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I have amazing social life (music festivals, burning man, play on local sports teams, etc) and get hot women. It's actually pretty easy. What isn'....is being a true man of value and not getting hung up on women being women. So I visit TRP. Most guys on this sub just need to lift, eat healthy, adopt 2-3 hobbies, and approach daily. That's it. Once you get past that point, you graduate to the TRP.
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:34 PM
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Date Myself? I would lock myself down by lying about birth control.
/r/seduction04/12/15 08:36 PM
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Of all the PussyPass's, this one is the least of concern. Girl was rolling and Katy handled it well. Who gives a fuck, christ.
/r/PussyPass30/09/15 06:28 PM
0

I gotta go to Denmark. What's the minimum legal age? :P
/r/seduction29/07/15 08:40 PM
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This post is shit. This reads as if every woman is trying to catch you in a lie. Also, shit women will test you. The older they get, the more tests they throw. Quality women will test you, the older they get, the more test they throw. I know quality women who have slept with heroine addicts and shit bag whores who married an investment banker. Shit tests aren't a compliment, they are just part of dealing with women.
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:42 PM
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Sure, but telling them "don't worry, there is someone out there for you" or that your someones "fetish" (aka not appealing to most women) doesn't help them.
/r/seduction11/06/15 02:19 PM
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This is bullshit. If you think no one wants you then do something about it. Work out, develop skills, eat healthy, build your social circle. Of course there will be a girl that wants you....but they are typically not the girls you want. Seduction isn't about settling, it's about getting what you want.
/r/seduction10/06/15 05:46 PM
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Ok, tons of awful retarded responses here. "Would you like another?", come on this doesn't do shit and comes off as desperate. Getting a response to play it down doesn't fix the underlying issue. Girls automatically assume you are trying to get into their pants. Or worse they think you are creepy so they are trying to get rid of you asap. Your approach is off. Fixing your approach should yield to conversations where you can DHV. I rarely get "I have a boyfriend", it's usually after we've made ou…
/r/seduction02/06/15 07:38 PM
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Top 20% in where I am at. If I was in Milan I would be a bottom feeder. Also top 20% for the girls level, that that into account. If a girl is a 5, the best she knows she can do is an 8. If she is an 8, she will want a 9/10 to fuck. It's all relative.
/r/seduction21/05/15 02:14 AM
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That the wrong way to look at it. Lets say your horny, you want to fuck twice a day. Most guys this is enough. With Women, if the guy is top 20%, they will want to fuck relentlessly. I could go a week without sex. Most women in a relationship with a guy they like wouldn't last a few days without getting sexually frustrated. My last plate was insatiable to the point it was annoying.
/r/seduction21/05/15 01:45 AM
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Jesus christ this sub is full of autists. Look, girls are just as horny as guys (even more so from the girls I am currently dating). The thing is, they are horny for the top 20% of men. They are horny as fuck, like "holy shit I am trying to work right now stop sending me nudes". Women don't dress up in skimpy outfits, spend an hour doing makeup, and go to clubs for nothing (even if they say it's for themselves, it's bullshit). The reason many men don't get to see "Women are as horny" situation i…
/r/seduction20/05/15 06:40 PM
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Fuck that noise. I am attractive, in shape, make over 100k/year, and have an amazing life. I have no AA because woman are literally winning at life if they get to speak with me. How many men are like me? 1% of the population? Maybe? This is how a man who is always improving himself should think. I used to approach women thinking what they would feel, their opinions, etc. It's all bullshit. Women want to be fucked hard and led by a strong man. If you are that man, approach and start gaming. If th…
/r/seduction08/04/15 09:50 PM
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Weed was the issue here. If you had gotten a little tipsy things would of been different. Sometimes I call it "Monkey Mode". I don't think, just act. Women love it.
/r/seduction19/03/15 09:39 PM
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Bullshit. People have had profound transformational experiences on drugs that have changed the way they viewed the world. You lack of knowledge on the subject is apparent. Go read up on the effects of psychedelics on treating PTSD, surviving rape, etc.
/r/seduction12/02/15 08:24 PM
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MDMA can be extremely useful. I've taken small doses before going out and taken note of how I was acting & feeling. Now when I go out I "fake it" till I make it. I get compliments all the time on my energy, ability to speak to anyone, make connections. Before it was MDMA speaking, now I can do it without the drug. MDMA is very powerful at helping someone break loose of all social inepts & gives confidence in a way that is true to yourself. Not everyone starts off with confidence or can build it …
/r/seduction12/02/15 03:30 PM
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Well I think you are psyching yourself out with 9/10's. These girls are wearing lots of makeup and are dressed to look hot/accentuate their bodies. Victoria's secret models, sports illustrated swimsuit, playboy, etc are the 9/10's of this world. Many of these women look super hot without any makeup (and obviously naked). Other than their looks, they have shit value, since they have never had to work (can they cook, do basic math, handles finances, raise a family). So they really aren't 10's when…
/r/seduction11/02/15 02:22 PM
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Are you in shape? How can you dress to separate yourself from the pack? Cosplay as something that shows off your muscles? I'm pretty boss at getting girls (booth babes) at Tech conventions, where they are surrounded by clean cut Director/VP's/Execs. Now with all the "Brogrammers" there is a good amount of competition. I think my tactics would still work for an anime convention. I tend to be aloof, smiling, and very direct with eye contact. Sure, say you love the costume, but I would be more chee…
/r/seduction10/02/15 08:44 PM
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Having the benefit of living in Silicon valley in the heart of the Cloud race, I get to knock boots with lots of executives. There is a few fraternal organizations I've been invited into. Every single one of them says to make your bed in the morning. It begins a ritual that stacks into your other actions, kickstarting the day.
/r/becomeaman04/02/15 04:27 PM
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I have lots of success in SF. Most of the competition are guys with no social skills, out of shape programmers, disgusting ass hippies (they surprisingly do well though), Asian bro's, etc. Every week I go there I score. Now down here in San Jose....what is this "woman" you speak of?
/r/seduction30/01/15 10:06 PM
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who cares if he is a cop?
/r/PussyPass22/01/15 10:04 PM
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Perfect example.
/r/seduction17/01/15 03:00 AM
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Yeah I don't let it show or discuss it openly. People just assume I am super confident.
/r/seduction16/01/15 09:06 PM
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Got my first erection at 12, would of boned down.
/r/PussyPass16/01/15 08:38 PM
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They are all hot as fuck! I wish I could of gotten lucky at 14. You guys are pathetic. I bet you 100 dollars that 90% of those "victims" high fived their bros'.
/r/PussyPass16/01/15 08:38 PM
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I am not sure what is selfish about striving to be the best you can be in order to get ahead in the world. To shun those who think negatively, who provide no value, or want to "live life to the fullest" aka not prepare for the future. Don't appreciate everyone. Fuck the thugs, murderers, rapists, drug addicts, etc. In the real world not everyone is equal. However, one can raise their status. You are either moving up or down so keep pushing forward..
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:35 PM
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I am trying to point out that this guy may have overcome anxiety to approach, but if he doesn't fix the core reasons around attraction his next wife will leave him too.
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:32 PM
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It's weird, I have hundreds of friends who I would bend over backward to help (as they would do the same for me). Just because I think I am better, doesn't mean I would treat them worse.
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:29 PM
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I heard this today as I was driving to the office. The background here is important. The guy lost his wife to a guy that was better looking, taller, and made more money (HIS WORDS). So he withdrew from the world, had a mental breakdown, and realized that in order to get back on his feet he needed to get past rejection. So while I love the fact he was able to conquer approach anxiety, he still needs to focus on improving himself financially & physically. I hook up with dimes quite regularly but I…
/r/seduction16/01/15 07:24 PM
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/r/PussyPass14/01/15 04:17 PM
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I remember masturbating to my hot ass math teacher when I was 14. Positions of authority, could care less about. Also, I am not arguing about the charges or what this particular teacher did. Just that when I was 17, I would of been down to bone a hot ass teacher.
/r/PussyPass14/01/15 04:01 PM
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LOL. Basic biology is at play here. Has nothing to do with being taught.
/r/PussyPass14/01/15 03:14 AM
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I am going to be honest with myself. If I was 17 this would be freaking awesome.
/r/PussyPass13/01/15 10:44 PM
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I am spread too thin but that's what technology/strategy is for. If I can automate keeping up with hundreds of customers and prospects, whose projects are much more time consuming then setting a date, there has to be a way to do the same with this aspect of my life. Wondering who else has done something like this before.
