ConfusedMegladon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Female vs male sexuality: A case study I didn't say male model either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/21 02:11 AM
–	Female vs male sexuality: A case study Can you post a step-by-step algorithm with guaranteed success or at least high chances of success please? Idk if you're serious but the answer here is taking care of your mind and body. Confidence and self-care is attractive for men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/21 01:58 AM
–	Female vs male sexuality: A case study Men want to get into that percentage, which is the whole point of TRP. That makes no sense given that instant attraction is mostly about being very good looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/21 01:56 AM
1	Women, what’s the difference between love bombing and desperation? I meant that they demonstrate wanting to be loved, not that they say those exact words. Like, they demonstrate a genuine need to feel loved and wanted. While in love bombing people put their partner on a pedestal and focus on wanting their partner love them rather than coming from a place of needing to feel loved. I think the best that I can explain what I mean is in cases of desperation the desperate party is focused on how their partner makes them feel. In cases of love bombing the love bomber…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 08:04 PM
2	Women, what’s the difference between love bombing and desperation? I don't think they manifest in the same way, despite similarities. The way I think about it is, love bombing is kind of like saying: I love you so much. Desperation is kind of like: Please love me. Both shower the man/woman with too much love, attention, etc. too soon, and many women can recognize both and aren't into either one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 05:40 PM
1	Question about “the wall” Couldn't agree more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 11:24 PM
4	Question about “the wall” Not attracting "chads" as you say is one thing, but not attracting men after 30 just isn't a real thing that happens. As people get older they start to put less value on looks/youth and more value on personality compatibility. Some men are overly focused on looks sure, and some men aren't. It's probably best for women to avoid the first group of men at any age. We all age, and you want someone that's there for you as a human being not losing interest as you lose your collagen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 05:47 PM
2	Question about “the wall” What's the wall then? Isn't it that men don't wanna chase a woman over 30?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 04:57 PM
2	What are the social benefits of being a man? What you're doing right now: Someone: "I have cancer and it's hard." You: "Well kidney failure is hard too. People with kidney failure struggle just as much. What about kidney failure, huh?" Learn to not invalidate people's experiences when making an argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 06:31 AM
2	What are the social benefits of being a man? This was my personal experience and you just invalidated it. I never said men are never seen as weak. Different men have different social benefits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 06:12 AM
2	What are the social benefits of being a man? Well, you talk like a woman. I am a woman. Even online people will try to "talk over" you. They don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 09:56 PM
2	What are the social benefits of being a man? I mean I just wanna act normal lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 09:18 PM
3	What are the social benefits of being a man? Always being talked over/looked over. At 5'2'' the 6' men don't even see me at meetings/events. Getting a word in is a struggle. This extends to advancements at work. Being physically smaller and having a quiet voice has a huge effect on how you're perceived. You're always assumed to be shy/sweet/weak, while the 6' guy is assumed to be strong and assertive. There was a world of difference in how I was treated working in a male dominated vs female dominated office, doing essentially the same work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 06:08 PM
12	Question about “the wall” My grandma was widowed at 60. She's been going on dates with really cute dudes her age, and having a great time. The "wall at 30" is a myth perpetuated by social media. Senior communities get wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 05:54 PM
1	Do unattractive low income men really have it worse than unattractive low income women? You’re not really making any sense mate. When it comes to women paying for a hook up, it’s usually that 10/10 looking male stripper at the hen party. Who was talking about a woman paying for a hookup? I literally can’t think of anything else other than that, that remotely comes close to a male prostitute that gets female clients Again, no one was talking about female clients. Only you are bringing that up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 12:07 PM
–	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" If taxes is slavery then how can you make taxpayers pay for people's kids? Also, again, by definition none of this is slavery. A slave is a person that is the legal property of another. Being forced to give up a part of your paycheck isn't slavery. You're misusing the word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 05:04 PM
–	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Taxes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 07:29 AM
–	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Terrible crimes that deserve punishment. I'm not sure what they have to do with slavery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 06:54 AM
2	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" My point is that women needed men to be their defense against survival pressure. They don't today. This solidified into family groupings as we advanced socially and technologically. Without this arrangement, we wouldn't exist in our current state and would still be the early human tribes you're so enamored with. No twitter activism, no reddit, just you and foraging for what you're going to eat today while you bitch about patriarchy that won't do anything for you. Neither you nor I can say what a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 02:24 AM
1	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Women couldn't simultaneously hold back against survival pressure and raise young. And men can't raise young or have kids, what's your point? Early human tribes would still be early human tribes and not modern civilization if we did not adapt. What's your point? Thanks for your opinion on what "enslaved" means. If women can opt in or out of unwanted pregnancies, but men are forced into whatever decision she makes, the man is enslaved to her decisions. That's literally not what enslaved means. Me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 01:06 AM
1	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" The human race continued because men would sink resources into their offspring and push back against survival pressure. Women didn't sink anything into offspring? Like making it? Feeding it? Caring for it? Thus the need to ensure that their offspring were indeed theirs and the heavy social shame on "bastards". This did not occur in early human tribes. Now men are enslaved to women who have complete social control over not only when they have children, but who pays. I don't think you know what "e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 12:35 AM
3	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Idk, what percentage doesn't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 08:16 PM
2	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" So what does kidnapping brides have to do with anything? And I think it's obvious that culturally men are pressured to not be submissive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 08:06 PM
3	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Lol, I assure you that being "strong and confident" does not enhance a woman's attractiveness to men. Maybe not to you. It does to many, many men. Because all men aren't a monolith. And you know what, good luck finding a weak and insecure woman and being happy together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 07:58 PM
2	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" No proof, just my general observation that sexual submissiveness is extremely common among women and that this is consistent with our evolutionary history. (It's rape. Rape is common in evolutionary history) I think that taking of men as war grooms was pretty unusual compared to the taking of women as war brides. No proof, just my general sense. I'm not talking about war grooms. I'm talking about slavery. Any enslaved person, man or woman, benefits from submitting. Just because women were marr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 07:38 PM
