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GeneralComprehensiveVoice98/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:23 PM
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GeneralComprehensiveVoice98/r/MensRights12/11/21 07:29 AM
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Yes of course, but I meant more for LTRs
/r/MensRights14/07/23 01:22 AM
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Yep, and in many states, if a woman gets pregnant, she can’t get an abortion even if both parties want one. I am 100% for access to contraceptives for everyone. They really do need to move male birth control forward more quickly IMO, feels like I’ve been hearing about it forever.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 12:42 AM
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I know, it’s been a long time coming. I think the male birth control pill will be great for men since it won’t diminish pleasure (like condoms) but it gives men more control. Plus, if both partners are on the pill, the chances of getting pregnant would be even less.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 09:00 PM
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I don’t always agree with MRA, but on this, I do. The draft is disgusting and sad and everyone should be subject to it if anyone is. Ideally, it would be completely abolished but if instituted, it’s only fair everyone take the same risks.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 11:34 PM
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It’s interesting, I thought for the most part, alimony isn’t permanent. If alimony is awarded, it’s usually for half the length of the marriage, unless the marriage lasted over 20 years, and even then it’s often not permanent…or so I thought. My dad was married for 20 years, he pays alimony for 10 years. My friend was married for 6, she pays her ex husband for 3 years…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 08:39 PM
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Lol no, you can also be single because you broke up with someone….also, I said not getting married/having kids, I’m not single.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 06:02 AM
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I’m a woman but also on track to retire, well whenever I want lol, paid off house, great pension waiting for me, savings, etc. crazy what not getting married/having kids will do
/r/MensRights03/07/23 12:52 AM
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Yeah women snatch kids too, as a woman, I wouldn’t approach a stranger’s kid and I definitely would never buy them or give them anything, especially food. People aren’t laid back about their kids
/r/MensRights30/06/23 07:41 PM
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I used to work in jewelry, trust me, some men get very expensive wedding rings from their partner. They get engagement rings and watches too. It just depends on the couple. I will say there are also a lot of men that feel diamonds and really any gemstones are too feminine.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 11:46 PM
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I didn’t say mentally handicapped, I said socially different. My partner is autistic, and he is wonderful, nothing wrong with it, but he is different. Some of his differences are his strengths. But he understands things differently, and says things differently than others. He’s never been in me for online dating or casual hookups, but I could see the differences making some things more difficult.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 10:48 PM
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Looking at your profile, you are married, so obviously at least one woman didn’t make it about your looks. You seem to also be looking for something casual, and you are autistic. So you want someone who is cool with you being married, cool with a casual hookup without putting emphasis on your looks, and cool with you being socially different….if you take everything into account, yeah it’s going to be difficult to find someone, doesn’t seem like this is just about looks.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 10:40 PM
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Yeah, is it being implied they are doing “favors” for adult teachers? Sounds like a pretty big problem if that’s the case
/r/MensRights08/06/23 10:32 PM
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Same here, I’m a female and I also do not understand why anyone would want to get married (at least through the government, I understand why for religious reasons). Seems like a liability more than anything else
/r/MensRights08/06/23 07:15 PM
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I’ve only said it once. I was asking what the commenter meant. I didn’t say women don’t have personhood rights, I was asking if the person I was replying to thought women don’t have inherent personhood beyond their sexual attractiveness.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 12:35 AM
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Lol kk
/r/MensRights03/06/23 12:27 AM
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Everyone has value, even infertile men and women, the elderly, the disabled, those who don’t work, etc. There are so many ways to contribute to society in valuable ways. Don’t sell humanity short!
/r/MensRights02/06/23 11:32 PM
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I appreciate the sentiment. There will always be people, men and women, who treat each other poorly, and those who treat each other well. We should all strive to view each person as a worthy, individual human. It’s easy to write people off and lessen their humanity. For example, when a man complains about lack of love/sex, many women write him off as an “incel”, but they don’t acknowledge the pain he’s in, or ponder why he might be in that situation and how it’s bad for society as a whole. It ca…
/r/MensRights02/06/23 10:50 PM
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I didn’t say “most”, I said “some”. Asserting that “some people love each other” is a reasonable conclusion based on the information provided. You are asking for more information to come to the conclusion you want.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 10:26 PM
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That’s not what makes an ultimate man for me. I provide for my partner and myself. I love that we have so much in common, we have a great time together no matter what we’re doing. He’s kind, funny, he’s a good listener, and he wants to make the relationship work.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 10:06 PM
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Are you saying she’s unhappy with him but will stay because she would stay single otherwise? Ffs can’t you just understand that some people actual love each other?
/r/MensRights02/06/23 10:01 PM
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I’m happy paying for three grown men because I love them
/r/MensRights02/06/23 09:59 PM
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Are you saying you agree that women do not have inherent personhood beyond their sexual attractiveness?
/r/MensRights02/06/23 09:59 PM
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Why is it hilarious? Because you feel the viewpoint of that woman is ridiculous? I’m sure many women feel your viewpoint is ridiculous. The truth is, neither of them are, we need to try to understand each other and work together, and not let society divide us.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:47 PM
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This is a truly sad viewpoint. As a woman who provides for and loves men, I feel sad some men and women cannot see each other’s humanity.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:45 PM
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Yes I commented about this. I am the provider for my partner, father and nephew, who are all adult men. My partner doesn’t work, neither does my nephew. My father does, but his income doesn’t meet all of his financial needs. I love them unconditionally and I see them as whole human beings. They see me that way too.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:36 PM
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We all deserve love. A man’s value should not depend on his ability to provide, but in his inherent worth as a human being. My male partner does not work, I am the provider. I also provide for my father and nephew. Obviously, their worth to me does not depend on what they provide materially. I have a lot of thoughts about why society feels this way, and why it has been persisting. I am close to the men in my life, especially my father and my father shares his emotions with me all the time, even …
/r/MensRights02/06/23 05:35 PM
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Good for you
/r/MensRights31/05/23 09:25 PM
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I completely agree, my comment was more about the fact that I don’t think conservative married women are significantly happier. In another comment, I listed several sources that show divorce is higher in conservative states. I think people continue to struggle with the purpose of modern marriage and what warrants a divorce. I’ve often wondered why get married if you just get divorced when it gets hard? Why not just have a monogamous relationship without getting married if you’re not willing to e…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 04:53 PM
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My point wasn’t that they divorce for no good reason. I was commenting about the assertion the article makes about conservative married women being significantly happier. In another comment, I listed several sources showing conservative states have the highest rates of divorce. However, I imagine conservative states also have a higher rate of marriage as well that may affect that statistic.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 04:27 PM
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No, they’re both just really poor, they both make minimum wage. I see, yes I agree, it’s not an issue if both people make close to the same amount of money and share custody. However, you’re right about women starting to make more, I watched a good video recently called “why men and boys are struggling” and there was a statistic that 40% of women now make more than 50% of men.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 06:42 AM
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I agree people should work on their problems, but I still don’t understand how they are economically incentivized to get divorced,it’s expensive. In fact, I’ve known people who remain married and live completely separate lives, just because it’s too difficult and expensive to get divorced.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 06:05 AM
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What do you mean by incentivized to abandon each other?
