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Can we lock this thread now?
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 03:39 PM
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This is a red pill based subreddit. I don’t know what else you expect. Again, don’t think this is the sub for you. We also try to embody softness and you seen a bit angry over something very trivial. Maybe try r/TwoXChromosomes.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 11:50 AM
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I know you think that, I’ve read every single comment and reply. You asked how do you stay with a guy with these double standards, and almost every response answers that question in very good faith and in depth, you just don’t like the answer. You’re not very good at having an open dialogue. I would really reflect on this. If you don’t want a man with a high N-count, then don’t go after them. Simple as that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 11:45 AM
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You are not responding to comments in good faith. You are not looking to have a discussion, you are just looking for validation of your own personal beliefs so you feel less insecure. I don’t think this is the sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 11:42 AM
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My guys responses to his previous fling were not innocent whatsoever. And he admitted that. I understand men not understanding this things, honestly I do. I have been trying my best to think rationally and realize why he did what he did. It wasn’t innocent or an accident, unfortunately. And he didn’t say anything to either of us until he got caught. He didn’t end things with her until he got caught.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 06:43 PM
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Yes. It was still sparkling and new, and we were both very passionate, lustful, and fun. He had no issue showing me attention and affection; honestly, he seemed obsessed with me. Which is why he’s so distraught now that he lost me. But you’re right. It seemed like he was keeping a backup plan, but he also said he breadcrumbed her because he knew he’d never see her again since she lived so far and they didn’t have plans to meet. It’s just all around very immature behavior, sucks to be on the rece…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 06:30 PM
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Calling me atrocious is a quick way to get reported. I don’t think you know much about RPW. Why are you here?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 06:04 PM
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Thank you, that last paragraph is going to stick with me. I need to add that to my vetting process.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 06:03 PM
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That’s what I’m telling myself and he has said several times it was for attention and his intentions were clear with me and not clear with her. It’s abundantly clear he has some insecurity issues he hasn’t dealt with, which is why he isn’t making excuses. And why he also apologized to her without excuse. Reading their texts made me feel so guilty for her, so I had to call her and tell her. I don’t know how she was able to be bread-crumbed for so long.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 05:35 PM
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That was actually my biggest issue with this situation!
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 05:26 PM
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I’m not sure if he necessarily went out of his way. It seemed just convenient. This woman was a previous fling before we got together, and he just never cut things off fully. He bread-crumbed her, would only respond if she sent explicit photos it seemed. She constantly got mad (from what I read) about how unresponsive he was to her. But with the photos, he would respond with I love yous and mega flirty texts. I’m not sure what type that is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 05:19 PM
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Hinge. I am not sure, I’ve never really tried dating much older than me. Just my age or a bit older, but never more than a few years.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 05:00 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate your responses. ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 04:40 PM
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Honestly, no, I am not aware of any other dishonesty or deceit other than this.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 04:28 PM
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We were watching the Tinder Swindler. I made a comment along the lines of, “How did those women fall for this?” with other remarks, and he responded with, “it’s easier than you think.” Quickly with a “just kidding” afterward. I looked through his phone a few hours after that because it didn’t sit right with me, joke or not. I was right. I texted the girl, she was very upset and felt very led on by him. He called her, apologized up and down for what he was doing to her (he was bread-crumbing her)…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 04:13 PM
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Very good point, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 03:54 PM
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I looked through his phone because we were watching the tinder swindler. I made a comment along the lines of “how did they fall for that?” And he responded with a joke, “it’s easier than you think.” Joke or not, it made my spidey senses tingle. That was the first time I looked through his phone.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 03:53 PM
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That’s what he said his process was, you are right. I am not accepting of the thought process, though, lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 02:22 PM
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I look for kindness and politeness and ability to take charge, making time for me and priotizing quality time whether it be in person or any form of communication, and intelligence. He hit those parts. He was polite and well mannered, it was clear I was his priority even though it was relatively new, and I enjoyed having conversations with him on a deep level. We also have the same goals and values, we both want to live the same lifestyle, a slower one with a focus on family. He would encourage …
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 02:12 PM
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Thanks so much for this comment. It was incredibly encouraging. ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 02:07 PM
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Hey thanks so much for this! I feel like I have been apart of the RPW community for a while and was a little discouraged by all the comments. Thanks for the tip. Their perspective seems very TRP, and not RPW… though I am still listening regardless. It never hurts to hear all perspectives, especially when I’m operating under pure emotion right now.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 02:06 PM
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We’ve had conversations in the past in what we considered cheating. He once said he considered long, thoughtful text threads with some emotion cheating. Maybe that’s a “rules for thee, but not for me” thing.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 01:12 PM
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I’m not reading all of that. Asking for nudes, saying I love you, asking for sex, even without acting on it, is indeed cheating. Me and him both agree it’s cheating. I get unwanted attention, plenty of it, but I do not respond to entertain it emotionally or physically. Absolutely not. Especially not when I’m exclusive with someone.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 11:28 AM
