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| 21 | The majority of men shouldn’t be procreating and creating the next generation, it’s evolution working as intended | CMV | ConferenceHumble2129 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:14 PM |
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| 4 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeOf course it doesn’t in a very literal sense. If you have any abstract reasoning it does. The point is that the levels and types of chemicals in the brains produce different outcomes. His trans example was clearly showing the impact just a variation in two chemicals has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 08:17 PM |
| 12 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.A large portion of women are given a major helping hand by a guy at some point. After my exwife and I divorced I saw her profile on a dating app saying “home owner, no college debt”. I’m sure she threw around the words strong and independent too lol. She was living in Denver making $60k a year and bragging about how successful she was on there lol. I made about $200k and bought the house she was the “home owner” of and I paid off over half her college loans. I paid her alimony for over3 years an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Women love one night stands as much as men doGet snipped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Women love one night stands as much as men doYes I’m sure there are but the data shows women regret ons far more often than men do. It’s not saying men never regret them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 03:54 AM |
| 15 | Women love one night stands as much as men doOh comeon dude, the splitting hairs on Reddit get so ridiculous sometimes it’s hard to believe. The VAST MAJORITY of the time men orgasm and ejaculate. You know, because it happens at the same fucking time. Jesus you people are hard to believe, the autism is strong with this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 03:51 AM |
| -3 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Men have to be performative, not everyone. I don’t think it’s a bad thing honestly. Let the weak mens genes get filtered out. Only the ones mart enough, wealthy enough or good looking enough deserve to propagate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverYeah I think this is it too, the frustration of women getting casual sex much easier than them while they want it and can’t have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 11 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?She’s trying to do better but you can’t beat nature. She’ll grow sick of him and look for someone “better”. I bet at some level she thinks she’s above him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:56 PM |
| 19 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverI bet a lot of men resent it because they can never “experiment” to find themselves by sleeping with 20 people and then shut it off. They’re angry they’ll never have the opportunity and the women out there “gave” sex away easily while exploring and he had to alway work for it. You know what they say, resentment is the number 1 offender. Sex is seen as a currency/value in their eyes. To put it in a way you could relate to maybe. Imagine you grew up poor, scrounging for everything you had and you’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 04:15 AM |
| 11 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.My current girlfriend has told me multiple times I’m by far the best sex she’s ever had. That said I hate the idea of thinking about her sexual history. If there’s one thing that would make me break up with her it would be something related to that. I don’t understand it myself but if I found out she had sleep with 20 or 30 people I wouldn’t be able to stay with her. There’s an ick factor that I wouldn’t be able to get past. I don’t want a woman who anyone could have, that’s gross to me. Everyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Women want men who elicit in her the same behavior that they find so abhorrent and repulsive in men.Whoever cares more about the other person/relationship has less control. So if you want someone falling over themselves for you that means you want someone who you have more control over. It’s the way relationships work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.It’s pretty well known across all written human history that men don’t date women for their “personality”. How do you seriously think a woman’s prime is later in life because she learned not to chase dudes who treated her like shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 12:20 AM |
| 2 | How important is preselection when it comes to a woman choosing a partner?You must be young | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 11:36 PM |
| -3 | Financial Demands of Dating Modern Vs Traditional WomenThis I “expect” nice dates and like fine dining sounds just like the tour of women he’s referring to. This is why so many career women end up alone. Expectations ruin everything, women with high expectations even more so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 04:38 AM |
| 3 | TikTok gender swap pill: Women surprised that most of them look like unattractive menMan I’m too pretty for a dude. I’d be a hot girl Need to grow my beard out more I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 06:17 PM |
| 10 | CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes womenMy and my friends experience dating in the 30s has been that women immediately get attached and want to rocket through the dating process. Dead ass I went on a single date over the weekend and this girl told me twice “I have butterflies in my tummy” like wtf are you telling me this, even if it’s true. I don’t know of any dudes personally that become so attached after such a short time period. In our group we’ve talked about how you almost have to fend women off in the 30s from wanting to speed t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 04:21 PM |
| 7 | CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad.If you give women all the power in a relational it won’t last. I know women who openly have said to me “I like when you get jealous/tell me not to do something/check me” and these aren’t broken women. They’re successful. It’s common behavior. 2/3 of women are submissive in bed and want to be submissive in their relationship. How many times have you heard a woman executive say “I’m the boss at the office, I don’t want to be the boss at home/in the bedroom”. Clearly many woman want to be controlle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Why do women want “bad boys” and not we action figure collectors? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Exactly. Get jacked, make money. Women will suddenly start showing interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:18 AM |
| 0 | CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their optionsAll the studies that say we’re getting more and more unhappy. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna1231153 https://www.reuters.com/article/us-happiness-usa/americans-less-happy-today-than-30-years-ago-study-idUSL1550309820070615 https://www.latimes.com/science/sciencenow/la-sci-sn-americans-less-happy-20190323-story.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 04:12 PM |
| 4 | CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their optionsAll the studies that say we’re getting more and more unhappy. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna1231153 https://www.reuters.com/article/us-happiness-usa/americans-less-happy-today-than-30-years-ago-study-idUSL1550309820070615 https://www.latimes.com/science/sciencenow/la-sci-sn-americans-less-happy-20190323-story.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 04:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their optionsHaving an endless supply of people available at the swipe of a finger I’m sure doesn’t improve happiness. People feel they can always get someone better and it might be true. Besides that people in the US are less happy than anytime in the last 50 years. Do you think our western approach is working? Also capitalism has been around a lot longer than the last 50 years so it’s not capitalism that’s changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 04:07 PM |
| 9 | CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their optionsThat’s a sad and lonely outlook. Most people don’t want to go through life alone. It’s better to have a 70% match and spend life being content with what you have than never settling and hoping for a 100% match. I can tell you from firsthand experience how many 35-40year old women there are looking for a husband and wanting kids “someday”. I’m always thinking, dude you missed that boat if you’re searching to start a family at 40. Our society teaches everyone deserves the best and that’s just not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 04:01 PM |
| 4 | Are men far more accepting to neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating?Also the obvious that men are more desperate than women and take what they can get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:08 AM |
| 7 | 9% of young women are single and sexually active.Not really, relationships end as well and then the 27% who aren’t sexually active become sexually actively when they come across a potential mate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 04:52 AM |
| 0 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....It’s a good analogy! Especially when all the data shows as soon as a person walks into the baskin robbins they’re much less likely to be satisfied Long term with any single ice cream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:32 PM |
| 15 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Just about all studies done on men versus women’s sex drive show men have a more consistent and higher sex drive in general. Are there some women with higher drives than some men, of course. That doesn’t mean that broadly speaking men think about and want sex much more than women and much more consistently over time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:08 AM |
| 0 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.What about this one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 02:00 AM |
| 0 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.When is the last time you sat and talked to a woman for an hour or two, not drunk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.That’s entitlement not anger, what anger are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Sexually desiring “innocence” and “purity” is hedonisticI was agreeing with you up until here. Almost every single woman know has an “ex who was mentally abusive” which basically means whatever anyone wants it to mean. Sounds to me like a large swath of women are choosing men who treat them like trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 06:04 PM |
| 7 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?It wasn’t a good thing for the Roman’s with the German tribes burned, looted and raped their way throughthe city | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costYeah that’s the way I see it too. Cars suck up money and won’t ever make me money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costIt’s a plug in sonata. I don’t really care about it honestly. I don’t need an expensive car. My company gives me $700 a month for a car allowance and I own my current car. Why go buy a new car when I don’t need it? A car is never going to make me money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:44 AM |
| 24 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costI make $200k+ a year and drive a 2017 Hyundai lol. I dress well for work and most of my money goes into different savings/investment accounts and buying/Reno/flipping houses. If a random person met me they’d never know what I make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?I was married for a chunk of my 20s and in the late 20searly 30s I was dating mid 20yo women. When I was in my early 30s I was dating women women in their late 20s and as I’ve gotten older it’s just worked out that the women generally have been been around that same 25-30 years old even though I’m older now. I’m not hung up on age so things change if I find the right person. Side note is I’m successful, tall, and fit so my experience may or may not be different than average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?No. No one said “every” or that there is one specific favorite. generally speaking (as I said above a LARGER number of women), a larger percentage of women are attracted to a smaller percentage of men. That obviously means that multiple women HAVE to be attracted to the same man, otherwise the numbers don’t work. If women’s top men came from all over and were varied then it wouldn’t be a small (percentage-wise) group of men. Generally, a larger percentage of women like a smaller percentage of me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?It’s semantics. Okay a larger number of women than average are attracted to a smaller number of men. Why wouldn’t it then follow that generally speaking women are more attracted to that smaller group than the group they’re not attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Lmao 😂, I do pretty well for myself. I’m 6’2, 190lb, go to the gym 3-4 times a week and make top 5% money. I guess most people here would call a chadlite. Bring top tier doesn’t mean they can automatically make a woman orgasm. They are just more sexually appealing and get more women. I also didn’t say women can’t orgasm from non top tier men. Women typically orgasm from men who get to know their body over time. I agree that casual sex generally isn’t physically great for women but it’s good for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:59 PM |
| 6 | The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys.Men going their own way(ie. not interested in women) movement is all about dating?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Ok. You’re dancing all around the place to avoid the obvious conclusion. A smaller number of men are bedding a larger number of women. Why is that? Why doesn’t it work the opposite way? Women clearly try their best to choose “top” men. Every dude can’t be a “top” man. Even if some women’s definition of top varies it doesn’t change the fact that a small minority of men are sleeping with a disproportionate amount of women. Clearly women are more attracted to this group that the bulk of average men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:46 AM |
| 0 | CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policiesThat’s the OPs whole point. It’s not equality if the standards in the workplace and military are lowered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subYes but what does that have to do with men wanting to be alpha widowed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subThat makes no sense. I’m not even red pill but who would want to be ruined for all future relationships because they got lucky in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners.The studies are asking women if they’re happier/more satisfied with their relationship. The women are saying they’re happier. You’re saying that they’re really not happier and if they just did what all the less happy women did then they’d actually be happier. THEY ARE fulfilled, they’re telling us they’re fulfilled! I’m pretty sure the women can speak for themselves when they say they are more satisfied. Exhibit A of modern day thinking. If you don’t see things how I do (men taking advantage of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.Okay. So what’s with your weird ass copy pasted house for sale example that proves my point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners.Why are they statistically happier then? I agree they don’t know better but that is the blessing. You’re not second guessing all the time off you made the perfect/best choice. You’re maximizing your life with who you chose and it ends up being a happier road than choice paralysis from massive dating options, sleeping to find out what you like and then comparing one persons traits against the best traits of 10 others. Ignorance is bliss. Once you bite the apple you know there are endless options … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:43 PM |
| 0 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.Do you know any Muslim women who wear burkas? I live in this world. I promise women aren’t wearing burkas because they feel sexualized. They wear long sleeves/pants as well because it’s the modest, proper thu f to do. It’s the rules and customs they’re following. I don’t know any women who think men have sexualized them so they wear burkas now. Back to the original point. Women wearing a bikini are going to be sexualized significantly more than women in a burka, it follows that the clothes women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 04:42 PM |
| 0 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.Using your analogy it’s like saying they listed the house for sale but never want to sell it and complain that buyers are looking at it. If you want to create desire then it follows you shouldn’t complain about the attention that desire creates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 04:36 PM |
| 2 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.Not for dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 04:32 PM |
