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Good for you and keep it up! A lot of Pakistanis feel inferior to Arabs. It might have something to do with Islam.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/24 06:56 PM
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Men do expect a lot of social and emotional labor from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:36 AM
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Sigh. Sounds exhausting. Monasteries are the answer. Brotherhood communes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:34 AM
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Maybe. Muscular looks good if moderate and "toned" but not the bulky body builder Michelin Man type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:33 PM
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It's gross but male hip hop and rap "artists" have said worse for several decades now. Before anyone gets on my case, I'm not talking about some "conscious hip hop" that's out there. Also death metal and hardcore punk has been degenerate for almost half a century already.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:30 PM
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" In the late 40's large scale anonymous sex surveys were conducted that found that. 77% of women had premarital sex, and 25% admitted to cheating on their husbands." --- Kinsey?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:26 PM
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Can you read? Ordinary Coconut said "men who are too eager to fight". Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:44 PM
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Americans don't have strong family ties and parents/family elders are not involved in the spouse selection process of their adult childen, unless one is from the upper echelons of society. But for families that are about pedigree and status, these concerns are still there. The question for women is: do you want to a marry a man who is not of that status? If you do want to marry a man of that status, what sort of education and career do you need to have in order to circulate in his circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:09 PM
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It's not about money. It's about education level and socio-economic status. Men from certain cultural and socio-economic backgrounds care a lot about that, so do their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:08 PM
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I don't agree that "macho men" are popular with girls. They are popular with the girls who attracted to that type. Not everyone is attracted to the same type.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:52 AM
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If you let it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:35 PM
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It's a red flag. Women seek safety for themselves and their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:33 PM
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It's a red flag. Women seek safety for themselves and their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:32 PM
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Right. It signals danger. A red flag. Women want safety for themselves and their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:31 PM
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Conflict averse is safer. Women want safety for their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:31 PM
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Are most dudes who are married "popular with girls"? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:30 PM
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Well, most men are not macho tough guys. Assortative mating is the norm. Take a walk in a crowded public space. The couples you see - are the dudes macho tough guys? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:47 AM
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Where did they get these ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:44 AM
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Some people are excessively shy. Some can't read social cues. There's so many circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:12 AM
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I can't imagine most women being attracted to "macho tough guys". That's a stereotype that is mocked and toxic masculinity is not considered cool. Who wants to be around someone that is "stone cold"? Relationships are supposed to be about warmth and affection. Singing and dancing? Young people go to music festivals to do just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:11 AM
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Who gave them this worldview? Nobody ever told men they can be 300 pounds, work at the Bell and live in grandma's basement and attract a "high quality woman" (by which I assume you mean really good looking, for starters)? It would be ridiculous, ludicrous and beyond arrogant for a man to think so. Is there a man who thinks thus?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:04 AM
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There's nothing wrong with lifelong celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:56 AM
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It may be an adaptation. It's almost 2025 and women are still getting murdered for directly turning men down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:53 AM
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A good looking face is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:49 AM
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"Those guys will have much more success throwing out some playful jabs" --- As long as he can take as good as he dishes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:47 AM
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The "data" shows assortative mating. Most couples are comprised of completely average to below-average men and and women, in terms of looks, money and social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:46 AM
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A woman will respond to flirting if she finds the man attractive and is the responsive type.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:43 AM
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What things did you have to fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:41 AM
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"Yeah ive had female friends, and not only did i learn women dont want sex, but outright HATE sex." --- They must've been with selfish partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:39 AM
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it's possible to be in love with more than 1 person at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:30 AM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so yes, it's subjective, up to a point. There are also some objective universals, such as symmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:27 AM
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What do you mean by "feminine" guys"? If a boyfriend/husband is good looking with a decent personality, why not stick around? Physical strength isn't needed in many cicumstances. Explain what you mean by "mentally weak"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:23 AM
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What "red pills" you about having female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:21 AM
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It's not obvious that people find attractive people attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:20 AM
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What do they say about male celebrities that "red pills" you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:16 AM
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"No it won't, unless you're a top of the line man, who has everything together, looks good, makes plenty of good money, generally has his life sorted? " --- Should any adult be dating if they don't have their life sorted? You don't have to be rich, but one shouldn't have an unsorted life and expect anyone to want to be a part of it. Why drag someone else into your mess?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:22 PM
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Just a million?
/r/ExRedPill15/11/24 04:06 PM
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The 4B Movement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:20 AM
