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| 2 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?Mindset is key. Don't take her shittests serious. Get in the best shape you can, for YOUR self confidence. Go out and be YOU! | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 07:00 AM |
| 2 | My wife wants me to PUA...My wife would love you 😍 | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Trying the "come here" routine with women I liked and falling flat.The only time to use that gesture is in the bedroom.... | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Impossible shit testLeave the respo se a few days, because that's what women do...and as others have said, reply Happy New Year. | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 10:54 PM |
| -5 | Is this why men are giving up on their life and resorting to hookers or even worse taking their own lives?Wrong, in the 80/90s the options were as open as they are today. Get you head out of the apps and go and meet real women. I'm married and have been for 35 years, but I do get approached by single, attractive women in hotel bars. And no they aren't hookers | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 09:13 AM |
| -2 | "28M and 26F: Her Behavior Changed After I Hung Out with Another Woman—What’s Going On?"Text her, "what's happened to our friendship?" And leave it at that, if she replies you get the answer if not you know she isn't a friend anymore. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 04:59 PM |
| 2 | "28M and 26F: Her Behavior Changed After I Hung Out with Another Woman—What’s Going On?"She is testing you to see if this new woman has taken her spot. It's a shortest. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How not to cold approach from a woman’s perspectiveHe should have respected that you are on your own with your dog and would be defensive. Wrong place, wrong time. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Do guys like woman asking for there numbers?Maybe you are giving off a "do not disturb" vide? That's why guys aren't approaching. If you take the initiative they guy will be very receptive. If you have some business cards, you could always hand them out? | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Strip clubStripe clubs are designed to stripe YOU of your money! The women are their to sell their "services" to naive young men. You are more likely get a date from a meet up in a bar or the dog park. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 09:07 AM |
| 1 | How to get a threesomeGet your girl to go on tinder and search bi girls. | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 09:06 AM |
| 7 | For girls: how would you react if you smelled another girl’s perfume on a guy you’re meeting for the first time for a date?So they can have multiple dates but they expect men to stay at home for their text to come on a date 😂. I've found it interesting when sometime ago I spoke to a woman and she said she wasn't interested, no problem and I walked away. 15 mins later my sister walks in and walks up to me and gives me a hug. I get her a drink and the woman who rejected me couldn't stop looking over. After a little while she did come over when my sister left and wanted to talk, we ended up having breakfast together. W… | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 01:46 PM |
| 20 | For girls: how would you react if you smelled another girl’s perfume on a guy you’re meeting for the first time for a date?As you aren't exclusive what do you expect? Would you like him to live like a monk until you are ready? It is a 2 way street, so whilst you aren't exclusive you both can date other people. If this is a deal breaker, tell him and see what he says. He may have a justified reason for smelling good. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 07:40 AM |
| 5 | Men in their late 30s - how has physical fitness helped your game?I'm M (58), train since my 30s. I'm in good shape, well dressed and smell good. Recently went out for a drink with my none weight training friend who's seriously over weight and he had woman all around him. I did get some offers of numbers from ladies who train at the gym seeing me out- but I'm happily married. I just look at my ring and they get the message. It's about the message/signal YOU give off! | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | I’m fresh out of a 3 year relationship, I’ve been going out doing cold approaches, getting tons of numbers, was even able to bring a girl back to my buddy’s, and still can’t seal the deal.Keep going fella, be confident and it will come. Pun intended! Is it the transition to bedroom from lounge? | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 09:02 AM |
| 2 | This question is more for the f boysBe bold, if she roasts you, just smile and move on. This could be a shit test. Showing you don't care will help your cause. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 07:12 AM |
| 1 | If a woman brings up sexual topics by herself, could that be a signal that she is down to have sex?Build tension, ask her what she means. Then pull back and see if she wants validation if so go for it | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | You’re a 10 in looks literally but you give off 7 energyChange the energy? You need to be more confident. Yes, in my early days I was told I was too confident. But in reality I was petrified! | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 06:05 PM |
| 4 | An indifferent manI had a situation similar to this, being ghosted. Until I shared posts on social of me out with a different woman - trade show. She got right back texting but I ignored her. Not worth the effort. Goes to show she was stalking me 😂 | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore.Go with no expectations, that way any sim is a win. Also it puts less pressure on yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks?How about you say, "no you buy me a drink" | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Leveraging wealth to build a pipeline of women?Is this not shallow? | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Should I take her on a date if she did not save my number?Just set a date and go for it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach is ineffectiveMy commission for last year was $1,157,726 PLUS my base salary. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Am I wrong to feel bothered that a woman referred to me as "small" despite being 6 ft 1?It's a shit test to see how you'd handle it and with the sound of it, you failed. When a woman says to me I'm small and I'm 5 8, I turn round and make a comment like nice dress but I'd not wear it with such a big ass. Puts them on the back foot. Then I move on to someone who's more approachable. This drives them mad because your not interested in them and they can't understand why 😂 | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 10:31 AM |
