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Roosh claimed to be a womanizer, but most of his travel logs involved not getting women, and his adventures seemed pretty celibate. He complained that Nordic countries were poor hunting grounds because the women were not impoverished enough, but one might suspect there were other issues. As a men’s rights activist, he managed to get banned from some places and physically assaulted in others. On TV, Dr. Oz made him look like an idiot, which is just sad. The pickings for women might be getting wor…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 03:42 AM
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A "nice guy" is the label assigned to a guy that thinks sexual relationships with women are transactional. He operates under the assumption that after rendering enough good deeds, kind words, or whatever, the woman will select him as a sexual partner. The guy's behaviour is "nice" but it is insincere and manipulative. There is nothing inherently wrong with being nice to people, but if it is a manipulative strategy it is not only dishonest but it also rarely works......
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 07:52 PM
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How dare you confront his wonderful theory with actual facts!
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 06:26 AM
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Elon Musk is brilliant but his personal background is remarkably messed up, and consequently, his personal life is a trainwreck. He tends to gravitate towards attractive women who are not into him, but are ok with his money.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 04:37 PM
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If you think if Weinstein had game he would be able to get aspiring actresses to be attracted to him you are delusional, unless game manages to convince women that short, fat, bald guys have great genetics. Weinstein’s money would have allowed him to rent women, but spare me the idea that he could have developed a harem by working on his personality.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:56 PM
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If you believe RSD's marketing, you have got problems. Their entire system is self affirmations and spam approaching.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 05:23 PM
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A lot of women are really bad in crisis situations. CPR is pretty time intensive and gives the person doing it little time for breaks to emote.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 05:30 PM
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Back away from the keyboard and seek professional mental help.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 05:26 PM
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If your LTR starts accusing you of cheating regularly, this can be a case of projection.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 05:24 PM
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I do not think this is purely hypothetical. Apparently Hugh Grant has relationships with, and children with 3 different women, if the Daily Mail is to believed.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 05:18 PM
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It is supply and demand. In China, the one child policy led to a lot more males than females. Consequently, women have vastly more bargaining power in mating. Once you factor in that women can now support themselves, it only makes their standards higher. A fairly large number of guys in China have no hope of getting a girlfriend, much less a wife.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 05:16 PM
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You did one cold approach at an airport boarding gate that went well, other than-SHE WAS BOARDING A PLANE TO FLY AWAY. Logistical issues do come into effect in cold approach, and this is an extreme example.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 05:12 PM
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In the last couple of years, the local news had several different stories about aspiring PUAs in town who approach lots of women, and often even try to film interactions. Some women invariably call the police. The news reports recommended any woman approached not to hesitate to contact the police. I do not think any charges were ever laid, but getting your picture posted in the news as a potential rapist probably won't do wonders for your results. In another city, a downtown mall started ejectin…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 07:32 AM
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Woman would rather share one high value guy, than settle down with one beta.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 07:07 PM
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So, you adopted an 18-year-old stray, and she apparently is not particularly industrious. I know a lot of teenagers and this is not a huge shock.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 07:05 PM
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It seems like guys such as these two get into these relationships and then just start running on autopilot. They lose any sense of self and maintaining their shitty relationship becomes their primary focus. Neither seems capable of stepping back and asking "How does this relationship benefit me?" or "is there an alternative to this?" This isn't even an abundance mindset issue. When both guys were single, their lives seemed a lot better and neither sounded like they were without options.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 12:04 AM
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I honestly thought at the beginning this was just the intro to a cuckold porn scene. The guy is effeminate and the woman has zero sexual interest. It's like she married her gay best friend.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 07:49 PM
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What happened to the other guy?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 04:52 PM
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"Expert Gamer" usually equates to social reject in real life.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 03:16 PM
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How on earth were points one to three mistakes that the fellow could have behaved a lot differently? If a girl wants to go out, she can unless you lock her up, and if she is dying to fuck a celebrity she can do that too. The only solution to hypergamy is to maintain your own SMV, and to not be afraid to replace women when necessary. The guy in this story is lucky. He could very well have been married to her, and she would do this, and then he would also get to experience divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 05:35 PM
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Honestly, most of the submissions sound like stuff written by men. It echoes the kind of accounts you would read in porn magazines. The women who exaggerate their n counts are few and far between, even among the sex positive feminist crowd. Most radically understate it, as a woman who claims hundreds of partners is going to come off as pretty damaged, and not a trophy.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 11:09 PM
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The SSC sub has a lot of content, but I swear most of it reads like bad fiction. While there are lots of girls with high N counts, most of them don't write about it on Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 05:54 AM
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The bulk of wedding speeches usually work out to be how amazing the bride is and how lucky the groom is to be considered worthy of the bride. Often, they write their own vows and you would swear it is like the contract for a female led relationship.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:46 PM
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A good rule that you broke handily was "never go full retard".
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 05:10 PM
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Attraction comes from your appearance and your looks. Your personality only enters into the equation when you escalate. Put another way, your personality will screw things up for you, but won't make you attractive.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 05:07 PM
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I have gone out plenty. I have seen playful banter but it's pretty rare for some girl who is attracted to you to go at you with hammer and tongs. Her instinct is to look for a good genetic partner. Your personality might fuck it up for you, but it is unlikely to make you attractive. Also, Your abilities as a hunter gatherer are not easily discerned by your verbal aptitude.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 06:34 PM
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Let's think about this rationally. If a woman is actually interested in you, how on earth would it be in her interest to subject you to a barrage of weird and insulting questions? She will likely try and make things easy for you. If she is indifferent, she will ignore you. If she is unpleasant towards you, this is likely a good indication she does not like you.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:48 PM
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I love witty comments as much as the next guy, but if the woman is not attracted to you from the get go, the snappy comments will get you chuckles at most. Seduction is mutual. If the girl is not DTF and thinks you look like the Swamp Thing, it is a pretty safe bet you are not going to talk her into changing her mind. Leading, escalation, and logistics are relevant only if the woman is actually attracted to you. Shit tests usually indicate that a girl is not interested (and is a bit of a bitch),…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 08:27 PM
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So, you first state that sexual access is determined by your place in the hierarchy, and it is really hard to fake women on what your place is. Then you offer advice on how to fake it.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 08:10 PM
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How on earth can you pull a girl that doesn't want you? Seduction is a mutual thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 07:59 PM
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If it has gone back to platonic, she is not that into you. You should focus on other women.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 07:33 AM
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If you are still married, and are a celebrity, hooking up with a married woman makes some sense, in that she is more likely to keep her mouth shut and be discreet. That being said, why he is still with her is a complete mystery.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 07:30 AM
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Putting a porn clip on top of a post on how feminism rules is unique. But the rest of post is about as nonsensical.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 07:59 PM
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The relationships sub is full of this sort of thing. The hamstering of the posters can be really epic. The best solution in each of the cases above is a hard next. Most posters do not do this, and this results in even more posts, and hilarity ensues.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 06:52 PM
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OP sounds about as fun as a root canal.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 07:59 PM
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Once I learned about the Halo effect, I started noticing how utterly pervasive it was. It gets surprisingly grating in the work world where actual performance is often irrelevant compared to looks and presentation skills. An academic friend of mine does tests where students have to guess election outcomes in areas they are completely unfamiliar with, based solely upon the photos of the candidates. There is an almost perfect correlation between being the most attractive candidate and being the el…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:12 AM
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Being 6 foot 3 gives you great advantages. Maintain posture and put on some muscle and your inner game will be largely irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:58 AM
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Wanting to tie up loose ends and drop baggage is something women do. There is absolutely nothing in here about applying the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:53 AM
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I think this should actually be in the choosing beggar's sub.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:49 AM
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An ongoing myth on this and other subs is that some other country (China, Thailand, Ukraine, Poland) is veritable pussy paradise, compared to the bitches in North America. The women are thinner, but they are still women.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 05:41 PM
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I guess if I decided to be a cuckold, it would sound better if my imaginary friend in the sky convinced me to do it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 05:37 PM
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When PUA was in its heyday, a fun game at clubs was called "Spot the PUAs" which was pretty easy given that they tended to peacock and spam approach.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 05:21 PM
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The Salem witch trials were not exactly a great model for jurisprudence so it is a bit odd that many women now advocate we adopt this model for sexual assaults.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 06:03 PM
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It is always nice to read crossposts from the Asperger sub.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 05:01 PM
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"Boyfriend Destroyer Game" is where you meet a girl with a boyfriend who wants new dick. After escalating and then having sex, you rationalize that it happened because you talked the girl into it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:58 PM
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It is infinitely easier to get laid via your social circle than through cold approach.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:55 PM
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The majority of women like sex, and are governed by their emotions. Their affections are highly conditional. Once you accept this and make peace with it, this sort of thing will elicit no wonderment. A bad girl is just a good girl with serious tingles.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:53 PM
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I remember once reading about an actor playing a psychopath finding it a real challenge because he found the character's inner world was so barren and empty. A psychiatrist afterwards commented that the actor had likely nailed the role. Being a psychopath or sociopath should not be an aspirational goal. Both are personality disorders, and both personalities can inflict a lot of damage on the people around them, as both disorders are characterized by a complete absence of, or very limited empathy…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 11:46 PM
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This is pretty pathetic boasting.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 06:56 PM
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I am sure there are a ton of alcoholics who would like to explain their relationship failures as being due to AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 03:53 PM
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I wouldn't call SMV a culture, but it is conveyed on you by people and your social group. You don't have any SMV if you are a hermit.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 04:28 PM
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If you are in good shape, have a good job, and have money, you can develop confidence pretty quickly, and obviously this is all good for your SMV. That being said, I don't think owning a particular watch will do much for you either way, unless you are trying to find a gold digger.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 04:20 PM
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Find a social niche where there are women and gain status. If you play bass, is it in band?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:23 AM
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This happens to a lot of us early on, and on the plus side, it can be a powerful learning experience. It was eerie in that I heard exactly the same kind of lines. If you can step back, invariably you cringe over the things you did, and you start looking objectively at her, and then you cringe more. On the plus side, you probably won't do this again.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:59 PM
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A streamer girl is a webcam girl with less integrity.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:54 PM
1

