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Nothing unifies men like the oppression of women. Conservatives, liberals; atheists, religious; rich, poor. All come together in their hatred for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:31 PM
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Powerful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:28 AM
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My soul weeps. This is evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:35 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Also, they are so terrified of being "gay" because they don't want to be stalked/abused/raped by men like women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:54 PM
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Poetry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:45 PM
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Oh wow. Was NOT expecting to be called out like this today! Great insight, thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:20 PM
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I'm reading her book right now. It's...a lot. I am so inspired by her work. Things are so much worse than I thought, and I knew they were bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:47 AM
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You have a wonderful way with words!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:22 PM
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I'm so so sorry the adults in your life weren't there for you. I hope you're thriving now 🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:41 PM
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The most disturbing part to me is that the 1 in 6 women statistic is based on reported rapes. And most rapes are NOT REPORTED. So what is the actual number, you know? I bet it's 1 in 2. Every woman in my circle of friends, and myself, have been victims of sexual violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:39 PM
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Thank you for writing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:01 AM
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Grounding can be helpful. Pay attention and list: what you can hear, what you can see, what you can smell, what you can feel. It has helped me many times while falling into an emotional abyss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:24 PM
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I can't speak to any one person or idea. I have a few thoughts about the overall themes of libfem, though. I was a 90s kid. Feminism back then was very "girl power" and "girls can do anything boys can do." Which, sure. If you're talking about equal pay, equal opportunities, equal protections. Lo and behold, the main thing that ended up being the goal of equality was sex. Show your body unafraid, like a man. Pay for dates, like a man. Sleep around, like a man. Approach men you want to date, like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:26 PM
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I don't have much to add, lots of great answers. My daughter is 5. When she plays lots of falling in love games, I tend to say "There are so many more interesting things than boys." And then list some things. Traveling, adventures with friends, making art, exploring outside... The other day she told me "You always say that!" So at least I'm getting it in her head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:07 PM
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"On blind dates Rudder analysed, “the percent of people giving the dates a positive rating was constant” – no matter whether the “blind-dater was a knockout and the other rather homely”. Get us in front of them, and women are just as susceptible to baldies, fatties and shorties with all their sweetness, smarts and jokes – in fact, we probably prefer them." Oh really? Why do women continue the lie that women are attracted to fat, bald, short losers? I get why MEN want this to be true but WHYYYYYY…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:34 PM
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Congrats to you for breaking free!!! Thank the looooooord, another one has escaped!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:42 AM
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Congrats on your freedom!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:43 PM
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I propose that we take all women's issues and rebrand them as causing penis shrinkage. Then the whole world would unite to solve our problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:39 AM
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WHAT is going on in Kenya? I hope it's mobs of lady vigilantes but probably just oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:54 AM
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So, hypothetically, these misogynistic men go take their frustrations out on a prostitute so the rest of us don't get shot? You're forgetting your script of "sex work is great."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:34 AM
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https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/post/men-have-no-clue-why-women-even-bother Nom noms by request!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:46 PM
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Have y'all seen the article on the fds website that asks men what they offer to women....and they don't know! Like honest to God, haven't got a clue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:06 PM
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You aren't too sensitive! You are absolutely RIGHT. This resounds with me so much because I actually got into anime at the same age as you. I'm 35 now. I wish I had some advice. I don't. But I also see what you see in the anime community. It is disgusting what most anime does to women. And as you said, if the anime itself doesn't do it, the fans will. And if course they try to silence you if you bring it up. That is what the patriarchy DOES. Erases us and makes us feel alone, powerless, voiceles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:38 PM
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This is a great question! And I might not be the best person to answer it but I'll share my thoughts. Humans do have imperfections and people annoy each other sometimes. I think an FDS approach to dealing with that is twofold. Firstly, you don't want to date someone that you need to "change." If, for example, you are dating someone and discover that their car or apartment is really filthy, that person is not going to learn how to be neat. It will always be on you to pick up and you will drive yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:28 PM
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"Maybe I'm missing something" Good god. The mental hoops women jump through for men when men show their true colors... here's hoping she realizes what a dirt bag that guy is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:08 PM
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At least toddlers are likable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:17 PM
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I have nothing to add, but I agree totally! Men don't want women alone together because they will "get ideas"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:17 PM
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If you so much as breathe a whisper of criticism about men, people crawl out of the woodwork to shut you up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:22 PM
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YAAAAAAAAAAAAAS!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:18 PM
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I can only hope this article will bring in people curious about the "red pill women." I first visited this subreddit because of all the hate it gets. I couldn't believe it, who were these women that were openly trying to grift men? Then lo and behold, when I looked at it with my own eyes, it was nothing like others had described. Here's hoping we get more members from this disingenuous garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:19 PM
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Yes! Sahms get hated on so much. It sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:19 PM
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There is validity in being a sahm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:18 PM
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Pregnancy and serious illness trigger this shit in men. Run, don't walk, away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:43 PM
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I read the NPR version of this news. What stood out to me was the number of times the article used the words "shock" "shocking" and "shocked." I didn't count the number of uses but it was enough to give me pause. Why is this so shocking? Women are half the population. You're trying to tell me this is shocking news? Just like how America was so shocked by the January insurrection. Why is it shocking? People are shouting about this shit from the rooftops. There is no mystery. There is no shadowy p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:33 PM
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Just commenting to agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:15 PM
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There are a LOT of problematic things around motherhood in this country. It is simultaneously underappreciated and blown off as not real work, as you mention, and also portrayed as the culmination of what a women's life should be about. I think both narratives seek only to control women and push their backs up against the wall. Whether that's by limiting resources for those who choose to be mothers forcing them to essentially be slaves, or shaming and "othering" women who choose to not (or biolo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:13 PM
