for a kiss? That would turn a lot of women off. Women want things to be unpredictable. Instead of asking for a kiss, I would tell a woman something like “Your lips look good, I would like a taste.” Or “Close Your Eyes, I want to show you something “. Those words sound more smoother than “Can I please have a kiss”?
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:01 PM
10

Never ask if you can kiss a woman, it comes off as passive. You tell her you want to kiss her. You never ask permission.
/r/seduction11/11/25 08:53 PM
1

Bro you’re still at the right age to deal with girls in college. Most of the girls in college just want to hook up. Are you putting forth any effort? Like going out or putting time in on dating apps?
/r/seduction11/11/25 08:49 PM
1

I understand what you’re saying but, All women are easy for the right guy!!!
/r/seduction11/11/25 04:27 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction11/11/25 04:13 PM
2

Don’t forget grocery stores, bars, libraries, gyms, parks, etc. Literally anywhere
/r/seduction11/11/25 04:11 PM
2

I definitely agree with that.
/r/seduction10/11/25 06:18 PM
10

This is good advice, but if you stop interacting with women and dating you’ll get rusty. You should focus on your purpose and passion and should still date while doing so. That way you can keep your skills sharp.
/r/seduction10/11/25 06:07 PM
0

No It is a good thing.
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:30 PM
37

This is true. If OP is meeting women on apps he needs to at least meet up for a drink date for 3 reasons. 1. For his own personal safety. 2. You don’t know what she looks like, she might look different in person vs her pics. 3. If he wants a fwb that actually last a while, it’s better to go on 1 date at least. Casual hookups last longer if a woman feels some sort of connection.
/r/seduction09/11/25 06:54 PM
1

Are there any long term effects if you start taking it in your youth?
/r/seduction08/11/25 08:14 AM
11

This is true. Most of the players I know irl are short.
/r/seduction08/11/25 08:12 AM
20

Good job, but always go for the phone number
/r/seduction06/11/25 10:54 PM
1

I actually got this from My OG Player Supreme back in 2015, but nice try homie. I was listening to Player Supreme way before Locario. Locario ain’t the first person to say that. Hell my uncles told me that growing up.
/r/seduction06/11/25 03:56 PM
2

Where should I start? U went on 3-4 dates with no sex. You’re giving this woman waaaayy too much non sexual attention. You’re over investing too early. You also took her out to dinner before sex. You talk to her everyday, too much non sexual attention. Then you plan on going out to dinner again? The first date should have been drinks and The second date should have been dinner at your place. OP you’re screwed. Just remember how you start is how you finish. If you ever plan on getting into a seri…
/r/seduction06/11/25 11:48 AM
1

You already messed up🤦🏿‍♂️
/r/seduction06/11/25 11:34 AM
3

Ok. If you’re matching online, tell them to meet up with you for a drink. You can do it in 3 or 4 messages. The ones who are interested will be down with it, and the ones who aren’t interested won’t. Just remember that older women automatically know that you don’t want anything serious!!!!!! So be clear with your intentions!!!! They know you’re just looking for a good time and not a serious relationship, so don’t bs and beat around the bush. Make sure you flirt and build sexual tension during th…
/r/seduction06/11/25 07:54 AM
2

What about the World? Everyone in a relationship in the world are White and Tall? Come on man….
/r/seduction06/11/25 06:44 AM
9

I’m confused. Are you trying to meet them on dating apps? Or irl?
/r/seduction06/11/25 06:32 AM
5

Where are all these incel/black pill dudes coming from?
/r/seduction06/11/25 06:31 AM
1

They don’t have to be attractive, they just have to be fuckable
/r/seduction05/11/25 09:11 PM
3

Bro. This is the truth. You’re not approaching enough women. You’re not putting in enough work, you can’t just give up when things aren’t going your way. You have to keep pushing. You’re clearly the problem. You should be approaching at least 5 women a day. If you did that for a month straight, you would get results.
/r/seduction05/11/25 04:40 PM
0

U aren’t being consistent with your approaches. You would see better results if you were consistent.
/r/seduction05/11/25 04:29 PM
-2

How many women have you approached since you started approaching?
/r/seduction05/11/25 03:31 PM
1

If everyone in this sub would take this advice, Dating would be a whole lot easier!!!! Listen To This Guy!!!
/r/seduction05/11/25 03:35 AM
10

That’s not the point of Game. The main point of Game is knowing yourself well enough and only dealing with women who already align with you. You should be dealing with Yes Girls 80 percent of time and you should be dealing with maybe girls 20 percent of the time.
/r/seduction04/11/25 01:37 PM
20