Me too. The guys with oneitis typically do not have other plates, otherwise, there would be no oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:51 PM
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If you have one of these problems, whatever you do get professional help. Take the pills, do the treatment. But, I would recommend against sharing the news. Most people do not understand mental illness and view it as a character defect.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:48 PM
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Usually, there are a number of clues prior to testing moisture to figure out if a woman actually wants to have sex with you or not.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:46 PM
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Any dating advice which omits doing things to improve your SMV is wildly incomplete.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:40 PM
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Rather than precis the book, just tell people to read it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:29 PM
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If you look at any esoteric writing long enough you eventually convince yourself it directly relates to some random topic.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:22 PM
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A Sociopath would have closed the deal. Apparently, being social with a bunch of gay guys was more fun than banging the girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 12:46 AM
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If a woman does this, she is a victim. If a guy does it, he is a sexual deviant in need of severe punishment.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 04:28 PM
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By point #2 of your post, the "eject" button started flashing and beeping. Why do you stick around for the plane crash?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 04:23 PM
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There has been a lot of research on human mating. Most of this is strongly at odds with pick up beliefs. For example, looks and appearance are huge factors for women, at least in short term interactions. For the longer term, personality and resources can play more of a role in mate selection. Generally, fat guys who pick up women do so as a result of status or money. Your personality or behavior might hamper or enhance your ability to escalate with a girl who is attracted to you, but it won't do…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 04:13 PM
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Nope. She is attracted within 90 seconds or less, this is instinctive, and is primarily driven by what she sees, which again is your looks. If she is not initially attracted to you, congruent behaviour patterns will not turn this around.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 03:12 AM
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Some people insist on sticking their foot into a bear trap, in spite of detailed presentations, data analysis, videos of other people in bear traps, and numerous entreaties from friends and family not to stick their foot in the bear trap.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 04:31 PM
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In light of the fact that this has been going on for years, it should be obvious there is no logical end point and no discernible goal. After all the approaches, OP's main accomplishment is the loss of a lot of Approach Anxiety. He is not exactly getting laid a lot.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 04:26 PM
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I still remember the clip of Peterson getting into a debate with a transvestite who argued that gender was just a social construct.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 12:47 AM
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Careful with these facts. A bunch of guys here are convinced that looks don't matter.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 11:07 PM
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I had read in relationship advice about some woman complaining that her husband blew all their money on a girl on twitch, and was genuinely confused what that was. Wow. This is a whole new level of idiocy. I did not realize there were so many guys with loose cash and no options.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 07:35 PM
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OP's girlfriend suffered from anxiety, depression, medication issues and the overwhelming urge to have sex with another guy. It is sad he does not see this.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:33 PM
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I would hope that sending money to women so I can watch them play video games might be a signal that something is seriously wrong with me. I only heard about this a little while ago and had a hard time even trying to comprehend it. I thought the guys patronizing cam girls were pretty sad, but this is a whole new level.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:38 PM
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I am sure we all have really stupid thoughts from time to time, but most of us have the sense to not write them down on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:29 PM
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Doing things to increase your SMV and getting into a social circle will likely yield better results than being an approaching machine. Even if you are astonishing attractive, cold approaching seldom is very efficient. If you look at your results in terms of actual meet ups and sex, has the time you have spent been a good investment?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 07:41 PM
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Race can be an issue for some girls, and in other cases like Montana it might work to your advantage due to novelty. Obviously, if you are tall, in good shape, and can finance a night at the club you will probably do ok.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 06:34 PM
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Please find one physics book that discusses the law of vibration. Obviously, objects in the universe move constantly, but if you google "law of vibration" you realize quickly you have gone well off the scientific reservation and have wandered into metaphysics.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 12:10 AM
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The law of vibration and the law of attraction are not scientific laws. Objects moved out of equilibrium vibrate. The claims about vibrational magnetism or whatever is just pseudo-scientific nonsense that has a lot to do with new age beliefs and little to do with real physics.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:49 PM
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This guy is not Chad. His own life has not played out like he hoped so he is trying to make it better by creating a fantasy persona of him being the office Casanova. In the interim, he is trying to live his fantasies via your experiences with the girl. This guy is to be pitied and avoided. He adds no value.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:20 PM
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The early teenage years are a rough time for most people. As others have mentioned, if all you do is "funny guy" you can end up dismissed as such. Realistically, you cannot do much about other people, but you can control you. Keep exercising, do well in school, and maybe put a few brakes on trying to be funny all of the time. If you can be good at team sports, pursue this as this will improve your social status. Don't ask girls out unless they give clear signs they are into you. Bear in mind no …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:15 PM
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Shouldn't you be back to converting lead into gold or something?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:09 PM
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This is not a Science flair post. This is a post on Magic. OP should wear a pointed hat and carry a wand.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:04 PM
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It is far worse. If you tell people you are vegan more than a few people will likely congratulate you.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 10:46 PM
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Don't talk about fight club.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 08:13 PM
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I think the base idea is that self-development is a prerequisite to a sexual strategy is a reasonable point. Lifting in and of itself won't get you laid, but obviously if you get more fit, the odds are good you can approach more women with success.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 03:38 PM
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Google "are pua videos real".
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 07:01 PM
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Ok. Here is the issue. We actually know a fair bit about human mating and have studied it a fair bit. Similar to a lot of other animals, females select the mates. Woman get attracted instinctually, it is not a conscious process. This occurs within around 90 seconds and if you do not pass the cut, it is unlikely more time will alter the woman's opinion. The male's attractiveness is pretty much a static property given the time frame involved, and the woman's primary means of determining this is th…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 03:15 PM
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Any of his recent interviews. I recall in the one article that the game concept implies you are leading them to seduction when in fact most girls are well aware of what's going on and are playing along in spite of game playing not because of it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 12:57 AM
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Believe what you want. I am not selling anything. RSD is. Most people would agree that desire cannot be negotiated so it seems odd people would buy into idea that attraction can be negotiated.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 12:42 AM
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Which one? That Neil Strauss didn't get laid much, or the book is fiction? If you read the book, Neil did not get laid much. In terms of it being fictional, while the people and the community exist, Strauss is basically telling stories based on his perceptions at the time. Many of the other people in the book have complained that events described did not occur or they were falsely characterized.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 12:33 AM
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Please provide photos of short, fat, bald guys who are poor with lingerie model girlfriends. Photos of Loch Ness monster would also be helpful.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 09:38 PM
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No. They might default to other characteristics like status or money if looks are not there. It is not like women sit at the club thinking "Well, there are no guys who are charming here, I guess I will have sex with a hot guy....."
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 09:09 PM
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Thanks for the story. The weight loss was probably not the dominant variable. It is likely the fact that you at least looked happy and you were out and about a bit probably helped get you more interest. In the case of the guy who was 60 pounds overweight, he was going out a lot. It is entirely reasonable that woman do not want to deal with a spare tire if they have options.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 09:03 PM
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To a degree they are subjective, but women do tend to go for guys with good facial symetry, good skin, and a masculine frame. I would be really leary of any woman claiming to be turned on by a dad-bod.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:52 PM
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I see them all the time too. But the ugly guy has money and/or status.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:25 PM
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Who uses actresses in his infields.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:19 PM
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If you are rich and/or high status.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:14 PM
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He didn't get laid much in "The Game" and when he was a sex addict it sounds like it was through his social circle. I guess my point is that becoming a popular pop culture writer in LA might improve your lay count more than peacocking.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:14 PM
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Grooming, improve his fashion style, don't do loser things, get into a good social circle, etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 07:40 PM
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Seduction occurs when the woman is attracted to you and wants something to happen. If she is not attracted to you from the get go, it is not like you can progress and change her mind.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 07:37 PM
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You realize "The Game" was fictional right? Strauss also has in recent interviews disavowed the whole PUA concept.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 07:28 PM
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I still get bewildered when I run into these arguments. A lot of guys seem to believe that you can short circuit hundreds of thousands of years of women's evolutionary behaviour with displays of confidence and verbal skills. I mean, it is nice to peddle hope to an ugly loser, but you aren't really helping. A while ago, some guy posted about his difficulty pulling women when he was 60 pounds overweight. The logical solution was to lose weight, but half the respondents claimed that his weight was …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 06:59 PM
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With the advantages of money, being a fixture in the Vegas club scene, and producing fake videos, RSD Luke can disagree all he wants.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 06:16 PM
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Facts can really screw up an ideology. The argument that IQ is the primary determinant in outcomes is not particularly new, and it is fair to say it is far from accepted, but if you are justifying massive inequalities in outcome it is a convenient explanation.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 04:19 PM
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If you go out every night and get good at picking up on IOIs, you can fuck provided you have at least a base level of attractiveness and are not socially retarded. This is not so much PUA nonsense as just trying more. I would be really skeptical about the 8s and 9s though.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 04:01 PM
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Popcorn, candy and ice cream? That's way better than Prickly Picklies! We would sing it like the Mickey Mouse club and people just lost it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:53 PM
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Asian women can "act" more submissive than western girls. More than a few guys have married a nice submissive girl and ended up with a dragon lady.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:47 PM
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When people dispute the importance of looks, the argument invariably involves anecdotal evidence. Social value matters and I do not think anyone really disputes this. Essentially, your desirability is a function of your looks, money and status. If you have a lot of one of these, like charisma, you can be desirable even if you are lacking in other areas. This does not make looks irrelevant. If you are poor, short, fat and bald, I really do not think you can charm your way into banging lingerie mo…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:42 PM
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Well, if you were wondering if you were still included in this social group, now you know.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:29 PM
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The US has among the lowest rates of social mobility and highest rates of income inequality in the world. Adjusted for inflation, real wages have not increased since the 1970s. One in six American men is no longer in the labor force. By all means, do all you can do to better yourself, but thinking this is a level playing field is simply untrue.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:27 PM
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You are talking about a sci-fi game. Go away.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 04:22 PM
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Looks matter as much for girls as guys, and game won't help if she is not initially attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 06:31 AM
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You could have just summed all that and just said "lack of large social circle can limit your sexual opportunities", which would have way more going for it than what you spewed out.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 06:21 AM
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It's just a novel, and this is actually the second video adaptation. I don't think it is particularly relevant to the present US administration, though if Pence watched it he might take a lot of notes. Women's studies might have it in the syllabus but they have lots of books in there. I went through an English course where the prof was convinced "Frankenstein " was all about male oppression of women. Most people would probably see it as more of a warning about theocratic or totalitarian governme…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 06:11 AM
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I would agree with your definition of game. I just don't believe in the idea of gaming someone until they are attracted to you. To go to your example from the party, were you not attracted to her, or did you just choke on pulling the trigger? You are not describing IOIs as much as a bitch in heat.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 09:34 PM
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If a guy talks continuously about his dating exploits, there is a great chance many of these stories are fictional. As well, based on the womanizers I know they do not usually talk a lot to everyone about all the women they hook up with as it can be bad for future business. The story you recounted does not hold up too well. He claims he had three "dates" with a girl that did not really talk to him much, was on her phone most of the time, and kept trying to leave. That sounds more like he ran int…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 07:07 PM
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Relatively few woman recognize the differences between a Rolex and Jaeger watch, or get tingles from a belt. Any woman very aware of these things is probably one to be avoided. Wealth is a great thing, but trying to attract women principally by signaling wealth is likely to work out horribly for you as you get seen as Beta Bux. SMV also involves things like status and looks, so ideally a smart guy uses wealth to improve himself in these areas.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 09:34 AM
1

The main thing is escalating when you recognize interest. If you are physically unattractive and not demonstrably high status, you probably won't get much interest. If this is happening to you, there are things you can do to help with this, but it is not better "game".
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 09:21 AM
1

If you are also poor and facially deformed it probably is game over. Being the opposite of very poor may help a bit. Being short is a handicap, being bald can be a liability. You can do things to leverage other things, like build a strong physique, dress well, be rich, have high status etc. to compete. To flip genders, if a woman is fat and unattractive, it is not like she can attract tons of high quality guys on the basis of her personality. That is just reality.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 09:15 AM
1

Nobody on TRP explicitly says this, but a lot of guys say things that are functionally equivalent. It usually runs along the lines of "I see ugly guys pull lots of hot girls because they learned game" or "I am not attractive and get girls, because I have game". A further variation of this is that "game" can generate attraction in women. Sadly, this is something imparted by people selling PUA products, and a lot of guys desperately want to believe these things work.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 09:10 AM
2

Dude, you have way too much spare time. This is a ridiculous concept.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 08:50 AM
3

Exactly. This woman is mentally ill, acts out, and labels it as artistic statement.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 05:34 PM
4

It's comparable to the girls sending pin up photos to mass murderers. Basic common sense is rare.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 05:08 PM
7

From the first time she made the news, it was obvious this woman was flat out crazy. Her antics since the mattress simply confirm this. Generally, if a person is into performance art, it is a safe bet they are really "out there", as the intent is usually to shock or provoke the audience.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 03:29 PM
2

Either she is into you, or is into guys taking her out. Either way, sounded like a mediocre date.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:49 PM
2

It is nice to see people recycling, even if it is just ancient PUA crap.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:54 PM
259

Half the women I met at university were going for the "Mrs." degree.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:38 PM
6

Women lie about the number of sexual partners they have had, so it follows they may also lie about having few dating options.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:35 PM
7

Women often seem completely oblivious to the lyrics they sing along to.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 05:31 PM
2

This sort of confirms common wisdom that tinder works well for really attractive guys, which isn't surprising. The main thing is the picture.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 05:29 PM
1

Using money to secure status, improve your wardrobe, and improve your looks is a good use of resources (points C and D). Making a point of hinting to women that you are loaded (A and B) is liable to attract attention from hordes of women who view you as a cash machine with feet. One other thing is most high-level finance guys use hookers because they work insane hours and do not have piles of time to spend on tinder.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:43 PM
2

Whenever I hear somebody say women are hard to understand, I assume they spent too much time talking to them and too little time fucking them.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:36 PM
2

I am sorry about the loss of your dog. Losing the girl is really good though.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 11:12 PM
0

By all means be prepared. There are two issues with shooting burglars. First, if you have a loaded weapon easily accessible at home this is not particularly safe, and the odds are far higher it will be used accidentally on a friend or family member than on an intruder. Second, in my country if you shoot a burglar and cannot show self defence, you are likely going to do a lot more time in jail than the burglar.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 05:31 PM
-3

Legally, I would strongly recommend relying on the police and the military as your preferred response to violent situations. Do it yourself justice usually involves a lot of legal sanctions after the smoke clears. And we are not all citizen soldiers unless we are in the reserves. Open carrying an assault rifle while grocery shopping does not count.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:55 PM
12

You need to hang out with better people.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:47 PM
7

There is not violence around every corner unless you live in an actual war zone.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:32 PM
0

Your post argues that you should always be prepared for imminent violence. Good luck trying to stay keyed up like that 24/7. Natural disasters can be survived by basic knowledge and proper risk avoidance, not hand to hand combat. Do you honestly advocate fighting with an armed robber? As you say, bar fights usually involve a fair bit of verbal escalation before punches get thrown and you can usually de-escalate them. For the bar fights that start with a sucker punch, there is not a whole pile of…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:30 PM
1

You look at a lot of job descriptions and many mention the need to multi-task. What is funny is that people are not really good at it and this is well known scientifically.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:15 PM
4

Women fuck alphas but cohabitate with guys who pay the bills.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:13 PM
27

Being physically fit is a good thing, and a knowledge of self-defense and risk avoidance is a necessity. But bear in mind violent crime rates have been declining since the 1990s and the odds of dying in a terrorist attack is about 1 in 20,000,000. You are twice as likely to be killed by sharks as terrorists. The big killers are things like traffic accidents and cigarette smoking. Obviously, be vigilant, but this post is really pushing paranoia.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:11 PM
9

This woman is certifiable and you want to have sex with her? You really want to be this person's #145 or whatever? Look, no one is denying AWALT or the Cock Carousel, but women in their early 20s with partner counts in the triple digits are not that common, and this behavior is pretty closely linked to mental issues.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:00 PM
3

Great report. Like you said, just have fun in your environment, get good at picking up on indications of interest, and escalate. It is pretty simple.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:06 PM
1

Barring some major deformity, you can usually improve your looks through exercise, dressing better, and working on your grooming. Social status also counts for a lot, and failing that, money has helped many short fat guys get laid.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:01 AM
1

I guess I am one of the idiots arguing that looks matter, but that in no way contradicts the notion that it is a numbers game. Obviously, you need to find women who are attracted to you, and that involves approaching a number of them.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 11:49 PM
1

So, your relationship blew up and the alternative is to devote yourself to PUA? Better yet, you want to devote all your time and resources to Pick up, study all the materials and maybe even lay out thousands for a boot camp, and then going out to practice it, and debrief afterward? This sounds absolutely soul destroying. Even assuming this stuff works (it does not), the best approach would be to instead focus on improving your own life. A high-value guy does not typically have problems with gett…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 06:46 PM
2

As per Rollo, women say lots of stuff. Ignore it and watch what they do. Female advice columnists tend to say more than usual, and their advice is almost entirely aimed at women, who read it and then do what they want.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 05:21 PM
1

I don't know if you need game knowledge. You acknowledge the guys that do better than you have better fashion sense, so maybe work on your wardrobe.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 05:12 PM
2

Business people have money and musicians have status, these attributes are also handy in attracting women. If you have no money or status you better be attractive.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 05:10 PM
1

Looks are very important. That being said, you can improve your looks by grooming better, dressing better, and lifting. In your case, Lose the mustache, fix the haircut, put on some muscle. Bang a hooker or two if your lack of sexual experience is really messing with your head. I am not against plastic surgery, but it isn't like you have some deformity, so that seems extreme in your case.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 05:06 PM
1

I think you should dump her and find a woman who is actually nice to you. If you can't find that then a good escort is likely a way better option.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:15 PM
4

We do not need a whole pile of news stories on hypergamy to know it exists. The guy here sounds like a jerk, albeit an accomplished jerk. Once you throw in being abusive and unfaithful, small wonder the girl bailed. So, the issue is she should have swung to the first guy available? She did not deserve to be murdered.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:11 PM
2

If you are a high earning guy with good looks in your 30s, your first choice is going to be a hot girl in her 20s, not a mid 30s career woman. The mid 30s career woman might marry down out of desperation, but this leads to all those articles about the women cheating on their husbands, and being annoyed their beta husbands do not get over it.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:52 PM
1

Human mating has been studied a fair bit. We know females select mates, the screening process is fast, it isn't a conscious process, and it's based mostly on visual stimulus. "Game" doesn't impact on this. There simply isn't time.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 03:51 PM
2

Charm, wit, personality and lifestyle are all relevant and help to escalate, provided the girl is actually attracted to you. What we are dealing with a false cause fallacy. A guy meets a girl at the bar, they hit it off, they go home. The guy concludes "I got Game." Perhaps. Alternatively, he approached a girl who wanted to have sex, she found him attractive, he did not fuck up the interaction and they went and had sex. I find this more likely.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 10:58 PM
1

Hence my caveat "a modicum of social competency". Obviously, if you attractive but a drooling lunatic you probably won't get far. But to get anywhere, she has to be attracted to you initially, and that is primarily a function of your face, physique, dress and grooming. If you pass this hurdle, then social acuity or "game" has some impact. But you cannot use "game" to make a woman attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:49 PM
1

The principal considerations are your looks and availability. A modicum of social competency is assumed. If a married woman wants to get laid she usually explicitly picks one guy who she is attracted to. Then it is just logistics.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:39 PM
2

You do not need to "game" married chicks. If a woman wants to fuck around, and you are the candidate, no discernible game is required, other than to be available and indicate you are discreet.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 04:44 PM
27

This woman is not suicidal. She is hung up on getting validation by being a whore and having people tell her she is a whore. AWALT, obviously, but there is likely an underlying mental condition or three.....
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 04:39 PM
5