/r/MensRights31/05/23 04:55 AM
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Yes you are right, I meant Steven crowder
/r/MensRights31/05/23 04:53 AM
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That’s not true https://sites.utexas.edu/contemporaryfamilies/2014/01/16/impact-of-conservative-protestantism-on-regional-divorce-rates/ https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=126780035 https://divorce.com/blog/divorce-statistics/
/r/MensRights31/05/23 03:48 AM
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it specifically says married people are significantly happier than their peers. Also, by that logic anyone who gets a divorce simply didn’t “embrace marriage” which is just not true.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 03:34 AM
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If married women are so happy, then why is the divorce rate so high? Conservative women get divorced all the time, I mean anecdotally, there’s MTG, Boebert and Matt Walsh’s wife, and that’s just the recent ones off the top of my head. Also, what does this have to do with men’s rights?
/r/MensRights31/05/23 03:22 AM
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Thanks for saying this, nudity is not inherently sexual, it’s about context. It’s so hard for people to understand because we have been so conditioned to see nudity as sexual.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 06:27 PM
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Absolutely not, it should never be done to a child, the reason people do it only matters so we can better prevent it from occurring. It baffles me that anyone would advocate for gm, and circumcision needs to be taken more seriously. I have gotten pretty emotional with friends who were going to circumcise their boys, and their reasoning? “Well his dad is circumcised and he wants it to look like his” and “i don’t want him to get teased about it when he gets older”….it’s not malicious, they don’t u…
/r/MensRights17/05/23 10:15 PM
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Thanks for your comment, I didn’t know that about the UK. That’s a great thing to point out to people in the US who think circumcision is the norm in western countries.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 09:57 PM
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I think we are saying the same things…from your sources, a big reason for circumcision is to reduce pleasure due to religious belief and outdated medical practices…but people who do not believe in any religion still circumcise. That is the history, yes, but it is not society’s current purpose. I do not think anyone in the US is trying to circumcise boys with the express purpose of keeping them from masturbating or reducing their pleasure. The reason given again and again in the modern day is cle…
/r/MensRights17/05/23 08:55 PM
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From what I understand, it comes from outdated medical and religious practices. I do think there may be ties to purposely reducing pleasure for religious reasons, but as you and I seem to agree, most parents are ignorant as to the effects. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2801794/#:~:text=Traditionally%2C%20the%20US%20medical%20establishment,cervical%20cancer%20in%20sexual%20partners.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 08:03 PM
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I did not pretend otherwise, I am say that is not the reason boys are circumcised in the west. It’s important to identify the reasons it happens, in order to better prevent it.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 07:35 PM
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Ok, gm is 100% wrong and we need to fix that. However, I have heard many men say that women’s pleasure shouldn’t matter, and men need not concern themselves with that, especially in the manosphere. Since women’s pleasure is not necessary for procreation, it has been dismissed and misunderstood throughout history. In other parts of the world, it is still actively suppressed (which is the reason for ongoing fgm). Regarding circumcision, at this point in the west, I think it’s more about “how a pen…
/r/MensRights17/05/23 07:07 PM
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Yes I think so too, it would need more research. Another thing the video discusses is how young boys have a harder time sitting still for long periods of time, which makes school difficult for them. I’d love to see more emphasis on making school better for boys, with more male teachers and a teaching style that works for them.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 02:40 AM
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I watched this whole thing, I think it’s really good and eye opening. I also really liked how he posed actual solutions, such as having boys start school a year later so they wouldn’t fall behind and hiring more male teachers, child caregivers and nurses.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:19 PM
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You should head over to r/antinatalism….also, your post is confusing, doesn’t really explain why you think “breeding” is wrong, and generalizes and dehumanizes everyone. Are you against sex completely or just procreation?
/r/MensRights28/04/23 02:31 AM
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Most women give birth through their own body because it’s extremely expensive and difficult to hire a surrogate. We are both speculating as to how this technology will be used, but it is my opinion that given the choice, most women would opt to not have to go through pregnancy. When it’s available, I’m confident rich women, especially celebrities, will use it almost exclusively. If the cost goes down, or if insurance covers it, most regular women would want it too.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:59 PM
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Meh, plenty of single people out there living their optimal life.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:28 PM
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I’m telling you, they would and not everyone agrees it’s unethical. Women use surrogates all the time, which would mean they are missing out on the maternal fetal bond. Surrogates often don’t even meet the child they give birth to.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:27 PM
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Ok but how are they screwed? Having an SO may be something people want, but if you don’t have that one thing, your life can still be pretty amazing. It doesn’t have to mean you’re lonely, unfulfilled, can’t have sex, can’t have a child, etc. We put too much emphasis on it IMO and that’s the issue.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 07:55 PM
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In the recent past, women had to get married. There were not many other opportunities and they could not support themselves. Women only got the right to vote about a hundred years ago. That changed with the rise of feminism because women got more rights and opportunities. They didn’t have to “just marry some guy”. There is no such thing as a person “without any flaws”. It’s true many women don’t like to be approached by a stranger in public, but online dating is still not the only option. Many p…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 07:10 PM
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In the “past” men had wives because women had to get married. Depends on how far back you go, but even in the 70’s it was not socially acceptable for a woman to not be married and the jobs women could get were low paying. Women aren’t “screwed” if they don’t have a husband, men aren’t screwed if they don’t have a wife. People are now more free to live their lives the way they see fit and brings them happiness. More and more young people are choosing not to get married because it’s just not neces…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:23 PM
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Curious, what rights have been taken? I think the MRA is more about creating rights that have not been there in the past, such as the right to not have your penis cut without your consent. Some things have changed, like a married man can now be convicted of marital rape, but I highly doubt you were referring to the right for men to rape their wives.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:13 PM
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What “past”? In most of the “past” starting a family was not a “life goal”, it was a woman’s only real option. She could not work, could not support herself. Hell women only got the right to vote about 100 years ago (which they had to fight very hard for). Women had to get married. Men had many more options, they could actually not get married and still support themselves, they had the power. A married man could rape his wife and it wouldn’t be considered a crime. A woman’s desires were pretty s…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:03 PM
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Yeah maybe it’s not, it’s just really ridiculous. Another argument was it’s not “natural” for men to be in the workplace, which is another argument that has been made against women being in the workplace….but then it goes into sexual harassment, which has been an issue primarily for men (being accused of SH). This is a dumb and inflammatory article.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 09:40 PM
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Lol yeah, the article is literally using many of the same arguments used against women in the workplace (e.g. they’re too emotional).