| 11 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.And virginity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 09:51 PM |
| 4 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.Strong argument, won me over. So women in thongs and women in burkas are sexualized the same since men sexualize women no matter what. Definitely not impacted by what women wear or how they portray themselves all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Dating for a women is like shopping on Amazon where as a mans experience resembles building a niche small bussiness from the ground upIt is a problem picking, if you have 35 options popping up every day then there must be a decent person in the mix. If you can’t connect with ANY of the hundreds of people who are available then how could you possibly think it’s anything else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:00 PM |
| 6 | CMV: AF/BB is real and ubiquitous. Countless studies have found that women in marriages and LTRs are less interested in sex.The study specifically says that men’s libido doesn’t drop like women’s does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.This my friends is an example of bias kicking in. Please note when facts contrary to prior belief appear they are disregarded, minimized or ignored. How many studies does it take to convince you? Or do you really think everything we’ve learned from social/physiological/sexual studies are entirely inaccurate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:40 AM |
| 2 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessI think you’re joking but this is how I try to live. Everything that happens to me I have a part in. It’s better to try to improve every area of your like than to think you can’t fix as much in your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Lonely single men who get little to no sexual attention project their loneliness onto women about to hit the mythical wallWhat’s the answer then? Women chase the top men and your approach ends in women either sharing top men or ending up alone. Both seem shitty options for society. Why is it that average women feel entitled to uncommon men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Does female loyalty exist anymore?The point is you’re talking about something different than OP is. They graphic says: 43% of women have someone they’d date as a backup plan. You say: I don’t have anyone I’d date as a backup plan. But men want to date me all the time. The poll is talking about apples, you’re talking about oranges | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Brutal racepill for Asian men.Their point is that the parents of the children arent going to lean towards white men for their Asian daughter. That preference is coming from Asian women themselves. He didn’t say anything about bad marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 05:43 PM |
| 13 | How do women tolerate getting complimented all day? It sounds horrible and oppressive. Men wouldn’t last a day.🤣 tell us you’re making shit up without saying it Someone who isn’t hot hitting on you isn’t vomit inducing lol If you’re fat, obese and a man then no one is hitting on you. Let’s be real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyThe bar for “wild” and “creepy” is apparently on the floor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyIt’s purge dummy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:09 PM |
| -1 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyAh yes, I guess calling everything wild and creepy is normal now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:05 PM |
| 3 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyYou’re carving up society wrong. You think women had it worse than men in the Middle Ages? Men were shipped off to wars that were hand to hand combat. Women on the losing sides were raped. No one had a great time in the Middle Ages. Let’s stop with the “I’m a slightly bigger victim”. They each dealt with horrible shit that was outside of their control.l which the rich accumulated the resources from the poor peoples work. This “we had it worse” argument doesn’t help anyone. The real split in soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:01 PM |
| 3 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyStrong argument, tough to see a flaw in that solid logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:54 PM |
| -2 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western society🤣 “they’re adorable” Stop saying wild and creepy shit. Maybe just maybe your creepy meter is broken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Lonely single men who get little to no sexual attention project their loneliness onto women about to hit the mythical wall“I definitely am at my hottest and sexiest at 26-30 (30 now) because I'm confident and wise.” You’re confusing mens and women’s attractiveness. No one I’m aware of says “that woman is confident and wise, she’s super hot.” Women are attracted to men who are confident. Men aren’t attracted to women’s confidence. It has zero connection with attraction. I’m not saying it negatively impacts attraction either. A women could hot and confident or hot and not confident. An ugly woman could be confident o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 08:53 PM |
| 9 | Lonely single men who get little to no sexual attention project their loneliness onto women about to hit the mythical wallThe old women who are complaining ARE average but frustrated about only have “average chumps”. No one is saying they have to settle, but it goes back to the comments here that say modernism hasn’t made women happier. There is a measurable trend in unhappiness increasing in women since the 70s when it was tracked closely. Women are sold a bag of things that generally don’t make them happier in life. The vast majority of women want and expect an above average man but that’s not how numbers work. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 08:24 PM |
| 0 | It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as themStudy after study shows men have significantly higher sex drives than women. This is a meta analysis of over 150 different studies. Women can have high libidos but overall men have a more higher libido than women. It’s confirmed science at this point. It’s shocking to me some people still try to dispute it. http://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71520.pdf "All the evidence we have reviewed points toward the conclusion that men desire sex more than women. Although some of the findings were more method… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | The "Nice Guy" is a scapegoatYes, they deserve all our sympathy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Eh Ive hired salespeople in the industrial sector all around the country and even a halfway decent salesperson makes that in Cleveland | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:54 PM |
| 16 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousBut growing up you don’t automatically know that. Teenager and earl 20s boys are the ones who are switching to the red pill in droves more than anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 08:11 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.That 75k study was like 20 years ago. I bet it’s over 100k nowadays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:50 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone actually met someone who had a very high body count and was a healthy, well balanced individual?Dude you asked if people knew anyone. They respond they knew someone and you go “strong sample size” lmao. I generally agree with you but you’re so hell bent on being right you’re not taking any information in from your questions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 04:26 AM |
| 2 | The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s TimeHaha I love these interactions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 04:03 PM |
| 2 | The double edged sword of high expectations for menYeah it generally is men who are selling and women who are buying. A lot of it is biology. Women need to be choosier because the wrong choice with a mate. They have more risks with childbirth and with being physically smaller and weaker. Women do need to bring something to the table for a man to commit long term but for short term dating let’s be real, they just need to be halfway decent looking and not obese. Sure tons of women aren’t going to put in the work because they think it’s easy to get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 09:09 PM |
| 4 | The rise of Red Pill ideology in younger generations.I searched manosphere which is the red pill umbrella term recommended by google tends. These related topics go back to 2004, they peaked in 2014 and peaking again this year in 2022. What did you search for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 06:46 PM |
| 3 | The double edged sword of high expectations for menMan you guys have such a backward ass way of viewing it. To me, dating operates like a business. First you have to have a product/service to sell. Gotta look put together (show you’re making money but not flashy, in good shape, know how to hold conversation) Then attention is like anything else in the market. If you spend it too freely it’s worthless. If a gal is getting used to me calling then I won’t for a little while. If you sparingly give out compliments then the compliments mean more. Is i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Hmmm. No mistakes. Marriage. “Find someone else”. Seems like if you fall out of love you chose bad or didn’t do a good job maintaining your marriage. If you’re finding someone else while in your marriage that’s also a problem. Anyway you slice it, if you marry someone and don’t stay married someone made a mistake somewhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 04:42 AM |
| 10 | Why is male “insecurity” so demonized?If you fuck a 6’2 200LB jacked dude, even if he’s bad at sex, it still affects how you see the guys who come after him. How could it not? Then when you settle down with a 5’9 accountant with an office bod you’ll always remember what it was like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals?No way, look at the people leaving Ukraine, it’s all women and children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | I (19M) don't understand if she (21F) is interested or notI get it man, it’s tough. You were available and she probably doesn’t even understand why she acts the way she does. You just gotta harden yourself against the emotion. It’ll make you a better man to distance yourself from her and rise above your feelings. Work on yourself. Forget about her and you’ll be stronger | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop blaming feminism for the problems in societyThe reason for the breakdown of human connection isn’t capitalism. The only system I see working in the future is Capitalism mixed with a bit of socialism. Any place that’s tried true socialism doesn’t usually result in improved living conditions for its people. I never understood trying to push a theory of a system that has a history of failure everywhere it’s implemented. Socialism requires a small group of people to manage the system and historically that small group of people aren’t held acc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 01:45 PM |
| 22 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?Sex (typically in a relationship) is one of the primary ways men have human touch in our world. Even if you fixed that problem, which is difficult, men have a much higher and consistent sex drive which drives the need. I’m not saying women have to do anything with that info. To say sex isn’t a need as a woman who have many more social connections and support, really shows you don’t/can’t show empathy for the men who don’t have either of those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 04:06 PM |
| 22 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?Yeah most of them are. The catholic priests are a great example of how the gears don’t tend to line up perfectly in celibate men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?You’re clearly a woman. Don’t understand the drive for sex and emphasize how important social support is. You understand that men and women have different needs based at least partially in biology? It’s like you can’t wrap your head around someone else needing something different than yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 03:52 PM |
| 47 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?That’s like saying nurturing isn’t a need. Look what happens to children who aren’t nurtured, they end up fucked up. Just because you don’t die from not having a physical need met doesn’t mean it isn’t a need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 03:49 PM |
| 4 | I believe a lot of women tell each other not to make moves on guys because of internalized misogynyFrom what I’ve heard and seen women tend to like men who are old fashioned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 06:21 PM |
| -1 | CMV: if women's preferences can "evolve" over time, then so can men's.I bet the religious women are having more sex 5 years I got he relationship than girls who have slept around. Look at the numbers of divorces, dead bedrooms, cheating that all correlate with higher numbers. People who have slept around change the way their mind works and novelty becomes needed over time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | There is no evidence to support that 80% of women are sleeping with 20% of men. There never wasI’m pretty sure you’re making that second part up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men.You have no understanding of stats. In my freshman level stats class we covered this. You don’t need to survey massive amounts of people to get an understanding of a population. Maybe you should try to learn something before writing off the basis for how statisticians built their standard operation procedure in their field. You are a pretty good example of the current state of our country. only what you individually believe matters, regardless of an entire industry of specialists saying differen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men.Statisticians have a strong understanding of what sample size you need to understand a population. Whether you agree with a 1000or 1500 people not being enough doesn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menNah, the west isn’t collapsing. Even with the pandemic and other things happening the US is still the strongest and richest country in the world. That’s not going to change to a 3rd world country in the next 7-8 years. I personally don’t like the degeneracy of the west either but the amount of money and influence here is too strong to be blown away in such a short time outside of a major war. Even in the case of war we wouldn’t be reduced to nothing. Now if you said 50-100 years from now I’d say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What are the consequences of having a colourful past?That’s like asking women to simply stop finding taller men more attractive. You can’t turn off base attraction and for how ubiquitous this aversion to marrying promiscuous women is, there is some way piece of it that’s biologically based. It’ll never be turned off, even if the reason it existing in the first place is gone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 01:47 AM |
| 4 | A Pew Research Center study shows that 62% of single women in the U.S. are not open to casual dating or a committed relationship, compared to 39% of single menLmao this has been really insightful guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingThe study found two things Women find men less attractive but still message them Men find women more attractive, but only message the most attractive ones Guess it balances out! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:00 PM |
| 0 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingThe study found two things Women find men less attractive but still message them Men find women more attractive, but only message the most attractive ones Guess it balances out! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingHe does come across pretty douchy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:58 PM |
| 6 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingIt’s about taking pride in how you look. If you know you look good then you’ll put more energy into that part of your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?Dude, let’s be real for a second. Living in reality doesn’t make someone sexist. Women have significantly less upper strength than men. Wars require strength at times. When I was in Ramadi and someone in my fireteam was shot, how do you expect a woman to drag, a 6’2, 200LB dude to safety? Each person also has to carry 50-60LB of gear with them everywhere. No woman I’m aware of has ever passed special forces training in any US military branch. That tells you the major difference. Women can be jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:42 PM |
| 9 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?Yeah but what about the vast majority of men who were never called on to fight? Should they get benefits in case a war ever breaks out? They’ve don’t nothing at that point to deserve special treatment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:45 AM |
