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This . You are right . This has been a red pill truth for a very long time. It was known before TRP was a thing. Its ego preservation .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:46 PM
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The idea a man responds with physical violence whenever rejected romantically is feminist nonsense . Men get rejected all the time . There would data and statistics showing this . There are none. Are there some men who use vulgar language yes . Does that cause harm usually no . In instances that men might be using profanity . He has been playing friends in hopes she will see what.a nice guy he is . Giving her attention, validation, doing boyfriend services , becomes a endless stream of complimen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:44 PM
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Medellin is a interesting place . There’s a week long festival at Christmas. All kinds of food , music, crafts . One of my favorite places is near my mother family Salento, there’s fishing, hiking, you can tour a few coffee fincas and watch hoe coffee is made . We have plantains, and avacados growing. There’s always flowers blooming. Its a perpetual spring because of the altitude I believe 2,000 meters. Colombia is a beautiful country. Oh yeah the whole green card stuff is generally not true in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:37 AM

No they place a different value on attention from a woman they are not interested. Attention is the coin of the realm in woman world . All humans enjoy some attention. Men don’t value attention they way women do. Most men don’t become insecure and start creating chaos and drama because they are not getting attention 24/7. Outside of a serious psychological disorder humans don’t like being ignored . The silent treatment is a form of emotional and psychological abuse. It can be devastating and ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:32 AM
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If you want to be that guy and Betabuxed thats your choice. It really is offensive whrn you bloops try to turn a mans preferences and free will into being insecure and jealous or some other insult This is called simping , formerly white knighting. You can simp for random women online all day . Thats not going to grt you a relationship that includes sexual intimacy . It been tried for a very long time . I believe Stalin referred to this type of behavior as useful idiots . You’re never going to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:34 AM
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Nothing we all do it . The Nice Guy or LJBF rejection is dishonest and a attempt to flip the script . She didn’t reject him . She offered friendship as a consolation prize . How thoughtful. What the man who uses being nice , I am not like those vague nebulous other guys who only want sex and getting to know her tactic hears is Try harder , buy more gifts , be more available, do more for her , spend more time listening to her talk about her problems . Be more like her female friends. Which is exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:51 PM
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Seriously stop . Sleeping around doesn’t make you exciting , positive , funny intelligent or anything. It might mean you are physically attractive and have no problems getting attention from people who you are attracted to . Yeah I don’t have a problem with getting female attention and sex if I choose I have no doubts my life has been more exciting than yours . Much more . I am a introvert , I also have had sex with over 100 women.. My being part of a particular SOF detachment in extremely good …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:07 PM
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Maybe you associate with the wrong women. She was shy and very quite. Did not call attention to herself. Just because you cannot meet low count women doesn’t mean the do not exist. Then most bloops are relegated to orbiting or if they are lucky betabux. She had. Two LTRs and her last LTR died in Iraq . Kind of difficult to have a relationship after that . I know ,a gf I would have probably married was hit and killed by a woman drunk and high on weed . At least the amount of weed found was a felo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:27 PM
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Happens all the time . What kind of women are your friends. There’s lots of women with a low count . There are hints and cues in a conversation. I met a 35 year old with a count of 2 that was surprising when It was verified. She was very attractive. Maybe she was not riding the carousel and took care of her self .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:39 PM
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She would ask you to leave and never return, then block you from any contact. Thats a good way remain single and sexless. If a woman asked for exs contacts I would end thr conversation and leave or ask her to leave . I don’t have their contacts why would I? Thats the past While it doesn’t go away I don’t need to bring it with me or discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:33 PM
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No he read Margret Sanger while in prison . She would be the Founder of Planned Parenthood . Hitler was able to own his audience. He also had the right economic conditions made worse by the Entente Allies excessive reparations , humiliating German military, taking land and giving to France and Poland . Watch his speachs it’s interesting. One if my languages is German. Hitler had a unique public speaking voice . He also actually enjoyed meeting as he put it his people . Getting out of his cars sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:03 PM
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No I am disagreeing with you. Taking away extra privileges . Is not coercion of force . Not making taxpayers responsible for bad choices is not force or coercion. Ending government programs that favor ond group over another is simply returning to our constitutional law . Not paying for hormonal birth control is disincentivizes poor choices . Go to civil court and make Chad Thrustin pay for the child conceived. Not my or taxpayers responsibility. Make government require work , education you pay f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:37 PM
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We need to continually tell men tondo that . Many are seduced to give in and disrespect themselves. That make everything more difficult for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:48 AM