/r/seduction20/12/14 09:33 PM
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It's good to have girls on deck so when I don't feel like hunting, I can just give them a call.
/r/seduction20/12/14 09:29 PM
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Thanks, some actual good advice in that article. Loved this: Take emotions out of it and simply be nonchalant. Girl: This just isn’t working for me. You: I totally understand. I have really enjoyed our time together and best of luck to you. Perfect answer. I'll have to use this so they "boomerang" in a few months.
/r/seduction20/12/14 02:53 AM
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Why? Not everyone is in the game for a relationship.
/r/seduction20/12/14 02:47 AM
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I have an easy time making connections with people, it's my job. Pleasing women is also not an issue, or else I wouldn't be overloaded. The question is how to maintain a large number of girls, if you don't have advice then no need to reply.
/r/seduction20/12/14 02:45 AM
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I am all down for helping Men's rights, like in family law, divorce, domestic violence, rape, etc. I get that & I agree shit is fucked up. However, we are the disposable sex. We are also the more powerful & smarter sex. Embrace it, instead of whining about the mainstream media.
/r/MensRights17/12/14 01:54 AM
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Seriously, the level of butt hurt here is ridiculous. How about we focus on what matters here, the families who lost their kids.
/r/MensRights16/12/14 08:07 PM
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you must live in the south cause bitches love this brown dick, like white girls love pumpkin spice
/r/seduction03/11/14 06:53 AM
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3 real LTR. As in committed. One in highschool 16-18. 2 years. One in college, almost exactly two years, 19-21. Broke free, went on a rampage. Then when I was 24-26.5, 2.5 year long relationship, she moved in during the last 8 months of the relationship. 28 now. Probably wont settle until I reach my peak around 35.
/r/seduction31/10/14 02:45 PM
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Meh, I do fine without pills. Exercise gets rid of most of my "ADD" problems. Being Hyper doesn't mean one is less intelligent. I lke to take adderal because it gives me an edge, which is why I am killing it in life, top in sales. etc. Not sure what being Paki has to do with anything.
/r/seduction31/10/14 02:01 PM
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Yup.
/r/seduction31/10/14 01:56 PM
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I know a lot of women believe it should be the men who ask the girl out/propose. And those women will still be the ones to first bring it up. Especially if you, as a man, don't develop oneitis. If she never brings it up, you aren't her first choice (this type of truth hurts the most, but you can get past it). Women will always try and lock a top tier man down, especially if he has many options. At my max I was dating 6 women at the same time, 3 of them brought up commitment within months. I was …
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:16 AM
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Making the offer before she does means I am more committed. The cards must always be in my hand. Truth be told, my value is above hers. Unless they are Natalie Portman or the top .0001% of women, I will always be of higher value. Also whoever is more invested in the other person, is the one in a weaker position. She needs to make the choice to try and lock me down. If she does, I know she is truly interested in pursuing a LTR. If I propose a LTR, she could reluctantly agree. Then later on down t…
/r/seduction31/10/14 12:30 AM
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Yes, but it's not in the same category. I'm 28 and lost count of my number, it's easily over 50. Last week I brought home a MILF from Los Gatos, the next morning dropped her off and went to the bar and brought back a 23 y/o gymnast in less than 3 hours. I have no problems with getting laid. I tend to get "oneitis" only if the woman is exceptional. Lets be real, most women in america are a waste of time. They don't know how to cook, clean, raise children, and take care of themselves. Balancing a …
/r/seduction30/10/14 07:38 PM
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Yeah, and of course I get called out for having a dissenting opinion. Sigh. How did a child become a mod is beyond me. EDIT: LOL!!! I have been banned from posting to ASK TRP. Funny how the Mod of a sub dedicated to being real men is such a pussy.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 09:12 PM
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Rules? You should of removed the post as "Off Topic", but for some reason you believe it was relevant to TRP. Which it was not. Stop sucking Roosh's dick.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 09:10 PM
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Yup, I agree. What I was saying is that the article is the antithesis of TRP. Suggesting legislation on a group of people because of their sexuality. That is nothing short of pathetic.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 02:04 PM
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What do we suggest we do?
/r/askTRP16/07/14 04:43 AM
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No contact. Record every text, interaction, gather proof. One thing to ask your lawyer is a setup. You could respond by saying "I don't want anymore contact from you. You hit me hundreds of times, threw my stuff//broke my shit, and I retaliate one time and you have PTSD? Are you going to pretend like none of that occurred?" She agrees or whatever, save the response, then cut contact. She runs to the police, you have proof. Boom. My friend did this with his abusive druggy wife. Thank god he was a…
/r/askTRP16/07/14 12:45 AM
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TRP changed my life for the better. I want to continue helping the community and myself. I get many responses thanking me for providing eye opening content. It's ok, I'll just have to post from a separate account. The point is I was banned for defending TRP from an obvious retarded article. TRP is not anti-gay. Men should never encourage hate and bigotry. That shit's for the feminists.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 12:13 AM
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Yup. To piggy back on this. TRP is about being a fucking real man. Part of that is handling your finances, working hard, and setting goals. Even if most people were rich by inheritance it wouldn't change what is required to reach the 1% level. If you are born in America, you are already in the top 10% class.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 08:55 PM
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This is the correct answer. http://www.fidelity.com/inside-fidelity/individual-investing/fidelity-2012-millionaire-outlook The answer hovers around 90%. Those who say "Oh they were born into it" or "They got it in bad ways" are losers. They have no idea what it takes to get to the 1% and will stay in poverty forever.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 08:15 PM
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The fact that RedPillSchool would ban me over one instance of "concern trolling" when I have submitted highly upvoted content and field reports is ridiculous. I live and breath TRP. Also, being a man means calling a spade a spade. That article was bullshit and I called it out. Instead of having a discussion with me like a real man, he just banned me. So pathetic. I guess it's easier when you have mod power to hit "ban" under the premise of "concern trolling" rather then let the community decide.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:53 PM
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Well obviously your world view must be correct /s
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:47 PM
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That's what I said. Mods are power tripping.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 06:01 PM
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Use condoms and get tested frequently if you are gay. Then again, my gay friends are monogamous and have been with their partners for years. SF is more or less a cesspool, luckily the city provides free testing and condoms or shit would get out of control.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 06:00 PM
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The end of the article suggests we legislate their interactions. So we are going to pass restrictive laws on all gay people?
/r/askTRP15/07/14 05:44 PM
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I can't curb speech, either they agree or people downvote. Looks like most people upvoted. The point is, I was not attacking TRP but defending it. We don't bash gays, it has nothing to do with sexual strategy. Saying that we should legislate (in the article) laws around Gay men is quite literally a Hitler thing to do. you can't see that?
/r/askTRP15/07/14 05:43 PM
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Meh, I'll just start a new account. Not really a biggie. Maybe you should be reading the content I wrote on plate spinning and you would see that I am at the heart of TRP. TRP has nothing to do with the post in question. Being gay and aids transmission has nothing to do with sexual strategy with Women. I am also not gay, so obviously TRP is the sub I spend most my time on. Why allow such trash articles to be even posted. It's totally off topic. I am 28 year old pakistani, do you know what happen…
/r/askTRP15/07/14 05:32 PM
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Yeah gonna call bullshit. I am an entrepreneur, not well known around the world, but within the IaaS space. There is nothing wrong with the rules he stated. They are principles of success. Success is based on habits. When your principles become your habits, that leads to success.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:31 AM
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you can exercise everyday, I lift 3-4 days a week, run 1-2, and surf/play beach volley. The key is changing it up.
/r/askTRP14/07/14 06:38 PM
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No, it's not. We have had this come up over the past year. TRP is apolitical. Traditionalism doesn't equal conservatism. You can be traditional and still thinks gays should be allowed to get married. TRP is a sexual strategy. Where are the mods right now?
/r/askTRP03/07/14 07:20 PM
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rekt You are just annihilating him.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 04:28 AM
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It's not porn, but it's still unacceptable.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 04:03 AM
