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Be happy being single, if a lady tells you shes crazy or someone has called her crazy, believe it and steer clear. I lost my entire career in medicine because of a false accusation from another doctor (she insinuated I gave her sleeping pills, all that happened was she was freaking out upset she was called ugly). Nothing happened to her, I was kicked out of my program, lost all my friends, Ive had people call me a rapist and threaten to shoot me, all kinds of garbage just because she IMAGINED so…
/r/MensRights01/11/23 11:41 PM
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I got framed for date rape from a situation where I was helping someone who freaked out on their molly trip bc someone else called them ugly. No video, no tests, no testimonies, no questions asked, just straight to her insinuating and questioning date rape about me and me getting framed and my entire career ruined. Then she later said oops and if it doesn't matter to her why should it matter.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 04:42 PM
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Because it doesn't really even exist.. women can literally kill a baby and beat the shit out of men, nobody cares.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 02:24 PM
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LOL my advice to you man, what happened with this situation is fucked up and shitty and if anything she should be asked to leave for causing an entirely unnecessary situation. For your own sake and the rest of our sakes, PLEASE do NOT call ladies ugly. I recently had an ex who had someone ELSE call her "ugly", and she apparently felt so bad about talking about that with me she yelled at me and then months later was embarrassed or who know what so she somehow fucking framed me for date rape and f…
/r/MensRights20/01/23 08:10 PM
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Not really. There was a questionnaire out there that didnt even have an option for women abusing men, only a question for men abusing women. People dont even that the opportunity to ACKNOWLEDGE women do homicidal shit and beat the shit out of men all the time.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 08:16 PM
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I had my brains beat in by an ex's lady friend who jumped and just started wailing on my head while my ex screamed at her to stop... and all I did was get up and get away from her, she kept chasing me, I got away, waited a bit, went back when she calmed down, and got them a ride home. Ladies now tell me that that chick deserved to be safe afterwards. This is why women can kill babies and people will find something a guy said to her 3 years ago to say she was traumatized to justify the baby being…
/r/MensRights04/01/23 04:26 PM
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I am sorry this happened to you. I got fucked out of a career too and she later said "oops nvm"
/r/MensRights01/01/23 11:24 AM
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If you say anything that goes against women and is in favor of men not getting fucked over by the system.. you're going to lose. It can be logical, you will still lose. If you use logic or apply actual equality, people will get mad at you.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 09:56 AM
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They don't REALLY want equality lol
/r/MensRights28/12/22 11:27 AM
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I was halfway through school so I didnt even get that far. She changed up her story and decided it doesn't matter anymore Damage done
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:33 AM
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Well ladies make false accusations, spread rumors, run off and say "oopsie", then when they beat the shit out of men, they tell men to not spread rumors and just go to therapy.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:07 AM
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Truly. 3 of past partners have cooked some bizarro shit up about me past few years. Not sure where it comes from.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 09:39 AM
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I mean.. feminism is not equality at all lol they can make false rape accusations, mob you, destroy your life, you become outcast, a few people feel bad for you, but most just say "oopsie" then they just continue to mob on in their bizarre mentality where women don't do anything wrong and if you bring any of the violent shit women do up they just tell you to go to therapy.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 05:14 PM
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I had gotten into a surgery program abroad but I couldnt transfer any credits and it would have been 6 MORE years on top of 350k+ cash for tuition and living and travel expenses. Idk. Everything got fucked up bc of that BS. I have a remote job now that I can travel with.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:12 PM
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I honestly can't tell if people actually care about SA or just like to spread rumors and sound good for each other talking about things and pursuing "justice". These past couple years I've had multiple 30 y/o women SA me and.. people just kinda laugh and say "oh maybe she was being kinky" But then I had my life destroyed because an ex imagined some date rape stuff about me. So I am not really sure how society even works anymore. The further I come along the more I realize people are just dumb an…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 06:34 AM
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Man, I am sorry that happened to you. It is nuts. Stressful. Unfair. What field are you in now?
/r/MensRights26/12/22 07:16 PM
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You definitely aren't worthless for any reason, also, seeing a sex worker is fine. Just make sure you discuss what you want to do before hand and don't get robbed.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 07:02 PM
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https://abcnews.go.com/GMA/story?id=8249454&page=1
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:23 PM
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Very messed up. I remember one other mother who was driving drunk into traffic or something with her kids? IDK where the ideas come from.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:21 PM
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Looks like she drugged them too.... holy shit.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 03:38 PM
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It is wild.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 03:35 PM
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Yeaaa I got metoo mobbed by my own FAMILY because an ex of mine imagined some date rape shit about me and nobody even asked me what happened. Lost my career, friends, family, everyone, now just a few people say sorry and they just weren't sure. Had another ex (around 30 years old) touching my dick multiple nights til I had to yell at her to stop and upset saying stabbing stuff to me and all I did was give her a hug and say please don't do that... and another one of her friends straight up starte…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 01:27 PM
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Nobody will.. I got framed for sleeping pills / date rape, lost my entire medical career and life, she later said oopsie nvm, now I literally don't have anything but a basically minimum wage job, lost all my friends, and only a few people just say they are sorry they didn't know what happened at the time..
/r/MensRights26/12/22 12:50 PM
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Im starting to realize that the people / authorities who don’t hold women accountable for their violent and homicidal garbage are really just lonely / sad dudes who want to be in the ladies good graces and want ladies to give them attention, so they go easy on them and justify it all some way, some how. To the point where if a woman kills a baby, they will find some way to say a guy upset her and she was just being emotional Example, I had a title ix guy tell me that in grad school, one of my ex…
/r/MensRights25/12/22 05:31 AM
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I think the bigger question is.. why don’t women get equally cancelled? I’ve had ladies get straight up brutally violent and potentially homicidal with me and other women said “oh.. well.. she deserves to be safe even though she did that” 😂 I agree though false accusations are insane and really fuck peoples lives and mentalities up and the retards who believe them are just as bad if not worse than the false accusers
/r/MensRights25/12/22 04:59 AM
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There is no way. Nobody will budge. They know I would make hundreds of millions
/r/MensRights24/12/22 07:50 AM
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This is hilarious, I’d say it is a bit odd to ONLY want to date Asian ladies, and there are definitely guys who do that which is weird, but in my experience as a brown guy, other brown girls just “tasted” weird when we were making out.. and it was with multiple people and it wasn’t a hygiene thing. I think sometimes mixing gene pools from around the world is actually a good thing
/r/MensRights24/12/22 06:30 AM
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Women beat the shit out of men and then spread rumors men are dangerous.. men stay silent and go to therapy!
/r/MensRights24/12/22 05:54 AM
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Talk about it early on and teach consent education as early as possible. I’ve had multiple nearly 30 year old women SA me, one beat the shit out of my head, another said stabbing stuff to me, I tried to get help and basically got laughed at.. Society doesn’t actually care if anything happens to guys…. See military service, see guys getting falsely accused and ditched by society, see basically anything that unfortunate that happens to men.. they just get left behind. So the best thing you can do …
/r/MensRights24/12/22 03:15 AM
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It happened to me. Ex cooked up some date rape insinuating stuff about me.. then somehow everyone was talking about sleeping pills with me. I explained to my program nothing like that happened, she said oopsie and changed her mind, I basically got told I was the unprofessional one and was essentially told to leave. There is no winning.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 02:32 AM
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What exactly are they gonna do? All they’re doing is making ladies look more crazy bc they literally do the stuff they don’t want done to them..
/r/MensRights23/12/22 11:59 PM
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Ya Idk I feel like I got absolutely railed and it’s a bit unfair I was somehow told I was the unprofessional for explaining that didn’t happen. It was a couple years ago. Not much I can do now really though just try to live my life and try to stay away from those people
/r/MensRights23/12/22 11:54 PM