/r/MensRights18/04/23 06:32 PM
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It’s interesting you think this person is a feminist. I don’t because I imagine feminists are all for artificial wombs and men and women being able to reproduce on their own. Women don’t want to be relied on as baby factories. In fact, if there were artificial wombs, women could freeze their eggs and get sterilized and reproduce whenever they were ready without pregnancy. Abortion could potentially be drastically reduced if not eliminated. Good news all around
/r/MensRights17/04/23 10:49 PM
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Interesting your wish to become at father is seen as “payback” to you lol. Hahahaha in your face I get to be a dad! Like all the women in the world were secretly conspiring to make sure you didn’t reproduce.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 10:44 PM
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No way lol, the majority of women would 100% use an artificial womb. Pregnancy is extremely risky, taxing and painful. It changes a woman’s body forever and women die in childbirth all the time. Most likely the cost would be prohibitive, but I could see pretty much all rich people using artificial wombs.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 10:42 PM
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I didn’t say it’s just about acceptance, I was just saying they’ve always existed. But I think it’s very common for people to explore their gender expression for a time. I also think part of it is pushing against gender roles. For example, if you don’t feel like you fit in to a gender role, identifying as non binary may feel right for lot of people. I think it’s great we have avenues for kids to explore gender identity now. Also, from what I’ve read, there isn’t an explosion, and the data does n…
/r/MensRights17/04/23 09:38 PM
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Transgender people have always existed, it’s just become more socially acceptable for them to be themselves in the west. Especially with more visible trans people in the media. Below are some interesting articles on the subject. Btw, when we talk about trans kids, most of the time the kid is telling their caregivers who they are, it’s not about them simply displaying typically feminine or masculine traits. Prepubescent kids don’t get any kind of hormones or surgery-they just get to dress and be …
/r/MensRights17/04/23 06:53 PM
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I don’t think it matters to say people who menstruate because not all women menstruate for various reasons, so it’s actually more accurate to use that terminology. It’s not a big deal.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 06:37 PM
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Yeah I mean, the laws are there for a reason but there is nuance. I met my bf in HS, I was a freshman, he was a senior. He wasn’t some creepy predator. I also had a good friend I met who worked with me at a movie theater when I was in HS. He was 21 and I 15. We’d hang out, he’d even let me drink at his place, chill in the hot tub, etc. For him, this was a big risk and he trusted me, and in turn I trusted him. He never did anything and I never told anyone we hung out bc of the risk. We were (and …
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:43 PM
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The way I’m understanding your position, is basically the child’s life should be protected unless completely unviable, regardless of how the parents feel. What I’ve never understood is how incompatible this is with other similar laws. For example, if a child needs a kidney and would die if they didn’t get it, a parent is not required to give that kidney. You can’t force people to utilize their bodies or organs to save another life. So if the woman doesn’t want her body used to support the life, …
/r/MensRights12/04/23 02:42 AM
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Yeah when I was 14 my boyfriend was 18. It could have very much affected the trajectory of his life if something went wrong or if someone decided to say something.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:31 PM
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This is important. If they are both minors, especially if they are both under 14, or both over 14, he should be just fine eventually. If he is a minor over 14 and she is under 14 he could face serious charges. If he is an adult and she is a minor, well, this isn’t going to bode well for him.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 08:26 PM
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Yeah the dolls are cool but expensive, maybe they should design the dolls with more function, like an “Alexa” lol jk. Who knows, maybe one day with AI advancement, they could converse and everything. I also think there is a social stigma around sex dolls that keep a lot of men from buying them. I think artificial wombs are worth developing, I think the bonding thing could be figured out.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 10:19 PM
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Yeah but those sex dolls are crazy expensive. Also, for many, a big part of enjoying sex is interacting with another human that you love. Some women may feel that way about pregnancy, and that option would still be available but like I said, pregnancy is risky and painful, so I think many would opt for an artificial womb if they could, but I might be wrong. the bonding thing is a valid concern, but there are tons of women that have trouble bonding after giving birth and end up eventually bonding…
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:44 PM
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Idk if it would be widespread, but I think it would be a good option. I see a lot of upsides to it, I personally do believe it would be widely used if it was affordable. I don’t think sex dolls are a good comparison because the act of sex is very pleasurable and people would want it to be as real as possible. Pregnancy is risky and painful, the women I’ve talked to hate the pregnancy but go through it to get a baby. If they could not go through pregnancy and still get the baby, they would. If se…
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:19 PM
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Not disputing that fact, women could still go through pregnancy if they want. People already use surrogates, this would just be another option.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:03 PM
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I’m for everyone to be more free and equal. This is a place to discuss men’s rights, and an artificial womb could potentially give men the right to easier access to procreation. Right now, men are reliant on women to procreate much more than women are reliant on men to procreate.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 01:52 AM
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Yes, women don’t have to go through pregnancy if they don’t have sex. My comment was in regard to women who want biological children but don’t want to (or can’t) go through pregnancy. There are currently surrogates for this, but an artificial womb would be another option. In regard to the artificial womb making men semen banks, I mean, this already happens. A woman can buy semen and have a baby, she doesn’t need to have sex or ever be in a relationship for that.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 12:46 AM
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As a woman I am 100% in support of this. I think artificial wombs would improve the lives of men and women as far as equality goes. I think there would be lots of positive things that would come from this. I don’t think single parenthood would be as big a deal as we think it would. We would have much more control over the birthrate and artificial wombs mean women wouldn’t have to go through the risky pregnancy process (unless they wanted to). It would drastically reduce abortion as well, since a…
/r/MensRights08/03/23 09:34 PM
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Interesting, no one should settle for less than what they want, and I don’t see men clamoring to get married lol. I’m actually a woman and have also had a lot of opportunities to marry but I know marriage wouldn’t make me happy. I think it’s an outdated institution at this point. What I do see, is a lot of people in long term committed relationships, who have separate careers, bank accounts and assets. IMO it’s good for equality. Women and men should be equal and independent, it benefits everyon…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 09:45 PM
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I think both genders have stopped focusing on marriage and children. I’m in my 30’s and I’ll never get married, I don’t see the point, it’s just risk for both parties. Many of the women I know feel the same. I’d rather just have my own job and keep my things in my name and the same goes for my partner. I don’t want kids, never have. Many many more young people are starting to feel this way, as it’s more accepted now to not get married, even if you have kids. Also, people aren’t having as many ki…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 08:22 PM
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As a young girl (12-16) I wore what I saw in the media. I wanted to be fashionable and I wanted the approval of my girlfriends. I was pleased when I looked in the mirror and saw myself as “maturing” lol. However, I would walk home from school and get honks and things shouted out car windows at me by grown men. That made me uncomfortable. I hadn’t factored in adult reactions because, well, I didn’t think about adults much at that age. Mind you, my outfits were school appropriate so they weren’t t…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 06:45 PM
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Well if you’re under 40, then I think a large majority of people have been where you are. I know I have. I felt so purposeless in my 20’s, and yes, suicide can seem like a comforting thought. The thing is, there is no true purpose. That’s part of the human condition, it affects everyone. You give your life purpose. Some find it in religion, some in family, others find it in the little things. You do sound depressed though, which may be a chemical imbalance, or maybe talking to a therapist will h…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 05:51 PM
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Why? Because of lack of romance? Or is it other things?