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It's not porn, just like Playboy isn't porn. Touring around the country? You know she is going to be surrounded by extremely rich alpha men who probably pay these chicks to fuck. She is going to make a terrible wife and a worse mother. Instead of putting energy into useful skills, like raising a family, cooking, etc. She is going to get nude for the camera....cool. gotcha.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 04:03 AM
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Thanks, I felt like I needed to respond. This bullshit has been popping up since the dawn of TRP. Good job removing it.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 11:06 PM
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It has been debated and proven many times over, women have a myriad of factors that goes into "attractiveness". Having sex for your physical fitness is not always the best goal you could want, that depends on the nature of the environment. True, try to become as "Fit" as you want, but it is not the most powerful. Status and True power, like wealth or being a leader of a country, will trump physical fitness always.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 06:04 PM
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The "Quality" has been dropping has been a complaint since I joined over a year ago. The quality has gone up thanks to the mods. As long as the Sidebar does not change and we adhere to it's principles, TRP will stay strong. Instead of complaining, produce content. I have written Field Reports, theories and practices for spinning plates, and had great discussions. If TRP has taught me anything about becoming a better man, it's that you don't resort to backing down in face of adversity. Downvote t…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 04:48 PM
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Yeah, this is wrong on so many levels. If this was the case, half of hollywood actors would not be getting laid. Elon Musk would be considered a beta.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 04:42 PM
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Red Pill guys will never be natural alphas Speak for yourself, lots of Alphas out there that swallowed the blue pill. Now they have to undue the wiring and come back to reality. I think most of the guys who find themselves at TRP are (at least originally) some combination of overly intellectual and neurotic, insecure, shy, and needy. I am the complete opposite. This is too much of a blanket statement. However, I STILL NEEDED THE RED PILL. You can be a natural alpha but still have your attitudes/…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 02:34 PM
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Thanks for that response. The Anti-kids/marriage camp is strong on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:18 PM
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This has nothing to do with his premise. Read what he fucking said. He wants to get married and have kids, a worth endeavor of a man trying to raise a family the correct way (rather than a broken home). Some of us value our genetics/lineage and would like to see it continue. That being said, he should consult an attorney.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:16 PM
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Totally understand and its a very valid point. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 04:41 PM
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A man is as good as his word. You are cheating on your wife. TRP may be Amoral and others hear will say that it doesn't matter, I for one disagree. Being a man means being the best you can be in all facets of your life. Need strength? Go Lift. Want to become better at something? Go take classes and cultivate the hobby. Intentionally harming your wife based on an agreement YOU MADE (men make the decisions)? Either get a divorce or let her know you have a mistress.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 02:50 PM
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Yeah, this really hits home for us men who want to start families but are stuck with shitty american women. That's why I have to spin plates. Try finding a woman over the age of 25 that is decent, it's fucking impossible. I also live in SF, so there are a ton of women who are trying to build a career while riding the carousel.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 07:45 PM
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You should check out my post on Pipeline and Priming. It takes time to get to 3 plates, I was literally at 6 plates when I wrote the article. In less than 2 weeks, I am back to 3 plates. One moved to Boston, another wanted something more serious, and the other just stopped communicating. It takes time. I have never used Tinder, rather I meet women everyday in areas like the Grocery store, the gym, festivals, music events, bars, and now Soccer games.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 11:55 PM
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there is no good reason to live there if you are a guy So retarded. Cali is where the big bucks are made. Some of the best women are here (looks wise).
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 05:19 PM
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I know so many of my homeys who use Tinder. However, when it comes to meeting up and actually fucking 8s or above it's bullshit. Then they ask me how I am pulling plates that are 7+ on the reg. Maybe its because I choose to push my social skills, have conversations with anyone I can, and get battle tested in the field. Online dating and Tinder can't push past the eventual meetup, where if you are socially awkward and lack confidence, it will show. That being said, Be attractive, lift, eat well, …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:49 PM
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Hakuna matata, I didn't make it very clear from my writing.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:23 AM
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yeah I did miss your point, whoops. I understand what you are saying. My point is men engage in intellectual conversation and enjoy it. Regardless of the outcome, it has been an extremely common observation. I do believe there might be some segregation between the people who do best with the opposite sex and the people who have the most brains. It is another broad generalization, but it always seems like having looks and brains together in one package is quite rare. See this shouldn't be the cas…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:21 AM
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lol wut? I never said I wear V necks with a vest. I said if I go to a fancy place, I prefer a vest (vs a suit). With matching dress pants and shiny black dress shoes.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:12 AM
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I can understand what you mean. I know a girl who owns a 4 bedroom condo in a badass spot in San Francisco, in one of the towers close to the freeway. She got it from inheritance and rents it out. The thing is she flaunts it as part of her own success, which I know not to be true. As a man, I don't like false confidence, I want to know that I earned my success. Since you aren't actively doing this, I can't see why a guy would care.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 12:17 AM
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Everything you said is pretty much what I have learned. There are some points where I think it isn't so black/white, like smiling. As for a suit, I guess it depends on the place if they require button ups. I do the typical V cut with matching watch, shoes, belt and a sick ass necklace. If its a fancy place, then I'll wear a vest, bitches love guys in vests. Vest will match the pants, black belt with black shoes shined and primed. Being direct and sexual works, you gotta first get into the pack a…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:57 PM
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naw man, I smile all day when I get in the club, make eye contact, and walk over and introduce myself. People who aren't having a good time look autistic. But my smile is a smirk, I am usually thinking "Look at this lil slut, she wants it".
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:52 PM
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I cannot disagree with what you have said as whole. Trust me, I live in San Francisco. The amount of nonsense I have to hear about GMO, Vaccines, Homeopathy, is enough to drive anyone with a basic understanding of biology insane. One caveat, I don't choose to hang out with these people. If the majority of discussions you are having are not mentally stimulating, you need to surround yourself with better men. All of my friends are rather intelligent, across a broad spectrum of fields. I am about t…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:37 PM
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Intellectual discussions I have had tend to not focus 100% on opinions, rather facts, and if we don't know we just google it, then discuss our opinions on what the facts mean. The point of a discussion is open your mind and hear what others have to say. The biggest issue here is not someone's knowledge of an issue but a willingness to discuss it in an intellectual manner.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 08:04 PM
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I never said they aren't capable, rather they don't want to. Edit: Also, lets point out that the article was shitty.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 06:37 PM
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Number 1, man every girlfriend/plate I had would always pout when me and the bro's would get into deep convo. "Stop talking about business/politics/philosophy so much". "That's all you guys talk about". My last real LTR was with a Education major, she ran a ballerina studio, was frugal as fuck, and always had her shit in order. If she was only hotter...BUT she was smart. Anyway, the point is even the smartest girls I have met never really have anything to add when it comes to deep intellectual c…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 05:49 PM
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Dread Game to the fucking max level
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 05:38 PM
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My "anger/bitter" phase was really quick and wasn't too extreme. However, I did feel angry that everything I was told to do like being nice, not being overly sexual, pedestalising women, not being a cocky jock, etc, was all a lie. 10 years of my life has been wasted. It's only been one year since TRP and I have more women than the last decade. I mean, if I was the same guy in college, imagine the amount of hot young ass I could of got? God damnit! Well no worries, time to hit the gym, eat right,…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 02:34 PM
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Yeah, not worth it, but if his SMV is lower, than he has to work the bottom
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 02:21 PM
3

