Connec Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	At World Series of Poker, Ladies' Event Struggles to Keep Out Men. "It’s usually a man who probably doesn't have a mother. … Some men are disgusting, unfortunately." Only some of them are bound and determined to hate you though. There's also women who are saying "I don't know, maybe we need to be less judgemental." And then tweety bird walks in and farts.	/r/MensRights	31/05/13 05:55 AM
1	At World Series of Poker, Ladies' Event Struggles to Keep Out Men. "It’s usually a man who probably doesn't have a mother. … Some men are disgusting, unfortunately." Yeah, but it would also be another thing that has some women think of you as some sort of caveman with that level of intellect. And the lack of respect those particular women have to men that goes along with it.	/r/MensRights	31/05/13 05:22 AM
3	Chicago Family Wins $1.3M Judgement For Son's Botched Circumcision. For $300,000? The part that was cut off was the area with the nerves in it and we don't have that technology yet. And even if we did, $300,000 is pretty low. You'd have to buy a dick made by poor kids in a third world country who work for pennies a day. Save your money and don't buy a sweatshop dick. Just keep the one you already got.	/r/MensRights	31/05/13 05:12 AM
7	Chicago Family Wins $1.3M Judgement For Son's Botched Circumcision. I guess it depends on if you'd rather have $300,000 or a fully functioning dick.	/r/MensRights	31/05/13 05:01 AM
5	At World Series of Poker, Ladies' Event Struggles to Keep Out Men. "It’s usually a man who probably doesn't have a mother. … Some men are disgusting, unfortunately." I hope a guy rich enough to blow $10,000 shows up and is just the >most gleefully obnoxious bastard imaginable to punish these selfish, >sexist, childishly insecure women. I hope he laughs like a teakettle, >farts regularly, eats cheetos with his mouth open and doesn't shower. Edit: ...in a Tweety Bird costume. I'd say no, because doing that has never worked for anything in the history of forever. Especially since it plays into the narrative of the slovenly man. It’s usually a man who probably d…	/r/MensRights	31/05/13 04:51 AM
3	Motion to Condemn MRA groups because MRA groups condemn feminism as violent. (PDF) see p.17, first entry. Not just that, but they are literally ignoring or insulting a whole group of men with their 'fag' language. So it's either accept the people who are arguing for exclusion, or the people who want inclusion. For this movement to be worth the respect it deserves, we need to support all men who respect others, and they don't.	/r/MensRights	31/05/13 04:34 AM
2	THIS is The Onion article that censorship-nuts don't want to allow on Facebook?!? And the joke is meant to draw attention to the fact that the act he did was neither sane nor reasonable. They are taking it to absurdity to show this. They're not laughing at Chris Brown hitting Rihanna, they're laughing at Chris Brown because his behavior has been so deplorable.	/r/MensRights	31/05/13 04:12 AM
3	Expectations hurt... I would disagree with your assessment of a hardwired aspect to the male psyche. The pressures I just mentioned, as well as others I didn't, are far more likely than male brains being so limited.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 07:49 PM
6	Expectations hurt... Women also measure men's self worth by those things. Some of the feeling is men responding to that. It's good when a man's partner doesn't think any less of him, but if other women aren't like that, he's going to feel like he's less of a person because they think he's less of a person. And some of it comes from other sources, like taking an unfamiliar role for example. The stereotype of the farting unclean man who lives in a pigsty clashes with this, and could cause some men to feel uneasy in so…	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 07:14 PM
6	THIS is The Onion article that censorship-nuts don't want to allow on Facebook?!? Are you sure it wasn't Chris Brown that got it censored? Because that article cuts him to ribbons. It's rare you see someone smacked down so well.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 06:52 PM
15	Are there any other males out there, like myself, have undergone a vasectomy at a young age? (I am twenty four) I feel as though when I divulge this information to a woman I am dating, before even telling them my reasoning, it makes them very upset. Why is that? Probably because they want to have kids that are genetically theirs. Although it does make me raise an eyebrow when men who are tricked into taking care of children they think are theirs are told "It doesn't matter if they are related to you or not, you child hating dick". It seems pretty convenient for the side that never has to wonder if their child is actually theirs or not. Especially since there are many women who want to raise their own genetically related children and forego adoption for …	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 05:37 PM
