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Hahaha, I have to ask now? What is your gender/biological sex? It's hard to believe a man refuses to acknowledge the friend zone. I also think the phrase "nice guy" is thrown around too much. Nice guys are good guys. Imagine dating someone that doesn't cause you stress and tries to make sure that you're well taken care of. Women don't want that, and Patrice O'Neal says that constantly. Women hold sex over mens' heads all the time. Let's call it how it is. I think an open racist is less dangerous…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:26 AM
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First, Tariq Nasheed is a clown. Kevin Samuels is a bigger clown (and probably gay). The guys from Fresh and Fit are the biggest clowns. I mentioned the friend zone example earlier, but I guess that didn't connect. Please, tell me, the black person that has experienced different communities, how a woman wastes a man's time by looming a relationship (sex) over his head different between blacks and whites. Opie is essentially your stereotype blue-pulled guy. He got some success and bought nice stu…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 02:28 AM
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See, I'm a firm believer (as I've seen this with female friends IRL) that relationships have a system. Now obviously, not everyone has to follow that system, but you will reap what you sow. What Patrice says about men and women is almost 100% true. That's not coming from a toxic redpiller but from a guy who's dated women from different cultures and has female friends. I think that women (and men) get mad when you speak negative truths equated as generalizations. For example, if I tell men they n…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:53 AM
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I love how "he" tried to threaten you with "his" mod status.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:37 AM
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I appreciate the disclaimer that he's an outside observer even though Patrice O'Neal has fans of all races. He was on a radio show with two whites guys who held vastly different opinions on him. His assumption that because he's white, he can't relate to or understand is unrealistic. For example, he made a video about being in the friend zone. I don't know a single guy out there that hasn't been put into the friend zone, white, black, or otherwise. I believe his message feeds into the whole idea …
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:36 AM
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Patrice O'Neal is the saddest loss we've had in a community that needs men like him. His word isn't Bible, but he's definitely more healthy for men than any pick-up artist or red pill peon.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:25 AM
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Are they internet narcissists, or are they diagnosed?
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:19 AM
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I've noticed the opposite, not just in my own life but in the lives of other men as well. Men have female friends, but their friends aren't honest with them. Most girls say a combination of three things when you ask them about what makes a guy attractive. "He has to make me laugh, he has to be good looking (physically), and/or he has to be nice. I know the phrase "nice guy" is thrown around a lot, but there are plenty of genuinely nice guys that get rejected because they go too far to please/pro…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 11:49 AM
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This isn't that important but... A) Travel more. There's a surprisingly large number of male prostitution. It is primarily for gay men, however... well, no need to get into details. B) You said it yourself that people want someone better than themselves in looks. Wouldn't that apply to women as well. So let's say a woman's a 5; wouldn't she want a 6? Haha, or does hypergamy only apply to men? The initial post was supposed to be positive. How did you take this as unfavorable?
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 05:24 PM
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u/imnotakep referred to it as model physique. I understand there's such a thing as too skinny. Eating disorders such as anorexia and bulimia are terrible. There is still a defined body fat percentage and bone muscle fat density that is considered healthy. I don't see why everyone's throwing a fit because one person online said they like healthy, fit people. If you don't want to discuss numbers because those are relatively subjective (my healthy weight isn't the same as a guy who is 6'4), let's t…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 07:38 AM
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Myself doesn't matter because I'm a part of the majority that finds healthy people attractive. I don't even have to look up the numbers of obese people dating "healthy" people. Anyone can go outside and look around and see the truth. The most objectively attractive people (aka the models), which look healthy, are usually with other healthy people. Are their outliers, of course, but the outliers are the minority. There are also significantly more men dating/married to obese women. Why? Because mo…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 02:30 AM
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No, says men and women about each other. Most people don't find obesity attractive. I can post stats or anecdotal evidence to support this if you'd like. It's why being attracted to fat women is seen as a fetish. Overall, humans are attracted to healthy people. Obesity isn't healthy (if you deny this, then there's nothing that can convince you). It's why we don't like people that smell bad.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 02:02 AM
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Well, considering the apps are 90% men, I'd imagine they vary. Also, you can change the ages you see. Also, it's probably the area you live in. For example, the last time I was on that living Hell of an app called Tinder, I was on a 4 hour long drive back to the major city I live in. There were tons of girls with my age range settings, I was 23 at the time, so I think I had it set from 21 to 26 or something. I upped it to 30, and I started getting a couple of matches, but the few I got were all …
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 01:50 AM
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Attractive ≠ Pleasantly plump. Let's be realistic.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 01:28 AM
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I'll say the same thing I've heard from women on here: Ahem, why don't you... A) Pay for sex. B) Lower your standards. C) Why are you so concerned about looks if you're ugly? If you're a 3/10, you should meet another 3/10. I could continue, but the toxicity is driving me crazy. I don't get how people talk like that, and I genuinely empathize with your situation. The only solutions I can give you are to rewire inherent negative thoughts created by the pink pill (those are super toxic) and work on…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 01:25 AM
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Would anyone want to fuck someone that says, "All men are misogynist"?