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I had an ex be upset and she said homicidal stabbing shit to me after multiple nights of me waking up to her touching my junk, to the point I had to yell at her to stop.. then, one of her lady friends punched me in the head multiple times out of nowhere.. and another one of her other lady friends just grabbed my junk when we were in grad school.. years later she STILL told me that “women worry” and I was like.. worry about what? worry about the stuff you and your friends did / said to me? Then s…
/r/MensRights23/12/22 09:57 PM
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Bruh good luck, I had someone cook up date rape shit about me, I lost MY entire medical career, she said oopsie, now my family and friends don’t talk to me, only a few say “sorry… we just.. didn’t know”
/r/MensRights23/12/22 12:15 PM
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She said / did stuff in private, then changed her mind via text. I tried to get the video from the bar but it was way beyond 15days
/r/MensRights23/12/22 08:51 AM
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She said / did stuff in private, then changed her mind via text
/r/MensRights23/12/22 08:50 AM
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Don’t do this bc then she will go around telling her moron friends you’re gay and then you’ll have a whole squadron of people trying to claim you’re a pedophile too. Record her saying you were good, record yourself saying you just need to break up bc you need to focus on yourself, record you peacefully leaving, and stay the fuck away from her, and DO NOT TALK TO HER I had an ex like this cook date rape shit up MONTHS after we broke up even after nothing bad happened and STILL I lost literally ev…
/r/MensRights23/12/22 08:18 AM
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I mean their station is their station but it sucks they would ridicule you or your wife for your relationship
/r/MensRights22/12/22 05:08 PM
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Im sorry your coworkers wouldn’t appreciate your partner. Some people are dump
/r/MensRights22/12/22 04:51 PM
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LMAO the title ix admin when I was in grad school told me a lady grabbing my junk was “sexual harassment” … and a lady cousin in dental school told me a lady touching my dick multiple nights til I had to yell at her to stop was her maybe being “kinky” 😂😂😂
/r/MensRights22/12/22 10:13 AM
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I couldnt she changed her mind and now everyone just sits silent when I ask what to do
/r/MensRights22/12/22 08:55 AM
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Haha fuck the party not worth. Have a 1 on 1 party with your S/O who they would be angry at 😂
/r/MensRights21/12/22 08:05 PM
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Lol I went with one of my ex’s and she was going around telling people I didn’t tell her she was pretty often enough 😂😂 Lessons learned
/r/MensRights21/12/22 07:51 PM
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And the dedicated team tells you to go to therapy / see a professional.. and then therapists tell you to cope… worthless
/r/MensRights21/12/22 07:05 PM
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I tried everything.. people who know what happened and know just sit completely silent when I try to talk about it and she has blocked me and didn’t answer any questions
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:15 PM
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Ya
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:13 PM
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This happened to me in grad school, the title IX person said that my ex’s friend reaching her hand out and grabbing my junk was “sexual harassment” 😂
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:07 PM
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Eh. You can be sober and still get fucked
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:15 PM
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Bigly suggest
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:06 PM
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Ya.. someone else called her ugly.. I somehow got framed for date rape.. I was told I was unprofessional and got kicked out.. she said oopsie.. I got screwed.. for her ugly feelings
/r/MensRights21/12/22 03:51 PM
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Nah I still go out it’s just hilarious how ladies can say that stuff and then say oopsie. But work functions are a no-go for me.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 03:06 PM
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Maybe other countries. In USA, a woman can imagine date rape because she felt “ugly” .. everyone will believe it, fuck your entire career and life up, then say oopsie and tell you to “cope” 😂
/r/MensRights21/12/22 01:48 PM
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Yes 🎥
/r/MensRights21/12/22 01:05 PM
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Another way to do it. Thank you
/r/MensRights21/12/22 01:05 PM
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I mean.. I’ve had female medical professionals say an SA situation was a lady maybe being “kinky” with me 😂
/r/MensRights21/12/22 06:05 AM
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On the website for child trauma quiz, there isn’t even an option for mother abused father So oppressive!! .. towards men https://ineffableliving.com/childhood-trauma-test/
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:38 AM
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V embarrassing
/r/MensRights20/12/22 07:35 PM
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Ugh poor lady :(
/r/MensRights20/12/22 07:32 PM
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Yeah I’ve heard about that happening.. it’s insane
/r/MensRights20/12/22 07:23 PM
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I didn’t mind it I just thought it was hilarious we walked into the bar together pretty sober and then the next day she cooked up a whole story about how she snuck in and didn’t get a wrist stamp..
/r/MensRights20/12/22 07:23 PM
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😡
/r/MensRights20/12/22 07:22 PM
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Good luck to you, if you talk about anything men are struggling with ladies will just laugh at you and the men who simp for them will just sit silent 😂
/r/MensRights20/12/22 04:28 AM
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Yeah honestly.. it is scary. Idk what kind of lives “average citizens” live but people are just thirsty for that shit and will believe literally anything women say, until the guy has to literally fight for his life to say nothing like that happened at all… then they just walk away and say “oh sorry we just didn’t know”
/r/MensRights18/12/22 03:13 AM
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Ya.. i got fucking mobbed out of my entire medical career because my ex felt ugly and apparently was embarrassed so she cooked up date rape shit then months later decided never mind.. and now YEARS later a few people say “oh sorry we just didn’t know”
/r/MensRights18/12/22 02:53 AM
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I’d say mail order bride stuff is pretty bizarre.. especially because it can come off as some sort of sex trafficking situation for people who don’t know how it works. Also some guys are so desperate they’ll blow their entire bank on a lady who ends up using them for their citizenship. That said, after having my mentality and career destroyed a few years back because a previous partner imagined some date rape shit about me, which somehow spread around town and fucked my entire life up, and then …
/r/MensRights18/12/22 01:52 AM
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Are you sure about that? I’ve been sexually assaulted quite a few times, I’ve had a lady ram her hand into my mouth and scrape up my throat with her nails.. I’d rather have that again than be tortured or go to fucking prison Also, I HAVE had someone cook up some date rape shit about me and then quickly say “oh nevermind” after I subsequently lost my entire career… and the pain from being framed for that, then losing my friends, and losing years of time and money was 10000x worse than being assau…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 02:47 PM
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No, Tun the fuck away, it could turn and happen to you
/r/MensRights17/12/22 02:43 PM
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Lol bottom G Instagram page
/r/MensRights16/12/22 05:47 AM
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“Y’all” is the best
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:51 PM
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It’s insane
/r/MensRights15/12/22 10:08 AM
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Ya this shit can destroy your life and career and they can say oopsie and nobody cares
/r/MensRights15/12/22 09:37 AM
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How do you feel about bottom g
/r/MensRights15/12/22 08:21 AM
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How do you feel about bottom g
/r/MensRights15/12/22 08:21 AM
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Yea I mean, I had an ssri for a bit because I was pretty depressed.. and it helped.. but then i got fat and that was just.. more frustrating. Then I started the adderall, it helped me lose weight, and I again almost cried when I started it because it literally cleared my mind of all of the racing thoughts that were going through my mind and the general anxiety I was experiencing Maybe worth a try. I’ve found the adderall fixes the dopamine squeeze that comes from the racing anxious thoughts
/r/MensRights09/12/22 08:38 PM
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Ah I see.. good to figure out what works for you! Interestingly, my anxiety / restlessness nearly vanished when I started meth (adderall 15mg ER) rather than an ssri, which just made me gain like 30 lbs and feel sluggish and honestly just… worse.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 08:31 PM
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Nice💪🏽💪🏽Have you tried shrooms at all? It seems like they also help with facing frustrations with the sorts of situations where it feels like things are unfair In my experience thc just made me feel more anxious about them whereas shrooms helped me process them
/r/MensRights09/12/22 08:27 PM
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Well that is understandable. I’ve definitely also found myself in positions where I cried because of how scared I felt of the feelings of frustration I was having. But! I’ve also learned adding MORE violence into the world doesn’t really help anyone at all, and in fact, just makes you feel worse in the long run. Have you considered boxing / BJJ / MMA training? Sometimes it helps to take the feelings out in a healthy manner rather than sitting inebriated with the feelings
/r/MensRights09/12/22 08:23 PM
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😂 sounds like you need to chill. But yes. Good to figure out how to learn and avoid it
/r/MensRights09/12/22 02:17 PM