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"Do you think it happens often that a 9/10 attractive man or women partners up with someone who most people would rate as 3/10?" --- No. But 5's with 8's and 6's with 9's can be spotted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:19 AM
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"they overvalue themselves and create some rationalization how this 9/10 partner is on his or her level." --- Or they formed a genuine loving relationship of shared values with a better looking partner and is "on his level" (or higher) in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:30 AM
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"Guys who are 5's need to stop bothering women who are 9s and 10s. " --- They shouldn't be bothering 7's either. If a man is a 5 he should politely (without bothering) aim for women that are between 3 and 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:23 AM
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She needs 4B.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:20 AM
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But in the USA when you go out in public you see loads of average to below-average looking and overweight couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:17 AM
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Can you explain more about that pie chart?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:16 AM
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Casual hook ups with a variety of strange men don't supply rewards for "most" women and that is why "most" don't engage in them. Women are pickier than men when it comes to who they have sex with. While men are pretty much guaranteed sexual pleasure, release and orgasm every time they have sex, women are not guaranteed any of those (at least not in sex with men). The very nature of casual hook ups is such that the men engaging in them seek their own pleasure first and foremost and therefore are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:34 PM
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Is anyone here a member of the r/4bmovement subreddit? I got banned from posting comments there (I think somone misunderstood a point I was making) and would like to get back in. I suppose I have to write to a moderator but there's no option for that. Can anyone help me? I'm a supporter of the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:09 PM
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" do you think they will vote women who don't pick them or for whatever candidate that will promise to create the environment where women are more likely to end up with them?" --- What environment would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:05 PM
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4B is worldwide. It originated in South Korea and is spreading globally. Passport bros are getting murdered in South America, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:04 PM
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Safety and peace of mind. And physical/reproductive health as addings0 said. Stats show that while married men live longer and experience better mental and physical heath than single men, it's the opposite for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:59 PM
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Correct. And Chadwicks were fitter and better looking back then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:55 PM
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"Many pornstars and ex strippers & ex OF models have relationships or go on to marriage & kids." --- Good for them. Wish them well. "Why bother? Because women are conditioned by society & biological imperatives to seek out out a mate & have children." --- Sure. Random frequent one night stands aren't the path to that. " Or to avoid being lonely?" --- Some women might hook-up a few times to alleviate loneliness but quickly find out it's not a solution to loneliness and can result in feeling even …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:59 AM
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"they certainly have an easier time finding sexual partners IF they chose to" --- Good for them. "Most" women do not choose frequent random hook-ups. Pregnancy and STD's are just 2 risks that hook-ups pose. Other risks are safety and one's own life. There's also uncomfortable and/or painful sex. Or just unpleasurable non-orgasmic sex. I already went over this in my original reply. Women just don't get the fun and pleasure from hook-ups that men do. Women are guaranteed far more frequent and inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:27 AM
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You sound quite a bit older and out of touch. You do realize that dating/hook-up apps like Tinder are sausage fests, right? "Most" women just aren't overly interested in dating apps. Even Bumble had to put up billboard ads recently begging women to literally not be celibate. LOL! "Women have more options and choices than ever before." --- Good for them, I guess? But when you take into account my previous comment where I outlined the risks these "options" pose for women, it doesn't make any diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:37 PM
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There's a lot out there about men's issues but it's not getting the same viral traction because it isn't rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:45 PM
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Brother, you are wrong to assume that "most" young women are out here rotating men in frequent casual hook ups. Casual hook ups with a variety of strange men don't supply rewards for "most" women and that is why "most" don't engage in them. Women are pickier than men when it comes to who they have sex with. While men are pretty much guaranteed sexual pleasure, release and orgasm every time they have sex, women are not guaranteed any of those (at least not in sex with men). The very nature of cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:40 PM
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"Women don't have a lot of Testerone but they have the most Testerone through their biological prime birthing years of 16-26 years old" --- Well you answered your own question there didn't ya? People don't typically marry or get into LTRs in their teens through mid 20s. So by the time a woman is in one, her T levels are declining and so is her libido. You are absolutely wrong to assume that "most" young women are out here rotating men in frequent casual hook ups. Casual hook ups with a variety o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:25 PM
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I get that. But if what they were saying wasn't lining up with your lived experience, how is it that you didn't go, "well hold on now, that's not true for me"? If someone online at the time were to tell you that your bedroom walls were pink with yellow polka dots would you have believe them as well? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:54 PM
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This was happening when you were a teenager. So in your school when dealing with other students and staff, in you own family, amongst the other people living in your area, in public spaces like parks or stores, were you ever at the receiving end of any attacks specifically due to being white and male?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:40 PM
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How did that particular content make you feel that the creators cared about what you or other men and boys were going through? Obviously they weren't talking about male prostate cancer or the causes of male suicide (2 issues you suggested that feminists could/should address).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:32 PM
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"Over their lifetime, 79 percent of men who were “made to penetrate” someone else (a form of rape, in the view of most researchers) reported female perpetrators." --- This in no way implies that "the vast majority of men who have been raped report being raped by a female perpetrator". It's saying that out of men who have been raped, there are some who, instead of being penetrated by their perpetrator, have instead been 'made to penetrate' their perpetrator. Out of this sub-group, 79% have report…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:09 PM
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Nowhere does any of this indicate that "women are nearly half of all rapists". Reread it again, this time slowly, parsing out words and their meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:30 AM
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"given women are nearly half of all rapists" Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:18 AM