5	Work-life balance isn't a "women's issue" -- it effects men too It comes down to choice, though. A woman by virtue of the fact she gestates the fetus tends to get more say here. Say a man and a woman have just had a baby, and the woman says "I want to stay home to take care of this baby." It's pretty much impossible for a man to say "no, I want to stay at home and take care of the baby, you go to work outside the home", unless she's already predisposed to the idea. It's a negotiation, like many social interactions. But both parties are not equal in this proc…	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 05:25 PM
1	Sexism in comics I wonder if the author of Moon Over June gets these messages by guys or girls because of the art? Probably not, but I bet she gets a lot of "can you even draw" ones.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 05:08 PM
5	Boys will be boys causes rape says feminist. Where does she live? Any place I've seen with boys and girls interacting has both boys and girls punished for doing shit like this to each other. I've seen little girls jump on and smack the shit out of even smaller boys, but I wouldn't say that it's a training ground for female abusers.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 05:00 PM
1	So what about the myth that women have all the sexual power in the world? "...turn Lesbian." No, people don't turn homosexual any more than they turn heterosexual. You may get some bisexual people who cause this impression, that appear to be homo or heterosexual and then supposedly 'turn'. They get a lot of shit for this too, from hetero and homosexuals who expect them to be one thing or the other. I see he has books that he's selling. I mentioned something about PUA people targeting vulnerable men in the same way diet gurus target anorexics... There are real physical…	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 04:49 PM
1	Bullying and online slut shaming, by a girl. "Next time don't be a slut and this won't happen" It's just their way of othering a group they don't like. Don't take it personally.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 02:19 AM
2	Bullying and online slut shaming, by a girl. "Next time don't be a slut and this won't happen" Not always, but the important thing is to recognize that it comes from both women and men, with a whole bunch of different reasons that converge on that behavior instead of being created ex nihlo by men.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 01:45 AM
2	Facebook to target sexist hate speech with only input from women's groups... [Not the Onion] I've got no problem with this, but I do have a problem with the uneven application of the moderating. I'd like to see this applied with equal importance to men and women.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 01:21 AM
1	Facebook to review policy on "hate" content Recognize speech that trivializes or glorifies violence against girls and women as hate speech and make a commitment that you will not tolerate this content. This is good Effectively train moderators to recognize and remove gender-based hate speech. So far not bad. Effectively train moderators to understand how online harassment differently affects women and men, in part due to the real-world pandemic of violence against women. Here we go, and that's the problem with this. This is an issue Men's…	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 01:08 AM
2	Facebook to review policy on "hate" content Actually, bbc has the phrase hate speach in quotes for their title.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 01:03 AM
11	State Senator Thad Altman says Kaitlyn Hunt's situation is 'tragic' and wants to change the law If that happens, Men's Rights groups need to start pointing out that fact and pushing to make the law fair.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 01:01 AM
1	Australia's richest woman Gina Rinehart Calls For Sterilization of The Poor (xpost- r/worldnews) Apparently it's satire, but holy shit is that a horrid sentiment. The other posts say she actually is like that in real life though, but hasn't said something that bad yet.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 12:57 AM
2	Four pages of highlights from 2010 survey findings by sexual orientation. Lesbians appear to receive harshest physical treatment from their partners. Yes, you have a closely linked social network and the desire to keep it silent "for the good of the group". We've seen how abuse statistics against men are manipulated by people with ideological purposes. I see no reason why this underreporting isn't from a similar push. And the worst thing is that it's supposedly done as the right thing to do. What's that saying, "We had to destroy the village in order to save it."	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 09:24 PM
2	Please hear me out.. Pretty damn ironic too, since it's by the same people who say they're against mysogyny. It's why I've said that SRS is an ends justifies the means group.	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 09:14 PM