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Ya til the 1700s lynch mob comes thru
/r/MensRights09/12/22 09:02 AM
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Obv now she can cry and say “you people care too much” and everyone will whip out their hankerchiefs and say it’s ok honey the brown man made you do it
/r/MensRights09/12/22 08:42 AM
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Bc man’s mind controlled her to do that stuff
/r/MensRights09/12/22 08:34 AM
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Yea it happened to me, I found an ex basically cheating, saying she didn’t care about me in her messages to some other guy. I confronted her, she started just… bawling crying out of nowhere… and then told me I cared too much… and then i was shocked like damn.. this whole situation just got flipped on me. Then she went and told her friends some shit and then they were yelling at me for some reason when she was the one saying she didn’t care about me 🤔
/r/MensRights09/12/22 12:18 AM
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This is true. People don’t like being held accountable in general. But it seems that men are more often held accountable than women, and to degrees that they can have their lives ruined by a simple suggestion a lady makes about them, even if nothing like that happened at all.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 10:49 PM
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It’s not puzzling, it’s just that women can literally turn a situation where they get embarrassed about something THEY did into a guy roofied and raped them, and the guy who didn’t even do anything will get fucked out of an entire career, and she can say “oh oopsie never mind” It literally happened to me, I got yeeted out of my medical program because a doctor I was dating at the time cooked up some date rape insinuating shit about me because apparently she was embarrassed she got called ugly / …
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:12 PM
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My friend. I simply poured a water for an ex bc she was upset someone else called her ugly when we did some molly, she went to throw up, I tried to help her calm down…. My own cousin was there… and I still got framed for date rape.. bc apparently she was embarassed about her ugly feelings. Then next day she was even upset again bc my dick didn’t work bc of the molly we took. You can be helping someone and not even do anything remotely sexual and have your life destroyed I got worried, told my pr…
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:07 AM
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This is confusing but I’m sure there are some guys out there that hate men. Same as women who vote for people who get rid of abortion rights. Very bizarre.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 06:08 AM
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Hey man I have been here before. Few years back I was out with someone I was dating at the time (doctor at another hospital) and my cousin, we had done some molly, out of nowhere she was upset someone else apparently called her ugly, ran off to throw up, I got her a water, the rest of the night she was just.. grumpy. Next day she was upset again bc my dick wouldn’t work for her bc that’s what happens when you do molly. Days later she was weirdly asking about the molly as if it was “different” an…
/r/MensRights08/12/22 05:16 AM
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Which dude? Me dude?
/r/MensRights07/12/22 06:29 PM
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Well.. it’s good you at least expressed you weren’t bothered. People will find any reason to get grumpy
/r/MensRights07/12/22 08:58 AM
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I mean in my case people sided with her and then when I talk about it people just get silent and leave or say “sorry we just didn’t know” .. and she is still a doctor.. and i got fucked out of med school.. so .. ladies who do that stuff just go on their merry way
/r/MensRights06/12/22 10:43 PM
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It happened to a friend in college too. He got kicked out, 2 years later she said she made it up, he lost his entire degree and had to move elsewhere anyways
/r/MensRights06/12/22 10:14 PM
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Yeah I mean nowadays people would rather leave than solve issues so idk. Also it is dangerous for guys because if a lady decides she doesn't like you or felt embarrassed by something, she can say whatever the fuck she wants and can literally destroy your entire career.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 06:38 PM
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Ya it’s kinda fascist. This questionnaire is a good example. It has literally no option to say “mother abused father” but it does have an option “father abused mother” https://ineffableliving.com/childhood-trauma-test/
/r/MensRights06/12/22 08:53 AM
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Well said
/r/MensRights06/12/22 08:49 AM
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Result of no nut November perhaps
/r/MensRights06/12/22 08:46 AM
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Yea I had an ex come at me with stabbing ideations once and apparently IM the bad person for leaving
/r/MensRights06/12/22 08:16 AM
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Perhaps yeah. It’s amazing bc my aunt who is a doctor sent me this questionnaire, notice how there isn’t even a question to say “mother abused father” 😂 https://ineffableliving.com/childhood-trauma-test/
/r/MensRights06/12/22 08:15 AM
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Well good luck to you if you get falsely accused of something. I had someone cook up some date rape shit about me, lost my career, lost all my friends, she then decided “oh doesn’t matter” and now 3-4 years later only a few people barely even talk to me and some say “sorry.. we just didn’t know”
/r/MensRights06/12/22 08:12 AM
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Yea I’ve seen that. That guy actually got a lot of support the years after I think
/r/MensRights06/12/22 06:03 AM
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Yea that’s what is the most difficult
/r/MensRights06/12/22 04:46 AM
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Well.. stay safe out there. Lots of wild people
/r/MensRights06/12/22 03:17 AM
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Yeah that all makes sense. Just gotta try to regulate things and educate people as much as possible about being cautious
/r/MensRights06/12/22 03:06 AM
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That’s interesting. Yea it seems like if you legalize things, people will try it, maybe realize it wasn’t everything it was hyped up to be, and then move on, OR if they like it, at least it is regulated and safe and not cut with things that could kill you
/r/MensRights06/12/22 02:36 AM
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Sometimes you gotta fight grumpy with grumpy
/r/MensRights06/12/22 02:03 AM
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😂 sounds like someone grumpy you don’t agree with them
/r/MensRights06/12/22 02:02 AM
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Well that’s progress. I would also feel apprehensive if it was cops but I also am all for legalizing some drugs (shrooms mdma ketamine acid) just bc I feel like people are going to try to find them anyways so might as well make it as safe as possible for people.. but yes hard stuff like meth and heroin and pcp and whatever other K2 garbage I feel need to be reduced Yea check it out it’s in the USA I think but they ship test kits that work really well for testing all kinds of stuff and fentanyl
/r/MensRights06/12/22 01:40 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights06/12/22 01:35 AM
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It’s beyond fucked up to give someone anything with the intention to knock them out. I just always try to test kit my stuff so everyone has a good time and I agree, festivals / clubs / cities should have test centers just like they have med tents. In fact I feel like it would make everything 100x safer and less stressful for med tents if there was a free test tent for people to use You should check out this dance safe site they have lots of good resources https://dancesafe.org/shop/
/r/MensRights06/12/22 01:29 AM
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How so for gender identity?
/r/MensRights06/12/22 01:22 AM
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Ya its one thing to do it yourself, I wouldn’t recommend it but if you are taking anything yourself you should also be taking the steps to test it to make sure it is what you think it is, or you run the risk of whatever happens if it’s cut with something else. But I think the fact anyone knowingly just doses people up to get them fucked up / blacked out is insane. And yes, got out of there
/r/MensRights06/12/22 01:17 AM
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I mean yeah even Xanax and alcohol together Can very easily black someone who isn’t a very big person out after 2-3 drinks easy so whatever else they gave her I’m sure was more than enough to mess her up. That’s fucking nuts and people who feed people pills knowing it will get them blacked out like that are disgusting. I am sorry your friend experienced that. I had an ex who was jokingly saying she WANTED to get roofied once to see what it was like and I was like alright… y’all are insane..
/r/MensRights06/12/22 01:08 AM
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Yea ok well I understand your concern with your friend being drugged. In my mind, anyone who fuckin uses Roofies should just be put into prison and not let out ever. Getting framed for that shit not only ruined my fucking social life and mental health i literally lost my entire career. To use any substance to render someone unresponsive is fucking insane
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:54 AM
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I’ve also had nearly 30 year old parters grab my junk, touch my dick multiple nights til I had to yell at them to stop, one of my ex’s friends was upset about who knows what and punched me in the head a bunch.. I went to get help and got laughed at, and when I talk about it with friends people are just like ah sorry man
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:23 AM
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I could def see that perspective. I guess in my experience, I had an ex a few years back cook up some date rape insinuating shit about me, everyone in my life just left me and I lost my career then was talking about stuff all the time, I explained left and right nothing like that happened, she changed her story up on me saying oopsie nvm, now everyone just sits silent like 😳 when I ask why they even believed that stuff in the first place, now 3-4 YEARS later people are barely trickling back to m…
/r/MensRights06/12/22 12:18 AM
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Idk if it’s getting away with anything it’s just not treating situations equally..
/r/MensRights05/12/22 11:55 PM
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Tell them to treat situations equally
/r/MensRights05/12/22 11:54 PM
3