| 10 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?What about the places in the west where the men have never been drafted? I agree there is an imbalance for men being drafted against women not being. But because there is a the chance that you’re drafted, in case a war happens in 20 years, then you should enjoy ongoing advantages doesnt sit right. Women under a certain age should be drafted into non combat roles and then whoever has been drafted then gets the benefits. What about the women who have died or hurt in childbirth during a non war tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsOk that’s call appeal to extremes and is a logical fallacy I happened to learn about the other day. We’re not talking about 20year divorcées or widows, though if they were together for 20years they’re probably better at long term relationships than someone who’s sleeping with another new person every year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsA relationship lasting 6-8 months is not long term. Long term is 2-3 years or more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsOr a regular IQ that recognize differences in expectations for men and women. A woman can sleep with 5 dudes a night for a year straight if she wanted. A dude could not. That obviously ties in with how we have different social expectations. Men who can’t sleep around are treated as poorly in society as women who sleep around too much. You’ve been drinking the “we’re all the same” koolaid for too long sister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 15 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsIf you’re fucking someone new every year that means you’re not in very many long term relationships. If you can’t manage(by choice or not) to have long term relationships by the age of 31 then there’s someone more going on. Any of the reasons for that don’t bode well for future long term relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationThat’s a good point. Men do typically have egos that need to be taken into account or they get offended. It’ll never be the word offended but that’s the idea. Women need reassurance that they’re special all the time too, that’s what all that fishing for compliments is too. Still stand by men needing “infinite validation”. Taking in your point on balancing mens ego versus women’s validation needs it seems about even to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationI agree with most of your post except men who ask for “infinite validation” from their girls don’t tend to have real long relationships. Men might use girlfriends as their primary person to talk to for any emotionally tied things but it’s weird to say men ask for infinite validation from their girls. I’ve never seen men asking their girlfriends for validation but see the opposite all the time. “Tell me I’m pretty”, “how much do you love me” “why did you ask me out?” Are all shameless fishing att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellDo you have any evidence for that claim? It seems pretty outrageous to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:08 PM |
| 2 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.In fairness he did it say that. He said dress appropriately which says nothing about dresses or suits. What I take that to mean is wearing jeans and a tshirt or normally dressed clothes, not pajamas at 2pm on a Wednesday. I actually agree that Americans are much more sloppily dressed overall than we used to be 30, 40 or 50 years ago. Dressing well isn’t a bad thing. If someone wants to stay in their pajamas all day and go out like that I’d bet they’re not one of societies top performers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:06 PM |
| 3 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellI’m no feminist but that seems like an out there claim. 4 out of 5 rapes are made up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 12:54 AM |
| 4 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellEach woman has been abused 4 times? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 12:25 AM |
| 9 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herYou guys are trying to reason things out. The core part of why men don’t want women who have slept around is because it disgusts them. The majority of guys would be hard pressed to describe why and where that feeling comes from and what it is. IMO it’s just nature working. If men in times past saw a woman sleeping with everyone then you couldn’t know if the child was yours. It’s deeply ingrained this disgust tied around womens promiscuity. Across a ton of societies and time men have found promis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.Lol don’t feed the troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic Idealmy man, life seems like shit sometimes I really get it. If you start working out and truly don’t give a shit about women you’ll start coming across them. They are experts at sniffing out weakness and if you’re pretending to be a dominate guy and you’re not then they’ll know. You just need to workout, build confidence and life will improve. I used to be a skinny bitch. Now I’m kind of skinny but pretty good shape and the difference from going to the gym all the time is huge. Women won’t make you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:47 PM |
| 4 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.Keep telling yourself that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.TRP doesn’t want to be swimming in wives. They say their goal is to have sex with women, not relationships. I’d bet if you look at the group as a percentage then they probably are having more sex than the average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.When it comes to certain aspects women absolutely prefer their partner to be more or better than them. Generally speaking women want men who are taller, stronger, more wealthy, who are more assertive, more intelligent, and I’m sure there are other things too. It’s common knowledge that generally women want men across and up in a range of traits and men generally want women across and down in a range of traits. I’m sure no woman is going in thinking “I want to feel inferior”, but what do you thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 03:58 PM |
| 0 | What about people, especially women who don't want children?You sound like a nihilist. Not being snarky but genuinely curious, if you are a nihilist do you find joy and happiness in the here and now? Or is life truly meaningless to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | At what number of bad dates/relationships does one become “jaded”?Most people do decide to focus their energy on the career that has more likelihood to provide a larger return. Over time women are become a larger and larger percentage of the more lucrative career in the relationship. It seems naive to me to think that each persons career is treated the same regardless of income. That doesn’t seem like something most people would want. There’s always give and take. Men tend to work more hours at work and women tend to work more hours at home. There’s never goin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Redpill seems to be exploding in popularityI think we’re all just animals and men are like most male animals. They’re looking for something to hump. When they can’t find it they get increasingly more aggressive. Not sure how that’s turned off, if it’s happening so widely then it’s probably a feature of natural selection. The men who didn’t care about sex are all long dead and the ones who need it to function normally are most of what’s left. I don’t see it going away anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Does unconditional love truly exist?I don’t understand your point. You’re saying that because there are many people with many traits you’re not going to love someone just for existing. Even if there were 50 people would that mean you would love everyone? Maybe I’m missing something g | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:39 AM |
| 5 | Does unconditional love truly exist?Such a strong and solid argument, tough to find any cracks in it. I’m sold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:36 AM |
| 15 | Isnt this deception? (Fuckboys x bf material)She seems happier than most of the women here who are sleeping with someone new each Tuesday. Might do some good to listen to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:08 PM |
| 9 | What are the silliest/funniest/most ridiculous standards for traits in a partner that you've seen?Regardless of the social pressure to lie, men generally are not going to want to choose promiscuous women. At an instinctual level most men don’t want a women who has slept around, especially on the first date. This is a pretty widely accepted viewpoint t across most societies. Seems reasonable to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 01:16 AM |
| 4 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menYou my friend are about as bright as a cave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beNo one is saying it’s a guarantee, just that the likelihood is nearly double you’ll get divorced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Men settle- women do notThe data shows that men tend to be less gathered around the average than women. That isn’t disputable. What you posted doesnt “all but disprove that theory”. It says that there are differences at the population level towards the extremes and that many people of both genders are closer to the average. All that is easy to agree with. Men still tend to be more spread further from the average than women are on a large number of different characteristics. That’s undeniable, you can’t wish it away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Men settle- women do notHere we go with the oppression line. Tell me why men still invent at many times the rate of women today when women have the same opportunity as men do. Women choose different things than men, that’s reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Men settle- women do notThere’s a theory called male variability that explains what you’re talking about. Men have more variability in their characteristics than women do. Men vary more in height, income, aggression, athletic abilities and most other things than women do. What that means is men are the best AND the worst of society. Women tend to gather more around the averages, while the majority of the smartest and lowest intelligence people are men. The gender who invents at over 10x the rate of women also os homele… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Are women attracted to ambition or results?Yeah some of that hits home. I work long hours and and far up the corporate ladder for my age. I’ve always put the women in my life second behind my success. I’ll be going to school, flipping a house and working 60 hours a week and relationships just aren’t worth me sacrifice the gains in other parts of my life. I have always been restless and wanting more. If the person you dated focused on you while you were together would you still be with him? Or do you think the lack of time was a factor as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do red pilled men attempt to date seriously?Man these people are so dumb it’s hard to believe. I wonder if these fucking idiots actually believe what they say or parrot back some retarded ass book on feminism they read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersThis makes zero sense. It’s only easier for the top % I’ve f men to get relationships than women. Most women aren’t single that often. They jump from relationship to relationship, that’s probably because it’s easier for them to find one. Also what guy is like “I’m going to date that girl, she has money”. That makes zero sense. Guys aren’t attracted to resources like women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 02:11 PM |
| 9 | Why are divorced and widowed men more likely to remarry than divorced and widowed women?What a sad outlook, I hope I’m like my grandparents were. My grandfather passed 6-7 years before my grandma and she missed him everyday. Wanting a good lifelong partner used to be a goal but nowadays you just see this bitter and negative approach everywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?So your boyfriend is taller than you and you’re 5’11”? Meanwhile you also think 6’ is average height? Am I missing something or are you admitting here than you only acknowledge men who are 6’. The average height is 5’9-5’10” in the US. Most men are not taller than 5’11”. Only 14% of men in the US are 6’. This is a perfect example of average men being invisible to women who they’re not attractive to. Can’t make this up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:56 AM |
| 0 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?Am I missing something or are you admitting here than you only acknowledge men who are 6’. I’d hard to believe you actually think this. The average height is 5’9-5’10” in the US. Most men are not taller than 5’11”. Only 14% of men in the US are taller. This is a perfect example of average men being invisible to women who they’re not attractive to. Can’t make this shit up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 5 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.Nah it’s like playing cards. Everyone is dealt a hand and some are stronger some are weaker. If you play your hand right and have a solid hand then you can win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?Ok but think about what you’re saying. If there are general trends across cultures and time that means that attractiveness isn’t misogynistic and societal. There’s a basis in objectivity. The exceptions don’t make the rule. Most people can agree on what is/isn’t attractive. Most people don’t find longer hair, gentle personality overweight, short men attractive (to use your examples). Most of those traits are measurably negative as attractive traits to the majority of women. Because a small perce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?Nah I don’t think people who aren’t gorgeous are doomed but I also don’t buy that conventional beauty is all socially driven and definitely don’t think it’s misogynistic to point it out. So many studies have been done on things that all people find attractive that you’d have to be burying your head in the sand to deny it. There are without a doubt objectively more and less attractive people. Do people have types? Of course they do. That still doesn’t discount all of the data showing that there a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 12:17 AM |
| 2 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?No it’s not a neat little box and there is variation. You’re deluding yourself if you think all people are equally attractive. You’re changing the argument to people can find anyone attractive. And sure that’s true but just way less likely. There are more and less attractive people and attraction is correlated (across different cultures) with hip to waist ratio for women and shoulder to waist ratio for men. Short, fat men are generally much less attractive than tall athletic men. Science and dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?Oh comeon you’ve been living online too long. You may know an exception or two but the reality is most men aren’t choosing the 60lb overweight woman. Just like most desirable women aren’t choosing the overweight men. That means they’d be an after thought. No one is thinking of the unattractive/undesirable people first. How tf does this equal misogyny in your brain? I know Victoria secret has brainwashed you to believe “everyone is beautiful” but in real life the vast majority of desirable people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedOh comeon most women will openly tel you they’re attracted to the “bad boy” persona. There’s a reason that’s attractive to women, being “nice” isn’t generally sexy to women from what I’ve seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 12:16 AM |
| 20 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menThis view is rooted in the idea that men and women are the same and want the same things. Women don’t get off over half the time. When they’re hooking up with guys for one night stands it’s even lower. You add in that they are physically at more risk than men and the risk reward isn’t like it is for us men. Most women I know have had some experience where a guy turned on them and got aggressive quickly. Imagine the impact that would have on your world view if even one time who physically could t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Competent MenOh no you got me with that one. Incel, what a clever unique insult. Typical response, don’t address what the argument but move the goalpost six times and insult people once it’s pointed out. It’s laughable how similar you all are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyWell I didn’t say “There are no women who have zero interest in dating”. So no your anecdote has nothing to what what I said. You said “there will be no women lonely cat ladies unless they choose to be single”. I gave an example of single women who weren’t choosing it. So I know you’re used to whipping out your gotcha phrase”my anecdote cancels yours” but it makes zero fucking sense here how you used it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Competent MenLol. First you say the system doesn’t discriminate against men. Them when he shows it does you say ok but it’s okay because women are affected the most. Then he says the system was created by a feminist and you call him a liar, then once he shows you it’s true you say it’s only one woman. Lmao. Talk about moving the goalposts. You moved those bitches up down and all over the field but haven’t admitted a single point. This is a moment when you can recognize your bias but my money is that you won’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:36 PM |