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I agree with you! I don't negatively judge women who have to put their babies in day care from 6 weeks on, but it does negatively impact babies. Babies need their mothers. Even puppies and kittens aren't seperated from their mothers until 9 weeks. Yet in the USA 6 weeks is standard. Babies and moms need that bonding so much. It breaks my heart and I definitely agree us has negative social consequences. It all comes from a disregard for the work of women. And in this instance, that important work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:52 PM
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Every day I pray that I will discover what those factors are (aside from adolescence) so I can protect my son. Of course I'm going to research and be proactive but with the state of the world...I also pray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:06 PM
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I am interested in cybersecurity, may I DM you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:25 PM
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Can confirm a group of women that take great pride in being "boy moms." They think they are better than other moms. They let little Ruger and little Colt (yes, this family named all their kids after guns) push down little girls on the playground. They let their boy children disrespect them blatantly. I have 2 girls under 10 and a 14 month old little boy, so we are in the same circles as these people. It's embarrassing for them but even worse, they are helping to ruin society for everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:17 PM
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Yessssssss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:05 PM
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Nooooooooooooooooo Me howling into the abyss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:59 PM
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Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:55 PM
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Oh god oh lord please let her have actually said impotent and not incompetent. Bwahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:49 PM
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Like a compass needle that points north, a man's accusing finger always finds a woman. Always. Khaled Hosseini
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:30 PM
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As I check in on all the lovely input from you ladies, it seems there is a bit of an upvote/downvote war. You can't silence us, boys ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:10 PM
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RIGHT. Men are sooooo good at hearing no that all sexual assault, stalking, and murder has ceased. What a wonderful world it is now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:07 PM
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My heart breaks for the abused and burns for justice for the abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:05 PM
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They definitely play a good game of "I am not evil, just dumb" but yeah, they aren't dumb. They are manipulative, violent sadists that are VERY aware of the suffering they cause. They drink women's and children's tears like a microbrew from a local distillery (that is, with great enjoyment while patting themselves on the back for being so cool and interesting).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:56 PM
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Yes, I will be listening to it as well. As much as I want to bury my head in the sand, can't to much woman warrior stuff from down there so...into the fray!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:50 PM
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Men are always crowing about how "rape accusers" belong in jail. If they could have it their way, the rape victims would all be in prison while all the rapists run free. I could not agree with you more. I haven't been following this particular case but every single reaction you mentioned are the same reactions men have about every dude who gets caught stat raping or abusing girls and women. Lock up the women and throw away the key!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:45 PM
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You are so right. Education is power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:37 PM
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Thank you! In pre-FDS days I would still be twisting in the wind internally, but being able to talk with all of you has really helped <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:33 PM
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Yes, I had to duck out of there pretty fast. My fault for looking but damn....it started my day on the shittiest level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:27 PM
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It caused an actual fight or flight reaction in me, tbh. But I am very very triggered by child abuse and violence against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:23 PM
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But you will be SORRY, with all your free time, money, mental health and life satisfaction, that you didn't jump on that dick! You missed out girl! /s of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:21 PM
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Hahahaha, yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:41 PM
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You are absolutely right. But aren't you aware that men are never responsible for things they do, while women are responsible for everything they do AND everything men do too! Amazing isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:41 PM
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I don't think I could stomach it :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:39 PM
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My dad is a Limbaugh fan. I listened to it as a child, like younger than 10 years old. One day, as a child, I learned he got married. I was so surprised! My mom asked me why it was surprising? Because he didn't like girls! My innocent brain could tell just by listening to his show, not even knowing what misogyny was, that this man hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:21 PM
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Do you have any info on that article? My Google searches have been fruitless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:37 PM
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Oh it's so RARE, so raaaaare that he seeks attention from a woman! Do you feel special yet? Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:54 PM
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Soooo never hold a man accountable? That's what I'm seeing here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:51 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. It hurts but you will be okay. Hang in there <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:49 PM
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Agree with you whole heartedly, just wanted to add that they are more likely to break an arm jerking themselves off than anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:27 PM
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I have been wondering a lot about what a man- less world would be like. We all know that women commit violence and crime at far lower rates than men. Would that remain the case if the world was only women, or would the stats fill out over time? I am fascinated with psychology so that's where this thought experiment comes from. Would women naturally be more peaceful if men were no longer grooming us to be nice and quiet all the time? Would women be freer to act more violently, without crushing so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:36 AM
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I think your script is really good. I also agonize how to approach difficult discussions. I think you should also ask yourself how you will respond if the person you're speaking to reacts badly or rolls over your boundary. I like to plan my escapes as well. Good luck to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:22 AM
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I saw a comment by a guy in an unrelated thread, asking why viagra is advertising to young men. Someone answered because guys death grip their dicks while watching porn and the thread EXPLODED with dudes screaming NO WE DON'T. IT'S CORPORATE GREED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:10 AM
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Yes! Wish I could upvote this a thousand times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:26 PM
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The audacity is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:23 PM
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Holy crap, love your take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:36 PM
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What, and I cannot stress this enough, THE FUCK?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:33 PM
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Thanks for the laugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:55 PM
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If you can apply for Medicaid or similar insurance (ambetter is one), it could help cover some (or all) of the cost. A lot of therapists who accept that kind of insurance also do telehealth meetings. So, from home. In the more tangible world, you can carry mace. I have always liked the phrase "Spray first, apologize later." A few books that I reccomend: Women Who Run With The Wolves, Clarissa Pincola Estes. This is a deeply insightful and inspiring book. It has helped me reclaim parts of myself …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:07 PM
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I am terrified for my daughters (10 and 4). How do I protect them from the brainwashing? I also have a baby boy. He needs protection too. It is all so sickening and heart breaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:54 PM
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