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 01:13 AM
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u/ummetinlideri is describing it poorly but put it in perspective and even use some real-life anecdotal evidence. I feel as though everyone knows that one really good-looking person. Because, I'm a guy, I'll use a certain male co-worker to compare. We were out at a Hooter's, and this waitress he thought was attractive (it's Hooter's, all the waitresses are attractive) was our server. Throughout the night, she made apparent attempts to talk to him, but he's shy, and he's not the brightest ever. H…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 01:11 AM
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Common sense says you just have to have higher testosterone than everyone else. It also says that people are more sedentary than they were in the 1980s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:42 PM
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Let's ignore that most men find the red pill through A) Being hurt by a woman or B) Some PUA community. Basically, both paths lead to not having children. I would imagine the rare red pill-consuming men that have daughters would try to make sure their daughters don't end up being the women they despise (think girls on onlyfans, TikTok, and Instagram). Let's be honest; we don't date people we aren't attracted to. If the "alpha" guy (alphas and betas don't exist in humans, but I'm using the phrase…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:18 PM
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Dude, why don't you just look up science papers on it. I've heard what you're talking about before, but I'm in my mid-twenties, so I can't verify through anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:15 PM
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Relationships are an investment. You invest your time and energy and hopefully have a happy, long-lasting relationship. If you and/or your partner stop doing these, the relationship will fail.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 04:24 PM
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https://blackdemographics.com/households/african-american-income/amp/ I'm not even going to argue it. Men make more than women.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 10:51 PM
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This was pretty good, by the way; I'm a huge Persona 3 fan.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 10:31 PM
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Many black guys are not pulling their weight and stuck in a victim complex Many black people have a victim complex. It's the side effect of American blacks being victims for so many years in our own country. Many black guys are not pulling their weight and stuck in a victim complex whilst ignoring that black women dealing with being women AND black in a patriarchal society. I genuinely think that western women who use the word "patriarchy" to describe their society should go live in the middle e…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 10:25 PM
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I agree; I believe that all people should strive for better no matter what race they are. It's a part of life.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 09:31 PM
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I'll debunk this with one statistic. Black men make more than black women on average (like most men of all other races), and blacks in the US have the highest poverty numbers. Basically, between men and women of different races, black women are still the lowest earners on average. You can hate on black men all you want, but facts are facts.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 09:31 PM
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As a black male who has been called white multiple times for not fitting into the walls of black stereotypes but still prefers dating black women, I understand where these guys come from. Getting rejected because you don't meet specific harmful standards is always a rough feeling. Obviously, not all women want this, but I've noticed that two groups portray this behavior. Non-black women that "only date black men" and black women. Whether that's the majority or not doesn't matter, as no one will …
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 10:00 AM
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Eh... I somewhat disagree with this. For example, as a man, I'm well aware that if I want to meet a partner, I can't just sit in my house and play video games. I have to wake up, clean myself, and go outside and talk to people. Despite how detrimental that might be to some people due to past rejections and failed relationships, that's the reality of it. This applies to a woman as well. Not every man is looking for a career woman. Some are, so if that's what floats their boat, so be it. Black men…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 09:27 AM
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Divorce rates are at 13% for first-time marriages as of 2020, so more like 87 and 13. As people get remarried, that increases. It makes sense considering that some people bounce from relationship to relationship, and many people can't handle being step-parents. Edit I should have mentioned this is the US statistic. That 50% divorce rate thing is BS, and any basic research will say so. I don't get why the guy you replied to said that. Even when consuming light amounts of red pill content, I still…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/21 06:31 PM
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Alphas/Betas don't exist in human society simply because we are too technologically advanced (if a bigger person tries to fight you, you can shoot them), and it's functionally impossible to be better than everyone else at everything. I think we agree on that, so I won't go much further. High-value men and women are those that experience high levels of desirability. It's pretty evident that even with outliers with different preferences from the majority norm, some men and women are desired by peo…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 03:11 AM
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Since when was hypergamy nonsense, both men and women are attracted to people with certain superior qualities to their own. Most women across the board want a man that's bigger and stronger than them. Most men want a woman that is more physically attractive than they are. It's normal. It's even backed by real science.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 08:22 PM
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I think they're clowns simply because they manipulate men by pulling the worst women onto their channel and while trying to prove AWALT. The leading clown... can't remember his name right now, but it's the one with the course on how to get women through Instagram for a small fee of USD 999.99. He tells the women that if they want to be on it, they have to sleep with first. If the girl is normal and refuses to sleep with him just to be on a podcast, he sends his stalker simp fans to harass her. I…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 08:20 PM
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Its ridiculous to think women will keep moving on to the next guy who has more. They have this stupid phrase "it's just your turn" where you're bound to get dumped or cheated on eventually lol. Well, men and women cheat at nearly equal rates (about 50% for both). Break-ups happen all the time, and the divorce rate is about 13% as of 2020 in the US. Women divorced men about 70% of the time. Basically, men and women cheat at the same rate, but it's more likely for a woman to end a relationship. Th…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 11:05 PM
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I think a more significant number of women care less about money, even in the long term. It's more of a... As long as you have a decent job type thing (don't be a minimum wage worker). More and more women joining the workforce have caused this. I've not only experienced dating a coworker in the past, but I've also witnessed countless coworkers dating and/or hooking up in the past. I think it's a minimal number of women that will like you because you make six figures, and tbh, those women aren't …
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 04:13 AM
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Or if they're unattractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:45 AM
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It sounds like she's trying to make excuses not to run.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:42 AM
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Every man wants to be fit or muscular, so when someone does it, it's impressive. It's the same thing with nice sports cars. I feel like every car guy knows that cars attract other guys (probably car guys) and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:41 AM