| 8 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyYou said: “There will be no lonely cat ladies unless they choose to be single.” I’m telling you that is not a true statement as I personally know a handful of them. It’s evidence that they exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyNah that’s definitely not true. I know a bunch of women who are in their mid 30s to mid 40s and are alone and sad. Every guy they meet isn’t good enough or they sleep together and never get a call back. I personally know 5-6 of these types so there’s got to be a ton of them out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | It’s a numbers game for men, but women don’t want to be treated like numbers?People are herd animals and women more so than men. Women are social by nature. They’re the ones who are impacted the most by social media posturing. Look at the typical group of four women friends. As soon as one get a new car, a new boyfriend, gets engaged and especially gets pregnant, the whole group is now under pressure to move things along. Many women will even admit this. Each woman (or man) is not some super special person. We’re all affected by those around us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 10:40 PM |
| 26 | It’s a numbers game for men, but women don’t want to be treated like numbers?Oh comeon, women (or men for that matter) aren’t that special that every single one of us are unique flowers with no one else like us. If a guys attractive/successful/charismatic then more of those unique individuals will be open and if he’s less so then I’m be harder and he’ll face more rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?Our IQs are continuing to climb as well, not sure where you heard it’s going down. Women sort for exceptional men, even when their algorithms don’t work properly(like finding confidence/false competence in arrogance). Look at married men. They make significantly more than almost any other cross section of society. Women are doing their damn best to select for competence. Even if it’s not a good thing for all men I think the natural pressure is positive for humans in general and will never change… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 11:50 PM |
| 4 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?This is a great example of how women normally want men who are the best in whatever field they’re in. I never understood the anger against that. Women are the filter I society to eliminate the bottom portion (1/3, half, whatever number) of the gene pool. It’s just nature at work. Each generation should have the top procreate and the weak/broken not procreate. It’s good for the species. It also pushed men to improve, if their goal is to procreate/have sex/have a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | The wall either doesn’t exist or applies to both men and women.Not anything I’ve ever seen or heard. Women take time to even figure out what they like. Many women can’t even orgasm in their early to mid 20s. I highly doubt they figure it out and then lose it all within a couple years. Makes no sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:38 AM |
| 3 | The wall either doesn’t exist or applies to both men and women.Yeah the point that the red pill guys are making is that if men work to improve they get better into their 30s. If you are average body type that means you’re not working out to be in good shape. If you don’t have a social group then you’re not working on networking. If you have an okay career you’re not excelling in your field. You’re not doing anything that the red pill says you should be in order to improve in your 30s. They’re not saying any man in their 30s is poof fairy dust now every woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:33 AM |
| 2 | The wall either doesn’t exist or applies to both men and women.You’re mixing truth with ignorance here. Women def try to lock down men who have money in their late 20s-early 30s. Women peak sexually in their 30s, not in their 20s. Their libido doesn’t slow down until after menopause which is like mid forties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say.I understand your points but the counterpoint would be to say that everything you’ve listed above is shifting any ownership of choosing away from women and to men. The reality is that women are the one who selects their mate in humans. You’re missing the point that women are selecting these women consistently enough for it to be an ongoing complaint in most conversations on this topic. Women choose men who are misogynistic all the time. Why is that? Personally I think women select for appearance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?That’s so naive. Women themselves will tell you all the time how they’re attracted to the “bad boy” look and persona. The don’t give a fuck attitude is t women “thinking they’re a decent person”. Are there cases where a women sleeps with someone hoping for more and think the guy is decent? Sure that happens but don’t act like that’s the only way, women openly admit to sleeping with guys that are good looking but the guy isn’t good enough for a relationship so they only sleep with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:55 AM |
| 2 | The Reason I Think Most RPers are Unsuccesful in DatingNo no, that’s complex and fluid understanding of women. Assuming negativity in women is rigid but not when women are so thoughtful and deep, so complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Unattractive WomenThat’s a good question. I understand your point, there are two thoughts that come to mind. If you are 100% female appearing and people can’t tell you’ve transitioned(not to be rude/dismissive but it would impact things) it would be no different than saying you’d slept with 12 women and 1 man. That leads me to the next point. Men generally are more okay with their significant others having had sexual interactions with women rather than men. Other women aren’t a “threat” to men. That’s part of why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 03:55 AM |
| 13 | anyone here that generalizes a gender is wrongHow do you individually talk about a population? Should we toss statistics and general truths of human behavior because of outliers and that everyone is a unique special prize? The entire subreddit is based on red pill versus blue pill which is entirely based on behaviors that are common across groups. This entire post makes no sense. Every single thing someone could say about a group would get countered by “but soMeone I know doesn’t think/do that” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive WomenI don’t look down on you or think you’re disgusting if that’s where you’re going. If you led with that or I found it out soon into going out on dates with you I would likely subconsciously put you in the “good for short/medium term” bucket and still continue hanging out. If we were hanging out/sleeping together I wouldn’t put more than a couple months of effort in before I moved on. There’s a caveat though, if we really connected then it might change that. If I’m trying to understand my own beha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive WomenThe sexes are different and are treated differently. They should be treated differently because it’s based in biology. Women and men can still be equal and treated differently. Biologically men do not find experienced women attractive. That is true. Biologically women do not find passive, losing men attractive. That is true. Treating the sexes differently isn’t sexist. It’s naive to think we are all the same. We’re not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive WomenSo there’s no option that men actually prefer less sexually experienced women without being pieces of shit? What about guys that choose to sleep around less or don’t have the ability to? Why would they want someone who has slept with the entire town? Besides that, there is something deeply biological about men preferring women without a long history. Why would just about every society look down on women who sleep around/are prostitutes? I think it comes from subconsciously men being less likely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.Talk about categorizing broadly. Anyone who sees categories in the world had nothing useful to say. Might that be a gasp category you put me in?!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.Marketing works because people are more similar than different so we all fall into types | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.The problem with your outlook is you want everyone to be so special and unique they’re just only themselves. The problem with that outlook is twofold. One, the human mind evolved to quickly categorize people and things immediately. You do this every day with people you just meet as well as people you know. Are they dangerous? Smart? Capable? It’s incredibly naive to think humans can create a special one off category for each person. Two, we all fit into categories more broadly and are only “spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating OutcomesIf the majority likes something then you can say “generally” it’s true. Making a generalization doesn’t mean all. I’m thinking happens enough that it makes sense to adjust your behavior to the majority for better results. If the goal is to maximize who you appeal to then it makes sense to focus on generalizations about which traits are filtered for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating OutcomesYou are hard of reading my friend. No one anywhere said all women like anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating OutcomesI’m not sure what the digit ratios are but yeah lifting can change your voice. When I was a skinny little bitch my voice was higher. I also picked up an inch or two working out as you stand up perfectly straight. Does it change entirely who you are? No. But it Improves your baseline which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 42 | are women not as attractive ?Wtf does this mean my dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 03:49 AM |
| 2 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenI’ve heard people railing against this thing pretty constantly but no I’ve never seen any person or news organization actually say this. Do you really think in todays culture if cancelling everyone someone would say that? It doesn’t make any sense. If you asked whether people said thing 50 years ago then sure, but nowadays it’s a not a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenEh my experience is that the dudes are the one torching the relationship after 2-3 months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 01:34 AM |
| 2 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenYeah I’ve only ever heard it from people complaining about it being said. I’ve never once in my life ever heard a person ACTUALLY say “if they didn’t dress slutty they wouldn’t have been assaulted”. It’s like one of those arguments no one is ever going to agree with. Wtf is actually saying that today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 01:33 AM |
| 2 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenOkay, where are you reading or seeing ANYWHERE in popular culture that women are blamed for rape? Or getting cat called? 🤣 or existing?!? Who is doing that, that’s just made up. If anyone even hints of anything a person could have done differently it’s victim blaming. I can’t even fathom that you really think this. I’ll give you the unplanned pregnancy and single motherhood. They get treated like they make poor decisions because they did. The single dads should be treated the same. They should b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 01:31 AM |
| 3 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenI’ll give you the single mom thing actually, but come on now. Have you ever in your life heard someone say “if you don’t want to get assaulted don’t dress slutty”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 11:55 PM |
| 5 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenHe’s saying that no matter what happens to a woman she’s never at fault. Here’s a few examples: Women not choosing stem? They’re being discriminated against and society is brainwashing them to choose the “gendered roles” Women paid less? It’s because of sexism. Couldn't be because they work on average 6 hours less a week than men, work less dangerous jobs than men, choose office jobs more than men and don’t negotiate their salaries Women divorce men 70%+ of the time? It’s not because they’re fic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:43 PM |
| 6 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenNot at first anyways. Over time the person appearance carries less and less weight in a relationship. Haven’t you heard the wise old adage - “find the hottest woman in the world and someone, somewhere is sick of her shit”. Same goes for dudes. Even a jacked, confident moron gets old after a minute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:33 PM |
| 3 | What do you consider a high N-count?Yeah it’s a double edged sword. Would you rather be happier not knowing about other options or less happy knowing what the other options are? Religious, conservative people are more likely yo be happier and stay together with one person their entire life. If that’s not what you want then use whatever metrics make your life better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 12:35 AM |
| 4 | What do you consider a high N-count?Data shows that people who sleep around have a much lower likelihood of being happy in their marriage and more likely to divorce. So while your theory sounds good on paper in real life it doesn’t usually work. High N count people have a difficult time staying together with just one person after they’ve been exposed to so many others sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)?Interesting, I guess it’s all different experiences. I was almost shy when it came to sex initially and the second girl I ever had sex with told me she wanted me to tell her what to do. Maybe I’ve just run into it more often than the average person. At the end of the day I’m sure we can both agree communication is key. No one should be choking/hitting/being aggressive without talking about it. Spring that on someone is fucked up | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)?Oh for sure. Anyone who just does shit to someone else without talking to them is a shitbag. Sex has to be all communication. If someone just starts choking someone else without talking to them then that’s fucked up. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 07:48 PM |
| -5 | What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)?Who said they wanted to be raped? I didn’t say that. My experience has been women like when men are aggressive in bed. I let doesn’t mean they want that in every aspect of life but I’ve heard and still hear women say “just because I want to be a boss at the office doesn’t mean I want to be a boss in the bedroom”. All of these things point to a common underlying message. I thought this wasn’t even disputable at this point. I’m honestly shocked people are disagreeing with this. Do you truly believ… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 07:46 PM |
| -1 | What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)?This is removing all agency from yourself and putting it in everyone else though. Don’t you have the ability to say what you want? Personally I think the view that women can’t chose for themselves of society makes them sound like children. I have a much higher view of women than that. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 03:32 PM |
| -8 | What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)?I’ve slept with somewhere around 30 women and I’m telling you firsthand this choking thing is not originating from guys. I thought it was weird and didn’t want to do it initially but after like the 7th or 8th girl brought up hair pulling, choking, ass slapping, it being hot when “I make them do what I want”. I realized many women want to be told what to do and be powerless in bed. Hell I remember seeing a study that something like 2/3 of women have rape fantasies. Here’s one of the studies showi… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 03:28 PM |