Music Festival, two through some of my girlfriends, one at a beer festival, the other through a birthday party, two from the same bar (one was the bartender). Quality.....well that is pretty hard to nail down in America. Women here don't know how to cook well, stay clean, and will probably be terrible mothers. Not one plate I know values being a mother above their other goals (if they even have a goals, most don't).
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 02:34 AM
3

Naw, I prefer hot women who will someday make great mothers.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:24 PM
2

Because it doesn't, I am dating multiple women right now and none of them give blow jobs on their own volition. I basically have to put my dick in their face. I shouldn't have to ask like it's a task. There was only one girl of the 30 women I have slept with since I was 18. She would wake me up with a BJ, BJ's while driving, or we are watching a movie and she decides to grab my dick and go to town, etc. Most women don't give BJ's.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:37 PM
1

Hell yeah it is, my genes are awesome. Now the Height might be an issue because 5'8'' aint tall by any standards.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 06:09 PM
0

Thank the universe you are not reproducing.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:43 PM
1

Yeah, but don't they have standards?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:32 PM
-1

Yeah but he has passed his genes, so he is way ahead of the pack.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:31 PM
-4

Who says I am going to be cleaning up snot? That's what maids are for. Evolutionary success refers to the success of your genes, which is utterly irrelevant. Tell that to Genghis Khan. I am going to live my life to the fullest with as many beautiful women as possible. You don't want to have kids? Then don't. You've only failed all the men before you. The men who had to live through shit you couldn't even imagine, as you post from a computer in the modern era of easy food, water, and shelter. To …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:29 PM
-2

The basic evolutionary concept of "success" is how well an organism is able to propagate itself. Better success at living = bigger numbers of progreny = more widespread genes, which is the primary mechanism of natural selection. It's not mental gymnastics, it's just a fact.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:22 PM
-1

I disagree with most on children when it comes to the TRP. Are you genetically awesome? I know I am. No issues with mental or physical health, no known health issues with anyone in our family tree, everyone is either a doctor, lawyer, professor, etc. I ultimate beta is one who doesn't pass on his genes. He has failed. This is my opinion. I am making lots of money right now and my plan is to invest heavily in property, have passive income exceed my expenses, and fucking work some more. I will hav…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:54 PM
1

See I have to disagree, especially with how you are approaching the subject. What if you have no intrinsic worth or value? I am a person who gets told on a regular basis that I exude confidence. The girls I am dating all hit me jokingly from time to time, telling me I am too confident. "I am fine either way", to get to this point you need to be able to rest on Laurels. Outcome independence, which is what your post is really about, comes from inner game. Inner game is work, not a point of view, y…
/r/seduction13/06/14 01:42 PM
1

TRP motto for life conditioning, Love this
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:29 PM
16

Other people will say "Ignore and not care", this can be really weird to do in these situations. I never get ignored because I never ignore people. "Having a bad day?" is what I would ask if someone wasn't part of the conversation. Looks like you put no effort into communicating. If you don't care to communicate then don't get butthurt when they ignore you. "Hey man, whats your name again?", go up and shake his hand, and sit back down NEXT to the girl. Engage in conversation, LEAD THE CONVERSATI…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 07:04 PM
6

Never tell anybody he's wrong, always agree with him. That is not part of the book. You don't tell someone is wrong because they will get defensive. You empathize, then ask questions. Never get into an argument, even if you totally disagree with the other person's point of view. I have the book in front of me, this is never mentioned. Maybe it seems BP to you because you are reading it from a BP POV.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:25 PM
8

It's not, read my post on Pipeline and Priming. It takes time, but I am pretty average looks and height wise. I learned to be social, to escalate, and to pass shit tests. It took 2 years, but if a brown ass Paki can be slaying blonde 8's, then most guys should be able to get on my level.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 02:15 PM
-2

How does this trash get upvoted. It's a blue pill piece, complaining. MAN THE FUCK UP.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 02:02 AM
2

Good, control her. She is acting like a kid, treat her like one. Also, punishments.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 10:04 PM
3

or the hospital saying her skull was found between a tree. I have read your responses. Be a fucking man. Remove the alcohol from the house, get her help, and if she won't then fucking leave. Dread Game.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 10:04 PM
2

Well if you want an LTR, then go for 1. Eventually plates drop for a myriad of reasons, that's why its called spinning plates. Once you have more plates spinning it actually becomes easier since you are outcome independent and you aren't needy.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:20 PM
2

Asians get a bad rap out the gate in SF. Unless you are over 5'10" and ripped, you are assumed to be Beta. I have no idea why, most of the SF girls are working shit jobs, usually in marketing, etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:05 PM
2

You can't care for more than one girl?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:02 PM
1

I usually like to pick a sports bar with a pool table (lots of kino) to start then a comedy show (laughter man, it's golden), then go check out the bay bridge lights (cheap but "romantic", :P) If all goes well (kiss, finger bang, whatever is clever) before the end of the night, date #2 is making dinner at my pad watching a movie (pick something cheesy, not serious, something where if you don't mind missing a scene because you are making out). Note on dinner. Something interactive, like pizza, or…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 03:44 PM
2

The weekends is where I do have time to go out. I have a number of girlfriends, some of them are my best friends, who are very attractive. So that's the first area, think of it like networking but with warm prospects. San Francisco has this park called Dolores, it's absolutely killer for meeting women. Then there are music events and my favorite: Music Festivals. Extremely hot women who are down to party and let "loose", it's very easy to come back to reality with 1-2 girls.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 01:55 PM
0

Yeah you hit the nail on the head with your last paragraph. It's amazing how quickly you can resort back to old habits.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 09:00 PM
1

Glad to hear!
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:54 PM
5

Me either. Yeesh, guy was smart to end it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:35 PM
7

Thanks man. The bay area game can be the roughest. Lots of feminists, huge guy to girl ratios, geographic disparity. You kill it here and everywhere becomes much easier.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:19 PM
-1

Seriously, so hostile. Probably not past the anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 07:24 PM
14

I agree, which is why I am done with this petty argument.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:14 PM
9

Don't take sass from anyone. GayLubeOil is all butthurt for some reason. You did the right thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:54 PM
11

Oh GayLubeOil, sometimes you are TRP god and other times you are so beta it makes me cringe.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:53 PM
13

Putting people in their place is not blue pill. We don't know the tone that she took. True, he could of played it off the way you mentioned. What would of been blue pill is him apologizing. When it comes to business and money you cannot fuck around. What if you ordered food at a restaurant and they fuck your order up? You gonna give some sly remark. No, you tell them to take it back very courteously. If the server gives you lip, then you are free to take it up. Money, business, these areas requi…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 04:55 PM
98

Seriously, he should write a book "Putin it like a man"
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:16 AM
3

This is TRP, good to see this type of post, keep it up. Now back to my Sax lessons, chicken salad, and of course tomorrow morning....deadlifts
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:14 AM
2

I get where you are coming from. The Mods have tried to keep things organized by creating /askTRP, or /TRPoffTopic, or /PussyPass or even /thankTRP the list goes on. First the community complained about all of that content needing its own sub, so then they removed it and banned a bunch of posts. By creating so many other category subs to filter content to, they fucked over all the new content because it can, in a way, be filtered to another sub other than TRP. Why not bring it up instead of comp…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:57 PM
1

His post added no value and was the equivalent of whining. Instead of posting content, just plain whining. Read the sidebar material and incorporate that as a back bone. Half of /askTRP could be "read the sidebar material". Which by the way is filled with very bitter material that comes off at "women hating", MGTOW, etc. People will interpret events and information differently. There are core tenets around TRP mentality. People typically find TRP after a traumatic event, eye opening mistake, etc…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:42 PM
2