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To be blunt yes sex is that important . Men have been doi Whatever they can to impress woman and get sex for a very very long time as in over 200 thousand years at minimum. Earlier hominids also did this . With out humans having sex you Would not be here. Until very recently due to technology humans had very harsh short lives . Many things you take for granted did not exist 100 years ago. Yes men do the jobs that make us a safe , comfortable, wealthy technologically advanced civilization. Femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:45 AM
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To qoute Mick Jagger you cannot always get what you want . Sometimes you might find you get what you need . While I actually enjoy debating with you. I am also doing other things. I am trying to explain that There’s more to humans and being human than what both extremes claim. I cannot imagine you don’t get the idea that there’s many ways to change behaviors. I use the reducing smoking as it was very successful and we are better off. My concerns are a lot of angry , frustrated, lonely sexually f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:36 AM
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You would be surprised at how inexpensive it is to fly to South America and have fun . I have family in Colombia. Its about $ 500 round trip . The cost of living is far less in Colombia than the US . You can have a wonderful vacation if you plan well. Especially if you have met someone from that country. If you meet someone online. Go to a popular safe tourist location. Start learning the language and don’t do stupid things . Avoid being the loud obnoxious tourist. Use your phone to find safe fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:20 AM
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What Colombia! I am a dual citizen . My mothers family is in Colombia. While its not perfect and developing actually rapidly . There’s plenty of Colombianas who are educated, intelligent attractive women . They would be highly offended by that description . Its about $ 500 for a rounc trip to most cities on Avaianca . Its a very beautiful country. With a lot of opportunity . Especially if you can tele commute . A cousin works for a large US corporation. She does very well. Travels here routinely…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:07 AM
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I will simplify . Things you might not think have anything to do with men especially young military aged men from finding relationships . Welfare, using the threat of government violence to impose DEI quotas , and force college, vocational school and employment qoutas will level the field and those who have the skills will fill those positions . Ending no fault divorce as it exists will reduce divorce . If there was a way to constitutionally make all marriage more difficult that would be even be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:06 AM
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No not at all . You get to have sex with whoever you want . What you don’t get to have is other people being responsible for your poor choices. You expect men to provide services that very few if any women are willing to provide with out any social rewards. Men make civilization possible. We make sure you are safe . If men stopped working and refused until they got treated better you bet things would change and really fast. No by disincentivizing behaviors we make changes. Things like no fault d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:32 PM
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That they don’t learn from their first pump and dump with Chad is showing their willful ignorance or denial of reality. No Chad is not going to marry or LTR the majority of women. Why should he? Who wants to get spoiled leftovers. They don’t want to accept this . Long term thinking and planning is not taught anymore. There’s no good role models to teach them about life . Its all about instant gratification and having fun . Don’t worry about raising children, divorce, a stable life , housing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:45 PM
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You really are living in a alternate universe. No one is forcing anyone to do anything. If you wish to continue down your self destructive path thats your choice. You really don’t understand human behavior biology, marketplaces, and how humans evolved. Yes sex is part of being human. With out sex you would not exist. Many people are oblivious to how rapidly technology has outpaced evolution. Just 60 years ago there was no such thing as hormonal birth control. In the US in 1967 Ronald Reagan sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:35 PM
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Seriously a auto correct error. You are overly invested in your ideology. Your gender studies professors failed you . I cannot imagine you succeeding in any real job . Yiu cannot make personal attacks and use a typo to prove anything. This is exactly why a vulgar ignorant man is going to once again be elected president. Why you on the far left cannot see that is troubling. You really don’t understand that you cannot leave 50 percent of a population behind and make laws that disadvantage them wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:09 PM
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Seriously stop .. You know exactly what I meant. Attacking a autocorrect error is childish and shows you have no real argument. It is Reddit not grad school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:52 PM
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Ad hoc personal attacks don’t work .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:32 PM
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You are making the red pillers points for them. It is amusing . I know exactly what those words mean and more . Your gender studies major is worthless in the real world where you actually have to have a skill . The fact is a increasing number of men are being left behind. That’s not good for a stable society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:00 PM
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I find it amusing . Yes men get to disagree with women. Welcome to the real world. Yes you are annoying. I am what some call Chad light . I did my 20 years in the military, saved money and invested wisely, stay in decent shape despite combat injuries, am a little over 6 ft and over the other 6 women demand. I am comfortable have a good part time gig I enjoy. I have plenty of options I have fun and would LTR the right woman. I simply am not interested in marriage . It is too high risk. I have men…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:46 AM