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She just wasn't that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:59 AM
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" I would take it more seriously if manosphere men prioritized actual issues, not just sex and dating." Women are increasingly less and less intersted in sex and dating (with men at least) so they better just get used to it and move on to other things. Nothing is more ridiculous than a 50 plus year old man blabbing on about sex and dating. It's even more ridiculous than a teenage boy doing it. At least the teenage boy has his hormones as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:56 AM
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So what issues do men face that all humans don't face? You mentioned depression and anxiety. Mental illness is a human issue, not just a men's issue and there are plenty of women and feminists (of all genders) addressing it. It's just that their content didn't attract you because it wasn't hateful enough. Instead of seeking out healthy nuanced content that addressed humanity at large, you sought out toxic content geared towards men against women. That's a you problem, right there. Good content i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:45 AM
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Women have always been the protectors of women. We could never rely on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:36 AM
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Women have always done more protecting of women than men ever have. Women have to protect other women from men. Men don't provide protection, in general. And goddess forbid someone follow "feminist ideology". Definition: Feminism is the belief in full social, economic, and political equality for women. How evil!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:33 AM
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"It's also a true fact that the overwhelming majority of men aren't violent, and yet they also always gloss over that fact. " --- It's men who gloss over that when they retort, "but women commit violent crimes too."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:58 AM
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Men: Your Body My Choice Women: Your Loneliness My Choice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:36 AM
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Younger generations of women are doing just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:21 AM
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The vast majority of couples are comprised of very mediocre and average to below-average looking and earning men and women. I don't get how these guys don't realize that every time they walk out the door. Don't they ever look at people in public?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 02:22 AM
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"Then there’s the blackpill and next thing you know you are looking at 20K surgery for you jaw, hair, leg or whatever." --- I thought black pill was doom pill where people just lose all hope and melt into their beds though?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 02:20 AM
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Do you think the Indian joint family system is the root cause of India's sexism, misogynyy and patriarchy?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 02:00 AM
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"He garbage bag comment was to show the extent of his OCD. He struggles with it still however it got so bad that he couldn’t even touch a garbage bag to at was clean. " --- I think his resistance to your self-acceptance and the fact that you are not by nature submissive or traditional is another manifestation of his OCD. He sounds very rigid. Anyway, float the ideas I shared here to him in your next convo about it. That submissiveness and traditionalism are core personality traits that an indivi…
/r/RedPillWives10/11/24 01:58 AM
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I don't see the problem here. You say your husband is serving you by taking care of his child? That doesn't make sense. It's like you feel guilty seeing a father doing his natural parental duties. Anyway, it sounds like both of you are contributing more or less equally to the household, your children and to each other. You actually are probably doing more now that I've gone back and reread it, so relax and give yourself a break.
/r/RedPillWives10/11/24 01:46 AM
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"I'm not submissive and traditional in the way we both wanted before we were married. " --- Don't worry about it. These are personality characteristics that some people have innately and others don't (probably most don't). While some habits can change, humans cannot change our core personality traits. "I thought that was ideal and I really wanted it." --- You were young and naive. There is no reason to assume rare personality traits are "ideal". "And found that I'm terrible at it. "] --- Because…
/r/RedPillWives10/11/24 01:36 AM
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" I couldn't control the fourth thing - Facial attractiveness. If u were to speak to the old me, I'd say all these men looked better than me. (And I still struggle with this)" What do you think of this video? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D0rpiKYF3Os
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 11:39 PM
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What do you make of that "Save Indian Family" mens' rights organization? Do you think 4B will take off in India? Indian women should make it the most popular place in the world for it. And it would help bring the bursting at the seams population down.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 10:38 PM
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I said "both" work and both cook and clean. If a man expects his wife to be the only one doing these things and she does them, then honestly she is partly to blame. She can cook for herself or eat out before returning home. She can clean up only after herself. After a few days of going hungry and having to wear dirty clothes to work, he will either change or she can move on in life without the deadweight lazy bum dragging her down.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 10:13 PM
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They think he's a peacemaker and will "end all wars". They think the economy will turn around. They think the middle and lower classes will thrive. Are you living in India?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 09:22 PM
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"And then Xtianity came in, taught me to hate everything I love, " --- How did it do that? What did you love that Xtianity taught you to hate? " RP made me believe no girl would ever want to be w/ me unless I'm either ripped, rich, or hypermasculine." --- The vast majority of men are not ripped, rich or hypermasculine. And yet if you go outdoors you will be see couple after couple of average to below-average people, in both looks and income, that are paired up.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 09:03 PM
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I'm Desi too, living in USA. I actually know some women who voted for Trump. From what I surmise they are not well-versed on the issues. I think they follow websites that promote Trump as some sort of new ager who wants to unite everybody in peace and love. I kid you not. Whenever I ask for sources for their claims they tell me to google it. I don't think they want me knowing about these websites or private groups. They have zero knowledge that when he was in office last time he put Heritage Fou…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 08:58 PM
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Life gets better as we age because we become more accepting of ourselves which increases self-esteem. Please take care of yourself and get therapy if you can afford it. Do you have any loving family members or friends? Focus on your relationships with them and forget about what random stupid loser men on the internet (or off) say. Why do you care about it? There are plenty of other good people out in the world. Love yourself. You are worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:46 PM
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This is a troll. This is a man, (and very likely an Indian/Desi one) posing as a woman. What gives it away? The second to last line "womanizer". Desis often use English words that they don't understand the meaning of, completely out of context, and it's just so obvious and awkward. Indian/Desi men have been famous for decades online for imitating women (hello Priya). Why they do this the rest of the world still hasn't figured out yet but it's comedy gold and puts India on the map for shits and g…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:31 PM