Read the sidebar material and incorporate that as a back bone. Half of /askTRP could be the reply "read the sidebar material". Which by the way is filled with very bitter material that comes off at "women hating", MGTOW, etc. People will interpret events and information differently. There are core tenets around TRP mentality. People typically find TRP after a traumatic event, eye opening mistake, etc. They come here to vent and we tell them that's how the world is and man the fuck up. TRP sub ha…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:36 PM
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The original members had an attitude of "fuck this shit. I got screwed over by society. But i'm a man, and this is what I have to do to get out of this shit." Now it seems like the attitude is more of "boohoo girls are so lucky. Boohoo girls are so unfair. Boohoo why is life so shitty." Ummm I see this attitude in almost every post where someone whines. Even when TRP started there were lots of MRA posts, divorce rape, guys getting cheated on, etc. These are all stories to illustrate a point and …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:40 PM
7

/thread Cut all contact. ALL OF IT. Never answer a phone, text, call, whatever it may be. Immediately start working on your pipeline and spinning plates.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 09:00 PM
1

I second this, what a great writeup. STOP TALKING/SEEING HER OP. Even if she is at the same party, don't give her time of day, one word answers (obviously you can't be autisitic, if she asks where the beer is say "Fridge", etc). Get her out of your life pronto. If she trys to get you back to orbit, do not bend, you are better than her.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 02:19 AM
1

No one has mentioned this. You took her virginity. Everyone is saying BPD, Cultural, etc, etc. Girls usually cling onto the first guy that breaks them in. I dated a girl and took her V-card in college, it took me moving away for a year to the opposite side of the country to get her off my back. OP, have a serious talk with her, set the boundaries, and the MOST IMPORTANT PART....the consequences.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 02:15 AM
2

Living in SF its like the definition of free poon.
/r/seduction31/05/14 02:09 AM
7

What a pathetic loser. Who cares if a guy asked for directions, he should of just helped the guy, tons of other women. Wow. Opposite of game.
/r/seduction31/05/14 02:08 AM
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She needs to cut contact. If he caused her this much pain (this is what she is saying right?) and she is still talking to him its because of "feelz". This dude is one dark triad motherfucker and she will have his cock in her mouth within a few months. Trust your instincts. Downgrade her to a plate. Her is what I would say: "Listen, you say he put you through all this trouble but you still talk to him. Not only that, we are dating now and its obvious he has feelings for you still, pulling the "se…
/r/askTRP31/05/14 01:28 AM
3

This is a great question, I love the "pushy reward", that would be good to use here and there. Cleaning the dishes, while she is doing it, go behind her and kiss her, move on, etc. Working out. Compliment when you actually feel like complimenting. She is walking around in a shirt and some undies, you see dat ass, mention it. Makes her feel beautiful. Doesn't have to be all the time. Driving when your drunk. My last girlfriend did that for me and my buds, it not only shows she cares but she is wi…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 06:25 PM
1

Well it's both really. By agreeing and amplifying I am showing that I am not affected and simultaneously rejecting the rejector. It's very alpha and will take into account me grinning, showing no emotional pain, and quickly pushing her to the friend zone. Just some background. I used to be in love with r/seduction for 2 years and my game increased exponentially. However TRP was like dumping gasoline on the fire. For the first time in my life, I had finally stoked into existence.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 04:22 AM
3

Barring siblings to carry on the genes (or a twin), yup. Utter failure. I am like Tywin, get that family logo sticking for centuries.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:46 AM
2

Exactly, just as I posted below. Albeit less eloquently.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:37 PM
8

Ok after reading your other responses, I have realized that this has happened every time with my plates, although its usually around the 4th or 5th time. I think women naturally get weary of "am I getting used for just sex? or does he really like me?". I am on my 6th plate this year, the other 5 went through the exact same process you mentioned. I even made a post about my Fraulein (german chick) freezing out on sex because she wanted to know if I liked her more than just a fuck buddy, that we s…
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:36 PM
6

This has been hit a number of times. Some of us want to, no, need to have kids. It's the ultimate failure not having your genes progress forward.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 07:42 PM
1

Because they were all average at some point in their life. TRP isn't about delusion, it's the opposite. It's going to be hard work if you are ugly, but its not impossible. Just lots of hard fucking work, no way to sugar coat it. That's not false hope, its just a fact. You can moan and be a little bitch all day or you could be a real man, work hard, make money, expand your social circle, gain power, and attain a high status. Stop trying to bring everyone down to your pathetic level. No one should…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:27 PM
2

You really have no clue about TRP, or even worse, about women.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:13 PM
1

Read the sidebar material please, this post is off point. You can get extremely high quality women, look at the president of France. Looks are not rock solid, you could get in a car crash, have a bad accident cooking, melt your face off, etc. Hugh Hefner, for example, destroys all the points you are trying to make. You can be ugly and win. Looks are 1 part, but money, status, power, are others that can weigh more.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:10 PM
1

LOL. How do movie actors who are fugly get 10's? TRP in action my man. If your facial SMV is low, focus on the other areas.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:36 PM
2

r/seduction This isn't the right place for cheesy shitty pickup lines
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 02:53 PM
1

Naw man, you don't need game for a inbred landwhale. The universe discriminates every day, have you read the sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 03:57 PM
5

If you fail to reproduce you sever your entire line from existence and fail all that came before you. Exactly, I keep pointing this out on TRP. It's about Sexual Strategy, which will undoubtedly include women. MGTOW is a individuals choice, but personally I feel they are worse than betas. These are good men who choose not to pass on their genes, while hill billy genetic atrocities are popping kids out like bunnys. Sometimes I wonder if idiocracy was less a comedy, more a reality.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 02:04 PM
1

Yeah you make a good point
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 06:51 PM
7

Straight up, "INLTA", needs to be added to the acronym glossary.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:46 PM
8

For real.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 02:41 PM
68

Yeah you make a good point.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 02:12 PM
32

I love how women just justify threesomes and past crazy sexual experiences as dating a "jerk" (Alpha). Now that she is hitting the wall and found a Beta, she doesn't want to do the same things and resists "experimenting". If past sexual experiences don't matter, than why the hell did she not share them with her Fiance when he asked? Because they do. If I was the guy, I would just move on. I wouldn't get angry (since I swallowed the red pill a long time ago) and just drop her. Hell she is almost …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:32 PM
0

Yup, SF. Just saying 100k a year is pretty much a norm for Engineers (as I have seen)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:18 PM
2

/thread Nothing to see here folks.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:17 AM
2

we pay all of our software engineers 100k+, the lowest paid person on my sales team is 70k a year, base.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:13 AM
17

I kinda wish /asktrp was combined with this sub. Many members miss out on the discussions. I am subbed to both but I get the feeling it would be better if it was all centralized.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:09 AM
1

Don't think about it. If a girl doesn't text back she is not interested, move on and get another number.
/r/seduction09/05/14 04:58 PM
1

Meh, guy is average looking and the chicks are nasty, 4/10. But holy shit is that guy Beta. I would whoop is ass so hard. Then dump the chick the same night. No self respect. jesus.
/r/seduction09/05/14 03:36 PM
3

If your a 4 and the next guy is a 6, that's the entire point I am making. A true alpha dog comes by and she will move up. Hypergamy 101. She doesn't love you, like you love her.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 09:49 PM
2

"Perhaps even more", just your typical hamstering
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 08:31 PM
6

He is beta. Do you honestly believe he gets more sex? Do you? Has this ever been the case? She is just hamstering. Second, he can't control his wife and guess what, she knows he will be offended/hurt by her actions.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 07:47 PM
2

Brad pitt rolls over on your girl, you will never see her again. She will ditch polyamory and service him daily.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 06:30 PM
2

