Confection-Lab Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	"You bring up the bad boys/Chad theme - just because you want to be bad and have sex!" - no, it's about the simple concept of justice A woman that’s been ran through by a bunch of losers isn’t the “reward” that you think it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 05:50 PM
1	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. The whole idea is that spouses who love each other will do things for each other because they like to and it fulfills them. It’ll mostly even out over time and they’ll be mature enough to understand that not every day and every little thing is going to be 50/50.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 03:38 PM
0	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. Who are you to tell me what I believe?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 03:31 PM
3	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. Love is 100% giving and 0% taking. When you grow up and have a healthy marriage and a healthy family, you won’t even be keeping score anymore and you’ll see what I mean. But I doubt most of these women will ever get to that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 03:24 PM
3	A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need women Your examples are influencers, an online community and a viral meme. You should try interacting with men in the real world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 10:55 AM
–	Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst advice ⁠We all know decision making isnt greatest in our youth I’m going to remember this one for the next time I hear a young woman whining for more “rights”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 12:39 AM
14	Dont expect relationship treatment when you dont want to be in a relationship. I don’t know any guy in his right mind who’d want to be in a relationship with someone who uses words like “emotional labour”. When a woman tells you outright that she’s a massive egocentrist, you should probably listen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 12:28 AM
1	Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst advice How old are you OP?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 06:33 PM
2	A lot of men who women otherwise love as friends, but never see them “that way” The “fuccboos” and “players” don’t give women the time of day when they get treated as a non/physical emotional dumping ground. The beta orbiters and blue pillers do, then they whine about it. That’s the difference. “You get what you tolerate.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 04:41 PM
–	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. The most bizarre thing I noticed about this when I was still dating is that the few women who expected me to pay (and there were honestly very few) were women who made more money than me. I’m pretty sure most of them are terminally single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 03:34 PM
6	Introverted men or asocial men are far more likely to have odd interactions with women, due male gender expectations. I think you can be introverted and asocial but still have high social intelligence. I can talk to people just as well as the extroverts. I just probably don’t enjoy it as much as they do and prefer time to myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 12:06 PM
2	Why are so many young men struggling with erectile dysfunction? Some combination of hormone disrupting chemicals in everything, porn and a positive feedback loop caused by the shame and stigma of “not being able to get it up”.	/r/MensRights	23/08/25 12:53 AM
1	Misogyny Will Have To Be Eradicated To Stop Misandry But I also strongly believe systematic and micro misogyny has created misandrists and radical feminists. Do you have any examples of this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 09:51 PM
–	Men had a harder time finding a mate before feminism. I love how you go back to the dark ages instead of right before second wave feminism to build your argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 04:40 PM
0	If women’s “value-add” contribution is pregnancy, then it makes sense that men have to contribute a value-add too What? No one said he isn’t likely contributing something to the relationship. That’s what your entire original post says. Did you forget that you wrote it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 02:43 PM
1	If women’s “value-add” contribution is pregnancy, then it makes sense that men have to contribute a value-add too This is such spiritually lacking view of relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 12:05 PM
3	I think women don’t lower our standards because we are expected to act like we didn’t. Thoughts? Do women have agency or not? You can fully control how you treat your husband or boyfriend. The problem people have with women’s standards is that they’re so overly inflated by some combination of feminism, social media and modern dating culture, that they no longer have any basis in reality. Sure, you’ll fully entitled to hold out for your imaginary man. Likewise, other people are fully entitled to think you’re a creepy dog mom/wine aunt who suffers from arrested development.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 11:30 AM
3	If women’s “value-add” contribution is pregnancy, then it makes sense that men have to contribute a value-add too A woman can’t get pregnant alone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 11:40 PM
12	Some of the attitudes I'm seeing in straight male culture as a bisexual, seem toxic to me. I can see the problem by some of the words you choose. There’s no “straight culture”. You’re trying to frame it the same way as a lgbt culture but that’s just not how it works. Like it or not, heterosexuality is the default operating system. It’s literally how the population replaces itself. propaganda which idealizes heterosexual romance. Theres so many media, movies, and songs about this. I think that yes there's social pressure to conform to societal expections in the realm of relationships, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 10:54 PM
–	Men committing majority of violent crimes consumes more tax payer money that single moms Might as well keep breaking it down and talk about what race of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 01:11 AM
–	Most modern men lack the emotional maturity needed to raise a healthy and successful child in today's world Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 12:36 AM