| 9 | You can't be the "stability guy" and expect the "casual sex guy" treatmentNah not my experience. I’ve dated hot girls, average girls and below average. I personally prefer average plus or minus a little. They’re much more engaged and wanting ti make sure you’re happy. The hot girls are great for a little while but you have less control in the dynamic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.Well yeah that lines up perfectly with the “alpha bux” that is the ideal for most women. They want a guy who is aggressive and can be an asshole to everyone else except them, because they’re so special. So take that aggressive behavior with a special soft spot for them and that soft spot means that he shares his resources/bucks with her and only her. Tell me that women wouldn’t want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"I promise you the earth is going to be fine, one way or the other. Our species is not dying. That’s such an exaggerated viewpoint. Fear really drives the masses. You’re a perfect example. I’d rather we evolve and build the technology to survive and balance out the earth than never have built society. If you’d rather be living by a fire with no technology then god bless you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Yes you could live peacefully. Probably in a cave though. That or you could live peacefully with the systems that men have already created. society wouldn’t exist without mens drive to produce. Just about everything you see around you is a product of a man who invented it, planned it, designed it and built it. Women do hardly any of those tasks. Women have their own role but it isn’t building society. So if you’re really weighing the next gain/loss of men then it’s either a society with some vio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Restrained violence is a good thing. Not being able to be violent is a bad thing. You may have this utopian view that if we’re all rational and friendly then we don’t ever need violence. Reality is filled with violence. Look at the history of the world. The strongest takes what they want. That shit still happens and can continue to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Are you replying to the right comment or person? Or do you struggle understanding things? Show me where I said men “need” to commit violence? I said internally evolution has put the capacity for violence into men. The choice to use violence is on the individual. Since it’s on the individual you cannot punish all men (your idea of “restricting mens movements”). Show me where I said it is society’s fault. You can’t because I didn’t say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 07:11 PM |
| 5 | casual heterosexual sex is most likely to be a negative experience for women who want to be happyNo one is saying eww she had sex with me too early. If she’s Beneath what he can normally get then he’ll just drop her once he’s gotten what he wants. If she hot then he’ll probably sleep with her awhile until he gets bored of her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"You’re statement of controlling movements is where this started. Police are not there to control movements of men or women who haven’t committed violence. We’re getting pretty far off track at this point. Originally you said “women have struggles too, why don’t they commit violence?”. My point was to show you that your comparison is stupid. Women never developed a need for outright violence because they had men. I’m not saying to control men or police men or lock them in cages. That doesn’t make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"No not at all. They definitely should be. The capability of violence isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Being able to control yourself and only use it when necessary is a good thing. No one wants a cop or president who is unable to defend themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Police exist to stop crime and arrest criminals, not “police mens movements”. You’re making things up. I didn’t say uncontainable. Each man have the ability to choose or not choose violence. I said men have a violent streak that exists within them. It may or may not come out but it’s there. That’s like saying women divorce more and tend not maintain a long term marriage so we should more heavily regulate their ability to marry compared to men. It all comes down to the individual and you can’t pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"And like I said, who is going to regulate it? Women? That’s laughable. How is this difficult to understand? Men aren’t going to start policing their own movements. Who is going to enforce it? Live in the real world. America is a gun heavy culture. There are 80 million guns and more being bought every day. This isn’t going away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Why don’t you read what I put. What do you think women are designed for? Men were the hunters and violence was encouraged to kill animals for the family, women tended to family/garden/home. You tell me why women don’t commit violence like men. Men have the capacity for violence. We all know this. It doesn’t mean every man is going to be violent. Just that we all have that streak somewhere in us by nature. Regulated by whom? The women? Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Women are less violent by nature due to evolution. Men were and are the protector. Its been our role since the beginning. Men are designed to do something. Nature designed us with a violent streak. Nature designed you to be more empathetic and caring. It’s not a catch all but comeon. You have to be blind to not understand the difference between evolutions pressure on men versus women. It’s like comparing the male peacock to the female and asking “but why are the female peacocks less likely to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 01:06 PM |
| 4 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks Situations🤣 normally I have more to add but that shit was hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 08:10 PM |
| 11 | The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait“Keep wifing” lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Many men nowadays don't want to date and avoid marriage because they don't want to lose their money and assets and they are afraid of having to pay child support and being able to go to jail if they do not pay itThat’s usually where the income difference starts. Women tend to stay home and men start getting promoted, start making more money. Then the wives become unhappy and fall out of love while watching the kids at home. Just you wait. Your friends are still on the front end of the marriage train, the wrecks are coming. Don’t you worry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 03:24 AM |
| 14 | Men also practice dual mating strategySee you’re thinking of it too logically. No one is saying “yes, I’m just going to fuck this girl/use this guy for a meal and leave them”. They’re subconsciously putting themselves “above” the other person. They think I’ll give this person a shot but don’t really see it working. Then once they’ve gotten what they want (sex or validation/resources) the thing they’ve gotten isn’t worth the ongoing energy. So in the moment your lovers probably were into you. I know I’ve been into women who I had a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?You’re making that up. No one has argued that women gave a “low or practically non existent sex drive”. People are saying mens sex drive is higher than womens. From the studies being posted here alone is appears that really isn’t even able to be disputed. Of course women enjoy having sex. That’s why they attempted to control it. The average woman’s sex drive isn’t as high as the average man’s sex drive, that’s pretty clear cut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Why women talks about their previous experience ?I really enjoyed this. It’s a snapshot into a typically attractive woman’s mindset. Alcohol lowers inhibition and more instinctual behavior surfaces. Things like this are all through red pill and are called shit tests. Blue pill deny this and think it doesn’t make any sense. I’d get you’ve done similar things in the past besides this one time. Just last week a had a married friend who is a woman start jokingly telling me about how she “always” swallows but now she doesn’t want to anymore because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How many of you men here are actually In shape?I’m 6’2 and about 190 LB and go to the gym 3-4 times a week. Body fat is 9-10% range. Honestly I’d like to gain about 10 more pounds of muscle but I’m in pretty good shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.They’re not rebutting the point she made. They’re grabbing something random and throwing an insult. Ok sure they’re both superficial standards. How does women liking height and money negate the previous argument? I’ll answer for you, it doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.Okay. Your OP is saying women always say “you’re not owed sex” as a rebuttal to a wide range of argument. Which is true. The initial comment said that men on PPD only value women for looks/fertility so in that light it makes sense why that would be their answer. This is is actually true as well. THEN instead of addressing their surprisingly solid answer, dufus #1 says: But women like height AND money! Haha gotcha! When everyone points out that this makes zero fucking sense and doesn’t address th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 05:20 AM |
| 30 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.Dude I lean red slightly so this has nothing to do with my leaning. This has to be one of the top five most retarded and irrelevant posts I’ve seen in here. What you’re saying makes zero fucking sense in the current conversation context. Then you think you have this “gotcha” moment by saying “make it make sense”, but you’re actually just telling everyone how you don’t actually listen and spout irrelevant shit. Women like height and money, okay, great. What does that have to do with their point? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 08:12 PM |
| 39 | Average number of sexual partners (aka ‘n-count’) ALL of the dataOh yeah that’s super reassuring. Glad he settled with the town bike | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 02:56 PM |
| 18 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?Play the cards you got! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?I manage a contract manufacturing company. Outside sales, manufacturing, quality and warehouse are mostly men. Admin, purchasing and inside sales are mostly women . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?Ok. Good observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Most cheaters dont cheat due to a lack of sex. That’s a myth and it doesnt justify cheating.“And there’s a stereotype that men love to beat and rape everyone to boost their ego” For one, no one is saying man love to beat and rape everyone. That statement doesn’t match reality. Two, who has ever said it has to do with the rapists/beaters ego? Could be a range of different things. You’re taking a stereotype of men being more likely to commit crimes, and the fear associated with that, the. adding they want to do it to everyone AND it’s all because of their ego. You don’t actually believe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 07:14 PM |
| 5 | Most cheaters dont cheat due to a lack of sex. That’s a myth and it doesnt justify cheating.lol see you were going good until you leaped off the edge there. That’s not a real stereotype | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?Updated, typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?I’d bet you grew up in middle or lower class. That seems to be the connection I see to people with that opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?That age frame is when wome have the most options. Makes sense to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Braess's Paradox: Mathematical proof that having more options can be a detriment, even in a situation where everybody is perfectly rational and has perfect information.Only something like 30% of men had offspring throughout humanity’s history. Today won’t be any different. The bottom is 2/3 of the gene pool will be filtered out by women not choosing them and the top 1/3 will get more women each or the women will be alone. That’s what it looks like is coming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 06:16 AM |
| 0 | Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular?Bad faith arguments. Waste of time. When you blatantly ignore the capitalized “we’re talking about men paying for sugar babies” you’re clearly not interested in Having an actual discussion. Best of luck in whatever echo chambers you live in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular?Oh comeon if we’re going to have a real discussion let’s quit with the hyperbolic bullshit. Do you always just take every conversation to the wildest extreme with zero common sense? Everyone keeps saying testosterone isn’t 100% but it’s a large factor. No one is saying no woman over 18 is not having sex with anyone their age. Stop with the straw man. Again, no one said any of that shit about not being attracted to women their age ever. You made that up. We’re talking about MEN PAYING FOR SUGAR B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 04:54 AM |
| 0 | Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular?Well yeah of course men want younger prettier women. They don’t want to have sex with older women their age, they’d rather a young pretty woman. Also It’s mainly about having sex with them. If you removed sex as an option for sugar babies how many men would still pay? There would be some I’m sure but nothing in the numbers like currently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 02:32 AM |
| 4 | Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular?Anyone saying it’s only one hormone and nothing else is foolish. However testosterone affects sex drive which impacts a wide range of mens behaviors. Testosterone is a major part of the equation on why women get more from men than men from women generally speaking. Men are willing to do all sorts of things to date the sex drive that testosterone is a large part of driving. Of course there are other things but to act like it’s not a large part is equally foolish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 3 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?She said ALL of the choices are shit. Out of thousands and thousands. Do you think that’s more likely or do you think she’s maybe has a broken SO picker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 04:04 PM |
| 21 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?I really don’t believe that the thousands of people you’re swiping through in a given week are ALL shit. Either you’re doing a horrible job picking or you’re doing a horrible job picking. Half of the population isn’t shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | What are some examples of female privilege?Yeah, that’s right. Men need to prove themselves in the world and women can coast easier than guys can, generally speaking. I’m saying that’s only an advantage of you want to be mediocre. If you want to run organization, create shit and be powerful then it’s better to be a man. You can decide which other you’d prefer but I’d rather take a more difficult road and be in control of my own destiny than coast along and be accepted for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | What are some examples of female privilege?Every person has their struggles. Women have their difficulties tied to gender and so do we. The easy thing to do is wallow in all the ways that society isn’t fair. The better thing to do imo is decide to not let it impact you and use to improve yourself. I used to be in the anger phase myself so I get it. I am divorced and got fucked over in the process (not to the extent of some but still). Why does this person get to keep my shit when I asked the one making everything happen? The reality is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:20 PM |
| 0 | What are some examples of female privilege?I’m saying it that it’s a harder road but at the end of the day it’s better. Women have a lower bar set for them, sure okay. It’s also not expected of them to perform and to step up. That pressure to do something in order to be something is a part of why so many men make and do cool shit. At first it’s hard but at the end of the day the pressure makes you better. Think of it in another way. Which option would you rather have? Easier road but more likely to be mediocre Harder and riskier road but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 07:29 PM |
| 22 | What are some examples of female privilege?Comeon my man. Let’s just face reality. No one loves anyone for nothing. Women generally are treated well by men because of the possibility of sex. It’s not for no reason. Sure women are accepted more easily by society but we are able to excel more easily than women, in my opinion. Women are expected to be helpers and friendly. Not people in charge. Even though people don’t accept or love me for no reason, I am perfectly fine with it. I’d rather be a doer. I’d rather be the one to build cool shi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.Em in all fairness I’m pretty normal. Gym going, job having, sports playing, girlfriend and friend having, full on normie. Let’s be real. What normal person thinks of a “bad boy” as a shorter than average dude! 🤣 come on now! Tall, dark and handsome is the saying. No woman is chasing a lil bad boy tater tot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:27 AM |
| 8 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.Being a “bad boy” has undertones of being dangerous. What 5’6” guy is giving off those vibes? He’d be laughed out of town with his small man napoleon syndrome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?No it’s not a false statement. Yeah, notice the word likely there. A woman with tattoos is more likely to be promiscuous than a woman without. That’swhat the entire post is about. This isn’t even arguable, it’s been something people have said for years and the studies back it up. Whether you like it and accept it or not doesnt really matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Men are shamed for wanting women equally or less attractive than them and acting frustrated when these women act like they are out of their league, yet women act entitled to men far more attractive than them all the timeI’ve never seen that but they also is pretty stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:42 PM |