/r/MensRights23/02/23 05:27 PM
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If you focus on what you lack, you’ll never be happy. I try to focus on what I have, and really pay attention to the good things. I enjoy the beauty of nature, I kayak, I love to cook just for myself, I have a bunch of crafty hobbies, and I’ve learned to love being alone. If you have strict expectations of what your life “should be”, that’s also a recipe for unhappiness. When I say your life is valuable, what I really mean is it’s just as valuable as everyone else’s. Ultimately nothing we do mat…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 05:18 PM
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I am so sorry you are going through this, but your life is valuable outside of being in a relationship. You can find meaning and value in many kinds of relationships, not just romantic. Society peddles getting married and having kids as the goal, but it’s not. The goal is to find peace and happiness, however it can be attained. There is so much in life to enjoy, so much to experience. Romance is actually a pretty small aspect of life.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 05:05 PM
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This is similar to pregnancy leave though isn’t it? In the US, men do get parental leave, but women get much more leave related to physical recovery after birth. Also, women typically take much more leave when they have children than men. In that sense, employers would be disincentivized to hire women, but women do not have trouble finding jobs in the US.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 08:57 PM
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I didn’t see where they said men don’t have body dysmorphia? Seems like they are saying whatever treatment you are talking about would not be appropriate for men with body dysmorphia.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 08:43 PM
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It’s understandable, the fairytale is sold to us beginning really young. You were just young and optimistic, nothing wrong with that. Maybe you saw your parents have a successful marriage (I didn’t). Sorry you went through that.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 10:54 PM
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Yes, I can see how the government has an interest in encouraging traditional marriage. Not sure how it’s going to play out, but it’s best not to ever cohabitate or share expenses. If the state starts to force people into marriage, I imagine the birth rate will decline even further and people will become more distant with less and less long term monogamous relationships. From a practical standpoint, it’s just too much risk. I looked at the prospect of marriage in my teens and concluded it was nev…
/r/MensRights12/01/23 09:25 PM
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Men and women are checking out of dating, marriage and children for many reasons. Children are expensive, there isn’t much help or incentive to have children and most cannot really afford them. Without children, there isn’t a compelling reason for marriage. Hell, even with children, there isn’t a good reason for marriage. Women can earn the same money as men now, they don’t need to be married. Marriage just exposes both parties to liability in the (likely) case of a divorce. The stigma of being …
/r/MensRights12/01/23 06:33 PM
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The word was originally created by a woman and simply meant involuntary celibate. However, the incel forums became rife with hate, pedophilia, and rape advocation. At least two men have murdered multiple people because of their incel status, one of which is pictured above. Some incels revere him as a “saint”. Many many incels are not violent, and are just frustrated and feel rejected by everyone, but that doesn’t change the connotation of the term now being associated with violent and misogynist…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:02 PM
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I’m saying talk to a professional. She doesn’t like the “clingy overwhelming behavior”. I’m hearing you say you keep saying the same thing. You want her and your daughter. So nothing is getting resolved, both sides just keep saying the same thing. I don’t know you or her, not taking sides. You cannot force her to allow you to participate in the pregnancy. You can only control your behavior. So what can you do for yourself in this situation? Get a lawyer. Listen to her, preferably in the presence…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 03:28 AM
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She’s freaking out, and telling everyone probably didn’t help. She’s probably feeling like she has no control (I’m sure you feel the same way). Your romantic relationship is secondary at this point. Definitely get a lawyer so you can be a father to your kid when it’s born. She could end up getting an abortion, but I think it’s unlikely at this point. Just be adamant to everyone that you want to be in the kid’s life. Get a paternity test of course. At least it seems like her family is on your sid…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 02:31 AM
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Did she say she wasn’t in love with you?
/r/MensRights28/12/22 02:12 AM
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Unequal contribution is messed up. I could see this being an issue for a lot of young men who are just getting out there. Something I highly recommend before moving in with someone is sitting down and working out with expenses and chores and what the rules of the house will be. It’s not very romantic but it’s practical and anyone who doesn’t want to do it is sus. It can be awkward to bring up but you should explain that it’s really to help ensure a more peaceful and happy living situation. This …
/r/MensRights16/12/22 05:30 PM
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Reminds me of Mona Lisa Smile. If you haven’t seen it, It’s about women who are in college, but are pretty much expected to not work afterward and get married. The women have varying perspectives on this. I won’t totally spoil it, but it’s about the choice, not forcing women into certain roles.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 02:58 AM
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This is such a good idea for so many reasons, as long as it’s affordable. Men would be able to have biological children without having to use a surrogate. Also, if we can advance a bit further, it can eliminate abortion. If there is a way to transfer an embryo from a woman to an artificial womb, then it’s no longer affecting the woman, and instead of an abortion, a transfer could be made. Would be great for men who want the kid but the woman doesn’t.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 02:40 AM
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What’s your opinion on how women are to love their husbands?
