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| 2 | Why do some women claim they want something serious while still sleeping with fuckboys on the side?You can simply Google search consent theft. It is definitely a real thing and many women experience it. Lying or coercing someone into sex is wrong. You should be ashamed of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Why do some women claim they want something serious while still sleeping with fuckboys on the side?A lot of men lie about wanting something serious in order to casual sleep with women. Take that into account. That’s a massive problem with dating right now. Consent theft. Number one reason why I quit dating apps and never looked back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Women in this sub, why instead of criticizing men for being 1ncels and hateful why don't you become their girlfriends and try to change them to your views? Love can make things change, they will not change until they are given love, love is a great changer experience, why not help instead of judge?Incels cry about not getting sex. They don’t actually have the emotional depth to provide emotional intimacy and view a woman as a partner. They view women as the enemy they want to control. They need to love themselves and seek therapy before they get in a relationship. Additionally, it’s not anyone’s problem that someone is mad they can’t get the hottest girl they thought they were entitled to. Incels live in a fantasy land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:53 AM |
| 9 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantTHIS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantYou’re right. I have nothing to offer you. Or any other man like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantThe table. My worth is vast and I don’t need to qualify it to a stranger on the internet who clearly doesn’t possess the intelligence to properly value a woman. Your post reeks of misogyny and so does your question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantYour title is a gross assumption. You generalized women and their degrees/careers. I’m a woman, and I’m correcting you. As are many women in the comments. You made a generalization that is untrue for several reasons. These women you speak of are not a majority and I’d argue they don’t actually exist. Women get degrees and have careers for themselves. Then they date men who appreciate that part of them as well as other parts. Men who think like you do will continue to be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantWomen with degrees and careers attract men who also have degrees and careers every day. I’ve attracted men who were unemployed as well. There are many men out there who want a partner and not someone they have to financially fund for literally everything. The men who don’t find this attractive are not the types career women want anyway. They’re the men stuck in the stone ages who don’t actually like women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 06:13 AM |
| 8 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantAnd be financially trapped? No thanks. All the successful relationships I’ve seen in my life, had two parents working. The stay at home model usually doesn’t work, unless the SAHM goes back to work at some point. In the event of a divorce, you are royally screwed if you do not have adequate work history or a career. Completely financially depending on another person (whether male or female) is not a smart decision. It’s actually very stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Oh no sisters! we got too cocky..You do realize that plenty of people grow up without fathers despite being conceived the traditional way right?? Also, people get divorced and co parent children which isn’t ideal either. Broken homes are not the ideal situation, however millions of people raise children that way. People have accidental babies they don’t want all the time. Yet, you’re harping on the fact that this woman is single??? She planned her baby and has the finances to support it. She might even have familial support. Ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Oh no sisters! we got too cocky..A lot of employers actually cover the cost of freezing your eggs. So how is this post a bad thing? Sounds like she had the children she wanted in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 03:59 AM |
| 5 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantI would never give up my career to raise children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 03:44 AM |
| 14 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantPlenty of women invest in their careers because they want to change the world. You’re delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 03:31 AM |
| 14 | Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is importantWomen don’t earn degrees and careers because they are trying to attract a husband. They do this to have a good life they enjoy. Period. The fact that you somehow think everything women choose to do is for the approval of men is so misogynistic it’s laughable. Your argument is for women to not get an education or work because it doesn’t matter to men. Ummm who cares?? I worked for my success for me—not for the validation of some dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 03:30 AM |
| 13 | Why do women do this!?!?!?“Women” do not do this. This individual did. This person needs a lot of therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Remote work - one more thing that is killing family unit.This is not true. People have home offices. Women work from home. My parents bought an additional condo so they have somewhere to go to work. They’ve been working from home for over 10 years at this point. Your post sounds like you don’t WFH. Working from home has provided me with a quality of life I’d never be able to achieve with a 9-5. My sister WFH as well. A lot of my peers do (we’re in our early 30s). You’re making a massive gross assumption here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you know anyone who is in a one-way open relationship?I know it in reverse. I have a friend I’ve known for over 10 years and she’s ALWAYS been poly. Every boyfriend has had to accept this to date her. There have been boyfriends in the past who are on board in the beginning, but then don’t date other partners. She’s now in a relationship where her boyfriend also dates other people occasionally. It’s not a consistent thing. They don’t seek out other people on a regular basis, but they both periodically have flings. She does more often. If I’m being h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | It's not about women vs men, It's unattractive+entitled vs attractiveThen how do you explain unattractive people getting married?? Do you mean that it’s just the unattractive people who are going after highly attractive people who are miserable? Is that what you’re suggesting from both sides? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?I didn’t criticize at all. I said it’s fine. I also answered “yes,” to the prompt. I’d 100% date a man who used a SW while not in a committed relationship. I’d actually prefer that to dating a fu*kboy to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:45 AM |