5	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Probably the full details are lost to history, but it seems likely that pulling this off would have required her to cooperate and to convincingly shift her loyalties to this warlord. Slavery. This is slavery. What kind of traits are we selecting for when a reproductively successful woman is one who cooperates with a man who so completely dominates her? And is it a coincidence that so many women have fantasies which entail being dominated by high status men? Consensual bdsm play =/= as rape. No…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 07:36 PM
3	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Gender roles back then are far from what they evolved into. Humans lived in small tribes and communally raised kids. It was never one man, one woman for 60 years alone in the suburbs with two kids at school most of the day. Men being the provider came out of a necessity, and the necessity is gone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 06:39 PM
2	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Social pressure might play a role, but I'm pretty confident that natural tendencies play a big role. Submissiveness is just so common among women, even among feminist women who were raised by feminists. Proof? Moreover, it completely makes sense given our evolutionary history as a species. In the ancestral environment, bride kidnapping was definitely a thing and from a genetic perspective, a woman faced with such a situation would have been better off submitting to her kidnappers. This is true f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 06:25 PM
6	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" In other words, she submitted to male authority. Raped. She was raped. And let me tell you, men love to be submissive in the bedroom. And outside the bedroom. They love it when a woman makes their doctor's appts, tells them what needs to be done around the house, initiates sex then jumps on top. Plenty of men don't want a submissive wife, as much as they want a woman that doesn't expect anything from them or complain. Not the same thing as submissiveness. People wanna be loved for their shitty s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 06:24 PM
1	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" The human race isn't even a million years old, and traditional gender roles are rooted in power and control over women. Traditional gender roles says a woman sits in her suburban house in a dress and cleans/cooks while the kids are at school. "Natural" is humans living in a tribe, spending their days hunting for food and care for children collectively. Traditional housewives roles are as natural as microwaves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 04:41 PM
4	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" Prior to feminism and modern day, women needed to adopt strategies to latch onto men to survive. Pretty sure men needed women to continue the human race....	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 04:34 PM
6	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" If there were no pressure either way, it's hard to say what would happen, but my guess is that most relationships would be pretty traditional Would they? In the modern world? I don't think so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 04:34 PM
12	Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good" *The seismic shift that accompanied women being allowed to work and live independently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 04:29 PM
1	Do unattractive low income men really have it worse than unattractive low income women? Hey, you said there are only chads being male escorts. Clearly not. If you think only gay men escort for men, I've got news for ya...	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 03:22 PM
1	Do unattractive low income men really have it worse than unattractive low income women? Why? I wasn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 02:33 PM
3	It’s not shallow for men and society to value physical attractiveness in women. I disagree. Why do you think that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/21 12:18 AM
19	It’s not shallow for men and society to value physical attractiveness in women. You speak as if average men don't date average women irl. Most humans are average and dating each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 09:19 PM
7	It’s not shallow for men and society to value physical attractiveness in women. Two X chromosomes has never said men shouldn't look for a partner they feel attracted too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 09:17 PM
1	AA/BB is not decided at birth; you mindset is fucking you up The margins are pretty wide	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 09:15 PM
-1	Do unattractive low income men really have it worse than unattractive low income women? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ausDk-eOU1o&ab_channel=korrupt1985 Gay men like all kinds of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 02:51 PM
1	Do unattractive low income men really have it worse than unattractive low income women? Im sure some gay men/women like fat male escorts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 02:47 PM
6	Do unattractive low income men really have it worse than unattractive low income women? Hey now. Men can escort too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 01:33 AM
4	Do unattractive low income men really have it worse than unattractive low income women? UPS, Amazon, and similar companies sure. But construction, and landscaping, it is harder. There also tends to be a bit more sexism in those fields than average. That being said, a lot of women don't apply for those jobs to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 01:30 AM
–	Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays" I think you may have me confused with the original comment lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 11:07 PM
–	Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre Sex I agree that there's a lot of unfair blaming of men, but it's usually both, and sometimes one or the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 10:15 PM
–	Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre Sex I mean there are situations in which a man or woman can try hard and still not match their partner's libido. It could be hormonal, medication side effect, health related, age related, stress related, etc. When someone is in a new relationship hormones go crazy, and over time fade away for both men and women as well so that's another factor. The truth is mismatched libidos have to be handled on a case by case basis. The causes are always going to be different, and sometimes it's fixable, sometime…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 10:04 PM
–	Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre Sex I mean what you've described sounds like a communication problem. And it goes both ways too. Women can also stop putting the effort into sex, making it lackluster and bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 10:00 PM
–	Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays" I'm not sure what your point is	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 09:59 PM
1	South Park perspective: the inflation of women's looks It goes for men too. If a man stops getting haircuts, dresses like a middle schooler and puts health on the back burner he's gonna get less attention too. Humans like beautiful humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 08:46 PM
–	Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre Sex If you're both putting in 100% and it's not working, then it's time to go your separate ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 08:44 PM
–	Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays" Bad times create PTSD Maybe our idea of what a man should be is what's the problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 08:20 PM
2	South Park perspective: the inflation of women's looks As a man, I would prefer that women drop the charade altogether and start portraying themselves more accurately and realistically, The issue with that is unless all women do it all the time, the ones that put in the effort will generally get much more attention/success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 08:02 PM
–	Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre Sex I don't think the quality of sex has any effect on one's libido at all It has an effect on the persons desire to sleep with a specific person. No one wants bad sex, men or woman. Both have to keep putting the effort in for ever if they want a good sex life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 08:00 PM
–	Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre Sex Is the male in the relationship holding down his end of doing a good job during sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 07:58 PM
5	Men here don't chase "all types of women". Otherwise, they wouldn't complain about one type of female. Well if the woman you want doesn't want someone like you, then you have a few options: pursue a different type of woman, or accept that it's gonna take time to meet the kind of person you wanna be with that also wants to be with you. Once you get older, you could consider settling/compromising on some of your preferences if you haven't had success. You could also think about why you are attracted to religious women? Is it that they are religious, or something else? If you just like conservative …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 05:48 AM