Oh no doubt men will perceive Asian women SMV's differently. I am just saying, their SMV is not anywhere near the top of the list. Most European countries come first. Then places like Brazil, Spain, Lebanon, etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:12 PM
5

Asian women have the highest SMV? Said no one ever. Eastern European, Swedish, etc. Those chicks are redonkulous.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:20 PM
4

If you haven't read think and grow rich. Stop what you are doing. Read it.
/r/seduction02/05/14 11:12 PM
14

Ah ok, well I can't disagree with the optimization part. I think the attitude that "Lets get waste, hit up a club, women yay!" is not outcome independent. Literally giving no fucks and just talking to every girl and guy gets you socially lubricated. OP's post sounds like they are going out with getting chicks in mind, using alcohol as a crutch, and not breaking away to spit game.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 10:53 PM
14

Get some self esteem bro, that's your issue.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 10:33 PM
1

Get up close, it's the only way. Also, there are clubs where there are smoking areas, lounges, I usually hang out around there.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 10:32 PM
2

Stop Whining. I am average, short, and I pull at clubs every time I go out. Instead of getting shit faced, grab one drink and start talking to every girl you see.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 10:23 PM
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I disagree with both you and Major_Tom38. I am 5'8'' pakistani, so I already have that going against me. I get number closes, kiss closes almost every time, and have found a great number of young plates via the club scene. Guys are just pussy footed at clubs and it's not the clubs fault. I go out, get a drink, and start talking to girls. They didn't dress in short skirts with their breasts popping out just to dance all night. Also, the whole "Sell you Anxiety", that is such a personal trait. Me …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 10:21 PM
6

27, so close. I just started getting into the silicon valley burner scene, lots of great acid and great minds. However, most of my friends have dropped off from wanting to do acid and lets say....camp, surf, go on an adventure, etc. I miss the good old days (4 years ago?) of taking a hit of acid, wandering around my college campus, and taking a walk on the beach laughing until your sides hurt and your face is perma-grinned.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 11:29 PM
2

yeah that's exactly what I said.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 11:26 PM
8

I meant the former, there are tons of emotionally unstable people who love acid. Acid is almost always a great time, hit up any music festival. Shrooms on the other hand, definitely want people in the right mind for that one.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:49 PM
9

Dude that is not true at all. I have met so many chicks that love dropping acid that are fucking dumb as a rock. That said, acid is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:25 PM
9

No on here mentions that the girls on Tinder put on their best, sometimes "shopped", photos. I've seen some straight dimes on Tinder, however when I met up with them it was a whole other story. Everyone says, "Oh I had like 13 dates and 3 F closes", without mentioning they are 5-6's. 9-10's have no need for Tinder. If you are into seduction because you want to have sex with lots of women, that shit is easy. Being able to fuck a model and have her around your finger, now that's why I subscribe.
/r/seduction01/05/14 03:05 PM
4

I understand what you mean, it's true to a point. Depends on the feelings. OP has one thing wrong in this text. "Never laugh at a woman's joke it intimates validation-seeking, instead smirk." This is retarded. Laugh if it hilarious or smirk if it's not, otherwise you come off like a socially inept autistic. I've laughed with plates and have had absolutely no negative repercussions. I agree with the rest, never complain, etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:41 PM
2

Great job man.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:54 PM
1

Posted about this happening with a german plate. This happened to a tee.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:38 PM
1

I love tony robbins, helped me in my life for sure.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 02:51 PM
-1

Geez your angry, maybe you are better off not having kids with that temperament.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:52 PM
-1

Then your not as smart as you think you are.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 04:46 PM
-1

Exact opposite. Clean bill of health all around, my mom is ridiculously good looking and my dad (not so much on the looks side) is very intelligent. I have no excuses to make when it comes to success, any reason for failure is squarely on me. Also, all their sacrifices to get to America and give me a great start would be worthless if I didn't have kids. Sounds Arrogant but really I am just very thankful, I could of been born in Africa with a missing leg. It would be awful if I couldn't continue …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 03:58 PM
-5

I am not the biggest fan of kids, but I am going to try and have as many as I can support. going for 5. My genetic lineage is pretty amazing, not going to let it die out. There are so many people having kids that....how do I say this and not sound conceited....retarded?. If I want the world to not turn into Idiocracy, it's my duty to procreate.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:18 PM
7

"Your still in the line", is what I would of said.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:32 PM
6

Not how ideology works. This is a terrible thing. See many of these feminists are genuinely intelligent people. They have just gone astray. Ideals don't die when they die, Society is the bearer of those rotten fruits. I for one want children with women who can fucking read, are cultured, and intelligent. That shit is genetic. Meanwhile, dipshits with the mental fortitude of a walnut are popping babies out, raised in terrible dysfunctional families, with the wrong male role models. We need women …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:18 PM
2

I am 27, I need to get a bun in the oven of a girl, hopefully aged 22-26 by the time I am 30.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:11 PM
2

Fellow Gaucho here, if I could only go back this alumni weekend and smash on all the girls via a del playa run. Alas, I have to work on a webinar campaign and make money...
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 04:34 PM
1

Solid day for sure, but I started to think about this, if I am spending 2 hours a day on reddit, even if I cut that down to 1 hour, and spend that on improving or a hobby, that's 365 hours in a year, 15 days worth of time. An hour a day on anything, will make you an expert in a few years.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:18 PM
10

Wow...I was just thinking the same. Woke up at 4:40 am today, went for a run and lifted, hit work by 7am and worked till 3pm. Got back and cleaned my room, did laundry, cooked a tritip salad dinner, and guess what? It was only 7pm. Now I have been on reddit for close to 2 hours. 2 FUCKING HOURS. I could of read a little bit, maybe worked on my salesforce credentials, or invested that time in a hobby. Reddit, the gift that gives me value and takes it away at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:42 AM
1

that was badly written, I meant to say that after I started to live my life according to TRP, I have had more women than ever before. If I hated women, why would I be following TRP in order to have more in my life. That's what I was trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:35 AM
15

/r/thathappened After swallowing TRP, I have had more women combined than the year before. They think it's about hating women, which is ridiculous. Lets say it did happen, why would her BF swallow TRP? You just don't try and change a relationship unless it's going south.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 07:44 PM
5

Meh, I swagger around with a smile on my face. Being moody is weakness.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:58 PM
-5

Form and Safety are #1, never had a trainer focus more on that. Also, have you done crossfit? Kipping pull ups have been around forever and it's a workout. Who cares what it looks like when you are fucking jacked as shit and lean. If it wasn't 250/month over here in SF, I would start going again. Best shape of my life. I still lift/exercise everday but it's not at the same intensity.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:37 PM
-1

Well it is a shit ton of lifting. I used to do crossfit before moving to SF (it fucking expensive as shit here), lots of deadlifts, squats, etc. More so than any other workout regimen I know of.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:26 PM
3

good reply, I am 5'8" and was the only middle eastern at my school during 9/11. I got my ass kicked DAILY, a few times it was twice in a day, so I decided to take up wrestling, water polo, and swimming. What you realize through wrestling, is that size is not as important as skill. Tall guys will topple and once I have you on the ground we are equal. My torture ended Senior year of highschool, 3 mexicans tried to jump me on the 2nd day of school (i had gained 15 lbs of muscle during the summer, d…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 10:50 PM
1

I wonder if this correlates with the recent paper, they stated autism might start in the womb. Aging genetics and fertility could be to blame.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 05:06 PM
1

Yeah, having your wife getting plowed on the side ain't Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:31 AM
3

Yeah, definitely a way to peer bond. Overall, it lowers your SMV. However, I smoke here and there are parties. It's a great way to break down that initial conversation barrier and isolate.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 09:50 PM
1