Doesn’t matter, stay away from those people. In my experience, anyone who tells you that you communicating consent is “annoying” or “not necessary” will also say something insane
/r/MensRights05/12/22 05:36 PM
3

Yea idk what’s up with women. That is fucking nuts. Another ex said she WANTED to be roofied.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 05:33 PM
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Eh you can call out double standards all you want, people will just run away from those conversations because it’s so engrained innsociety
/r/MensRights05/12/22 08:03 AM
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Ya man. I got my life fucked up bc another 30 year old lady I was dating IMAGINED date rape about me bc she was upset bc she felt “ugly” on some molly we did. It’s fucking nuts
/r/MensRights04/12/22 09:59 PM
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Lol one of my ex’s (nearly 30) was complaint about how women are afraid of getting raped and attacked and whatever, when one of her lady friends grabbed my junk, one of her of other lady friends jumped me out of nowhere and just punched me in the head a bunch, and she herself was saying stabbing ideations shit to me a few days after she was touching my dick multiple nights, to the point I had to yell at her to stop, and then she was upset bc I had to explain boners don’t mean you want to have se…
/r/MensRights04/12/22 08:23 PM
2

I got my life and career fucked up 3 years ago bc an ex cooked up some date rape shit about me, then months later I got framed for it, then months after that, she decided oopsie maybe not... For THREE YEARS now I have been told by every therapist and doctor that I go to that I am somehow "schizophrenic" just because I am frustrated about the fact that all I did was make sure she was OK when she freaked out on me, and instead of them saying "hey thank you for getting her a water and helping her c…
/r/MensRights03/12/22 08:09 PM
1