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None , you are annoying as all . You refuse to accept reality. I can do a statistical analysis and make it fit any given ideology . It’s not that difficult. You are simply moving goal posts . A modification of the Motte Bailey Fallacy strategy. Each time anyone gives a rational explanation you move your positions. No matter what the person says you will say no it’s really this . Another poster explained why women are single . It is that simple. Women have more options. If you cannot find a compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:15 AM
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I would live alone . Marrying or LTR with such a woman is degrading. I have self respect. I refuse to clean up her messes and be held responsible for another man’s or often multiple men’s children. Get infrequent duty sex. Be seen as a last resort because she choose poorly when she was younger. Then get divorced and loose half my assets if not more. Though divorce courts are starting to change especially if there are no children . I saw this when I gave a statement being deposed by a attorney fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:05 AM
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In other words you are either wishing away the problem or doubling down on it . The apps are used by real people who exist in the physical world . There’s a large enough samples of men and women from a wide area to have 95 percent confidence interval. He is right . If a woman cannot find a compatible partner it is her fault. She is doing something /s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:54 AM
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I saw a clip with a woman insisting a man earring at minimum 6 figures , over. 6 ft talk , and over 6 inches is 50 percent of men. Then the data was given to her Their fantasy man is under 1 percent of the population. Thats how delusional they can be. The denial of reality is stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:43 AM
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That would be misogynistic , creepy , insecure, entitled and whatever else the unduly passionate claim. They strong independent women . They would never fall for that scam ! Sarcasm, lots of sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:47 AM
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Absolutely, there are a lot of people who benefit from disadvantaging men and pulling at the social fabric that holds the US and many western nations together. Go to Poland or Hungary you don’t see this anywhere near as much . I routinely visit a South American country my mom’s family is from . Its not anything remotely close . Its very easy to get a date and meet lots of attractive women. They might not be all 9 and 10s but still attractive enough for most men. If I knew how to self publish I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:20 AM
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If someone wants to pay him or another so called coach who charges I think 2,000 a session possibly more . Thats their stupidity. You can get the same advice on line for nothing. Yes those pyramid schemes are a rip off . It should be obvious. I learned about this long before the red pill was a thing. My sisters , father and grandfather taught me . I an glad that I did not make the painful mistakes many under 30 are . Eventually those Red Pill grifters will fade into oblivion . Thats just the mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:39 AM
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Unmm women are attracted to wealth and status . Most 20 somethings are not going to be very wealthy. I would not say wait wait . I would say build wealth though. If a 25 year old can meet and marry all the more power to him . Ideally I would prefer to if I was that young . Raising a child after 40 sounds exhausting and missing out on being relatively young yet having more life experience to enjoy life after raising children. Which Red Pill griffters are you talking about? Care to name them . I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:21 AM
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I haven’t seen a so called open relationship or what ever they are called where a man gets more action than a woman. I am sure it happens. I was watching something about this earlier. Somewhere on Reddit is a post in which a man finds homemade porn of his wife doing all kinds of stuff with multiple men . Sex she said she doesn’t enjoy and of course she only was with one other man The end result was she got a divorce and less than half of the marital assets. That must have been a shock to her. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:12 AM
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The try to get pussy or willingly orbit in hope of getting sex . Mostly the humiliate and disrespect themselves for the possibility of sex that’s dangled in front of for attention , validation , services and free therapy sessions. They are pathetic , dishonest and in a way it is sad they never learn . I know of a man who had been orbiting a woman for at least 8 years. That’s beyond help. Unfortunately they make interactions between men and women more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:57 AM
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How did that get there. Wrong post .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:45 AM
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The problem is those men don’t want to marry high count women. You can wish for all the equality in relationships you want . It never going to happen. There’s s always going to be competing standards for a partner. That’s been true as long as humans have existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:06 AM
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If women don’t like being a plate don’t be one . It’s not that difficult. It really should not take much effort to figure out . If a man doesn’t tell you that you are in a monogamous committed relationship . You probably are not . You have the ability to ask and if the answers are not acceptable. End the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:54 PM
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They most certainly do. What they do is have fun with high count women and commit to low count women. You are aware both exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:48 PM
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No you said something very different. You are the first to become outraged when a man rejects LJBF. Oh he only wanted sex ! I can hear it a thousand miles away .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:04 PM
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I understand really. I wish some would start to figure out what they are doing is not working. The men who are successful are following the script as given. I never followed it . This is only because my sisters , parents and grandparents made sure I did not fall into that trap. I am extremely fortunate. The shame and attacks on men and male sexuality are disgusting and extremely hypocritical. I don’t have a easy answer. I do know from my SOF experiences in the Middle East that we do not want a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:01 PM