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I was going to make some long schpeal for this, but your initial statistics are wrong. According to the bureau of labor statistics, the median salary is $41,953.60. This seems a little more accurate when compared to 32k or something like that. It's hopeless to try to argue with someone who can't find accurate statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:38 AM
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https://policyadvice.net/insurance/insights/average-american-income/ A little less than 66 percent of Americans still earn under 100k (obviously, that doesn't make you a millionaire, but I figured it would be a fair amount). CEOs sit somewhere in the 10%. There are over six times more people that work at jobs that pay less than 100k a year than there are CEOs that generally sit in the 200k and up range. Assuming some make less (maybe it's a smaller company, that still is less than 20%. The point…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:07 PM
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For one, the median income of men is higher than women. Also, the median income plummets because it considers every job. This includes minimum wage, part-time, and just outright low-paying positions. Telling a McDonald's fry cook that he doesn't make a lot of money and women won't like him because of it is very different from someone that earned one of those 10 degrees from the link I posted and is making an average of 60k a year. Considering the majority of men and women go to college, those ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:54 PM
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https://www.payscale.com/career-news/2009/12/do-men-or-women-choose-majors-to-maximize-income Here's a list of the top 10 degrees men and women get. This list also has the national median income, of which most at or above 60k. A couple is below in the high 50s, and then there's sports management. Those male self improvement sectors are themselves preselected to be not attractive. Otherwise why would they be in those communities? They are there to improve themselves. At some point, they do, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:01 PM
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Absolutely but most men don't even get close to that point. The avg salary is 32k and the avg BMI is 29. Most men don't self improve to the point where diminishing returns are even a remote consideration. Minimum wage, paid internships, and low-paying jobs heavily skew this statistic. For reference, my first real job paid me 60k a year. I would say that any male that graduates from one of the top 10 degrees that males get can easily achieve that and way more. How much does a below-average man re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:05 AM
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> What about when you would need the society to pay for you? My friends from the US told me that in the US, when you lose your job, you lose your insurance and then if you get cancer, you have to pay for it yourself and the amounts are insane. This to me seems incredibly unfair. Nobody should be left to die just because they can't afford treatment, if there is a reasonable treatment available to them. Especially if those people were contributing members of the society and got sick through no fau…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:36 PM
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That being said, I am not saying they are wrong about everything, I have two American friends here in Prague who also rant about the insane US healthcare system and so on, so I am aware there are fucked up things in the US, but there are also big problems in Europe. Ahhh, the capitalism complainers. I think that's to be expected. I've met American ex-pats worldwide that complain about the healthcare system in the US, yet most people that still live here go along with it. I'd rather pay for my he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:11 PM
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Got it, won't do it again 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:25 PM
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OP is painting a way too rosy picture here. That's what I figured. I mainly looked at the happiness rating of each country and various GDP stats. Norway is one of the wealthiest countries in Europe, excluding countries like Monaco (rich tax haven city-sized countries filled with billionaires). Meanwhile, a country like Albania doesn't do nearly as well. I've been to Paris, and I remember seeing poor immigrants, but as far as French people or, more specifically, Parisians living in poverty, it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:00 AM
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Welp, time to learn an instrument and buy a bar. Anyone else wants to go halfsies on the bar ownership? We can put our money together as long as I'm the majority owner. Legitimate inquiries only
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:34 AM
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America has little to no social security, so women are more reliant on men and pick men based on money and status, to provide extra security. Women attend universities and graduate at a higher rate than men. There's also nearly an equal amount of men and women in the workforce. Considering the cost of living in the US and the average wages of both men and women, both partners often work to take care of a household. Most sociology studies on hypergamy look at western vs. eastern cultures. This in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:18 AM
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Saying that 70% of the US population includes men and women. Assuming that men and women are obese at the same rate (btw they are), only about 35% of men are obese. Apparently, according to your statistic, I, as well as every guy I know, am in that 22%. Now, let's assume that because I'm in that "22%", I don't want anyone from the bottom 35% of women that are obese. I would say that's perfectly fair. However, that's not functionally what happens. You see, women with " ugly faces" that work put r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:54 AM
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I never denied that was the case. I am saying that taking care of yourself only goes so far. Women look at more genetically determined factors than men do. It's not impossible for a guy who's genetical "below average" to improve himself enough to find someone above average. Still, that person would be a unicorn and would require far more self-improvement on the guy's part. In other words, if you're a below-average guy, you need enough money, status, and physical and social superiority to cover u…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:57 AM
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I'm not dissing self-improvement; I believe it's extremely valuable. But when you consider that women judge men's physical appearance mostly on things that men can't change, how far does that self-improvement go? I spoke with a woman here about what is considered average. If you're under 5'9, bald, among various other factors that I won't mention due to trying not to get banned, you are below average. Alternatively, any woman who exercises or diets is rated much higher than a man that does the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:48 PM
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This^ I think people sleep on the countless men that take care of themselves but are still below average due to genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:54 PM
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Guys care more about nice cars than women do unless you're trying to attract a woman that's into cars. If so, go to a car meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:52 PM
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Conservatism is needed. I would say more often than progressivism. For example, every science-based study says that humans are wired for monogamy when bearing and raising children. Yet some "feel good" polyamory supporting hippy will say otherwise. Whether you are guided by conservatism or science, you know that polyamory isn't healthy. I would say that is a positive aspect of conservatism. The idea that we can do whatever we want as long as someone consents are socially approved anarchy and neo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:51 AM
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Anyway, it's later, and I'll tell you in short why I feel like identity politics as a whole is destroying the west. I could go on this topic all day, so I'll mention a few key points. You can't be anything. Countless obstacles limit people. Sex, genetics, socioeconomic status, and IQ are just a few that are either difficult to change without substantial resources or impossible to change with the science we have today. Not to mention, we are judged by these factors heavily. Telling a female child…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:50 AM