I’ve also made similar posts and had a lot of people disagreeing with me. The Game is about finding women who are already interested in you, you’re just wasting your time trying to turn a no into a yes.
/r/seduction04/11/25 05:51 AM
41

If She’s Not Smiling At Hey, Just Walk Away!!!
/r/seduction04/11/25 05:21 AM
3

It’s crazy. I’ve been in that same situation. I’ve interacted with women who I thought were attractive, but it was just something about there energy that didn’t make me want them sexually. It’s crazy
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:38 AM
8

Well first off you have to learn how to love yourself. Thats a whole different conversation. But you have to learn how to work on and develop Your mouthpiece. That only comes from going outside and talking to more women. There’s no way past that. Start only cold approaching the women who you find attractive.
/r/seduction02/11/25 02:44 PM
25

Find the women who are sexually attracted to you off rip. It’s a numbers game. You might have to talk to 2 or 20 women. You’ll know when it happens.
/r/seduction02/11/25 01:33 PM
1

There could be a million reasons why she pulled back. My guess is that she probably met another dude on the dating app that she liked better than you. If a woman is giving you resistance, she isn’t 100 percent sure about you. U were also giving her a lot of attention by texting her on the backend.
/r/seduction02/11/25 06:36 AM
3

Trust me I’ve been in this situation in the past plenty of times. Women have told me I’m handsome and they are physically attracted to me in the past, But they weren’t ready to have sex yet. Just because a woman finds you attractive doesn’t mean that she is sexually attracted to you. There is a big difference.
/r/seduction02/11/25 02:48 AM
7

Correction. She doesn’t find you sexually attractive. A woman can find you physically attractive and not be sexually attracted to you. Ask me how I know?
/r/seduction01/11/25 11:44 PM
2

How many women are you approaching in the bars/clubs on a regular basis?
/r/seduction01/11/25 06:07 PM
20

You’re not a loser. You did good for your first party. You approached women. You did something that most guys are afraid to do. You also had women approaching you. That’s a good sign that women find you attractive.
/r/seduction01/11/25 02:26 PM
6

You gained some experience approaching and talking to women. That’s all that matters
/r/seduction01/11/25 06:11 AM
4

Go outside and touch grass
/r/seduction01/11/25 05:41 AM
8

Exactly. That’s an easy layup. Women usually don’t go out of there way to give compliments. That’s a clear sign that she is interested.
/r/seduction31/10/25 11:41 PM
16

You don’t have to wear a costume, you can go as yourself. It’s Halloween nobody gives a fuck
/r/seduction31/10/25 06:17 PM
5

If you don’t like clubs why are you going? Only go to places where you are comfortable at.
/r/seduction31/10/25 06:16 PM
22

It will work out. Just remember to stay positive, playfully flirt, and build some sexual tension. You got this.
/r/seduction31/10/25 04:19 PM
4

Bro trust me when I say this, I have a lot of experience dealing with older women, so I know. I’ve been dealing with older women since I was 19. They’re not really feeling you. Older women don’t mind dating younger guys, that they find attractive. If an older woman brings up your age as an issue, she’s not really feeling you. A lot of you guys think that older women are easier, but it’s not true. Older women have waaay more experience than you. They can sense bullshit from a mile away.
/r/seduction30/10/25 06:20 PM
1

They’re not uncomfortable that a younger man is hitting on them. They just are interested in you.
/r/seduction30/10/25 05:45 PM
-1

I’m 5’10 and do fairly well. Stop blaming your height.
/r/seduction30/10/25 05:43 PM
7

Rejection still doesn’t have anything to do with you even if you aren’t her type. Not being a woman’s type is her own personal preference and doesn’t have anything to do with you.
/r/seduction27/10/25 09:09 PM
2

Exactly. You have to focus on attraction more than seduction. Cold approach and focus on the women who are already attracted to you.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:43 AM
2

There is nothing wrong with wanting a GF. But Why do you want a GF?
/r/seduction24/10/25 12:41 AM
1

Speak for yourself. I love me a curvy woman. You sound like a hater
/r/seduction23/10/25 11:29 PM
5

Wait until Black Friday so you can catch a deal. I would say Hinge and Bumble.
/r/seduction23/10/25 06:32 PM
2

Jamaica
/r/seduction22/10/25 05:32 AM
3

How often do you approach in a day? Thousands of approaches is a lot.
/r/seduction21/10/25 09:39 PM
11

