| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Need objective advice | ConflictedAwareness | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 03:15 PM | |
| 3 | Soft ultimatum | ConflictedAwareness | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 11:38 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Soft ultimatumThat’s actually a good observation. The “she” “she” “she” thing. I was just pointing out her perspective though. But you’re right. I don’t hate them. I’ve gotten past that. I just don’t see them as I once did. Which is good. My old views were wrong. I’ve read everything on the sidebar. But YEARS AND YEARS ago. I should brush up. | /r/askMRP | 21/11/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Soft ultimatumNo not the same issue. I like this one way more. Big difference | /r/askMRP | 21/11/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Soft ultimatumIm not pretending to be anything. This is just me. I just know how it goes. It’s never enough for them. They will always find something and want more. And I wasn’t put on this earth to live for a woman. I live for myself. | /r/askMRP | 21/11/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Soft ultimatumLmao | /r/askMRP | 21/11/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Soft ultimatumIt’s not that Im not attracted to her. Shes just not my type and I don’t lust for her as much as I have for younger women and/or women that are my type. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Soft ultimatumShe’s hot. She’s kind. She’s helpful. She’s a good chick. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Soft ultimatumOk will do. Thank you. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Soft ultimatumShe wants it all the time. So that’s an incorrect assumption. Been lifting for 18 years. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Soft ultimatumNope. Totally different chick. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 09:15 PM |
| -4 | Soft ultimatumlol the opposite of oneitis if anything | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 09:15 PM |
| -4 | Soft ultimatumNot sure what you’re going on about | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 09:14 PM |
| -3 | Soft ultimatumSounds like it was written by a woman. But I guess | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Anyone with Vasectomy Regret?“Provider” is a woman. And she is wrong. Don’t go to that doctor again. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Bad feeling my gf cheated at a concert- am I being insecure or are my doubts valid?LDRs are fake. Waste of time. | /r/askMRP | 09/07/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceGoal isn’t necessarily marriage. Just wanna grow old w the same person. | /r/askMRP | 03/07/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceA woman I’m very attracted to, who will stay attractive. With no kids. Who doesn’t want kids. Who I get along with. For the long haul. Who is also attracted to me. Just wanna settle down. | /r/askMRP | 01/07/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceLmao that’s a fair take. Except I’ve had hotter chicks than the crazy one. And no, I didn’t “like” my frame tested constantly. And I DEFINITELY don’t want to be dominated by a woman. And yeah, I can see the resemblance to the whole jumping off the carousel thing. It feels that way. Not sure why. I’m picky and it’s not easy to find what I’m looking for | /r/askMRP | 01/07/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceDo I stay with the unicorn and marry her? Or do I break it off and keep searching for something I might not even find? | /r/askMRP | 01/07/23 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Need objective adviceAre you attracted to your girl? If so, I guess you’re the e superficial type too. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceYeah. But I also regret it. I should’ve made a choice. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Need objective adviceI agree. I just meant it as a term like.., I just want one person to grow old with | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceAnswer to the first question, yes. Tall. Muscular. Been lifting since I was a kid. Answer to the second question, not really. I work from home. I run my business from my laptop. So dating apps is most of what I rely on. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceYou’re 21. They fall into your lap cuz you’re 21. At school. Work. Parties. I’m 35. Different. No wonder you talk like you have so much time. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceWith the crazy girl you’re right. I did let her do it. Never been in that position before. It’s embarrassing. The current girl, is a Saint. Has been since I met her. As far as what I want besides pussy, I already have it. Worked hard to get it. Got it. So it’s just this area of my life I’m focused on at the moment. Maybe that’s a mistake | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Need objective adviceDoes it ever “come to you” as a man? It never has to me. I’ve always had to actively try. If there’s another way I’m all ears | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceI’m starting to think it’s all a waste of time. The ones I’ve been crazy attracted to haven’t worked out. But I see what you’re saying. Thank you. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceWhat makes you say that I don’t know what I want? I want what every guy wants. A hot girl who’s cool to be around. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceGood point. “If you settle for what you have you’ll never get what you want”. But also… “The grass isn’t always greener” And “A bird in the hand.. blah blah” Conflicted. Hence my username. I guess I was just hoping for gentlemen more seasoned than myself to tell me what they’d do in my shoes. But you’re right. Thank you. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Need objective advice“The next go around”. That’s my worry. It’s not easy to find someone I like a lot. Doesn’t come around often. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceBut how does one know if one is being reasonable? I just don’t wanna be the male equivalent of those fat chicks who “won’t settle” because they want a top tier dude | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceNo. That’s not what I’m looking for. I don’t need to be consistently horny. Wasn’t the point | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceNo I’m not one of those dudes. Even when we were on good terms the sex was great. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceNot crazy. Just hot. I live in miami, FL. Competitive. But I see what you’re saying. Thank you. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Need objective adviceThe way I felt, sexually, about my shitty ex, was intense. Never felt that before in my life. Always wanted to fuck her. Like always. And I’d feel bad when the unicorn would come over because I didn’t feel not even 5% of that with her. Although she was objectively the better person. And NOW that i don’t have them both, I feel like maybe I should’ve put more effort into the shitty one and worked around everything else with frame, presence, STFU, and NMMNG. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceNo I didn’t beg or cry. Just spoke to her. Explained why I did what I did. I was honest. When I asked her (before she told me what she found out) if she just stopped loving me, she said, it’s not that I don’t love you. It’s that u don’t love me. And then proceeded to tell me what she found out. That shit broke my heart. She’s a great girl. If I knew what I wanted to do, I’d do that. I’m on the fence. If I could force myself to be turned on by her 24/7, I would. She’s the logical choice. Who care… | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceI don’t have to get married. I just mean I want to grow old with the same person. The new girl? There is no new girl. The crazy chick? She didn’t settle for me to be the provider. And the unicorn has not been around the block. But yeah you’re right about the wall. They’re both 30. And yes. I know it’s my life. My decisions. And my compromises. Just need opinions. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceI want the crazy chick, with some of the characteristics of the unicorn. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceExplain | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceOh it’s real. Sadly. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 07:31 PM |
| -2 | Need objective adviceShe’s not a hippo. But… I’m just spoiled. And you’re right. It doesn’t. It’s just hard cuz she’s SO GOOD. Maybe I should’ve just poured my 100% into the crazy chick. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 07:31 PM |
| -1 | Need objective adviceLmao that’s fair. I hope the rest of the commenters actually give me advice instead of just insulting me. Or at least a combination of both. I deserve the bullshit. But I also need help. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 07:30 PM |
| -1 | Need objective adviceMaybe. She shared hers too. I doubt it though. She adores me. And all she does is go to work. The gym. And home. She lives w her dad. And we’ve been together every day since she found out. But who knows. I don’t put it past no bitch. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Need objective adviceI spun so many plates I ended up in this position. I was seeing 4 girls when I first got with the unicorn. And was seeing 3 when I started seeing the psycho. Ended up just keeping these 2. Which was a mistake. But thank you. You’re probably right. Let’s see what others say. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 06:58 PM |
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