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I don’t have Instagram or Snapchat.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 08:08 AM
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The 10% included entertaining it, as in asking for more, saying he wanted to sleep with her, an I love you. I say 90% because it’s an old fling of his he cannot let go (although he has now) so the texts are mostly her begging for his attention and him never answering. It’s just when he does answer… it’s bad. Sounds like deceit to me, especially if you’re in an exclusive relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 02:33 AM
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Me looking through his phone has nothing to do with feminism and just acting on an impulsive instinct lol, to your point that I knew something was to be found
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 02:18 AM
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So all men cheat? Is that what you’re saying?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 02:02 AM
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Is this satire? Or is this really RPW? Because asking for nudes and sending flirty texts will always be cheating to me, and he even agreed that was cheating in the beginning of our relationship. Maybe RPW isn’t for me after all.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 01:55 AM
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Does answering my question with another question make him more honest? He gave me his phone password many moons ago. He always said I could go through it whenever I wanted, I just think he never thought I actually would. We were watching tinder swindler, I made a comment along the lines of “I don’t understand how these women fell for it” to which he replied “it’s easier than you think.” So yeah. I looked through it. He never once faulted me for looking. He hasn’t mentioned that once.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 01:47 AM
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How is telling me he’s not seeing other people, but asking for nudes from other girls and leading them on, is sticking to hah word? How is that protecting anyone?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 01:10 AM
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I understand getting them and doing nothing, but periodically asking for more? And other flirty texts?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 12:55 AM
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What is a man’s way of showing loyalty?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 12:47 AM
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That’s a good point. I guess this is part of the vetting phase and I’m leaving at an a perfectly appropriate time. 6 months feels different than when I was in my early 20s - it’s so short, but also I’m not getting any younger.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/22 11:21 PM
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Couple of months. We are in our early thirties. Yes we have been intimate.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 09:26 PM
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What I mean by that is we are committed to each other
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 09:08 PM
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It is mild. He doesn’t put any pressure on me whatsoever. He knows it’s unreasonable which is why he doesn’t put pressure on me. I just know that he feels this way internally and I would like to alleviate some of those unnecessary worries for him. We have recently started dating but we are both committed and not seeing other people.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 06:21 PM
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I think saying he needs therapy is a bit harsh. He’s an incredible man, regardless of the mild jealously. He sees me as his, and I am his, so I understand why wandering thoughts would bother him.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 05:45 PM
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Just beware that being too cold is dangerous, we’ve had the temp drop to the negatives lately and it’s super dangerous to not bundle up properly. Take care of your body first!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 03:42 PM
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Born in raised in New England, reporting for duty! I don’t know if this goes against red pill, but warmth and quality of material must come FIRST. Invest in a good, good quality winter coat. I have a long coat from Patagonia that covers the legs a bit and it keeps me nice and toasty. I wouldn’t call it unfeminine since it’s a pretty blue green color and form fitting, but it’s certainly not those cute coats you see influencers wear. But as someone who just took their dog out for their walk in 3 d…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 04:31 PM
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He drinks a lot. He’s a very social man, pretty high up in status in his late 20s and he’s a big “networker”
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 03:26 AM
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I don’t want to break up over a music genre, whether it be him overreacting or me not being considerate enough. It seems so trivial to me to take it that far.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 02:48 AM
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I totally do not mind listening to something else when we are together. I always let him pick the tunes, he drives always anyway so he’s in control. But, we’ve been together enough where he knows I just like it. I feel like if I said something random like, “I like the gym pump” it would be strange!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 02:48 AM
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He does have an issue with alcohol, but not drugs. Regardless if it’s a projection, I would never mention his alcohol use. That would start a totally different argument and it’s not problematic enough where I need to say something if that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 02:46 AM
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This made me feel better, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 03:20 PM
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I think he’s made the decision already haha
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 02:06 AM
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Can you tell me exactly what is wrong with seeing my favorite artist live with my best friend? And what society has anything to do with that?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 02:06 AM
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I understand but it is a tradition.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:41 AM
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Not sure what’s so hard to understand. I’ve had these friendships and traditions for years. I just met this guy in May. I am not his wife.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:41 AM
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This was really good advice. Thank you. I appreciate how thoughtful your response was. I am not sure if he is worth cutting people off for.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:20 AM
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My friendships, regardless of gender, are very important to me. I’ve cultivated a group of friends, both male and female, that I adore and that have treated me with nothing but love and respect. So, I would see value in someone respecting me enough to let me honor these friendships. It would be in poor taste to just dump these people for a very young relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:18 AM