2	Bullying and online slut shaming, by a girl. "Next time don't be a slut and this won't happen" There are a lot of men who fall in line. White Knighting is pretty much this. So those men agree with the women that being slutty is bad, and eventually they actually believe it, and get other men to think the same thing. Pretty soon the women who don't like slutty behavior have a whole new way to attack other women through men.	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 09:07 PM
5	Feminist here- Let me explain some things a few of you have misinterpreted. I'm not saying there aren't mens issues I'm informing you on why feminists still exist and are active. Those men's issues? That's why Men's Rights groups are active. Instead of asking why we don't like feminists, like numerous other feminists who do this, let me ask you why you don't become a Men's Rights advocate? Proudly tell your fellow feminists you support Men's Rights and the problems that men go through. Make sure you mention misandry, and how it actually exists. Because we've had trouble…	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 09:03 PM
5	Men Experience Sexism, but Should Still Support Feminism, says Author But embracing feminism is the exact wrong thing to do if men want to deal with sexism against men. I guess it's good he acknowleged sexism against men.	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 08:26 PM
4	Men Experience Sexism, but Should Still Support Feminism, says Author "albeit primarily women." Nope, not him. He's either misguided or has an agenda. I'm guessing it's misguided since a lot of men still think feminism is about gender equality or egalitarianism.	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 08:23 PM
1	If you had the money, or job offer to move to any nation in the world, and you were prioritizing recognition of men's rights which ones would top your list? Why? Tell me about how negging (a casual insult designed to lower the "targets" self esteem) is or should be part of dating? Yeah, that sucks, but this is a Men's Rights area. People want to neg, fine that's their business. Dating is rough like that, and I've seen men and women do it pretty much in equal amounts. It isn't my thing though, and I'm focusing on how treating PUA as representative of all men like Men's Rights does can cause men to harm ourselves. Your whole objection to it is that is hurt…	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 06:55 PM
4	Bullying and online slut shaming, by a girl. "Next time don't be a slut and this won't happen" I think the phenomenon of male slutshaming comes from males who follow what some women say. It could be a means to ingratiate themselves with women for some men, and it becomes a behavior others pick up and repeat from that group. I would strongly suggest that a thesis paper be written about this, but I would correct the spelling first.	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 05:35 PM
1	If you had the money, or job offer to move to any nation in the world, and you were prioritizing recognition of men's rights which ones would top your list? Why? They do this in ways that are not only unethical, but highly misogynistic. Seriously, dude, can it with the mysogyny talk. Sure mysogny is bad but so is misandry, which is what we perpetuate against ourselves, and what I'm talking about here. PUA represents one part, one group of men. The problem is when it gets applied as the standard for all men. Learning how to navigate the bullshit sexual games people can play isn't a bad thing, but when someone's worth gets directly tied to their performanc…	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 05:21 PM
1	So the feminists at my uni have opened up a women's only space... Ok, that's good but CrossHook, dude, you took my light hearted (but accurate) post and tacked a big heavy rant onto it.	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 01:36 AM
0	If you had the money, or job offer to move to any nation in the world, and you were prioritizing recognition of men's rights which ones would top your list? Why? Close enough. They portray a picture of masculinity that is based on the amount of pussy gotten. Do you see how this would not be a good thing to the ego of some of the men or boys who don't "measure up". Getting laid is no problem. Shit, everyone likes to get laid. Pussy is one of my three favorite things but when the entire movement is based on that alone, it focuses everyone in it to that one thing. Your worth as a PUA is proportional to pussy gotten. Even the name Pick Up Artist presupposes …	/r/MensRights	29/05/13 01:09 AM
0	If you had the money, or job offer to move to any nation in the world, and you were prioritizing recognition of men's rights which ones would top your list? Why? All it does is reinforce the idea that men are only worthwhile if they are sexually appealing to women. It directly ties men's worth to women's approval. Being male and a virgin shouldn't be considered to be shameful. Neither should self release be something that is seen as a sign of weakness. We've seen that some women already react negatively to the idea of sex robots, so part of this feeling may actually be coming from that. And having a relationship with a woman is nice if you're a heterosex…	/r/MensRights	28/05/13 10:11 PM
