ConTrikster Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
110	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body"	Debate	ConTrikster	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 01:07 AM
27	The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.	Debate	ConTrikster	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 09:06 PM
15	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.	Debate	ConTrikster	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 01:53 AM
10	Rich & famous men typically are paying for compliance: hence "pay them to leave" or "it ain't trickin if you got it"	Debate	ConTrikster	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 05:21 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc Men were kinda meant to be more of the “natural” sex, mainly cause beauty is more associated with women. There is still a level of brawn associated with men that prevents the need or desire for enhancements that aren’t true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 05:15 AM
–	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him The base of the argument is true: if he’s honest about his sex drive up front, then there is no need to marry him if you can’t fulfill that desire an adequate amount. Getting mad that he wants a bunch of sex is dumb when he married you wanting a bunch of sex. I do understand the reverse is true about marrying a girl who doesn’t give a lot of sex. But we hear that argument too often and it’s kinda not fair to give the other side of it for the men. With that said the main caveat is unfortunately s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 11:02 PM
1	The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous. I kinda agree with this idea but y’all have to understand women would rather have the chance to have access to a wider pool of men, which includes higher tier men. If the sexual revolution brings this to pass then of course women will jump at this. Before hand, they had less of a shot getting the local rich guy or celebrity. Now they can at least get in front of him for a hookup and some involvement, and increase the chances to get something out of it. As opposed to not interacting with that man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 09:32 PM
1	There's No Shame in a Man Wanting a Bangmaid I think the main issue with people hating the term bangmaid is more on the fact their only value they acknowledge on a woman is her cooking cleaning and fucking. They see it as devoid of actual love respect and emotional connection outside of these things. You definitely will need to respect a woman more than just beyond that, even if you do value sex and traditional gender roles. If you just mean the context in which rad feminist try to shame a man because he enjoys consistent gender roles then…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 12:34 PM
–	Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlement Going Dutch (with no sex early on) doesn’t mean a man is a user lol what a terrible argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 03:06 PM
3	Does anyone care that dating is better now for women? What people have to understand is most women don’t really realize they could batting out of their league until the tail end of the situationship or in their real late 20s, 30s, etc They legitimately could be thinking the dude they’re sleeping with is within their league cause they are sharing their bodies. It’s really only men and experienced women who actually realize when they need to dial back the standards because the commitment is what matters for judging league. So women are just doing the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 05:01 PM
1	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. Tf are you talking about ? Re- read what you just said and see if that made any fucking sense The point is men can do the same. Want short term because they know she’s a red flag. That’s not exclusive to women. And even if you didn’t say it was exclusive to them, you mentioning it is pointless because men can do the same thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 01:45 PM
1	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. Anyone can say that they can mitigate risks though Men are capable of that lol “pussy now consequences later” while a lot of men do think like that There are a lot of men who straight up think they can mitigate the risks also	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 02:27 AM
0	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. Yea and half the time she trying to make somebody wait and still end up single Look whether or not waiting works (which vetting before you sleep with someone is always the right answer), the consistency will still be an issue for a lot of men. Depending on the circumstances of intensity of desire, it could be a valid concern for the man also	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 01:50 AM
2	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. Personally I agree with this line of thinking too, even more so with sex acts themselves to a degree. Meaning I don’t care if she didn’t like blowing guys in the past. If she just doesn’t like blowjobs then we aren’t compatible. Or I personally don’t care to do anal even if she did it in the past and doesn’t want to do it again, that wouldn’t be a deal breaker But I do think the general point is men do care about some level of consistency, at least what is described on social media. In a sense t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 12:19 AM
2	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. You are in general right that, in a general sense, most women do have a baseline attraction to the guys they go out with. A couple of things though: picky for instant sexual gratification Most men want a CONSISTENT base of sexual activity. Meaning if you say you are into me like that hot guy you blew and banged from the bar, men want a similar level of sexual attraction if we are committing to you. If you regularly made guys wait, then the reasonable guy will be fine with a similar wait, assumin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 11:32 PM
1	What’s the go-to alternative for casual dating nowadays? Hinge and Facebook dating both work for me For women more my “level” hinge works pretty good, but if I want rather easy sex, then Facebook dating works for me great	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 05:15 AM
5	Solo travel is a completely different experience for average men and women Don’t go to social areas if you aren’t gonna be social Don’t give me that bs about how he’ll be humiliated or rejected anyway. If you can’t have anything stick at all socially, then that’s your fault. Learn to develop better social skills to have meaningful relationships and friendships	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 09:41 PM
0	Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammate You are partially right. But when I say raging bitch, I’m literally talking about a character trait. So of course looking to see if a woman is a good person is a great basis for a relationship. The only other thing men typically would NEED to look for is to make sure she is at least responsible with money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 06:14 PM
20	Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammate yes women do typically go after men that make more lol so women do typically go for providers… Even if they want to be teammates. Women want to be “teammates” with a provider. Also, before you say men would partner with a girl that makes a lot of money, well no shit. BUT men do not factor money in the same way women do when looking for a mate. Like there isn’t a thought to me to go for and look for women with money. Most men will literally see a girl that’s hot and hope she isn’t a raging bitch …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 05:59 PM
6	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It Not being owed sex had nothing to do with my comment because I agreed with that part. Not sure why you felt the need to restate that But anyway, money is a tool to amass resources. The actual incentive for an overall society isn’t just money. It’s progress to better obtain resources, tech & physical advances, make life easier, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:04 PM
8	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It Please stfu about these sex robots my goodness But men in general need to be more strict with their willingness to provide in an unfair system. Meaning if you get less sex, or for some of you, no sex, then that’s a byproduct of you sticking to a more strict code. The workers and builders of society need to actually realize they are the builders and workers. Demand changes in divorce laws so you don’t get screwed in a divorce. So men as a whole would need to strike legal marriage until it’s chang…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:01 PM
3	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It I kinda agree But the incentive element is that someone has to do these dangerous jobs, and women aren’t doing them. “Increasing” doesn’t mean they will ever do them at the same rate as men do them. These jobs are needed to sustain and maintain and push society But he’s no one is forcing men to do it. Except for the desire and need of maintaining and progressing	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 02:54 PM
1	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women Even the child’s well being would be better more likely than not, from a 45 year old man as opposed to a 40 year old woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 02:23 AM
5	If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like you Exactly lol. The amount of women who really complain about setting is hilarious and sad/delusional. If you can’t get better to commit to you, then you aren’t “settling” lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 07:40 PM
5	If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like you I mean I agree with what you are saying But women vastly overestimate how much they actually “settle” lol. If you could actually get better, you wouldn’t have a hard enough time getting the kind of guy you want to actually commit to you. I just find it funny that so many women complain about settling lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 07:38 PM
1	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women I’m not arguing that there isn’t a decrease for men. It’s not the same rate/risk as a woman. Of course it’s better for a younger man to have a baby than a older man But a man has a noticeable longer biological clock than women do	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 09:42 AM
0	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women Yall keep doing it. The risks do not curb off the same way/rate and time for men as they do for women. I did not say there wasn’t a decrease at all for men. Please stop. Men have a noticeable longer biological clock than women do	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 09:41 AM
1	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women ….. the risk do not curve down in the same manner of risk at the same rate/time as a woman’s fertility risk does. Men have a longer biological clock. Please stop the cope	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 09:39 AM
1	Men only need sex to assert themselves over women. Sex is a need, in the sense of the fact our species needs to procreate. If we stopped that biological process then we don’t have. A species Realistically though if you add other societal context, it isn’t as much of a need anymore. But romance isn’t a need either Point is you don’t do things only dole for the fact that they aren’t a need for absolute single survival. You do them as enhancements to a lifestyle to aid relationship dynamics	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 08:43 PM
0	Will you marry a woman like that ? So a modern feminist and benevolent sexist? Sounds like she wants to be traditional when it suits her Although we are going 50/50 so I guess that woulda canceled out But I want kids. So her being childfree is a dealbreaker So no	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 04:29 PM
0	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women Imma be honest I’m trying so hard to refrain from name calling. I don’t wanna insult your intelligence but Please do me a favor and re-read my WHOLE comment(s) I posted in context. My comment(s) doesn’t imply that I don’t think sperm quality declines. The quote you just stated doesn’t even say that. I said to not mention that as a rebuttal to make women feel better, cause it’s over stated and irrelevant, and not true IN THE SAME WAY/RATE AND TIME as it is for men and women (men have a longer bio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 11:47 PM