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I really despise men who play that game. It can cause serious problems in relationships. I don’t consider that a man . If a woman has a boyfriend or husband. Leave her the fuck alone. Go find a available woman. If a woman uses the LJBF rejection Say no thanks , I am looking for a relationship . Don’t try to nice guy into a relationship. It rarely works and will only cause drama and probably emotional pain for all involved. To be fair men have been sold the lie of being friends first or a nice gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:50 PM
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Not much thought at all. If Joe wants a romantic relationship including sexual intimacy and Jane only sees him a “ friend “ . That’s a Conflict of Interest. Its a failed relationship. Men don’t approach women to be just friends. Saying otherwise is dishonest. Men approach and are “ friendly “ because the find her attractive. That used to be common knowledge. Why torment your self move on . He was never just a friend. He was hoping that by being a “ friend “ he would get a relationship. Men have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:48 PM
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Now it’s obvious you are arguing in bad faith. Every man except maybe the top 5% if that have gotten LJBF .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:20 PM
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I already explained. No you are not going to fuck her friends. Thats a myth. I suspect you are very young and inexperienced. If a woman says no , I walk away . I do not pretend that I accept LJBF when I really want a romantic relationship. That’s dishonest and where the nice guy trope comes from . I have gotten both FWB sex and two relationships by refusing LJBF. One called a few hours after her LJBF attempt . She asked me if I wanted to have a fun weekend getaway with her. We had a wild time . …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:03 PM
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But those guys are not interested in just friends . They want a relationship that includes sexual intimacy. That’s the only reason they are being “ friendly “ . They bought the false narrative that being nice and a “ friend “ gets them a relationship. I recall women saying they are not niceness machines where you put nice tokens in and get sex . Men are increasingly granting you your request. I never made that insane mistake. I might have tried to be friendly but never accepted Lets Just Be Frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:57 PM
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Wrong, and you know it. If he is so great why isn’t she dating him is a rational thought for a woman. It really does make sense. I don’t blame women for that . I blame men for falling into the LJBF trap. Its better to be honest and tella woman No thanks , I am looking for a relationship. If that’s not what you want . No problem. Take care . In a tactful way . I have done that . On occasion it actually got me a relationship! I had the fortitude to be honest and vulnerable. Yep saying I am attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:38 PM
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I have had some deep interactions with women. That did not include meaningful conversation. There’s plenty of women who will enjoy such deep interactions with Chadwick Thrustin. . Trying to go directly to “ being comfortable “ rarely if ever works . By then a man has skipped the sexual tension and become her girl friend . Women have boyfriends and girl friends . If you are not having sex with her you are a girl friend by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:18 PM
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That rarely happens and you know it. If a man is just friends her friends are going to ask themselves if he is so great why isn’t she in a relationship with him . Which makes sense. This is another reason why I tell young men . When you get LJBF, tactfully say no thanks I am looking for a relationship. If that’s not something you are interested in then it’s best we go our separate ways . I am interested in you as a girlfriend , that’s no going to change. I wish you well. Then ignore her . The ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:06 PM
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Some are some are not . Each person is different. I really don’t push . I let that happen. It usually does in a conversation organically. If a woman and I are going to commit to a monogamous LTR then we bring up our past in a tactful, empathetic , compassionate manner . No need to go over every detail. There’s plenty of legitimate reasons a person might be sensitive about a past relationship. Maybe the pain of talking about it is difficult . Having a empathy and patience is extremely important i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:15 AM
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It is becoming more common with men under 30 /35 ! You really really don’t want a lot of lonely, angry , romantically and sexually frustrated military aged men in a civil society. I saw exactly what happens when there are on my deployments to various Middle Eastern hell holes. You can easily call terrorist organizations incel armies. The terrorist organization use promise of a wife or two . They get lots if lonely military age men to become zealous cannon fodder . Men also do the dirty dangerous…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:16 AM
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I don’t discuss my relationships much . That’s very personal. I will simply state I have had a few serious relationships and don’t want to discuss it . You don’t know that persons history. Maybe they had casual encounters because they lost someone tragically . Then meet someone that they feel safe with again. Many people don’t talk about a past relationship. I would see talking a lot about a past relationship as a red flag . It is as if you really are not over it . Especially when you first meet…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:48 AM
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Absolutely, I try . I understand the frustration . Leaving half the population behind is a very bad idea that doesn’t end well. I saw how dangerous young military aged sexually frustrated , lonely men can be in my many deployments in Middle Eastern hell holes. You might call Jihadis incel armies. The terrorists use the promise of a wife to entice men to join as cannon fodder. Men do a lot of work that keep us comfortable and safe . They are not high status or prestigious jobs but are critical to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:38 AM