-3	If you had the money, or job offer to move to any nation in the world, and you were prioritizing recognition of men's rights which ones would top your list? Why? Nope, unless by part of the sphere you mean people preying on men with esteem issues the same way fad diets prey on anorexics. It's a silly philosophy that is more destructive than constructive to men.	/r/MensRights	28/05/13 09:16 PM
3	If you had the money, or job offer to move to any nation in the world, and you were prioritizing recognition of men's rights which ones would top your list? Why? PUA is an acronym for pick up artists if I'm not mistaken. They don't really belong with Men's Rights or MGTOW at all.	/r/MensRights	28/05/13 08:57 PM
5	Super early pregnancy symptoms: to tell or not to tell? I'm not sure why you posted this on a Men's Rights forum, since there should be some general Ask Men board. But, since you're here, I'll throw in my (inflation adjusted) two cents. I'd wait to have a pregnancy test first. You could be putting some unneeded stress on your relationship otherwise. Then, go over your contraceptive routine and try to tighten up any places where you can add more protection. Is he wearing a condom? Would be the first thing I'd suggest if he already isn't. The more cont…	/r/MensRights	28/05/13 07:35 PM
19	So the feminists at my uni have opened up a women's only space... That's because Feminism doesn't really understand men beyond simple biases. There's a story about the three Feminist Authors and their understanding of men. The first Feminist went up to a sleeping man and named the first thing she saw. This feminist proclaimed "Man is a penis. This is how you should deal with men and think of them." The second Feminist named the first thing she saw and said "Man is lazy, for clearly they sleep all the time." The third Feminist saw the man thrash in his sleep an…	/r/MensRights	28/05/13 05:25 PM
4	Father's rights on reddit He needs to get a lawyer and deal with this situation. It's his baby as much as it's hers. One big inequality in society is that women often decide that they 'own' the baby. Unfortunately since other women feel the same way, there is a constant push to give them as much 'ownership' as possible. It speaks about the worth that women place on men regarding reproduction when this happens consistently. The discussion becomes less one of equality, and more "what can you give to me, since I'm letting y…	/r/MensRights	28/05/13 04:34 PM
2	Woman dumps dead baby in a clothing drive bin. That's strange, but I'd like to know what the father feels in all of this. I mean, this was a baby. It wasn't an abortion, and he should have had rights here too. But since he's not being charged with anything I don't think he even knew his baby was being killed. He probably knew about her pregnancy, but it's almost as if his child was taken away and murdered because it was inconvenient to the mother, who didn't care about anyone but herself. Heck, maybe she thought the child was 'hers' to kill …	/r/MensRights	28/05/13 01:28 AM
4	Another hateful feminist "letter to my son" ... and as always statistics about female perpetrators are censored from comments. "To my Daughter, please stop spreading your legs because..." ...and then there's a list of female pregnacy statistics, with some fine cherry picking to support daddy's case. It's that awful.	/r/MensRights	28/05/13 01:19 AM
8	Another hateful feminist "letter to my son" ... and as always statistics about female perpetrators are censored from comments. I did, and saying that you don't see one gender as sexual predators and then singling them out for education on how not to rape sends the exact opposite message. Imagine some old nasty racist writing a letter 'to the blacks' on how not to shoot people. Would you think for a second he wasn't being racist? This kid has to deal with a mother who inherently considers him to be a potential rapist without her guidance, despite her assurance that she's only being careful. I'd imagine she has numerous o…	/r/MensRights	28/05/13 01:14 AM
1	The most comprehensive review of the scholarly domestic violence research literature ever conducted concludes, among other things, that women perpetrate physical and emotional abuse, as well as engage Exactly, and the sooner we can get them to admit that this is a serious problem for both genders, the sooner we can really deal with all facets of it.	/r/MensRights	27/05/13 11:42 PM
3	Another hateful feminist "letter to my son" ... and as always statistics about female perpetrators are censored from comments. I can't even imagine the self loathing that her son goes through in a day. He's probably going to need therapy or end up committing suicide later on.	/r/MensRights	27/05/13 11:37 PM
1	As a very involved father and somebody that does a lot of housework this annoys me. Well, if you have women who can only be mothers, and men who are in the support role, you'll get some women who think that the biological fact of being able to give birth makes them better people. It's not a stretch for them to start looking at the rest of the world like they're mothers of everyone, judging people's worth by whether they are a mother or have the potential to be one. Since men can neither be mothers nor have the potential to be mothers, they get put into the "children" category a…	/r/MensRights	27/05/13 11:31 PM
