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| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Do you have an experience to "get yourself a life"? Had you tried both options (going to the same place vs going to different places)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:07 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingOk, I got it. You definitely have some personality issues. There were whole post of people who said "You looking good, you attractive". And for some reason you refuse to believe them. I don't know which issues exactly but you reminded a little bit of my ex who were obsessed with her look. 1) She were demanding all of my attention to the point where I was physically unable to keep texting her. We were texting every day for hours both on morning and on evening. And somehow that was not enough (she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingLet's make it clear first - I'm not trying to compliment you in any way or anything like that but you look relatively attractive as you are. Not "supermodel-level" attractive but definitely not ugly in any possible sense. Some exercise and style improvement (and decent picture if we talking about OLD) can probably bring you above average. So the issue here most likely either really poor social skills/bad(boring) personality and/or being picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingShe have some food with her so she might like to share food with her date. It's adorable! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsPlease, tell some of them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:55 AM |
| 2 | People who say men aren't vulnerable/don't open up emotionally/aren't as good at expressing/processing their emotions: what are examples of what this would actually look like?Thats heavily depends on her previous opinion about him. There are some dominant girl with "I don't like it , I don't trust you, We going to do that I say" attitude. If this is the case, she might not have much respect for that guy to begin with and she fine with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 04:28 PM |
| 5 | [Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice.For many years did exactly that and nothing happened. Those things are just pre-requirements whose make dating just a little bit easier, but those things themselves would not work alone. I have no job for the last 5 years, yet I'm more popular than ever. It's all because I learned to have more active approach during initial stages of knowing people - I am the one, who initially approach girl, I carry initial conversation, I will ask for her social media, it also most like likely me, who would in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Are men truly capable of being selfless partners?No, you didn't. Let me introduce you new concept. I call it "victim responsibility". Let's say, I was hanging in my friend's house near the park. It's getting late and I want to go back home. Before I leave my friend tells me: "Please avoid going through the park. I heard there are a lot of people were robbed there recently". I'm respond with: "Nah, I don't care" and going straight to the park. I got robbed. The question: Who is responsible for this? First of all: the criminal is a criminal no m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Are men truly capable of being selfless partners?In that case there still two options - he is either genuine asshole who was hiding his true self from her and she is reasonable or he was bad person from the beginning and she was fine with it. I think the latter is highly probable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Are men truly capable of being selfless partners?If we talking about specific situation which you described in post,it does relate since there is a chance what we don't know whole story. There is possibility that this guy is genuine asshole, who acted differently before and this woman is reasonable and rational. But there are two other possibilities. 1) This whole story is just her side of the story. There is a chance her story is just partly lie, partly word twisting. Real story could be much different. She could've been really bad person who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Are men truly capable of being selfless partners?First of all - I believe all relationships are transactional in some way and there is no true "selflessness". Worst of relationships are about reciprocity in favours (if you would make good stuff for me, I will hang around). For example men can give away money and women can give away specific type of sex. Even best of them are about reciprocity in feeling (if you make me feel good, I will hang around) And here is the catch - some people feeling good about feeling bad. And many of those people ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 08:19 AM |
| 5 | “I am a very busy person.” is the nice version of flat out rejecting someone. Can’t tell me otherwise 🤷🏻♂️I don't agree with you. It's not "nice". It's actually much worse than actual rejection since you can actually buy into this. So you keep thinking that this person is busy only to realize that it's not the case. It make you believe that it's not you - you just have to wait a little bit. But I think it can be even worse. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:59 PM |
| 3 | “Lower you standard”, is the worst possible advice a person can get, when it comes to datingIt depends on you. Your age, your looks etc can matter. As an example, It can be a lot to ask for if you 40 already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?As for me life is not a gift, it is challenge. It can be rewarding but it also can be really frustrating. Single moms babies life is often tough. Which rises a question: why do you want inflict such a pain to fellow human being?Don't you think sometimes it's better not to give life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 01:23 PM |
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