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It is hot teaching a inexperienced woman. It’s also hot show a new partner what you enjoy and learn what they enjoy. I suspect many people are actually not that experienced . I think I might have burst that bubble . It can be annoying and frustrating to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:31 AM
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Its not really difficult to give have a woman orgasm if you try and know a little biology. As in where to go and what to do . It might or might not take more time . Each of us id different. I have had a woman orgasm and umm well I was not finished lets say that was a really wonderful and fun relationship. I will let you guess and use your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:25 AM
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Definitely, No it is not ! I think the OP had a bad experience or knows of someone who did . There definitely is a increasing amount of men who haven’t had a relationship or sex . Which is not good. Thats a whole different topic. I prefer to be optimistic as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:19 AM
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I am sure he could with appropriate help find a partner. The overwhelming majority of women I had sex with were either a FWB, activity partner ( hiking and road trips between deployments. With a few relationships. I really don’t discuss that much . I especially hate questions about a particular past relationship. The OP left our context . I would have no problem with a virgin I would wonder why but not push her to explain that’s just rude . You can teach a person what you enjoy and have a lot if…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:12 AM
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The overwhelming majority of the over 100 women I had sex with were FWBs or a brief fun time due to multiple deployments . I had a few relationships but lots of fun . It is entirely possible a man can have lots of sex and few really serious relationships. You don’t teach anyone how to have a healthy relationship. That’s something that we learn from our parents. At least I did . Maybe not having parents as role models makes having a relationship or initiating a relationship with someone you are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:46 PM
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How does a mans inexperience or experience for that matter equal a woman not enjoying sex ? A man can have a lot of experience yet be a terrible lover especially if he is Chad . A man can have no or little experience and learn what works and what does. Women are able to speak and use words to express themselves right. You can tell him hey that feels great . Please don’t do that it’s uncomfortable. You could have a whole lot of fun teaching him . I sure did with inexperienced women. Many many tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:37 PM
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Because they had no real choice. They were indoctrinated into the same religion as their parents as infants unable to make a choice. There’s a reason religious do everything possible to make sure children are taught a particular faith from essentially birth. You do know religion like a ideology( Stalinism and comes to mind ). is a means to control a population right . We cannot say what a person would or would not do if they didn’t hold particular religious beliefs . Belonging to a social group …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:29 PM
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What revenge? I guess you could call me chad light. I was modestly successful with women, in my 20s , In the military and college. I did a few tours in Middle East hell holes as a NCO and went to OCS and graduate courses. The change was dramatic. Why were women who would have ignored all but giga chad now interested??? Hmm Oh that’s right I have status, resources, in very good shape, Oh wait thats both AF and BB . Do you really think I want to be one of many ? Do you think I want a woman who doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:02 PM
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They really don’t understand. You’re supposed to wait for them to find themselves !! Sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:26 PM
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I would not be that surprised. There’s plenty of posts about being a simp and getting badly hurt . I am surprised at the amount of men who simp . There’s plenty of advice in why simping is harmful to your mental health. It used to be well know the only thing a single mother like that is good for is a good time . The risks of anything else are very high . In some US states the guy if he took on any parental role never mind responsibility can be forced into child support. Then there’s the ex alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:30 AM
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Thats why my sisters explained that being what we now call AF and BB at the same time will help insure you have a healthy lasting relationship. I became AF and BB . A woman knows I have options and has far less leverage. All relationships are transactional. You can love someone and still exchange needs , wants etc . It more of a choice . I really feel bad for a lot of younger men . They are in a hell of s Kafkaesque, Orwellian , Catch 22 trap . No one wants to be used and thrown out like garbage…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:19 AM
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If they could get AF/ BB in one guy they would. The problem is the guy who us AF / BB at the same time isn’t going to have a relationship of any sort with most women. He has his choices and doesn’t want the majority of women. The guy who is AF and BB is their ideal. There’s a reason men between 35 and 50 if they are physically fit and even moderately financially successful are actually at their SMV and RMV prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:32 AM
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You have to be insane to have anything but casual sex with that type of woman. Maybe a incredibly thirsty simp . No way would I debase myself into taking care of that mess. How can you respect yourself if you willingly accept responsibility for her very poor choices . There’s a reason it’s very difficult for single mothers to find a healthy relationship with a man she really wants to be with . What women really want is a AF/ BB in one man . While possible, that man is not going to commit to a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:15 AM