I have done a lot of reading on how people develop opinions and how human thought processes work and I continue to be astounded we are still alive as a species.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 04:27 PM
1

This woman had already planned to leave and the tumour, which didn't appear all that fatal was perfect cover. Her kids were also grown so it was a logical time to bail. Women tend to plan their exit well in advance, and this fits the pattern.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 10:23 PM
3

Your female roommate moved out and you are this wrecked? I think you may need to expand your social circle in the worst way.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 10:05 PM
1

Hot 20 year olds cost way more than a $150. Anyhow, I am positive financial modelling would confirm it is way cheaper to hire a pro occasionally versus marrying a woman.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:33 AM
1

Sometimes it is hard to fit the principle to actual people I know, but AF/BB fits so well.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:24 AM
4

I have lost count of the number of marriages I have seen where the husband is convinced the wife just isn't into sex anymore, when the reality is she just isn't into having sex with him. It still astounds me, and I am convinced a fair share of these women never were into their SO. I imagine a few thought they might get tingles eventually, but still......
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:23 PM
3

There is a "cuddle" service advertising in my city. A lot of people are lonely and starved for human contact.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:12 PM
9

A reoccurring story on the relationships sub is how the sex before marriage was wild and regular, and after the ring went on the finger things change dramatically. In most cases, there is no solution except ejecting, as the woman never was into you and was just playing you.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 12:38 AM
8

If your wife makes the comment "It's not my job to please you. I'm not your whore", that really begs a whole lot of questions that could get real awkward, really fast.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 12:32 AM
2

Good luck "triggering attraction" with a girl who thinks you are ugly.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:57 PM
8

From a lot of posts, it would be understandable to think this is an Asperger support group.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:54 PM
105

A few years back an escort was interviewed in a newspaper and mentioned the bulk of her clientele were married men. She was asked if they saw her primarily because she did things their wives would not do. She said that was pretty rare. Most married clients just wanted to be with a woman who was nice to them. I learned a lot about marriage from that comment.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:42 PM
1

You cannot trigger attraction. It is a static quality. The woman you approach is either attracted to you or she is not, and this decision is made pretty quickly on a subconscious level. If her initial impression is "do not want to bang him" being cocky and funny or whatever is not likely to change the woman's initial impression.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 09:25 PM
1

Tolle pretty much ripped off a lot of buddhism, but it is all the same idea.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 09:18 PM
1

Eben Pagan (D'Angelo) made a great comment about attraction not being a choice, and then proceeded to fuck things up by arguing that you could create attraction by acting a certain way, saying certain things and behaving a certain way. Obviously, your behavior will impact on how far you can move things with a woman, but the notion that an unattractive loser can short circuit hundreds of thousands of years of evolution by virtue of body language and clever dialogue to land hot girls is silly. You…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 07:00 PM
1

The most commonly used justification for tinder use is that it is an ego boost. If you believe this, you also are probably also up for buying oceanfront property in Arizona. In this particular case, you broke up with the girl and then wanted to patch things up. Generally, if a girl goes along with this, a good portion of the time she is hurt and pissed off, and is playing along so she can deliver payback.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:49 PM
3

The fat ugly guys with girls might A&A, but mysteriously they also seem to have status and money. And, yeah, this is reading like every other magical get laid now book written.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:36 PM
5

"Cocky and funny" works if the girl is attracted to you, and you are a funny person to begin with. If these preconditions are not present, you end up being a dancing monkey.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:30 PM
11

I can agree to the idea that monogamy is not our natural state. Sex at Dawn thesis aside, LTRs tend to introduce stability and security at the expense of the novelty and unpredictability that produce tingles. That being said, the bulk of the open relationships I see pretty much follow the same pattern: The woman usually dates constantly, while the husband stays home, takes care of the kids, and pays the bills. For the guy to set up a side piece, or pieces, he needs free time and money, which is …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:19 PM
2

A good way of looking at things is that we all have an inner voice, and it usually runs an ongoing narrative of what is happening in our life. This would be fine except its perceptions are warped and it tends to be hyper-critical of us. The only solution is to try and live in the moment and recognize that our thoughts are not reality, they are usually just background noise.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 03:43 PM
4

Often the person in the relationship is in too deep to see things that outsiders pick up on rapidly. That being said, getting married in three months would be a red flag to any sane person.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 11:38 PM
33

Having a dummy facebook profile is pretty whacked out, even by female standards.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 11:33 PM
2

I suspect the majority of women would identify themselves as feminist. This usually has no bearing on their actual behavior or beliefs. Status has a huge impact on one's SMV, and notoriety is certainly one type of status. Gangsters and bikers usually do not lack for girls, and serial killers and rampage killers can have groupies. You add in a lot of media attention, and a lot of crazy people come out of the woodwork. Ted Bundy picked victims on the basis of a particular hairstyle, and during his…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:49 AM
5

You want a start a one man crusade to reinstate a patriarchal society? Have fun with that.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 08:52 PM
12

Life is not fair. Good looking women with a functioning brain and flexible sexuality can walk away with a lot of money if they play their cards right. That is just the world we live in. Focus on bettering your own situation.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 08:39 PM
5

Listen to the Homosexual Lubricant man! Social circle works way better than dating apps, and also random spam approaches in bars.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 07:19 PM
3

We are not seeing things that differently. Your looks determine whether the girl is interested in sealing the deal with you or not. Obviously, some people are better at moving a woman's attraction into something actionable, and if you want to refer to this as "game" that is fine. Again, when I say looks matter, what I mean is you have to be "attractive enough" for the woman in question to be willing to escalate things with you. Attractiveness is partially subjective and depends on the girl, so i…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 07:17 PM
5

I am glad you became the best version of yourself. It was a real shame you went through such a down slope to get there though.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 06:23 PM
5

Women always pick men primarily on the basis of looks unless they need a provider. If they are looking for provisions, then resources and power enter into the equation. Intellect does not have much impact. Being able to maintain your frame is a good thing for you but does not necessarily have a huge impact on your attractiveness. It is more of an issue if you have no frame as that can help you seem less attractive.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 06:12 PM
2

The idea is to not worship anything.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 01:38 AM
2

Go peddle your BS somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 10:48 PM
2

Any day now we are going to see somebody starting a Cargo Cult on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 06:28 PM
3

I am betting OP hasn't touched a girl in a long time.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:31 PM
2

If you want a raise a self-centered brat, call your daughter "princess". It only gets worse as they get older.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 03:35 PM
14

As per Rollo, with women, the medium is the message. If she is always too busy to meet up with you that pretty much tells you where you rank.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 03:00 PM
1

In fairness to the girl, if all she sees is a guy who lounges in bed every day until noon, and speaks vaguely about his investments, she might be forgiven for thinking she is shacking up with a deadbeat. If she was asking to see your tax returns, that would be a different story. A lot of guys claim to financially solid when they are basically $30k millionaires, and lots of women are so ill-informed to not understand this.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:55 PM
5

Well, it could accidentally discharge, the girl might notice it and understandably freak out, she could complain about his dick size and he decides to whip out his "other" gun, etc. etc. The bottom line again is if he is sleeping over somewhere and is enough fear for his life that his overnight kit includes a gun, he should rethink the whole thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:47 AM
8

Keeping a loaded handgun under a stranger's pillow sounds really safe. What could go wrong?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:11 AM
1

She was not interested. It was not a test.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:13 PM
2

I pretty much considered you a raving madman by the first paragraph and kept reading to see if you got to self-harming......
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:10 PM
52

If you need to sleep with a weapon handy, maybe you should not sleep over. This really comes across as an extended bragging session camouflaged as advice.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:08 PM
268

If a girl takes this the wrong way, good luck explaining this to the authorities.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:00 PM
1

No amount of "game" is going to help if you are an unattractive loser who doesn't know where his next meal is coming from. If your SMV is low then no women will want you. The junkies, failed musicians, and dropouts are probably attractive and/or run in social circles where they can get laid, but realistically no sane person would want to be in these social circles.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 04:44 PM
6

I would rather be pictured in an article about self-castration than in article how the only way my wife has sex with me is if I buy her stuff.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 06:02 PM
2

The surgery is fine, but he wants to do it secretly because he does not trust the girl to not get pregnant and does not want the drama. Not being a parent is only one issue and there are a bunch of other issues.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:28 PM
7

Paragraph breaks help when all you are doing is typing a stream of consciousness, with no particular point.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 04:52 PM
13

This reads like the future introduction to a fairly large train wreck post here. OP is considering surgery because he is crazy about a girl he cannot trust. Logic would dictate losing the girl he cannot trust.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 04:50 PM
2

You make it sound like attracting woman is a process, whereas it is actually organic. You pretty much show up and the woman rapidly decides whether you are attractive or not. Upon meeting the woman, if you shower her with gifts and compliments, this won't impact so much on how attractive you are, but it will likely fuck up any chance you have to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 11:29 PM
-1

You have not swallowed the pill. LTRs are imaginary relationships.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 11:03 PM
4

I always enjoy GLO posts. They are hilarious and have great insights. A good way of thinking of Hard power is that it has to reserved behind a glass case to be broken in case of emergency. If you are not prepared to pull the trigger do not take out the gun. You end up looking weak.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 05:15 PM
2

Agreed. Because of the aspect that is numbers game related, being socially a bit off might be an advantage because that person might get less demoralized after a lot of failed approaches. But if your base SMV is low, simply approaching more women won't work too well.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 05:09 PM
5

I honestly burst out laughing when I read the moral integrity thing. If you believe women value character and personality traits higher than physical traits, you really need to check and confirm your data.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:51 PM
8

It's funny how when you hear about "positive masculinity", the talking points are indistinguishable from those of mainstream feminism.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 02:14 AM
3

Women decide relatively quickly whether they are open to have sex with you. The information available to them initially is your physical appearance, and that holds the most importance. However, being open to having sex and actually having sex usually requires approaching, some interaction and escalating, and this can be screwed up fairly easily. Two of the better womanizers I knew were not male models. They were not short, fat and did not have facial deformities. They dressed reasonably well and…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 04:40 PM
4

In the short term, looks are the primary consideration, though social status helps a lot. For a more long-term relationship, things like resources, personality, and behavior become more important to women. Being attractive does not negate the need to approach women, it just means you are more likely to be successful.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 03:24 PM
2

Op forgot to wear his tinfoil hat again.....
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 11:04 PM
8

The woman complaining about this are the ones who could not wear anything from Victoria's Secret if their lives depended upon it.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:41 PM
10

First off, if you bring firecrackers and bottles to throw that isn't really a protest. You are trying to get into a violent confrontation. Secondly, if you weigh 95 pounds soaking wet, getting in the forefront of said confrontation is probably not going to do wonders for your face and teeth.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:38 PM
192

This is a great post, albeit somewhat homoerotic.....
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:31 PM
10

Body language, attitude and status are all relevant -if a woman is attracted to you. An ugly dude's attitude is not going to do much if the woman he approaches does not like how he looks from the get go. A socially awkward model will often get cut a fair bit of slack in interactions that a less attracitive person would.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:28 PM
1

Exposure therapy typically involves gradually increasing exposure to the thing causing the anxiety. What is being proposed here is full on immersion from the beginning. In addition, a lot of the stunts are likely to expose the person to ridicule, which is unlikely to either reduce anxiety or elicit positive attention from women.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 11:42 PM
3

This is basically arguing if you have some social anxiety, go full retard in public to conquer it. This is terrible advice.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 10:10 PM
5

Like others have said, we only know her version of events, and frankly, if a woman has a bit of experience branch swinging, you will notice the standard narrative of events involves the ex either being a clueless loser or an abusive psycho. Regardless, if you are in an LTR and your partner suddenly goes on a massive fitness kick, usually this is part of an exit strategy.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:50 PM
137

Anybody else see the irony of a female activist that does porn on the side?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:39 PM
10

It is the law of supply and demand. There are lots of young women in New York. There are lots of military guys in Hawaii, and not as many young women. So, even if a woman is hitting the wall, she can still be in relatively high demand if she is in the right market. Her problem is that most of the guys in Hawaii probably are not going to LTR her.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:35 PM
2

The law of attraction is the belief that by focusing on positive thoughts you can attract positive events to your life. Often it is described as asking the universe to give you things, and through positive visualization the things requesting will come. Hence my comment about a pointy hat and a wand.....
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 07:12 AM
-1

I wasn't disputing that your perceptions impact on your self esteem. That seems self evident. I'm talking about the law of attraction that claims that you can make things happen by thinking about them. That being said, while confidence is important, the idea that your frame or your self belief is the key determinant in achieving goals is not exactly true.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 09:11 PM
2

I actually did google it. There are no scientific studies that support the existence of the law of attraction. There is a ton of pseudo-science arguing for it though.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:26 PM
1

If you are confident and positive you will be more resilient and easy to get along with. This is all well established. The notion that you can attract things by thinking about them is magic.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:19 PM
0

Your consciousness affects your perception of reality. Your thoughts do not impact on the real world.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:16 PM
2

If their success comes from selling people books, I would be skeptical. Ali said lots of things. He also had a body built for fighting and had an incredibly tough training regime. I am sure the attitude helped, but the attitude might well have been a byproduct of his success.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 04:48 PM
-3

The law of attraction has no basis in scientific fact. Seriously, if you believe you can "re-engineering your thoughts to magnetically attract success", you might want to invest in a pointed hat and a wand.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 04:12 PM
2

Yeah, his idea is to go from eye contact to groping in under 60 seconds. This is not typical for most interactions.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 05:41 PM
8

Thanks for the confirmation. Friends tell you the truth, even if you may not want to hear it. Imagine this going down: A: "So, I found out my girl was fucking a couple of guys" B: "Sorry man. I wondered when you would figure it out." A: "What? I don't understand. Did you know? How long did you know?" B: "I saw it happening when she banged my roommate a year ago. I then heard from another friend that she banged him too." A: "WTF!!! Why did you not tell me?" B: "I figured you would just get mad at…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 03:18 PM
-6

If you need a strategy to become "alpha", you are nowhere near being one.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 03:08 PM
2

Generally, if you go to a dance club make sure you actually enjoy it. If you are just there to get laid, it is going to seem like a chore and your attempts to look cool will likely only make you look weird. Also, you won't fit in. If you want to dance enjoy yourself but I would recommend against being the club clown.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 03:05 PM
14

Is it just me, or has the quality of writing on this sub really taken a nose dive?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 02:53 PM
1

You hear about the solipsism of women, and you really need to read something like this to have it illustrated so clearly. This article was painful to read. To summarize, men are idiots and need to grow up and realize they only exist to serve women. Switch the genders on this and the writer would get tarred, feathered, and ridden out of town on a rail.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 04:33 PM
2

This is just one big incoherent rant, that sounds like the result of getting philosophical while smoking meth.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 04:20 PM
29

He is supposed to be Chris's friend. If he wants to deny it or gets mad at OP, then at least OP tried to help. If and when reality kicks in, he will be pissed if people knew and said nothing.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 11:35 PM
40

Ever thought of telling "Chris" that everyone but him is fucking "Y"?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 10:51 PM
2

