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| 17 | There is a serious hypocrisy in modern dating.Noooo they wouldn’t. Life is EXPENSIVE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:36 PM |
| 2 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutAhh understood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 12:04 AM |
| 2 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutHuh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 11:58 PM |
| 1 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutThose are easily two sides of the same coin though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutBoth genders are shallow. Women are FAR LESS shallow. Women are shallow because they seek money? Yeah like men don’t? The only thing I can think of where women on average are more shallow is racial bias. It’s evident that men care less about race in romantic relationships. Many women seem to care a lot about the social constructs of race and what they represent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 11:35 PM |
| 3 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutNo way. I would argue a man with unconventional looks has an easier time locking down a relationship. If we’re talking about running a harem, that’s different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:15 PM |
| – | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutI really don’t think it’s their fault they’re neurotic, though. They can be sexualized super, super early and men are constantly fucking with them. My model-exes sexual choices were gate-kept, she was forced into a marriage and forced to have children by a huge, intimidating dude that everyone was too afraid to stand up to. They can be targets and go out into the world in groups for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:14 PM |
| – | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutPrecisely, this is very well put. I would say, “on average,” though but for a non-academic conversations sake this works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:05 PM |
| – | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutI think they can be both at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 07:54 PM |
| – | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutOh it’s absolutely the case. For every non-model woman I dated from high school to now, some of my ex friends gave me shit about their appearance and I apparently had “low standards.” Disgusting human beings that had absolutely no right to judge women’s looks. They weren’t even ugly to me, they were just like the Adrian Brody’s of women. They weren’t conventionally attractive I suppose, perfectly symmetrical, or hourglass shape. Plus, they actually reached out to me for dates which made me more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 07:46 PM |
| – | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutAgreed. When they talk about “women,” they’re really talking about the IG models and the women considered to be Ms Universe contestants, not regular women walking to and from work everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?I said “could,” leaving room for all of the nuance that you mentioned. People change their minds about all of those things all the time, and change their effort levels and dedication too. A major part of humanity is adapting and change and I leave room for both parties to do so. Humans up until this century, imo, lived contrived lives. I’ve seen women break up with good men because they weren’t white. I see women preferring men over skin color and implicit bias all the time. I don’t see anyone c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.Very cool!! I just read in another comment that you didn’t partake and the situation gave you anxiety. Do these guys turn into different people when they go after women? Are they nicer, meaner, etc? Are they doing this as a group? Have you lived in America? If so, how does the landscape of women differ, in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.Ah ok so this is like high class London stuff, like the last season of “You”? Well-educated, well-socialized men that have money to entertain women? Would they be as successful without the economic advantages? Are you also in your hundreds? I’m at 20 women and I feel like a hoe sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.Sure thing 💪👍. How much drugs were involved in these encounters? If any were, did they always keep some on their person? Were most of them at night/dance clubs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:07 PM |
| -1 | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.Woah…can I ask you a ton of questions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.Hundreds? Each of them?? Damn. Are they married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 08:35 PM |
| 25 | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.Agreed. My Dad’s been talking shit about women his whole life and he was born in 1959 lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Going away optimisticallyMen do not get a raw deal from relationships. Having a woman in life is incredible. The raw deal is the timeline it takes to get to the relationship and the barrier to entry. The vetting process can be BRUTAL with some women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 07:16 AM |
| 1 | People who think two parent household automatically means a good one are very naive.I’d say half of women end up with the men they do because of a combination of life being expensive and familiarity bias. If women followed what they were naturally attracted to, humans would be way more diverse than they are now. But this all because men have dictated women’s sexuality for thousands of years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menThey like them for a quick and easy buck. Life is expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 03:22 AM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Answered below. It is an essay but there’s a summary at the bottom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Answered below | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?I grew up in a racially charged environment in America (Eastern WV), so this definitely impacts my views, but in real life, I think men bend over backwards for women because when most women reach a certain attraction threshold, they love social mobility and asset ownership. Men also gate-keep relationships and breeding, then steer women to be attracted to certain things to make it easier for certain people. Love is not a natural process anymore. The men I see women marry and have children with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:06 AM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Yes, as long as she’s pretty and not mean, she could be my partner until the end of time. Before I met my partner of 5.5 years, all of my previous 7 relationships ended because they became judgmental and mean, I reacted poorly to it, or they became out of shape and wouldn’t lose weight. I like big women too, but some women can’t be big because they’re not proportional and they can’t walk long distances. I am simple and there’s nothing a woman or man can do that can woo me emotionally. I’m pretty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?What is game to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 08:37 PM |
| 0 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Like, I can’t be wooed or connect with a person emotionally to increase the physical attraction. It’s either there or it isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 08:36 PM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?That’s actually really fucking awesome :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Nah, I’m just saying I don’t fully understand how sexual attraction can be emotionally triggered, as it’s a physical act. As for the other stuff you said, that’s cool :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?And it sounds like you’re purposely fighting your nature. Erection means you’re ready for action. If a pretty woman touches me but I’m not in the mood, tired, feel uncomfortable etc., no erection. Unless I was drugged, I don’t see this happening, but everyone is different and maybe that’s the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 02:03 PM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Well you just came in and muddied the waters again, little lady. Rage bait what? Why would anyone be getting mad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?That is so fascinating….but aren’t sexual attraction and arousal two different things entirely and can’t even compared or combined? Doesn’t sexual attraction always lead to arousal, as arousal is a state of being where sexual attraction is a compelling feeling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 01:36 PM |