| -6 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Not sure why you’re mansplaining why people hire SW. i think we’re all aware of the possible scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:37 AM |
| 39 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Yes. Not everyone wants to be in the mess of casual dating. Paying for sex when you’re not in a committed relationship is fine. Sex work is still work and I respect women in that industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:58 PM |
| 8 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badI think most women would rather men pay for an escort than try to trick a woman into sex by stating they’re looking for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?If you have serious fractures with your parental relationships, you’re more likely to casually date. Every dude I’ve dated who wanted casual had some sort of issue with his upbringing. Either a parent died, they were divorced, they come from a mixed family where they felt neglected, or no dad in the picture. I don’t know if this is a massive generalization, but just what I’ve observed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Will dating become less accessible to the poor and working class folks as the standards get tighter?It will only become harder for people to jump classes by marriage. Poor and working class people will marry each other most likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 02:30 AM |
| 16 | It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experienceIt takes years for people to accept this reality and perspective. We’re all very entitled and on a quest for fairness. We don’t accept that we cannot cultivate perfect circumstances. We WILL experience pain. The more you date, the smarter you can become when vetting people, developing standards, and following through with your dealbreakers. I agree with this post, wholeheartedly. Although it’s not perfect— sometimes cheaters attract really really good people who would never cheat—I think the gis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blameIt’s not surprising because he knows a single mother can never replace having a father in the home. His entire persona comes from childhood trauma and it’s very sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 08:02 PM |
| 5 | There's no such thing as "pump and dump", men never cut off casual sex just for the sake of it.It sounds like you don’t have a ton of nuanced sexual experiences. Pump and dump is definitely a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:11 AM |
| 0 | Would You Stay Friends With Someone That is a Cheater?I’m going through this right now. I told my friend, they have 2 weeks to break it off with their partner. I don’t support or condone cheating. My friend has agreed to end their relationship. We’ll see what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:39 PM |
| 5 | What can we learn from Tom Brady’s impending divorce from Gisele?He lied to her. Pretty people are not absolved of relationship problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | what's the psychology behind serial cheating/ compulsive lying?My ex did this. Lied for a year. He couldn’t stop lying even after being called out. He’d just change his story. He told me that he used to be triangulated between his parents when he was little. They went through a divorce and would use him to hurt the other one. He learned how to lie to keep the peace between his parents. His lies resulted in either parents happiness. Each parent ended up remarrying and having more kids. My ex became a reminder to each of them of a relationship that didn’t wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:34 AM |
| 0 | Does the average guy really not get casual sex?This. This is the nuanced answer. They still compare their dating life with the chads. They could be getting lots of action, but just not as high of quality as they want. For example, they’ll be casual with the girl who’s available—not necessarily the one they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 10 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameActually, no. A woman will sleep with a really hot dude even though she knows they’re very incompatible and she’d never date him. It doesn’t impact them as they move on with their lives. They go on dating more men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:43 AM |
| 7 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameI’ve thought about this equivalency before. It does make logical sense until you weigh the fact that very beautiful women also get played by men. They get led on, “pumped and dumped” too. I’m a woman and thought this was the case until I started hearing other women have the same issue who were 5X’s more attractive than me. There are model type women on tiktok talking about getting finessed by men and ghosted. So this “theory” unfortunately has a lot of holes. The reason people get casualzoned is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:35 AM |
| 3 | [Q4A] What are some examples of "high-value men" that are popular with the ladies?Men who do not lie are very high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | why does hooking up with men often make them catch feelings way faster than dating? I don't get it!This has literally not one time happened to me. Men I’m casual with never catch feelings. It’s usually the other way around lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 07:34 PM |
| 144 | Please, for your own sake: Find out if he was a loser before.THIS IS 100% ACCURATE. OMG I may have to screenshot this because it’s spot on. This was my ex. He had a vendetta against all women and I had no idea until I was nearly a year in with him. He even made comments like the ones detailed in this post. He was mad that most women he dates have gone through a hook up phase and are only now settling on him because the men they actually wanted didn’t want to commit. He talked about being a late bloomer and always being picked last. He was/still is a miser… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | NEVER trust a thirsty guyWhat?? Not sure how you gathered that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:34 PM |
| 6 | Chicks dig hot dudes. Express your surprise here.People are attracted to attractive people. It’s so strange to me that people well into adulthood discover this and are all of a sudden perplexed. Some men hate women because they are attracted to attractive men. Okayyyy… Attraction is also subjective. I was with a man who was furious that women were attracted to “hot” men. He complained about it constantly. He felt like he wasn’t “hot”. Irony was that he was hot to me. He was my dream guy who I had imagined dating for literal years. He couldn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:39 PM |
| 3 | NEVER trust a thirsty guyIs this the male version of the “pick me” girl? It kinda sounds like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:28 PM |
| 26 | A man with a big personality right hereI appreciate this kind of honesty. Saves a lot of time that could have been wasted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:33 PM |
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