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Agree but only if your online/visual presence is cultivated. If you're ugly, cold approach is important lol. I'm not ugly (the the women im into at the very least) but cannot for the life of my take photos or cultivate a cool online persona. I'd rather talk to people.
/r/seduction19/11/25 12:17 AM
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Great attitude. You don't have a fixed mindset, but a growth one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:52 PM
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So I don't think you did anything wrong necessarily, but I would advise against ever really doing a "I want to ask/tell you something" text. I admire that you want to do it in person, but there's a bit of an unnatural flow to that strategy I would say. I think your actions were for the best so there's no text trail for work or her to show people ; but I'd advise to ask her out during a more natural hangout setting than texting into an in person ask. I'll be clear, she's run her mouth, so she suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:46 PM
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How did you ask her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:03 PM
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You are a unicorn in a horse forum but definitely something very important to consider and hear
/r/seduction01/03/25 09:21 AM
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Kudos on the self awareness, but personally, if it's ambiguous to me I would avoid them. They have to be a solid hoe for me lol. If there's girlfriend /wife activity I have to shut it down. But do what works for you!
/r/seduction20/02/25 11:08 PM
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Why ditch the texter guy? Just text him when you need him. That is how I treat mine, and let's just say they're responsive to the silence much more than ANY explanation. But men and women are far different. Unless you've been turned off, I wouldn't give up a solid spot on the roster. Especially if it's half your franchise
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:44 PM
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Wouldn't risk the job whatsoever, unless you're in a situation you can easily replace it.
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:53 PM
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I'd do this to anyone except a boxer lmao you can end up with nothing and a broken nose. It's her choice, just give her a few opportunities. Invite her to things, that will gauge it. Don't be weird about being a lone at work, plenty of people have work chemistry just because you might as well, you're forced.
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:47 PM
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Tell her you can't hang out cause you're going on a date. Her response will tell you if there's anything of substance here. Continue to ignore her and date others until she begs
/r/seduction11/12/24 10:13 PM
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This ain't about seduction but it is definitely a wonderful thing
/r/seduction08/12/24 07:55 PM
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It, like all things, depends. If you maintain a high SMV, low interest in her, and are able to cultivate an intriguing frame where she's obsessed with the idea of "what can I do to make him sleep with me?" then of course, a slow burn can work. This also requires you to invest more time than normal, but depending on your goals it can work out. This is not recommended for clubbing at all, this is for someone you've got contact info and set up dates with. The idea that you need to close ASAP is in …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:42 AM
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They can't both know it's a date
/r/seduction26/11/24 04:07 PM
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Hell no, and the more you talk to, the more abundance you have. It will only benefit you until you have a scheduling conflict and have to choose 😁
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:29 PM
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"I'm proud of you" really works with the girls who don't have good role models
/r/seduction18/11/24 07:20 PM
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Hey dude, I'm leaving tomorrow to be in the Bay for a week. I'm a pretty excellent wingman, but looking for one myself too. DM me!
/r/seduction17/11/24 12:37 AM
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I think you're on to something, but I want to say that it's not all men. I don't date someone unless they can 50/50. I don't drink so I'm not gonna spend money on them just to butter up a woman. In terms of knowing what you want, that's an extremely attractive trait. You must just be attracting the wrong men. If I could find a girl that knew what she wanted and could communicate it, I wouldn't be on this subreddit lol My only advice for you now, is to not give up. It's good that you're reflectiv…
/r/seduction12/11/24 06:01 PM
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You may be suffering from Ten-itis. You may be literally too attractive and well put together, if your coach is saying "Too-good-to-be-true". I don't really have advice for this, I'll be honest. I am like a 7 and I have to work and put effort in, which comes across as sincere and genuine. But when encountering guys, you could be coming off as arrogant instead of confident; Or more likely, the vast majority of these guys simply don't know what they want. When it comes to the monetary gifts, have …
/r/seduction12/11/24 05:19 PM
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That was good humour. Maybe try to focus on that buddy!
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:29 PM
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It was a test to see if you listen, and you failed.
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:22 PM
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This sounds horrendous. Can't tell if you're joking or not in all honesty. You need to listen and pay attention to what they say. It cannot be glossed over or ignored. Maybe you can learn to read other signals outside of speech. "Tried to make it less awkward" by ignoring what she said? That's incredibly dense. If she isn't receptive, you need to back off and change the mood and setting/environment. You didn't do either of those, and "being more dominant/aggressive" in this moment basically ruin…
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:19 PM
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You're not coming from a place of abundance. I do not advise pursuing her anymore, she's made it clear to you that it's a waste of time. I'd move on personally
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:03 AM
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