1	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women You clearly didn’t even read what you just sourced in context to what I said lol. I never said there wasn’t a decrease. I said stop quoting it like men and women have the same biological clock restraints. A women has a noticeable shorter clock span. Just accept it lol the study is saying men age reproductively too, but not at the same rate or with the same sharp decline pattern seen in female egg quality and pregnancy rates after 35 Research does show: Men over ~35–40 may take longer to achieve …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 10:08 PM
0	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women Yea I’m getting trolled. I see what’s going on You got me you’re good lol 😂 Have a good day	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 04:15 PM
-1	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women Bro stop arguing with me. Please You are just typing words on a screen now lol Men have more than 5 good years to have a baby than women. If you really think a 45 year old dude will have an issue having healthy kids as opposed to a 40-45 year old woman you are delusional. Hell even at 50 for him I don’t care about what you personally think about having a damn baby later. I’m telling you about biology as opposed to women	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 04:04 PM
1	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women You’re right but It’s half. So it’s still a significant portion of the female population that’s wants kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 04:00 PM
-1	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women Of course it’s geriatric pregnancy we are talking about pro creation. Tf are you even on about? Just complaining to complain huh? And guess what? Men can still have healthy kids longer than women. Significant longer than women	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 03:56 PM
0	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women A man’s biological clock is objectively not as constrained like a woman’s is. A 40-45 year old male can still have relatively healthier kids than a woman trying to have a baby at 45. This is a fact	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 09:50 AM
-2	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women Here we go. Please stop with the whole “oh men’s sperm quality declines” argument to make women feel better Look even if it slightly declines, it does not decline in the same way in which the quality of pregnancy/eggs decline like a woman biological clock does. This is just disingenuous and men have a longer biological clock than women Edit: downvotes do not change fact and people need to stop coping. Nobody said there want a decreases. But men have a noticeably longer biological clock than wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 09:49 AM
5	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women Lol yall clearly don’t know what men peak in their 30s actually means. Nobody is claiming most or every man will have more options by nature of them being in their 30s. What they were trying to say is since men (and women) don’t actually stat hitting their career financial strides until their 30s, it increases their disposable income. Men also are NOT limited by a biological clock in the same way women are. So they can afford more while still producing kids in their 30s, 40s, 50s, etc. Still it’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 11:14 PM
0	Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young women Ok antidote lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 11:07 PM
3	If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it. The issue is you aren’t gonna come out the gate full force with all your sexual kinks, as women need to get to know you first (per stated by them in the common-sense, this is true of course unless you are the hot guy at the bar and she’s had some drinks but that’s another story lol). This is why trying to make someone wait for sex so long is stupid because you need an honest physical gauge of what you both actually like sexually, beyond just talking. There is a large group of women who also semi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 03:59 PM
-1	You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submission That’s…not patriarchy	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 03:53 PM
0	Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like? You all think we are comparing a one to one with a date and sex, when the overall effort of the relationship does equate with sex. Body organ or not sex is a reasonable ask doesn’t mean you will get it. That’s why you leave I don’t understand why people think most men are advocates of force	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 04:44 AM
-1	Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like? You all think we are comparing a one to one with a date and sex, when the overall effort of the relationship does equate with sex. Body organ or not sex is a reasonable ask doesn’t mean you will get it. That’s why you leave I don’t understand why people think most men are advocates of force	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 04:44 AM
-3	Leaving a woman is not trying to control a woman Uhh yea lol I’m aware Threatening to leave someone isn’t a crime either lol But if you repeatedly hold it over their head that’s wrong also (not a crime)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 03:07 AM
-4	Leaving a woman is not trying to control a woman The problem is almost anything can be interpreted as “do it or else I’ll leave”. You aren’t gonna automatically leave your partner the first time you say a deal breaker cause you will give it a chance. Of course if you repeatedly hold it over their head then that’s wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 03:06 AM
-9	Leaving a woman is not trying to control a woman So what ? Your right to not “feel pressured” doesn’t override my free will morally to leave if my terms aren’t met. You can’t call me controlling over my own free will to leave you don’t have autonomy over me lol Edit: lol the fact I’m getting downvoted is nuts lol. Nobody is saying to repeatedly hold it over someone’s head. But you wont leave the first time you bring something up. The fact yall think it’s controlling to leave is crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 02:58 AM
-5	Leaving a woman is not trying to control a woman Coercion, at times, is just bullshit guilt tripping to get someone to stay. A relationship isn’t an inherent right. You can’t have a “coercion” argument over my free will to leave just cause you may “feel pressured” So what ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 02:57 AM
-7	Leaving a woman is not trying to control a woman I need to quote it but there was a post a while ago in which certain people were really trying to advocate that leaving was a form of coercion that could sometimes be punished under the law lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 02:55 AM
–	The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about. You are correct. There is difference and anything teetering on the line of scenario 2 is grounds for separation. However, I think a lot of men assume scenario 2, when in reality, if she really just completely stops doing these actions, it’s a great likely she never truly enjoyed the acts in the first place. If someone loves you and has a normal level of attraction, completely stoping or severely limiting the acts isn’t really as likely as people may think. Also there is a spectrum. The spectrum …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 11:26 PM
–	The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about. You hit it on the head. The pitfall of all of this is a lot of men assume it’s point 2 when typically, if a girl just has that much of an aversion to doing it, she probably didn’t enjoy doing it in a general sense in the first place	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 11:10 PM
12	Men "lying to get sex" is a manipulative blanket narrative. Ideally someone wouldn’t be able to tell the difference between only wanting sex, or leaving due to sexual compatibility. But if you are lying/stringing along then yes you are an asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/26 02:34 PM
1	If you’re a man and can’t find a partner, it’s just natural selection What people need to understand is the idea of settling adapts over time. Women’s idea of what a high value man is was more cut and dry (in a way) back then. You could be average attractiveness, and as long as you were a provider a lot of women were happy with the deal and thought it was a win. Sure women settled but they probably wouldn’t have considered a lot of what they were doing to be settling all around the board. The mind and psychology is a bitch. Before, they were constrained almost to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 12:42 PM
–	You don’t have to admit you have a sense of entitlement to have a sense of entitlement A woman doesn’t “need” romance in the same way they would food and waters Yet it would be dumb to say women don’t need romance…you get our point? Sex is the same way	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 12:27 PM
-3	Casual sex is accessible to any man competent enough to get it I’m 5’8 and got plenty of ass in my life. I stayed in shape, held great social support circles and actually went out my comfort zone in early key stages in life, prioritized socialization/sociability in professional & personal life, etc. I have a fitting haircuts/groomed style(s) that fits me, etc And above all else: if one woman says no, I just go to another woman that will say yes. It’s a numbers game a lot of the time. I don’t wallow cause there are 4 billion women on this planet. Most guys s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 12:49 AM
–	The majority of women can’t make men feel as desired as women who engage in casual sex with them. He said attractive not love	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 08:17 PM
1	Only wanting women who give you instant sexual gratification is being picky too. You are right, in the sense that depending on how strict and picky about a standard you are, the more you will have to take the consequences of a limited dating pool. If you want sex super fast, that can be seen as picky. I am just gonna give a general point though: vetting for biological compatibility through proof sex is not some uncommon ridiculous thing. Our species has mated and had sex since the dawn of our time. “Waiting” typically comes from a puritan-monogamous based time period. There …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 11:33 AM
–	Average men don't struggle in dating Yea it’s true that men on the internet tied into internet dating politics isn’t the “average” male, in the sense of if they are having serious debilitating issues with getting women at all, they aren’t actually average but below average. The average male isn’t some near virgin incel with social issues. That’s just internet biased men flooding the same area of the internet with a common problem. The only bone/caveat I’ll throw is that more people are becoming less physically social than prior gen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 11:10 AM
–	Average men don't struggle in dating I’ve said this years ago that the “average” male isn’t some virgin. The average male does eventually get a gf or a few lays within the span of years timeline. Dry spells are normal. But you aren’t “average” if you can’t socially obtain women at all under 9/10 circumstances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 11:05 AM
9	It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women. This is an equivalent argument to telling women to stop complaining about no good guys being left, when they probably aren’t attracted to a lot of the good men they have ran across in their life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 07:27 PM
2	Yes, some women actually want to be single and childless I’m gonna make a post on this but that “single women are more happier” claim probably comes from a couple of factors: Women married to 50/50 relationships may see a decrease in happiness because they are still expected to take more responsibility in child care & household responsibilities. So the relationship isn’t actually 50/50 for them. ——That study isn’t true if you factor in a woman marrying someone who is richer than her who’d be able to offset the responsibilities of her needing to work. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 01:34 PM