2	Men here don't chase "all types of women". Otherwise, they wouldn't complain about one type of female. Everyone's "good woman" is gonna be different. So the question you should ask is, where does your "good woman" look for men? At church? Playing sports? Online? The second question would be, would your "good woman" date someone like you? Why or why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 04:01 AM
3	What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men? women like sex too you know...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 03:58 AM
4	Now that you have seen the true faces of men and women, will your dating approach change at all when things get back to "normal"? I don't think this represents all men at all...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/21 03:54 AM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman I mean hey, to each their own. But discarding someone for not putting out fast enough might not be the best strategy to something more serious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 01:29 AM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman You wanna be someone's one night stand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 01:14 AM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman You want me to prove your point for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:41 AM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman That's a study of 2000 women, and says nothing about how quickly anyone slept with anyone so I'm not sure what you're getting at with that. the majority of this small sample only had 1-2 of these encounters in their lifetime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:39 AM
5	Amazon's Best Selling Romance Novels tells us what women really like Idk, I really like twilight....but irl, I don't care how hot you are, if you break into my house to watch me sleep I'm calling the cops. A novel is a safe space to explore a fantasy. I also like war movies, doesn't mean I wanna be in a war...you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:30 AM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman Isn’t it funny how women only have “poor impulse control” for chad. Some women do. Some don't. Like men, women aren't a monolith. And like men, yeah....it's harder to say no to someone very attractive. Everyone has poor impulse control with beautiful people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:28 AM
–	When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another woman I don't think you realize the consequences of sleeping with someone you don't know well, like STD's and assault. The better you know someone, the better chance you have of vetting for problems. Also that aside, plenty of women don't wanna get attached to a guy due to having sex if she's unsure about him as a potential partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:26 AM
–	Women would prefer for men to make SUB-OPTIMAL dating choices that ONLY benefits them but RARELY do the same for men Does she just...ask? In dating women I find they are perfectly open when you just ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 12:22 AM
1	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? He's saying empathy is bad?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 08:05 PM
1	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? Yeah, no one is arguing against that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 08:02 PM
2	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? Empathy is a morally neutral trait at best and results in in-group prejudice at worst. That's just not correct. Normal, mentally healthy adults have empathy. Not having empathy results in a diagnosis. It's not neutral or normal to not have it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 03:41 AM
1	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? Just as my discomfort isn’t other people’s problem It is. Good people are empathetic and considerate. People that are not empathetic and inconsiderate are narcissists. Empathy is an important trait of being a good person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 03:14 AM
1	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? Why should you care if you make anyone uncomfortable?? Hopefully because you're not a shitty person???	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 02:58 AM
1	The Manosphere Needs a New Pill No one needs any pills. Having self confidence and looking after yourself is all anyone needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 02:55 AM
2	More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalry I always prefer to split the bill. If he insists I won't argue about it, but I try to avoid that by getting my drink/food after he's paid for his and avoiding restaurants for the first couple dates. Not splitting the bill makes no sense in today's world. It's outdated and there isn't a single good argument for it. I can't say I want equality and expect men to pay for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 02:52 AM
1	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? To watch me sleep with massive desire as is the context here, No it isn't. I was talking about stalking. Literally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 09:51 AM
1	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? If a hot female celebrity broke into your house how would you feel?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 06:40 AM
1	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? They don't perceive Edward as a stalker because he's a fantasy superhuman that can't die. They would 100% perceive a man breaking into their house at night to watch them sleep as a stalker in real life. Because people know that fantasy isn't reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 02:55 AM
2	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? And a lot of women would fuck Edward from twilight. Doesn't mean they're attracted to stalkers irl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 10:23 PM
0	Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off? school teacher Is a career woman™. Teachers work insane hours	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 09:58 PM
1	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? Men thought Deaneries Targaryen was hot. Does that mean they all want evil fire queens? The type of media people like doesn't represent real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 09:57 PM
-1	Women's standards vs men's standards The only studies I've seen are from tindeer	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 02:01 PM
0	Women's standards vs men's standards Thats debatable	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 03:08 AM
-5	Women's standards vs men's standards Are women's standards unrealistic irl? Most women seem to want a regular, cute guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 01:55 AM
1	Feelings vs. "logic" in dating That's on tinder though. Tinder isn't a reflection of real life. Neither is reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 09:03 PM
0	Women's standards ("the bar") are indeed low, but not for the reasons you think Show me one. Then show me the connection between IQ and "uniqueness"	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 09:27 PM
1	Feelings vs. "logic" in dating Yes....tinder isn't a reflection of real life. You can make a blank profile with no pictures, make it female, and get hundreds of matches. Plus tinder is majority men, and attracts a certain type of man and woman. This is just you saying "men don't have standards and would date anyone," which is not true. Sure, men are a lot more willing to sleep with anyone....but for relationships it's totally different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 04:58 PM
0	Women's standards ("the bar") are indeed low, but not for the reasons you think It does. I'm pointing out that your evidence for women are all similar and men all being unique snowflakes is terrible. You don't even site your IQ evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 10:56 AM
-1	Women's standards ("the bar") are indeed low, but not for the reasons you think saw OKC study Ah yes, well if OKCupid says it's so....then it is so. Humans really are all very very similar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 08:49 AM
-2	Feelings vs. "logic" in dating most men find a large majority of women attractive I don't think that's true at all. Reddit seems to think so for some reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 05:56 AM
1	Women's standards ("the bar") are indeed low, but not for the reasons you think So are men. People are all very similar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 05:29 AM
2	Feelings vs. "logic" in dating Women have really been ratting themselves out online lately. I think all humans are attracted to attractive humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 05:27 AM
1	Majority of Women Desire a "power imbalance" in a Relationship Guys. Women don't all think the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 08:20 PM