I know it was me being dumb. I never said it was her being dumb.
/r/seduction21/10/25 08:21 PM
22

We were sitting on a bench talking during our date and when we got finished talking, she said is there anything else. It wasn’t until after the date I realized that she wanted me to kiss her. I totally missed the sign until after the date.
/r/seduction21/10/25 07:33 PM
19

I don’t think it has anything to do with age. Some guys are just naturally one shot guys.
/r/seduction20/10/25 10:21 PM
2

He’s gonna learn the hard way
/r/seduction20/10/25 09:13 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction20/10/25 06:28 AM
3

You know by the woman’s actions. If you set up dates or a time to meet she’ll always be down. It’s all about her cooperating with you.
/r/seduction19/10/25 03:20 PM
3

I understand what you’re saying, but you have to remember that you as a man have to create the opportunity for the woman to make a move.
/r/seduction19/10/25 03:06 PM
2

I hope he knows this is a weird flex.
/r/seduction19/10/25 01:34 PM
4

Are you smashing any of them?
/r/seduction19/10/25 02:57 AM
1

You never complete the Game. The Game is never ending.
/r/seduction18/10/25 07:32 PM
-1

So you think that women treat all men the same way?
/r/seduction17/10/25 06:21 AM
1

You have no idea. Every woman is like that for the right type of guy. Women act differently based on the type of guy they are dealing with.
/r/seduction17/10/25 05:14 AM
2

Quit spreading fear.
/r/seduction15/10/25 08:51 PM
8

Nothing. It’s not about what you say, it’s about the person you’re saying it to. She simply wasn’t interested, there is nothing you could say or do to change her mind.
/r/seduction15/10/25 08:49 PM
1

Have you considered joining Toastmasters? It’s an excellent way to get rid of social anxiety.
/r/seduction15/10/25 12:47 PM
15

Always keep a track of your receipts. Never Delete Your Text Messages!!!
/r/seduction14/10/25 10:03 PM
1

This is true
/r/seduction13/10/25 04:09 PM
1

Pause. How did you know he was hung?
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:44 PM
1

I say I’ve been on 20 dates this year so far. Ive been on close to 100 dates in total. I’ve been in quite a few LTR too. You have to remember that it takes more game to maintain a LTR than it does to sleep with women. I’m in my early 30s so that’s not bad.
/r/seduction10/10/25 08:08 AM
1

👌
/r/seduction09/10/25 09:09 PM
1

I have my own way of doing things. I don’t do everything they teach. I’ve experienced what they teach in my own life, so I can make posts like these. Aren’t you being a bit hypocritical? I’ve seen you commenting what they teach on posts and I’ve never once seen you give them credit. At least I shouted them out in the replies. You really should practice what you preach brother.
/r/seduction09/10/25 08:57 PM
1

I’ve been a student of Mr Locario for the past 10 years. A lot of times people DM for advice on certain things I post and I Always recommend him to other people. I definitely give him credit on the backend. A lot of people in this sub aren’t ready for that type of information. They are still clinging to the PUA information. They have to be ready to receive that. He has almost 80k subs, so he’s definitely not a secret or hard to find.
/r/seduction09/10/25 08:27 PM
1

I always give them credit. I’ve received coaching from both of them. I can also tell that you listen to the same people based on some of your responses.
/r/seduction09/10/25 07:54 PM
3

But I used to be one of those guys who thought that game was about turning an uninterested woman into a woman who is interested.
/r/seduction09/10/25 06:44 PM
2

Attraction is more than just looks. It’s a combination of things like looks, behavior, appearance and personality.
/r/seduction09/10/25 06:43 PM
2

I’ve went on 6 dates last month and 2 dates so far this month. Ive been on damn near 20 dates this year. I’ve learned quite a few things just from interacting with women. I admit I do follow a few guys like Mr locario and Kzaggin20 on YouTube. Ive been going out a lot more and approaching women. I’ve also been using OLD, so trust me when I say I’ve definitely been putting in work this year.
/r/seduction09/10/25 05:02 PM
7

I know I’m ready for the pushback
/r/seduction09/10/25 04:53 PM
6

Facts. I can usually tell within the first 15-20 minutes of the date if a woman is feeling me or not.
/r/seduction09/10/25 04:53 PM
9

It’s really this simple.
/r/seduction09/10/25 02:55 PM
2

Damn That’s simply the truth. A man who loves himself would never be in that situation. A man who loved himself would move on from the first sign of disinterest.
/r/seduction09/10/25 01:28 PM
1