| 7 | Ladies: Asking for consent before a kiss or just by reading non verbal cues? Rule or preference?This. If you ask you come across as needy, asking HER permission. Women want you to take control. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach is ineffectiveI'm in sales and when I cold call I have a success rate of 4 out of 10 calls result in a sale. Im married and have been approached by women when I've been with my wife! I've been at bars on my own and spoken to women (not trying to pick them up) and they've offered me their number but I do decline and point to my ring. It's about your personality, how you project yourself and your self confidence. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 09:25 AM |
| 0 | What is the reason most young women's type in men is "toxic fuckbois"?Very astute of you. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 08:40 PM |
| 0 | What is the reason most young women's type in men is "toxic fuckbois"?Don't talk gibberish you moron! You commented on my comment trying to make yourself look important, which you failed. I bet your whole life is a failure. You need to grow up And grow a pair of balls and walk away. I called you a woman because your user name Barz as in Barbara of which I k ow many. You've obviously got your panties in a bunch! FYI Ive been married for 34 years, who shit tests and I ignore her, drives her fin mad! Have a great life. I passed a comment on a post | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 08:39 PM |
| 0 | What is the reason most young women's type in men is "toxic fuckbois"?No I dont take shit tests personal, I just launch them off or even ignore them, that irrates the shit out of the women. She then wants to know why your ignoring her- drives em wild. You sure your not a women? You come across as a pussy. Your comments cement it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:04 PM |
| 0 | What is the reason most young women's type in men is "toxic fuckbois"?I guess your a women from your user id? You're bound to say be kind, however she may not be kind to the guy with her shit test... I rule for one one for another, based on gender... | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women?Well said guys! | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | What is the reason most young women's type in men is "toxic fuckbois"?Nope! Not for me, I'm like this at work too, but I do own the company. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 02:19 PM |
| 72 | What is the reason most young women's type in men is "toxic fuckbois"?It's the attitude of not giving a fuck they like. The element of danger drives them mad. Go out with no investment in the outcome, just like you don't care. It works. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | I just realised how shit I am at this.Girls give these replies to see if you stand up to the test. Best to reply with some thing witty or, well my names x what's your name and offer her your hand to shake. But offer it both girls, this way if she shoots you down the one with the mouth, you just say I'm not taking to you I'm talking to your cute friend. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:15 AM |
| 3 | How to keep it interesting over texts?Never ever double text! If she or he is interested, they'll text back. Then reply. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Managed to ask a girl out for the first time today.Well you must have been Interesting if she accepted the approach, keep going and do t give up. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Men of Reddit, what are some of the best places to meet and interact with women?Personally I would host a meeting it could be (knowing me) wine tasting. Get 4 to 1 ratio of women and bang your done! Each person brings a bottle of wine and you supply 5 bottles and nibbles glasses and watch the night unfold....pick up the attractive ones and then close the show inviting g a special lady to a special wine tasting of vintage x whatever she likes that you've learned over the night. Then a night cap....breakfast the next morning! | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:53 PM |
| 0 | Men of Reddit, what are some of the best places to meet and interact with women?Old folks homes? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?Do t show interest, have no invested outcome. What will be, will be. If you get your leg over success. If not, no problem. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Breakfast dates are underrated - OLD Day game tipsGood info | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I give upThis I second! | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | In Mark Manson's "Models" he explains one way to attract the women you want is to become a leader in your interests/demographic. Who here has done something along those lines?Indeed I do and I do like a $2599 congac too 😂 But then again I don't have to compete with bud swilling youngsters either...😉 | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 10:07 PM |
| 14 | In Mark Manson's "Models" he explains one way to attract the women you want is to become a leader in your interests/demographic. Who here has done something along those lines?I found wine tasting interesting. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:06 PM |
| 13 | Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?"Because I make millions $ selling my photos of my feet on only fans. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:27 PM |
| -1 | Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?"You would regret not getting to know me (wink or smile) | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says she likes men with an attitude?Because your boring text is not sparking their interest. It's like all the other guys who text and is nothing special! The content of the text is lame, boring and doesn't spark any intrigue for her to reply to. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Help me heal guys!!Learn from that experience and never repeat it, best advice I can give. I avoid women who wear masks and ear phones, they do that for a reason... | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Did I do something wrong here?You should have said, we will go to x tomorrow, I'll pick you up at x o'clock. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:45 AM |
| 34 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Don't be shy, be yourself and talk to women. If they like what they see done. If not, move on. No thinking it's rejection, just think of it as not the right fit. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:40 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says she likes men with an attitude?Like your username, your clueless with women. "They never replied to your text", says it all... | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"🤷🏼 | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"He's not now! | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says she likes men with an attitude?So are you doing cold approach, without making eye contact? It you've eye contact the game is set, your invitation to approach and providing your not a dick, she will reciprocate. I was sat at a bar In Chicago, a group of women came in and after 5 mins I made eye contact with 1 of them. Slowly the group came over to my side of the room and they started talking loud about their sexual experiences. The one who made eye contact sat at the side of me and instantly got approached with a guy, using a … | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | The clubYes stop making excuses and go and approach. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:31 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says she likes men with an attitude?This above, attitude like you don't care much about her. It drives women mad. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 02:40 PM |