2	A woman relaxing and gaining 50% of her BW after marriage is equivalent to a man relaxing and taking an easier job with a 50% pay cut after marriage. Actually it's equivalent to a man gaining 50% of his BW after marriage. Most women have jobs, you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 05:51 AM
2	The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easier Sometimes.....not everything is about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 06:39 PM
1	You can't call a woman's change in her male preferences with age 'maturing' because the geeks she 'matures' to like get way less affection than the Chads she liked in young age. That is settling And there are rich men and women that don't do that too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 07:06 AM
2	You can't call a woman's change in her male preferences with age 'maturing' because the geeks she 'matures' to like get way less affection than the Chads she liked in young age. That is settling Women's value doesn't go down and men's value doesn't go up. Human value isn't dependent on whether a rich guy wants to marry you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 05:48 AM
1	You can't call a woman's change in her male preferences with age 'maturing' because the geeks she 'matures' to like get way less affection than the Chads she liked in young age. That is settling They do, but they don't frame it as maturing. Dating your looksmatch instead of chasing unattainable women is maturing. It's just word choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 11:24 PM
1	You can't call a woman's change in her male preferences with age 'maturing' because the geeks she 'matures' to like get way less affection than the Chads she liked in young age. That is settling You don't think men settle lol? Cause...I see men settle all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 09:21 PM
0	Modern women and modern men are not compatible Marriage never worked well. Men were literally allowed to rape their wives, women couldn't have a bank account, and divorce was taboo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 09:18 PM
31	FDS women want a sexually submissive man with "alpha" traits How is wanting oral from your partner and wanting them to look good/make money equal to control in a relationship?? Edit: Not defending FDS, but I don't think this is what's wrong with that sub...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 09:14 PM
1	"Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott Adams What about rich women dating men that make less? Are they paying men for sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 09:12 PM
-1	"Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations. For one night stands, sure. But standards go way up for relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 11:45 PM
2	Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your league Why'd you ask?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 08:23 PM
2	Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your league Five years. What's yours?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 07:59 PM
-1	Q4W: Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship? If a SAHM just sat around and didn't do her part it would be no different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 07:16 PM
2	Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your league For you, yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 07:14 PM
-2	"Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations. Why can a 250 pound woman put up a dating profile and get hundreds of matches and messages within the hour? I will say dating profiles aren't a reflection of real life. Those matches are just people swiping blindly and don't end up with dates. I've made a female profile with no bio and a black square as a picture and got hundreds of matches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 07:13 PM
1	Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world? I will say it does vary be region but....yeah. The US was built on individualism and the puritan work ethic, which translates to a culture of focusing on your self and being responsible for yourself/not relying on others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 07:10 PM
0	2 weeks ago there was a post with a graph about decline in sex for UK students that attracted a lot of comments about open hypergamy and 80/20 ratio. The study itself can give way to more concrete numbers. Sure, that's true. It's not because it's more interesting, it's because everyone likes hot people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 03:36 PM
1	2 weeks ago there was a post with a graph about decline in sex for UK students that attracted a lot of comments about open hypergamy and 80/20 ratio. The study itself can give way to more concrete numbers. Right, so what's the issue?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 03:35 PM
2	2 weeks ago there was a post with a graph about decline in sex for UK students that attracted a lot of comments about open hypergamy and 80/20 ratio. The study itself can give way to more concrete numbers. Yeah, I mean doesn't everyone already know that being hot makes you more desirable? And people are for sure interested in personality. They just aren't interested only in personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 09:30 AM
-1	2 weeks ago there was a post with a graph about decline in sex for UK students that attracted a lot of comments about open hypergamy and 80/20 ratio. The study itself can give way to more concrete numbers. They never get to experiment and find what they like I mean....that sucks but like....what can you do? Force women to hook up with you? Seems like not everyone gets to hook up a bunch and that's just life. I wasn't saying good looking guys are assholes, I said they aren't. That's my whole point, so I'm not sure what you're getting at. Idk what you're talking about with bad behavior and victimhood?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 09:28 AM
2	2 weeks ago there was a post with a graph about decline in sex for UK students that attracted a lot of comments about open hypergamy and 80/20 ratio. The study itself can give way to more concrete numbers. If the good looking guy has a good personality then they're gonna want him. Just like if a pretty girl has a good personality, you want her. Also, I've noticed a lot of guys overestimate how great their personality is. Most average looking dudes have average personalities. Same with women. We're all just average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 08:04 AM
2	2 weeks ago there was a post with a graph about decline in sex for UK students that attracted a lot of comments about open hypergamy and 80/20 ratio. The study itself can give way to more concrete numbers. Being able to find hookups isn't the same thing as being able to find a relationship. Most adults are able to find some mate. I think the biggest myth is that men on here believe good looking men are all psychopaths. Hot guys can also be nice, good people. Ugly guys can be horrible, cheating assholes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 07:35 AM
3	Design your dream partner here: Has a third arm. Grows in the middle of her torso. But you still love her just the same. Besides, it means you can do some wild stuff in the bedroom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 12:02 AM
5	Design your dream partner here: Dwight's personality but looks like Gandalf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 12:02 AM
–	What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ? This one guy I went out with for a little bit had this toe nail thing where he couldn't cut them for whatever reason. So he had these claw feet, and the big toe toe nail on one foot was all mangled and purple from a table-falling-on-toe accident. So that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 11:56 PM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? Ohhhhh, you think unattractive women are getting approached by men? Cause I've got some news for ya. Those un-approached guys tend to approach....attractive women. Unattractive women ain't gettin approached.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 05:59 AM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? women will approach men they want, while the majority of men never experience this So what's this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 05:04 AM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? no, that's not what I mean. I mean that women want what they want Men also want what they want. you're reaffirming your own point but you don't see it you're still upset about being rejected by the men you want, while admitting you get approached by men. I'm not upset about being rejected. And yes men approach me sometimes. I don't really see the point you are trying to make with this. in reality, women will approach men they want, while the majority of men never experience this, so will app…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 04:09 AM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? Idk, I've been approached by men plenty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 03:39 AM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? Men don't have choices between different women? Thats news to a lot of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 01:37 AM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? Well the comment I responded to says women pick men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 01:07 AM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? I really agree with this, men look for a woman that doesn't have anything wrong with her What is this woman like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 12:54 AM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? I'm a woman that's been rejected by men before. So has every woman I know. What now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 12:50 AM