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"Infact hes giving me cold shoulder and gaslighting me gone for extra night duty so not to get into fight with me. I live with his family in joint system." --- Sounds like you're desi, right? Outside of desi countries nobody knows what a "joint system" of family formation is so you have to explain that. Anyway, if you can't divorce him because of culture or fear of losing the love and support of your in-laws since your own family is dysfunctional, just bring balance back into the marriage by doi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:24 PM
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I think it's fantastic, hope it continues to spread globally. India really needs it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:19 PM
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I support 4B and hope it continues to spead globally. India really needs it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:17 PM
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They also say, "we were told women don't care about looks but that's a lie society sold us". When the hell did "society" ever say women don't care about looks?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 05:08 PM
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What is the R slur word?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 05:03 PM
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The 4B Movement is spreading globally. Younger women are less and less interested in having babies or even sexual relationships with men at all. Right wingers everywhere are crying about population implosion. They think these laws will increase the number of babies. They are wrong.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 04:56 PM
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Younger women increasingly do not want children, or sexual relationships with men at all. The 4B Movement is spreading.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 04:50 PM
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"Now this was sometime before the redpill conjoined w/ ultra-conservative Christianity would wreck my self-esteem." --- Can you explain this further? When, how and why did the 2 conjoin and how did it wreck your self-esteem?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 04:43 PM
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I swear these dudes never leave the house. Everywhere you go in public there are mostly average to below average looking (and earning) couples. Literally EVERYWHERE.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 04:40 PM
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The hyper masculine alpha chad is attractive to other men way more than he is attractive to women.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 04:39 PM
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Protection from what?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 04:36 PM
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Doesn't everyone want a spouse who works and cooks and cleans? Single people who work jobs have to come home and cook and clean for themselves so why should that stop after marriage? Both work jobs, both cook and clean.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/24 04:35 PM
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"The key is having more than your woman. More status, more resources, more skills you can teach..If you can combine this by being genetically gifted i.e attractive, you're bringing in a lot already." --- That's maybe 1% of men. And even those men get left by women.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 01:54 PM
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"So you think that there shouldn't be social consequences for cheating? " I don't know what country you're in but in the USA there already are social consequences for cheating.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 01:41 PM
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Her insecurity over not being Arab or European is a real thing.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/24 08:24 PM
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She's a middle aged Pakistani woman with no husband or kids. In her culture that means LOSER. I don't agree with that but that's what Pakistani culture says. Because of this she has low self-esteem and puts other women down to feel better about herself. She's nowhere in her own culture so she rides the Red Pill podcast carousel 'round and 'round in order to fit in somewhere. The only people that fall for her b.s. are these podcast bros because they don't know anything about her culture and can t…
/r/ExRedPill04/10/24 01:00 AM
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And yet she's a middle aged woman with no husband and kids which is very rare in Pakistani culture. Rumor is that she is divorced so maybe she had one of those awful arranged (forced) marriages as a girl to an old Pakistani "uncle" (who was her cousin). She's full of hot air. Below is a copy-paste of another comment I posted that explains her background: She's a British-Pakistani Muslim daughter of immigrants. Moreover the specific region where her family immigrated from is PoK, Pakistan occupie…
/r/ExRedPill04/10/24 12:50 AM
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"They do however get extremely intimidated by intelligent Arab women. Sadia has even admitted that before too." Arab racism toward South Asians/Desis is well known. Desi Muslims (like Sadia) feel insecure about that and try to copy Arabs, pretend to be Arabs, downplay their Desi heritage, etc.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/24 12:37 AM
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" He was adamant that women divorce because they are whimsical and gold diggers." --- The vast majority of men have no gold to dig. This man is flattering himself and other men.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 04:01 AM
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"Hope that I wouldn't end up a beta" What do you mean by beta? Aren't betas the regular people who keep the world running through steady work? What's wrong with that?
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 12:42 AM
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"Dude, porn has been around since the first cave drawings." Please, you know I'm talking about the online porn industry. Don't be obtuse. And if you think the pain is being "acted" you are wrong. Listen to some interviews with porn and ex-porn actors. The physical, mental, emotional pains are real. So are the STDs and a whole host of other problems. It's an industry that preys upon very vulnerable people. Moreover "consent" is not the be-all/end-all of sex. Attempted murder should never be on th…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/24 12:36 AM
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Who's "most people"? Have you polled the globe? Whether it is real or fiction makes no difference (and it is real, by the way, it's not like a movie where sex and violence are faked, the sex and violence is actually happening in porn). Either way, girls and women are reporting en masse that their dates and boyfriends are strangulating them (mistakenly called "choking") with no prior warning, discussion, consent, nothing. Even in first time sex. Porn is a problem even if some choose to be in deni…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 08:54 PM
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Porn is a part of what gave these dudes entitlement attitudes, along with other late-stage capitalist industries and symptoms.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 08:28 PM
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Rollo Tomassi is a funny one. He was invisible for many years, never showed his face, then when he was invited to speak at 21 Convention for the first time people were stunned by his looks. Not in a good way. There was disappointment all around as the men who swallowed his kool-aid were expecting something... else.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 07:26 PM
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"Gender is only a social construct in regards to language — such as “all cats are she, all dogs are he, all babies are she, etc.” This is the first time I'm hearing this. I've never heard language used this way.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 07:23 PM
2