Why do people push back on good advice like this? If a woman is initially attracted to you, she will let the kiss happen. Why would you deal with a woman who isn’t that attracted to you?
/r/seduction09/10/25 09:35 AM
3

Facts
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:13 PM
75

This. Women have no problem getting guys. They just have a problem keeping the guys they really want.
/r/seduction28/09/25 07:24 PM
0

Yup it’s that simple. You guys just make it hard
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:34 AM
2

They have the most important quality that matters to women. That is “Sex Appeal”. Sex appeal trumps everything else.
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:16 AM
1

That’s exactly what I was saying in my post. We actually agree.
/r/seduction25/09/25 01:51 PM
4

You don’t have to do anything, just let the women come to you.
/r/seduction24/09/25 04:17 PM
0

Well. You could always consider taking cialis. That’s always an option.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:22 PM
2

I don’t know how often you watch porn, but cut back a little bit. Also start eating beets or take supplements with beets, they’ll increase blood flow. Also drink plenty of water and either take L-Arginine/L citruline supplements. Watermelon also contains these, so you always have that option. Another option would be Cialis/viagara. I don’t know the side effects, but you can easily get prescribed these online for about $20 or so. Just make sure you do some research before getting a prescription. …
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:54 PM
2

I can’t speak for anyone else, I can just speak for myself. I wouldn’t see a woman as a hoe for sleeping with a guy on the first date.
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:28 AM
1

No a successful date to me is a date where you have chemistry and compatibility with someone. I just recently got out of a LTR, so I’m currently just casually dating. I am currently not taking dating seriously. Dating is like a sport to me. I’m just dating to have a good time.
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:10 PM
0

You just proved my point. The girls that you slept with in the first couple of hours were highly sexually attracted to you.
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:05 PM
1

You’re going based off of science I’m going based off experience
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:00 PM
2

It’s crazy because a lot of what you are saying is completely true….
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:01 AM
2

Why do people keep downvoting you?🤣🤣
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:58 AM
3

Yes I have, I went on 4 successful dates last week. I am currently planning another one for this week. I know what I’m talking about.
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:58 AM
12

Interest and compliance go hand in hand. A woman who is Highly interested in you will comply with you with little to no effort.
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:55 AM
2

Bro your comment is spot on. I don’t understand why people are downvoting you. What you are saying is 100 percent correct.
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:54 AM
4

I totally understand where you’re coming from. A man’s main purpose is to find a woman who he is compatible with non sexually and sexually. Sexual Attraction is very important when it comes to setting down long term.
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:53 AM
-10

God you’re Dumb. I said a woman knows within the first few minutes if she would sleep with you, I didn’t say a Woman Will Sleep with you within the first few minutes of meeting. Reading Comprehension is a skill that many people lack nowadays.😒
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:37 AM
6

Exactly
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:25 AM
1

Do you flirt or build sexual tension when you are around the woman?
/r/seduction22/09/25 04:57 PM
5

Looks and height aren’t the most important thing when it comes to attraction.
/r/seduction21/09/25 07:36 PM
3

This!!! Women will literally say they want one thing on a dating app and switch up for the guy she finds sexually attractive. Even if women do want LTR, that doesn’t mean they don’t want to have fun in the process of looking for one.
/r/seduction21/09/25 04:28 PM
5

Exactly Game is about finding the women who gravitate towards you and your personality.
/r/seduction21/09/25 04:23 PM
7

It’s a numbers game. You could definitely do it if you approach enough women in one night. You would need to focus on attraction more than seduction.
/r/seduction21/09/25 04:21 PM
-3

Doesn’t make any sense but ok
/r/seduction21/09/25 02:14 PM
2

Snitch
/r/seduction21/09/25 02:14 PM
1

I mean in the context of her choosing the guy she finds attractive and wants it just as bad as he does.
/r/seduction20/09/25 10:59 PM
0

Why does getting sex mean a guy got lucky, if they both wanted it?
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:10 PM
0

According to some people on Reddit you shouldn’t use dating apps to hookup. Dating apps are for finding love and relationships. Use hookup apps like Down.😕
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:08 PM
3

Facts.
/r/seduction20/09/25 04:11 AM
21

Just so you know older women aren’t necessarily easier to smash. They have way more experience than you and can smell BS from a mile away. The best places to meet them are usually lounges and supermarkets.
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:43 PM
1

That’s the thing I have no problem getting dates on dating apps but I have a problem getting laid on the first or 2nd dates.
/r/seduction19/09/25 10:14 PM
1

How many dates does it usually take to get laid from OLD?
/r/seduction19/09/25 06:36 PM
31