This is another example of why day game videos involve paid actresses and/or massive editing.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:38 PM
23

She was upset you passed on being a beta orbiter. Lots of women claim they are just on tinder to make friends. This sounds better than to say they are prowling for new dick.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:30 PM
18

This sounds like an enormous waste of time and energy. "Educate a Ho" is going to be about as successful as "Save a Ho".
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:28 PM
2

Online dating for guys sort of reinforces the 80/20 rule. This particular site seems to be creating the 99/1 rule.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 03:19 PM
4

Tony got lucky. A lot of women decide they miss the carousel after they have been married with a couple of kids. The outcome then is a lot costlier than a ring and the time spent moving stuff.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 05:46 PM
2

The girl married her beta provider and emotional tampon. She probably never really lusted after him, regardless of how the sex is.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 09:11 PM
2

PUAs swear up and down that LMS are not important or necessary, it is just a matter of "game". If you admit this is not true, then it gets a lot harder to sell your magical pick up product. Your market is after all guys who are usually socially awkward, low status guys who probably are not model material. They probably won't pay thousands for you to tell them to get into shape, dress better, fix their haircut, stop being a loser, and don't act like a little bitch.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 04:31 PM
3

The PUA community often leads men to the Red Pill, which is positive. The PUA gurus themselves and their theories are another matter entirely. I would argue that a lot of guys in the community who do manage to get laid, do so in spite of what they are taught.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 04:08 AM
1

I heard about "Dubai portapotty" and I got a better view of the world of internet models. The model lifestyle is rather expensive, so I am pretty sure a vast number of these girls sugar baby or hook on the side.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 06:05 PM
12

Faith can defined as believing in things in the absence of evidence. Idiots can also be defined by this.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:27 PM
1

300 approaches likely takes a lot of time and the conversion ratio of phone numbers into anything more is often abysmal. So, the likelihood of this creating an abundance mentality is low.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 09:49 PM
84

It is a silly cartoon. Oh, hold it. I actually looked at the site. They are not being sarcastic....Christ, they even have advice on resources for "healthy" cuckolding. You could not make this stuff up.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 07:00 PM
123

His virtue did not prevent his snowflake from cheating the first time around, but I am totally sure it will work with the next snowflake.... In fairness, when faced with cognitive dissonance the first impulse is probably to double dose on the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:02 PM
1

Status counts for a lot. Having a hot girl show interest in you signals value.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:57 PM
28

In fairness, if I saw women drooling over a fat bald dwarf, I would get pretty curious too.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:55 PM
2

I doubt it ever really worked, but it sold a lot of books and made for good theory.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:48 PM
1

This pretty much proves my point that cold approaching is not efficient.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:42 PM
1

Most guys get rejected a lot. It is a numbers game. Focus on the ones who seem to like you and avoid trying to reverse the engine.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:40 PM
1

IOIs are not guarantees of anything, but if the alternative reaction is hostility, they probably indicate a better possibility of success than the alternative. If a woman from the outset acts like a complete bitch towards you, it is pretty optimistic to interpret this as a big shit test to power through. It is equally optimistic to assume that if you somehow managed to power through all these tests, the woman will do a complete 180-degree change in her assessment of you, and then be strongly att…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:12 PM
89

If your dad wants to give POA to a woman who he has not seen in years, I think those are solid grounds to question his overall mental competency.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 02:55 PM
1

The Myers Brigg test is hugely variable, and your results can change a lot depending on your mood when you take the test. But I could just be an ISTJ who is bitter.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:47 PM
4

Well, if every woman you meet reacts with hostility when you talk to them, there are a couple of possible solutions. First, you could move to a different environment to approach women. Second, your SMV could be too low and you need to work on it. Third, you could try to learn to detect IOI's in women's body language. In this particular case, OP did work on generating interest, though it is unclear if the girl is really interested. Getting phone numbers does not necessarily mean much.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:41 PM
1

Cold approach gets advocated a lot but it is very inefficient. Warm approaches in social settings has much higher odds of success. A lot of new guys do a whole lot of indiscriminate cold approaches, get no results, and acquire complexes.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:25 AM
34

Maybe next time approach a girl who gives some indication of being interested. It might go better and there will be less testing.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:35 AM
1

Logic would dictate that police training might include training on subduing non-compliant subjects. The three policewomen were pretty passive and tangled with him one at a time a fair bit. They did not even monkey pile him. The male security guard did not do much better. The bystander was probably the most combative. If three of them could not force him down, it is odd they did not shoot him down when he grabbed rocks or blunt objects. In any event, I hope they were fired. I am not an expert gra…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:54 PM
8

He gave up on his education and works a shitty job to support a heavy older woman who cheats on him and spins hula hoops at EDM festivals.....This has got to be fiction. Assuming this is not made up, this guy is beyond saving. I would be hoping he does not reproduce.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:35 PM
1

I am always torn on this. On the one hand, warning the guy is probably the right thing to do. When things blow up for him, at least he cannot say he wasn't warned, and you did care enough for him as a friend to tell him things he did not want to hear. That being said, every time I have had this type of conversation, the guy usually ignores what I say, and about half the time gets so upset that we are not friends anymore. I got "uninvited" to at least one wedding and the fellow did not even reach…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:43 PM
3

In light of the audience for comics and superhero films, it stands to reason that transgender, gay, and African-American superhero characters would likely not resonate much. Wonder woman or Batgirl likewise would probably not have as an avid a following if they were both flat chested, and 40 pounds over their ideal weight. Imagine if Scarlett Johansen's character was played by Melissa McCarthy? I doubt this would help much at the box office.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:35 PM
7

It is pretty hard for a woman to discern quality if the man is wearing a flamingo dress. For a woman to pick up on all your alpha qualities, she has to be attracted to you enough to get to know you. Your physical appearance (including your apparel) is what the woman has to go on in making this determination, and this process happens pretty quickly. Your physical stance, talking, walking and eye contact are not all that relevant if a woman's first impression based upon your physique, face, and dr…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:29 PM
2

"I am not gay. I am not too sure about my boyfriend, but I am definitely not."
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:26 AM
3

You are in a pretty weird place when being called a "cuckold" is a badge of honor. This is an impending train wreck, which might be amusing to watch-from a distance.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 02:43 PM
1

This advice is really bad. You cannot negotiate desire or convince someone to be attracted to you. It is binary, and if it isn't happening you move on.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 06:30 PM
3

I would argue that the woman in the article is not really motivated by sex. It seems like she gets her thrills by instigating a lot of personal drama and implanting herself into other people's lives.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 02:18 AM
1

I cannot speak for Seattle, but I was born, raised and educated in Saskatchewan. The only hotbed of feminism is in the liberal arts area of the universities, and the number of guys that participate in these activities is minimal. Even with the "men for women" types, the majority of guys in there are your stereotypical thirsty betas that are desperately virtue signaling in the hopes of getting laid. I knew a bunch and only a handful knew anything beyond the slogans. With respect to south Calgary,…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:39 PM
1

I am willing to bet virtually no one showed up to confess. Generally, you find limited numbers of men participating in feminist activities, and they are usually the ultimate betas who even the feminist types won't date.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 07:14 PM
1

Seriously, this guy probably dodged a bigger bullet than if he had had kids and more assets. Now, he just has to learn to not do this again.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:37 AM
1

Start a relationship with this girl and all you will do is assume the role of beta boyfriend while she finds another guy for your current position.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:31 AM
3

I saw a female psychiatrist and a female registered counsellor at different times in my life. Neither of them said anything blue pilled and both helped me. Funny enough, when I discussed having two ONS in the prior week with the shrink her only comment was "Good for you, but always wear a condom!" That being said, it can be a big crapshoot who you end up with for this sort of help and so I don't know if my experience is typical.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:24 AM
2

The headline immediately had me thinking he was a beta orbiter who snapped but reading more he sounds more psychotic than anything.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:12 AM
13

I'm feeling pretty let down. If this is a cult, we don't have rituals, meetings, group chanting, or even a secret handshake, and no one is shaking me down for money! Seriously, they interview four nobodies and obviously haven't read squat on the actual red pill. There is no attempt to debate anything, just name calling.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:10 AM
32

I did a ton of dinner and movie dates before I realized that there was like a negative correlation between doing this and actually getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:02 AM
1

The Strauss book is an interesting story but anyone reading it in order to become a womanizer is going to be disappointed, as there is no real advice. I remember reading it and my primary thoughts were "Wow, this secret society is comprised of crazy losers" and "the guys I know who get laid regularly don't do any of this stuff." Tomassi's book and the sidebar are good starting points. I am completely sceptical of any "game" which consists of techniques that will supposedly "create attraction". A…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 04:46 PM
2

Not at all. The 14 year old male behaved horribly, but it is not helping anyone if you treat the woman sending the pictures to be completely devoid of agency. I am probably old fashioned, but I think teenagers sending nude photos is something that should widely condemned and educated against.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 04:27 PM
3

"Game" is a term that changes meaning depending upon how it is used. Two of the more common interpretations are: The Rational Male version of "Game" is an awareness and understanding of common behavior patterns in human mating, and can be used to optimize one's own actions; or, the PUA version of "Game" usually involves actions and behaviors a man can do to theoretically "hack" the mating process.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 04:11 PM
4

Seriously, this is entire post is two-thirds oxymoronic and one-third synonymous. "Positive Narcissist" and "Positive Psychopath" are terms used by people that have no idea what narcissism and psychopathy actually are. Narcissists are completely self-absorbed and have a sense of self-worth that is wildly inflated. Psychopaths are incapable of feeling empathy. Machiavellianism is rational and completely amoral, where the only virtue is expediency. There are certain traits among narcissists and ps…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 03:58 PM
9

If you are selling any product, it is in your interest to try and differentiate your product as much as possible to avoid being strictly commoditized in your market. When the product is you, this makes just as much sense.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 03:30 PM
9

It is pretty well known that online dating follows the 80/20 rule. If you are a pretty attractive guy it can work well for you, but if not you might as well be invisible.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 03:11 PM
3

It is funny that a lot of girls claim they want something casual, and if the sex is good, they want to see you regularly. Following this, one might expect to get some subtle or not so subtle hints about a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 10:24 PM
1

Cold approaches are pretty inefficient and the overwhelming majority of guys get girls via social circles. In southeast Asia the cultural mores are such that cold approaches are even less likely to work.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 10:13 PM
1

I am missing the part of the story where the gang of men forced her at gunpoint to send nude photos. I am also missing the part where trusting a 14-year-old boy to act like an adult sounds like a great idea.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 10:10 PM
2

This is just another example of AWALT, Hypergamy, and AF/BB.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 10:04 PM
1

Good to hear things are going well for you. Keep doing what you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 09:50 PM
2

True enough. You have to be careful about women who are into violence, as they have been known to try and provoke things.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 09:48 PM
1

Yeah, I should have termed the reluctance to date ethnic minorities as cultural. A lot of soldiers are in pretty good shape and alpha, and the uniform does things for women. It is not really the job as much as the ancillary trappings though, and keeping the girls around is a tough prospect.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 07:17 PM
3

At some point, you have to internalize the teachings and not just act out a few of the practices in an attempt to impress a girl. If you are beta by nature, you are going to revert to this whenever you run out of the script.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:41 PM
3

Getting drunk and dumping your feelings on a woman is about as useful as doing this when sober. The main benefit of talking to a drunk person is they are more likely to be honest. If a girl is talking to other guys while she is supposedly interested in you, she is "saying something" pretty loud and clear.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:36 PM
12

It is entirely possible you can have an initially favorable impression of someone that changes after you get to know them better. This happens regularly.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:32 PM
14

Chappelle is a pretty funny guy and his Netflix specials are great entertainment. Even if he is married, his point that aside from religious or romantic considerations, modern marriage is an insane idea is completely valid.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:29 PM
152

To summarize, "spin plates".
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:25 PM
4

The news about MMA fighter "War Machine" would call your entire premise into question. The fact that women are predisposed towards good looking tall guys is pretty much evolutionary biology. It also makes some sense for women to be more attracted to males who can protect them and their offspring from an evolutionary perspective. Coming across as pliable or weak is not particularly attractive, though a hair-trigger temper and a propensity for violence is not always attractive to women either. The…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:17 PM
6

We like women just fine. We do not idealize them though.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 07:44 PM
14

Curiously, when I met girls who were into me there were not a whole lot of shit tests or LMR. If a girl was being a bitch, it wasn't usually something you could game your way through. Women put you in one category or another pretty fast and you have to pick out the ones who are actually open to you.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 06:52 PM
2

In what alternate universe is you going out with your client's daughter going to work well for you? Your best bet is to be so boring she dumps you.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:56 PM
5

Hot women and sports cars both depreciate considerably and are not assets you hold for the long term. On the plus side, good sports cars tend to be consistently good rides. Supermodels are not as consistent.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:54 PM
4

I was trying to imagine the best way to repulse women, and this guy hit every conceivable angle in a one-page resume. This is the gold medal in cringe-inducing.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:50 PM
3

You seem obsessed with a girl who was in some of your classes who you had supposedly had no interest in. You have devoted a great amount of attention on your every little interaction with her. You have now posted on a forum about the denouement of this pseudo relationship. One can conclude you do not have much going on in your life and you were a lot more emotionally invested in this relationship than you want to admit to being. It is good you mention psychology. You might wish to seek psycholog…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:44 PM
55

The problem is that we can tell you things, but a lot of the time you need to make your own mistakes. Here are my own life lessons, aside from not getting married. Stay in good physical shape, and maintain your grooming and wardrobe. It is way easier to maintain your condition than to try and get it back after you lose it. Maintain a good work reputation at all costs. The effort of spinning plates pales in comparison to the hell of being in a bad relationship. To be well off, you not only have t…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:17 PM
0

I am really hoping this is sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:48 PM
2

Waitresses get hit on by an exponential amount of guys, even if they are not all that attractive. From what I have seen in Toronto, it is pretty cliquey, and most guys get way better results from their social circle than random girls at clubs. It probably does not help that a lot of guys spam approach every woman in sight. At least you understand that you game a girl into being attracted to you. Knowing this saves you a lot of time.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:46 PM
1

A woman's initial desire for you is a static property. If she is into you, you can escalate, and this may involve a lot of verbal jousting. If she is not into you at the initial meeting, you can spend a lot of time trying to change this, and this will waste a lot of time. It is not like you can emotionally push and pull her into a state of desiring you if she initially was not attracted to you. Cold approaching is pretty inefficient unless you are fortunate enough to be very physically attractiv…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 03:59 PM
3

I am experienced enough to know you cannot negotiate desire. I am also not trying to sell a product.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 03:29 PM
3

This information echoes a lot of sales training I had. While it might work to sell a product, you are unlikely to "sell" much dick this way. If a women isn't into you, it is unlikely you can talk her into changing her mind about this. But hey, feel free to keep "ploughing".
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 03:15 PM
24

Can you imagine the outcry if a guy said his looks made it impossible for him to remain faithful? The woman in the article gets a free pass because obviously any woman who behaves badly lacks the agency to form intent.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:50 PM
1