Boomers were hippies, counterculturalists and revolutionaries in their youth. Not all of them, but that was the theme of the 60's and 70's. I find most "boomers" more progressive than a lot of younger generationers. At least in my social circle.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 07:20 PM
6

"I can't even fathom WHY they have so much hatred towards women in them." The internet and porn has raddled their brains.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 07:14 PM
4

Online porn has raddled men's brains.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 07:13 PM
9

"Body count". LOL! They have this belief that women are comparing minute details of every man they've ever been with to their latest partner. The brain doesn't work that way.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 07:11 PM
8

"They're also a core group in the opiate epidemic and the elderly male suicide epidemic. Not to mention the prevalence of crippling alcoholism." --- Yep. And they say "society doesn't care about men's problems. Society tells men to not cry and open up." But it's the Red Pillers telling men this and telling them not to seek out professianl mental health help because the industry is "gynocentric" and they'll just get some blue haired feminist therapist who will tell them everything is their fault,…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 06:41 PM
4

The thousands, maybe millions, of men who fell for PUA scams back in the day have already realized this. Red Pill has crashed and burned. The RP influencers now are just rehashing old PUA jargon to a new generation for clicks, views, subscribers, money. It never worked and it never will. But this new generation can't find the old content so they think it's a "red" pill, something new. They will crash and burn soon enough.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 04:52 PM
2

" Such people rather than getting sucked into stupid red.pill ideology would.make better use of their time.and energy getting into labour organizing." BINGO!!! Imagine if all the time, money and human energy that went into this crazy online subculture went into labour organizing! The naive Red Pill and SAHGF followers wouldn't have to turn to grifters for "meaning" or fall for their scams thinking it will evenutally get them a bag (which it never does). Their bag would come from a better economi…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/24 11:34 PM
1

Right but it takes that kind of woman to put that kind of man in his place. Otherwise these toxic dudes just keep meeting (targetting, actually) women who they walk all over.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/24 11:28 PM
23

Red Pill and SAHM content is designed to make people feel bad about themselves and their lives so that they will give these "influencers" their time and money. It's all a grift to make them rich.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 08:40 PM
3

It's very empathestic. It's tough love. If her bf learns from the break-up and evolves as a human being because of it, that's the best thing for him.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 05:16 AM
2

I know you said you love your bf, but why not break up with him for the time being? If he evolves and gives up this alpha2.0 bs., then go back to him. If not, take time to grieve and mourn a lost love and then... move on.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 05:14 AM
1

Wait til these guys get hit with Shera Seven's followers. They'll get exactly what they deserve!
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 05:12 AM
13

So you've overheard him talking to guys on the phone or what? If he thinks men are better than women then he should have a boyfriend, not a girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/24 10:27 PM
1

"People like robert green talk about seduction as a process of creating some kind of uncertainty and mystery towards your women" Isn't his book written for both men and women? So if a man is being mysteriously uncertain, and the woman he's being that with is also mysteriously uncertain... then?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/24 08:16 PM
2

Tell him he's got some unresolved childhood trauma that a professional therapist can help with and that you are not a theratpist. Then give him the number of one in your area.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/24 08:10 PM
5

Exactly what ideas has he adopted?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/24 08:05 PM
3

What is ENM and alpha2.0? What did you do in your situation?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/24 07:49 PM
1

"Anything under 6ft is a ”manlet” according to most Americans" You've interviewd "most Americans"? The term "manlet" is not in common parlence here.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/24 05:19 PM
1

It's the OP who sounds like English is not his first language.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/24 04:38 PM
9

Their toxicity is a major part of their unattractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 11:52 PM
17

Both of them are so unattractive I can't imagine any woman going for either one.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 01:38 AM
0

Looks do matter in this world, there is no doubt about it. Studies have shown that good looking people are given more job opportunities and everything when compared to unattractive people. While some people say "there's someone for everyone" that's simply not true. Some people go their entire lives hoping for that and it never happens.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 02:52 AM
1

Hmmm... if such came out of Sweden I'd be suprised. But 1 out of 3 men in USA? Not so much. We've currently got an "educated hillbilly" running for Vice President making disparaging remarks about "childless cat ladies" in his public speeches. I wouldn't really call the USA a "feminist country" per se. Especially not now with what's happening to reproductive rights and all.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/24 07:21 AM
2

"Keep in mind that these are highly educated men, likely from privileged backgrounds who were raised in feminist countries" No they were not raised in feminist countries. It says "The research, published in the scientific journal Violence and Gender, presented mostly white male American participants" The ONE country was USA.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/24 07:09 AM
6

"In the context of the US I think the majority of women are actually looking more for and participating in hookup culture and one night stands more than they are looking for a relationship." No doubt there may be some women doing this but not the majority. One blatant reason is that 1 night stands are not pleasurable for women. They are not orgasming from them. Men who participate in 1 night stands are notoriously famous for being bad in bed. And men in general are not great in bed until they ar…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/24 07:05 AM
6

Why do you think they go "radio" silent after msging you first? Maybe they are bots.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 03:33 AM
6

"I stopped because a girl who I really liked but treated like shit found someone else." You deserved it. I hope she's with someone who deserves her.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 11:54 PM
2