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I would prefer honesty. I can handle a polite thanks but im not interested over being lied to and used for attention, validation and what ever else she wants . Young people are really screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:02 AM
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You have never seen the men who women use the possibility of a relationship including sex to get attention, validation, a endless stream of compliments, free services that a boyfriend/ husband would usually do . Those guys are not manipulated . ASure they are often simps . Which is a whole different problem. It used to be well known women are the gatekeepers of sex men are the gatekeepers of commitment. That’s evolution, it usually works although imperfect. If women want a committed relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:57 AM
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Unfortunately people who have been able to prove they were nowhere near the crime scene when the alleged crime occurred have pleas guilty in a plea bargain because going to trial and risking a conviction meant more time. Thats a problem with corrupt prosecutors and police. Plenty of people will believe a woman simply to avoid being labeled misogynistic , creepy and of course supporting whatever rape culture is . The solution is if you make a false accusation you serve the time that your victim/s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:40 AM
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It changes life for you . I have refused LJBF, and being taken advantage of , refuse to put myself into the friendzone by saying No Thanks . Im looking for a relationship. Take care . For a very long time. My sisters and grandfather taught me this as a teen . Why would I want to torment myself. If I want a romantic relationship. I certainly don’t want to hear about her dates and do things for her . Unrequited love is unhealthy and harmful to your mental health. Women who take advantage of a man’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:27 AM
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I will simplify and clarify. What the OP is attempting to say is that women routinely reject men and still demand or expect friendship, the same amount of attention, validation, compliments and acts of service. Usually using the Lets Just Be Friends ( LJBF ) rejection. A blatant attempt to flip the narrative so that she’s not the bad guy for rejecting him and he is if he rejects her consolation prize of pseudo friendship.. He probably got a LJBF after “ getting to know her “. Because she “needs …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:15 AM
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Russia is refurbishing T 55s and T 62s. T55s were introduced in 1949! As well as old BMP or BTR 1 and 2 s They are using mosin nagants from Soviet WW 2 stocks for rear echelon troops . Ak47s are a old albeit useful weapon. There’s images of troops with the famous PPSH . The Ukrainians do have armaments industry. They had been making Soviet era weapons. NATO weapons do not work with Soviet era ammunition and ordinance. Ukraine is not a wealthy country . It’s major industries are agriculture , oil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:21 AM
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No Ukraine began conscription before Russia invaded. The Ukraine and Russia for that matter prevents military aged men from leaving. From all accounts Russia is losing ten of thousands of men at well defended positions hasn’t changed since WW 2 . You do know Russia is losing men at a higher rate than during WW 2 ! Russia is far more corrupt than Ukraine. Corruption is why Russias military is using 60- 80 year old weapons. Bribing inmates, their planes don’t fly , armor is useless and overall poo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:24 AM
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It has nothing to do with getting injured. It is the disrespectful attitude and behaviors of women . When a man is injured while defending his country often he will end up divorced if married or his long term partner will leave him . Not every woman does this . A lot do . A lot but not all refuse to date a man who becomes disabled while serving or doing the dirty dangerous job that make civilization possible. If you want a safe country where religious zealots , terrorists who all want to kill yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:48 AM
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Actually access to women has been one of many reasons wars have been started since humans have existed. Many French women willing had relationships with German soldiers during WW 2 . They often happy to have a German romantic partner or husband until the western allies invaded June 6 1944 a date you should be grateful . Then they found American soldiers in particular attractive Interesting how that works. Humans can be resources . Religious beliefs and ideologies are excuses used to get a popula…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:34 AM
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You really don’t get it do you. No one expects that , though not too long ago being in the military did make you more attractive to women. When I was serving, I never had a problem with women still don’t. Certainly my specific detachment made it even easier. Think apex predator, that gets a woman’s attention. You sleep peacefully and live a extraordinarily privileged life in western countries because there are men willing to do violence and risk their lives , physical and psychological well bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:15 AM
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I don’t disagree. Over the past 60 years we have made some serious mistakes . Sure women has to deal with some really bad stuff. We are in serious trouble if we don’t have a military that can take on any country like it or not . Men are the only reason women can enjoy the comfortable lives they do in western countries. A thought experiment. Imagine if men refused to work for 72 hour Thats about all it would take .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:10 PM
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I am not surprised. It is appalling they are saying men are disposable. There’s a lot of reasons the DOD cannot fill it’s recruitment requirements. I don’t remember where, recently I saw a clip with this ahem cough young man . He had colorful pajamas on and was giving his reasons he did not want to fight a war . It was kind of pathetic and sad . I said I would not want anyone like that anywhere near my AO . He would wash out and become a REMF shuffling papers or moving supplies. People might wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:19 PM