And now you coincidentally happen to be selling your own PUA product.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 10:03 PM
12

If a guy cannot get anywhere with a good sample of attractive women, it would be logical that this lack of success could be attributed to things like not being attractive enough, having low status, and/or being socially awkward. If you are fat, short, and ugly you may well come by your "limiting beliefs" honestly. While approaching lots of women and writing field reports might give you some clues on what your issues are, this and lots of positive thinking are in and of themselves unlikely to hel…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 12:16 AM
2

You are not too good at picking up on sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 11:04 PM
7

It is entirely possible the women in question did not find you attractive. It is a safe bet after you screamed at them they thought you were unhinged and possibly dangerous. If they were not racist before, they might be now. Maybe your TRP learning should include some counseling, because you have issues.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 11:02 PM
36

This dude is a moron that got into a scrap for no reason. The girl in question was smart to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 10:57 PM
11

I am not sure which is worse. The whore or the idiot that married her.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 10:50 PM
1

I would agree with you on the three pillars. Social status and proof can have a massive impact. I get into a lot of debates with people where they use anecdotes about the DJ or bartender who is average looking and pulls girls like crazy. These individuals might have phenomenal "game" but what is more likely working for them is that they have huge social proof, at least in that particular venue. The one fellow I knew who was attractive and quite successful did tend to go out with a posse, and non…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 08:26 PM
1

Sure. Being boring and nervous could prevent this fellow from escalating, or could make him turn the girl off if he tries. She was initially attracted and then she got turned off by his creepy vibe, or his Aspergers, or whatever. This happens regularly enough. That being said, a couple of guys I have known with the most lay counts were pretty bad conversationalists and could get crude pretty fast and it did not seem to have a huge impact. If a girl is really into you, she may put up with a lot, …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:06 PM
1

Thank you for your anecdotes giving hope to untold numbers of despairing Denny's managers and guys in ISIS. LOL. The overwhelming majority of ugly guys married to super models are rich and/or high status. I have a fair amount of experience and know enough to know that in any large data set you can have outliers like your sister. Assuming she has a knowledge of branch swinging, your brother in law might see things change in time. While women do have relatively set criteria for what they find attr…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 05:47 PM
1

Money is a great tool for bettering your life and increasing your SMV. Simply trying to attract women by overt displays of money, and/or making it rain around them usually blows up spectacularly. The absolute best case scenario is you will pay for a lot of dates before you actually get sex as you are being groomed as a provider husband. The more likely scenarios involve getting bled dry and eventually divorce raped by a "ho" that only saw you as a mark.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 05:03 PM
2

Do not do dinner dates until you have had sex a few times. Then offer to let her get the cheque next time.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:56 PM
2

I did not know who either of these people were and read up on them on Wikipedia. It is really sad as it seemed like a match made in heaven -an unhinged MMA fighter prone to violent outbursts and an unstable porn star who enthusiastically rides the CC when she is not doing it onscreen. What could go wrong?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:53 PM
3

The fellow at Tiananmen square that faced off with a tank was brave. This is just artistic posturing.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:39 PM
22

I hope the sex was worth it. If I had to listen to that much hamstering I would have probably bailed.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:28 PM
11

Well, I think the best way to encourage women to have healthy attitudes and be confident is to instill in them the idea that they are surrounded by multitudes of sexual predators and will be attacked at any moment. This kind of rhetoric is useful if you are trying to recruit fanatics for a cult, which may not be far off.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:23 PM
2

I keep thinking this post is satire. Social skills are a bonus, but you cannot talk your way into being attractive. Also, please provide proof on the short, bald, poor and ugly fellow that landed a 10.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:39 PM
1

You want to plate a 40-year-old single mother on social welfare who cannot clean and has a kid with emotional problems? You should aim a lot higher.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:39 PM
1

This girl is completely insane and it is scary you needed to ask us to confirm this.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:34 PM
1

This posting is about as useful as a screen door on a submarine. The bible is an ok piece of literature but it is a collection of handed down fairy tales from the bronze age with one reccuring prominent fictional character.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:32 PM
3

A libertarian is someone who is willing to have you die for his beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:13 PM
3

As a teenager, I worked in the kitchen of a restaurant/bar with a lot of very attractive waitresses. Early on, I learned that the majority had two personalities- one for people who might tip a lot or they were attracted to and one for everyone else. It got really educational when over time I watched the stuff they did in their personal lives. I got really cynical in a big hurry.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:12 PM
20

This happens to everybody at some point. You seem to have learned a good lesson though.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:46 PM
11

The brutal part is that if you do an "intervention" the majority of the time your friend just cuts you out and doubles down on his unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:37 PM
1

A lot of people tend to uncritically accept the claims and infield videos of the PUAs as real. They also buy into the premise that low SMV can be trumped by "game" or PUA skills. But it is a lot easier to sell a bunch of bogus psychology, role-playing, and spam approaching, then to tell guys to get into shape, dress better, work on their grooming, and don't be socially retarded.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:17 PM
5

I am also Canadian and have lived in and dated lots of women in three provinces. I have never been asked these questions on any date, even once. Where do you find these women?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 03:18 AM
5

I'm glad you had fun. When in doubt, escalate.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:19 PM
6

Read the sidebar. Work on your SMV. Lift. Stop fascinating about Asian women being unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:17 PM
15

Read the sidebar. And good luck trying to time travel back to the 18th century frontier.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:13 PM
1

A number of different things might be happening with better ratios: The guy is getting better at identifying women that are receptive to him. The guy, based on observations of other, is now dressing better and is better groomed. The guy is less nervous and awkward, from either getting laid more or just being more used to talking to women. So, he is less likely to fuck up the escalation. So, if you want to call this "game", sure. I would argue it can only be learned via experience, though, and it…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:11 PM
16

I thought "game" was supposed to render his weight a non issue. Joking aside, if he is already getting dates, he doesn't need more game, he just needs to keep losing weight.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 11:11 PM
7

I had an Aunt who insisted on introducing herself as the "wife of Dr. X". Given that the husband was a chiropractor it was really sad.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:51 PM
4

Yes. Being seen as attractive allows you to escalate. If you are more socially intelligent you are more likely to successfully escalate. Confidence and social acuity do not increase your attractiveness per se. So, focusing a lot on verbal and non-verbal behavior is of limited utility. Simply put, try to be as physically attractive as possible and try to avoid being socially retarded. An excessive focus on canned stories and dialogue tends to hamper this because you come off as a weirdo. A lot of…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 06:25 PM
1

Men and women do not choose what they are attracted to. Fat women also lust after physically fit men who are tall and have good facial symmetry. Good luck trying to reprogram people.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:29 PM
3

"Summary: What makes the best lines for opening and picking up girls? Does it really matter what you say? Or maybe it's all in the nonverbals - confidence and authenticity?" Your appearance is the dominant variable. Verbal and social competency are simply table stakes. Social status can also help a lot. Numerous studies have shown that women determine in a pretty short period of time whether they would be open to having sex with you, so the idea that clever conversational ability will improve yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:23 PM
12

Excellent post. I live where there is a large Asian population and a good portion of the married Asian women have boyfriends. A lot of the married guys use hookers as it is a total dead bedroom. The women usually control the finances, but they expect the man to bring in the cash. The younger single ones replace their boyfriends with lightning speed.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 03:57 PM
1

Look, you asked a girl out and pulled off an amazing date. That was great. But you are always better off physically escalating early on. In your case, if you are lucky she will just think you are taking it slow, but it might cause her confusion about your intentions. Worst case scenario, you put a pile of effort into a girl that may not be into you that way. A lot of guys spend a lot of time, energy and money on girls who are not into them and/or are not DTF, but often girls just enjoy the atten…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:08 PM
4

Wow. You are like the best orbiter ever. If you play your cards right, she may one day even ask you to be her maid of honor.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:10 PM
3

Whatever makes them happy. Three-way relationships are pretty unstable even though this seems a lot more like two gay guys sharing a "beard".
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:08 PM
2

A lot of people are on meds for mental issues. Obviously, some people will use this an excuse to justify bad behavior, but I doubt this applies to everybody. I read a lot of the comments and now better understand the stigma associated with mental health.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:01 PM
2

This is not an uncommon phenomenon: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dar_Heatherington Her husband stood by her as well from what I understand.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 06:40 PM
2

When women are into you, their signals can be maddeningly subtle, so it is easy to miss it. So, if you ignorant of this it is not surprising if you fail to escalate and things go nowhere. As a piece of common sense, if you are trying to make people like you, arguing with them usually does not help much.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 06:32 PM
3

I lift and do Krav Maga and the combo works marvelously to make me feel better. It also works wonders on anger management.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 06:21 PM
30

A lot of women will happily date rich guys they find repulsive just for the perks. I have lost count of the number of women I know where I found out they had done some sugar babying, webcam work, or even escorting. If they are attractive and have money issues you would be amazed how often this crops up in their backgrounds.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 06:19 PM
1

You should have fucked her and then dropped her fast. Having conversations with drunk people in general is really annoying.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 06:07 PM
1

I hope this is fantasy. Otherwise it is just sad.......
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 11:50 AM
-1

The hamster is strong in that one.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 10:37 PM
12

Love the fallacy list. It belongs on the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 10:29 PM
4

There is no upside for your SMV if you are seen as the backup option. Orbiters rarely get pulled closer when the woman gets dumped.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 05:48 PM
20

Looks matter for both genders. For guys, it is the main criteria, whereas for women it can be partially mitigated by the man's status. Money also works but the women are not actually attracted to the guy, just his cash. Not a huge fan of Madonna, but she is a marketing genius in that she has reinvented herself constantly. I doubt her continued success is solely due to banging music company execs.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 05:36 PM
1

Milo loves to say nasty things and one of these things is saying teenagers can benefit from sexual relationships with older men. Assuming we can all agree that this is pretty awful thing to endorse, it is quite a step to then say the best response to the furor is to not apologize and hold frame........
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 09:52 PM
1

Next time, instead of staring down girls at the gym who show interest, you might try actually talking to them.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 09:35 PM
7

I would interpret it as screen for attraction first, and then figure out the logistics. It is doubtful some girl will pick a less attractive guy due to more convenient logistics. Otherwise, there would likely be a lot less sex in bathroom stalls and up against dumpsters.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 07:02 PM
3

The idea of communicating on a subconscious level is pretty controversial and is mostly popular among new age believers.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:35 PM
1

Well, most women won't be intimate with guys they are not at least moderately attracted to, validation notwithstanding, as many orbiters can attest. As far as deeper motivations go, people generally want to spend time with people who make them feel good about themselves.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:00 PM
3

So a fat broke guy who is unnaturally confident with an attractive personality will attract more girls than a wealthy male model?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:39 PM
1

You physically escalate. This will quickly establish whether she likes you or just your attention.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:26 PM
1

My philosophy course was some years ago, so I am rusty on the logical fallacies. It was not an argument from ignorance. Along the same vein, the woman might not be able to explain why she is into you, but that does not necessarily mean her being into you is a direct result of certain things you did.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:15 AM
15

Alternatively, the girls in question were attracted to you early on and your gaming did not manage to turn them off. In this case, you are rationalizing your success post hoc. You mention that women have no control over what attracts them, but your default solution when one is attracted is to attribute it to "game", which is an argument from ignorance. Finally, talking with a girl about game will only serve to make you look like a weirdo, and is as likely to give her tingles as a root canal.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:24 PM
11

She ended it and wants to come back for a coffee cup? Must be one hell of a coffee cup.....
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:23 PM
1

The only mistake is talking to her after she breaks up with you. You have a job and money, so conceivably you can improve on your looks -i.e. gym, haircut, clothes, so you can find a girl who is not "below average".
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:20 PM
22

Taking down cougars is like shooting fish in a shot glass. If your looks are that good, and you sing in a rock band, you could probably smash 20 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:05 PM
8

This is another post where it feels like this is the Asperger sub. By all means, scowl and glare at everybody. Just don't be surprised if people avoid you.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:51 AM
13

So, the teacher is married but is staunchly opposed to monogamy?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 11:32 PM
2

PUA sells the myth that you can create and sustain attraction by a combination of verbal and non verbal behaviour, with looks being of minimal importance. "Game" is pretty much confirmation bias and errors of attribution.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 06:43 PM
7

Based on the proliferation of these stories, and how they all follow a pretty common plot line, I am pretty sure most are fake and are written by people with cuckold fantasies. From an objective standpoint, entertaining this fetish is a great way to either burn your LTR burn to the ground, or mutate it into something where the husband ends up as a eunuch kept around to pay the bills.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 07:27 PM
12

Dude, you really cannot write.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 03:53 PM
1

Women can react a lot of ways to sexual assault. It is not uncommon for women to react to such an event by becoming more sexually active as a way of compensating for not having control in the past. Anyhow, we tend to look at what the guy did wrong, and not taking into account the fact that the girl in question might just be flat out crazy.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:57 PM
1

This is probably fake and reads like cuckold porn. The guy is a hairless version of Michael Cera and they were already having threesomes?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 03:55 PM
1

I got banned from relationships for saying a lot less than you and I certainly did not utter red pill even once.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:20 PM
6

The first part of this was interesting, the second part was kind just a cringefest.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 08:25 PM
1

Ralph signed on for this and sounds like he is hamstering for all he is worth. As a general rule, models are usually equal parts hot and crazy. Having sex with them is fine, but relationships are bound to be nightmarish.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 08:06 PM
8

Better yet, watch the videos from 2014 of Julien that made it impossible for him to travel anywhere. That guy is a genius.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:23 PM
0

This is amusing but is not exactly news. "Alpha widow" is not a new concept.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:10 PM
2

I am unenthusiastic about a natural game based on arguing the girl into submission, and then the bed. It might work, but it sounds like being hit with a purse and screaming and viewing this as a shit test....
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:00 PM
2

Offering resources in exchange for female companionship is not really alpha behavior. I knew a few attractive women where it was not uncommon for them to have wealthier guys offer to throw a lot of money on the table by way of rent, dinners, trips, etc. for companionship. Some of the women went for this and were quite mercenary about it. By the same token, these women were also having sex with other guys who were not doing anything like this. From what I saw, from a cost-benefit standpoint, I am…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:50 PM
2

If a woman is not attracted to you, you cannot "game" her to alter her opinion, and women figure out in less than a minute whether they will consider having sex with you. So, if she finds you attractive, "game" or whatever you call it will help progress things forward. Obviously, there are a lot of variables at play, but to pass the first hurdle the best course of action is to work on your looks. Nobody says you have to be "amazing" to pass this first test, but game is irrelevant if you don't me…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 12:40 AM
10

"Game is 10x more important than self improvement" Also, Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny are real.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 09:00 PM
9

I managed to watch about a minute of the video before I started to vomit in my mouth. Open relationships are one of these things that sound great in theory. Most of the time it works out where the woman is riding the carousel constantly, and the guy sits at home. The guy has hamstered himself into believing he is in a liberated relationship.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 08:52 PM
1

If you are acting high value with no demonstrable value, then you look like a delusional weirdo and you probably won't pick up anyone.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:31 PM
2