Maybe you are over-estimating your own looks?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 11:51 PM
3

It's become common for a woman to get a "what's wrong with you / why do you take it so seriously / are you frigid" if she doesn't "put out" quickly. From toxic men, maybe.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 07:39 PM
4

We're social creatures so "sex on day one" should be had? That is the topic, as per the title of your post, not "beloved partnership".
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 07:36 PM
22

If there was 100% guarantee of safety, health (no chance of pregnancy or STDs), and 100% chance of orgasm, more women might do it. As it stands now, there is close to 0% chance of any of the above, so why bother? Women experience all 3 just by staying home alone.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 06:56 PM
1

Is this made out to be a weird or unusual thing by some people? I mean the not having it?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 06:34 PM
2

Day one? What is day one? The first date with a stranger?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 06:10 PM
5

Personality?
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 04:47 PM
1

" A 6/10 girl can boost up to a good 9/10 if she treats her man right" But he's most likely a 5 or less.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 05:41 AM
0

What skin tone does Tyrone have? How about Chad? What are you talking about here? Are you playing dumb or are you just simply... dumb?
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 05:29 AM
2

And Sadia wants women to bring their A game for these dudes? What does she think women will gain from that?
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 05:25 AM
0

Kids using soldiers for a come up? What does that even mean?
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 05:18 AM
12

Most people are average tho.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 01:16 AM
31

All one has to do is step outside and see all the average and below average looking men who have partners to know that "normal" women are not rejecting "normal" men.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 10:10 PM
-1

Gaston?! LOL! Who the hell is that?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 10:08 PM
3

Also, I think it's important I mention this. Red Pill often says the reason why women are cool with not dating is because they have so many options. I think the reality has to do with the fact that they have great social lives. Many men don't have great social lives full of friends they see often and adventure. Right. Girls trip and girls night out are common but you rarely hear about a "guys trip" or "guys night out". Men need to develop strong social circles with other men.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 06:37 PM
3

You need to de-center sex. It is just one part of life, not all of it. You give it too much importance.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 05:17 PM
1

I'm not sure what that commenter's intentions were, but it might be worth asking your cousin to self-reflect and explore if his venom towards women could have anything to do with him being assigned female at birth. There seems to be an inner child in there that needs healing.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 02:57 AM
1

"He said he respected my need for space but would not give it unless I basically validated his misogyny" What!?!? He said he wasn't gonna let you go and keep calling you until you agreed with him?! Anyway, people will continue to drop out of his life until he learns to act right.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 01:32 AM
2

He's probably taking too high of a testosterone dose. I've heard that makes FtM transpeople go a bit a crazy. Talk to him about his medications. Before he transitioned was he a self-hating female? He also might be experiencing trouble in dating. Cis-het women might not find him "passing" enough. Has he ever dated transwomen? What is his view of them? They might not find him passing enough either. Or does he date gay men? Gay men also might not find him passing enough. All of this outrage may be,…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 01:19 AM
5

A woman from work asked you out?! That's rare. Are you very handsome or something? Anyway, if a woman asked you out I think you don't have to worry about her being your last chance. You just need to learn how to relax and go with the flow. Join a meditation group.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 01:09 AM
4

So he wants to use her for sex and she wants to use him for favors.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/24 03:32 PM
2

Yes they are. Pakistanis, Bangladeshis, Nepalis, Indians, and Sri Lankans are all Desi. It's a term for South Asians.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 02:21 PM
6

I wouldn't say it's strange. It's pretty normal, I think. When you've got hormones raging and just want sex and a girl who can very easily "give it to you" denies you, it actually feels like you're being cheated. Hold on here. Why not just be direct with them? Why the deceitful work-around? You can't get mad at someone for not "giving you" something you didn't ask for. And this "a girl who can very easily give it to you"... So whether or not she wants to have sex with you doesn't matter?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 04:29 PM
1

Is meetup.com still around? It's a great portal for meeting people in your general area for various local events and meetup groups based on interests for everyting from meditation to biking to potlucks to you-name-it.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 04:08 PM
6

So they complain about "women's entitlement" then insist on paying for dates. After paying for dates they expect sex in return. When women say sex is not owed in exchange for dinner, they get mad. But then they also get mad if a woman offers to pay for dinner.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:34 PM
3

I think they think 3rd wave is 2nd wave?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:24 PM
9

" I actually thought being "nice" to girls was a way to get them to like you. Flatter them, make them feel good about themselves, be there as a shoulder to cry on. But when they'd inevitably friendzone me, I would get mad." So you did all that to get sex? Friendzoning you means they do like you - as a friend. That is what people do for their friends; flatter them, make them feel good about themselves, and be there as a shoulder to cry on when needed. It's strange you would get mad at a friend wh…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:22 PM
9

Um, what?!
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 01:51 AM
1

" I actually thought being "nice" to girls was a way to get them to like you. Flatter them, make them feel good about themselves, be there as a shoulder to cry on. But when they'd inevitably friendzone me, I would get mad." So you did all that to get sex? Friendzoning you means they do like you - as a friend. That is what people do for their friends; flatter them, make them feel good about themselves, and be there as a shoulder to cry on when needed. It's strange you would get mad at a friend wh…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 01:49 AM
5

