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Hey, congrats on your first OYS check in! Just wanted to say you're doing some really solid work here. The improvements you're seeing in your marriage and personal growth are super encouraging, especially considering the rough patches you've mentioned. A couple of thoughts that might be helpful: You're moving in the right direction. Going from feeling stuck in your relationship to seeing things get better day by day? That's not easy. Keep it up. There might come a point and time where your daily…
/r/RedPillWives03/10/24 04:43 AM
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So here's a trick - download the chatgpt app (from openAI) or google gemini app and use the voice to text transcription (or type in) to have the app sort out thoughts, feelings, ideas. You or your husband can pretty much express yourself naturally even if your ideas/thoughts are all over the place. And the ai is extremely good at organizing the thoughts as well as giving socially calibrated advice on how to communicate the ideas. I'm not on the spectrum, but I have a tendency of monologuing and …
/r/RedPillWives03/10/24 04:23 AM
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Maybe a way we could try this is to set aside a specific evening for “tough conversation time” or something, so we can get it all out there all at once and have a “meeting” about it, instead of things peppered throughout the week. This could possibly be a 'bring your captain your problems, not your solutions' situation considering you have already have a good read on what he likes and dislikes for handling these types of challenges. You may already be handling it the way he prefers. when writing…
/r/RedPillWives02/10/24 03:32 AM
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Good work on your OYS check in this week, Berry :) Things I Did for My Future: Moved my PC desk set up from the master bedroom to the living room, finished my project There's always something special about that 'newly arranged'/'recently organized/cleaned' feeling when you get your home space in order. I recently organized a tool room this week and it's a great feeling when I pass by and see things are organized. I also got a chance to finish up a months long project recently, but enough about m…
/r/RedPillWives02/10/24 03:12 AM
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Great work on checking back in, you’ve done an impressive job of being proactive both in the moment and looking ahead: meal prepping, self-care, and reading up on mental health nutrition are huge wins. I'd go on, but your list is pretty packed up there so I'll be brief instead, haha! It's heartwarming to see the effort you’ve put into your marriage. The spicy lingerie, your shift in style, and finding a different haircut/makeup routine that your partner appreciates while also being easier on you…
/r/RedPillWives02/10/24 02:12 AM
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I might need to rethink how much redpill ideology I'll be able to hold on to going forward I'm not sure what the consensus is on what red pill is on /r/RedPillWives, but on /r/RedPillWomen it's not an ideology. There's traditional conservative women who uses the strategies and advice as well as feminist, sex workers, and women with modern values and it doesn't look the same for each person except that it's a male led relationship. The main subreddit usually advises everyone that it's really help…
/r/RedPillWives02/10/24 02:01 AM
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Hey Berry, welcome back. I occasionally lurk on RPWi and seen that the OYS journals had a small hiatus which is pretty natural considering the past history and pattern of 'Mega Meal Monday' and other previous weekly/monthly community events for the subreddits. It's usually more like a sprint vs a marathon and that's ok considering the community's natural 'personality' and 'traits' when it comes to these sort of things both on the main subreddit and the smaller sister sub. Some encouragement as r…
/r/RedPillWives20/09/24 03:23 AM
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This is a great field report! Thank you for sharing your experience. It looks like a lot of our community ECs went through some form of nun mode at a point and time in their life.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/24 05:06 AM
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I like your advice on proactively vetting yourself in order to know where to start your search for circles of men who you naturally have connection with. But what if you're religious and have a small church without many options in a pretty small town? Or are limited in a small work place without many eligible co-workers and don't want to damage work place relations. How do you get the chance to practice vetting, incremental reciprocation, dropping the handkerchief, etc. if there's only so many e…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 05:24 PM
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Instead of having an abundance, which means having many partners. Be more choosy on your standards... and then when you find what you like chase it. I disagree. If you're a college student who studies in their room alone all the time and raise your standards... You're now a college student with higher standards who studies in their room alone all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 05:11 PM
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I started the community discussion, in general, to talk about abundance and scarcity mentality and if having solid places to meet people is a good or bad thing and how to do it. I'm usually at the gym, libraries, coffee shops and attending business meetings and am in a 3+ year LTR. When I was younger, I was hyper religious due to upbringing in a small town and the only dating pool was pretty much the church until I started being more proactive with becoming more social and expanding my routine o…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 05:09 PM
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This subreddit is about dating strategy for women. Hypergamy and seeking dominant men will mean these men will have options to pick from. Limiting your dating strategy to be nice, be pretty, don't cause drama is table stakes. The relationship market place is unequal and rewards those who are skilled.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/24 12:58 AM
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I've never heard a man complain "my wife loves me and we have great time together, I just wish she was more exciting and unpredictable." Jeff Bezos divorce from his first wife and subsequent dating of Lauren Sanchez. I've never heard a man complain "my wife loves me and we have great time together, I just wish she was more exciting and unpredictable." But most women can't even do the basics. No reason to worry about being mysterious. I believe there's a subreddit rule for men that personal prefe…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/24 12:39 AM
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You've settled into a stable and solid routine where you have your favorite places to go out to eat together, shows you enjoy watching and know each others likes and dislikes, work and life routines where you're now deep past the honey moon phase where everything was new and exciting. Things begin to become routine and boring because you already 'know everything about each other', but still enjoyable because you deeply enjoy each others company. Planning surprise dates where you hide your intent…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/24 12:23 AM
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Why do men like lingerie? Because there's tension, mystery, and novelty in addition to sexual intention underlying it all.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/24 12:09 AM
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"I am the prize" is definite. You are already there, complete and worthy of being won. No effort is required and anyone who doesn't see you as a prize isn't worthy. However, "be the prize" is instructive and fits in with RPW's goals of being the best version of yourself for your desired man / type of man. Since it's instructive and sets a goal that can be accomplished, it is still telling women (and men) to value themselves. Maybe you need to work a little to get to where you value yourself but …
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 09:45 PM
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Thank you for sharing! I know it's kind of a silly question, but did you feel like your husband was The Prize when you were dating and that was why you went all in?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 03:02 AM
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If hypergamy is a thing and we choose the highest value male that we can, then I guess that makes the man the prize. I like that you mention this. 'I'm the Prize' mentality was big over at r/femaledatingstrategy because many girls had a 'pick me' mindset (overly investing time, emotions, sex, and attention to unreciprocal or 'low value' men because of low self-esteem) and a way to counteract pedestalizing men was to swing the other way and cultivate the 'Be the Prize' mindset and have men chase …
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 01:08 AM
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