2	Simps are the problem. Yes this gets posted quite often everywhere. If men were less tolerant of things then of course some improvement would appear. I do also think it would incentives women to only go out with guys they are absolutely attracted to though, as they know they can’t get a benefit in general otherwise anymore. At that point you might as well only date somebody you truly got the hots for as nothing else is promised. But this same logic of being strict applies the other way around sort of also. If women st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 03:58 PM
3	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse You don’t need to be having casual sex if this is your huge concern. You can wait a couple of dates to figure out if this person is a piece of crap and more often than not, deep down inside, you know if it’s a bad idea to continue to see that person. Also, only making relationships guys wait in itself is also the issue, when it sounds like you consistently should be making everyone wait, if you want to keep following some logic of things. Also part of me thinks the person refusing commitment wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 12:22 PM
5	Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bed Yea of course a man will still get off we do like most of the work during sex nature rewards us still	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/26 12:58 AM
0	Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bed Yea a ma can get off during sex cause he’s doing most of the work lol Of course nature rewards men with the orgasm we’re the hunters who put in the work to peruse the woman. Imagine how sucky biological reality would be if we had to peruse the girl and couldn’t orgasm mainly	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/26 12:57 AM
1	A woman is never "not ready for a relationship" Yes this is obvious but this is universal: man or woman. You will make accommodations and time for the things you want. The “I’m not ready yet” is just I’m not ready/ wanting to date YOU. A lot of times they are hoping they can get something better. Humans are actually simple/similar biologically/psychology. You won’t reject a good deal of a mate (in your eyes) if the opportunity presents itself	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 09:41 PM
1	The concept of gender roles is outdated and stupid You do what’s best for the household. 50/50 doesn’t alway mean everything needs to be split equally. It’s more that the overall labor of making the relationship household work has everyone doing their part. If I make wayy more than a lot of the population or my wife, then her trying to go 50/50 on finances is stupid. Just let me pay the bills. Whenever she’s better at for the relationship is what she can focus on. Also, a lot of our gender roles aren’t just men trying to be big mean oppressors. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 06:51 PM
1	The concept of gender roles is outdated and stupid If you mean that men do more physical job tasks because we are stronger, then yes you are obviously correct. That “gender role” was for the optimization of our society and species	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 06:38 PM
2	The average hour of an American wife's extra "unpaid labor" is compensated at a rate comparable to the services of a cybersecurity engineer. Oh yea I agree that’s why I said manage	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 05:41 PM
–	Whats your reasoning that you actually notice your own privilege? Good job	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 01:11 PM
2	The average hour of an American wife's extra "unpaid labor" is compensated at a rate comparable to the services of a cybersecurity engineer. Ok so what? You just said you’ve (personally) never heard of a single woman who’s been given control of a husband’s excess earnings. I’m trying to explain where in places it can be common. You used a personal anecdote I can care less about trying to give you and argument now because I wasn’t trying to give one in the first place lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 01:04 PM
-2	Q4BP: What are you doing about the gender wars content crisis? Misogyny is worse because men have build 90% of society and men are bigger and stronger. so on a physical & systematic level the sex building things and that’s stronger will control civilization more often than not. Even Queens matriarchs rely on the strength of men to maintain a society. Misandry only “seems worse” now because it’s a lot more culturally acceptable in modern western times. There is no threat of a female uprising. So the media culture more often than not can push it more to incen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 01:02 PM
6	Being a SAHM is idiotic for both the partners. I agree but the silver lining to your whole point is financial dependency, and financial loss during divorce. The actual labor division of being a stay at home moms and a man going to work full time can still be very beneficial if a fair dynamic is practiced in the household Women risk a lot being a sahm because they would become dependent on the man’s income. Part of the reason divorce laws are harsh on men now is because back then a woman was literally screwed if she tried to leave her husband…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 12:46 PM
4	The average hour of an American wife's extra "unpaid labor" is compensated at a rate comparable to the services of a cybersecurity engineer. A woman being in control of the finances is actually very common in the U.S.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 12:35 PM
5	The average hour of an American wife's extra "unpaid labor" is compensated at a rate comparable to the services of a cybersecurity engineer. I’m surprised more people don’t know this. In the U.S (I’m from the south) it’s very common for the women to manage the household finances. Glad you got out of that situation though cause it sounds like she took advantage in a very negative way!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 12:34 PM
1	Women should not be taken seriously and there is a reason for it Calm down guys (ladies figure of speech) I’m joking lol Women are very important I love y’all dearly the world would suck if it was a big sausage fest everywhere	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 06:43 PM
-1	Women should not be taken seriously and there is a reason for it Lmao Yea…and that physical labor is what lol you are almost there. the physical labor(s) that keeps society running. And sperm (and no don’t give me some bone marrow/experimental bs it all mainly still requires a sperm and egg).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 01:07 PM
-7	Women should not be taken seriously and there is a reason for it I’m not gonna fuel the gender wars so i agree cough cough men need women to have a baby really idk what else *cough cough /s jkjk	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 04:49 PM
-4	Women should not be taken seriously and there is a reason for it Yea but me rely on other men though to keep society running. Women rely on men	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 04:41 PM
1	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women the reason women are choosier with sex is because of this inherent risk Yes I know. That was stated in my original comment. Although birth control is objectively helping to even out that playing field, I even said I’d disregard that for the overall biological point that pregnancy is a risk. less likely to orgasm from PIV I agree with this too and why women should definitely be pickier in a sense of finding someone that cares about their pleasure. But there is another argument to be made also tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 11:18 AM
-2	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women Most men understand that money and sex correlate. Men typically want sex, and women typically want providing and security & money is a big part of that. The things that get dicey is when the dynamics are unfair. Ofc everything needs to be consensual (ie no rape etc). But gets unfair to demand more when both either bring the same or one brings more to the table in certain senses. For example if you both have an orgasm then that’s technically an equal exchange. If I’m rich and providing then of co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 06:59 PM
0	In 2026 it genuinely feels like men are leveling up at a way faster rate than women, and it’s changing the whole dynamic This isn’t really the main reason I’d say men are gonna potentially level up faster than women. It’s because there is a level of social change men are forced to adapt to. Women have changes also but it isn’t as strict. Men still have the burden of performance of adapting social norms (no I’m not just talking about beating your wife). I literally mean the men that weren’t abusive still had a level of respect for taking care of the house building society, etc. now women still want men to pay all t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 10:28 PM
2	It's better to be the mistress than the wife I don’t even agree with the post but this post is Speaking in general man like everything topic on this sub	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 09:43 AM
1	If women treated men like men treat women we would love it. I don’t disagree with that but what does that change about what I said?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 01:56 AM
1	If women treated men like men treat women we would love it. All that matters is that you don’t stay with them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 08:16 PM
2	If women treated men like men treat women we would love it. No dude just no. Men would not hate this happening to them on the regular. The reason women hate it is from a safety standpoint. Men pretty much don’t have the same risk, so for us it’s just a minor annoyance. Added that the increased attention would solve a lot of these men’s hyper sexual needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 05:39 PM
5	If women treated men like men treat women we would love it. wtf kinda response is this? Literally just choose a better partner that won’t treat you like a bang maid. It’s not the early 1900s anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 05:36 PM
3	No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get” Yes it’s actually pretty easy to tell when a woman (or guy in reverse) actually likes you. It will feel less like a slow rolling audition and more like smooth flow bonding. You won’t really need to question what happening in the dates, nor will you have to wait time and jump hoops to get things like reasonable affection, sex, etc. This is why they say once a man experiences genuine burning desire, it’s hard for him to date someone else who isn’t showing him similar traits. He will know what to l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 09:21 AM
1	Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks? People are so virtue weird now it's annoying Yes drinks help calm nerves. Humans have bonded over alcohol for thousands of years. But you ideally don't always need some focused dinner the guy pays for just to get to know someone. Drinks are a good low cost social investment into getting to know each other. Even if you want him to pay. Also for time reasons, if you aren't feeling it, you can leave at any time. My goodness some of you women act like a man who thinks he needs a blowjob by the first…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 10:53 PM
1	Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks? The overlap is almost irrelevant though when you do an actual safety analysis. Public dates are objectively safer than private home dates…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 10:45 PM
1	Just because someone doesn't want to do things your way or in your timeline, doesn't mean they don't like or that they are the bad guys. Lmao me neither	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 07:28 PM
1	Just because someone doesn't want to do things your way or in your timeline, doesn't mean they don't like or that they are the bad guys. I was harsher but I’ve said this exact thing before also. Someone not going exactly on your timeline doesn’t mean they don’t like you or that they aren’t good people. This goes to both sides. Ironically this can go either way when it comes to how long a man is willing to wait, or how long a girl wants to wait in general (within reason of course)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 07:27 PM