That used to be a thing. But now Red Pill want women to pay on dates. I would say some even expect it. They see it like, "oh you're equal to me now?! ok you owe me."
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 01:36 AM
8

"Hates his mom." Depends on the culture. Some of the worst statistical outcomes for women are in countries where practically worshipping your parents, especially the mother, is part of the culture. A prevelant quote is "paradise lies at your mother's feet" not "paradise lies at your wife's feet". "Talks about how feminism was fine until the 3rd wave" Don't you mean 2nd wave? That's when "radical feminism" became a thing. Which they hate.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 01:29 AM
13

"even if said person isnt a misogynist, it doesn't mean they dont hate women" Hating women is the definition of misogynist.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 01:18 AM
2

I read a number of articles about it last year so can't rattle off the top of my head the cases but I just did a google of "arrested for miscarriages" and here's a bunch; https://www.google.com/search?q=arrested+for+miscarriage&oq=arrested+for+miscarriage&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOdIBCTYyMDZqMGoxNagCCLACAQ&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 07:10 PM
4

Right. Women are already choosing not to have kids and these laws will just increase that.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 03:43 AM
–

Right. This RedPill b.s. that "every time a woman has sex she bonds with the man because of oxytocin flow" is b.s. How is oxytocin flowing if there is no orgasm or at least some pleasurable feelings? Men give themselves way too much credit.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 10:11 PM
18

Always use contraceptives. Both of you. So if you're on the pill, still make him wear a condom. I read that as soon as Roe v Wade was reversed there was an uptick in vasectomies. Good. Republicans really shot themselves in the foot with that one. All they do is cry about "declining birthrates" but then make it impossible for women to feel safe and supported about getting pregnant. Miscarriages are being treated as crimes now.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 09:56 PM
7

Ask him: What is it about fatherhood that inspires you?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 09:50 PM
15

Yeah, I don't see why he thinks politics would play a role in this. He's very naive.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 03:54 PM
10

You are definitely a Desi guy. Anyway, what do you mean by "liberal" exactly?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 03:53 PM
1

I don't wanna end up in a relationship with a women who's slept with a 100 hot dudes and here I am who has no experience with anyone; it'll help me with that insecurity as well. First, there are not that many "hot dudes" on this planet. The vast majority of men are average to below average (same with women). Second, the amount of women who have slept with 100 dudes, hot or not, is so small that it's not even worth mentioning or thinking about. Casual sex with random men is not generally enjoyabl…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 11:16 PM
1

Right. He doesn't want marriage but doesn't want a girlfriend either. Casual sex buddies are not at all common in India. Even "girlfriends" are hard to get in an arranged marriage culture.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 11:08 PM
1

Maybe. But you're still Desi.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 11:04 PM
5

Most women are not having that much casual sex, forget about just Indian women. These podcasts are purposely making up crazy lies about women just for ad revenue. On the one hand they cry that women are "too picky" and on the other they claim women are so un-picky that we're out here sleeping with tons of random dudes.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 11:04 PM
1

In a way it really is a type of rape because there's no way most of these guys would get consent if it weren't for money. As much as "sex work is work", it is also exploitation in the vast majority of cases globally.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 11:00 PM
-1

Please! Arranged marriages are still happening in India at around 90%. There is no need for short desi guys to get "jacked up" to find a partner. Ma-Baba will do that for you. Plus, jackedness makes short guys look like the Michelin Man. Better to have a well-toned, yoga body sort of look when you're short.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 10:55 PM
–

Right. But even Leo and Brad look pretty damn busted-faced nowadays. Men who still look young and decent in middle age are usually black men.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 07:53 PM
1

"I guess for me I stopped caring about what people say they find attractive because quite often it doesn’t line up with what they select in reality, " People have idealized types that they might fantasize about, but then in real life they date whoever they come to like that likes them back. These idealized types are often formed in their heads during childhood or teens and might be their go-to fantasy images, but they aren't fantasizing all the time, they are living actual lives. Just because so…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 01:55 AM
1

How many?!
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 01:16 AM
1

LOL! And what were you going to do about that?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 08:52 PM
2

Wow. He sounds like a straight up demon! Your own belove wife has medical issues and instead of helping her through them you rape her while she's asleep?!?! Is marital rape illegal in your country? If so I would have tossed his ass in the joint!
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 08:47 PM
1

I mean, how were your ideas and attitudes changing? What were the radical things you were beginning to believe?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 08:44 PM
1

It sounds to me like he's not taking responsibility for choosing a woman with severe mental illness. Maybe it didn't show up until after they were married. Maybe he tried to get her some help, I don't know. But I've seen a number of cases of men who knowingly and willingly get involved with women with severe mental health issues and they do so simply because they are deeply sexually attracted to these women. Basically it's unbridled lust and they are willing to risk lives in order to gain exclus…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 08:36 PM
1

I agree with Rollo on one thing: young single men should get vasectomies. He gets hypergamy completely backwards though. The word was coined during the British Empire when Brits in India observed that parents arranged the marriages of their daughters only to socio-economic equals or higher, preferably higher, never lower. The reason for this was left on their own, girls would choose boys who they had crushes on, and those boys were often lower in rank to the girl's family. So women are not by na…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 08:26 PM
9