| 11 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?Similar for me. I wonder what the thought is, maybe we hate it mother so we hate all women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?Are you responding to the right comment? Do you just say things you’ve heard before and hope they make sense? Where did I say that? Actually I said the OPPOSITE of correlation equals causation. Try reading it again. Women with tattoos TEND to have more partners (that means correlation). Tattoos and promiscuous behavior are CORRELATED. The cause could be the impulsive/rebellious decision making process that led them to do both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 01:02 PM |
| 5 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?Ok and I’m sure we have examples of people who are the exception. The truth is that generally speaking wome with tattoos are more promiscuous. Not a huge deal but it doesnt surprise me. Tattoos and promiscuous behavior are against social norms and probably tie in with similar mind sets. Doesn’t mean everyone with a tattoo is a hoe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:21 AM |
| 14 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?Lol there are studies actually showing that women with tattoos tend to have more sexual partners than those without. If all else is equal tattoos ARE something that says she’s likely promiscuous. Is it every single girl with tattoos? Of course not. But most of the women I know with tattoos were straight up hoes for some period in their life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:14 AM |
| 14 | Men are shamed for wanting women equally or less attractive than them and acting frustrated when these women act like they are out of their league, yet women act entitled to men far more attractive than them all the timeThat’s the stupidest thing I’ve seen here in awhile and that really is saying something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males nowThat’s the problem with people. They only read the title and skim everything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males nowClearly this is a shitposting. Did the elite gaming rig and boxes of Mountain Dew not give it away?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Yeah a thin fuzzy line between them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Isolation with traditional wants in feminist spacesFinally some honesty! You see all over that “feminism lets you choose” which type of relationships you want as long as is your choice. That’s a bunch of hogwash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Plenty of womenI know don’t like overly manicured men. It comes off as feminine. Men should be big strong and masculine to attract the most women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 11:41 PM |
| 4 | The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males nowThey were banned because their belief that womens nature is just as ugly as mens. That’s the whole point of this post, duh. I don’t agree with most of what they say but I read TRP occasionally. I’ve never seen a single pro murder or pro rape post. Don’t just pull shit out of your ass please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:43 PM |
| 9 | The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males nowWhy is it a problem that men tend to be promoted more than women in their careers? No one is entitled to a promotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:34 PM |
| -1 | The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males nowOh comeon. You’re really saying TRP is posting pro murder and rape posts? I’m calling bullshit unless you give some examples of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:28 PM |
| 3 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.Ok in good faith you’re saying 100% of personality and intelligence is determined by lifestyle? I am sure you know this isn’t true. Both personality and intelligence are heavily influenced by genetics. Most women in the US expect men to pay for dates. Do you really disagree with this? Also, I never said any of them were overweight, you said that. I’m blown away by all of your arguments that aren’t rooted in reality at all. Men and women don’t have equal access to sex. You must know this. The sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:59 AM |
| 4 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.Ok but personality and intelligence are a lifestyle choice? Also, no it’s not laughable, entitled or foolish at all. Insulting me doesn’t change the fact or anyones mind. It shows how regimented you are in your own ideas you can’t see reality. Life is different for women and men. We are held to different standards socially and can have different expectations for our partners. The women I’ve been with expect me to pay for dates and be financially successful. I don’t expect that from women I’m dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:42 AM |
| 8 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.I’ve never understood that whole idea of you have to check all the same boxes as your significant other. Life doesnt work like that. Women want men who make more than them. I want a woman who is better looking than I am but I could care less how much she makes. Since I’m 6’2” does that mean I can only date women who have above average height? I can want something in a partner than I don’t offer, because I offer other things. I have slept around but I don’t wont date a woman longer than a couple … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.I’ve never understood that whole idea of you have to check all the same boxes as your significant other. Life doesnt work like that. Women want men who make more than them. I want a woman who is better looking than I am but I could care less how much she makes. Since I’m 6’2” does that mean I can only date women who have above average height? I can want something in a partner than I don’t offer, because I offer other things. I have slept around but I don’t wont date a woman longer than a couple … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 01:55 AM |
| 25 | People discredit the lifetime consequences of leaving a serious LTR as a womanProbably the people on Reddit who always default to “leave him gurl you deserve so much better “ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Body count and infidelity excerptsYou’re right, those tests shit down hundreds of thousands of years of evolution and mate selecting behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:45 PM |
| 7 | Body count and infidelity excerptsLmao. Applying statistics to your own life is dumb. Smoking increases your likelihood of getting cancer. Don’t tell me how to live my life bro, my lungs could never get cancer. Don’t apply your statistics to me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Straight women who have had (or hope to have) "hookups" or "one night stands" or whatever, what made you do it? Or, what would make you do it? What attracts/attracted you to that person?Lmao, some people are so goddamn dense it’s truly unbelievable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:41 PM |
| -2 | What are the benefits to dating a red pill man?Oh come on now, what woman doesn’t like traditional gender roles? Especially in the dating stages. I can tell you many blue pulled women in the real world don’t consider dating gender roles playing games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Complaints about the friendzone and about being used for sex are just as entitled as each other, either they're both entitled or none of them are.The word casual is a poor choice of word for what I’m describing. If I’m sleeping with a woman I’ll will also treat her well. I would keep distance and never meet family/work/friends and reinforce that I’m not going to commit to monogamy but still pay for her dinner when we go out and go see a baseball game together. If you can’t unravel that then I don’t know what to say to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 08:15 PM |
| – | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."Can you empathize with someone on the other side of this and understand why it would be a problem for some people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 6 | Complaints about the friendzone and about being used for sex are just as entitled as each other, either they're both entitled or none of them are.I’ve done the same thing. If someone isn’t listening to what you’re saying and deciding that you actually want something different than what you want, then that’s on them. Why wouldn’t it be okay to go do cool things together/grab dinner if you’re open any not being committed to that person? The person has many opportunities to talk about how they aren’t interested in it want something non committed. The word casual is bad, if I’m sleeping with a girl I treat her well. That doesn’t mean I automa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Complaints about the friendzone and about being used for sex are just as entitled as each other, either they're both entitled or none of them are.How is going and doing things together and having sex courting behavior? I’ve done the same thing. If someone isn’t listening to what you’re saying and deciding that you actually want something different than what you want, then that’s on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."But let’s be honest. If you see someone doing on thing for ten years and not including you then it doesn’t work out for them and suddenly they want to include you, what would you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:01 PM |
| 7 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?Imagine having a 6’6” 260lb dude come over and get aggressive, grab your ass/dick. You would be scared because you could be overpowered. When a 5’5” 140lb woman grabs my ass and I don’t want her to, is it annoying? Yes. Am I in fear? No. No one is saying that it is okay or acceptable for anyone to grab anyone. The reality of it is that women are much more vulnerable than men are, generally speaking. That’s why your friends laughed. I think men should be taken seriously but generally speaking we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Men are blamed for everythingOkay let’s not speak if 100% absolutes. I said just about any woman. Of course there are exceptions. In the majority of western societies women who want to sleep around can rack up a gigantic ass number in a short period of time. Women who are ugly sleep with attractive dudes all the time. In college they call it bottom feeding or hog hunting, it’s not unusual. If you agree that both the average and promiscuous women can on average have an easier time being a slut than an average and promiscuous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Men are blamed for everythingIt’s because men and women are different. They have different bodies, behaviors(generally) and societal expectations. It’s only logical there are different standards for each. Women have a lot more to risk. The biological side like pregnancy, more likely to get STDs then the social side where their reputation could be damaged. Women also don’t orgasm as often as men so they’re doing these things with a roll of the dice with how good the man is at sex. Men don’t have the same level of risks. He c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women.That’s the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Men are blamed for everythingThat’s the difference. Just about any woman can be a slut at any time with no work. She can download tinder/hinge/bumble and have sex with a couple dudes a day. That’s not possible for the vast, vast majority of men. If there is only a small subsection of men (lucky genetics, wealthy families as you put it) that can pull that off then it clearly means two entirely different things to the opposite sexes. So even if you say that the top percentage of men don’t need to work hard, it’s still a diffi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 03:29 AM |
| 7 | When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women.Oh no def don’t narrow it down to a country. They would know for sure who you were then. Heaven forbid a city! Only a couple million people to filter through! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 03:17 AM |
| 15 | When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women.Ahh I believe that is referred to as dual mating strategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 03:11 AM |
| 8 | Men are blamed for everythingThat’s because being a slut is easy and being a stud is hard. Women generally don’t want to sleep with anyone/everyone and men do. Yes it’s a double standard. Yes the double standard exists for a reason and IMO is perfectly acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 12:12 AM |
| 0 | A guy doesn't have to be handsome to be sexually attractiveI’m right with you. It looks like three paragraphs were pulled from different convos and tossed together. Then they say they explained enough. Wonder what that persons thought process looks like. Can’t be very coherent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 06:15 AM |
| 4 | CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do.Eh, it’s a universal thing that happens. Nearly all serial killers that are locked up have women that wore them love letters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 03:08 AM |
| 4 | People really do have a "type" when it comes to romantic attraction. According to a study, 50% of people’s preferences for faces is unique to them, and who we find attractive is most strongly influenced by our life experiences.Gays are like 2% of the population, I doubt they are ever going to have a major influence on the majority perspective of attraction. Of course in their slice of the world it’ll be a big deal but I don’t see them affecting the majority that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 01:08 AM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What kind of environment did you grow up in - and how did it affect your view of dating?Same as your point of the school shooter. He was probably ostracized and treated like shit for a long time to snap but that doesn’t make what he does acceptable. He’s 100% responsible for his actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsStrong argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsYes you should blame the parents, you should also blame fully grown women who are manipulating tweens. If you don’t think there’s anything wrong with it then I don’t know what else there is to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:53 AM |
| 7 | How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?!Ahh so now it’s not “everyone knows how to lick and rub” it’s everyone should try. I agree everyone should try, everyone should also communicate what they like and don’t like. It’s the only way sex gets better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 03:36 PM |
| 10 | How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?!The problem is women don’t like to be rubbed and licked the same way. Even here not that long ago some women were saying their clit was so sensitive you couldn’t actually touch it directly because it was too much. Then replying to that was other women saying how they liked it. So no everyone doesn’t know exactly how you specifically like to be licked and rubbed. It takes, get ready for this, communication. Communication on your part to say what you actually like amd not expect people to automati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 03:25 PM |
| 11 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeWait, did anyone actually say that or are you just making up an argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.I guess it’s like a beta with alpha sprinkled in or an alpha with some beta sprinkled in. Like the so called alpha bucks. It’s a woman’s dream of taming a wild guy who no one else can. Women are constantly trying to do that in real life and failing but of course in the fantasy world it would make perfect sense to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.Women want an alpha bucks. They have the nature of an alpha and spend money to take care of women like a beta. The red pill has said that for a long time. The problem is in the real world there aren’t that many of those. A beta isn’t only spending money. It’s the weak qualities that go along with that. In a romance novel why wouldn’t women want the best of both worlds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.You’re zeroing in on “spend money = beta” idea and that’s just not how it works. It’s one factor of many and I think you know. A beta is someone who isn’t aggressive, is a pushover, is weak, spends resources because they lack the alpha qualities. The typical “nice guy”. Just because a guy spends money on a woman alone isn’t the entire story. What a women really wants is the alpha bucks. Red pill has always said that is what women searching for. Women settle for beta bucks because they can’t find… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:34 PM |
