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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	80/20 Rule	Question for BluePill	ConfusedCrank	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 04:46 PM

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1	80/20 Rule about those beliefs, and that's what people take exception to So the reason for people getting pissed at what I say is because they assume I hold other misogynistic beliefs, not because I only want a virgin or a very inexperienced women for (LTR) despite wanting to hookup myself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 08:45 PM
1	80/20 Rule the best counterarguments to your claim They aren't counter arguments, they dodge the main question. If women can be picky for ONS, why can't men do the same for LTR's (especially in regards to a woman's sexual history)? Why do I get called out for this? I didn't want to have a debate on why its wrong for promiscuous men to prefer non-promiscuous women. I don't even think its wrong for women to be promiscuous. I wasn't trying to say non-virgins are "impure"	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 08:34 PM
1	80/20 Rule Personality does matter more in LTRs. A casual hookup is literally just about sex. In an LTR, you actually have to enjoy simply being with the person. If you're being exactly as shallow in your ONS selection as your LTR selection, you should correct that, for your own sake. Exactly so that's why its okay for men to be pickier on LTR, and only go after a specific type of woman. If the man wanting that virginity is himself promiscuous, that crosses off both of those reasons as valid and leaves one…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 08:28 PM
0	80/20 Rule Maybe it is hypocrisy. But its okay, nothing wrong with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 07:27 PM
0	80/20 Rule Not being attracted to certain physical characteristics Behavior can also influence attraction. I'm also attracted to a woman's behaviors so even though I like to party I just don't feel attracted to women who used to do the same. I don't condemn women who party though, I don't think its wrong, at the same time I don't think its wrong or hypocritical for me to not be attracted to them. We can't control we are attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 07:12 PM
1	80/20 Rule I personally wouldn't say its wrong or hypocritical though. I mean a guy who has 20 inch biceps and works out regularly probably wouldn't be attracted to a woman with 20 inch biceps who works out regularly I wouldn't call it hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:54 PM
1	80/20 Rule It would be hypocritical if you said that you wouldn't be with a woman than partied and then carried on doing it yourself. Maybe I don't understand what you are trying to say, but that's kind of what I described. I will stop partying when I wanna settle down, but I wouldn't want to have a LTR with a woman that used to party. I don't think that's hypocritical though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:44 PM
1	80/20 Rule I'm not saying women shouldn't party, I think its totally fine. I love that a certain percentage of woman are promiscuous its good for me. I'm just saying even though I like to have fun, I don't want a long term relationship with a woman like my self. I don't think that's hypocritical either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:40 PM
1	80/20 Rule You make a lot of sense "there are no feeemale virgins because biotroofs!, not because I am garbage, but because women are incapable of love! I don't say things like this, and there's actually a decent amount of female virgins in college. no one cares if men want a virgin. I usually don't get this response. I guess the reason a lot of people where hostile to me was because guys who think like me generally tend to believe in other misogynistic things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:36 PM
1	80/20 Rule It happens if a promiscuous man is picky about a woman's past. I like to party, but I can't control the fact that I'm not attracted to women who party or are promiscuous for long term relationships so I get called a hypocrite for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:31 PM
1	80/20 Rule Yet when a man is really picky for LTR (for example only wants to date girls who don't party, even if he parties himself) he is called a hypocrite. I'm not referring to guys who criticize women though. By that same logic women are hypocritical for refusing to have ONS with ugly guys even if they are ugly themselves. Which isn't hypocritical in my eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:29 PM
1	80/20 Rule anyone can be as picky or have as many standards as they want Sure. Whether or not their standards will be met is another matter entirely. You're right about that too. I actually don't mind that women are picky for ONS, even if they always met their high standards (which is easy for women to do due to the ratio). It just makes me mad when people criticize guys who party for only wanting LTR with girls who don't party and study hard. People think its okay for women to picky for STR (Which is tota…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:25 PM
2	80/20 Rule So any condemnation of women for being selective is hypocritical and stupid Please read my post. I didn't say I was condemning it. I was saying why do people condemn for men being picky in LTR (Such as only wanting a girl that never hooks up even if they hooked up themselves)? Women can be picky for ONS due to the ratio as you stated, but men can be picky for LTR relationships due to the same reason. Yet when a man is really picky for LTR (for example only wants to date girls who don't party, ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:19 PM
1	80/20 Rule Obviously its true, and women can be picky because of the ratio (more men prefer ONS over LTR). Conversely men can be picky in LTR due to the ratio (Since more men would rather have ONS and there's less men in college which leaves more available women for LTR). I'm not saying there's anything wrong with women being picky for ONS, but then they shouldn't call men hypocritical for having high standards for LTR (such as wanting a virgin even if they aren't one themselves, or only wanting a girl tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:14 PM
1	80/20 Rule Not the exact 80/20 I think that's exaggerated My first source was only to prove that a lot of college students engage in promiscuous behavior (which we all know) The second source was to prove women are only having ONS with guys much hotter then themselves. Basically my argument is women have high standards for STR but they get mad and call men hypocrites if men have high standards (in regards to sexual experience (such as only wanting a virgin) and looks of a woman) for LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 06:00 PM
1	80/20 Rule 60-80% applied to both genders Here is a third one (For Vacations) http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/20/vacation-sex-40-percent-o_n_1613394.html According to my first source both men and women hook up at similar rate, but according to my second source what happens is women only hook up with those much higher then themselves in looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 05:47 PM
1	80/20 Rule Most sources usually don't mention gender dividend in how many % of men and how many % of women have had ONS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 05:18 PM
3	80/20 Rule That sounds fair. Blue pillers seemed really hostile though, I guess because they assume guys like me believe in the "keys and locks" shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 05:15 PM
3	80/20 Rule If you're gonna bitch about "sluts" and "whores", act like one, then demand a "pure virgin I'm not talking about guys who talk down to "sluts" I mean guys who are promiscuous but still want a virgin. Only if he is holding her to a (moral) standard to which he himself does not conform. Yea, but even he doesn't fit the criteria himself, the ratio for LTR (in college) are in favor for men so why is it wrong for men to be really picky? So what? Do we criticize women for holding men to standards they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 05:02 PM