If you rereaad my above comment, "the way he fumbled and stumbled" trying to cover it up.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 06:16 PM
10

One of their followers said that at one point a man becomes so "masculine" that he only wants to be around men.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 03:18 PM
7

In an odd way a lot of these dudes seem asexual, but not in the good way.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 03:17 PM
1

They count married men who haven't had sex with their wives in the past few months as "incels". Also, this obsession with sex is not on. In many cultures even today it's still not socially acceptable to have sex before marriage anyway. Where's this idea coming from that all this unmarried men have to be having sex otherwise they are not normal?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 05:34 AM
1

Which country are you from?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 05:23 AM
1

"Like not showing weakness. I confided in a girl who was interested. After that she had a 180 change turned cold. " You don't know that that's the reason she turned cold. Could be something totally unrelated. It may not even have anything to do with you at all.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 05:13 AM
23

Kevin Samuels was caught on a "live" with a young man in his bed. Remember that? The way he fumbled and stumbled when he realized it was on live cam and tried to make it out that we were seeing a viewer's camera? LOL!!!! Then there are those pix of Myron where he was all cuddled up with some dude on a bed too.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 04:10 AM
6

They need therapy. Or maybe to be institutionalized. Here in the USA we don't have "insane asylums" anymore, all but a few of them were shut down many years ago. These days people with severe mental illness are just giving pills and expected to live normal lives out here with everybody else.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 04:00 AM
1

In what ways were you getting radicalized?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 03:49 AM
2

"One other british chick that he made thumbnails choking and "cult leaders wife" videos about, then broke up because his audience said she was too ugly (she was average, which isn't bad)." --- Was this Mary? The really sweet girl with her grandparents? She was way too good for Hamza. I remember one day she was there, then she was gone. Did Hamza ever explain why they broke up? I hope she realized she was too good for him and broke up with him first. Sad to hear he has such twisted views about ha…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 03:38 AM
2

"Recently he’s catching some heat in regard to the course he’s selling, and people calling him scamza, and his ex gf calling him abuser. (The ultimate fate of many such clowns)." --- Which ex? He's had at least 3 so far. "Since the man is of the same cultural background as me, and I have seen his parents who seemed more traditional Pakistanis, I bet they failed him as per their traditions bc he not just slept around, but has a white gf living with him outside wedlock, which is a major taboo in o…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 03:35 AM
2

I've been told in the far right 'we hate you because you're a woman' Someone actually said that to you?!
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 03:04 AM
7

Options don't mean much if they are not good options. And even if there are some good options, it doesn't mean you will be compatible with them. There are plenty of valid reasons why a woman (or man) might be single for years. But beyond that what really eats away at these men is that women are happy single, and they are not. They just can't understand it. "If it ain't broke, don't fix it". And... "I can do bad all by myself".
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 03:01 AM
7

"The men age like fine wine, and women like milk argument is ridiculous." Think about all the women you know in their 40s and 50s and then think about all the men. Who, on average, looks better? In my circles it's women. Men just tend to let themselves go more. And then there's the balding issue. Red Pill Kool Aid drinkers who think young, hot women in their 20's are going to be banging down their doors to get to them when they reach middle age are in for a big surprise. Nobody wants to be "that…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 02:58 AM
1

5'7" is not short.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/24 03:52 PM
1

In another interview, she also said that she would treat an attractive man very well and reject him politely, and an unattractive man very badly and tell him to f*** off as a result of his ugliness. This is very harsh but if you apply the universal law of assortative mating, it doesn't make sense for an "ugly" man to entertain the idea that he has a chance with a beautiful woman. Although being rude to someone who hasn't first been rude to you is not right. Maybe she finds it rude for unattracti…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/24 12:11 AM
1

"Something the community needs to start calling out more is the amount of time influencers preach advice that they themselves don't follow" In interviews Sadia plays up that she comes from a "traditional Muslim" background. This sound intrigueing and exotic to her naive, western male audience who knows nothing about Pakistani culture. She's an unmarried, middle aged Pakistanti-British Muslim woman with no kids, bouncing from one man's podcast to the next. In her culture she's a loser. Only Red P…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/24 04:38 AM
1

There's such a thing as an alpha skin tone?! And feminists can't be classy?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/24 04:08 AM
1

The cure for inceldom is joining a monastery.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/24 04:01 AM
1

Those syphilis and gonorrhea victims were mostly children. Soldiers were raping kids.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/24 03:46 AM
1

But doesn't Sadia talk about assortative mating, dating within your own league, and the like? You're saying she's out here telling women they have to bring their A game to F game men?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/24 03:27 AM
2

She is NOT a psychologist. She worked as a school counselor. It was exposed a year or 2 ago that she has no degree in psychology whatsoever.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/24 03:20 AM
1

She is NOT a psychologist. She worked as a counselor in a troubled UK school and hated her low wage job so she quit to do the Red Pill podcast circuit and poof - all of a sudden she's a "psychologist". Only Red Pill idiots and their ignorant minions could fall for such a scam. Also, she plays the "traditional culture" and "Islam" cards pretty well since you lot don't know anything about either. Her own "traditional" Pakistani British family and social circle sees her as a loser. What "traditiona…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/24 03:18 AM
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