Confident_Phase_7901 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
49	I don't want to text girls anymore...	general	Confident_Phase_7901	/r/MenSupportMen	01/01/25 11:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Just read 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' by Dr. Robert Glover and I've never felt so understood Yeah, I read the book a few months back, and honestly, it felt very relatable. However, somewhere deep down, it demotivated me even more. My father is a nice guy who wasn't around when I was a child. I'm happy I can understand what and where it went wrong, but it's difficult to recover and change.	/r/MenSupportMen	05/02/25 07:55 AM
1	I don't want to text girls anymore... That's very practical advice. I wonder why I never thought of adding a deadline myself. Thank you :)	/r/MenSupportMen	31/01/25 11:38 AM
1	I don't want to text girls anymore... A large part of that behaviour is because girls get a lot of attention from other guys. It's a matter of demand and supply, even I don't care anymore about that crap at this point. The only thing that bothers me is them replying late when it's urgent, oh man then I lose my cool haha.	/r/MenSupportMen	21/01/25 11:03 AM
2	I don't want to text girls anymore... Frankly, I have stopped messaging girls in the group now. I just message the group and keep the meeting accordingly. I don't want to trade my peace just for the sake of more numbers. I already have a lot to deal with and managing and organizing activities for a community is already taxing enough.	/r/MenSupportMen	20/01/25 04:58 PM
1	I don't want to text girls anymore... So true!	/r/MenSupportMen	06/01/25 08:55 PM
2	I don't want to text girls anymore... Yup, I'm afraid of the not taking rejection well kind. They start showing their true colours after rejection and some of them try to create a false narrative or attack with false baseless accusations. I have seen this happen often, even with my brother and the risk bothers me a lot. When I talk about these things with other men, most of them are like, "I wish I had your kind of problems or how lucky I am" which never made sense to me. Men chasing women who are not interested are labelled creepy,…	/r/MenSupportMen	06/01/25 09:36 AM
4	I don't want to text girls anymore... You're very right about it, the only thing that honestly bothers me is the flirting! It wastes my time and I have to reply to them even if they make me feel uncomfortable. In two instances, I was asked out and I had to turn them down somehow while in one I had to lie and say I already have a girlfriend to make her finally leave me alone. Frankly, I think I need to make a female admin in the club to deal with other girls. I don't wish to lose my composure and focus on these futile things which do…	/r/MenSupportMen	02/01/25 09:07 PM
6	I don't want to text girls anymore... For several reasons - Sometimes I need some advice from regular members, and other times it is feedback though in these cases I don't mind much. The most problematic stuff is when I need to book a table for the meeting and people don't reply promptly, tough to proceed without the numbers. I usually conduct a poll in groups but still, people don't care to check and vote right there. It ends up being difficult because I am the one doing all the stuff and it agitates me when people cannot even do t…	/r/MenSupportMen	02/01/25 08:43 PM