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Thats disgusting really. It says disabled men have low or no value to women. Yet women expect men to accept being conscripted and face mutilation and death . Then when the disabled veterans return home they get a divorce or constant rejection. I often wonder why I served and what the hell happened to the country I served.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:02 AM
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Thats almost definitely BPD or HPD. They become extremely uncomfortable and upset when they don’t get attention. In normal healthy relationship you can say I can’t talk right now . I have been using what TRP calls agree, amuse and or amplify before there really was a Red Pill . My Grandfather taught me about that ! It usually works well .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:24 AM
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Men mostly simps who pay for Only Fools and follow random women are the reason why OF exists . If it wasn’t profitable OF would not exist. If simps would stop rewarding OF thots with money . Insta and Tik Tok thots stopped getting likes and simps following them their insta or tik tok would be worthless . I don’t understand why any man would pay these thots to see them naked or having sex . I would prefer the real thing not a bunch of pixels that thousands of thirsty simps are also watching. It b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:49 AM
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That sounds like BPD or HPD. Both disorders become insecure when there’s no drama . She is right . Her childhood , Adolescence and young adulthood , are part of why she is emotional unstable. Those types of women cannot easily have stable relationships. It is not surprising she stopped going to couples therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:41 AM
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Unfortunately yes. There’s a reason the DOD cannot recruit enough new enlisted service personnel. It gets worse. More than one man who became disabled due to combat was served with divorce papers . Usually before even recovering from his injuries. The Dear John , I met someone, letters . The suicides after being served with divorce papers after becoming disabled is disgusting.. Imagine the outrage if a man divorced his wife because she lost her lower leg , needs a wheelchair, medications for PTS…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:29 PM
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Maybe just maybe because many women will humiliate a man for The smallest, most irrelevant , inconsequential insecurity or vulnerability. I recall during one of my tours in Afghanistan a popular Sargent who drove supplies and logistics was killed in a ambush. I went to a memorial service . He was highly respected and liked . There were two women returning from some media nonsense. They saw a guy crying instead of comforting him they mocked him as they walked away . Called him a crybaby and how c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:38 PM
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Not if he is smart and responsible. He can find ways to both invest and develop a skill and build a career. It might not be fast and easy. Then life isn’t all that easy for all but perhaps the top 1 or 2 percent of men . Even successful professionals such as attorneys, physicians, and upper level cooperate executives work grueling hours. There are very few easy options for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:57 PM
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That’s part of the problem. Who wants to be one of many ? Who wants to be with someone who did not give you a thought while choosing poorly . There’s a reason why many young men are struggling. It should not require a PhD to figure our why .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:48 PM
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What if that guy at the auto parts store is investing some of his income so he can have a house or start a business ? I know of guys who joined the military , did a few tours , had family help them invest and now are doing reasonably well . They are not millionaires they have their own place , a decent vehicle and disposable income. Yet that's not good enough for the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:54 PM
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Unfortunately thats the nature of marriage. The couples children if they have children, their families and friends are often affected adversely by a divorce. Even a long term relationship ending affects other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:47 AM
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In most states infidelity / adultery is considered by the court. It often does lead to the court denying alimony , and will favor the harmed party . It depends on state in the US . Many still allow The plaintiffs to do this instead of the horrible no fault divorce . A psychologist friend who specializes in relationships told me a interesting red flag in women. If she got less than 50 % in a divorce She has problems in relationships. A divorce , family law attorney confirmed this .. Usually court…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:44 AM
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And that’s why you’re single!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:15 AM
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No you know exactly what asking a man what he does for a living is . I know damn well that if a man replied he was a manager at a fast food place or a mechanic that would be the first and last time that woman would talk with him . If you’re a vegan you would already have stated that . I have experienced that . It did not prevent anything else from happening. She had her vegan meals . I had what ever I wanted. We then had other things to do . I am very clear about my boundaries . I have a few dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:22 PM
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OLD has been around since at least 1995! People paid a internet provider for access. AOL, was actually a paid service. It had a dating interface. You had to use the IM as DMs were called. Then you could chat. There used to be hundreds of thousands of chat rooms . You could interact with all kinds of people. AOL and Yahoo used to have a dating site where you could scan a few pictures, then search through thousands of pages of single people. It was very different. People were discreet about it . T…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:29 PM