I base attraction on interest levels. Low interest, medium interest and high interest. The neutral women would be considered medium interest women.
/r/seduction19/09/25 12:35 PM
3

I agree
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:55 PM
4

Age range has nothing to do with it. People often times get divorced or out of long term relationships in their 30s and 40s. Some of these people are looking just to hook up and nothing serious in the moment. It all depends on what that person wants at that particular moment.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:54 PM
3

So going on 2 or 3 dates is relationship territory? So if a guy just wants sex what should he do?
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:47 PM
4

Why were people shitting on my post when I said this? People were saying that hooking up and dating are 2 different things.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:26 PM
6

That’s not true.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:24 PM
1

Why am I being shamed for wanting to have sex? That’s crazy. I don’t see the problem as long as I am being upfront and honest with women. It’s like people can’t win for losing. Men get called F boys for wanting sex and some men get called incels for not being able to attract women or sex. I personally don’t see anything wrong with someone men/woman wanting to run their numbers up.
/r/seduction16/09/25 06:28 AM
1

Why can’t I have both? Is it not possible to go on casual dates and also hookup and in the process? Why can’t I got a genuine connection with a woman I sleep with? That’s what a FWB is right?
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:35 AM
1

I am trying to date and hookup in the process. This is what I normally do. I’ll usually match with a woman on a dating app and then go on 1-3 dates and usually hookup by the 2nd or 3rd date. I’m upfront and honest with my intentions from the start. I really do enjoy the company of women. That’s why i prefer to go on at least one date before hooking up. I don’t just want to use women for sex if that’s what you’re thinking. I like to converse and build genuine connections with women.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:27 AM
1

To answer your question. Yes I am being upfront and direct. I tell them I would like a FWB situation, I have been successful in the past. Why are you shaming guys for wanting sex? When women want nsa sex it’s ok, but when guys want it it’s frowned upon. Women have an itch that needs to be scratched sometimes too.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:05 AM
1

Dating apps are hookup apps. Women can’t want a relationship and hookup with guys while they pursue a relationship? Women do it all the time.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:00 AM
1

Because I’m looking for a FWB situation. I would like someone who I click and vibe with outside of sex with NSA. A pro can’t provide you with a genuine connection.
/r/seduction16/09/25 12:54 AM
6

Women love attention more than air.
/r/seduction14/09/25 03:56 PM
2

I’ll definitely trade with you.
/r/seduction14/09/25 06:01 AM
1

I’m gonna check it out
/r/seduction13/09/25 11:50 PM
2

Yes. I agree
/r/seduction13/09/25 07:28 PM
3

How long do you usually talk to the women before you meet up with them in person? Like 1 hour? 2 hours? And how long does it usually take you to set up the date?
/r/seduction13/09/25 05:47 PM
3

This is true
/r/seduction13/09/25 05:44 PM
7

So you basically build rapport with women over the phone before you meet them face to face. That actually makes a lot of sense.
/r/seduction13/09/25 05:44 PM
4

So how many dates are you going on with these women? It shouldn’t take 3 or 4 dates to smash.
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:47 PM
4

I don’t think it’s all about looks though. A lot of women have told me I’m good looking or handsome all of my life. I think it’s more of a “Energy” type of thing. Women want to look at a man and say to themselves “He Looks Like He Can F*ck”. I think having a nice stature/physique is more important when it comes to casual sex.
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:17 PM
5

This is exactly me. I’m that nice chill guy who is easy to talk to. Women are usually drawn to my personality.
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:13 PM
3

I’m gonna look into it.
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:12 PM
-1

No I could never go thru with that.
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:11 PM
8

Ok. I think I get it. Getting a good looking guy is nothing for a woman, especially on dating apps.
/r/seduction13/09/25 02:44 PM
1

Ok. I got u
/r/seduction13/09/25 02:33 PM
11

You make a great point. I understand that women usually want commitment more than sex, but in reality don’t some women desire sex just as much as men do?
/r/seduction13/09/25 02:32 PM
27

Those are the same dating apps I use. I thought that as a man you are supposed to flirt and build sexual tension during the first date. Women like to use guys for non sexual attention all the time. That’s why I thought you’re supposed to bring up sex, plus a woman doesn’t know if a man is sexually interested unless you flirt.
/r/seduction13/09/25 02:09 PM
0

You do realize that their are different levels to attraction right…..
/r/seduction13/09/25 05:55 AM
2

It’s really that simple.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:55 PM
3