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Back in the early days of female presence on the UFC (Ultimate Fighting Championship), Ronda Rousey was considered the best female fighter in the league. She was so good that at some point, people thought she could beat the male champion of the same weight class. Is it discrimination to say she couldn't? No, it's not. Ronda Rousey was good, but she wasn't to the level physicality-wise of the current champion at the time, Henry Cejudo. She is a she, and he is a he. Hormones give a massive boost t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:50 AM
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If you discuss the emotional consequences of having casual sex, wouldn't that discourage promiscuity? I can't remember the exact term, but that's along the lines of showing a punishment and telling the story behind it before kids had the opportunity to learn first hand. I grew up like this, and I would say it did more harm than good. My mother, instead of being honest with me, tried to shield me from dating and manipulate my views on sexual relationships with women—this led to me finding pornogr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:48 AM
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Alright, so you're lost. So be it, I tried to help. Keep looking for your virgin. Then you'll turn into all those other miserable MGTOW/red pill content creators after she leaves you like this guy: https://youtu.be/QllGHn1KhVE And this guy: https://youtu.be/p8r5_gz5Edw The first makes videos on women every single day but can't get one to stay with him. What does that tell you? The second is some random wannabe, aka you 5 to 10 years from now, arguing that he can still sleep with 18-year-olds whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:02 PM
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It's about the fact that she isn't choosing to sleep around more than the actual sex with a bunch of guys. You're already missing the point. So as I said in my first post, it's ok if she was in 3 LTRs. With how you described it, it sounds like I understood the point pretty well. We continued dating for another year after that. If you think that your virgin girlfriend will pick up everything sexually and suddenly turn into a freak, you're insane. Except all the ones who are happily married to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:18 PM
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Here, since you're so misguided, I'll go into a few details of how bad it is. Nothing against her; she was a sweet girl and all. So we had been dating for a while, and she told me near the beginning of our relationship that she was a virgin. The only thing she had ever done was kiss a guy. I was, like you are now, ecstatic because I valued a woman that a bunch of guys hadn't tarnished. Somewhere at around the 9-month point (9 months of having a girlfriend a having zero sex the entire time), she …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:42 PM
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That's weird. I meant to say isn't clearly. I'll edit that though for clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:25 PM
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Practice makes perfect. Here, look at it this way. If you're not a virgin, you have no right to ask for one. I'm a massive believer in equally bringing factors to the table. Continuing from that last point, if you're a virgin, it will be two virgins trying to figure things out. There's a big difference between a loyal woman who's been in 3 LTRs before meeting you and a girl that sleeps around with everyone. I wouldn't want to date someone without having sex, and thus, I wouldn't want a virgin. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:23 PM
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"How it feels to chew the blue pill." "Dull your senses."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:04 PM
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To be honest, I'd rather not date a virgin. It seems like it should be common sense why dating a virgin girl is a bad idea, but I'll spell it out. B A D S E X. Then, if she chooses to stay a virgin while you two are dating, well, that's years without any at all. Then you get married and experience the aforementioned bad sex, which will lead to divorce and paying alimony. Congrats, you played yourself because you wanted a virgin for a sacrifice — er, I mean marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:01 PM
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Life isn't equal. I had a good conversation about the matter with someone when discussing the ideals of capitalism and equal opportunity. She made a good point that equal opportunity can never truly exist due to the inability of disabled people to compete with the able. That's why FDS is allowed, and TRP isn't. Life isn't fair or equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:51 PM
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Steadily gaining doesn't mean equal or perhaps more. https://www.collegeatlas.org/top-bachelors-degrees-by-gender As far as the women being CEOs, this is precisely what I mentioned in my last post. You'll probably interpret this as a glass ceiling, but I still see this how I said it. Men are naturally more ambitious and aggressive, which are both great traits for a company's CEO. Most women don't have these traits. If you consider that nurture, I don't believe that either. https://phys.org/news/…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:34 AM
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Yep, this is the best reason I've ever heard for people finding Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:18 PM
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Imagine not being arousing and then saying all the guys you hook up with have ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:49 AM
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Dude, all you have to do is be with ugly women. You can't be with a woman you're attracted to because those women probably look good. Because you're short, all you have available to you is buying a girlfriend with an excessive amount of money or date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:43 AM
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If they're quality, wouldn't they date high-quality men? You sound like a red piller. Those guys think they're quality, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:39 AM
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Sorry, read the landlady thing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:31 AM
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These were some interesting points but also unrealistic in a sense. Some facts are that women are more empathetic than men on average. Women also abandon their children less, and having a child has more weight to them on average. It makes sense; they did carry the child for nine months and then went through excruciating pain to give the child life. My mother told me stories of how females of all ages wanted to hold me when I was a baby. Most males don't want to do the same. Japan is the perfect …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:03 AM
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https://www.investopedia.com/terms/c/ceo.asp There's that for one. Second of all, passive income is the way to go. Running a company requires a lot of time and work. The people that you define as a CEO also have a surprisingly high divorce rate. Letting your business run itself while you make a profit for doing maybe 5 hours of work a week is a lot more valuable. If my day job, small businesses, and passive income streams net me just over 100k a year and the average US income is about 30k, I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:27 AM
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For long term, men are attracted to looks, parenting ability, and social compatibility. That's it. I can post the studies I'm referencing this stuff from if you'd like. Men are more physically driven, so a woman's looks matter more. I would say it's easier for a woman to become attractive physically, yet most don't do it. Men have three times the amount of gym memberships in the US than women. Most women don't exercise, and when you don't exercise, and you eat McDonald's four days a week because…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:16 AM
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Looks primarily attract men; on the other hand, women have tons of factors that they want on top of looks: status, resources, family orientation, and social compatibility. So if a man brings all of that, why should he date a woman that can't even provide the significant thing that's required for women to be attractive for long-term relationships? You see the disparity. Telling a high-income CEO who just so happens to be short that she should date 2s and 3s is unrealistic. It's the same as tellin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:35 PM
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Hahaha, a study I posted on here a while ago said that 56% of millennials eat out four days or more a week. Also, cooking top ramen isn't cooking. Only about 25% judged their cooking skills as "good" on an anonymous poll. Millennials can't cook. Doubling income is hard, especially if you already have a high income. Working on job skills isn't, and that often nets higher income. People say follow the money for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:52 PM