3	It's okay to want virgin women If a man asked a woman if she is a virgin and she lied, then from that point she got consent via dubious method. She is a rapist plain and simple. Ayy alright man you got it lmaoo 😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:33 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Y’all are still again missing the point “I don’t want to” would then just be met with finding someone else that does want to. No one’s saying force We have said this multiple times yet you still keep on bring up force	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:57 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Y’all have got to stop thinking everything comes from a sexual trauma perspective For one if there is seriously that much trauma around things like blowjobs etc then you’d both get with someone compatible and get with a therapist. No one is saying hold sex acts over a trauma victims head Second: I agree with the idea of your analogy just not the weight. I agree with the idea in the sense that I compared efforts of time gifts etc to sex, but the specific analogy was mis weighted. If sex acts caus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:52 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" No it’s literally not spot on lmaooo. And even then if I got into a relationship I’m still doing the best of what’s in my capabilities, assuming I’ve vetted that I’m not getting taken advantage of	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:34 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Look I’m just arguing the point of the OP point. I agree that in my personal relationships, I could care less about what you did in the past. If you aren’t trying to fit my needs then I’m out	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:33 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" You are not downgrading what you do for a living current serious relationship, assuming you aren’t actually getting taken advantage of. That sounds nuts	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:31 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" The fact you compared thousands of dollars for a flight across the water without any vetting, with sex acts towards someone you love is nuts lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:29 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" This is not a fair weight analogy because you are comparing thousands of dollars on a flight to the other side of the planet over simple sex acts	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:28 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Read my edit but I agree not not force things. Btw I know this is subjective but a lot of these conversations aren’t coming from thing crazy kinky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:47 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" You have missed the point again. No one is saying to guilt the partner into doing anything. If they aren’t doing what you desire then I’d just leave them. That’s not coercion because commitment isn’t an owe. Also I don’t know why that dip crap compared a birthday to a blowjob. But you being willing to risk “choking on a dick” if you know you’ve don’t it easily before is what the issue would probably be. Even then if you really just refused blowjobs I’d leave for someone who liked giving them. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:43 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Bro I’m not going into relationships trying to throttle what exactly I’m doing for that person. Me and the other person do things for each other because we actually like them and desire them. If I feel I’m not getting what I need I just go to the next woman who will. I’m still going to put my best foot forward with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:40 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Yes but the manner in which something would be a dealbreaker would also be subjective. Someone has every right to break up and find someone more compatible that will give them the sex acts they like	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:38 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Your debate point 2 is spot on	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:32 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Look, I’m getting sick of saying “nobody is owed sex” cause it’s the most obvious thing that no one would disagree with. It’s a cheap way to shut down and mis characterize the situation. But if we ride the women’s logic then no one is entitled to anything. If I treated my ex to expensive or thoughtful dates and dinner, then my current gf isnt entitled to those things. Ive “changed now” and dont want to taken advantage of out my comfort zone…. You see how stupid that sounded?? Why do yall get so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:32 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Y’all will say this over simple shit like giving consistent sec or blowjobs lol Nobody is talking about a clear potential harmful act	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:27 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" This is literally not the point and no one mentioned harmful acts even if it’s just an example	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:26 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Chores is a completely different thing. But yes everything else you said applies	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:25 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" You literally just don’t let someone take advantage of you. That doesn’t mean you don’t give your partner your all wtf kinda question was this lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 02:24 PM
1	"I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone" Oh wow I didn’t know that. I remember when this sub had a cmv option years back. Sorry about that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 03:19 PM
1	"I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone" This is debate not cmv	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 03:00 AM
–	"I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone" The women in this thread are brain dead like my goodness even if you don’t agree, it wasn’t that hard to understand what the OP was trying to convey. Essentially, just like men have unrealistic expectations due to porn, women can have unrealistic expectations on relationships: in this situation, it’s the level of what parter they can actually keep for commitment. Sometimes women are too used to only getting fucked by a rich guy or a really hot guy they totally just ignore the fact he won’t give …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 10:27 PM
-3	"I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone" That’s….not the point lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 10:23 PM
–	The idea that a guy is morally obliged to date an old chick just because he’s old is regarded 35 dating a 21 year old is just like Epstine huh wow learn something new everyday	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 10:17 AM
-2	A lot of guys here endlessly whine about dating, but only give the most lukewarm effort into actually doing it Incoming a bunch of dudes giving excuses & getting mad that they have to touch grass lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 01:38 AM
1	CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average Men No the roi is actually high. But it’s like an index fund. It’s not something immediate but the more you put in the more you get out of it overtime	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/26 08:24 PM
1	"If monogamy didn’t exist in society, wouldn’t most women end up pairing only with the most attractive men, creating a large underclass of men with no hope of dating prospects" what do you think? They would bang the hot desirable men and raise the children in villages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 07:04 PM
1	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. They’re still in a relationship if they say so Idk what you think you are trying to prove lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 05:38 PM
1	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. Relationship dynamics are more subjective to the 2 people engaging with each other than how we handle scientific observation I’m gonna assume you are trolling	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 01:57 PM
0	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. Lol You got me you are hilarious. Good troll 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 01:03 AM
0	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. Most people will bring up the reason they may want to leave before actually leaving. It’s part of the discussion a normal relationship would have to try and work out before nuking it. I didn’t say coercion isn’t real. I said in the sense of how you brought it up is almost meaningless. This is mainly cause of your inclusion of negative consequences. That’s such a wide range the the negative consequences can range from physical harm, homeless (which is illegal), to a negative consequence of not ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:43 PM
1	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. “I feel so badly this should be illegal so I’m just gonna keep twisting and saying it” Lol ok ma’am. Good luck bringing this to court unless you wanna fall into the camp of a woman falsely accusing someone just cause you got your feelings hurt. “Your honor he lied to me about wanting a relationship so this is illegal! He should face punishment cause my feeling are hurt that he lied to me!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:39 PM
0	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. Lol you just bright up the most obvious examples of something being illegal when we are taking about misleading someone into a relationship I’m gonna assume you are trolling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:36 PM
1	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. You can keep repeating it all you want. It’s not gonna change that no one has ever got convicted, and never will, of telling giving misleading hope about a relationship to be sex. Sorry but no. The consent is of making sure she isn’t forced or pressured	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:35 PM
0	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. The main objective error you made is that you don’t think 2 people can be serious and have sex after 3 dates or so. Objectively speaking if 2 people have sex within the frame and become gf and bf exclusively and agree they are serious, then that’s true for them. Whether you like it or not. The reasons why they may have sex fast are for them to agree upon with each other. If it’s valid for them then it’s valid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:33 PM
0	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. Yea that whole negative consequence definition they gave is a strait up “feelz” answer. I’m not obligated to stay just cause of your feels. Grow up like the rest of us have to	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:30 PM
0	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. Coercion in these senses are meaningless and arbitrary. A “negative consequence” will always be based on a subjective “feel” to the person on the other end. I’m not morally obliged to stay with you just cause you “feel” bad about me leaving. At that rate any negative feeling would just result in someone being coerced into a behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:28 PM
0	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. You are not getting it lol it can be serious if the 2 people together says so. That’s objectively all that matters in the moment	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:22 PM
0	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. This is one of those expansive answers alt left people give. Sorry but lying about a relationship isn’t coercion or illegal. As wrong as it it. That’s not even how sex consent works	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:18 PM
0	If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal. Lol that’s not how legality works This just reads as you feel it’s bad so I’m gonna twist the definition of coercion just cause my feelz are hurt and I feel this should be illegal	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 11:12 PM