1	Women give bad advice because their advice comes from a point of privileged ignorance K	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 10:22 PM
–	Most modern men lack the emotional maturity needed to raise a healthy and successful child in today's world It kinda sounds like you’re looking for a man who would be a good mother. And it would make sense given your upbringing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 09:01 PM
-2	Women give bad advice because their advice comes from a point of privileged ignorance You can’t even say water is wet on here without some insufferable Melvin coming along and demanding a “study”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 06:41 PM
1	Women give bad advice because their advice comes from a point of privileged ignorance What a goober response. We don’t have or need “studies or statistics” for every opinion or idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 05:56 PM
3	Women give bad advice because their advice comes from a point of privileged ignorance Source for lesbians hate men? Are you kidding me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 05:42 PM
5	Women give bad advice because their advice comes from a point of privileged ignorance This might be the most ridiculous thing I’ve read today. Lesbians’ worldviews are even more clouded by man-hatred than straight feminist women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 04:54 PM
3	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce Thinly veiled bitterness over men not being attracted to career women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 11:27 AM
2	If you want to spread genes without effort, it’s a sensible strategy to abandon pregnant mothers since women won’t vote against themselves and since bluepill men will always cheerfully clean up your sloppy seconds. Leaving your kid to be raised by a blue pill man is a sick form of child abuse. How could you even subject your own offspring to something like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 12:15 AM
2	Why dont women start a single father epidemic? What is wrong with you? You’re asking women to sacrifice their kids to get back at the manosphere? This is insane. You need to take a break from online discourse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 09:23 PM
2	Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person? Because outside of love and procreation, sex is just masturbation using another person. Do you understand how you’re both arguing for the dignity of the human body and against it at the same time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 05:44 PM
1	Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person? I said dozens of men. Do they teach reading in pink pill communities?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:30 PM
2	Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person? Do you really not understand the difference between having sex and sleeping around or are you just playing dumb?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:20 PM
0	Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behind If you can’t understand how women using their fertile years to prioritize things other than having kids contributes to a birth rate problem, I honestly don’t even know what to tell you. You either live under a rock or consciously deny biology and reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 01:11 PM
-1	Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behind It’s, at the very least, one of the biggest reasons and makes things a lot worse. Antinatalism is literally a feature of the ideology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 12:43 PM
0	Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behind A society that can’t even replace itself from within is a miserable failure and the furthest thing from progressive. I guess “progress” is just people being able to self-indulge as much as possible for a generation or two before they have to be completely replaced by a more fertile and family oriented culture. Current feminism will be studied in future history classes for what not to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 11:35 AM
0	Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person? This isn’t the clever gotcha you think it is. It completely removes women’s agency from the equation. That’s kind of the point. A woman who reduces her own body to being a plastic sex toy for dozens of men to use is devaluing herself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 11:25 AM
5	Is sex a need? Depends on how you define need It depends on the context. If you’re telling a pro choicer that they can avoid pregnancy by practicing abstinence, then it’s a need on par with food and water. But if a woman is talking down to a guy who’s involuntarily celibate, that’s when it’s not a need at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 12:36 AM
1	Men and Women need to start settling for the average person I don’t like the comparison. Guys have less control over the job and housing markets than women do over being fat or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 08:20 PM
–	The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual data I’m pretty skeptical of young women who claim that they “wouldn’t mind being single forever”. They can’t seem to comprehend that once they start to age, they’re not going to have the same ability to rotate a roster of “guy friends” to give them attention and validation all the time and bend over backwards for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 11:37 AM
5	Women cant complain when men dont care for them If a man actually acted chivalrous around one of these women who decry the lack of chivalry, they’d be creeped out and messaging their girlfriends saying “omg this guy’s so weird lmao”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 10:45 PM
40	Feminist run newspaper mock the naivety to believe we can separate romance and even relationships from financial reality. This article captures so much about what’s wrong with women. Especially this snippet: Though I am largely contentedly single, I’m uncomfortably conscious that as a self-employed person in a struggling industry, my best shot at improving my circumstances, or even changing my life, is finding a partner. This doesn’t influence my decisions in dating – but I can’t say that I don’t fleetingly think, when I meet a nice doctor who owns a three-bedroom house in south London, that it would be especially …	/r/MensRights	17/08/25 09:16 PM