| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Feminism has made men weakNa men constantly need a stronger man to look up too and follow, and in a world where everyone is lost and is finding themselves a lot of men fall off hard. If more men built a backbone for themselves and stop catering to society and their lust for female validation and lived lives worth fulfilling to them we would not be in this mess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Doing household chores do not make men sexually attractive, but they're still important for a relationshipFellas, is it gay to clean your house? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 01:01 PM |
| 28 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Men don’t want to view women as a reward, so when they reach 30 and are successful (the few who are), they feel resentment that the increase in attention from women, comes from the fact it’s because of the wealth and not from the innate character of the man himself. Nobody likes to be objectified, even men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 12:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: People try to blame their personal problems on society. For females, it’s usually their self-esteem. For males, it’s usually their dating problems.That’s so true, once I get out of college and start building genuine relationships, my male problems would cease to exist honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 12:16 AM |
| 2 | The greenpill is a true and genuine solution to modern datingNa just because a few women do that don’t mean that it’s a reality. I don’t define myself by the metrics of masculinity we men put on each other. If a girl wants to live for the thrills I’m not her man, and either way I wouldn’t even wanna be friends with a girl like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | The greenpill is a true and genuine solution to modern datingYou have a good point. I have a condescending belief that my way of what love is should be done by everyone. At the end of the day a person finding love should be a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 09:56 PM |
| 2 | The greenpill is a true and genuine solution to modern datingAs a man living in America, it’s the only way I can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 09:54 PM |
| 2 | The greenpill is a true and genuine solution to modern datingI view the passport bro situation cringe. Like do men even find a common bond or connection with women overseas? The love formed is one built off of dominance and wealth. I think it’s better for men to pick better women or not even date at all. I can’t see myself getting with a woman who I didn’t grow alongside on my journey to maturity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Most problems in this subreddit are caused by people not knowing how men/women really are“The will to change: men, masculinity and love” and “All about love” Quite frankly these books made me realize that the performance that we men have to do in order to be loved by society is pointless and to live a life that gives personal meaning. I’m ok with being lonely because the women in my life are toxic and enforce a masculinity that brings harm to myself and others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Most problems in this subreddit are caused by people not knowing how men/women really areRead Bell Hooks, she gives a really well educated analysis as to why we as men and women act the way we are because of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 04:19 PM |
| 15 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexMen who say this make no sense. To want a woman with a low body count, but at the same time whenever they date, the woman should give up without properly vetting the man. They listen to too many podcasts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?Totally forgot to put in the disclaimer that I actually have a girlfriend and I was comparing my experiences being single and alone to the idea of only being seem through sexual lenses. But good on you for lacking the ability to empathize. Immediately went to “you’re an incel” in a conversation where I’m trying to understand the views of someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?Empathy really does go a long way lol. And perhaps you are right. I think we can both agree that no one deserves to be used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?And that too. I think this is something I have to experience in order to fully understand. However I’ll never get to experience it because I’m a guy. I’m sorry you have struggles in relationships, I do hope it works out for you in the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:25 PM |
| 5 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?Trust me, I view being used and being alone as two evils, so as a man who experienced loneliness and nobody wanting to be around you because you are useless, I view being used for sex as a better evil. You have the power to choose who has sex with you, and it overall feels good that other people notice you, that you aren’t alone. Plus being used for sex means your closer to being in a long term relationship, than being objectively ignored and alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?NGL I would be lying if I didn’t already think of this. I just want to hear her perspective before I put in mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:03 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?Easy yes. You shouldn’t have options in a relationship. It’s disrespectful to your partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?You make a good point calling out the fact that men project their own sexual failures onto women when talking about relationships. But to shamelessly continue on the projection, I think the reason why men talk about how women getting easy access to sex makes most of their problems invalid, is because to have easy access to sex means that you get a lot attention, which increases the likelihood of you being in a relationship. And I guess it’s because I’m male, but I’d rather have a ton of attentio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?I’m really curious as to how the dating process for you goes. I always assume that even “mid” women get a ton of options, so at least someone will come into your life with serious intentions. But to you it clearly isn’t, and there is something I’m not understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?Through my experience I don’t think ugly women exist. There is a man interested in almost every woman that I interact with. Is what I would say if I didn’t just realized that I completely missed the point. I truly don’t know the plight of the unattractive woman. I always believed that being in a relationship is easy, but the “being used” part is a rarity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:38 PM |
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