2	Being Yourself is at Least 50% Having a Backbone Yall coulda FaceTime rq if she was that worried	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/26 09:39 PM
10	Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the economic feasibility of sex work for the average woman The escort averages across the board wound up to be like $60 a fuck. No most women would not be able to make a solid career out of sex work like y’all think. Added to the fact that it’s a dangerous job, etc y’all are really overestimating what women can get away with just cause it’s sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 09:24 PM
8	Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the economic feasibility of sex work for the average woman Kevin Samuel’s did a study on this The escort averages across the board wound up to be like $60 a fuck. No most women would not be able to make a solid career out of sex work like y’all think. Added to the fact that it’s a dangerous job, etc y’all are really overestimating what women can get away with just cause it’s sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 09:21 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal I heard about a year or 2	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 09:00 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal respect 🫡	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:56 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal I agree some of theses dudes don’t deserve pussy smh I think some girls don’t deserve dick but my mind gets a little altered after a few drinks so idk yet	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:47 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal HIV got introduced in the 80s along with crack Coincidence? I think not !	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:46 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal That’s a little harsh don’t ya think baby cakes? To answer your question: the men that are hot and rich and have game will continue to get laid. Does that help or no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:45 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Nahh ban em is better gotta think of the greater good for society	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:42 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal What if he was a millionaire with a massive dong that does work properly, it’s just better without the condom. does that change anything for you or no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:42 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal I think Dads need to be revered as legend and heroes. Can’t do that if he’s always around right Come by for a little bit teach and important lesson here and there, leave, repeat	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:40 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Fake news my uncle works for the cdc	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:37 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal You raise a great point so I’ll raise a better one We’re not promised any years after like 75 anyway so we might as well go out with a bang (literally and figuratively). Can’t you understand our point just a little?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:37 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Marry a rich guy. If I was a girl I’d do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:34 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Well with that attitude it won’t feel good for anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:33 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Who’s side are you on here pal	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:32 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal See if he can’t stay hard with the condom then nobody is having fun I vote ban the condoms. Besides Herd immunity and Darwinism will take care of the rest	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:31 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Don’t yall get baby fever around the 30s anyway? I see this as a win-win for everybody Shit and you beg maternity leave too so that’s time off work to bond with the baby	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:27 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Honesty with Darwinism and herd immunity I think we’ll be fine in about 50 years they’ll probably all go away	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:25 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Mehh rather pass the law and make em illegal to be safe. Gotta up the birth rates too so that’s a plus	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:23 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Just pull out on time it works most of the time until it doesn’t that should be safe enough right	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:21 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Hey Darwinism baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:21 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Yes they do the harm our enjoyment	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:18 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Yessir now that’s what I’m talking about. Herd immunity on those “STD’s” they’re really fake news honestly. My uncle works at the CDC he said the numbers were fake This guy knows how to party!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 08:18 PM
19	Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material. Please stop cause social proof is more of a female phenomenon. Men want a fuck buddy wife to ensure they don’t enter a dead bedroom with a bunch of responsibilities. It’s not for other men lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 06:18 PM
6	Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material. This was a perfect example they will probably deny. Doesn’t even have to be a millionaire. Let’s just make it more likely and say high value man in earning past like 300k or something	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 06:09 PM
2	People need sex the same way spoiled brats need the newest iPhone. Right but that’s the point though Going on dates in the same manner as recreational sex isn’t a “need” either. We could just all meet and bang once for procreation and go to work and come home to just take care of kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 01:20 PM
3	People need sex the same way spoiled brats need the newest iPhone. But that’s the point. In that same manner we want/need sex because it’s objectively how we keep our species going by procreation. The way we argue so much about not being a need it’s dumb and pointless. Cause while romance may not be a need it’s still a net positive to society in some way. It helps important vet someone before procreation. And romance helps the maintenance of the family. I don’t understand why this sub is so functional r*tarded/autistic on all sides (blue pill red pill women men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 01:13 PM
3	People need sex the same way spoiled brats need the newest iPhone. Intention. A date & courtship typically has a romantic goal in mind to build towards some level of romantic connection. A hang out is typically something anyone can do regardless of goal and is pretty casual. You can be friends family sibling coworkers even sometimes romantic interest, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 12:55 PM
0	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. Wanting your long term partner to be sexually compatible & sexually passionate for you enough to have a great sex life you don’t need to jump through ridiculous hoops for is a normal thing. Guy or girl. Of course it isn’t all about sex but damn a bare minimum is a satisfying sex life I swear most people on this sub whether the are women or men, blue pill or red pill, are functionally r*tarded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 12:44 PM
4	People need sex the same way spoiled brats need the newest iPhone. lol sure and with this argument, People need sex just like people need dates…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 12:35 PM
-3	Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important? Lol the fact you think pattaya is automatically a pedophile destination already shows why you have a fucked up thought process now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/26 08:07 AM
1	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone Passport sis/girls doesn’t work long term because the motivations behind being a passport dater is different. Men don’t mind providing for women within their capabilities. Men are going to find a more perceived submissive/feminine women in a lower economy to take care of. This is a lot more doable. Even if the woman is trying to scam for a green card or something. Women in general still like being provided for. A woman from the west typically can’t just find someone overseas to take care of them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 09:12 PM
1	This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men here Go ahead and shoot!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 01:18 PM
1	This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men here You are generally right. A lot of men here who claim to be “average men” are socially autistic/no social circle awkward men who don’t have much experience with women in the first place, or cling to one bad experience and bitch. But to be fair, there is a general point that’s kinda an accurate observation regarding dating women. Due to women getting sexual attention quicker, and a bit of hypergamy, along with social media, average women really do somewhat think they are better than average men. W…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 11:57 PM
2	how commen is it for women to make false accusations of a man? I know I’m late but this is probably the most fair conclusion/guess I’ve seen on this.	/r/MensRights	08/08/25 10:47 AM
1	Sex feels like a necessity but his rejection breaks me (F26) every time. Self esteem and sadness due to boyfriend's (M23) low libido. He is happy otherwise and wants to move in. How to proceed? Uhhh yea dude needs to fix his diet and cut the smoking. What’s keeping him in the game right now is the fact he still does cardio. While sex multiple times everyday is pretty much hard to maintain consistently for a long time, he clearly has factors that are contributing to his low sex drive. Please have a talk with him about his diet and smoking	/r/RedPillWomen	07/07/25 07:34 PM
0	I messed up and need advice. Yea he really should have manned up and stated his boundaries well before it happened	/r/RedPillWomen	07/07/25 07:26 PM
1	I messed up and need advice. Yea he should have been said something	/r/RedPillWomen	07/07/25 07:25 PM
3	I messed up and need advice. Mmmmm idk if trying to read the comments to understand why he would be mistrusting of you with other men. I understand you did not physically cheat on him. However at any point in the relationship were you too friendly with other men? Didn’t know proper boundaries? Too naive ? I want to be fair to him cause we are only hearing your side and it’s understandable he doesn’t want another man in his house while he’s gone (who’s not family) Edit: If your finance had such an issue with it, he should ha…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/07/25 07:18 PM
6	The biggest reason dating & relationships are broken today is because men are comparing themselves to HOT men, mistaking how women interact with them as true measure of attraction, and giving up when their own experiences don't match Yea this shouldn’t be some hard concept to grasp but for some reason women who are “done with fun” don’t get this. If you have no urge to sleep with the man you are dating, and can feel this absolute ease of making him wait for it, you probably shouldn’t be dating him. Biology matter when it comes to mating still folks	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 10:30 PM
0	The biggest reason dating & relationships are broken today is because men are comparing themselves to HOT men, mistaking how women interact with them as true measure of attraction, and giving up when their own experiences don't match You are taking it too literally	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 10:27 PM
1	What do RP think of attractive men with less attractive women? Yep. This is 100% accurate	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 02:45 PM