/r/MensRights03/12/22 02:32 AM
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Or just get a woman that supports herself and don’t get married or move in together. Agree to split all dates.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 02:30 AM
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You are painting a broad brush, many women are fine with equality. Depends on who you surround yourself with. I know a few guys that are stay at home dads for example. The couples I know just figure out what works for them, I think that’s how it should be. Youth and fertility is also a primal reason why men are attractive lol. After 35, the quality of sperm is diminished and results in decreased fertility and mutations. It’s not wise from an evolutionary standpoint to have children after 35 for …
/r/MensRights01/12/22 07:17 PM
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No one is owed anything. I personally don’t believe in marriage anyway, at least not legally through the state. There really isn’t any point IMO. I will say, I don’t think there is as much emphasis on marriage these days, at least in the west. It’s definitely on the decline. It’s not shameful to have children out of wedlock, and women can make their own money now. Many young people are choosing to never get married. So no, you don’t owe women marriage but I also don’t think women are clambering …
/r/MensRights01/12/22 06:03 PM
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It is up to us, we get to decide if we want to see everyone as equals outside of gender roles or not.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:29 PM
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I’m sorry this happened to you, it sounds like a total blindside which is so difficult. Judging by the crying/apologizing, she also felt blindsided by your beliefs. You two do have very different viewpoints. Saying that no one should dismiss another based on “differing opinions” trivializes the differences you two have. It’s a value system and you live your life based on your values. She’s not dismissing you as a person but as a romantic partner and she’s probably right in that you do not share …
/r/MensRights30/11/22 01:39 AM
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Me too, I’m a woman and I obviously don’t know how to do makeup. All my makeup does is make me look a little more alive lol
/r/MensRights17/11/22 01:22 AM
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What was the motive? Just being a crazy person? She looks so different from her pictures, not that it matters, but it took me a second because I thought I was looking at two different women.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 12:44 AM
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So true. I also feel that men are more often sexually assaulted and it’s taken less seriously. It’s seen as funny or even welcome. For example, I’ve seen drunk women sit in a guys lap or even give him lap dances, while he’s obviously uncomfortable. Everyone laughs it off because “men always want sexual attention”. It’s gross. I’ve also seen male friends grab each others balls or pull someone’s pants down as a prank. I could not imagine people laughing about these things if the victims were women…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 02:18 AM
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Is it based out of the company she works for? Or is it open to all women? If it’s company specific, you should report it. If not, I’m not sure if you can do anything. If you can get evidence of sexism, you could also expose the people in the group, which would force the company to do something about it.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 01:54 AM
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You should talk to a therapist. It could help you uncover what’s at the root of what’s bothering you. It could be the deception, like if you morally don’t agree with something and wouldn’t have slept with that person on a moral basis, then the deception caused you to make a choice against your morals. I once briefly dated a person whe held beliefs that I believe to be profoundly wrong. We never slept together, but I felt kinda dirty for dating that person afterward, even though I didn’t know at …
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:20 PM
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The same sort of process, I’ll tell him my plans for the purchase and we kind of go from there. Like I said, we budget everything so anything outside the norm has to be discussed.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 05:14 PM
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That sounds super fucked up, no that’s not us and he’d definitely not stick around for that bullshit. I totally respect him, and he prefers I handle the finances. He’ll let me know if he wants a big purchase and I’ll let him know realistically when we can make it happen, and provide him details if he wants. He has his own savings as well. I’m not rich or anything so I budget everything and he’s pretty frugal too, we make a good team. I see what you mean though with people using money to abuse th…
/r/MensRights21/10/22 09:40 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights21/10/22 08:44 AM
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I make more money than my current boyfriend and I pay the bills, it’s fine for us, no issues. I make the decisions about the money, and he lets me know when he needs or wants something. My ex made more than me and it still wasn’t a huge issue, but it actually caused some problems because we just didn’t agree on how money should be spent.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 02:32 AM
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This article has nothing to do with emasculation or women complaining about it. It’s a man’s opinion that other men are not rising to women’s standards of being emotionally available, being a good communicator and having shared values. I was just saying that it’s untrue IMO because men in my experience are good communicators and are emotionally available. those traits have nothing to do with masculinity, both men and women can be emotionally available and good communicators.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 03:56 AM
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I am a woman and I 100% agree that it is outdated. I see no benefit in marrying, personally. I’d rather have a committed LTR and keep finances and assets separate. Not really a fan of cohabitating either. Yes, marriage has some legal and tax benefits, but the risk it brings is just not worth it. If a person is religious (I’m not) they can get married through their church without getting married through the government right? Most men I’ve dated want to get married, but they can’t really tell me w…
/r/MensRights17/08/22 02:12 AM
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I saw this article over on r/psychology and took issue with it there. First of all, the things they say about men have not been my experience. The article says men are bad communicators and emotionally unavailable, and those are the “skills” men lack that make them undesirable. I’ve not found this to be true, tbh I don’t know where it’s even coming from. I’ve never online dated so maybe that’s where the disconnect is? Tbf my friends that online date often get dick pics and invitations to hook up…
/r/MensRights16/08/22 10:19 PM
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As a woman, I like to split the bill. First, it lets the person know I like them, and just want to get to know them and I’m not just trying to get a free meal or see what I can get him to spend. Second I don’t like to feel indebted. If I go out with a guy, and I’m just not feeling a connection, I feel better about just telling him, without feeling like maybe he feels I took advantage of him.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 07:10 AM
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IMO marrying in general doesn’t make any sense. What do you get with marriage you can’t get in a LTR? Tax benefits? No thanks, and that’s coming from a woman. I’m a high earner and have always felt uncomfortable with sharing my finances with anyone. I was in a relationship for 14 years, and we grew apart and broke up. It was so smooth because we didn’t get married or intertwine our finances. We are still friends and I think it’s because we didn’t have to go through a divorce. I’ve never understo…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:53 PM
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Interesting points, thank you
/r/MensRights14/07/22 10:35 PM
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I mean, I consume lots of media, on both sides. Just trying to make sense of this crazy world. I think everyone should be able to argue both sides of an argument. I stay open minded, I can change my opinions. I don’t claim to fully understand the transgender issue, I don’t think even the transgender people do. I was just pointing out what I have learned about the topic for the sake of discourse. Also, I didn’t say gender is binary, and yes, traditionally there are roles for each gender to play, …
/r/MensRights14/07/22 10:33 PM
