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It is tough and sorry to hear this. Accepting the thing you don’t control is best you can do for yourself. Look at the bright side. As you grow older you need less to live. Lot less. Yes everything is divided to half, you also probably need half to live because runway has gotten lot shorter. Life is short, don’t regret.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/26 03:27 AM
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You are very selfish or you don’t know the meaning of marriage!! But hey it’s your life and you can do whatever you want to do in life. But there are indeed lots of selfish people out there.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/26 08:19 PM
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Try to work it out man. If no infidelity is Involved, try to work it out. Offcourse you wouldn’t stay with someone who absolutely doesn’t want to be with you.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/26 10:26 PM
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Help the others who are going through this.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 01:47 AM
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NO.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 09:46 PM
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You really can’t deal with evil people. It takes some time and opportunities for them to turn evil.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 08:55 PM
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Forgiveness word has meaning in the court or judicial systems not anywhere else. Nobody cares whether you forgive someone or not.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 08:15 PM
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You don’t owe anyone forgiveness. Why does it even matter? Who is actually being hurt by you not forgiving her? Not her. She doesn’t care. Forgiveness or no forgiveness doesn’t change her life one bit. So do whatever brings you peace. Whatever lets you breathe easier. And if the real question is how to hurt her the way she hurt you, the answer is simple. Be happy. Genuinely, visibly happy. Build a life that feels full. Wear that happiness every day and let it speak for you. Nothing cuts deeper t…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 06:27 PM
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Done means, she is ready and prepared to start the new life and looking forward to it. That new life could be alone, or with someone else. When it is someone else, they are done done.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/25 11:38 PM
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Why do we blame the broke people? It looks like the broke people in the broken marriage get hurt the least. May be we should change the dynamics and help our spouses succeed and help them make lots of money while we go broke gardening.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 10:54 PM
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We can’t change their brains but we can change ours. Not completely getting married wont work since many want to settle down and have kids with wife.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 10:49 PM
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Seems like the best strategy is work hard, save lots of money, build assets and then get married, marry late and become the perfect douch bag. Assets pre-marriage remains yours as your safety net when she find new magic to move on?
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 09:48 PM
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Hey man, I am so sorry to hear this. I know it’s a lot, it’s a lot. But take a deep breath. If you are healthy, and I am assuming you are between 30 to 40 years old, you can find a job that may be not well paying but it can keep you float. Why you are paying child support if you are not earning ? You really need to have a lawyer and start collecting a spousal support if your ex still works. Don’t and nothing. Life is precious. You need to take care of yourself first. Let her worry about kids for…
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 01:25 PM
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Lose your jobs.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 09:19 AM
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Here is a perspective not everyone likes to hear. We all gonna die one day and that day comes fast. When you do, you leave everyone and everything behind: your loved one, all the love, all the hate, all the wealth and your soul as well. What are you so worried about ?
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 09:13 AM
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Do what feels right for you, as long as it is appropriate. Do not engage with conversations that are meant to bait you into arguments, blame, or victimhood. Life is too short for that. Many people tolerate repeated disrespect and unkindness just to get occasional companionship, intimacy, or sex. But no amount of sporadic intimacy can ever make up for consistent disrespect. I would rather live without sex than accept being disrespected by someone. Peace out brother. You gonna make it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 05:55 AM
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People can be so brutal and selfish, you wouldn’t know until you lived with one.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 02:43 AM
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Now is the time you live like a king in your own house without giving a single bit of a shit. Can you do that ? Or she turns you on being around her that you can’t resist?
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 01:12 AM
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Yep, sometime this is what you needed to move on first. Why not ?
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/25 11:20 PM
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You are doing more than the most. Just give it a time. The sadness fades. At home, cook food and have a friend over once in a while. It does get very lonely and when timing is right, you may want to start dating. 39M is pretty young. I wish I had better advice for you, but I know from personal experience the sadness fades and you will enjoy your own company and empty house eventually.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/25 11:19 PM
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Early 40s.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 03:51 AM
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So you are saying 5 feet 6 has no chance?