2	Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flags This is a good point. Being a good guy at its base is simply not gonna guarantee you the woman. Being interesting with those qualities will better your chances. And what’s “interesting enough” can vary from woman to woman. This is where Trial and error based on shopping around until you meet the right one comes in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 07:59 PM
1	If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him. Bro the fuck are you on about lol Just ask the girl out and tell her you like her lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:38 PM
3	Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceable Mf said “she got rejected by the dude she wanted, but hey a dude on tinder would still fuck her and make her a Twinkie. You lose dude!” Alright man I want you to replay that back in your head and see how that sounds lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 02:03 AM
7	Rich & famous men typically are paying for compliance: hence "pay them to leave" or "it ain't trickin if you got it" Yep like I said: convenience & compliance	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 08:20 PM
1	Rich & famous men typically are paying for compliance: hence "pay them to leave" or "it ain't trickin if you got it" Can you expand a bit? I kinda agree with you but may disagree in some elements but would like you to further explain so I can understand you more	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 08:19 PM
0	Rich & famous men typically are paying for compliance: hence "pay them to leave" or "it ain't trickin if you got it" lol….imma assume you are troll baiting If what you got from this post is HVM only pay for sex then good gosh ma’am 😂 I literally just said guys like drake and future don’t have to pay for sex alone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 07:24 PM
1	Rich & famous men typically are paying for compliance: hence "pay them to leave" or "it ain't trickin if you got it" Thanks for taking the time out. Without writing a whole dissertation in response, I’ll just say that I haven’t missed the point. This sub repeatedly focuses on burning desire as an element. I feel as though there was not a need to focus merely on that this post, as we already know that’s true. Also when you actually get into the real world long term, yes burning desire is important. But for most people/women, burning desire alone won’t take care of her enough to abandon lifestyle & there has to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 06:01 PM
2	What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years? I look at future timeline website. People have been theorizing that humanity will essentially end if we don’t make it past the 2070 hump.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 05:30 PM
1	Men are the ones who really settle lol Idk why tf you went that dumbass direction with the age. But do think men settle the higher on the totem pole they go in regards to success and looks. For example if you are just a regular average guy or lower, then of course you aren’t really settling for anything. But it’s gonna always be hard for a woman to match and compare to a dude making six figures or more, tall, strong willed drive etc. when those types of guys are in high demand. The reverse doesn’t really work on women. Women maki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:05 PM
8	The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”. Just say no bro lol & move on. you don’t have to be her friend. Don’t stay in that “zone”	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 01:13 PM
0	The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”. My post didn’t miss the point because I already said hoping for something greater off of being nice is wrong. This would mean acting like a friend too	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 11:18 AM
1	The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”. My tl;dr addressed that. If you allow yourself to get strung along it’s like 75% your fault	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 11:13 AM
4	The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity Tests This is technically an aspect to it	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 10:58 AM
-1	Paternity tests should a standard part of the birthing process. There would be no reason to “opt out” like I don’t understand why yall don’t get the point of automatic paternity testing. It’s so that the uncomfortable hassle conversation doesn’t have to happen, and you can just rest for the paternity along with genetic disorders like any other test they do. If a woman really gets mad that “my husband won’t opt out the paternity test” then she clearly has something to hide. Because why would I opt out of something that’s automatically gonna happen? Even if I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 01:51 PM
5	How comes jocks and street boys don't get the "inc*l" label? Femcels exists but in a different way. The actual term incel was coined by a women in the 90s and was supposed to mean a women who couldn’t get commitment, or keep her celibacy only for commitment. Black pill actually stole that one. If a girl has a hard time securing commitment & can’t receive almost any of the favorable dating options she wants and can’t hold down a man to save her life, and she makes that her personality in either complaining about men & her choices, or becomes a nice girl, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 01:40 PM
8	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. if you are talking about a 30 year old picking up a 17/18 year old from school then yes that’s weird and I can see your argument. But hate for age gaps goes too far when you wanna bitch at 35/40 year old men for banging 22 year olds. Like it’s not that serious most of the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 05:47 PM
1	What it means to be settled for sexually Man this whole post/comment section is hit and miss. First of all, it’s not hard to have both a good sexual relationship & a good romantic/emotional one too. Idk why yall think you can’t have both and that says more about your ability to attract that anything else. Also, duty sex, even in loving high attracting relationships is normal. If a woman loves you & respects you, she will often times still submit her body to you. She understands that if y’all are monogamous, then she has full responsibi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 03:38 PM
5	What it means to be settled for sexually This is a realistic answer and I don’t understand why people don’t get that a woman that actually loves you/respects you will give you duty sex sometimes. Women on average don’t necessarily have the same sex drive as men, men slightly have a higher sex drive. If y’all agree to be monogamous, then that means she has sole provider of fulfilling your sex drive. She understands that it’s not fair to monopolize the sex all the time and she submits her body because she loves you, just like you may not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 12:55 PM
2	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? I mean…realistically most men (should) understand that women have to be aware of risks in dating, consider they’re technically the physically weaker sex. The problem isn’t the standards themselves. But more so how inconsistent they are depending on how attractive the guy is. And even then that’s not necessarily the issue cause people are more willing to break rules the more attracted they are. The issue is a lot of times women really whine and complain about the market they create, based on thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 07:56 PM
6	Orgasms are not a significant predictor of sexual satisfaction among women I’m not trying to say I know a woman more than women do, but what you said is kinda only 50% true. Yes, a hot guy can be shit in bed and not give a girl an orgasm. But sex for women is a lot more mental than for guys. Women do increase the odds of sexual arousal/ orgasm if the guy is more attractive. And before you say arousal and orgasms aren’t the same thing, I know. HOWEVER, the main pre-requisite of an orgasm is the women being mentally adjusted already. Hence why women are still selective a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 04:32 AM
1	Orgasms are not a significant predictor of sexual satisfaction among women You are exactly correct that money in itself doesn’t mean sexual desire hense why sex workers or gold diggers with beta bucks providers don’t always incite arrousal. HOWEVER it is possible, and a lot more common than what people think, for it to be a situation where the guy treats the girl great with emotions, gifts/providing, etc. that he can gladly get away with being sexually selfish in the bedroom and the girl still love it. She is so satisfied with him the other areas of the relationship sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 04:26 AM
92	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. I mean what you are talking about is simple supply & demand logic in the dating market. Basically the idea of men becoming more stricter with dating standards has always been a proposed solution. But it’s a matter of if you will ever get a big enough size of the population to follow through to ever make an actual impact in the dating market. It’s easy to tell a guy with a 15-20+ body count to give women a break. They may listen cause we know we have the skills to find another woman if push comes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 04:11 AM
2	What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet? If a woman is open to your sexual advances and hints earlier on then yes that’s a good sign	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 05:17 PM
2	How to instigate desire? I’m gonna be honest this is literally on both of you. Once you said you were in school full time, added onto everything else (the SA) is when I said it’s a stress thing. He does need to understand that and try to help alleviate some of that load off of you. But then you said you try not to go more than 3 days without sex, then said you try to give into him whenever, so I’m not to sure you are being fully honest about how much sex y’all are actually consistently having. The lady with the flag com…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/25 09:58 AM
1	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. That’s misleading. Men have a higher tolerance for women they like. But all in all, waiting 3 months isn’t some norm just cause you like a girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 08:26 AM
4	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. Some of y’all blue pill mfs spend too much time on the internet like these redpill people cause holy crap why are yall assuming SA?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 08:23 AM
7	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. you’re gonna get what’s coming to you so essentially if I make men wait I’ll get raped and deserve it Why in THE FUCK would you assume he meant you will get raped??? He definitely probably just meant you’ll get burned or won’t get favorable results	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 08:21 AM
1	Has anyone noticed a rise in older female/younger male relationships? Yea a lot of my hookups have been from 30+, and I’m 25	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 05:28 PM
4	Seriously, where do people meet? Social circles, hobbies, work, etc. Yes you can and typically do meet women through these. It’s just matter of what you are willing to do to become more sociable	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 01:06 PM
1	If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better life Lol so yall are mad that you can’t get a high value man to stick around cause you aren’t as hot or good as you think, so now you wanna waste someone else time to not feel lonely and feel better about yourselves? Nobody said you had to settle down with the nice guy in the first place. Just don’t string somebody for years just to waste their time. Oh yea I forgot, you get pumped and dumped by the dudes you can’t keep so now it’s everyone’s fault lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 08:20 PM
1	If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better life Lol you legit don’t have to settle down and be with guys you aren’t attracted to in the first place. You marrying them after so many years then divorcing is a disservice cause it’s just a waste of everyone’s life and time. Added to the fact you are breaking up a home. Nobody told you to settle down with him in the first place. You just knew you couldn’t get a better option to settle down with and now you took it out on him, instead of just basking in the fact you can’t keep a high value man arou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 08:14 PM