"Unless you are a legitimate medical marijuana user, you don't need to be ingesting the drug.' Seeing as the benefits of marijuana have not been allowed to be scientifically researched, this is a blanket bullshit statement. I live in SF and work in silicon valley, do you know how many self mad millionaires, who have their shit together more than you, smoke herb? It's relaxing and stimulates the mind. I personally have achieved major marketing breakthroughs smoking and going for a run. Such hypoc…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 09:20 PM
1

I think this is more of a r/seduction type of post, you might want to ask them, I know they aren't TRP focused but I have used their texting strategies and have had success. I rarely use emoticons
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:10 PM
7

Yeah, now that I have three steady plates the amount of girls showing interest has skyrocketed. Primarily because I have no need to engage, this does not mean I ignore them or not have a conversation, I just don't feel the need to validate. Preselection changes how you act internally, it's that "inner game" people keep talking about. You can't have inner game if the actions don't support outcome. It's very hard to fake that you have tons of sex, I tried that in my early college beta days.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 09:03 PM
1

Maxed out at 3 plates right now, dropped off a german plate for chilean one, can't handle more than that, it gets insane.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 03:09 PM
1

Yeah, eventually all plates want to upgrade and lock you down, jw.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:49 PM
2

I don't know if TRP can address an issue as severe as alcoholism. Why can't you hone in your alpha traits while helping your dad? I know him being negative can influence you, but it can also do the opposite. Story time. I had a friend growing up in a household with an alcoholic, druggie, generally terrible father figure. He had a brother 2 years his senior. Eventually their dad got thrown in jail our sophomore year of highschool. His brother turned out just like his dad. He turned out the exact …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:57 PM
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Well played. Obviously, you are never going to upgrade this plate to an LTR correct?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 07:54 PM
2

I mean Ned Stark was RP as fuck, a model of a man to follow.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 10:07 PM
5

I am probably closer to the 40 mark, feel yah, it's getting old fast
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 10:09 PM
2

the difference I see here is that she asked your permission. By saying no it would make you seem controlling and needy. It's also a group and it sounds like they are going out.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:09 PM
1

Yup, very good way to put it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:53 PM
4

I am working at a startup right now, I wouldn't be in the position I have if it wasn't for a corporate job. If you are getting a "job" just for the pay, then you are missing out on the big picture. When I was at my "corporate job", I did everything I could to learn from the people around me. I shadowed my VP of Sales, ate lunch with the engineering team so I could understand tech better, hung out with marketing after hours who taught me about lead generation techniques. I took in all that experi…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 04:38 PM
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I see where you are coming from but I think the issues are being conflated. TRP isn't about defying our biological drive, it's about using it correctly. It's a sexual strategy for a society that increasingly despises what it means to be a man. Society, now more than ever, has enabled women to rise. Everyday our culture/media demands and challenges women to ignore biology and focus on careers. There are tons of women CEO's leading some of the worlds best companies, hell half my female cousins are…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 04:11 PM
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Damn this reads like serious one-itis, to the max. Also it's really hard to understand the story, example: "he is one of the best looking dude of campus", argh my eyes. Take her off the pedestal, don't pine, and keep the flow with a focus on yourself. From the sounds of it, you might fall back into your old tendencies. Be aware and don't care. Say that last sentence again.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 11:20 PM
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Naw. Trust me you could be a 6'4'' superman but if tom cruise hit on your girl, good luck.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 05:23 PM
1

Being gay has nothing to do with being an excellent man. Bigotry is weakness.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 04:12 AM
15

I just....I dunno, is it worth it? If this story isn't a troll post, not sure if I can ever 100% trust women. That's what I am battling.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 01:05 AM
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Me too, TRP is so bitter sometimes. I got past the anger phase long ago, women will be women. However, it's hard to suppress when I read a story like this. I was leaning on upgrading one of my plates, not anymore.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 11:22 PM
3

I get yah man, I have some very close friends who happen be drop dead gorgeous girls. The social capital is ridiculous and I don't have to put with the relationship bullshit.
/r/seduction04/04/14 08:55 PM
2

Aight I get what you mean
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 08:41 PM
3

Actively discourage gay male membership? I have a best friend who is gay and is red pill as fuck. Get the fuck out of here with that bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 07:55 PM
1

I don't disagree with the fact that women don't have to succeed in life. If you're a hot chick, that's all you need. Hell that's all I want, can't screw a diploma. Saying there are virtually no great achievements by women is just bullshit. Stick to the facts. We are discussing something completely different.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 07:50 PM
0

Thanks, you put it in a much better way.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 06:43 PM
0

I get where you are coming from.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 06:37 PM
5

Yeah, people need to read the sidebar: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Not, HATE ALL WOMEN AMIRITE GUYZ? I am here to learn how to be the best man, in doing so attract a women, without losing half my assets.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 05:45 PM
2

I lost it at "an age where having children is no longer important or valued". Luckily, Hamsterminator does a great job dilineating between children coming from a western vs traditional relationship. I would argue that children have the most value. If you are a man and do not procreate, you have FAILED. I don't understand how other members here don't see this. I come from a lineage of men who started with nothing in the 1800's, slaved away and pushed hard to send my grandpa, and now my father, in…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:25 PM
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I would argue that children have the most value. If you are a man and do not procreate, you have FAILED. I don't understand how other members here don't see this. I come from a lineage of men who started with nothing in the 1800's, slaved away and pushed hard to send my grandpa, and now my father, into education. Now my pops is a kick ass doctor, sending money to lift other family members out of poverty. I was born in the states. My goal is to amass capital for real estate investments. From ther…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:21 PM
1

Smugness levels. I have to hear about how vaccines cause autism, that all corporations are the devil, and GMO's are all bad on a daily basis. The sad thing is they are so SMUG and believe without a doubt they are correct. I have learned not to waste my breath.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:08 PM
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I love Berkeley, used to live on Hillegas, near the corner of Ashby and College. Where are these supposed nooks? I have found the girls you describe, but they are 6/7's at best. I've only dated solid 8's or above, if they aren't hot I lose interest immediately.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:59 PM
4

seriously, my shower was the pacific ocean.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:09 PM
4

I have seen lots of hipsters, hippies, techies, etc. Even though I just moved here, I have a network of 30+ friends, since they all moved here over the past year. I have been going to music shows (just saw emancipator, fucking amazing), hitting up events, hanging out with friends, etc. Still....the woman here live in an entirely different world not based on reality. The lifestyle glorifies the starving artist shithead (dark triad? maybe TRP after all) vs the well educated techy (like the indian …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:08 PM
2

Would mention, but it would give my identity away. Small company at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:59 PM
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"Live with Girls"- Lived with over 10 girls in college, actually it was pretty insightful. best benefit was all the friends they had over, I cringe at all the girls that wanted to smash, but I was too beta to make moves. Only if I had a time machine. "Manscape" - Makes it easier to get blowjobs. I don't go down on girls that have bush, hate getting pubes in my mouth. I don't give a shit about her sucking on my nips, hence chest hair. "Gym, etc" - Nothing new, SMV and Frame. R/seduction has gone …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:51 PM
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Shit, just moved here because we got a couple million for a startup, I hope this ain't true. I have met lots of liberals here but a few (very few, still good tho) at least can hold a conversation and back up their arguments with facts. I wonder how they would respond to the biological fact that women past 30 are hitting a wall. Anyway, here to make money and bounce out.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 03:03 PM
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Yeah, seconding your remark, once you get your life handled, sex is the least of my concerns. I think the jealousy stems from the fact that women don't need to do anything to get sex. Literally nothing. One of my plates comes from a wealthy family and hasn't done shit with her life, but hey she is a girl, so she will get sex. A guy has to put much more effort in. That's where I see guys getting jealous. Well whoopdy dooo gentlemen, that's life, now hit the gym and go read a book. It is what it i…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:54 PM
1