This is bad advice OP. Just move on. If a woman really wants to see you, she will move mountains to see you. I understand that stuff can happen in life, but you made plans with her ahead of time she already knew what her schedule looked like in advance. She isn’t highly interested in you, just move on and call it a day.
/r/seduction12/09/25 04:51 PM
2

She wasn’t really attracted to you. I would leave her on Read and move on. Even if you do reschedule, it wont end in your favor. Just move on.
/r/seduction12/09/25 04:48 PM
1

This is my strategy. I work on the weekends so the weekdays are the only days that I can line up my dates. I’ve been on 2 dates so far this week. One on Monday evening and another one Tuesday evening. I plan on going out to a lounge tonight to cold approach some women.
/r/seduction11/09/25 07:37 PM
2

I don’t know why guys will never understand this. Op even said that he has had positive experiences with women in the past. He needs to build on that to help him with his confidence.
/r/seduction08/09/25 04:19 AM
2

Yeah. You just gotta start putting yourself out there more. There is a lot of good advice on this sub.
/r/seduction07/09/25 05:24 PM
2

I’m 5’10. Trust me it’s not your height. I know shorter guys who pull.
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:29 PM
15

This is true. The gym is like a social club especially a gym like planet fitness. I see people standing around talking all the time.
/r/seduction07/09/25 03:30 PM
16

You’re working smarter and not harder. You know the type of women who gravitate towards you. That’s the key.
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:42 AM
3

This is true. It’s like women have a 3rd eye for it. Women will notice a man and start studying as soon as he walks in the door or sometimes even before he walks in
/r/seduction07/09/25 12:23 AM
1

Thanks. I’ll add that to my repertoire
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:01 AM
4

Definitely now. I’m 32 and I swear I’ve been having the most success. It’s something about the 30s that makes dating fun.
/r/seduction05/09/25 06:26 AM
1

Let me ask you a question as a man. What makes you reply to a guy’s message out of 100 other guy’s messages? Like what makes a guy stand out?
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:33 AM
1

I never knew about the rating/ELO score. That might explain the matches I’ve been getting. I think cold approaching is a cheat code too, just because a lot of guys are too scared to approach women in public. You’re basically at an advantage. When I go out I never see guys approach women in public. I even have had girls who I’ve approached say it’s rare to get approached by guys nowadays.
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:27 PM
1

If I was 5’11 I would just put 6 ft. Women wouldn’t know the difference .
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:23 PM
1

Really I thought those were rookie numbers. I see guys talking about approaching 5 women a day on this sub. All those things you listed about OLD are true.
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:22 PM
2

My bad I misread that
/r/seduction04/09/25 09:06 PM
1

Yeah I think it better to use both. You can better your results.
/r/seduction04/09/25 08:40 PM
2

Sure I use quite a few of them. Hinge, FB Dating, Upward, Bumble, and Tinder. I have the best results on Hinge, Bumble, and FB Dating.
/r/seduction04/09/25 08:39 PM
4

I think I can agree with this. Women can actually feel your vibe in person versus online.
/r/seduction04/09/25 08:32 PM
2

That’s a great point. I guess I haven’t approached enough women if rejection still negatively affects me.
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:35 AM
2

Now that you put it that way, it doesn’t seem like a lot of approaches. I have no problem cold approaching, but how do you get past the fear of rejection? I think that’s something that I still struggle with deep down.
/r/seduction01/09/25 11:14 PM
3

This is might be off topic, but you’ve done thousands of approaches?
/r/seduction01/09/25 10:37 PM
1

You just have to push yourself to do it. Start off small first, by asking directions or something to that effect. Let me ask you a question. Do you have any problems with sending a woman the first message on dating apps?
/r/seduction31/08/25 07:21 PM
32

I’m confused
/r/seduction31/08/25 03:22 PM
-2

Exactly. I don’t know where people get this extrovert and introvert shit from. It’s only a mindset.
/r/seduction31/08/25 01:26 PM
98

27-30 is in the same age range as 32.
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:20 PM
6

I always keep at least 2 in the chamber. And one on reserve
/r/seduction17/08/25 03:51 PM
2

It’s good that you didn’t waste time on the women who weren’t interested. When a woman is attracted to you, it’s easy for the conversation to flow.
/r/seduction15/08/25 10:23 AM
8

Dominance and assertiveness
/r/seduction13/08/25 01:20 PM
1

Same here. I think getting ghosted is better than a direct rejection though. At least the trash removed itself.
/r/seduction10/08/25 04:55 PM
1