Every therapist / psych I have gone to in the past 3 years has just told me I sound schizophrenic... just because she changed up her story, and I don't have the videos. My dad (also a doctor) literally USES that as an excuse to lie to me and say I have schizophrenia. I wisened up and got a video this time, and lo and behold, just like my ex lying, this time I have a video of the situation, and poof, no schizophrenia, just lying doctors.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 07:07 PM
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Women are so oppressed.. the childhood trauma questionnaires don't even have an option to say "mother hit/abused father in front of kids" https://ineffableliving.com/childhood-trauma-test/
/r/MensRights03/12/22 07:03 PM
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I think the best way is to just totally avoid any sort of societal gender influence on situations. Society is still so fucked where all the women (in my experience) say women doing sexual assault stuff is just them being “very sexual” or “kinky” but if I pour a water for lady yelling at me, I’m somehow made out to be a date rapist… and then she just says oh never mind and I still lose my entire career and friends
/r/MensRights03/12/22 06:23 AM
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I mean yeah it’s an insane double standard. I was hooking up with a lady and had her ram her hand INTO my mouth out of nowhere and scrape up my back of my throat with her nails and give me an infection for a week If a guy did that people would probably be running around saying to chop his hand off lol
/r/MensRights03/12/22 05:42 AM
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Hmm well... she said she was "actually very sexual" and my second cousin (a lady) said she was maybe trying to be "kinky" So I guess when nearly 30 year old ladies do that stuff.. it's just.. them being very sexual and kinky
/r/MensRights03/12/22 05:18 AM
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I went to get help for the situation and try to talk about it, and instead of anything productive, they told me I sound schizophrenic (because she changed up her story and said she had a “great time that night” and it didn’t matter if she was questioning date rape stuff anymore) So now, since I don’t have the video, people just sit like 😳 because they watched people cook up date rape about me when nothing like that happened and it is like 4 years later and people are telling me they are sorry an…
/r/MensRights03/12/22 04:32 AM
9

I actually offered to her to sue whoever she went and talked to who got her questioning that stuff but she didn’t answer
/r/MensRights03/12/22 02:03 AM
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Hey man, I went through some similar shit with an ex. I didn’t end up in jail, but I lost all my friends and my entire medical career. The lady I was with and I didn’t even have sex that night, we were out and she actually yelled at ME because someone else called her ugly, and then somehow cooked up some date rape garbage about me even though my cousin was there with us too I went to a lawyer and he said not to talk to her, which actually made everything worse, because she apparently got people …
/r/MensRights03/12/22 01:50 AM
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My advice, just talk to a lawyer and see why they say. Don’t say anything else to HR. I got kicked out of an entire career because a lady made up some date rape shit about me when in reality she yelled at me because she got called ugly by someone else. Women will literally flip an entire situation on you because they’re embarrassed and can make you look like a rapist when all you did was pour a water and try to help them calm down, and when they want an out of the situation, they demonize you ra…
/r/MensRights03/12/22 01:14 AM
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My 30 y/o ex had this mentality. She would be touching my dick multiple nights and when I had to yell at her to stop, she got upset and said erections mean you WANT TO HAVE SEX
/r/MensRights02/12/22 11:17 PM
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Honestly in this day and age, no.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:30 AM
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These are probably the same women who come up with these questionnaires where there isnt even an option to say "mother abused father" https://ineffableliving.com/childhood-trauma-test/
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:01 AM
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Dude I know it sucks, but spare yourself and find someone who is willing to talk about all issues and perspectives. I had my entire life and career fucked up because one of my ex's freaked out on some molly and was insinuating date rape shit when all i did was pour a water for her because she freaked out bc she didnt like being called ugly 20 years ago or something. I literally got kicked out of medicine, lost all my friends, lost basically everything.. because she felt ugly.. then decided oh ne…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 12:51 AM
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Ya it wasn’t even that that made me leave it was her non-stop biting me and then she was talking about babies all the time and I was like yo I am sorry but I can’t do this anymore
/r/MensRights29/11/22 04:29 AM
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Lol when i (now 30m) was in highschool the women in the counseling office would hit on me (17-18 y/o) and then in college one of my ex’s aunts (40-50) who was a nurse was apparently VERY excited to guess the size of my dick and apparently did it with male patients I feel like women scream this stuff about men but then they’re the ones out here giddily sexualizing guys like half their age and then projecting that shit onto guys
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:24 AM
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I don’t want to tbh
/r/MensRights28/11/22 09:35 PM
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Lol I had an ex nearly 30 y/o touching my dick at least three nights til I had to yell at her to stop. Then I came home one evening and she was upset coming at me with homicidal stabbing ideations. Apparently years later I’m the bad person for leaving that situation
/r/MensRights28/11/22 09:16 PM
3

Why would they lol women can kill a baby and they say “oh she was emotional”
/r/MensRights28/11/22 07:26 PM
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Yeah well if women do anything violent, the problem isn’t them, it’s always a question of what men “did” to make her do it 😂 But if a guy does anything.. he is the problem no matter what
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:18 PM
2