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Be careful, I posted that study about race and OLD, and I almost got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:47 PM
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Or more attractive physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:45 PM
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I tried this, and it was somewhat worth it. I had more success in person than I ever will on dating apps. Xold approach will get you rejected a lot, though. According to people on here, meeting through friend groups is the easiest way. The problem lies when that just doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:44 PM
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How many millennial/Gen Z women can actually cook and clean? The big difference is, as a man, I can always earn more money. Modern women aren't homemakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:39 PM
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Women want men that make more than themselves. Men, on average, make more because they get into higher-paying jobs more often (there are more men in STEM fields than women). What's there to consider? Women have always been attracted to status and resources. What you're suggesting means training women to be attracted to lower socioeconomic men, which rarely happens. This would take away a lot from both genders. Women would be expected to date down (even the women here are saying they'd rather hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:36 PM
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Tried to explain this to a coworker, and he said I was weird for thinking like that. "You'll just adapt, man," he said. He also eats out for every meal and doesn't save or invest any of his money while living paycheck to paycheck. Yeah, everyone tries to give you advice. I want to fast forward ten years to see how his life turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:24 PM
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Yeah, they just get hella cats instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:21 PM
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Lowkey being short really is a death sentence. Excluding some famous people, it's pretty rare to find an attractive girl with a short guy because short men are instantly considered below average in looks. Of course, it's easy to say grow in other places, but like my fellow short king said, you can only do so much. Between working out and staying clean, women will still not want you simply because you're under 5'9 (the average height of men in the US). Because it's scientifically proven, that loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:13 PM
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Hahaha, Tom Cruise is short and has been married three times. Just become Tom Cruise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:00 PM
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Dude, excluding the Bible studies, you're literally me. Wanna be best friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:59 PM
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I had a conversation about this, and to be honest, she posted a great picture. So the average guy in the western world is white, 5'9, about 175lbs. Of course, he has brown hair and eyes and has average white guy features.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:25 PM
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My bad, my original comment was meant as satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:19 PM
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Ancient Sparta. It was a law that only the warrior class were allowed to procreate to pass down the best genes to offspring. If a male baby were born weak, they would kill him. It was common while spartan soldiers were away for the non-soldier men to please their wives while they were away at war sexually. Also, veterans would mentor younger soldiers, and part of that mentoring was pounding buttcheeks. It was something of culturally accepted homosexuality/polyamory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:01 PM
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Imagine trying to compare the cultural status of western women to slavery, the Apartheid, and capitalism (the economic system that has brought far more people out of poverty than socialism, ever heard of the American Dream?) I made a joke talking about the progressive liberalism of secondary education, but I see it's true. Modern western women aren't oppressed. There is no wage gap based on gender. More women are going to college and graduating than men, even though their degrees are useless, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:54 PM
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Yes, if the boy is strong, he will get sent to train with the soldiers, and if he is weak, he will be cast off a cliff into the Atlantic ocean. Just remember, it's not a homoerotic relationship; it's mentorship. The boy is expected to impregnate a woman so we can raise more soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:44 PM
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https://youtu.be/eEA1xx2vCk8 Society will never become fully polygamous as it has been ingrained in us to be monogamous for a long time, at least with parenthood and cohabitating. The video is that classic one from Jubilee where a woman tries to explain why polyamory is better than monogamy, and all the kids disagree with her. Even the 5-year-old, who is too young to understand relationships, knows that she has a mother and a father, so monogamy is normal while polyamory/polygamy isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:38 PM
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Don't you know? The patriarchy is why men have higher suicide rates, have a more prominent presence in prisons, and pay substantially more child support while losing their kid? I learned that in my college course, Underwater Basket Weaving 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:32 PM
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Physical attractiveness is the only thing women judge men on when it comes to short-term relationships (hookups and the like). Of course, for a guy, wealth plays a role in finding a long-term partner but so do looks, status, emotional connection, proclivity to taking care of a family, etc. The thing is, in modern times, making a lot of money means less. As the concept of the traditional woman dies in the west due to the idea that all traditional relationships are abusive, women fill the job mark…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:56 PM
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Your body and face combine to form the holistic SMV. Women AND men can be butter faces. Things like face, looks, height, and, as you call it presentation, all add up to find out a man's SMV. Anyway, as far as "presence" goes, frame isn't real. It's just an element of the halo effect. If someone finds you attractive physically, your actions will be better received. It's why my shy 6'3, muscular friend is seen as cute for being shy. Yet, when you take an average male (or below average since that d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:21 PM
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Perfect. I'm glad you mentioned all of this, and you're not like mods. An average face is somewhat hard to describe, but I would say most people have them. However, certain features are associated with specific groups of people. Broad noses are an example in black people. First, I'd like to point out average height. The average height in the US is 5'9, as you said, and it's pretty similar in most western countries. We know that women like taller men (on average about 8 inches taller). This concl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:10 PM
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What constitutes a guy as average?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:27 PM
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"I am not saying that 5'6 men are going to attract the same crowd or volume as a 6'2 man with the same qualities." On top of that, the post you linked me to is you blatantly saying something similar to another guy. You're arguing for self-improvement, which I believe in as well. However, you're preaching an unrealistic message which is why I said what I said. That is the more realistic example. Average guys get rejected enough until they find someone that finds them attractive. He and her date f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:40 PM
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Ahh, I see. So average guys just keep trying and getting shot down until they meet that one below-average girl willing to be with them. That sounds like black pill theory. In your entire argument to disprove the black pill, you admitted it's legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:33 PM