You’ve never been rejected?
/r/seduction10/08/25 04:48 PM
-1

Ok daddy
/r/seduction10/08/25 03:55 PM
4

I agree with you, but you have to remember that a lot of guys have a crippling fear of rejection. I know it sounds crazy, but I’ve talked to guys who literally fear rejection like it’s death. A lot of guys associate their personal worth with rejection.
/r/seduction10/08/25 03:53 PM
2

There is nothing wrong with fearing rejection and still taking action, you are fighting through it. That’s the most important thing.
/r/seduction10/08/25 03:38 PM
1

Yeah I’m aware that some homeless people are mentally ill. That’s not the point I’m making, I’m just saying that we shouldn’t fear rejection.
/r/seduction10/08/25 03:33 PM
3

What if he doesn’t want that? He might want to go thru a ho phase.
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:19 AM
1

You guys fail to realize that a woman has to choose you twice. She gives you choosing signals, and she also has to choose you again during your approach. If something about your approach is off or she doesn’t like your approach, the choosing signals won’t matter.
/r/seduction07/08/25 08:49 PM
2

Oh well you’re still young. It’s a learning experience.
/r/seduction07/08/25 10:03 AM
1

Great advice
/r/seduction07/08/25 03:49 AM
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He should’ve smashed that night. That night that he first met her and they had drinks was basically the first date. I wouldn’t have bothered to get her number. I would’ve escalated and asked her what was she doing later when she got off. Now it is possible that she could have been using him for attention. The only way to find out was to escalate and try to bring her back to your place or hers.
/r/seduction07/08/25 03:14 AM
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You messed up by taking her on a dinner date. She basically wanted to smash that night that you met her. It was so obvious, you fumbled the bag. Sometimes you have to strike while the P*ssy is hot. She basically set everything up for you logistically. You are giving off boyfriend energy by offering dinner dates. You messed it up with this woman, just move on and learn from your mistakes.
/r/seduction07/08/25 03:05 AM
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What are some of the most important things that you have learned on this sub? Things that can help other guys?
/r/seduction07/08/25 03:01 AM
1

Good job young man. Good job 👏
/r/seduction06/08/25 04:30 PM
3

Ask her back to your place after you finish kissing and building sexual tension. Ask her would she like to see your guitar collection. Tell her you’re good with your hands and you can show her in more ways than one. You just have to be clever.
/r/seduction06/08/25 04:29 PM
1

I’ve been is similar situations in the past. Now if I see a girl is not reciprocating interest I simply just walk away. Like the great Kenny Rogers said “You Gotta Know When To Hold Em” “Know when to fold em” “Know when to walk away”
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:30 PM
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You are forgetting one major thing though. You can’t listen to women. Women say things based on how they feel in the moment. “Women don’t lie or women don’t tell the truth, they just say how they feel in the moment.” You also have to remember that a lot of women are insecure with how they look, so that girl who you think is a 9 or a 10, would probably think she is a 6 or a 7 in her head.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:36 PM
2

Exactly!!!! It’s sad how people let social media and people behind a screen dictate how they live their lives. You have to go out in the real world and see things for yourself. That’s the only way to learn and grow.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:31 PM
1

It’s not Larp
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:29 PM
1

Damn there is a lot of Game in your comment. I hope guys read it and take note.💯
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:23 PM
1

Exactly. It’s a numbers game either way you look at it. If every woman you approached said yes, it would almost be impossible to deal with all those women at once. You would probably go crazy.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:21 PM
1

It’s obvious that Paul Janka is either lying or he doesn’t have the kind of game he think he does. A normal dude with a little bit of game can pull at least 10 percent of the women he talks to. If a man approached 100 women in a week, he would eventually notice certain patterns about women. Women are individually different, but are the same on a primal level. The guy who approaches a lot of women will start picking up on certain things and will adjust his Game accordingly. He will get better ove…
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:19 PM
1

I meant to say that I am correcting some common misconceptions about The Game.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:15 PM
1

Exactly. It’s about finding the women who are in alignment with you and your program. Those are the women you should focus on.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:14 PM
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The first step is to develop knowledge of self. You can listen to all the pickup podcasts and watch all the pickup videos you want, but if you don’t know yourself it won’t work. You also have to self awareness along with self acceptance. Accept the things that you can’t change whether it be your height, D size, or your looks. You can workout and upgrade your wardrobe. Also grooming on the regular can help too. Next you have to take action, get on the dating apps or hit up your local bar. Just st…
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:12 PM
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How do you know that? Have you spoken with every woman? Do you know what every woman around the world likes? If that guy is confident in himself and knows how to socialize he will find women who are attracted to him. You guys put way too much emphasis on looks.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:03 PM
1