| 15 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.That’s the whole point of the books. It’s well known women want to be taken care of. These books are teaching Women they’re so special that even vampires and werewolves will fight their true nature because of how magical and special she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:24 PM |
| 10 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.You’re missing the whole point of these novels. The story is cut and paste basically and doesn’t agree with you. You should read the book “a billion wicked thoughts” it explains this well. The men in these stories are rich, powerful and assholes to everyone. The men are always rich alphas and assholes to everyone expect for the protagonist. The novels then create a made up world where these rich, powerful assholes are magically changed by the protagonists “woo factor”. The selling point of these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:19 PM |
| 13 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?That video is so dumb. It’s the entirely wrong approach to the topic. Feminism says “women are the biggest victims” because of XY and Z. MRA say “men are the biggest victims” because of XY and Z. This guy is still in the stupid position of trying to argue about being the biggest victim. Doesn’t anyone see how fucking stupid that even is? No one gives a fuck who the biggest victim is. Men have advantages in some areas and disadvantages in some areas. Women have advantages in some areas and disadv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 02:11 AM |
| 5 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Yeah I’m making up all the articles of women complaining there are no good men. you’re right, caught me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 08:10 PM |
| 4 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Man what a depressing outlook you have. You should stay alone forever, I bet that’ll work really well for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Lol good for her. She’ll end up being alone and feeling used afterwards too. You’re right she’s such a winner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 08:07 PM |
| 7 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?😂😂😂 nothing more disgusting than a 220LB land whale who thinks she’s hot. Three chins and wolfing down some jack in the box but convinced she’s a queen whose beautiful at any size 😂😂 Fat disgusting guys are equally as bad But luckily for guys women care more about how much they make so they can be fat and still have women. Women are judged on their looks as the base of their worth so If they’re fat then they have nothing left. Listen Lisa you’re 240LB no one gives a fuck if you make $100k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 05:59 PM |
| 8 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Let me fix that for you: 1) make more than I do and buy me things/take care of me (funny how you spin that as not broke). Also everyone note how this is #1 2)respect, sure everyone should respect their SO 3)I don’t have to deal with their BFs emotions 4)This seems fair 5) the women I know who complain about meeting boring guys have zero hobbies and are boring as fuck the selves. Their “having a conversation” means they want to be entertained. Are you one of those “Make me laugh” types 6) oh yeah… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Lmao yet you’re the one who’s posting conclusions from an article that are completely fucking wrong. Talk about delusional Try searching “woman can’t find a good man” and see what you find. The world is increasingly filled with women in mid to late 30s searching for a man and lamenting how there are “no good men”. These women are usually average looking with average incomes but they think and act like they’re some hot thing who deserves some hot guy to take care of them, ie their “Prince Charmin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 05:23 PM |
| 4 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Did you read that? She’s talking about how none of the women in her group were single at that age by choice 😂 Women generally want to find a partner. Their problems are their standards are too high for what they bring to the table and no one is ever good enough. Then when they’re 42 and alone they “decide” they actually wanted to be single ALL ALONG! shocker how that works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:26 PM |
| 17 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?Oh god, now the people who say libtards and repubidiots are making up stupid fucking words here now too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:13 PM |
| 2 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Ok so you are openly dying here that you’re trying to take what you can from the other side. Then you’re confused how anyone could possibly disagree with what FDS teaches. You are really actually saying that women should gold dig and men aren’t victims if you openly advocate use them for their money? How could you possibly be confused that people have negative views of FDS with that viewpoint. Are you surprised that TRP is teaching things like this to protect themselves against gold diggers like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 07:58 AM |
| 3 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Oh come on don’t be naive/disingenuous. Iff you don’t believe that FDS teaches women to chase men with dollars you’re one of the two. What is a high value man? High, average or low earning? FDS says the man has to pay for everything right? Also that coffee dates are bullshit first dates. So if the man is taking women out and paying for everything do you he is likely to be low earning? Have you ever once heard FDS say “it doesn’t matter what he makes, as long as he treats you right”? That’s laugh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Women are so terrified of being taken advantage for sex, and men are so terrified of being taken advantage of for money/paying for dates, when the answer is simple:But all of the studies show that is patently false. It’s something like 40% of men and 40% women are having 80% of all the sex. The growing sexless affects both men and women. I’ll see if I can find a few studies but the data doesn’t say what you think. Do you have any data that says 80-85% of women are only having sex with 5-20% of men? Because that seems like total bullshit to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 07:40 PM |
| 3 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?Look at the ratio of women caring about money vs not caring about money. You can hold out hope you stumble into the minority of women and they’ll take care of you financially long term but the reality is women want to be taken care of generally. You working retail and barely making enough to cover your life doesn’t give you much to take care of her with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Women are so terrified of being taken advantage for sex, and men are so terrified of being taken advantage of for money/paying for dates, when the answer is simple:In Orange County, CA but had the same experiences when I lived in Denver, New York and when I traveled for work all across the US. Places like the twin cities in MN, Kansas City, Charlotte or Austin. I think you have to have pictures where you’re doing shit and look like a fun person and have a funny bio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Women are so terrified of being taken advantage for sex, and men are so terrified of being taken advantage of for money/paying for dates, when the answer is simple:It’s not that unusual for a guy to have some sort of options. Most of my friends and myself all can find dates and hookups with some effort. Maybe there’sa certain type of guy here on Reddit and there’s this Narrative that only the top men can hookup or get any attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Women are so terrified of being taken advantage for sex, and men are so terrified of being taken advantage of for money/paying for dates, when the answer is simple:That’s an interesting point. The paradox of choice makes everyone feel like there’s another, better option right around the corner. I recently started shutting off the app once I setup a date with someone. I’ve noticed I never end up being happy with who I’m with if I’m texting with other women at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | QFW: A man going to therapy is a redflag?Wouldn’t a normal guy say that about dating you if you are depressed/have your own issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | QFW: A man going to therapy is a redflag?The big red flag there is that the guy was asking for assurances from a girl. That’s like rule number 3 after rules 1&2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 08:56 PM |
| 4 | What percent of women are AWALT?I believe the gentleman said “40-60%”. If you take the middle number of his range that would give you 50%. I’m here to help my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:34 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.A women with a high n count doesn’t have to have anything going for her except to have a vagina. A man has to attract women. Be funny, charismatic, successful, fit or some combo. That means there aren’t the same characteristics for high n count in men and women. Women need to show restraint, that is what keeps a women at a low number when she could rack up the number easily. Men want women who can show restraint. Women want men who are better than them in some way. Women aren’t attracted to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.You use the work achieve. Do You actually understand how all this works? You do realize it’s easy for women to rack up a high number and difficult for men to do? It’s harder for women to have a lower count than for men to. You’re not acknowledging the fact that sex is entirely different for women and men. Being a slut is easy being a stud is hard. That’s the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing?It seems like you have a very specific way people should react to/feel about being insulted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?The sneaky quiet types that slept with the whole baseball team and hide their past from their husband are the worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 03:22 PM |
| 13 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?Those are the worst types! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?Ok cool, I’m not red pill so good for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?Stop crying about being a victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?Lmao then stop crying about being a victim and be a good grown up who manages their own behaviors instead of it always being the systems fault. You type are like overgrown children. So easily manipulated by ads, crying because they used a pretty woman in an ad instead of an overweight slob. Glad you’re recognizing not everything and all sunshine and rainbows and you actually need to be aware of the downsides. Stepping towards adulthood! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?Victims of capitalism? You’re so deluded this is going to be difficult. You understand that as a women you are the most free of anytime in history and anyplace in history? You understand that western, capitalistic societies are the ones responsible for leveling the playing field? So you’re demonizing the society that gave you the ability have any right whatsoever. And you’re a victim because…why? You’re “forced” to buy things? No one is forcing you to read this shit and buy the shit they’re tryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 08:01 PM |
| 16 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?I wonder if her husband knows this story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Latest stats on sexlessnessThe average time a guy lasts is 3 minutes lol Those better be 3 heavenly minutes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?Lmao. Im fully understanding what your saying and adding information to it. You’re a dumb one, mr grinch. So we agree, the point is that women are not as mentally robust as men as they ATTEMPT to kill themselves (though failing) more often than men. They also experience mental illness more often than men. Im done talking to you. When you can’t read the stats and understand basic concepts it’s pointless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:00 PM |
| 0 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?With how adamantly stupid you are I’m not surprised you’re misinformed. Someone hands you data on a platter and you “won’t read that garbage” because you don’t like reality. Let me guess, you are a woman under the age of 25??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?Omg you are dense. I wrote this for you already twice now. It’s written there right above TWO TIMES. let’s break it down again, maybe even simpler. Women TRY to kill themselves more often than men do. They fail at it. That means women are experiencing emotions strong enough to try and take their own lives MORE OFTEN than men do. Women just happen to fail at things more often than men. Can you understand this? Or is this concept beyond you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?Ok, do you actually know how to read? Stop and read above what I wrote again. More women try to commit suicide than men, they just happen to fail at it more often. That MEANS women are trying to kill themselves but just are inept. Here’s a snip from a study, moron: Mental Health Gender Differences: Women (10.4%) are twice as likely as men (5.5%) to be diagnosed with depression (Brody, 2018). Women are twice as likely as men to experience generalized anxiety disorder or panic disorder (Richards, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?Dumb as a stump this one is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?You still haven’t made a single point on why women struggle with mental illness so much more than men. But you keep believing you strong women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?Ok let’s do this again. You said: “Most women develop manipulative tactics from a very young age to survive. Cleopatra would have been raped and murdered in her teens by enemies on all sides, had she not developed these skills. To call survival strategies born out of ruthless necessity a 'delicacy' is a misunderstanding.” I said: “So what are you saying? Women need to manipulate to survive? You can’t just work and climb the ladder amd live a normal life? You need to manipulate people to not be r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?“To” “Losing brain cells” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:07 AM |
| -1 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?Quit being dense. You can continue to sidestep the reality of it makes you feel better. Obviously you’re not going to take anything in. women struggle with self esteem and the many other mental illnesses much more than men. Why do you think that is? Because women are more mentally robust than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?Women try to kill themselves more than men but fail at it. Do you truly not get it or are you being dense on purpose? Ok so women struggle with mental illness more. Let me ask again. Do you think this couple possibly mean they’re maybe not as mentally robust? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:50 AM |
| -1 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?Women are disproportionately affected by anxiety, depression, and eating disorders. Don’t you think that means they maybe aren’t as mentally robust? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?So what are you saying? Women need to manipulate to survive? You can’t just work and climb the ladder amd live a normal life? You need to manipulate people to not be raped and murdered? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:30 AM |
| 6 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?Strong argument, very compelling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:26 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill isn't hatefulOk I’m not the person around with you but the obvious response to this is what do you mean when you say you are red pilled? Doesn’t that mean you understand the true nature of women? If it is then would you explain what facts there are, not opinions, and if those facts help or hurt men being able to have a healthy relationship with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:20 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] it is impossible for an unattractive male to be happy romantically.Not to the extent women are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 03:28 AM |
| -2 | [CMV] it is impossible for an unattractive male to be happy romantically.Why is there always a battle of “who has it worse” here? Women have life shittier in some areas and men have life shittier in some areas. Why can’t we both acknowledge that and have a little empathy for the other side? I’m a dude and recognize there are things I have an advantage on. No one judges me for how I look, it’s easier for me to be in charge, I can approach whoever I want. Women have a way stronger advantage in dating and their social life. It’s apples and oranges man. Men get stepped o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 02:37 AM |
| 9 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?This is terrible. Imagine the whole world was as confident as the overweight middle aged high school football star who never did anything with his life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 11:34 PM |