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You're right; they do have "a look". Attractive. Anyway, I agree with you that it is not all cut and dry, but it is consistent enough to study the behavior. I genuinely don't see how with all the social evidence, even without science, you can deny this. I've been clubbing all over the world, and attractive men are the ones that leave with women in the end. This is a consistent thing across all cultures. Also, looks go into how you are perceived socially. Attractive people are automatically seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:24 PM
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No. No. While I was in high school, I spent most of my time alone. I didn't connect with friends or family until I graduated and went on a downward spiral life-wise. I was getting into a lot of trouble/fights back then. Looking back on my life doesn't make me regret the things that happened. It just makes me see where I came from. 26 Male, but I identify as a male presenting transgender lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:57 PM
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Yes, I am too. As far as hookups/party scenes go, looks are all that matters. If you think that short and/or bald men automatically fall into the below-average category, then you feel as though about 50% of men are below average. I feel like every guy has that one good-looking male friend. Mine literally has women throwing themselves at him. Girls that we worked with would send him inappropriate sexual harassment emails without considering that they could lose their jobs. Waitresses would leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:49 PM
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This has to be separated into short-term and long-term relationships. In short-term dating (hookups), looks are all that matters in both men and women. Men are less selective about who they sleep with. Blackpillers who are average or ugly aren't going to get into short-term relationships quickly unless they seriously drop their standards—1 point for black pill anon. Your schpeal on looks vs. grooming vs. fitness is wasted. All of that goes into looks, and you are right; forsaking that stuff woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:02 PM
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Is it inappropriate for men to get sexually aroused? What is this world coming to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:37 PM
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You forgot to add just all-around better in bed for women as well. I don't know about anyone else in this subreddit, but I have personally experienced a handful of "starfish". Usually, when this happens, I'll ask her if she's ok and if I get the feeling she isn't, I'll stop, and we do something else. The simple fact of the matter is it goes beyond willingness and being enthusiastic. Porn stars are better at sex because they do it for a living vs. everyone else who does it for recreation or procr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:18 PM
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Dude, I genuinely relate to this. I'm not quite 30 yet, but I relate to this heavily. Like... I'm at a loss for words with how accurately this describes my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:17 PM
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This is a pretty wholesome video I found online that's probably the closest thing to what I would want. Honestly, this is a little too much, but I would say it's pretty close without being toxic. https://youtu.be/JIVIUkBKEyA I see you feel the same way as I mentioned in my previous post. People assume that men abuse traditional women. This has lead women who yearn to be the exact opposite, and that is what makes dating more difficult in modern times as compared to, say, the 50s and 60s. You ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:08 PM
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Amazingly enough, it's both, I grew up in conservative states, and I just recently moved to a liberal state. It was pretty hard in both, as anything conservative generally gets shut down. Conservatism leads to traditionalism, and the idea of being a "tradwife" is seen by most as abusive. They don't look at the fact that I make enough to take care of a family and don't have a history of abusing my exes. At this point, I've strongly considered leaving the country to find a partner, but I've heard …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:33 PM
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I can relate to the previous poster you've been responding to. Modern women in Gen Z aren't "traditional" or even worth marrying. This made me try to date girls older than me as millennials are slightly better. Only slightly, though. Finding someone like that is nearly impossible nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:21 PM
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International travels huh... Couldn't really tell. No projection, just stating what I see. I'm a big advocate of facts and reality. Reality says that a colloquial phrase doesn't make someone abusive. Someone who claims that anyone that says that phrase is an abusive criminal is insane. That's high neuroticism at its finest. As I said, it is black or white thinking. There is absolutely no chance your cognitive bias is just that, cognitive bias. It's alright though, Morocco freezes every winter af…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:57 AM
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Oh, they exist. Just for different reasons. I'm genuinely wondering how you associate a phrase with a man wanting to abuse a woman. What if a woman says it? Does that mean she wants to abuse a man? What if someone from the west coast says it? Does your rule still apply? Tbh, you remind me of a lot of red pill men. They believe everything is black or white and speak from a restricted lens. This makes them come off as highly neurotic as they claim facts that have no basis in science and it's only …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:35 AM
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Are you one of those mystical female incels I keep hearing about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:22 AM
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I'm from the east coast. I'm not a criminal. I use that term. To make it better, I spent most of my childhood in downtown ATL. Not the worst spot in the East but definitely not the best 😂. I don't mean a girl that would commit criminal acts with me if I was a criminal. I mean someone who won't leave at the first sign of turmoil or when she spots a higher branch she can grab onto. I'm with the other guy and he made a great point with the word "gay". It went from meaning happy to homo. At one poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:48 AM
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It's more common than you'd think. It doesn't work that way though because socioeconomics is a pretty big discriminatory factor. People in the same social class usually spend time together and thus form relationships. There is a subset of successful men that do grab from the lowest branches so to speak. In my time navigating the wilds of incel forums, I came across a large number of so-called "jobcels". These mid to high-income earners would often rely on elements of prostitution to gain some so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:21 PM
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You ever see the video of these rappers trying to talk to an attractive woman? Yeah, so charismatic and sociable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:07 PM
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I wouldn't say either are bad. When I mentioned a little while ago how I only attracted fat women on Tinder, some people replied saying that I was off base for saying that. Of course, I didn't care but that's beside the point. Wanting someone with similar values as yourself is completely normal. For example, I put a lot of time into enhancing my financial literacy and fitness. Why would I date someone who lives paycheck to paycheck and is 300 lbs? I feel a lot of the relationships that don't wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:53 PM
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Those two aren't correlated at all, the Pareto principle mainly refers to money, not humans. The just of it is that 80% of the effect comes from 20% of the cause. That's pseudoscience at its finest. Taking one study done and then manipulating it to fit the narrative that you want to push. As I said, I agree that there are girls that lie about what they want in attempts to virtue signal or be a pick-me. I stated in my OP that the only girls I see that really like dad bods are older women and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:56 AM
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As someone who works out every day, 3 hours a day at the gym is a waste of time. Also, as someone who has been on a restricted diet while in a relationship, it's not as hard as you think. I was meal prepping while my girlfriend ate whatever. Lol, Greg Doucette does this as a lifestyle. His girlfriend eats super unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:46 AM