6	What do women mean when they say that they feel like their boyfriend's mom It's not a his and hers "mating strategy." Jesus why would you call it that? Being the "mom" is something a man or woman can feel. It's a jokey way to describe being the more "responsible one." The one that has all the doctors appointments on their calendar, doesn't forget birthdays, does the chores, etc. In my personal experience I've seen both men and women take on this role. Women just tend to be more vocal about being in this sort of dynamic than men, in my experience. The mom thing just app…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 04:32 AM
1	6-10 year age gaps really need to be the norm Why do people say "chads" instead of just good looking guys?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 12:41 AM
1	I hate being grouped into an all-encompassing definitive. I am completely capable of knowing when my rights are in threat of infringement. Do these type of women just think men are stupid? It has been verified that women are overall LESS happy today than in the 1950’s! Proof? Also, I don't really understand why you have such a problem with the modern world or feminists. Just live your life. No one is stopping you from being conservative. Idk where you live, but here in the US, there are tons of conservative people that have a traditional life. Just be happy you have choices and make whatever choices you want. Women aren't a monolith. They don't all wanna be a housewife. So don't d…	/r/MensRights	06/06/21 03:33 PM
0	I hate being grouped into an all-encompassing definitive. I am completely capable of knowing when my rights are in threat of infringement. Do these type of women just think men are stupid? Women like that are hard to find now and are shamed by society. I don't think that's true at all.	/r/MensRights	03/06/21 02:43 AM
0	I hate being grouped into an all-encompassing definitive. I am completely capable of knowing when my rights are in threat of infringement. Do these type of women just think men are stupid? Look man, you can live your life however you want. Find you a feminine girl, go work, while she stays home with the kids. As long as other people have the choice to not live that life, society is on the right track. I can't speak to the 80s or 90s in America, I wasn't alive/ didn't live there and simply don't know much about it. There problems in the world now, there were problems in the 80s and 90s. But I can't really complain.	/r/MensRights	03/06/21 02:01 AM
-1	I hate being grouped into an all-encompassing definitive. I am completely capable of knowing when my rights are in threat of infringement. Do these type of women just think men are stupid? Ah yes, the 60s! One of the best things about the 60s is young men got to go to Vietnam, which is much more exciting than playing GTA 5. Another thing we can love about the 60s is that it kept black and white people neatly separated. In fact they were so organized, they separated people by color, genitals, and even sexual orientation! If you think this lovely organizational system ended in 1970, I've got good news!	/r/MensRights	03/06/21 12:53 AM
3	I hate being grouped into an all-encompassing definitive. I am completely capable of knowing when my rights are in threat of infringement. Do these type of women just think men are stupid? Yeah. I love how in 1800 you could just die in a ditch in peace.	/r/MensRights	03/06/21 12:32 AM
3	I hate being grouped into an all-encompassing definitive. I am completely capable of knowing when my rights are in threat of infringement. Do these type of women just think men are stupid? Well by definition, patriarchy is just a society with men in positions of power. It happened to be the type of government we have had throughout history. Attributing gender roles/discrimination only to the fact that men were in power as opposed to women/a mix of men and women is flawed logic. Having women in power, or children, or cats, doesn't mean gender roles/discrimination would or would not have happened. There were a large multitude of factors that led to the gender roles and gender discri…	/r/MensRights	03/06/21 12:09 AM
17	I hate being grouped into an all-encompassing definitive. I am completely capable of knowing when my rights are in threat of infringement. Do these type of women just think men are stupid? I think it's imperative that more feminist women begin to realize that for true equality/equity, men's issues need to be acknowledged and addressed. A movement towards equality has been turned into a competition, with two sides constantly hating on each other, and little progress being made. Both side have their issues, but they are so interconnected. This post really grinds my gears, because it's like, what about men of color, gay men, who have not had many rights straight white women have in r…	/r/MensRights	02/06/21 06:52 PM
2	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? Hey, thanks for the good explanation and sources. There are some great points here, and I feel like I learned a lot. I really hope men's issues are better addressed, and it's actually sad how little any of this is talked about compared to women's issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 12:33 AM
0	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? I can see that point of view. I don't know if I see a problem with single men or women choosing to work less and enjoy life. Money isn't and shouldn't be the end all be all in life for everyone, and if more people choose to be single longer, then it's no problem if they don't wanna work as hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 11:18 PM
1	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? Thanks for explaining that well. I think I understand the sentiment. I think to believe this I would need workplace data to prove that women are getting jobs over men for just being women. There are still male dominated and female dominated fields, like nursing vs construction, but that hasn't changed in a very long time. I'd love evidence that women have advantages over men in the workplace. A lot of data suggests otherwise, since we see most company leaders to still be men, and many women take…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 11:15 PM
0	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? Why does that matter?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 05:44 AM
1	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? Any specific examples of what is being ignored?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 03:56 AM
1	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? I agree that men get fewer matches in online dating. I don't agree with your statement of the roles of men and woman having "flipped." That's clearly not the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 03:32 AM
1	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? Well if anything tells me I've made a good point it's this kind of a response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 03:14 AM
0	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? What can a man not do? What rights have they lost?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 03:04 AM
1	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" Are the friendless by choice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 03:03 AM
2	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? I think it's possible. I think we're in a time of a lot of "all men suck" vibes, and that needs to stop. Then encourage men to have strong friend groups, encourage men to open up, and to learn good self care. I feel like a lot of "self care" advice is aimed at women not men, and a lot of the male communities about being single are legions more negative than their female equivalents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 02:39 AM
1	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? men’s decreasing status Just in online dating? Or do you think their status is decreasing in general?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 02:36 AM
1	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? That could be true, and we can start to look into how we can help men get better at being alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 02:02 AM
1	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" We don't. Thats right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 02:01 AM
0	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? So you're saying because men have a hard time getting matches in online dating they work less hard, and no other reason?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 01:50 AM