I really enjoyed reading about your lesbian relationship. Now, leave the Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:16 PM
0

The free market is one of those definitions that really does not mean much. Markets do not exist in anarchy, they exist with a government establishing the rules, with certain objectives and outcomes in mind. "Free" might mean less government regulation of certain things, but again this is a policy preference.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:11 PM
6

It takes Olympic level hamstering to get to the point of bragging about your girlfriend's sexual liberation.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:02 PM
10

An old saying is that the first person to raise their voice in an argument is the one who loses.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 08:56 PM
9

Aside from fictional romantic movies, the only guys I know that ever got out of the friend zone were the ones with women who were hitting the wall, and realized they needed a provider. Women decide pretty fast if they are attracted to you or not, and it is not like you can alter her opinion over time.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 08:53 PM
3

Your frame of mind can have a big impact on your reality, but it does not determine it. There are things beyond your control.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 08:48 PM
7

Court ordered no contact? There might have been a few other issues there with the first family. Expecting a woman to save you makes for a great work of fiction but a lousy life strategy.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 08:55 PM
45

Obviously, AWALT, but if the guy killed himself then possibly home life had not been good for a while, and she could have long since checked out. Trying to recruit a replacement at her husband's funeral is beyond classless though.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 03:20 AM
2

The better you write, the more likely you are to be taken seriously. It is inconvenient, but it is true.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:10 AM
1

With respect to the statistics, correlation does not necessarily equal causation. Sexual activity may be an effect not a cause.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:09 AM
2

You take one look at someone like Krauser and elementary common sense would indicate that he is not going to be a source of good advice. This is without digging into the whole "game" or PUA mythology. Cold approach in and of itself is really inefficient, and unless the person doing it has adequate value, it is also futile.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:04 AM
3

I can't read the dead bedroom sub. It is just too depressing. Part of the problem is that the bulk of the people in the situation never pull the trigger. Many of them sound like their lives are utter misery, so it is hard to see how leaving or cheating would make it worse.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 11:02 PM
9

A girl wanted to have sex with you and did. This was not really a red pill event. Your primary action was here was you were present. Why post this?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 05:02 PM
2

Roosh is supposedly a great PUA, but most of his stories involved him going all over the world and not managing to get laid. Apparently, the problem was not ever him, but was always due to feminism, social welfare, the women were not starving, etc. etc. Social media has certainly altered the dynamics a bit, but Roosh was not necessarily wildly successful at the best of times, and he has gotten older. His transition into an MRA has also not helped much as he is more likely to get attacked rather …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 03:58 PM
7

I wonder how the feminist counselling process is supposed to work. "You are unhappy because of the patriarchy....."
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 03:43 PM
4

Wow. Those were all depressing as hell to read. A lot of posters seem on the verge of recognizing the reality, and then backing up a bit.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 02:48 PM
4

Crazy Stupid Love is a work of fiction and while somewhat amusing at times, is not educational. Trying to pick up sexual strategy watching it would be comparable to trying to learn about espionage by watching a James Bond movie.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 07:47 PM
7

Someone decided to skip his meds and start posting.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 07:45 PM
-5

You cannot "generate" attraction. What you say and how you behave are of minimal importance. How you look is the most important factor.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 07:43 PM
22

Good grief. You really overthink and overanalyze things. You were trying to hook up with a 37 year old, and this reads like planning for operation overlord.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 08:52 AM
1

Good dating advice is hard to get. The professionals and PUAs are just selling a product, or usually one product after another. Women give horrible advice- listen to one talk about her perfect mate and then compare this to what she jumps after and you get the idea. The successful guys tend to have some combination of good looks, social proof, or money, so if you do not have the same assets their advice might not mean much. To simplify, work on your looks, try to have something going on in your l…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 04:46 PM
2

If a guy is butt ugly, superior frame is not going to do much other than make him look weird.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 04:31 PM
40

It is always illuminating to see women talk about their SOs with their girlfriends. The "sweetheart" types don't fare well.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 03:14 AM
9

She cheated on you two months after marrying you. This is not salvageable. Hard Next.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:25 PM
10

It cannot be Putin's incredibly high status- It must be his rock solid frame - LOL. If Putin was a janitor, he could have all the dominant body language he wanted and it would not mean much, other than people would think he had delusions of grandeur.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 10:51 PM
17

Putin is the absolute leader of a very large country. Lots of women will be attracted to him, body language notwithstanding.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:14 PM
45

If you cannot get laid in Vegas without hiring "professional" help, why not just hire a prostitute and cut out the middle man?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:12 PM
12

Good grief. Probably having Matt around is helpful because he just ends up making you look better.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:07 PM
1

I am not sure an imaginary invisible friend in the sky will help him.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:55 PM
17

Thanks for contributing. Good insights.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:50 AM
2

This depends what you mean by "game". If you mean having the social ability to close the deal with a woman who is attracted to you, then sure, you can call it "game", or basic social skills, or whatever. If you are talking about "game" as the ability to make a woman attracted to you through your internal mindset along with verbal and non-verbal communication, that is fictional.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:30 PM
2

No matter how cynical I get, I just can't keep up.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 12:36 AM
0

Based on D, I am reluctant to take advice from you.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 12:26 AM
1

Cold approaches usually have a horrible return on investment. Increase your social circle.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 06:19 PM
2

So, where are you moving to?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 06:18 PM
35

Attraction happens in a minute or less. If she is actually attracted to you, she is not going to throw a whole pile of shit tests at you.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 06:16 PM
2

Faith can be defined as belief with no evidence-which is synonymous with being an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 05:31 PM
2

It is a whole lot easier to sell the product if it is actually a good product. Otherwise, you are stuck playing the law of large numbers.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 05:24 PM
1

Dude, I think you are too far gone to be helped by Red Pill. Seek professional help.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 05:31 PM
1

You may need social skills. You probably do not need this product though.....
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 07:03 PM
1

Thank god somebody this dumb is not going to be breeding.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:58 PM
1

Seriously, point 2 triggers the most hamster-ing on this sub. It is a really inconvenient truth.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:56 PM
15

A lot of "smart" people are actually quite stupid, because they use their intellect to rationalize whatever crazy ideas they want.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:44 PM
2

Getting banned from the relationships subreddit is pretty easy to do, even if you make pretty innocuous comments. I would be really nervous about the quality of advice you get, based on the posters who frequent the sub and survive. Generally speaking, women are allowed to have a past, but men are not.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 02:32 AM
9

Based upon what she says, the B guy has other irons in the fire, whereas A seems to be focused on her. Given the way her brain works, B is therefore of higher value.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 02:16 AM
1

This is a troll post, or a desperate cry for psychological help.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 06:09 PM
1

I do not know Will Smith, aside from his movies, but I am always cautious of using the ramblings and mumbo jumbo of celebrities as a guide to life.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:59 PM
1

This is becoming a more mainstream type of fetish as time goes on. There are some bona fide dominant females, but I suspect a lot of the women into it are just playing a role. Generally, for every dominant type woman, there are probably 25 or 50 submissive guys, so it seems pretty mismatched.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:11 PM
1

A religion is simply a cult with a lot of members.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 05:44 AM
1

I think the main thing about being short is it messes up your odds with women who are taller, but lots of women are shorter than 5''8.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 08:33 PM
2

Pure evil is like hanging out with a serial killer or a child molester. You hung out with a skank who plays head games. I'm underwhelmed....
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 02:44 AM
2

The Rock is a really built celebrity. Bad example.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:11 AM
1

"How to get Laid like a Warlord" was more of a rant/pep talk than actionable advice. Like others have said, these situations are not binary, with a preferred method of dealing with it.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:10 AM
2

You were doing better before you got involved with her again.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:23 AM
33

She does not sound that into you. I would not worry much about alpha or beta. You walked into a weird situation and did not act like a bitch, so I think that was the best "frame" you could manage. I would not bother interacting much unless you invite her over for "Netflix and Chill". If she suggests more meetings with her group, I would just drop her.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:17 AM
3

The only fat ugly guys I see that are surrounded by women are quite wealthy.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 08:21 PM
1

Try suggesting that "looks" matter way more than "game" and the hamstering around here kicks into a whole new level.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 08:19 PM
3

There is beta behavior, but with three marriages and seventeen kids, I think this friend migrated into pathological behavior.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 08:15 PM
2

The bible is a collection of heavily edited writings attributed to a bunch of people living in the bronze age. They would be considered incredibly ignorant about the world they lived in by any reasonable standard. So, one might want to be cautious about viewing this book as a guide book. For now, we can skip the debate about whether you really have an invisible buddy in the sky or not.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 08:00 AM
2

Islam makes people happier and better? Wow. Ever read the news?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 07:50 AM
3

Sadly, this was a lot of years ago, but I was friends with one of the girls in my program, and she took a women's studies course as an elective. A couple of months in, I asked how it was going. She went off on how the class was basically group therapy for a bunch of women who were unhappy and were trying to blame it all on either the men in their lives and/or men in general. I still think that was one of the more succint appraisals of the whole gender studies area.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 07:40 AM
340

I think it would be basic manners not to have a threesome in your parent's house, unless they were away on an extended absence. If your daughter is doing that sort of thing at 18, then wow, the carousel sure starts young......
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 05:07 PM
3

Prior to the arranged marriage, all she could manage was pumps and dumps. A logically course of action might be to take a hard look at herself. Instead, she got an arranged marriage with some guy she does not actually like, and lied her way through her past sexual experiences. This is pure karma.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 06:18 PM
1

Oddly enough, the triads don't post a lot of their beat downs on YouTube so I wasn't able to find a good WT practitioner. To say Bruce Lee wasn't using Kung fu but MMA is only defensible if you discount everything he ever said and also believe he was doing time travel. I took three years of WT and after six months it was basically non stop fist fights. So, unless all the people I punched out were faking it to save my feeling, I don't think it was all that useless.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 02:30 AM
4

WT=Wing Tsun. So, you are saying all martial arts are useless except MMA, which is actually a derivative of several different ones, with an emphasis on grappling and floor work. Again, this is a mind-blowingly arrogant statement. I have seen some both a Judoka and a boxer absolutely obliterate MMA opponents. Does this mean Judo or boxing is better-no, it just means an actual confrontation boils down to the skill levels of the combatants. The combative arts are not like some rock-paper-scissors g…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:03 PM
3

The martial art is one issue but the big variable is the actual practitioner. Kung Fu is a largely generic title as there are multiple variations. The WT version can be pretty functional.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 04:35 PM
1

Going to a strip club is a lot like being starving, and then going to a large buffet where you can look at the food but not actually eat any.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:09 PM
2

Trying to thwart his ex's ability to seek legal representation will mean op will be looking at being jailed for contempt of court. That's a great way to start divorce proceedings.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 09:53 PM
5

This is bad advice. Judges take a remarkably dim view of this.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 06:01 PM
3

CBT is valid and cognitive distortions are something we always have to be mindful of. That being said, one has to be cautious about rationalizing away all of our feelings. This particular fellow is basically trying to program himself to feel good about his girlfriend banging other guys. Like a lot of polyamorous relationships, this means the girl is out having sex with half of the planet and the guy is a house bitch.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:33 PM
1

Male porn actors are paid a lot less than the women, and even the women do not make much money unless they are top tier. Most adult actresses supplement their income by escorting, stripping, or being cam girls. A fairly large number of male adult performers do gay films just to pay the bills. While it might be a status symbol for a guy to date an adult film star, the bulk of women do not feel the same way about male porn actors.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:20 PM
3

It is pretty terrifying that basic concepts like treating your spouse like a normal human being are seen as anti-feminist.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 04:58 PM
9

The concept of "game" is screwing you up. You are in your head too much and then you are trying things that are socially inappropriate. Go back to being your normal self and focus on your studies and self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 04:45 PM
1

Honestly, half of the crap on here is resurrected from RSD, and it is not any less delusional than if was the first time.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 03:55 PM
4

The sexual marketplace produces inequitable outcomes, and a person's genetics are a limiting factor. This obviously is a hard pill to swallow, so some people try to argue that looks are merely a limiting belief. Besides, it is way less painful to try to control frame than do deadlifts.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 12:32 AM
1

Celebrities say lots of stupid things and they probably do not believe a lot of what they say. It is just PR.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:05 PM
8

Yeah, I should have bailed at this point too. Went further into fantasy island as things continued. It is basically a summary of a lot of the RSD crap.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 05:41 PM
0

Nice to see someone telling the truth, instead of simply advocating doing more and more cold approaches.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 04:53 PM
3

I see this so often. You look at a lot of fucked up relationships and you find a woman who rationalized her way into picking a safe option, only to find herself unhappy. Shortly thereafter, affairs, and divorce rape ensue.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 05:08 PM
2

You posted about sending a witty text. You need validation for this?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 01:41 AM
3

Usually, it helps to have a point when you post, but hey - thanks for sharing......
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:47 PM
1

Fat shaming does not work particularly well in getting people to lose weight. That being said, fat acceptance does not work well either.......
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:43 PM
40

I have inadvertently listened in on a lot of women talking about the guys they date, and I have revised a lot of earlier opinions on how "nice" women actually are.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 10:07 PM
1

I am not sure if anyone who read "think and grow rich" or "the secret" actually got rich because of it. The authors did pretty well though.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 01:42 AM
1

The standard narrative is if the man cheats, he is a moral degenerate and if the woman cheats, her partner drove her to it. The comments on yahoo bear this out. Everyone calls him a creep, and while the snooping is a little creepy, hooking up with another guy in a parking lot is not exactly model behaviour. He gets called on being overweight, but based on the footage, the wife is probably not a supermodel either. The double standard really gets hard to stomach.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 09:53 PM
5

Confidence is the by product of actual accomplishment. Simply saying "be confident" is silly, and at best is empty posturing.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:40 PM
3

You handled things really well I thought, particularly as your GF seems to have massive double standards. I would let it slide if it does not happen again.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:37 PM
113

These guys are having private conversations and have not done anything to anyone. It kind of reminds me of the 1984 novel where you can commit a "thought crime" simply by thinking the wrong thing. I am willing to bet if we monitored a lot of women texting we might find some things expressed that were not particularly womyn loving.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:31 PM
31

This is one of those days when the Red Pill Sub seems more like the Asperger sub.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 07:00 PM
29

I am willing to bet he will have an epic crying fit when he finds out his wife has been banging someone more masculine on the side.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:38 PM
10

I thought the whole idea of equality was to vote for people based upon their character, ideas, and platform. Gender should be irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:33 PM
6

I watched 30 seconds of her youtube video and it was like getting a root canal. Anyhow, like others have said, one look at her and you know her type. Reggie was really stupid.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 05:06 PM
92

These sorts of articles are always in the vein of "I'm so wonderful, why am I single?", which means you are perfect and have no responsibility for your outcomes. had a similar article in our paper some years ago where a panel of women complained how hard it was to find date-able men. The women in question were all at the wall, and were of mediocre looks at best. In general, their expectations were comparable to the woman in Seattle. Basically, they wanted a hot guy who can follow orders while wr…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 12:16 AM
4