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No they are at minimum 45 -50 . They are describing what Gen X did . Not remotely close to anyone under approximately 45 experienced in their 20s and 30s . It is as if people don’t understand the internet didn’t exist as it does today just 25 years ago . Then around 2010 the smartphone became a real thing. Life was very difficult pre smart phone. You definitely did not have a super computer in your hand then . Those devices have changed us and not always for the best. Sometimes it is a good idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:12 PM
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No it is not . I don’t ask people who I meet what they do for a living. I might ask where is a good place to get a cold beer and steak , are there other interesting places ? Where is a hotel near XYZ ? Do you like ….. ? Have you seen …. ? Asking about what you do for a living especially when trying to start a relationship is fishing for a person’s income. Especially when you first meet . Thats a personal question, you know it . It is trying to figure out a person’s income. I don’t have to work. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:21 PM
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No asking me about my employment is absolutely trying to learn about my income. Though there’s plenty of ways to make money yet have a lower paying job . Many people have some side gig they do and if you learn a little about investing you can do very well . I refuse to answer such questions. It is annoying and offensive. Try asking about what I enjoy doing in my free time. Ask about a vacation or my hobbies . Ask what I like to do for fun, what books and movies I enjoy. My sisters made it clear …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:28 AM
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What are you talking about . Plenty of men in their 30s have girlfriends in their 20s . It’s not difficult really . Just because women in their 20s say that to you It does not mean that when they meet the 35 year old attorney or physician in good shape they find attractive , they will not have a relationship with him . Men gain status and become more attractive and maintain that as they age . Its not particularly difficult for a man over 30 to date a woman 10 years younger . I have managed to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:20 AM
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Their past matters . I know that some women will not have anything to do with me because I I am a veteran who served in the middle east and fought such wonderful humanitarian organizations such as Al Queda , Taliban, ISiS , other less known terrorists or terrorists that I cannot publicly name . As insulting and offensive as that is. That’s their choice. As far as having lots of sex partners thats a good indicator of her current behavior and who wants to be compared to a long list of past sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:23 AM
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Would you have a relationship with man released from prison for a violent felony say manslaughter? After all it was years ago . Of course the past matters. Anyone saying it doesn’t is nor bbeing honest. There’s plenty if things a person has done in the past that matter . I would not have a relationship with a woman who served time . I would always wonder is she going to return to her criminal lifestyle . I do care about a woman’s past . It makes her who she is . A woman that has had lots of sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:21 AM
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Go away sociopath. Go to your hateful little echo chamber. You add nothing to this . There are plenty of people giving evidence. I don’t have the time or inclination to dig through thousands of hits in a search . I don’t need a academic journal to tell me lack of emotional and physical intimacy is bad for mental health. It only requires correctly functioning synapses and observing people as we go through life. Twenty years ago I would not be asked to provide evidence. It was common knowledge. St…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:52 AM
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Insults show you have no argument. Also are childish and offensive. Typical of your type. That you lack empathy and compassion for people suffering from psychological problems or disorders speak volumes. I don’t need to say much more . I have no patience or time for such people. No one asks for a psychiatric disorder. Many people suffer tremendously due to mental health problems. The fact you used personal insults and predictably used the incel nonsense also speaks volumes. I would not want sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:36 AM

I sometimes wonder why I served 20 years and fought in Middle Eastern hell holes so religious mad men would not send more desperate fanatics who cannot have a wife or wives simply because their family cannot afford to pay for a wife . The preferred marriage is to your father’s brothers daughter/s. If of course your family can afford to pay . In those horrible countries women are always responsible legally and socially for rape . My detachment came across a woman about to be stoned to death for c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:59 AM

You really are being obtuse . No one is entitled to anything. They are simply stating a fact . You deliberately leave out wanting emotional as well as sexual intimacy. Those men have neither. That’s not good for a civil society. If you cannot understand that’s on you. Try living in a country that’s not western wealthy and highly educated and developed. Then come back and talk about being so oppressed. I read the long blog post https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-romanceless/. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:25 PM

Yes . Interesting but very long blog post . Yes I served multiple tours in Islamic hell holes and part of my family is from a South American country. Telling anyone that wanting physical and emotional intimacy is wrong, bad , sexist, misogynistic, and whatever else is cruel and hypocritical. Humans have Ed evolved to desire sexual and emotional intimacy. So we pass on our DNA and raise a child to survive ling enough to find a partner . Men and women not the same we compliment each other. Why is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:06 PM
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There’s plenty of evidence. You can do a search and find there’s a whole lot of research indicating a increasing percentage of men are not in any relationship. I believe about 30 percent of men under 30 of Maybe 35 now have never had a relationship in sexual and emotional intimacy. That’s frightening. I found this quote in my notes. Not sure exactly where it came from When your position commits you to saying “Love isn’t important to humans and we should demand people stop caring about whether or…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:09 AM
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