As with most places
/r/MensRights28/11/22 09:31 AM
2

Yikes. Better to stay single and keep your mouth shut
/r/MensRights28/11/22 08:27 AM
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Lol 14 seconds?? What does that even mean
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:55 AM
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Yeah that is wild
/r/MensRights28/11/22 12:31 AM
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It’s all good, we are all bitter about something. Best thing to do is try to figure out how to overcome it.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 10:45 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s wasted energy. I know from experience that if you help people, they’ll still turn on you, so all you can really do is just help people and not expect anything in return. It sucks but that’s just the way it is. I lost a lot of friends and now just work from home and go to the pub and go to music shows. Not much else to do unless you happen upon some money and can make a new business or something.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 10:43 PM
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Another struggle of these situations is that therapists can say you said something or say they didn’t say something, and if you don’t have proof, they can just say you seem schizophrenic. It happened to me My advice to you is to avoid anyone who says anything like that to you. Instead of therapy, try to just be honest with yourself, and always tell the truth to people. Then you won’t get caught up in shit and end up feeling worse If you can start exercising as much as possible and find something…
/r/MensRights27/11/22 09:36 PM
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Yeah I mean that’s how it is for men still. If a therapist tells you it’s ok to kill yourself, you should report them
/r/MensRights27/11/22 08:59 PM
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I mean.. have you been to therapy as a guy? Not much happens beyond you’re told you’re a good guy for putting up with women beating your brains in and saying homicidal stuff to you.. not to say shooting anything up is right at all, it isn’t, and I think the issue is that middle / highschools don’t do anything to cater towards students mental health unless a problem actually arises but by then it can be too late
/r/MensRights27/11/22 07:25 PM
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Yea man it is wild. The same happened to me months later. I’m not sure how ladies see reality, but if you can be simply helping them out and they shift things to you being some sort of dangerous person.. you just have to walk away and stand your ground I’m sorry that happened to you
/r/MensRights27/11/22 10:07 AM
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I will check it out
/r/MensRights27/11/22 08:53 AM
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I would agree with you to an extent, yes believe people but also yes there needs to be an investigation into the claim For me, I got a situation flipped from me helping a lady who freaked out and yelled at me into date rape insinuations.. and then now everyone just sits silent like 😳 when I ask why they said that stuff about me
/r/MensRights27/11/22 08:42 AM
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I mean in my experience, all you can do is just move on and wait to see if someone comes and asks you about what happened. Trying to prove innocence of anything Can just make stuff worse It sounds like she just blocked you and is trying to move on, so the best thing you can do Is do the same
/r/MensRights27/11/22 08:07 AM
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Oh yeah it’s ptsd lol I think about it every fucking day I’ve had my head beaten in by ladies out of nowhere, I’ve had ex’s get stabby ideations with me.. none of that shit bothered me It is fucking SCARY someone can flip a fuckin situation where you were helping THEM into making it look like you gave them some sort of malicious substance
/r/MensRights27/11/22 08:05 AM
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Man, my advice to you, stay OFF the apps. Most I’ve met from there said very strange stuff / falsely accused me of some straight up wild shit Just don’t go on the apps. If you want to meet someone, meet them out organically
/r/MensRights27/11/22 07:49 AM
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Yeah believe, but also, do what you need to figure out what exactly is going on. It’s like those ladies in Kansas City who some guy had in cages whipping and raping and torturing them recently. They got LAUGHED AT until one finally escaped and got help
/r/MensRights27/11/22 07:46 AM
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Well yeah, I tried to get the video from the bar to show her yelling at me and storming off to throw up and everything AND my cousin was there too, yet she was still questioning things as if something bad happened Fucking nuts
/r/MensRights27/11/22 07:09 AM
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Well no, because she has since decided it didn’t matter to her.. and everyone else just sits silent and avoids talking about it all 😂 I actualy offered to work together with her to sue whoever she talked to that got her questioning that stuff but she didn’t answer
/r/MensRights27/11/22 07:03 AM
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I did actually get into an Irish surgical program and was gonna go to that but it would’ve been 6 more years and cash only and I just didn’t have the motivation after what happened
/r/MensRights27/11/22 06:41 AM
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Thats true i guess. Then yes, investigate, then believe
/r/MensRights27/11/22 06:39 AM
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Yeah idk I could go somewhere cheaper and just start anew but I also just don’t feel the inspiration to do so
/r/MensRights27/11/22 06:10 AM
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I never said to believe and not think, I think believe is fine, but also, investigate to get to the reality of the situation
/r/MensRights27/11/22 06:09 AM
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I cant really afford to go anywhere is the thing. I was in medical school to become a doctor, that got fucked, now I’m stuck with a little work from home job that just covers bills and whatever monthly expenses.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:43 AM
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Yea idk really what to do but maybe you’re right
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:38 AM
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Idk I guess I am just hoping they will apologize. But maybe they won’t
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:26 AM
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Yeah it has fucked my entire mentality up. Like.. all I did was get her a water to help her calm down bc she was upset she was called ugly 20 years ago or something… and i got made out to look like a roofie rapist.. and now 3-4 years later after people trying to convince me I’m “schizophrenic” for explaining the situation .. they say “oh sorry we didn’t know” Idk. It has been hard
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:26 AM
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Yeah well, you can believe them, and investigate it thoroughly
/r/MensRights27/11/22 01:42 AM
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I’d argue that Scandinavian countries are doing a better job to do things in a logical way. They’re focused more on active prevention than brutal punishment and it seems like they do a decent job keeping things equal.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 12:18 AM
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I mean nothing wrong with believing people, but also, it’s a bit strange to make someone look like they did something like give someone sleeping pills, then quickly backtrack and say oopsie and then make that person also look schizophrenic when they try to defend themselves Nobody wants to talk about it though they just sit like 😳 and say to “move on” which is hilarious but obv not much else to do there
/r/MensRights26/11/22 11:14 PM
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Good luck. It happened to me, not just rape but SLEEPING PILLS were questioned, then she changed her story up on me, my entire family and friends STILL side with her, I lost my entire fucking career, and now 3-4 years later people just sit there silent like 😳 or say “oh we just didn’t know” when I bring it up
/r/MensRights26/11/22 10:45 PM
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Lol in my experience, feminists have actually designed a system where they can make false accusations, and then later decide oopsie and instead of anyone apologizing, say that the guy is schizophrenic
/r/MensRights26/11/22 10:34 PM
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This happened to me, she said “oopsie nvm” and I got my life destroyed
/r/MensRights25/11/22 07:26 AM
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😂 red shift into what? Forming violent mobs?
/r/MensRights25/11/22 04:05 AM
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Yes. I got my head smashed in a few years back by one of my ex’s lady-friends and she just said “oh don’t spread rumors, go to therapy” 😂 I was like bruh if a guy did that, people would spread a rumor around the country
/r/MensRights24/11/22 09:05 PM
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“Young man”
/r/MensRights24/11/22 08:24 PM
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Wassup??
/r/MensRights22/11/22 09:02 PM
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Just watched it that is fuckin nuts
/r/MensRights21/11/22 06:01 AM
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Don’t even have to be autistic for it to happen
/r/MensRights21/11/22 05:46 AM
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Idk if I want to watch that but yes it is strange. I don’t know any guys who run around saying to cut out womens ovaries for cheating
/r/MensRights21/11/22 12:03 AM
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Ok … i don’t see mens rights groups and mens activists running around chanting to kill women? I know of ladies who are doctors who joke about castrating guys who cheat lol
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:23 AM
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What do you mean am I a radical feminist? I’m all for actual fairness and equality, but due to “feminism” I had my entire medical career fucked because someone imagined date rape about me. There is nothing logical or rational about that
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:19 AM
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Yeah that’s messed up man. I am sorry that happened to you. I also lost my grad school prospects and all my friends, but thankfully I have a place to stay still and a job. It’s fucked up
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:16 AM
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Are there any that are rational? I got made out to be schizophrenic by all my family and friends and put on fucking medications because I had an ex cook up some date rape shit about me and now 3 YEARS later people are apologizing saying they know I’m not schizophrenic 😂 If there was any logic, she would be on meds for cooking that up, and imagining I was taking pictures of her during sex
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:14 AM
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Lol dude I had a past gf cook up date rape shit because SHE freaked out because she was upset she told me other people called her ugly decades ago… all I did was stand there and pour Her a water to calm down Just be glad nobody is running around calling you a rapist or imagining you’re roofieng them
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:07 AM
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Eh people are slowly turning around years later telling me they’re sorry .. so I’m not going anywhere 😂
/r/MensRights19/11/22 09:35 PM
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The thing is people want to just believe womens word no matter what, and then, if she decides oh no.. they just say.. oopsie.. then the guy has to literally fight to show nothing like that happened, and then people get mad at him for getting mad 😂 like my own fam is telling me to just go to therapy.. no, y’all just believed date rape and now after 3 years nobody wants to apologize for believing that shit
/r/MensRights19/11/22 01:32 AM
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I not only got harassed.. I got made out to be schizophrenic lol My ex cooked up some date rape insinuating shit about me, I got kicked out of school, later she changed her entire story, for 3 years now people are telling me I’m schizophrenic when I try to explain, now finally people are coming around saying they’re “sorry” and weren’t sure 😂
/r/MensRights18/11/22 10:42 PM
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Im not sure how doxxing would help but if I had a recording that would have helped probably
/r/MensRights18/11/22 07:39 PM
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Yeah I had an ex cook up some date rape stuff about me, somehow convinced people of it, then decided oh maybe not, I still got kicked out of my school, lost most of my friends, and then like 2 years later I was walking around town and some random guy said he wanted to shoot me. People are idiots and women who make up rape accusations don’t do anything to fix it afterwards and put people in danger
/r/MensRights18/11/22 04:39 AM
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Eh it happened to me where a partner cooked up some date rape shit, then I tried to explain to my school that didn’t happen, I still got kicked out of school for “professionalism” and then she kept her job and I lost all my friends and my career and now like 3-4 years later people are coming back to me saying they apparently “didn’t really know what happened” 😂
/r/MensRights16/11/22 09:34 AM
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Yeahhhhh A few years back at around 28 y/o i was in med school, had my partner at the time question some date rape stuff, I explained nothing like that happened to the school, the school basically told me to leave anyways based off of “unprofessionalism” Another ex at the time who was around 28/29 was touching my dick multiple nights to the point I had to yell at her to stop, then she was upset saying stabbing stuff to me, all I did was leave, I asked some ladies about it later, they said she wa…
/r/MensRights15/11/22 07:46 PM
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Yeah one of my exs was upset and she said some stabbing stuff to me, I texted and asked my sister what people would do if I said that, then my sister screenshotted it to my dad as if I would ever do that. Some ladies are worse than Nazis lol
/r/MensRights12/11/22 10:58 PM
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My ex who was nearly 30 came at me with this sentiment.. all after one of her lady friends for some reason punched me in the head multiple times, another lady friend grabbed my junk, and she herself was touching my dick multiple nights til I had to yell at her to stop and then one day she was upset and she was saying stabbing stuff to me Ladies will actually get homicidal with people, then complain they’re worried it will happen to them 😂
/r/MensRights12/11/22 10:27 PM
1