The submissive asian girl is largely a mythical invention. I can count on one had the number of genuinely submissive asian girls I have met, and even they might have been jiving me. I have lost count of the number of guys who married asian girls who they thought were submissive. They all had really rude awakenings sooner or later.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 08:00 PM
1

Some people need to set themselves on fire a few times before they figure out that playing with matches isn't smart. Some people do not even learn after this. That being said, you could try and have a come to Jesus talk and lay it all out for him. Another option is to mock him strategically, and see if he starts thinking. Either way, there is a good chance he will just get pissed at you and invest further in his girl. But, even if it does not help, at least when it blows up you can at least say …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:24 PM
9

Machiavelli stresses that you should appear moral, and attempt to maintain a moral reputation, but that is should not have any influence on actual decision making. That being said, your post seems to be more about the fact that some people are not very nice. But, it is a bit of a stretch to say everyone is awful and you should therefore do whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:06 PM
5

True story from some years ago, unfortunately. I did a traditional date with a supposedly nice girl I had met in classes. I did flowers at the door, dinner and a movie. I was polite, gracious and even pretty funny, I thought. We went back to her place, and I got a peck on the cheek and then she commando rolled into the door and shut it behind her. Okay, fine, she was not that into me. The next week I run into a guy I knew from class and we compared weekends. I skipped mentioning my date. He ment…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 01:20 AM
2

I would hesitate to view this as AWALT. This woman comes across as a psychopath. Not that the intended victim was any prize, but there seems to be an ongoing pattern of behaviour here. It is particularly telling that she can go from one intense emotional state to another at the drop of a hat.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 07:47 PM
2

Maybe after this article we can have another on magical crystals, Tarot Cards, or "The Secret" book.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:01 PM
9

You cannot talk or shame yourself or someone else into finding somebody else attractive.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 03:55 PM
5

Some of the best advice I got was if you are out on a date with a girl, watch how she treats the server, because if you stick around you will be the server.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:14 AM
4

Anyone who is nostalgic about the middle ages really needs to read a book or two. Anyhow, if you are looking for help in sexual matters from the church, you probably have bigger issues.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:10 AM
49

Hamster-ing is not limited to women.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:05 AM
5

How long have you been going "full retard"?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 05:59 AM
1

I am happy for the brother in law. He has transitioned from beta orbiter and the OP is mad because he is no longer as available as an emotional dishrag.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 04:15 PM
16

This sounds comparable to the women advocating that we "man up" and marry single mothers.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 04:10 PM
18

Wow. You and the guy who kept frame with a hooker should get together and share tips........
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 09:09 PM
7

Mariah Carey is past 40, and is a well known diva, with loads of issues-narcissism being one of them. I probably would pass on hitting that, and if it was no sex before marriage any sane man would run away fast. Predictably, Mariah is keeping the $10 mm ring and wants another $40 mm for the time they spent together. Parker might be rich but he is really stupid.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 08:12 PM
1

NLP? Jesus, maybe we can also suggest crystals, witchcraft and voodoo to help.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 07:51 PM
1

Obviously, any woman doing this will take pains to explain how she is not really a hooker. In fairness to the GF, any guy "hiring" a sugar baby is delusional if he thinks this is going to turn into some romantic relationship, much less an exclusive one. I suspect most sugar daddies aren't that stupid. Sugar babies are certainly along the same spectrum as trophy wives, professional girlfriends and hookers.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 03:34 PM
1

"Revenge of the Nerds" was not a documentary. Intelligence is not particularly important with respect to women unless she is looking for a provider. Also, due to the halo effect, attractive people are often considered intelligent by default.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 05:50 AM
1

How do you practice being social if you are isolated?
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:45 AM
8

When she was heavier no one would have looked at her. As soon as she started getting attention, branch swinging became an option. I mean, she lost all the weight and the nights out increased. Obviously she was on the prowl, but it sounds better to say her ex was jealous.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 03:16 AM
0

Why don't you actually try this on an actual girl rather than tell us. And stop overthinking this, for fuck's sake. You go out, find out what girls seem interested in you, and then escalate. Everything else is mental masturbation.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 03:22 PM
1

If you are having suicidal ideation you need to get professional help immediately. Aside from that, your wife went from college instructor to post wall waitress living with parents. This is a mess you should walk away from gladly. You should not have followed her when she moved.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 03:18 PM
1

A three date rule would be more suited to an article in Cosmopolitan.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 09:03 PM
5

I have also never met any woman who ruled out players. They may have not had tingles, and the excuse was that he was a player. There are no shortage of women willing to try and reform a player.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 09:00 PM
7

It is also way easier to be fun, as opposed to deep and meaningful.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:53 PM
1

You have not swallowed the pill. Don't chase - replace.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:49 PM
1

Wow, this is a horrible story. I hope you are doing better now.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:47 PM
2

Having leaders chosen on the basis of heredity never works particularly well over time.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:44 PM
1

Confidence and personality do matter, but only if you first cross the attraction threshold. If the woman is open to you then obviously being socially aware will help a lot. If she does not find you attractive from the get go, you are not going to talk her into it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:40 PM
1

Careful, you might get called what I did - "a game denialist". Every second post is often some guy expounding on game, which to me is a lot like claiming to use magic.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:11 PM
2

Unfortunately, a segment of posters maintain a belief that "game" is some silver bullet that will circumvent all the tedious work of improving your physical attractiveness.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:42 PM
27

Confidence and personality are good things but if the girl is not attracted to you to begin with, these become largely irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 11:46 PM
5

I am sorry to hear about what happened. Where were your parents during all this? This was probably grounds for lawyering up.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 04:54 AM
11

So, you used red pill to be moderately assertive with a hooker. This is not a big triumph.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 12:16 AM
17

Science has pretty much demonstrated that physical attraction determines whether things get started or not, and the only real difference in genders is that women invariably lie about this.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 06:44 PM
2

The logic is if the woman is integrated as part of a social circle of other military wives, it will keep Chad away and the military man will be more functional with less drama at home. It is a nice theory. On the down side, your wife will start seeing herself as part of the military and your career issues will become her issues too.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 06:02 PM
1

Most religion involves a lot of sacrifice in the here and now in return for supposed rewards in the hereafter. So do most con games... Anyhow, you rapidly notice on relationship forums a bit of a double standard. If the husband puts on weight, you are entitled to have a pretty frank discussion, stop having sex and lay down ultimatums. If a woman puts on weight, that is her business and you are supposed to love her just the way she is.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 02:10 AM
3

Your roommate seems a touch entitled. She was basically doing whoever she wanted, and seems dumbfounded that her boyfriend next-ed her and the guy on the side had no interest in a real relationship with her. La Reciprocite'
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 01:56 AM
4

I think that more than a few feminist types see this as the "dream". They get all their needs met. They get a guy that they can boss around that will financially support them while acting as an emotional dishrag. They also get to have sex with real men, who just want to have sex and understandably do not want to get into a relationship with this woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 01:43 AM
5

I am sorry you went through this. Realistically, if over the space of a week she went from one extreme to another, it is pretty safe to assume that there is a whole pile of crazy mixed in with the branch swinging. It will hurt but you will recover quicker than you think.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 01:34 AM
2

This stands to reason. Hunter gatherer tribes might have a chief but it is rare that their power is absolute. As well, as a survival strategy, cooperation makes vastly more sense.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 01:24 AM
3

When you are not looking at the person with rose coloured glasses, when they hit you with this line you know that you are their last resort. It sounds like the girl in this case had pretty much hit rock bottom.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 04:24 PM
1

LTRs are a tough proposition at the best of times. Based upon an admittedly small sample size, a fair number of the lesbians I have encountered really wanted relationships but lacked some of the basic psychological tools needed to make this really viable.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 03:49 PM
1

Maybe in the future spend less time gaming the girl and more time just listening to the things she said. It might have saved you some money.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 04:53 AM
1

I do no think anyone is discounting social skills, along with the need to go out and meet women as being pretty essential to getting anywhere. I think most people might legitimately question the argument your odds are greatly improved by looking your best.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:50 AM
0

Fat dudes that do well with women have money and/or status. Fat dudes without either of these things do not do that well. RSD Luke, like RSD Tyler has already been called out for using actresses for his "infield" videos.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:42 AM
1

Status is part of the equation. Patrice was a bit of a celebrity and that helps a lot.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:31 AM
7

Tyler is a man selling a product. If a girl is not attracted to you, "game" is not going to change her mind. Like it has been said, "game" is not fucking it up once a girl has decided you are fuck-able. In you are your friends case, it sounds like you go out a lot and approach a lot of women. Having success is not really "game" as much as the law of large numbers.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:30 AM
18

In fairness, every thread like this produces tons of people claiming that "game" or "confidence" trumps looks, or even that looks do not matter. There are a pile of these people here. Some are even from the cult known as RSD.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 06:15 PM
2

This is no different than the scenario of guys who manage to land a woman after she hits the wall, and shortly thereafter she announces they are in an "open" relationship of some sort. Often the guys put up with it. In essence, the woman wants to be able to fuck around but wants someone to pay the bills and keep the house and the kids while she is doing it. In this case, she does not have to lie about it. Due to divorce rape, it is a lot harder for a married guy to do this, even if he has suffic…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 09:49 PM
-1

For most of human history, we got the bulk of calories from animal products. Human brains seem to grow around the time we got into hunting animals in large quantities. We just are not designed to be vegan. If we were we would have three or four stomachs and no incisor teeth to handle eating all the foliage.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 08:30 PM
9

Time to go back to building your bunker.....
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 08:20 PM
6

Just be quiet. Grown ups are talking.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 08:07 PM
29

My comment is that you sound like a full blown psychopath and you should not be in the gene pool.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 08:05 PM
1

"Nice Guy Game"? Again, as others have noted this is just trying to manipulate people by feigning kindness. Not only is it not "nice" it doesn't work worth a damn.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 10:58 PM
14

"Nice Guy" can mean two things- a genuinely nice person who may lack assertiveness, or someone who tries to be nice to get what he wants - i.e. manipulative......
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:38 PM
7

Grovelling and ass kissing to get laid has a really shitty track record, but it seems to be the default method for most guys. Seriously, though. She cried afterwards. You might be worried about her turning into mattress girl.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:35 PM
2

So, basically she is unhappy because she was not sexually harassed? He was not mean to her, did not fire her, etc. This is kind of like the counter girl at MacDonald's having a melt down because I did not giver her flowers when I ordered........
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:30 PM
1

A good rule is whenever anyone talks about how loyal, or how ethical, or how nice they are, they really are not at all that thing. So, in Julie's case when she talked about loyalty, it was obvious she should carry around a neon sign saying "Open for Business". Apparently Oliver missed that memo. If he wants to have sex with her, then fine, but he actually wants to be the new boyfriend. This is astounding to me.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:21 PM
2

Self esteem was in vogue for a while in school systems as a silver bullet until it turned out that making people feel better about themselves just because did not actually help anything. People did not do better in school, get pregnant less, do less drugs or commit less crimes. The only noticeable accomplishment was an increase in narcissistic behaviour, which is not a big win. Self esteem has to be based upon actual accomplishment and achievement. Usually, to motivate yourself to accomplish thi…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:03 PM
0

Dude, start taking your medicine, or go build yourself a bunker and hide out.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 04:02 PM
11

I think your friend has bigger issues than the now departed fat chick. If he was in a relationship that unbalanced, and after she leaves he is messed up, his head is not working too well. Also, if she was that bad, and he was doing everything for her, and she still left him as soon as she could he may have basement level SMV.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 03:14 AM
1

This guy deserves an award because there is some massive hamster-ing going on throughout his posts.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:37 PM
2

You don't think gender is also biological?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 11:37 PM
1

Money is great, but I wonder about a lot of these guys. They show the girls all their stuff and drop a lot of bills on dates. The "best case" scenario is the girl sees him as husband material. Second worst scenario is the girl lets you take her out and spend money on her out because it is fun, but has no interest in having sex with you. Worst case scenario, you bag a world class gold digger, and find yourself praying for a bullet with your name on it.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 06:45 PM
11

I actually read the bulk of the comments and the majority of posters agreed the wife did not care about him at all. I can't disagree. The weird part was then the bulk of them then recommend they try counselling before divorce. This is where I got confused. How is counselling going to fix something that fundamental?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:04 PM
9

Deconstruct their identity? Imagine if Duke decided to start a class on gay conversion. The logic is the same.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 03:43 PM
19

The hamster is running flat out in this woman. She continually contradicts herself. She cheats <cheating is bad>. Relationships are built on trust <I feel bad for anyone trusting her>. She is not a slut <she just acts exactly like one>. She wants to screw around, but doesn't have to <whatever that means>. Oh, and she does this because of poor self esteem <this is standard "go to" excuse for any bad behaviour from cheating to armed robbery>. I get AWALT, but this chick sounds brain damaged. I am …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 04:18 PM
3

Where on earth are the "sane" ones? I just find ones with varying degrees of crazy.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 04:04 PM
2

I had a conversation once with a nurse who happened to work in rehab with people after serious accidents. It is more unusual if the spouse (usually woman) does not leave.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 08:19 AM
1

Betas usually require pretty traumatic experiences before they get jolted into abandoning the notions underpinning their behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:51 PM
1

In about five or six years she is going to be pretty happy for fumblings, premature ejaculation and disappointments.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:37 PM
1

The bulk of the posters, myself included, told him to leave her. I hope he does, but people do stupid things.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 05:20 PM
0

Belief in "game" is like religion for a lot of red pillers, and suggesting that most "game" consists of post hoc rationalization and pseudo science does not get responded too all that well.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 03:11 PM
1

What the heck does PUA have to do with logic? For PUA materials to make sense you pretty much have to suspend disbelief. In any event, if the guy is already stuck in his own head too much, giving him information on how to talk and act differently is a great way to completely skull fuck him.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 04:14 PM
1

Great post. Though I can't wait for some people to start chiming in how looks and status are irrelevant compared to "game".
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 04:03 PM
15

Most feminists freaking hate her as a traitor to the cause. She is intellectually honest as a scholar, which does not mesh well with modern feminist thought.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 03:56 PM
3

Sugar babies just ain't loyal.......
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 08:23 PM
1

Pay inequality is feminist religion, and like most religion, it is not fact based.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 04:08 AM
12

Wow, this is a likely prediction, but that chick is cold, man.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 04:05 AM
3

Hardly any actors are anywhere near as alpha in real life as the characters they play. Seriously, this guy chose Lenny Kravitz's messed up ex?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:53 PM
4

She will suck him dry financially, while simultaneously sucking Chad dry.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:48 PM
3

How on earth would this woman manage deadlines and the usual work stress if hearing a stupid song about rape caused her PTSD and required time off? It is pretty hard to get anything done if everyone is too focused on making sure everything they say is not a "micro-aggression".
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 04:18 PM
1

Looks and social skills are not either/or attributes. You need to be attractive, but to an extent beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In general, tall is better than short, and muscled and toned is better than skinny, or fat. But everybody has their types. At the same time, if you are a complete social retard, being attractive won't help you much.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 04:09 PM
1