| 0 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?I wish single people walked around with a flower on their lapel so you could just approach whoever you found attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 11:33 PM |
| 2 | In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy?Wow I’ve never seen this stereotype before. I’m interested in seeing this out in the wild. Here in the US it’s the women with camels, with fur babies, yoga pant, luvs traveling and hiking and wanting someone who can make them laugh. I’m not sure what the men’s stereotypes are online as I don’t see them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How self improvement (for men) can lead to negative results.Do you mean women don’t decide how they act themselves? Or that men influence women’s behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How self improvement (for men) can lead to negative results.I genuinely don’t get what you’re driving at. So you think you don’t have to sort through people and “find” the best one? So how would you go about getting into a relationship with a decent person if you’re not “looking” to “find” the right one that is non-shallow and worth dating long term? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Her n and infidelity (revised)Nothing more loyal than a slut in love. There’s the problem though. They fall out of this super passionate love as easily as they fall in. That’s when they cheat. That’s the whole point actually. People who fuck around a lot before settling down don’t stay satisfied for the long haul. It’s not about how they act when they’re fully “in love”. A relationship/marriage isnt always just highs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?No not unreasonable. You can only find the top 1% most attractive people good looking but then you’ll struggle to find a mate. Just don’t complain if you’re standards don’t match what you’re bringing to the table and no one is interested in anything but short term sex, pump and dump relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 07:22 PM |
| -1 | Developed countries are living in a global dating market, and it has having detrimental affects on men and women. CMVI’m talking more on your second half “sexless ness” thing. Your attitude shows that having sex doesn’t take much effort/energy if you nonchalantly dismiss it. Men in general don’t have that take. I agree that ugly people/people who carry damaged genes should have more difficulties reproducing too. It’s just nature at work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 06:49 PM |
| -1 | Developed countries are living in a global dating market, and it has having detrimental affects on men and women. CMVI’m going to guess you’re a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Women, how many female friends do you know that have had casual sex while on a trip?Yea when I was traveling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 9 | Women, how many female friends do you know that have had casual sex while on a trip?Where did you get that info? Not a single one of them told me they were in a relationship or married. I’m sure some of them could have been but I’m not going to know that without them telling me. The girl that that would say going out with the girls to her family/friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Women, how many female friends do you know that have had casual sex while on a trip?Honestly I have no idea if they were all married. I know for sure most of them weren’t because I went to their place but not sure about all of them. They didn’t wear rings or talk about husbands I can say that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 01:59 PM |
| 9 | Women have it easier because they have inherent valueMaybe not delusions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 01:39 AM |
| 14 | Women have it easier because they have inherent valueGreat point. Women are the screen to filter out the weak genes from passing to the next generation. It makes total sense biologically why women always want the top men. Throughout history only 40% of men have reproduced. So it’s nothing new that women select the best men. The unchosen just have a bigger voice with the internet now. At the end of the day it’s on us men to step out game up and be good enough to not be filtered out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 01:37 AM |
| 10 | Women have it easier because they have inherent valueThat’s more of a thing of expectations. Men are generally content with less. If men planned the weddings would they be $20-30k+? Guarantee the vast majority of spending is coming from the women. They have a much higher expectation of how that day is supposed to go so their friends work to uphold that. If women are the reason they need to spend more time, effort and energy then you can use it as a negative if the groomsmen aren’t doing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 01:31 AM |
| 14 | Women, how many female friends do you know that have had casual sex while on a trip?It was shocking to me to see this first hand when traveling for work. I hooked up with more women in freakier ways than I ever had previously. One women told her friends/family she’s was “going out with the girls” whenever I was in town lol, it was a running joke with us. Maybe it was the likelihood of them being able to fuck around and have no one know? I’m not sure why but it was easier and I would sometimes connect up with them when I visited that city again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Like I said, I do what’s good for me and mine. You do what’s good for you and yours. All is fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Nope will never be sued, I’ll never say it at work. I keep plenty of paper trails so it’ll always be their fault they didn’t get promoted. So sexism with benefits goes both ways. It’s a dog eat dog world so you take your free meals and I’ll take my (and my protégés) lifetime of higher earning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 06:50 PM |
| 6 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Oh well benefits me, guess I’ll keep it. Guess we both have the same attitude so it’s fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 06:41 PM |
| 11 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?I guess I’m sexist too. I promote the men who work for me before the women. It benefited me so yes I’ll keep doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The sex life of the average man pre free love movement was much worse than todayThis seems completely made up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:03 PM |
| 4 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?If you look at low n count and high n count as two distinct groups(let’s use 5 as an arbitrary number) then yes you can in fact say that higher n count women(and men) are generally in fact not as virtuous as low count. High n count women cheat at a significantly higher rate than lower n count women. That means it isn’t a load of crap, it’s reality. Whether you accept it or not doesn’t change it. If you happen to find a higher n count women that doesn’t negate the reality that women who engage in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Another FDS vs TRP postLook at the statistics. Men marry across and down financially. Women marry across and up. This is fact. I’ve seen plenty of stories about the “lack of quality men” for all of these high earning ladies. This is commonly known. Surprising you haven’t factored this into your ultra high level analysis of TRP and FDS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Actually I’m doing great. Have plenty of options and am currently dating a girl that hits some of the generalizations but not all of them. I’m sure most people fall into that category | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Ok let’s think about this for just a second. You’re saying there is too much variability for any one person to make judgements. The only way to better understand the market/what the dating world looks like as a whole is to look at things through a generalized lens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Says studies that look at how women perceive bisexual men. Bisexual men are viewed as less masculine, desired less for dating and for sex, land also rated lower for attractiveness. Don’t act like I’m making it up, it’s women who are saying this. As far as why is it biological. You have to listen to the reasons they say they don’t like bisexual men. Large groups of women are using the same language to describe why they don’t like it. They’ll use the word ick factor, gross, feminine among others s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?It’s not about finding all men/women. We’re not specifically talking about trying to find anyone. We’re talking about characteristics of a group of people. That group can be generalized as it generally ha certain behavior traits. It’s more to understand what the likelihood of running into certain things in the world. If we’re trying to zero in on one specific person you’re never going to get enough information. You would need to find out that individuals preferences and judge from there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Ok. So dialogue means a back and forth conversation. You saying something and then not replying after is not dialogue. I was trying to clarify if we were actually agreeing. Maybe monologues and snarky retorts are just more your thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Do you always make these snarky little comments instead of having actual dialogue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?If you’re saying that trans and binary genders are natural and that people are disgusted by them then yeah I agree with you. If something isn’t natural and in tune with our base level then it’s perfectly fine to not be attracted to it. I’d even go so far as to say the ick factor/disgust that people feel when certain things about the other sex come up is perfectly fine. It’s our bodies telling us that what we see in the other gender is fucked at some fundamental level and beware. So yeah I’m on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?I don’t follow what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?There are different rules for men and women because we’re different and that’s perfectly okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 08:40 PM |
| 7 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Oh come on. Because some women anonymously say they’d date a bi dude doesn’t change what we all know to be true. The majority of women are disgusted by the idea of fucking a dude who’s slept with other guys. Generalities exist because generally they’re true. No one is saying every single woman but it’s okay to say generalized statements if a behavior is generally true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Nah I don’t think so. These something instinctual And biological about it I think. Women generally want a masculine man and a guy who’s getting fucked/fucking other dudes is not masculine. That’s not something you will ever talk be out of disliking because it’s buried so deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?It’s so interesting to me how people try so hard to make men and women be exactly the same and the reality of it is that men are women are different. We should have different standards and be treated differently. Everyone should be treated with dignity but equality doesn’t mean no variation. It comes out in a thousand different ways but at the end it the day men are going to be judged more harshly than women on some things and women will be judged more harshly than men on some things. These judg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Women do not want sex as much as men do, otherwise we'd overpopulate the world within a generationSo you’re agreeing that women have lower sex drives than men? It seems logical to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | At what point does a mans acquired economic power overtake a womans inherited sexual power?See this is the part I don’t get. I’d rather build something of my own from scratch with my own sweat and blood than scrounging for scraps from a masters table because I’m essentially a lazy slob. I guess this is why ego is a good and bad thing. It makes you want more and think you don’t deserve to be a warm fuck hole that you trade for dignity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Do you have any preferences regarding periods for a potential LTR?Hmm that doesn’t make sense to me. If a man and woman do the same steps to help fix a problem then why wouldn’t it be effective? Women can empathize more with what it’s like to have a vagina but it seems odd that you feel you have to have vagina in order to understand and fix vagina problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well?I’m a guy but ended up single at 30, this was my ex’s scenario. She was with a guy before me for a few years then with me for a little over 10 years. We broke up and she immediately got into another long term relationship. So I think there are a couple camps of women who are single at that age. The first is the kind that have never had a long term relationship(over a year say) and are continually pumped and dumped/after casual sex and then the second camp is the women who are single for a small … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.No personal attacks fuckhead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Question for those in this sub who keep saying partying and drinking is the key to finding partners and casual sex....Eh personally I think that’ll happen for a portion of the population and a lot of them won’t end up reproducing. I think long term things split between the types of people who live through electronics and those who don’t. Things will balance out eventually and the people who don’t live their entire lives through a screen will be healthier mentally and physically than those who do. Over time interacting through electronics will be a larger part of the human experience of course but we live in bod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 10:30 PM |
| 9 | Question for those in this sub who keep saying partying and drinking is the key to finding partners and casual sex....It seems like you only learn about life through the internet, not actually going out. This shit is way disconnected from real life. If that’s your viewpoint then good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:36 PM |
| 10 | I’m starting to believe FDS is right, men really do have an inherit disdain for womenOk if you’re looking back in history through the lens of today you’re never going to understand it. In history whoever was strongest took what they wanted and made the rules. Societies weren’t concerned about the human rights of anyone weaker than them: men, women or children. The strongest men would enslave & kill weaker men and women. Biologically women are weaker than men so they were never on top. The truth is that women are weaker and that’s why they were controlled. Whatever weaker men had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Is the 80:20 Pareto distribution real when it comes to relationships?I lean red but you can’t make numbers up for your argument. Where did you hear that 20% of men get 80% of the sex? what you’re saying is patently false. The top twenty percent of men (and women) have something like 50-60% of the sex. These are artists I’ve read here in this subreddit so I’m sir you can find them. Is there a smaller group of men that have disproportionately more sex than the average? Yes that is definitely true. The same is also true for women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 12:29 AM |
| 3 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?I’ve seen studies on the subreddit that women who engage in casual sex tend to have lower esteem. Wonder why that study says unfounded stereotype | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill thoughts that women typically haveNo that’s exactly the same thing that post said. The post said women think having a successful career makes them attractive. Now soak that in and then compare it to what xtodoubt just wrote. “Again, I don't know how to be more clear. When women struggle in dating, they point to their career success and are confused as to why they fail.” So both the OP and xtodoubt are confirming the same behavior. Women will have no success with men and then comment they’re so “successful” and a good catch, why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 04:14 PM |
| 15 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.That’s a depressing outlook man. I’ve been with multiple girls that had higher sex drives than me. The girl I’m with now masturbates like twice a day and gets annoyed if we don’t have sex for longer than a couple days. Women’s sex drive is less predictable than men’s I’ll give you. There have been women I’ve been with who don’t seem to love sex, like it’s something to use as a reward, but that isn’t all women, not by a stretch. Maybe your experience has just been with women who weren’t actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates?Weird to assume that’s what’s he’s assuming. This post is clearly only for the single mother focused lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 03:11 AM |
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