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No trans man is saying he is a genetic male. Trans people will flat out tell you they are different from cis people and have different needs. They are saying that sex and gender are different. Sex is inherent, it’s what you were born with. Gender is a performance, it’s how you look, act and what role you play. Trans people want to play the role of a different gender than what is typically assigned to the people of their sex.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 09:30 PM
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I think your points are kinda sorta in line with what I’ve read about transgender issues. From what I understand, there is gender and there is biological sex, they are different. Biological sex is static, but gender is not, it’s a performance. So if a biological male that is a transgender woman performs being a woman to the point you don’t know they’re transgender, then in practical and societal terms, they are a woman. They fit the role of a woman in our society, and that’s all gender requires.…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 09:24 PM
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People only like the look because it’s what they are used to. I’m not used to circumcision and I really don’t like circumcised penises. It looks like something is missing, I can see the line where it was cut off. Now that I know more about circumcision it also makes me kinda sad to see one, and sadness isn’t sexy lol
/r/MensRights07/07/22 06:36 AM
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Ok, many poor people are not just “one bus ticket away” from those major cities. It would take days, or even weeks for them to travel, get the procedure, recover, come back. It costs money, there’s a stigma, they have to take time off work. Many will end up having and keeping the kids and straining the system, perpetuating the cycle of poverty and crime.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:11 PM
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That’s just not true. Many people will keep their child if they can’t get an abortion. Bonding still happens, it’s not easy to give a a baby once it’s born. Many people can’t handle the idea that their child is just somewhere out there, with them not knowing what’s happening to them. They end up keeping it. However, the reasons they originally wanted to abortion still remain (such as being financially unable to support the child or having emotional/mental issues that keep them from being a good …
/r/MensRights24/06/22 05:21 PM
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You keep saying this. Is this a situation you want for yourself or something? Lol the truth is, this will result in men paying more child support. Banning abortion does not change the social bias we have that women are the caregivers. Courts still tend to give women more custody rights then men, simply because they are the mother. The woman would have to be really messed up for the courts to give full custody to the man. The child support argument assumes the woman will be an a place to pay. If …
/r/MensRights24/06/22 05:05 PM
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Yeah, I’ve tried to get sterilized and have not been successful in finding a doctor that will do it. I’m in my 30s and I’ve been trying since 21. Luckily I have no children
/r/MensRights24/06/22 04:38 PM
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While I understand your fear, and it’s not completely unfounded, you have spoken to less than a handful a women, so you are making your mind up based on speculation and other people’s interpretation. Women are half the world’s population, you don’t want to live in fear of half of the world. Women are not a different species, they are people. What is the opinion you have of the women in your family? Do you have the same fear? I agree with the commenters, people in general are assholes, so protect…
/r/MensRights17/06/22 06:58 PM
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For question 1, it depends on the country/culture, there are many sources online. Some examples are Elliott Roger, Alek Minassian, Sheeba Santhosh, Berlinah Wallace. For question 2, I think there is a lot of fear in the zeitgeist surrounding these kind of attacks. Really horrific crimes terrorize people’s minds, even if the actual amount of those killed is small in comparison to other leading causes of death. In the face of people being killed for not returning romantic interest, people want to …
/r/MensRights03/06/22 06:17 PM
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I’m sorry you’re feeling lonely, I truly hope you find what you are looking for, and I think you will. The whole “you’re not owed a relationship” isn’t really for people who are simply lonely and are venting their feelings. IMO it’s for the people that feel entitled to relationships and are willing to commit violence if they don’t get it (e.g. acid attacks or murder). Both men and women commit these crimes, but in some areas or cultures, they are majority committed by males, such as Asian and mi…
/r/MensRights02/06/22 06:58 PM
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Radium girls is another good example of this, everyone suffered during this time. Obviously men suffered more workplace incidents because they were the majority of the workforce at that time.
/r/MensRights30/05/22 09:59 PM
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This is such a nice post, lovely to see
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:32 AM
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I think the male birth control pill will begin human trials this year. I think it will be a great advancement and give men more control in having children. Finally.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 01:01 AM
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All abuse should be condemned. Period. I also don’t think it should be made light of, it’s not funny. Men should not have to endure abuse any more than a woman should. I truly hope our society can see the light when it comes to this issue.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:51 AM
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I think it would be better if he said “I don’t think she’s beautiful”, because everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and body type is akin to any other characteristic, like hair color. However categorically declaring her “not beautiful” because of her weight (or any characteristic) I believe is wrong. I think there is beauty in every person and we shouldn’t force people to adhere to a standard of beauty forced upon us by those in power. As far as the “health” aspect, I do concede obesity is…
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:17 AM
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I make a big deal out of both. At the moment I can afford to get them nice gifts.Got my mom the TV she wanted, dad is getting the Traeger he wants.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 03:39 AM
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I do think there are some women that paint men as the enemy, but many (including myself) see all forms of inequality as wrong. For example, I am strongly against circumcision and have been outspoken about this issue for years. Why? Because infringement on bodily autonomy for any classification of people is wrong. Genital mutilation is wrong, whether girls or boys. Fighting a against circumcision is also a fight for abortion rights as these are both issues related to bodily autonomy. To care abou…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 08:57 PM
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You don’t like relationships in general? With anyone? They can be a lot of work. I know someone who is on the autism spectrum who feels the same way. As long as you’re happy though, that’s what matters. If you feel your aversion to relationships is negatively affecting your life, then maybe you should look into why you feel that way.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 08:42 PM
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There are people calling for short men to be killed off? That’s terrible, I’ve not heard of that. I’ll have to look that up. It sucks some people put such emphasis on height in men, and odd tbh. My dad is a really short and small guy, he told me it’s never negatively affected him, he’s always done well with the ladies lol. I wonder if the stigma is a fairly recent development. I don’t remember any women my mom’s age talking about height being important to them, I have heard women my age saying i…
/r/MensRights07/05/22 04:22 PM
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Seriously, little babies are having their genitals mutilated on the daily through circumcision and this guy is worried about some dude choosing to change his name ffs
/r/MensRights07/05/22 12:50 AM
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Ok you’re not “right wing” lol. Your opinions are so archaic and hold men to unreasonable standards. Some men might be the leaders, some may prefer not to and there is nothing wrong with that. Let people be free, stop being so judgmental. BTW, you are INCORRECT that “in all great apes the male is always the captain of the family”. Bonobos share 99% of our DNA and are great apes. It is a female dominant and much less aggressive species. I’m a woman and I’m the provider, my partner does not work. …
/r/MensRights07/05/22 12:48 AM