So, she would have been ok with her boyfriend blowing the other guy, but not getting fucked? When he agreed to this, wouldn't this have indicated he is at least bi?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 01:53 AM
4

I kept visualizing the writers current SO as some guy that looks like Urkel giving her foot massages while she is swiping on Tinder for her next Alpha......
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 12:55 AM
3

Johan Hill's entire career is built on being the fat doofus sidekick. He has gotten a lot of roles and has also made some pretty smart career moves. If he got jacked, it probably would not help his career and would likely hurt him in terms of opportunities. He is going to get this stuff thrown at him because of how he looks because you can only safely mock fat white men. He should have just rolled with it, cracked a joke, or ignored it. It would have been forgotten. Cancelling all his interviews…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 06:43 PM
0

Shame in general is pretty lousy motivator. While it can motivate some individuals, it usually demoralizes far more people. I am not saying you make fat people happy they are fat, but you have to treat it as a health issue, not a character issue. As well, our experts have been giving us pretty shitty advice on diet for quite a few years, so there is more than enough blame to go around.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:51 AM
46

I met a bunch of poly women at a few parties who went on about their sexual exploits. My observation was the vast majority of them were at best, threes or fours. Their partners definitely were not GQ models either. Ugly people have sex too, they just can't be too choosy.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:28 AM
31

I have never seen a whole lot of attractive women complaining about being objectified. The ones that complain the most typically are not particularly attractive. The attractive ones actively seek being objectified. Five minutes on social media will prove my point.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:04 PM
0

Even if I wanted to, I doubt I could have handled five minutes of this woman.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 01:16 AM
1

Remind me not to invest in any Swedish companies. If I had a business there I would be moving it out.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 01:11 AM
1

If they do, it does not kick in nearly enough.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 10:24 PM
1

A lot of people have this insane idea that "game" can create attraction, sort of like alchemy can turn lead into gold. Like you said, women determine in less than a minute whether you fit into the "fuck-able" category or not, based upon your looks and perceived status, and all the mental and verbal judo in the world can't alter that.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 04:32 PM
215

Sadly, I am not shocked at anything anymore. Marriage is a bad idea in general and in the military it gets worse, because deployments put a lot of strain on any relationship. When I was in I always heard that the Navy was the worst, because ships would leave early in the morning, and before noon there were already a huge horde of new guys moved into the married quarters. In the army, lots of guys got married young and were already divorced. Other guys I knew got married when they were older, but…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 04:21 PM
1

Amazingly, with the Michigan woman her husband forgave her and asked the judge to be lenient. After I heard that I was actually sorry he didn't get whacked.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:41 PM
1

I think you acted commendable in light of the circumstances. Hopefully, the friend takes this as a learning opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:34 PM
7

I had read he had never wanted kids and had been clear about this from the outset of the relationship. She married him and figured she could change his mind.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 02:57 PM
12

This is high quality hamster-ing. I could not take more than a couple of minutes, because it was basically how she can do whatever she wants, and a guy can only do whatever she wants.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:03 PM
5

This article reminded me of another article where the woman was in her 40s and framed her situation as having a wonderful and active social life, with the subtext being she could not get a relationship but was still good enough looking to be pumped and dumped regularly. I read this article and was relieved for Matthew. This woman comes across as pretty narcissistic and it seems fitting she can look forward to spending rest of her life as a crazy cat lady.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 05:56 PM
7

I still can't understand how Lena Dunham and Schumer even have careers. Schumer has one act she does over and over and Dunham is a self absorbed twit.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 07:57 PM
2

Wow man. It sounds like you grew up in a family of psychopaths. But, based on my experiences, family members will do shit to you that they wouldn't dream of trying on a stranger.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 06:08 PM
6

Wow. This all was actually a revelation to you? Next, you will have an epiphany about not using the hair dryer in the shower.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 04:08 PM
11

This reminds of Tolstoy, who fathered 13 kids and then decided that sex was immoral. Pamela Anderson's was a sex symbol and her career was based on her pictorials and her sex tapes. Based upon interviews I have seen, I don't exactly think Pam got to where she is by virtue of her intelligence, because she comes across as being as smart as a wooden post. Excessive porn use is definitely not healthy, and it can really mess up younger guys because they can see the crazy stuff as a realistic depictio…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 04:01 PM
1

Religion is something that should have been replaced long ago by philosophy and scientific thought, but I guess some people did not really like the enlightenment. In terms of making the argument that it can be useful in making people behave better, I have seen little or no evidence to support this. Most religion discussion tends to be along the lines of "I believe this because it makes me feel good", which is not exactly an empirical endorsement. The notion that the massively copied and edited r…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 08:04 PM
9

Well, worst case scenario, he might make you do it. Overall, this is vastly oversimplified. Not giving a fuck has to be within reason, unless you are a wealthy, a celebrity, or both. You have to work towards your own interests, and behave strategically.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 07:49 PM
1

Well, it also may have to do with the fact that religion is pure bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:11 PM
1

The poster had mentioned how he had routinely had sex with multiple men and woman on craigslist while doing a lot of drugs. I think the more sane people were pointing out that it was fine to have standards, but he was not in a huge position to judge. But some of the advice was along the same lines as "man up and marry the fat chick/single mother", which is standard with many woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:19 PM
3

Wow. That was brilliant advice. I was stuck in a line a few years ago, and one guy was complaining to another how his fiance was demanding an engagement ring costing at least four month's salary, which was a bit of a demand as he was already saddled down with her car payments and the mortgage payments on the place they had bought. Even though it was pre-red pill for me, I chimed in "If this is how she treats you now, what will marriage be like?" He told me to fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:09 PM
2

Hindsight - When you look back.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 11:49 PM
4

Hindsight is 20/20 but B should have been hard Nexted four years ago.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:57 PM
1

Kevin O'Leary is a tv character. He scammed some people into buying his crappy software for many multiples of what it was worth, and rode this into a tv career. He plays the archetypical hard nosed business asshole, but his actual career is pretty modest.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:44 PM
0

I think his rationale is along the lines of "Don't deport him! He said we could have a relationship!" You seriously can't make this stuff up.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:35 PM
17

Most relationship advice columnists are women, and the bulk of their readership are women. Consequently, anytime a guy has a problem, ranging from a lack of sex to being cheated on, it is invariably his fault. He has driven her to this. Standard blue pill advice is to be more supportive, more romantic and do more housework-lowering his expectations might also help. This never actually works of course, but it does make the guy more submissive and more easy to control.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 12:45 PM
13

Lots of porn stars, strippers and escorts work hard at transitioning into being trophy wives. Lots of wealthy guys think ending up with one of these women is a big win. Gary is a good example of why this seldom works out well for the guy.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 12:32 PM
1

Germany invaded and conquered Western Europe, enslaving the populations, except for certain ethnic groups that they tried to exterminate. Their plans in Russia included murdering around a third of the population so it could be colonized. Given that it was an article of faith that the US was controlled by international Jewry, it is pretty safe to say relations with the US wouldn't have been warm if there was an axis victory. Sane people would not view this as a better place. You are a toxic, hate…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 10:55 PM
26

Depp was never particularly "Alpha". He was a successful actor, dated in the Hollywood pool, then was married for a number of years. He was a typical married guy, went through his mid life crisis, got divorced and then ended up with Heard, who took the money and ran. About the only person that cannot have seen how that would turn out would be him. He has had more than a few drinking issues, and is a bit odd. He has a pile of money, gets lots of roles offered, and thus can do what he wants.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 07:28 PM
5

Observe how she treats her ex and how they became "exes", because before too long it will be you.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:39 PM
2

Dude, this chick was playing you as soon as she ended up in university and as you got more desperate she just kept digging the knife in deeper. People are as faithful as their options, and she seems to be largely driven by getting lots of male attention.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:33 PM
-5

I am pretty sure you cannot be half a gangster. Likewise, I think it is pretty hard to go red pill trying to do it biblically. A lot of red pill involves rejecting commonly held delusions, and religious belief is IMHO one big delusion.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:23 PM
8

It is good you left the ghetto to work overseas. Apparently the ghetto did not leave you.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 05:49 AM
1

Mass shootings seem to invariably carried out by socially maladjusted loners. They happen principally in the US and while they are regular occurrence most people don't commit mass shootings, regardless of whether they are taught bottling up emotions or letting them all out. A most likely explanation is the relative ease in which nut jobs can acquire assault weapons in the US.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 05:43 AM
1

This probably has a lot to do with it. The fellow sounds like he sticks around long enough to get the speech on how he would be great for someone else, which suggests he is not good at realizing whether the girls are into him or not. He hangs around and isn't a dick, so he gets a nice speech when he tried to move forward. If he was attractive a lot of girls would make allowances.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:38 PM
5

They lay out the whole "Our Story" thing because they think it is cute. I wonder how many people saw all that and cringed. She knows him for five years and only at the end agrees to date him. It takes 3 whole months to hold hands. At this stage, anyone with any sense knows this is a total beta bux arrangement, except the groom, who is a moth going full bore into the flame. Affairs, impregnation, and a costly divorce will follow. Alternatively, in a few years you might learn they are still marrie…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 03:21 PM
39

What's next? Track down people in high school who were mean to you and show them up in a dance off?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 02:09 AM
0

Whenever somebody in an LTR goes on a fitness kick, a good assumption is they are on the market, or are planning to go on the market. I have almost never seen someone do this to look better for an existing spouse. It's human nature-they already have the existing spouse-you don't need to put in the effort. Even if the person gets in shape because of spousal pressure, they are usually full of resentment and bail soon after.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:59 AM
8

It was sort of a standard that once you came back from a course or a posting, you would get drunk and bang a fat chick. What got scary is as time went on, guys would LTR these fat chicks.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 02:46 AM
1

Not on fb, but if your argument is that looks, money or status do not matter, what would my picture(s) prove, unless I am some basement dweller addicted to WOW, or I live in a penthouse burning money. I do live in penthouse though, and I retired at 45. If you think "game" can trump LMS, then go for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 08:21 PM
1

It does if everyone knows him. You seem to think his success is due to magical ability.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 07:34 PM
1

They are cringe worthy. Ever see pictures of the woman at RSD summits? It gets worse.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 07:16 PM
1

RSD instructors like Alex and Brad are reasonably attractive. Julien is a stereotypical LA douchebag. A friend of mine actually saw Jeffy in the flesh at a venue once. He isn't that tall, but he is in good shape and his hair style works for some girls. He approached a lot, and had some success, but the girls were not exactly Victoria Secret models.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 07:12 PM
1

God, reading and connecting dots is hard. The characteristics described are that of someone who has a large social circle and goes out a lot. He would not very well be known by everyone and know all the venues in town if he spent his days hiding in a basement. He obviously would have to go out a lot.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 06:58 PM
2

Well, over time they may become more efficient at figuring out which girls are interested in them. They won't become more attractive.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 04:33 PM
1

He is fun as shit, knows all of the fun/interesting/cool venues in town. He is witty, outgoing, and one of those guys that either everyone loves or hates. But hey, I am a game denialist.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 04:23 PM
1

This is the same Tom Torero that was exposed hiring actresses for his day game videos?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 03:17 PM
1

The individual in question is in an optimal environment because he has existing social status and social circle. The fact that he is entertaining and socially aware facilitates getting laid, but I would argue that if he left his region he would probably have a lot less in terms of results, because his fundamentals are weak. The problem I have is that the "game" I think is real is the social acuity to not fuck it up if a woman is interested in you. "Game" is however often presented as the ability…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 04:54 AM
2

The two rules of strippers are: They lie about everything; and they love drugs. The guy posting about his girlfriend is in for a painful education.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:57 PM
3

Tyler's method involves going out every night and hitting on 100s of women. Owing to the law of large numbers, eventually you are going to get lucky.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 07:56 PM
-1

Your buddy probably did not approach a lot of girls, or if he did, he acted really odd. He may have started approaching more girls and may have gotten more relaxed doing so. Amazingly, his lay count may have increased.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 07:55 PM
3

He has a large social circle, is socially fun to be with, and is comfortable in a lot of venues. He has lots of opportunities to get girls, and it sounds like he does not do much else. This is not really "game" as it is commonly described.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 07:52 PM
1

The old, pudgy balding PUA that nails chicks is a lot like the Loch Ness Monster or BigFoot. People swear up and down they exist but I sure as hell have not seen one. Odds are good the guy is either loaded and has a ton of social proof -i.e. owns the club, is a promoter, etc. etc. Assuming you have status and basic social acuity, you can be successful, but it isn't really due to some arcane PUA knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 07:46 PM
-1

The game/PUA myth perpetuates the idea that you don't have to improve yourself and increase your SMV doing concrete things, but instead attract women by virtue of verbal judo and head games. A lot of guys spend a lot of money and come out of the whole thing more fucked up than before.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 04:38 PM
9

A lot of women without kids have pets, and lavish an equivalent amount of attention on the pet as they would for a kid. It can get get pretty crazy.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 01:56 AM
3

Trying to keep her around was the worst idea. Everyone now sees him as weak.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 06:06 PM
1

You have to have a really warped self image to get told that, and view it as a positive. If the second marriage is about love, I wonder what the first marriage is about? Then again, he is now abstinent so his reasoning ability is questionable.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 04:20 PM
5

Yeah, this really comes across like a creative writing assignment. There are a lot of attractive girls over there who are not drug sluts.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 05:50 PM
14

Well, that was an extremely risky way to get rid of the mother in law.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:19 PM
2

On the plus side, you now know you don't want to do an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 08:34 PM
12

I think the judge's comments provide an ample basis for an appeal. This whole story makes one's skin crawl.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 06:10 PM
9

The usual standard is the beta guy who is beta marries the girl whose looks are starting to fade and the wall has been hit. He thinks he has won a prize....After a short period of time, she informs him that they are in open relationship, and the guy will suck it up. Some even get into it.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 04:02 AM
2

What really struck me is that the guys were all trying to work it out. The women in the article do not sound guilty at all, and really drip contempt towards their partners for "acting like women". I feel bad for the guys, but I don't understand their reasoning.....
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:40 PM
6

This is not even satirical. I'm pretty sure this is how these things start.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 02:59 PM
1

Roosh rarely, if ever, gets laid. I sincerely doubt that in the rare times he has sex, the girl is a hot babe.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/16 02:30 AM
2

There is a whole genre of porn devoted to this, and if the Internet is to be believed, a bunch of couples into it. Even from a BP perspective there is a huge power imbalance in any relationship like this. The guy might as well wear a sandwich board saying "I am sexually inadequate and am my wife's bitch...."
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 04:40 PM
2

This should be posted on the relationship sub, or failing that, the terminal beta sub.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 01:58 AM
2

Cold approaching in this case seems to be spam approaching. This method is, at best, extremely inefficient, and at worst, totally useless. The media is full of stories where some coach unleashes guys on the public, and hilarity, bizarre interactions and media/police attention ensue. While some might say there is no such thing is bad publicity, any coach profiled like this is going to have go deep off the grid to move on from this.
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