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Alright, I agree with you somewhat but that's statistically not true. There was a study done that revealed that from ages 18-30, 78% of men and 83% of women were in a sexual relationship of some sort. So yes, some men are doubling or tripling up and women accept this but that's not the issue at hand. That 80-20 rule or whatever the heck is pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:42 AM
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Cool, my opinion is that you're a racist and part of the problem. I don't know how you were manipulated by the alt-right and I don't care. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:38 AM
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Hahaha, Greg Doucette is a legend. Even if you dont watch him for fitness tips, he sounds like the parrot from Aladin. Also, white people are incarcerated and shot by police more than blacks in America. They commit more crimes in every aspect except for murder. However, most mass shootings are committed by guys like the original poster that thinks black people are violent. He'd probably tell me that I act white. No wonder China's going to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:31 AM
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Don't have much to offer scientifically but I've noticed that most women I know that say they like dad bods genuinely don't want the expectations that come with dating a fit guy. They know that they personally don't enjoy the gym, so they don't want to date someone who goes to the gym every day. Also, I've noticed that older women like dad bods more than younger women. In my opinion, the gym is just another hobby that partners connect on. I've met girls at the gym before, and it definitely wasn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:29 AM
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I genuinely laughed at this. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:54 PM
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Definitely understand the extremely hot sex thing. I've noticed that girls that act less stereotypically feminine are more... embracing of various sexual acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:52 PM
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I think it's a meme. It's like dogecoin or "eat hot hip and lie". Now in some cultures (East Asia), dark hair with pale skin is considered attractive. As far as the whole goth thing, it's just another aesthetic like how some girls like skinny guys over muscular, roid heads and vice versa. As far as the whole strong women being mean to guys, it's a fetish. They have femdom and findom for a reason. Some men enjoy that just like some men enjoy feet and some men enjoy being a dom. From what I unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:41 PM
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In reality, who knows. I know this happens because they and their girlfriends set each other up with different people but I'm just out of the loop I guess. Doesn't really matter to me since I do my own thing. The alternative is that my other friend group is filled with nerds and I have more dating experience than all of them combined. Not bragging, just stating facts. I truly enjoy spending time with both groups simply because of how much fun we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:26 PM
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Yeah... If this happens, you're lucky. I guess I don't have good friends because the ones I do have never introduce girls to me. I think this is genuinely a "This works for some people" tip rather than one size fits all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:01 PM
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Yes, I make it my personal goal to better myself not just for myself, but because I wouldn't ask for anything from a woman that I can't provide. For example, I have a friend who can't cook to save his life and he lives off of microwavable meals. He, however, wants a woman that can cook well and if she can't, he won't date her. That behavior is immature and irrational to me. For example, a value I desire in a partner is financial intelligence. If I was living paycheck to paycheck, I'd look stupid…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:11 AM
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I talked about this in the first post in the thread. At my heaviest I was overweight yet I still maintained healthy body fat (around 15%) and I was 195lbs. Even at that weight, I could still do cardio. I have my issues with the whole height-to-weight BMI system. What I was speaking about is pretty clean cut. I mentioned that there is a difference between average and fat. I even mentioned someone in the previous post who I would consider as fat if you'd like some reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:01 AM
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What? 😂 I've never had acne or anything. I just don't sleep enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:04 AM
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You're right, it doesn't add up but I'm being honest about my opinion on OLD. It started because back when I was 18-19ish I tried OLD and had little to no success. Years later I wanted to try it again so while making jokes about having my friend photograph me for only fans, I thought about getting back on Tinder. I can firmly say that even after having better pictures taken with filters and stuff, nothing really changed. Sure I got a few more matches but this time they were all from girls advert…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:59 PM
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Clean teeth, clean skin, my face is kind of fat. Even when I get to low levels of body fat I still have a "fat" face. I just don't have very defined features. Besides that, I hear that I'm average looking all the time. My main facial flaw is definitely my persistent eye bags because I'm up for 18 to 19 hours a day due to work and my side hustle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:31 PM
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Sorry, I should have clarified. I'm 5'6 (5'7 on a good day) and bald. I started going bald at 18 so I just buzz my head to a 0. I know I have decent looks because I get compliments from unattractive women. I've been working out for a while and I did martial arts in my adult years (I stopped when covid started but I still stayed in shape). Yeah, point is, I genuinely don't get matches on Tinder. Dating apps are truly depressing because unless you are some top tier guy (rich or model good looks), …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:24 PM
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Tried something like this and I got more likes from fat women. I had a photographer friend take pictures for me and add a filter and do all the editing and touch-ups. He honestly did a great job and all it cost me was buying him food. I did get more matches, but I only got them from morbidly obese women. Now, I work out a lot (6 days a week) so I have a realistic perspective of what fit vs average vs obese looks like. Online dating has failed me time and time again to the point where I just gave…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:56 PM
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I was reading something about quarantine making people more socially inept so that could have something to do with it. I find that nowadays dating is just a numbers game, you need a series of bad ones until you meet someone that isn't as bad. Now, of course, different people have different experiences. Coming from a state that didn't really embrace any kind of quarantine or curfew, nothing changed and people were still doing the same things you mentioned. I laughed a little because my friend who…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:04 PM
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I actually had a similar experience and heard an interesting perspective on that kind of lifestyle. "A relationship is better when 2 people come together and improve together". I understood this but it was hard to imagine getting into a relationship without being the best version of myself.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 11:18 AM
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Gotchu fam... Haha not really. So the MGTOW thing, the content creators talk about women to convince more men to go MGTOW. I've noticed that MGTOW became "Don't get married or cohabit, just date women". It's still pretty toxic as a lot of the time, MGTOW creators distribute inflated statistics and spread lies about women being unsympathetic towards men. This isn't true for the most part. I've also seen some encourage sugar dating, which personally doesn't interest me whatsoever, but could be a v…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 07:28 AM