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 09:00 PM
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Your cost now 1.5M, your cost 10 years later 5M and 10 years of sadness. You decide. Decision is a courage not everyone has. I don’t blame you if you don’t.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/25 01:23 AM
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Well done!! You will move on soon and many things will fade away. Some people just can’t have good for too long.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 10:31 AM
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Multiple jobs. No time to think off anything else. Take 2/3 jobs so that the only time you have is to sleep. Time goes by fast. Money you can throw out if you don’t like.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/25 02:33 AM
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Yep Sometimes monster is just next to us. We just didn’t know. When they find new dream, the can abandon the old life like changing a shirt.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 06:48 PM
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Someone always has it worse, I know. So many People married for 2 years no kids, complains about cheating and betrayal. Get the fuck out and cut the loss short and start dating some loyal ones. You have no idea how complicated it gets after 20 heads and few kids, business, and other things.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 12:48 PM
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Hey hey my friend, the worst is over long time back, seems like you are not over yet. If no kids you need to block her and erase that hard drive memory completely. If Kid, just don’t respond or say “kids conversion only”. If no kids Block after saying “ I don’t fucken care, Go to Hell”
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 10:33 AM
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She doesn’t deserve you. You should move on for Sanity’s shake at least.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 06:20 PM
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Sad but may be it is what it is and some people are not meant to be locked in.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 05:44 PM
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What have you done about it except begging or asking for it ?
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 07:34 AM
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Total BS. Plenty of strong, body builder getting cheated.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 01:49 AM
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You should never worry about finding a date. Be strong, get through this. This is going to be rough, you will feel lonely, you will think all day what it could have been, you will think what you could have done differently, you would think that day on September you probably should not have lost your cool yadi yada. But those are just illusions. Get busy working, working out, volunteering, talking to people. Most people get lonely when they are alone at home especially men. Find a hobby or passio…
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 12:57 AM
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I am sorry to hear this. Relax this is not the end of the world and we all gonna be gone sooner or later. So she is seeing somebody? There you go. She got nothing left for you my man. When they got nothing left for you, they will order food for everyone and not for you, they will be the nicest person to everyone else except you. You are the last person they care about when they are gone. You are nobody!! Be strong, you will get through this. Don’t cry, don’t beg, get your finance straight and ca…
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 12:16 AM
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Yep he needs a new person in his life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 05:21 AM
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You need find yourself even more Beautiful women with 11 out of 10 with natural boob that is as good as her boob job 😀 The thing is, you gotta get busy living instead of get busy dying.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 05:20 AM
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Let me tell you something, if a man has no kids, and also very clear wife doesn’t love and care, and the man is broke and jobless - you have no idea how happy that man is to walk out. Most are not in this situation.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 06:16 PM
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Did she buy the house before you guys got married ? Even she did , still not that easy!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 03:46 AM
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Hey man, why you are so afraid? You are 58, you are playing 4th quarter of your life buddy. First of all you shouldn’t stay married with someone who doesn’t give a fuck about you. She only values you little when you make some money. So here is the 4th quarter game plan. Stay jobless and collect the spousal support while you date someone else. You love her ? Well she doesn’t. Remember 4th quarter, crunch time, go all in. Win or go home. You should find a job eventually though.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 03:38 AM
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It is amazing how a woman can change may be quickly or gradually, that one day you realize is it really possible. They can become the worse than your worse enemy. This is 20th century thing, it was not quite like that in the past.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/25 09:50 PM
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Hey dude, relax. You haven’t lost anything. Remember, we only get one life, and we take nothing to the grave. Life is rented, a subscription we renew day by day—so what’s the point of stressing? Hit the gym, eat good food, keep your space clean. Pick up a hobby—gardening, cycling, whatever sparks joy. Join a local meetup group, and you’ll eventually meet a wonderful woman who treats you with real respect. You are welcome!!!
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/25 01:34 AM
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Dude you should be doing everything that has nothing to do with her. Social block, number block, her friends block, her pictures dustbin. It’s a new day, worst is over. Get busy living instead of stayed busy dying. 1 life,many episodes. Make this episode better.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/25 10:56 PM
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Dude you gonna have tough life ahead. There is a reason it calls divorce. You should build yourself up now for the next chapter of your life which is life without her. You are not each other FWB, you are ex spouse. Build the strength live without sex for time being.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 12:51 PM
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Worst is over, don’t make it worse Again. Go live and bang whoever you want. Why you care about her ? You were miserable with her.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/25 05:04 AM
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Because they can. Because marriage means nothing nowadays. Because divorce doesn’t break them. Because they can live just fine without sex unlike men. Because they realized they got lot more options when they are reasonably in shape. There is no ethics. People have lost ethics when it comes to possessions and power. Marriage is a license to abuse the good people by the evil people. This abuse happens under the shadow and there is no court or police to watch.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 11:10 PM
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I know it is hard, extremely hard. I am not going to try to even try to comfort you. But I want to say, this you have 3 beautiful kids. Hold them tight and custody won’t change your relationship with them. You can still spend as much time as you like and soon they will be all 18. They are your asset and your lifelong asset. Take good care of them and be at your best and be strong. Now, at this point the only damage is your finance. Fuck it. Life is too short. Think this way, if you had to hire n…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 12:08 AM
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