2	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. This response made absolutely no sense to what I said. If you mean objective taste as in “don’t be a fat fuck & have something interesting going for yourself” then sure that’s objective. But the varying degrees about what a woman may require is up to the different types of women you talk to. No, I’m not “delusional”. You seem to be	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 10:09 PM
0	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. Yea she just got in her feeling and interpreted that. Cause i didn’t say she had to have sex on the first date or that early	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 10:05 PM
1	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. Yea see I knew you were gonna try to pull some bulk crap. Nobody said she had to have sex right away. I, in no way, said that. You just got in your feelings and interpreted that just because I said I didn’t want somebody essentially lukewarm	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 10:04 PM
2	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. Do you have kids? And yea that’s why it’s important for both women & men to try and find their partners earlier on. I know it doest always work out like that, but the older you get, the more stuck in their ways people become. You start seeing why people are single for a reason. The problem is if you are a guy that waits too late, you are essentially gonna be stuck with baby mommas, divorcees, etc. and unless you try and date considerably younger, or go oversees, then the dating pool will be a ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 01:01 PM
8	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. So I’ll answer your question directly first: I’d shift to the women that desire me. The older I get, you need to actively choose women that choose you if you want a high chance at a successful relationship. Realistic answer: most of the time, this is just a matter of a numbers game, and if you are willing to adjust your standards slightly to try & get the best bet you can get, cause you probably won’t have everything you want in a partner. But If you’re finding that you are almost NEVER actually…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 12:17 PM
17	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. Yea you are 100%. I can care less how long other dudes have waited, cause I won’t wait past a certain point anyway lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 12:07 PM
11	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. I mean you are realistically right that if you want quicker sex, you should probably initiate that possibility the best way you can. Unfortunately a lot of guys on this sub don’t actually know how to do that. A lot of it really does come from a numbers game. You need to be able to take chances with more women, and that will increase the odds of a “yes”, with the more experience you get. I start to care less about how long she made another guy wait, cause I wouldn’t wait a long time for sex irreg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 12:06 PM
13	If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date. “Entitlement” argument should pretty much always be ignored because it doesn’t apply to like 80% of situations. That’s why I’m not understanding why men on the internet put so much stock into it when women try to say they’re “entitled”. Like no, I’m not investing my time & money into a woman who doesn’t sexually desire me, and that’s that. It shouldn’t be some big deal that I said that. That’s how our species has continued since the dawn of our time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:54 AM
2	There is no hypocrisy if a guy for LTR wants sex , problem is different DUDE I KNOW RE-READ MY COMMENT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 10:16 PM
2	There is no hypocrisy if a guy for LTR wants sex , problem is different Re read what I said. I said people gotta stop acting like sharing your body isn’t a major deal. Re-read my original comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 10:11 PM
-1	There is no hypocrisy if a guy for LTR wants sex , problem is different You jut added in a bunch of shit I didn’t even say. I didn’t say sex was the only way to prove attraction. But it is a major way, and there is no relationship without it (again under normal circumstances). Also sex is more riskier for women. But I didn’t say women can’t enjoy sex. They absolutely should. I only brought up income as a stability point. You completely missed the point of my comment. Also, I wouldn’t marry a woman who thinks it’s only fun to bang the hot guy in Cancun for a one nigh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 05:53 PM
0	There is no hypocrisy if a guy for LTR wants sex , problem is different Sex on the first date isn’t always realistic. Not just given them sex But we gotta stop acting like sharing a body isn’t a major deal. A woman can theoretically emotionally “like” me for what I can represent (stability of finances, emotional), but a woman truly is attracted to you when she gives you her body. There is no way around that. This shouldn’t even be controversial. She’s willing to risk/engage in something that can result in pregnancy due to attraction. In a normal paring, there isn’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 04:51 PM
-1	There is no hypocrisy if a guy for LTR wants sex , problem is different Y’all have to understand there is a difference from trying to require a girl to fuck your after the first date, to telling a woman you aren’t waiting some arbitrary 90 day rule, assuming she isn’t a virgin or isn’t clearly CONSISTENTLY celibate. People over think these things but just because you are an LTR guy doesn’t mean you have to have some huge worthy badge of proving yourself unlike the other men. It’s perfectly normal to want a normal progression in a relationship. Meet someone get to kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 04:45 PM
1	Would you date a broke woman? Unfortunately no, as I am just now starting my career in I.T and kinda got lowballed on my first official gig. But I need it for experience so I have to stick with it for about a year, or until I can branch to something better	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 09:10 PM
1	Would you date a broke woman? I mean ofc on a biological level I could give 2 shits. But in a realistic fashion, she can’t be jobless with no ambition. She has to at least be able to hold something down. I don’t care if she’s only making like 35k a year, in this economy some level of input is needed (at least considering where I’m at as a 24 year old male.) Obviously this is all income based tho cause if I’m making significant enough 6 figures or more to where she absolutely doesn’t have to work, then I’m fine with that. So …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 08:48 PM
7	Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection. So accept polygamy then. Like if the “theoretical” problem is women selecting men out of their league, but you still think it’s a problem to say choose better/different, then when y’all are getting with these higher quality men, stop bitching when they don’t wanna commit and they keep fucking around. Let these men be men and accept your place	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 07:22 AM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. Dawg this sub is cooked. Like fr yall are talking about how robot girlfriends are gonna take over. Mental illness/loneliness is at a high	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 03:38 PM
7	If in today's society, sex is not expected in a relationship, then faithfulness should not be expected Dead bedrooms are a very valid reason to end a relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 10:05 PM
-2	The mass hysteria around Trump is ridiculous lol the project 2025 scare propaganda.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 07:21 PM
10	If a man's only interest is having sex, why do some insist on treating a lady to date, hoping to get it? Lol the date is better when yall have already fucked. That’s an underrated gem	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 01:00 PM
7	To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you? Thank you for being honest cause wtf are these comments	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 04:31 PM
20	Guys who did escorts - did/would you tell your SO? No, a guy technically doesn’t have to disclose shit if he doesn’t want to. As long as he’s clean and nobody was trafficked, then the “past is the past” Hate to say it but this is the reverse uno that a lot of women opened themselves. Once they started saying “the past shouldn’t matter” and they didn’t feel the need to disclose theirs, they opened their own can of worms	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 11:17 PM
1	Would you rather be “picked” or settled for? Good point man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 06:17 PM
24	Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop them It’s a reinforcement cycle loop. Attractive men typically get more chance opportunity to be around attractive women. This in turn increases their chances and opportunity to gain game & experience. While it may require less game than someone not as attractive, that doesn’t mean these guys don’t need to develop game at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 02:37 PM
–	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life "push for sex" to be clear tho, they arent gonna reject sex on the first date either. If they want to truly be with the girl, then the time frame for sex will be a lot more flexible. Whether she has it earlier, or waits a few dates wont really affect how he sees her in his eyes, cause he actually still wants to be with her	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 07:47 PM
2	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" I get what you are saying, but thats not whats happening here. I need yall to look at my argument and story at face value. I have not mentioned body count, or even that wanting to wait for sex make the girl "entitled"	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 07:53 PM
0	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" The girl wrongly assumed that i was one of the red pill guys who gets mad at a girls body count, and you agreed with her. She even said it sounds like i wanted a virgin, which MADE NO SENSE.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 07:48 PM
3	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" It depends on the circumstance. But i generally dont think its ok to slut shame a woman that has sex with the men they want, while the men want it also. Its hypocritical to not want to wait a long time for sex, but get mad and call her a slut when she has sex with you by, or within 3 dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 07:41 PM
1	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" LOL I DIDNT EVEN BRING UP BODY COUNT this is hilarious cause this is completely irrelevant to the argument in my post	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 07:33 PM
0	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" LMAOOOOOO YALL CANT EVEN DISPROVE MY OWN ARGUMENT i NEVER brought up body count in this post at all. So your point is completely irrelevant right now	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 07:32 PM
2	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" You just brought up body count which was completely irrelevant to my argument. Please stop lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 07:30 PM
3	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" O...My...Fucking...Gosh..are yall serious right now??? There is nothing wrong with a woman not wanting sex. The issue is when woman is bitching about him leaving. its about how she thinks HE'S entitled just because he leaves. I didnt say she was "entitled to commitment" just because she didnt want sex. What the fuck? i didnt bitch to her when she played with the idea. I just said it wouldnt work out. What the fuck is so hard for you weird mfs to understand??	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 07:29 PM
3	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" I think it was more that i was the first guy in a while that actually tried to court her before sleeping with her	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 01:11 PM
2	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" yea dont harass people..if somebody doesnt understand that, then the authorities, a therapist, or God should be called lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 01:04 PM