-6	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? I feel like this only applies to online dating. In real life/on in person dates men and women are rejecting each other at similar rates. If that's the case, blame the poor setup of dating apps, not women. They are designed with men as their "paying" customers, and made in a way that makes men want to pay for the perks. We should ask why more men go on apps than women, and why men swipe on everyone while women do not, when men and women make up equal portions of the population. That being said, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 01:37 AM
2	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" Having no friends and no romantic partner is not the same thing as having friends and no romantic partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 01:34 AM
2	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" It isn't. 51% of young people in America are single. 0% of racehorses have three legs. What we don't have data on is how many of them are happy. To speculate that they aren't with nothing to back that up is silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 01:00 AM
-12	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? I think it's crazy to say men don't work because they can't get women. Women are half the population, so either everyones single or women are better at being alone? I don't think dating has anything to do with it, and unless we can have facts about various career fields and how men vs women fare there we won't actually know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 12:58 AM
-12	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? Did—did you just blame women for men putting less effort into work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 12:42 AM
4	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" It's a lot of people. And pushing a narrative that people can't be happy without a romantic partner is a false one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 12:21 AM
3	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" Ahh so now you acknowledge outliers. We're getting closer. People that are happy alone aren't a majority, but there are a lot of them. It's not just Hank that lives in the woods. Plenty of people live full lives with family and friends and no interest in a romantic partner. For some this is temporary, for some permanent. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/201904/what-makes-single-people-happy	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 11:03 PM
1	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" How do you know it isn't true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:58 PM
3	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" Some people are though. Some aren't. Humans are all different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:29 PM
5	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" I don't know why people can't wrap their mind around being happy alone. Just b/c you aren't happy alone doesn't mean someone else isn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:05 PM
-1	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" They're both terrible lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:04 PM
22	Do some men prefer more average looking women because they're low maintainance? If Emma Watson is "average" I guess I'll just start living in the dumpster where I belong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 05:12 PM
1	Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still exist Got anything to back that up? Or are you just making that up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 07:16 AM
1	Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still exist So all women are settling, but no men are settling?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 04:45 AM
2	Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still exist Are you saying all normal men in the world are single? Cause I see normal men married/in relationships all around me. It's almost like tinder isn't the real world...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 04:15 AM
6	If you want equality like equal domestic responsibility, then you should want equal financial responsibility in the relationship As a woman, I can say I always go 50/50, or take turns. Everyone in my circle does the same. I think it depends where you live, and who you pursue, but there are def women that want equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 03:15 AM
2	Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still exist People don't have to meet beauty standards to find mates. Being found attractive isn't the same thing as finding a mate. I don't think you have anything to back up what you're claiming. This article breaks down the gini coefficient, the numbers are totally different from yours, and the root of the difference is how men and women date, not beauty standards. I can find someone attractive and not want to date them. I can also date someone unatractive. Other people have the same feelings. https://se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 02:23 AM
1	Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still exist Online dating is a huge range of apps/sites. You have tinder with majority men, and you have christian mingle, and farmers only, etc. I don't know what sites/apps you got those stats from and I'd like to see proof that it's not made up by you. I also don't know how you've decided who is a 70th percentile male and who is a 20th percentile woman. Did you make that up or is there a source? I don't see how any of this has anything to do with beauty standards. A beauty standard is a standard of what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 01:33 AM
1	Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still exist Got anything to back that up with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 12:26 AM
10	Has a legit actual confirmed chad ever posted on here about what their dating and sex life is like? I feel like a chad is what a non-frat bro thinks a frat bro is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 10:37 PM
3	Can't be it all When that happens, it's awful, and I do see it, but that's an example of equality not happening, rather than equality being somehow bad. I'm glad I have the choice to stay home, and just take care of the house, which I love, but I'm also glad I can become single, get a job in construction, shave my head, and live with 50 cats. There are toxic and shitty people all over the place, on the housewife side, the feminist side, everywhere, and there always will be. The people that go out of their way t…	/r/RedPillWives	29/05/21 07:06 PM
10	Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still exist It's both. Women and men both reward beauty. This doesn't just apply to women. It's everyone. Being a beautiful person has many perks, so many people (men and women) strive to be beautiful for those perks. When you say women can use their looks to get high earning men.....well it's the high earning men solidifying the idea that to get them you need to be beautiful. This goes the other way too. Are standards for men lower? Yeah a bit, but that's just leftover from the more patriarchal world of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 06:35 PM
3	Can't be it all I think the message the world is a little misinterpreted here. I think the message of the world is more about women and men doing what makes them happy regardless of gender. For example, if it's being a submissive housewife, then great! The issue is when people associate wanting/being feminine/submissive with being a woman rather than with who you are as a person, regardless of sex or gender. It's not our genitals that make us want to be submissive, it's just who submissive people are. Some wome…	/r/RedPillWives	29/05/21 05:44 AM
1	As a man, one of the most important moments in your dating life doesn't even involve you (a reflection on status) Hmm I guess that's a good explanation. I guess it boils down to some people lacking self awareness and looking for outside explanations for inside problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 05:36 AM
4	As a man, one of the most important moments in your dating life doesn't even involve you (a reflection on status) I read stuff like this and just feel like there are a lot of men just really confused about dating women, social rules, and social skills. I'm sure it applies to women too, and I wonder how this can be fixed. I don't really understand how it's not implied/common knowledge that men and women both want to be with someone they find attractive that has their life together. I feel stuff like this overcomplicates dating and relationships and hurts instead of helps people that are struggling with under…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 04:47 AM
2	The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated. What people talk about isn't always a reflection of reality. Some men also sit around and talk about how unattractive various pretty women are, including models and celebrities, yet in reality pursue average looking women who they are perfectly attracted to. Some women do the same, yet most average looking ladies find themselves happily attracted to average looking men. Then, there's the question of who you are listening to. How old are these women? What are their values? How many women are in y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 06:24 PM