Ah i didn’t know that. Thank you!
/r/MensRights11/11/22 08:16 PM
1

Didn’t know how to. Thank you!
/r/MensRights11/11/22 07:58 PM
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https://medcitynews.com/2022/11/one-step-closer-to-iud-for-men-doctors-inject-first-humans-with-male-contraceptive-gel/?fbclid=PAAab_TkULl2gWaOkv3R_MpiOadWQVUscmCDlvZmWZBKjya7YVrfSJtBWxE88
/r/MensRights11/11/22 07:58 PM
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https://medcitynews.com/2022/11/one-step-closer-to-iud-for-men-doctors-inject-first-humans-with-male-contraceptive-gel/?fbclid=PAAab_TkULl2gWaOkv3R_MpiOadWQVUscmCDlvZmWZBKjya7YVrfSJtBWxE88
/r/MensRights11/11/22 06:08 PM
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Vasalgel
/r/MensRights08/11/22 10:35 PM
2

Yeah it has happened to me multiple times now.. I was in med school a few years back, partner I was with had a breakdown when we did some molly because some kids called her ugly years ago, was questioning what we took the next couple days, 3 months later she was questioning sexual shit and people in my life were talking about sleeping pills all the time I got worried, explained what happened to the school and that I would cooperate with whatever, they just called me unprofessional and basically …
/r/MensRights05/11/22 08:06 PM
1