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I loosely quoted enforced monogamy. I like the idea. There are plenty of men that I know that are playing women. I dont agree with that. The act of leading multiple girls on to gain some sort of sexual gratification doesn't sit right with me. Even in the past when I was a "serial dater", I only dated one woman at a time. Everyone always quotes the enforced monogamy thing but even that's a good idea. A lot of hurt feelings, adultery, and infidelity would stop if society enforced the importance of…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 03:24 AM
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Gun background checks show if you've been diagnosed by a psychiatrist and criminal background history. Warrants for your arrest as well. To get a special clearance when working for the government, they go to people you know and ask them questions about you. Of course, you can decide who they meet but if that person talks too much, it can ruin some opportunities. Not a background check but holding certain types of dealer/seller licenses opens up the government to audit your life i.e come to your …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:52 AM
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Please, I'm genuinely curious. What toxic advice has Jordan Peterson gave men (his primary viewers)? Full disclosure, I ask this to every JP hater because they never give a good answer. They jump on the bandwagon and say "JP is bad because he said don't sleep with 10 people at once" or he's bad because he supports incels, which only make up a little less than 7% of men between the ages of 18 and 30 in the US (This is his male demographic). I agree with the other commenter. He gets an unfairly ba…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 01:46 AM
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There's a ton of cult-like fan bases. I dont know how much you follow the news but there was a young hacker who cracked into different famous peoples' Twitter accounts. One of those famous people was Kim Kardashian. He then proceeded to post as Kim Kardashian saying to send her Bitcoin and she would send twice the money back. That's a cult if I've ever seen one. The fact that they would overlook an obvious scam shows what a true cult following looks like. I've personally never seen him trying to…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 01:27 AM
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Imagine being taught by media, your parents, and other things you look towards for guidance to find out what color the sky is. They all tell you the sky is red so you grow up believe the sky is red. Then one day, you meet the love of your life that tells you the sky isn't red but a different color. They can't tell you exactly what color the sky is but you get curious, everyone told you the sky is red yet certain people are saying the sky is blue. These people are better at life than you are. You…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 03:14 AM
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I don't think simp is red pill. Too many people use it. It's just a shortened version of the word "simpleton" that was coined on the internet to describe a phenomenon that's been around for a while. Also, alpha and beta were coined by a scientist who studied dogs and they were adopted by people. This was long before TRP. Nice guy was also formed way before the red pill. Check out Niccolo Machiavelli. He wrote multiple excerpts on nice guys and following societal ethics. Not saying that all these…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 02:31 AM
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Who said anything about me not having long-lasting relationships. Considering I'm in my 20s, 2 years is a pretty long relationship I'd say. Again with the assumptions. The worst part is that you're trying to use me as anecdotal evidence but you keep assuming the wrong things. First, you assumed I'm an incel and then you assumed I only sleep around. Not denying it, but there is a time and a place. Also, why would anyone in their right mind choose to settle down at a young age? Couples that get ma…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/21 05:33 PM
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Sure we can, when I found the red pill I started dating more. I never got so far into it to call women femoids or anything. I just got the information, did my own research, and noticed patterns. When I stopped consuming red pill content, my dating life slowed down. I think I reached a point where I wanted to pursue women with actual positive qualities besides their looks. Of course I ignored you. You're a very angry person. Notice how I never called you any names. I just said I disagree with you…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/21 05:04 PM
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https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/psychology-uncovers-sex-appeal-dark-personalities/ https://sites.psu.edu/leadership/2019/01/27/shadow-self-the-effect-of-dark-triad-trait-leaders-on-organizations/ https://sorexis.com/dark-triad-attractiveness/ The last link has all of it's sources cited at the bottom if you'd like to look past one article.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/21 02:43 PM
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Oh, then I strongly disagree. Dark triad traits are attractive to women for their inherent survival value. Similarly, borderline personality traits are attractive to men. You can dislike this all day but science and research is still science and research. It's so commonly known, men are often told "Don't be too nice if you want to attract a woman". Just dig a little bit into guides on creating attraction and you will find loads of based information on the matter. I would assume you wouldn't cons…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/21 08:02 AM
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I think I can understand. As a man and an exredpiller, I remember feeling terrified of the divorce machine. 50% of marriages end in divorce and women divorce men 80% of the time. Courts have been screwing over men since the beginning. I didn't want to be a victim of cuckoldry by paying an ex-wife that cheated on me. I was falsely accused of sexual harassment at an old job (I wasn't fired but there was a massive investigation). A coworker got 3 of her friends together and created a lie about me t…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/21 08:03 PM
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First, what constitutes sexual harassment. Second, 51.1% of sexual assaults of women are committed by a romantic partner (husband/boyfriend). About 40% are from an acquaintance (family member/friend) the remaining 8-9% are random men/women. I am not downplaying the trauma that sexual assault causes, but it's the men that are trusted in today's society that are the main ones sexually assaulting people.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/21 07:27 PM
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What defines an asshole?
/r/ExRedPill07/03/21 07:14 PM
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I feel like this is a common effect. It's a cycle of hatred. Men complain about women not being understanding or sympathetic to their issues (because they're not) and then women complain about men complaining (because they are). Hate only breeds more hate. Instead of hating men, especially these men, in particular, you should treat them like the humans they are. Flawed, weak, and yearning to be loved just like you, me, and everyone else on Earth.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/21 07:13 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree with this. As a guy who struggles to form romantic relationships, I have been ostracized by both men and women. More so by women to be honest. I have never once referred to myself as an incel, yet I have only been called an incel by women.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/21 07:09 PM
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I mentioned social disorders but I've never been diagnosed with one. I have been on a carnivore diet for a little over a year. I mainly got into it because it sounded delicious. I already love all kinds of meat and fish so the change was easy to make. I'll try out that whole camera thing, I always wanted to try vlogging since writing isn't my strong suit. I find that imitating successful people leads to a poor copy. This is very different from being inspired by them. My favorite movie of all tim…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 05:32 PM
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Perfect, I've been trying to get a solid, genuinely "woke" perspective on this kind of stuff. I noticed most of the posts I have seen on here are women tearing down redpilled men rather than men speaking on recovery, so to speak. Anyway, I think we both agree that most men are not true incels. They aren't so ugly to the point of being unworthy of finding love and companionship. I would go as far as guessing that most incels live normal lives. As in, they have careers, hobbies, passions, goals, a…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 01:54 AM
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There a multiple kinds?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:58 AM
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