3	The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated. You got anything to back that up? Cause I don't see how a fit man with nice clothes an a not-ugly face won't be attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 05:38 PM
5	The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated. So you're saying a woman that puts effort is guaranteed to be attractive to men. Then you're saying for men that puts in the same amount of effort women are less likely to find him attractive? So a thin woman with makeup will be guaranteed to be perceived attractive regardless of an ugly face or weird body shape because men find any woman that is thin and wears makeup attractive? Cause I would say it's more like if you have a nice face and body, man or woman, you'll be attractive. If your face i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 04:50 PM
7	The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated. Maybe not to you. It is to plenty of people. Depends on the person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 04:48 PM
14	The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated. Diet is simply make correct choice rather than exerting effort. Sir if a good diet required no effort no one would be fat. This is just silly. Eating healthy is hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 04:27 PM
3	The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated. Also your point that men would be as attractive as women if they spent the same amount of time on their appearance/photos is laughable. As attractive to who? Are you saying a man that puts effort won't get the same amount of attention as a woman that puts in the same amount of effort?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 04:24 PM
2	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Yeah. Who needs women? Date men instead. Only simps date women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 01:49 AM
3	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Thats silly	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 12:33 AM
3	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? A relationship not working out with a person doesn't mean relationships in general aren't for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 11:12 PM
9	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? I respect a man that recognizes relationships aren't for them, for whatever/any reason. I respect women that recognize relationships aren't for them. What I, and many others, don't respect is people who recognize relationships aren't for them trashing/hating on the opposite gender/making generalizations/brewing hatred.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 07:55 PM
12	CMV: Cat ladies and older male bachelors are often not who people think Im surprised anyone needs a study that proves that hot, rich, social people are finding it easier to find relationships. Also speaking as a woman, if you're successful and have a great career in your 30s marriage becomes a whole lot less attractive. There are women who choose not to get married, not cause they have too-high standards, or are undesirable, but because they're just happy being single. Our society has shoved down our throats that happy and single is this impossible lie, but it reall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 09:41 PM
32	Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️ Yeah, it was after the Bella Thorne scandal, wasn't it?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 05:16 AM
16	I was calling out Pickminique on why NOT to date guys with mental health issues, because I grew up with a man WITH serious mental health issues which seriously affect my own mental health (Note: she didn't like it) Mental health issues are not an excuse for bad behavior. If you date someone with mental illness, make sure they are getting treatment and are capable of being an equal partner in a relationship. If someone doesn't have their mental illness managed with therapy/and/or meds, they are not ready to date. When I was going through depression/anxiety I didn't date until I got treatment and felt good again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 04:42 AM
96	Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️ Not to mention being a sex worker can effect your ability to work in a lot of different industries if you change your mind, and that your body and youth has an expiration date, and that everything you put out will be there for ever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 03:41 AM
10	I like good abs and I can not lie... That used to be me. I'd turn guys down for being too good looking b/c I felt not good enough.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 03:54 PM
29	You don’t know him yet! Why it’s important to emotionally detach yourself from him during the early stages of courting him I need more on this story. How long ago? What's he like? Where are they now? So many questions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 11:10 PM
31	Update: I dumped him! Are you a mod? Cause you guys rock! Thanks for keeping the sub safe.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/21 08:31 PM
59	Update: I dumped him! I love how within an hour mods deleted that man's comment. This is seriously the safest sub for women on reddit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/21 08:08 PM
12	LADIES WTF: Homeless Millennial Man Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night. Every woman who fell for this dirty unwashed misogynist deserves to be in the Pickmeisha Hall of Shame. I feel bad for the women who are his victims. I hope he gets get help for his addictions and turns things around.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/21 06:56 PM
797	Update: I dumped him! I feel bad for the men that take time out of their day to DM a woman they don't know about how they—a total stranger—disapprove of her relationship choices. Which does make me think...do they take it so personally because they too have a farting fetish?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/21 04:26 PM
4	I'm sick of pop music! Best Friend by Saweetie is fire	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/21 12:32 AM
79	Men want to humble you so badly, they’ll defy logic to do it. Stay woke. I'd like to shave a man's beard off on a first date, cause if anyone thinks makeup is "deceptive," let's talk about faking an entire jaw and chin into existence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 06:46 PM
96	I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boys I would be seriously concerned if he might have an alcohol problem. A lot of people try to hide their alcoholism with humor or making it seem quirky.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 07:24 PM
13	The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcast To be fair, he probably is mentally ill.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 04:10 PM
123	Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny. I may not agree with every single post or comment, but this sub has taught me so much about valuing myself, vetting men, the dark side of bdsm and porn, having standards, being independent and what it means to be strong, and is one of the safest subs on reddit for women, and I love this community. When I see something I don't agree with I just move on. It's not for me, and that's ok. This community has a lot to offer, and no one is forcing anyone to agree with anything they don't agree with.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 07:26 PM
5	The 6/6/6 rule is just asking for a normal guy. I've never heard that on this sub. What I do hear from men though, is how they won't date single mothers, curvy women, anyone over 25...god forbid women have gasp preferences!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 02:57 PM
82	HVM Behavior in Male Celebrities Hugh Jackman! Been with his wife since 1996. No scandals, always super respectful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 10:42 PM
4	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. I don't know. If facts come out that prove she was a bully, I'll believe it. Until then we don't really know. There's no facts or evidence to anything, so we don't even know what they meant by " being bullied." If they told us what she actually did, then I'll believe it. I also question why they're leaking it to the press without any details?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 02:25 PM
7	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. I don't know if she's a narcissist, and neither do you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 01:11 PM
3	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. That's awful too. I think the big difference is Kate wasn't made out to be an awful person to the same degree Megan was.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 01:09 PM
6	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. Is there any proof of the jamaica stuff for Megan? I couldn't find anything.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 01:07 PM