30	If you ever hear someone say "You can't compare male circumcision to FGM!", show them this video. You really shouldn't have to compare severity. They're both wrong, whether it's to control sexual desire, or otherwise. I've even seen some American women point out that they think a cut man is more attractive. 'Sleeker' was one comment I've heard. This doesn't make sense that they'd care about their own children looking sexually attractive unless you consider that they're thinking about the future and their boy dealing with other women like themselves, with the same preference. So it becomes ab…	/r/MensRights	27/05/13 11:17 PM
0	Feminist Gives Talk To Girls on About How They Need To Become MORE Powerful And Take Mens Roles/Jobs, Suggesting Women Are More Qualified And Able. Well the whole women are better at taking care of things narrative has been around a lot longer than feminism, but feminists do further it. I've seen some women say that because women are mothers, they are naturally better at it. The perpetuation of the stupid man stereotype with the smart woman who makes sure he's doing the right thing fits this if those women think that men are like children and have to be 'mothered'.	/r/MensRights	27/05/13 11:09 PM
0	I don't know why I expected a discussion on the matter If you support Men's Rights, you're supporting a liberal movement. The concepts espoused as a part of the Men's Rights movement are pretty much brand new, since before this men were told to suck it up and deal.	/r/MensRights	27/05/13 01:25 AM
3	Srs=heroes and mra=badguys - The Daily Dot - The dark side of Reddit's GoneWild It's what happened when they were doxxed that points who did it. I know feminists who hate with the fury of a million suns, places like GW because they consider it to be bad for women in general. So, they will often pose as men on these internets or attempt to shame and otherwise coerce women into doing what they want. A girl I know was targeted by messages expressing "concern" that she was hurting and degrading herself. When that didn't work, "mysteriously" some rather aggressive men started me…	/r/MensRights	27/05/13 12:38 AM
31	Video: California Man Dies After Female Cop Hits Him With Baton 10 Times! It has everything to do with Men's Rights when it shows how the narrative that women never harm men and men are the aggressors to be false. Because of the societal narrative, these incidents are ignored by people and the myth that men are inherently violent continues. Women are human, and a very real human thing to do is to believe that you're better than someone else because of some reason. With some women, that reason is simply because they are women and others are men. You find the reverse to…	/r/MensRights	26/05/13 09:57 PM
4	Hey rMensRights, take a look at this article. I think you might want to discuss it. Some things I can agree with, but Feminism gives us no choice. In order for them to give women all the rights they want, any societal power sharing for them has to be from a 51%-49% position, rather than a 50%-50% split. That means, and I have seen this phrase repeated by feminists, that a Men's Rights and advocacy group is a threat to this idea. We have no choice but to deconstruct Feminist assumptions because there are Feminists who sincerely want men to shut up and let them decide who has rig…	/r/MensRights	26/05/13 09:49 PM
8	Viral Facebook Post Accuses Man of Being a Child Molester — Except He’s Not \| Video The crappy thing is that because he is male, there's almost no questioning it. Look at the gendered way we look at pedophelia: we have the perverted uncle stereotype, the phrase 'pedo moustache', and of course the man who is friendly to children stereotype: a.k.a the Mr Rogers accusation.	/r/MensRights	26/05/13 09:32 PM
13	Video: California Man Dies After Female Cop Hits Him With Baton 10 Times! Wait? According to the SRS narrative, he walked into the baton 10 times on his own. This is just like you MRA's, spreading false rumors about her.	/r/MensRights	26/05/13 09:23 PM
60	Arias Jury Foreman; "We could NOT kill her because she's a woman" Regardless of what she looks like and whether she's female, she's a monster. She even got some feminist hired gun to say that she was abused and that the man she slaughtered was a pedophile. The funny part is that this same feminist would say that bringing up a victim's sexual history is something men do. In another place that will remain unnamed, there's been some discussion on this and it was brought up that feminism directly absolved her of guilt in this murder. Imagine if the whole world was…	/r/MensRights	26/05/13 09:13 PM
1	Srs=heroes and mra=badguys - The Daily Dot - The dark side of Reddit's GoneWild This is just a rephrasing of the argument that rape victims deserve rape because of what they did. The SRS people who do this doxxing "for the good of women in general" are abominable.	/r/MensRights	26/05/13 08:58 PM