| 0 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Ok cool, so there’s physical attraction, you smile, and that signals him that he can start flirting. I got that right? If so, I can understand that :). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Right….like….I’m really trying to empathize with this. A personality gets you into a relationship, then the looks matter….hmmm…. Is how a person dresses a part of their personality? If someone had a good personality but forgot to brush their teeth, are they out of the question? Will you remember him as gross teeth and unkempt guy, even if he has a comforting temperament? I’m not saying personality should never be a factor, but it just makes natural sense to lead with physical, then assess person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 01:24 PM |
| 0 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?But then, technically, you could be attracted to anyone, no? Edit: age within reason? What if your communicative itch could be perfectly scratched by a 80 yo man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 01:03 PM |
| 3 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Well, I did say that if a woman is mean and rude, it’s a turnoff, but admittedly the only one if I’m physically attracted to her. I’d say “kicking puppies,” falls into that category, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?I wish my emotional attraction led to physical attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 12:28 PM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Phenomenal stuff here!! Totally agree on all points and I’m saving this comment, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 07:22 AM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Hahaha well both men and women are attracted to psychopaths and murderers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 06:59 AM |
| 3 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?I had a whole rebuttal built up but you struck it down with that last sentence. A very well-balanced answer, SM9 💪. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 06:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: military conscription (as in the Ukraine) is matriarchal oppressionToxic masculinity incoming…. Because men are stronger, more violent and faster. Women have to do mandatory military service in some countries btw, but when it comes to all out, involuntary war? Fuck yeah send the men and keep the women safe in the walls so they can lead and strengthen the communities. Women are biologically more compassionate and nurturing on average. You want to send a 5’5”, 130 lbs woman into a fight with Goliath? How ‘bout no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 06:35 AM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?What’s that now?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 06:25 AM |
| 3 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Oooooo. Putting me on the spot hahaha. I believe these women in the chat, but everything they’re saying completely contradicts what I’ve seen in the real world. Just my anecdote. Happy to explain further and really dig into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 06:22 AM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Programmed is an interesting verb. You think god or a creator did this with intention, or you’re saying the evolution of the species necessitated this behavior? Or something else? I think these are generalizations but I could see the average men and women falling into your summaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?It sounds like any man could potentially seduce you, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Well imo, race and/or skin color play a huge part in what people think they’re attracted to, hence why even in 2025, a lot of couples look related. I think people have biases towards people they think they look like, or what they’re taught is attractive, but I could go on and on. I guess I just never thought to consider safety with women before because I’m not in any sort of physical danger with them unless they carry an STD/I. But surely there is a physical threshold that they have to pass in o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 06:05 AM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Right but there’s a physical threshold where you would allow someone to create that familiarity, no? Hence dating apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 06:00 AM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?I will read up on those differences. I didn’t say you were passive. I’m saying, I’m more visually based (I personally think most men are) and I approached women, like all romantically successful men, so as long as they were receptive, I’m good. I was the initiator and the one that wanted to take them home. A woman doesn’t need to woo me, her just existing can do that, unless she’s mean and rude. It just sounds complicated and it feels like looking for something that specific is contrived, like y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:59 AM |
| 6 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?What makes you respect a man? I feel like socialization and how you were raised plays a big part. I just like features on a nice woman. I feel like it would be incredibly frustrating waiting for someone to come along and prove something, you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:33 AM |
| 0 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Why are visuals shallow? It takes a lot to stay in shape and be attractive. I just can’t imagine someone making me laugh and thinking afterwards that I’d want to have sex with them. Maybe biology plays a part? I’m a heterosexual man that wants to give, whereas women receive, so they have to feel comfortable? Idk….I really can’t fathom that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:31 AM |
| 3 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Like what other traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:26 AM |
| 0 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:26 AM |
| 8 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Can you explain? All of the answers are saying this. And if being nice to women isn’t enough, what “familiarity,” do you need? Based on my observations, “familiarity,” leans into culture, race, humor, talents, socialization, etc. For me, physical and emotional attraction are two separate things. Having the same hobbies and interests doesn’t make me want to make love to someone, their physical appearance does. Personality wise, they just can’t be mean. I think many men are also like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:25 AM |
| 2 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?I wish I could do that…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Are all or most women attracted to women?Ooooo I’d love to read that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | On a Redpill logic, aren't single mothers good for a majority of men?👍👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 12:50 AM |
| 0 | On a Redpill logic, aren't single mothers good for a majority of men?Maybe! We (my friends, anecdotes, etc.) tend to think that women “learned the hard way.” Like I said, it’s insecurity at its finest, imo, no matter how accurate we are when assessing a particular situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 12:39 AM |
| 4 | On a Redpill logic, aren't single mothers good for a majority of men?Because of insecurity. OC is absolutely right. I wanted to be chosen by my lady. Single mothers make us think of the stupid “beta bux,” mentality, but it’s kinda right when you think about it. Men, like me admittedly, who think this were never aggressive with women and that’s generally who single dads are in my experience: guys who did risky things for women. Every single dad I know lived a life with a lot of risk and I think pre-motherhood women are into that. Guys like me who were nice feel li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Are all or most women attracted to women?Tbh I think this is social construction. I think both genders are fluid to an extent but men can be physically harmed. Gay porn is way more taboo than lesbian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itWell said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itThat’s not romantically assertive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 11:05 PM |
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