3	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" lol yall completely missed why i asked that... it wasn't meant to necessarily be a gotcha cause yall answered it fine	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 04:22 AM
13	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" you are a fucking weirdo. telling somebody you are going to move on and leave isn't pressure you jackass you think you are entitled to commitment. thank you for confirming. in what fucking way is walking away "pressuring" a girl?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 03:46 AM
5	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" wtf i didnt ignore anything lol i responded in relevance Also I guarantee the dudes whining about 3 dates are the same ones losing their shit over women's body counts yea i agree with you there. thats why i never brought up body count in the post	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 03:44 AM
1	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" i dont disagree necessarily but you just confirmed that i was telling you My whole point was that its not only/originally a red pill trope. it came from somewhere. The reason its more likely to be redpill now is because the manosphere has grown larger, the longer the internet/ social media age stays around and grows. Esspecially when everyone is trying to give all this credit to red pill, and it tries to collect terms and tropes like pokemon cards lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 03:41 AM
1	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" objectively, no its not. somebody complaining about a wait is not originally a red pill trope. why tf do yall (both non-redpillers/ redpillers alike) give the manosphere so much credit for shit that already been talked about for years? This type of shit has been around since the 80s	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 03:17 AM
-1	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" no, in that situation, its not. i only referenced the 3 date rule to emphasize the idea of waiting. there is also the bs 90 day rule lol. plus its really a time based thing. as you said, if its 3 dates and they're all in the same week, then thats not long at all. but a lot of people really can only do maybe a date a week, depending on work schedules. if you do 4 dates then, thats a whole month/30 days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 03:14 AM
1	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" fair enough ill give you that. Its just you asked like twice, so i was lost lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:54 AM
-4	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" playing with the idea? yes.. im confused about whats so egregious about this. I didnt even say she was fully doing it lol. I literally just said playing with the idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:51 AM
7	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" lol trust me, thats half the point. If shes making you wait that much, in an odd fashion, she typically just isnt that attracted to you. Like be real, a girl not making everyone else wait, but a guy, who hasn't even probed for sex for a bout a month and a half and has actually taken her out and treated her well, as compared to others, and she still hasnt let him hit? yea sorry but thats a lower sexually attraction issue most of the time. if you're honesty asking whats the difference, it just dep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:49 AM
-5	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" no. what i mean mainly refers to the initial dating stage. There was one girl in particular who i was talking to for maybe about 2 weeks before we could actually meet up. Mind you, she already sent me nudes, etc. Well i finally meet in person and she just randomly says "im waiting for sex for a connection this time". especially since "i was one of the only men to take her on a date". I essentially just told her: "Look i like you but im looking for a more complete relationship right now. This inc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:42 AM
7	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" LMAO yall need to get the fuck off this sub/ manosphere stuff if yall really think the only people who complain about waiting for sex is red pill men. The idea of the 3 date rule has been around for years	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:18 AM
4	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" True statement. You gotta learn to keep dating out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:15 AM
4	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" waiting for sex isnt some red pill only trope why tf does everyone on this sub act like that lol. Also, i do agree tho that most women understand sexless relationships are bad. So im confused on what yalls argument is? Most women ive been with haven't withheld sex, but there was one or 2 who tried to play with the idea. its not uncommon	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:12 AM
4	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" waiting for sex isnt some new trope that only exists on subs like these. why tf does everyone on this sub act like that lol. Also, i do agree tho that most women understand sexless relationships are bad. So im confused on what yalls argument is? Most women ive been with havent withheld sex, but there was one or 2 who tried to play with the idea. its not uncommon	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:11 AM
8	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" yea sex isnt a need. just like dates and romancing isnt a need either, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:10 AM
1	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" waiting for sex isnt some red pill only trope why tf does everyone on this sub act like that lol. Also, i do agree tho that most women understand sexless relationships are bad. So im confused on what these people's argument is? Most women ive been with haven't withheld sex, but there was one or 2 who tried to play with the idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:09 AM
6	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" waiting for sex isnt some red pill only trope why tf does everyone on this sub act like that lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:08 AM
2	Like a man isn't entitled just cause he's "nice" & pays dates, a woman isn't entitled to a commitment just because "she offers more than just her body" lol look whos walking the line also, i clearly said its not only about sex...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:05 AM
1	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. i didnt say it would go smooth lol. but there would be a lot of poisoned meals, i agree with that lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 11:51 PM
–	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. LMAO buddy... yea i know i described patriarchy. please make sure you read the post because i already covered it	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 07:20 AM
-1	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. The way he laid it is honestly extremely hard to combat. I don't really think anyone can successfully combat it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 03:07 AM
-2	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. I cant respond to everyone cause i got shit i have to do. I just had some free time and decided to screw off. i was mainly responding because the sub rules said i needed to respond to some people. But so far, no one has really disproven the point/ idea of the post. remember though, im not saying that women aren't just as important as men. In the length of our species, women are men's other half, and vise-versa. We need each other to survive into the future. So lets love and respect one another. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 03:02 AM
–	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. I agree. Its why i said it would be absolutely messed up and tyrannical if men as a collective actually currently did that. When it happened in the past it was terrible. You still agree that this doesn't change the premise of the post though. If men can take the rights, then yes, men give the rights. I mean this in a society/worldly sense. In appeal to a higher sense of spirituality/actuality i can see how one can make a case that technically, rights are imaginary, or they're given by a higher a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:44 AM
–	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. Yea no you are still missing the point. If men as a collective said bye bye to womens rights, then there really isnt anything women can do about it, unless they are aided by a subsection of men. The same isnt really true in reverse if you want an example, then any right under the sun. Like the right to vote, work, etc. pick one	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:33 AM
-2	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. I like you. And this post technically disagree with your user flair of egalitarianism in the eyes of society. With that said i actually agree with 2/3 of your post so if i could give you a delta i would. Rights, in it of itself are technically imaginary. BUT, your last paragraph is what breaks it. If all women decided to kill men , then yea of course a lot of men will die. This doesn't mean that they would win an all out war though, nor does it change the post's main idea premise. If all women d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:29 AM
-7	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. Aha! No it doesn't. I already said that its completely unrealistic for men to currently actually take the rights of women away. So yea i agree with you This still doesn't change the idea of the post though	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:18 AM
0	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. This is a true point. But if men as a collective stopped having sex, then our society would crumble and cease to continue as well. Ofc this isn't going to actually happen though, that's why i reiterate to stick with the post's idea. Plus given that men have a hand in reproduction also, men also do everything i listed in the post in addition to that. So the post's point still stands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:15 AM
1	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. I think i know what you are getting at because i mention rights and laws, etc. What other nature or factor should it have appealed to? I mean if you want me to appeal to a spiritual nature/ a nature beyond worldly ideas then it could be done. However, i don't actually need to in order to start this debate. You really only have to have a worldly nature to start with, unless you want me to open up another can on worms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:12 AM
2	Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men. How so? if you are gonna say what i think you are then remember just debate the idea. Not the actual practice of someone actually taking women's rights cause i already said its not realistic currently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:05 AM
1	My husband doesn't trust me know im late, but im hoping you see this. There are 2 elements playing into this. The fault is mainly on your husband's refusal for therapy, but you share a slight blame as well. Your husband needs to go to therapy. There is no way around it. Him not going to get help, and taking it out on you us completely irresponsible. He went through something very emotionally tragic. Finding out your wife is cheating and got a train ran on her is extremely devastating and i dont wish that on people. He need…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/24 03:49 PM
8	Difficulty navigating through my relationship Nahh hold on nope, i need context. Cause if he's really doing the traditional providing and husband duties in yalls life, but you are admitting you are scared to step up and give wifely duties, then i can see why he is hesitant. Who does more of the household duties??? Im sorry but i cant say you are giving the milk for free if hes doing more and is stepping up on his end.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/23 01:48 PM
17	Difficulty navigating through my relationship Are we just completely missing the fact that hes giving husband qualities as a boyfriend, but she just admitted she hasnt been doing much of the wifley duties we are talking about????	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/23 01:45 PM