Yeah....i really want to believe though. I've seen it happen both ways in real life. Doubt she was an 8 or above, if he had said 6 this would of made sense. Otherwise McAlphaDick would of got what he wanted. Probably turned her down. That's probably the piece of the story missing.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 03:02 AM
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I am interest as well, OP let us know.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 03:04 PM
1

Depends on where you are. I don't see this happen that much in california. If it does, they cheat and the marriage breaks down within a year or two after the "wedding high".
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 08:07 PM
3

Oh my god, thanks for the laugh.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 07:00 PM
12

my goto line that get's them going, "Girl I just met you and your telling me about your problems already?", smile mischievously, they usually hit my arm and laugh.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 04:01 AM
1

couldn't of said it any better myself, if you don't care about cheating, this is the best advice.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:57 PM
2

Personally, I find cheating to be one of the main reasons people end up swallowing TRP. So, again personally, I would drop her asap because she is a cheating whore. Its an action that deserves punishment. However, if he doesn't care, spin that plate!!! I totally agree with you, FBW where he should keep her at. Anything serious and you are setting yourself up to get hurt.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:55 PM
3

Well my parents are from Pakistan. My Dad was 32 and my mom was 18 when they got married. Been married forever, haven't seen any issues flare up. My dad is a top pediatrician, my mom stayed at home and handled everything else. Now that me and sisters are out of the house, she is a school admin. There culture is not one I agree with when it comes to how they view women, it's too extreme even for TRP. I sure as hell want my daughters to attend school and have equal access that men enjoy. Luckily, …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:29 PM
5

18-24. Maybe 25-27 if her genetic fitness is very high. I am 27 btw.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 02:29 AM
1

Yeah, I see relationships that are working but it's always the same case. One mans SMV is higher than the girls. If not, doomed to fail. Since his SMV is much higher now then when he was overlooked in college, he should have his pick of good women.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 08:42 PM
5

Having a family dynamic for raising children is important, at least that's how I see it. Not sure how that would work without having a woman within the same household. Even if you didn't marry, pretty sure common law would still apply.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 08:38 PM
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Procreation is the ultimate win. Passing along your genetics, etc. If you don't have kids, well there goes your lineage. I feel where he is coming from.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 05:46 PM
5

Yeah you guys both make good points. What should he do though? It obvious that he does not want to engage with the american female and I can't blame him.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:35 PM
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For a man in your position, you could find young women overseas that would kill to be your partner. I have a coworker who is almost exactly like you, although he grew up an atheist from severely broken family. He saw what you did when he went to UCSB (isla vista is like the biggest fuck fest in the USA) and now all those used up girls are now noticing him. Do yourself a favor and travel to the countries you mentioned. He went to Lebanon and ended up marrying this ridiculously hot 24 year old. Th…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 02:37 PM
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I will, it will be a week before I contact her.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 07:24 PM
2

LOL, made me laugh, thanks
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 11:41 PM
1

Well I can't really. If I pretend like nothing happened and we hang out, she denies sex again, then I will have wasted my entire saint patty's day on her. I could be out talking to other women.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 05:59 PM
1

Deer caught in the headlights, I swallowed the red pill and became a much better man, you guys know the deal. With that came an abundance of women I never had, so it really caught me off guard. I'll definitely take the advice because its bound to happen again.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 05:12 PM
7

Man, hindsight is 20/20, so thanks for this. I have other plates so might as well keep this in my back pocket.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 05:10 PM
5

This makes a ton of sense, she has been giving me those long eye stares like a puppy dog at an adoption center.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 05:09 PM
2

Meh. I have hundreds of female friends, I actually might have more close girlfriends than male. Although my best friends (ones willing to take a bullet) are all brothas from another mother. Might stem from the fact I am older brother to two amazing little sisters. Many of my closest girlfriends are hot. Would I fuck them? Yup. Done it before. Do I pursue or care enough? Naw. Imagine this scenario (heaven forbid), one of my hot girlfriends gets her face fucked up in an accident and drops from a 1…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:28 PM
1

Living smack dab in the middle of haight, beautiful women everywhere. However, they think they are the shit and have little or nothing to offer. An San Fran 9 is a Santa Barbara 6. So I feel yah.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:09 PM
1

Best of luck my brotha!
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 02:05 PM
1

For real, I don't thinks it Beta to shoulder the expense of driving her (unless its like 20 bucks each time or more on gas). However, it would be if you were buying all the booze, food, and other stuff when you hangout. Since you are splitting that 50/50 99% of the time (obviously if you are taking a girl out on her birthday, etc, wouldn't be the case), don't see her taking advantage of your resources. 2-3 weeks is pushing in the LTR territory. Let's say you drop that down to 1 a week, so you ha…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 05:58 PM
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Great question for TRP. Pushed myself to exceed in all facets of sales (closing,operations,marketing), making 115k/year Budgeting my money, I was 40k in debt, I have about 3k left on the books. Looking to save up 30k by EOY for a house. I had stopped working out, just signed up for the gym and getting diet in order (keto/paleo focus) Going to bed early, waking up by 5:30am. Something about this sleep cycle increase my focus Reversed my frame 180 degrees, I know my value, so what is yours? MOST I…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:56 PM
1

Never had this issue. If there is even an inkling that drama is in the mix, I am out.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 12:41 AM
2

My 3rd plate is 20 with no car, so I feel yah man. I am on the fence of whether or not it's blue pill to be driving her, you aren't doing it for her as much as for sex (you are doing it for yourself?). Someone else might want to comment. One thing I have learned really quickly, if you spend more than 2-3 days a week with a plate, it's the fast track to feelings/attachment. If this is what you want, then alright. I noticed that even when I was super busy at work, my mind would drift to Fraulein (…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:45 PM
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Then you maintain frame and kick her drama causing ass to the curb. There are plenty of women who won't pull this shit if your SMV is higher.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:35 PM
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Yeah, I have to agree. I stopped lurking because of this sub. Had to share the benefits it had on my love life, career, and general awesomeness. If this shit is what TRP values, back to lurking. Mind you, I'll keep lifting, learning, and spinning plates (finally at 3, took about 4 months).
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:34 PM
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Had a LTR for 2.5 years and never had to do any of these things. Just maintained frame, continued to self improve, got promoted twice, etc. She did try to promote drama, I headed to the door. It only took one time before she knew never to pull that shit again. Manipulation through mind games, rather than leading by example, is weakness IMO. You are fighting fire with fire. Maybe this works for children though?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:27 PM
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Thanks for this. You can swallow the red pill and yes it will bitter, but it does not mean life has to be.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 02:13 PM
4

Seriously, this article is shit. "over educated" is an insult. I think the reason people have this view point is the disconnect between knowledge and intelligence. Knowledge is inherently useless, it is only in application will it derive power. Simple way to view it, would you rather have a woman who is educated or not? If it's the latter, good luck raising competent children.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:15 PM
2

Yup, intellect is highly genetic.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:12 PM
1

Intellect is highly genetic, so first blow to the article. Second, this article is a massive generalization. The RedPill is supposed to be backed by concrete scientific evidence, not hearsay. Lastly, "over educated", wtf? Education should never be seen as a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:12 PM
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I'll clear this up, "Everyone else is using you", that's not Red Pill or Blue Pill, it's just a pathetic way to look at life. "Pursue your passions. Do what you enjoy. Get a fucking dog if you want a companion". I will pursue self improvement and my goals, but I will NEVER have this life view. Too many people have shown me the greatness of friendship/brotherhood (when I was having a tough time). The Red Pill is bitter, but doesn't mean your life view has to be.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 12:27 AM
1

I was doing crossfit and keto (although I would have 1 cheat day and drink beer both sat/sun). I am 5'8'' and was 145. After 6 months, I was 160 pounds and finally was starting to see my abs. It's been about 6 months off since I moved to the bay. Now I am getting back into it. Had huge kale salad and 3 pork chops for dinner. Went to the gym and signed up yesterday!
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 04:21 AM
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