This is actually false. Looks are subjective, so what one person thinks is ugly another person might find them attractive. Your looks are apart of Game.
/r/seduction05/08/25 07:10 PM
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This. I constantly see guys on other subs saying that looks are the only thing that matters in dating. That isn’t true, looks are subjective. You create your own luck, you have to put yourself out there and create your own experiences.
/r/seduction05/08/25 06:45 PM
1

I can agree with that.
/r/seduction05/08/25 06:37 PM
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So most women don’t desire the top 20 percent of men, but end up settling?
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:13 PM
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It’s true. Most women think they are more attractive than the average man. Most women also have a Disdain for men. Why do you think the 80/20 rule is a thing? Having Game levels the playing field.
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:47 PM
1

That makes sense
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:25 AM
1

Ok. That makes a lot of sense. The woman basically has to find you attractive in the first place to make negging work. I think I get it.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:21 AM
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So you should try to flirt and build sexual tension before you start negging?
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:59 AM
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Ok, but here is what I’m getting confused about. Most women in general think they are better than most men. Not just the hot women, but the average woman too. One interaction with a man who negs a woman won’t raise your value in her eyes. She already thinks she’s better than you, when she first encounters you. She is thinking in her head that this guy should be lucky I’m talking to him in the first place.
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:56 AM
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Sex should always happen by the 2nd date. You can tell if a woman is sexually attracted to you by the first date by the way she responds to your flirting.
/r/seduction05/08/25 07:52 AM
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Not true. Women have it easier on the front end, but men have it easier on the backend. Men get rejected upfront, while women get rejected on the backend.
/r/seduction04/08/25 05:35 PM
4

This. As a woman if you see a guy you’re interested in just flash him a smile and ask him how is he doing.
/r/seduction04/08/25 05:28 PM
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See that’s your issue. You are trying to pickup in a place where you are uncomfortable. You have to find spots where you are comfortable going. I’ve never been much of a club person either. I’ve always preferred bars or lounges. I like lowkey spots where the music isn’t blasting, it’s hard to communicate when you can’t hear each other. I would look into bars, lounges, and even singles events if I were you.
/r/seduction03/08/25 07:06 AM
4

Are you comfortable picking up in the club? The club is not for everyone.
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:47 AM
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I don’t know why you were downvoted. You’re actually right. Most of these are subjective, based on the woman.
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:02 AM
1

You also have to remember that “All Women Are Easy” For The Right Guy!!! Women treat men differently based on their level of attraction.
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:54 AM
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You have to remember it’s not about what you say it’s about how you say it. It also depends on who the person is who is saying it. It’s also about if the woman is feeling you or not. You can say anything to a woman who is feeling you and she will be receptive. I’ve used that line on both older women and younger women, and it’s worked on both. That’s why it’s important to gauge a woman’s interest from the start. I would start by introducing myself and then I could see if the woman will be recepti…
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:53 AM
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Yes first off it’s all about your mindset. When you flirt with women you always want to be clear with your intentions. You have to say stuff that fits your personality. Like if you see a girl in a bar wearing a dress you like, I would walk up to her and say something like “Damn Girl you wearing that dress, I don’t know why you put it on but I bet you had me in Mind”. You see I’m flirting with her and putting myself in the situation. I’m getting her to think about me in a sexual way without being…
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:13 AM
2

That’s a great answer. A lot of people won’t understand what you mean by that though.
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:31 PM
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A good starting place is learning how to flirt and build sexual tension. You have to learn how to talk to women and Not At Women. It’s all about how you make Women Feel.
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:29 PM
2

What city do you live in? Is it a small, medium, or large city?
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:42 AM
1

But a guy with game can approach women anywhere. You don’t have to go to a club to cold approach women.
/r/seduction27/07/25 02:49 AM
1

So if a a guy in his early thirties just got out of a relationship what is he supposed to do to meet women outside of his social circle and online dating?
/r/seduction26/07/25 07:32 PM
2

What’s the right age ranges to cold approach? And why does the age matter? If a guy is single, is he supposed to sit around and wait for choosing signals?
/r/seduction26/07/25 06:00 PM
3

It depends on the woman’s interest level.
/r/seduction25/07/25 12:34 PM
2

Game is never useless. You do realize that you can turn a woman off who’s attracted to you by saying the wrong things right? It would take a while to turn a woman who has medium or neutral interest in you.
/r/seduction25/07/25 12:33 PM
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