6	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. The rumor part is that they quit because of her. And he was not having surgery during the wedding, but he was advised not to travel, so he didn't which means it's obviously not Megan's fault he wasn't there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 01:03 PM
17	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. Cutting off my abusive mom and grandma was the best decision I ever made, so I second this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:31 AM
12	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. A lot of the things you say are false, and to be fair, I blame the media. The staff quitting is a tabloid rumor. Her son not being given a title isn't false, he wasn't going to have one. They had a wedding ceremony before the wedding. The finances I don't pretend to understand, but it seemed that the issue was affording security. Now her family...well her "sister" wrote a tell all book slandering her (with nothing of substance) and her dad went to the tabloids, staged tabloid pics, and aired the…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:31 AM
5	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. You can compare how Kate and Megan were treated it's a world of difference.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:23 AM
15	Repeat after me I agree! Kids don't know the weight and effect words can have, which is why they shouldn't be using words that are hurtful before they're older. And he's just exploiting a kid that can't consent to any of this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 08:57 PM
105	Repeat after me I don't get why this is getting positive attention. Why don't we teach little girls about self worth and the importance of being independent and self-sufficient instead of focusing on who they date before they're old enough to understand relationships/dating. If he wants to teach about dating, he should be teaching a girl to look for a partner thats empathetic, considerate, and compassionate. Jerks open doors and pay for dates all the time. Also exploiting your kid for internet points? Not great…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 08:48 PM
211	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. I like to believe he grew up from his problematic past, but he left a life of being a second rate royal to living in LA, and making loads of money, and having total freedom. I would say with the way Megan was treated by the press, he did the bare minimum by leaving. I'm also horrified as to how many people vilify Megan and don't even consider that Harry could have been the entire reason for the strained relationships with his family. Unlike so many celebs, Megan hasn't said or done anything remo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 03:55 PM
12	Getting sick and LVM This reminds me of when I had a 103 degree fever, could barely get out of bed, and my lvm ex refused to drop Gatorade off at my house on hiss way home from work because he...."forgot."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 06:52 AM
60	Brilliant and poignant scene from the Golden Girls on Doctors who dismiss women's suffering As someone with a rare chronic illness, can confirm that this is 100% true. It's about ego for so many, especially older male doctors. It took me switching to all young female doctors to get real help.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 06:24 AM
6	💯% true for me. I can definitely relate to letting my guard down, knowing that they're not pretending to be my friend b/c they want something more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/21 03:05 AM
16	To ladies who DO NOT make six figures, don't date for money. Also start investing! So many more men are investing than women, and it's a great way to grow savings!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 09:35 PM
3	If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills. Girl needs to have the baby, get a better job, and leave!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 03:20 PM
19	"A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex" How would he know what a HVM would do?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 08:12 AM
13	Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormative Totally agree on it applying to life. I've really been focusing on becoming more independent since finding FDS, and choosing carefully who gets to be in my inner circle.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 02:04 AM
254	Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormative Agreed. I'm bi and find that a lot of FDS advice applies to dating women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 08:03 PM
17	LVMs in the workplace After getting hired for a remote job I had a boss invite himself to my personal house to "get to know me better," since I couldn't go to the office to "say hello" due to being sick. I very politely expressed that I would not be comfortable with him at my house for a non-work related reason (or at all). He then offered to come to my house and drive me to the office to "say hello/socialize with him." I declined (I was hired as a 100% remote employee). He immediately acted really cold, sent me an e…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 09:30 PM
35	No trousers. Interesting way to write "I've never had a girlfriend"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 05:35 AM
36	I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friend If they ever watch videos of ex-porn stars talking about those abusive scenes, it becomes very clear it is not two consenting adults "acting." Women end up in pain, in the ER, bleeding, passing out, with permanent damage to their health, and threatened for not doing the work/scenes. When someone is screaming in pain and crying real tears it's not "acting." Many take drugs to deal with the physical pain, and have life long mental health issues. That's just the best case scenario. So many of those…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 07:55 PM
41	Examples of HVM or healthy relationships in media? I feel like he never crossed a line with Eowyn, and was perfectly respectful. I don't think he pressured Arwen into that choice, she was thousands of years old and wanted a family with him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/21 09:07 AM
52	Examples of HVM or healthy relationships in media? Kinda random, but I always thought about Aragorn and Arwen. Very loving and respectful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/21 05:46 AM
12	The contempt some of these men have for their wives is EVIL. He should do her a favor and just leave. This is so sad. That poor woman is throwing her life away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 06:57 PM
13	The misogyny of the Cooling off policy re: Divorce Totally agree. My goal is to always be able to provide for myself, and keep my assets and money separate, so I'm never in a situation where I depend on a man, or where leaving a man puts me in a bad financial position.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 06:36 PM
15	The misogyny of the Cooling off policy re: Divorce This is why I will never legally marry. Have a wedding? Sure. But I don't want the government involved in my relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 04:33 PM
16	She is right, society pushes us to give “nice guys” a chance even if we are not attracted to them I did that. Dated a guy I wasn't attracted to because I thought he would be nice and treat me well. Ended up cheating on me twice. "nice guys" and/or unattractive guys aren't inherently better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/21 08:06 PM
4	Cosmopolitan Magazine argues that cannibalism is acceptable now Why doesn't anyone advocate for getting mental health help if your fetish is cannibalism, instead of saying it's ok?? Like being turned on by eating humans is clearly not healthy even if you never hurt anyone...I can't imagine the mental health issues someone must have to be "turned on" by wanting to eat humans. Like wtf?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/21 06:34 PM
12	DM from a friend of a friend set alarm bells ringing... A lot to unpack here. I just love it when men have a "strong connection" with someone they've talked to like once. Ugh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/21 05:53 PM
1	Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life. This is so sad. How could the tattoo artist agree to this??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 06:03 AM
17	Men learn how to manipulate women by learning how to manipulate their mothers. As someone who grew up with a low value father figure, this is such a great point.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/21 08:42 PM
14	Recovering from BDSM.. and my new list of standards Looking back at my past relationships I realize I've never enjoyed sex. I was always just giving into some guy's fantasy, and doing things that deep inside I found degrading. I was in denial for so long about how I felt. I convinced myself I was doing everything right, but now, never again. I'm so glad I found this sub. It's the first time I've felt validated. All my friends are very "sex positive" but it's really just "let men do whatever they want to you" and I'm over it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/21 09:02 PM