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My partner and I will not get married, because there is no point in marriage. However, we have discussed changing our last names to be the same. If we decide to do that, we’ll be making up our own last name, signifying our new family we have created! Neither of us are especially tied to our last names. I don’t have the last name of either of my parents, and he doesn’t really talk to his family. I think it’s beautiful when people think outside the box and do what’s right for them.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 12:38 AM
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That’s why I read/participate in this sub, to understand men’s rights issues and stand with men when I see inequality…because men are equally important as women….and tribalism is the death of us all.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 03:36 AM
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Understanding the risks and consenting are two different things. When I go for a drive I understand the risks of getting in an accident, but I do not consent to getting in an accident. If I do, I’m going to mitigate the consequences (healing my body, fixing my car) as much as possible.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 03:32 AM
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Yes but my point is that casual sex and abortion are separate issues unrelated to each other as many women have abortions after being impregnated by a committed partner.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 03:22 AM
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Not sure what casual sex has to do with abortion. Everyone I’ve known that has had abortions did so when they were married and already had other kids
/r/MensRights04/05/22 07:23 AM
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Even if the cell cluster has “bodily autonomy” and rights, it doesn’t give them the right to utilize the body or organs of another person with the same equal rights. The unborn child should be removed from the person who did not consent to allow it to occupy their body. Also, you must be really against IVF what with all those unborn children being tossed in the trash on a constant basis…hmmm I wonder why anti choice people aren’t constantly trying to outlaw IVF, it’s almost as if they don’t actu…
/r/MensRights04/05/22 07:21 AM
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…it’s the responsibility of us ALL to avoid the death of us ALL
/r/MensRights04/05/22 07:14 AM
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My first real boyfriend wasn’t circumcised and I never thought anything of it. In fact, I became so used to it, the first time I saw an uncircumcised penis, I was uncomfortable the first time I saw a circumcised one, because it looked like something was missing! I remember seeing a line under the head where the foreskin was removed and feeling like it didn’t look natural. As I got older and learned more, I absolutely recognize circumcision as mutilation and cannot believe we still do this to boy…
/r/MensRights04/05/22 06:25 AM
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Hmmm, is the issue that your skin is showing? Or is it because it’s too tight? The employer can make rules but they should apply to all similarly situated employees. So if they allow thin men to show their stomach but not fat men, then I feel that’s wrong. But if the issue is that your stomach is showing and theirs isn’t, then I feel that isn’t discriminatory. If they allow women in the same job description to show their stomachs, that would also be discriminatory.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 10:06 PM
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Huh? I don’t know what a chanty binks is, where did I say it’s discrimination against women? You mean the gender role stuff? I mean, it’s true, women are seen as primary caretakers and men are seen as breadwinners, and then there are a whole host of different gender roles we are all expected to conform to….and society raises an eyebrow if we don’t conform. That is why it’s seen as odd for a man to be caring for a child, and it shouldn’t be. Instead of gender roles, people should be equals and do…
/r/MensRights24/02/22 04:18 PM
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As a woman, I think it’s very rude to say “I’m hungry” on a coffee date, as it very obviously would appear as if she’s trying to get you to buy her food, even if that’s not the case. I wouldn’t want to be with someone that dense. So either she’s dense or she’s trying to get you to buy her food, neither is good. At that point I would just say “I’m not” lol. It’s awkward but she can’t force you to buy her food. Idk what is wrong with ladies but I always go Dutch, especially on a first date, I insi…
/r/MensRights24/02/22 01:04 AM
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Sadly it’s because women are still seen as the primary caretakers and it’s therefore “odd” for a man to be caring for a child as that is not his gender role. Fighting against gender roles in all forms will help with this. Btw, I’ve seen men treated like this in other ways that make it difficult for them to enjoy life on their own. For example, I go to a family friendly nudist resort (meaning there are kids around), and single dudes in the pool area with children present is suspicious for many pe…
/r/MensRights23/02/22 08:14 PM
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This reminds me of the Greg Kelley case. There’s a documentary about it called “outcry” and I won’t spoil it in case anyone wants to watch it. It really highlights issues in the American judicial system.
/r/MensRights02/02/22 10:46 PM
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It’s interesting that people bring up hygiene in relation to circumcision all the time. I feel if hygiene was really an issue, evolution would have taken care of that. If you don’t believe in evolution and are religious, wouldn’t god have made each person “perfect”? Also, we don’t surgically alter any other part of the body for hygiene. It’s so blatantly obvious to me that circumcision is wrong, why do people, even men fight for it so much? Especially circumcising babies. Like if you want to get…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 08:40 PM
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www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/moral-landscapes/201501/circumcision-s-psychological-damage%3famp
/r/MensRights13/11/21 08:35 PM
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Even if I showed you an “average Joe” you would say that it’s not representative of most women, because you want to believe the cards are stacked against you. All of the men I’ve been with are a mix of feminine and masculine. My ex enjoyed wearing mascara and was obsessed with Mariah Carey and Celine Dion, he also played college football as a linebacker and was very handy around the house, nothing he couldn’t fix. My current bf enjoys feminine clothing but he’s also a carpenter and avid outdoors…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 01:10 AM
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I agree with this! The disenfranchisement of young men is dangerous and can lead to radicalization and violence, to themselves and others. I think a lot of young men are confused, they don’t know what society wants from them anymore. For example, media talks about “toxic masculinity” and patriarchy but women still expect men to pay for everything and hold doors, etc. it’s a mixed message.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 07:15 AM
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This is why we all need to fight to end gender roles. Men are equal caretakers for the household and children. In many European countries, paternity leave is a given. The company I work for gives men up to a year and a half for paternity leave. I really see this as a gender role issue, but it’s also a labor issue and another reason to support labor unions.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 06:59 AM
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Idk man, saw lots of very beautiful women fawning all over Harry Styles recently, just countless women lol. He’s definitely not uber masculine…Prince and David Bowie also come to mind as sex symbols. I think it depends on the kind of people you surround yourself with. Men are complex beings, mixtures of feminine and masculine, like everyone else. Women appreciate both sides of that. It’s very sexy when a man can express both sides, and be secure in himself and his femininity. If a woman wants a …
/r/MensRights12/11/21 06:54 AM
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I completely agree with your definition of equality. We should all work to eliminate the notion that men are the providers and women are the caretakers. Two of my friends are stay at home dads and it works wonderfully. Their wives are very progressive. After sitting down as a family and looking at the finances and their goals, it made sense for the men to stop working. Unfortunately other men are constantly shaming them, which is unfortunate and needs to change. There are plenty of women who are…
/r/MensRights23/09/21 06:47 PM