I had an ex say she was thinking about stabbing me. I just left. Don’t stay and be like Johnny Depp
/r/MensRights03/10/22 04:54 PM
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Ive been “touched” a fucking ton by grown nearly 30 year old women and when I complain about it they and my own siblings tell me i am the one who needs to go to therapy 😂 Morons
/r/MensRights23/09/22 02:13 AM
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Just don’t go on machines right next to people anyways. Unless there aren’t any left don’t be a fuckin weirdo. It’s like standing in the urinal next to a guy when there’s a whole wall available.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 09:23 PM
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No worries. Just moving on slowly but surely
/r/MensRights21/06/22 10:07 AM
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I had gotten into another program but given the situation I didn’t go with it because residency programs look at everything that happened either way. It’s a messed up situation
/r/MensRights21/06/22 10:05 AM
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It is what it is. Maybe it’s for the best
/r/MensRights21/06/22 09:59 AM
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Hey, I have some advice for you. One, stay away from anyone who says kill all men, whatever that stuff is, don’t get sucked into it and let it make you jaded. You’re in college, you’re still super young, I’m telling you now, do not focus on “friends” or chasing girls. Get a degree in a field where you can get a decent paying job, get as much experience in the field you want to work in as you can, educate yourself regarding investing, workout and eat healthy, and build a solid professional networ…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 09:45 AM
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Good luck to you. Don’t talk to her or anyone who asks about it, if you didn’t do it just deny it
/r/MensRights21/06/22 05:15 AM
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They should do vasalgel. They could easily do r and d and get it passed and put out for all younger guys but they don’t because there isn’t any money involved and they WANT unplanned pregnancies.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 08:27 PM
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I had an ex tell me she was having thoughts about stabbing me. I left, and now, I’m the bad person for leaving. It’s scary. Safer to just be alone.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 08:49 PM
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My advice would be to just show him some science pictures of external and internal anatomy and some videos about how arousal works. I’ve had grown nearly 30 year old women tell me they think a boner MEANS you want to have sex which is honestly shocking and I had to explain what a highschooler might need explaining of to a grown adult. Having some idea of anatomy and physiology would have helped a ton for me when I was younger. it doesn’t make any sense why they don’t explain that stuff early on …
/r/MensRights15/06/22 05:55 PM
15

In highschool I was at a party and had two girls pull me into a closet while joking about statutory rape. I made my way out of there. The women in the counseling office used to hit on me which was really weird. In college I had a lady straight up grab and feel my junk. And then I had another lady ram her hand in my mouth and scrape up the back of my throat. Then one of my partners was touching my junk in my sleep, multiple nights, to the point I had to yell at her to stop. Another partner told m…
/r/MensRights13/06/22 07:02 AM
1

Making a video is great but nobody is going to do anything
/r/MensRights10/06/22 03:09 AM
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If you didn't do anything, then you need to maintain your situation. There is an entire system out there that protects women who make false rape accusations, and I can assure you people will side with any lady who makes a false accusation, no matter what happened. It happened to my friend in college, he got his entire life destroyed. I had this happen to me in med school and I got my entire career destroyed. Even years later people are still calling me a rapist out here when nothing like that ev…
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:37 PM
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There is a double standard dictionary that people use. It's a bit sad. my ex was talking to herself about date rape situations and after we broke up everyone in my life abandoned me, people were talking about sleeping pills, I've had people call me a rapist, none of that shit happened. I just try to mind my own business now.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 06:08 AM
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Id agree. It’s been tough. I’ve been accused of some insane shit, I’ve had my head beaten in by a grown woman, I was told by a partner they were having thoughts about stabbing me.. I’m still somehow the problem years later. I just get scared that I’ll get falsely accused of something again. It already ruined my life once and I don’t want to experience that again.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 05:53 AM
2

I figure if you go on a date nowadays and it hasnt been discussed before hand that someone will pay for you, you should be expecting to pay for yourself. Especially if you rack up 3x the other person.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 07:22 PM
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There is no playing the "game," there is no book, there is no "edge" to find. I am telling you now you WILL lose every time and it will get worse if you try to fight it. Your best bet is just getting the fuck away from anyone like that before your life gets ruined. I had a partner who's friend straight up punched me in the head multiple times with her fist, another who just grabbed my junk, she herself was mad because she thought I was masturbating next to her in bed, then she told me she was th…
/r/MensRights07/06/22 05:18 PM
1

I'm either too nice, or if I get bothered by something, I care too much. Strange predicament.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 09:53 PM
1

I don’t think it’s difficult but apparently people don’t wash in there for a LONG time and then have problems. Idk. In the long run I feel like people care a bit too much about some foreskin. arguing about it this much doesn’t seem productive and just seems like something to argue about. What does it change if we stop circumcisions? I haven’t had any sexual issues or desensitization issues with being circumcised and I don’t see a problem with it. That said whatever people do to vaginas and femal…
/r/MensRights05/06/22 07:27 PM
-9

I mean yeah, the consequences of chopping an entire functional FOOT off are entirely negative compared to removing a bit of non-functional foreskin. I didn't consent to all of the vaccines I was given or medications I was given when I was a baby either, and those helped me survive? I wash my dick, I do what I can to prevent STIs, I didn't consent to having my foreskin cut off and it has helped me avoid infections and phimosis. I'd rather be circumcised way early on than sit around contemplating …
/r/MensRights04/06/22 10:47 PM
-26

There are medical reasons.. Circumcision might have various health benefits, including: Easier hygiene. Circumcision makes it simpler to wash the penis. ... Decreased risk of urinary tract infections. ... Decreased risk of sexually transmitted infections. ... Prevention of penile problems. ... Decreased risk of penile cancer.
/r/MensRights04/06/22 09:55 PM
-21

You're welcome to educate me!
/r/MensRights04/06/22 09:26 PM
-34

I am circumcised and I would rather be circumcised than uncircumcised. Female genital mutilation like sewing vaginas up and removing sensory organs is FUCKED up and wrong. That doesn't do anything to help and just causes MORE issues. Circumcision is not the same as that at all and in many ways prevents issues like infections.
/r/MensRights04/06/22 08:53 PM
10

Hey, this happened to me with an ex who was showing me weird bruises on her hips and then talking to herself about date rape situations 3 MONTHS after we took some molly one night and she freaked out on me. Then all of a sudden everyone in my life sort of dropped away, my friends and family were talking about "sleeping pills" all the time, I have strangers calling me a rapist, it's bad. I went back to ask her why she was talking about that shit and she said it "doesn't matter" anymore, which I f…
/r/MensRights04/06/22 02:14 AM
-3

I see I see
/r/MensRights03/06/22 05:59 AM
-12

I think both could have really avoided a lot of trouble just walking away when things got bad. There is some recording of him telling her to cut him isn’t there? Who the fuck says that shit. One of my ex’s said she was thinking about stabbing me and I LEFT. Staying and inciting violent shit like just makes you a moron and means you have an abusive victim mentality
/r/MensRights02/06/22 05:38 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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