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Right. I don’t feel fulfilled and I feel controlled so I think we just aren’t compatible.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:12 AM
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I appreciate this long response. No, I haven’t and he has even admitted that I haven’t done anything. As I’ve said, we’re a very young relationship. When I realized he was the jealous type, I distanced myself from certain people to make him more comfortable. This was a boundary for me, I couldn’t go farther than what I’ve done already. I felt like I was giving up too much for too little.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:09 AM
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Saying I’m not a bad person is going far. Of course I’m not a bad person, this is absurd.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:04 AM
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No they wouldn’t.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:02 AM
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edited out for privacy reasons lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 01:01 AM
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I’m aware of the rules. I am receiving lots of useful advice and information, without you jumping down my throat.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:53 AM
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I see. I guess if I have to make a choice, I do chose my friends and our traditions over this very young relationship. I am not his wife and I don’t feel obligated to stay home and watch it online just so he is happy. I guess that’s just not what I want right now.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:51 AM
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I’m not twisting anything, I know it’s because of the men. I’m saying I don’t care if he likes what I like…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:48 AM
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Yes, I chose to go back on my word because I felt like I was disrespected by being forced to chose a very, very young relationship over traditions I have made with friends I’ve had for years. So yes, I care about that more than him. We are simply dating. I am not his wife. Edit: also you are VERY hostile towards me. Is there a reason for this? Aren’t we supposed to be vetting and learning? I’ve only been seeing this guy for a few months and you’re down my throat about how I’m so disrespectful to…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:47 AM
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That’s a good way of looking at this. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:44 AM
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That’s so insulting. Of course I am defensive, I am really upset about what is happening and I am defending my point that I believe in. I’ve been going to this concert for years, I have never once done anything dishonorable. And I’ve made this commitment, long before I met this man. Sounds like youre insecure yourself. Sorry to hear that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:43 AM
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My issue is that if he’s so concerned about these men around me and he knows “how men think”, does that mean that when he’s around other women, he’s thinking about straying away from me and cheating?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:38 AM
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What do you mean, putting myself out there? Why is that what I am doing! I just want to see my favorite artist live, jeez Louise!!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:34 AM
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I see what you’re saying, but isn’t it more important how I act and feel vs. those men? Defending my friends is unnecessary, no matter how much I say they don’t have other motives, no one here (or him) will believe me even though we’ve been friends for years. But what about trusting me?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:32 AM
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I’m being downvoted a ton and I feel like it would be an extremely poor display of character if I willingly dumped my friends, who happened to be male, for a guy I JUST started dating. I thought I found my comfort zone when I found this sub because I agree with nearly all of its core values. Except this.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:30 AM
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I see. I understand the perspective but I can’t say I agree with it. I was unaware that RP values meant I had to cancel all of my platonic male friendships that I have had and put energy into for many, many years. And they’ve done the same for me. I would be doing my friends a disservice acting that way. Maybe I am not as fit for this as I thought.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:27 AM
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I don’t know and I wish I knew. We’ve only been dating a few months. I noticed jealous tendencies in the beginning but I never thought much of it and I figured after a few months of getting to know me and my friends, nothing would come to fruition but I was wrong. So I don’t have an answer to that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:24 AM
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So can I never hang out with my best friend again? I must cancel traditions and commitments I made before him just to appease him? 🤔
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:23 AM
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Right. He does think so. He doesn’t care that we’ve been best friends for years. But I promise you, he’s met him and he isn’t a random guy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:22 AM
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We’ve talked about this extensively. He doesn’t want to go, and he doesn’t want me to go because he doesn’t trust me. We’ve beaten the horse dead.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:20 AM
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Your assumptions about me are upsetting me. You are acting like a parade around with random men without him. That’s simply not true at all. He is my priority. I never hang out with random men without him. I pretty much only hang out with him. He didn’t want to go to this concert. I did.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:18 AM
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Yes, I invited him a while ago. He said he wasn’t interested.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:14 AM
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Who said anything about late at night? Also, relax. You’re making a lot of assumptions about me. I prioritize him over these friends constantly and have been avoiding certain people the entire time just so I don’t set him off. Edit: also, he knows them? Again, making assumptions. He’s metmy best friend. He is not a random guy he doesn’t know.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 12:13 AM
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I know it’s a red flag and that makes me sad. I don’t need someone who likes the same things as me, but the bare minimum would be him at least respecting it.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/21 11:55 PM
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Little harsh. I am still learning.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 11:41 PM
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I find it pretty unattractive when a man is a bad driver! Haha I hope it doesn’t make me shallow!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/21 12:32 AM
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