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Yes attraction is important, and you definitely don’t want to be “repulsed” by your partner. However, in my best relationships, attraction came later, after I had fallen in love with them as a person. I wasn’t repulsed by any means, just not overcome with lust for them at the beginning. My interest usually started with a short conversation in which I realized we had something in common or they intrigued me. As far as wandering eyes go, when I love someone, I see only them. People are different t…
/r/MensRights23/09/21 06:41 PM
1

This is such a good point! Knowing what you want so you don’t waste time and energy is key
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:53 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2021/06/05/asia/japan-birth-rate-2020-intl-hnk/index.html Japan’s marriage and birth rate is declining at an alarming rate. This is due to many things, in part because of their patriarchal system. Women aren’t getting married because they want to have careers and if they get married, they are expected to stay home. Also, men who can’t find good jobs can’t get married because that’s where their value lies. I’m glad you found someone, but that’s not rea…
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:49 PM
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Sorry no incel is not a code word for virgin. It is a code word for unhinged men who murder people and people should not want to be associated with that word. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin, there is something wrong with shooting and running over people because you are angry you cannot get laid.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:44 PM
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Maybe we should work to change those societal expectations and maybe marriage is an outdated institution? Hear me out about marriage. It doesn’t make any sense to have the government acknowledge your relationship. It used to be important, especially because women couldn’t support themselves without a man and had no worth if they were “damaged goods”. Alimony was also necessary because of this, as women typically were stay at home wives without marketable skills. Woman can support themselves now,…
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:41 PM
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There is this notion that liberal women are the ones who use men because they want to have their cake and eat it too (be promiscuous and free but also expecting to be taken care of financially and emotionally) and that conservative women will be loyal and stay home in the kitchen. It’s obviously not true, there are just assholes and non-assholes no matter the political leanings.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:31 PM
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I’m sorry that you’re hurting and you feel that you won’t meet the right one, but I promise you will. Maybe focus on dating women who are successful in their careers and have already established themselves. They will understand what it takes to earn money and if they have lofty goals, it will be incumbent on them, not just you, to reach them. You will be a team, which is what a relationship is supposed to be. Men oftentimes choose women based solely on beauty and charm, and that’s a mistake. May…
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:28 PM
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Were you even happy those 7 years? Sounds like you got nothing out of the relationship, it also sounds abusive. It seems to me you need to find your worth, outside of a relationship. You need to respect yourself first, and then you will find someone who also respects you. Never settle again for someone who is obviously using you, you deserve someone who wants nothing but your company and never forget that. Make sure they are an equal contributor to the relationship in all aspects. Check in with …
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:10 PM
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You are right. This is just anti-trans legislation. Sex changes are not just being handed out to children lol. You are also right in that circumcision for babies needs to stop!!! I cannot believe it’s still allowed and it’s so infuriating. I’ve dated intact and circumcised men and the difference for them in terms of sexual pleasure is significant. Unless there is a medical reason (and I can’t think of one), leave babies’ genitals alone.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 09:50 PM
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Are you saying that circumcision is not “mutilation”? Is that why you are disagreeing? Just trying to understand what you are saying.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 09:45 PM
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Idk, I think in a way, you’re right because feminism is about women’s rights but, if you asked most “feminists” they would say they believe in equal rights. I believe women and men should be completely equal. I don’t think men should have to buy extravagant engagement rings, unless the woman has to buy one as well, I don’t think women should be “first” (ladies first), I don’t think men should be expected to pay for dates, etc. tbh, as a women, I do feel frightened that my rights might be taken a…
/r/MensRights13/08/21 06:55 PM
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This is so true and such a problem! I saw something like this at a work party, everyone was drinking and this attractive girl started giving this guy a lap dance and you could see all over his face he wasn’t into it, it was so gross. I told a manager (this was at a hotel conference) and they put a stop to it. Society needs to stop making it seem like men always want sex, they deserve respect and consent is 100% needed.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 06:32 PM
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Not “feminists”, some women have that opinion, and it is hypocritical. All I am saying is there are ways to find a good partner and millions of people are currently in wonderful partnerships, so you shouldn’t base your entire opinion of a gender on crazy people’s internet rantings.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 06:26 PM
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Ok, I am putting this out here and I’m sure I’m going to get downvoted but here goes. I AGREE WITH THE OP AND EVERYONE HERE THAT THIS IS DISGUSTING. With that said, if this is what you are basing your opinion on, of course you will have a horrible opinion of women, but, I’m sorry, this just isn’t real life, this is the rantings of a person who has a warped view on men and life in general. I’m an attractive young women with no kids, never married, with a great job and income. My BF doesn’t work a…
/r/MensRights13/08/21 06:11 PM
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I agree, also it’s ok for married couples to have separate rooms. That way, each person has their space to cool off after arguments or just a place for them to be that’s all theirs. They can still sleep together if they want, but this whole sleep on the couch thing is dumb. I’ve always had separate rooms in my relationships and it’s helped immensely.
/r/MensRights12/08/21 07:32 PM
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I will say, a lot of women are refusing to marry and “going their own way” as well. I won’t ever marry or have children, it’s too expensive in the US, and marriage is an outdated useless institution. I’ll just stay in my committed relationship, no need for the government to get involved.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 10:43 PM
2

I actually said it was wrong
/r/MensRights08/08/21 05:26 AM
1

You’re right, it’s not very sensitive
/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:08 PM
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Well the world is mostly run by men, so the solutions to the problems rest on men. If you look at the world overall, not just developed countries, women are a subjugated class. Even in developed countries, women are still expected to be a mother, and take care of the household, even if they have a job and contribute equally financially. Women are very very far from “world domination”, but they are at least starting to have a voice in some parts of the developed world. The solution is never us vs…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:35 PM
-5

I think a lot of the jokes are “punching up” women have had to deal with their looks being their only value and the subject of constant scrutiny for thousands of years. There have been pockets of equality here and there, and things seem to be changing a little bit, but let’s face it, a women is seen as valuable due to her looks and man is valuable due to his wealth. Women like to make fun of men’s looks the same way you might feel it ok to make fun of a celebrity, it doesn’t feel harmful when yo…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:27 PM
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Saying something is “a dick measuring contest” to me is shorthand for saying these two men are needlessly trying to show who is better/dominant in a shallow and pathetic display that doesn’t actually show us anything valuable about who they are and what they have to offer as human beings”. It’s a criticism of how society forces men to behave, it’s not condoning actual dick size comparisons. Women use this phrase a lot because it’s a well known fact that men care way more about their dick size th…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:19 PM
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