| 0 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Could have said from over the other side of the room, you looked a 9 but close up more like a 3 and walk off. It was a shit test, to see how you react. Bear in mind at was at the end of the evening and she will have been hit on all night by different dudes. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 01:20 PM |
| 0 | How to naturally approach women?Looking at the chocolate isle, you see an attractive women, just say as she's looking at chocolate. "Now which one should I buy? I like x chocolate what's your favorite chocolate and can you recommend a chocolate bar for me?" Make sure your not in the feminine hygiene isle, with the same ploy! | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Am I contacting too much or too little?Text her and led it be, if she's interested she will reply. In the meantime go and meet other women. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] daygame, 4 approachesYour acting creepy, by following them. Stalker material! Your openers must be bad to get flat rejected so much. Also approach from the front or side and don't just pounce on them. This will have a negative affect on the interaction. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | I need a little advice on coke approachingDon't you mean cold approaching? | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:08 AM |
| 9 | Should I break up with my girlfriend?Move back home, then start your game again. Don't know what went on during Covid but get over it and move on. Sex does drop off over time, but not in your twenties! I'm 55 and been married 34 yrs. Good luck in what you decide. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:23 AM |
| 6 | Is this is test from her?She's found someone who responds/initiates first. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that sex/relationships aren't as great as everyone makes them out to be? Should the pussy be taken off the pedestal?30 years married and agree 100%. Tried keeping the romance going, but sometimes you just have to say to yourself, fuck it, I'll myself in hand! Less drama. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | She (26) blocked me (27) for replying lateClose escape for you. She does sound crazy, move on. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | When I'm with girls 1-on-1 at parties, what do I talk about ?Ask her what is the key thing that drives her right now apart from family or work? Then ask a question based on her reply. Get her talking 80% of the time. Move her around the venue 3-4 times then she gets used to moving with you. Then back to your place or hers which ever is nearest. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How does vulnerability lead to non-neediness?Difference being, the way I see it is. Be ultra confident and when you approach say something like, pardon my nerves but I had to come and speak with you as you seem to have a fun vibe. The vulnerability is in admitting your nerves, especially when you do it confidently and with a smile. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Can't get over the need for female validation?You need to do some meditation to clear your mind. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 12:46 PM |
| 6 | So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary?Get out of uniform unless you intend to use it in the bedroom! Guys will then approach you, the chads will run a mile but the law abiding male citizens should be responsive. I would. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Tips for seducing wife again?If you've got kids get them off to the grandparents. Cook dinner for her and sit down and talk. Build the tension up throughout the day and you should get lucky. This worked for me during sticky times throughout our 30+years. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls follow or coming to your place but won’t sex?She came to your place, so subconsciously she was thinking of sex. You didn't build up the connection enough or provide her with the 'safe' feeling. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | I don't know how to flirt or talk to guysJust say, what's a nice guy like you doing in a place like this? | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:43 AM |
| 0 | How do you ask girls to kiss/etc?Build some attraction, lean in and do the triangle look. Left eye, right eye and mouth and if she leans in she's up for it. If not back to building attraction with push pull. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask for date at the end of the cold approachMike flake when it comes to dates. You had your opportunity, you should have taken it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I teach myself to notice opportunities to tease a girl with what she said/be bold?She is testing you, seeing if you comply! I had a similar experience, a woman asked for I look fat in this dress and she was smoking hot. I said yes and smirked, we both laughed and I walked away. An hour later she came over to me and we talked and engaged for some time. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on playful ‘challenges’?Ask the girl, are you from Russia? When she obviously isn't. When she says no, reply excellent, I hate Russians and hug her. Friends hug and see where it goes. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What are some good ways for a 20 year old guy who can’t legally drink yet to meet women his age?Join local meetups that don't involve drinking. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Struggling on my convo skillsStart by going up to random girls and introduce yourself. This can either be in a coffee shop or in a bar. Walk up with confidence and say, "my names x, what's your name?" Then say I bet your from Russia or La? If she says "no I'm not Russian" reply with "good, I hate Russian girls". Then make an observation of the environment and share it with her, such as in a coffee shop. Then ask her a question based on the observation, then expand the conversation. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT: 5'7 Black guy in Northern California night game. Critique and help outYour not in the right mindset, just don't care about the outcome. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | She updated her dating profile whilst she was on holiday but hasn’t read/replied to my message from earlier todayYes don't bring it up. Move on | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | She updated her dating profile whilst she was on holiday but hasn’t read/replied to my message from earlier todayDont bring it up as it makes you look needy | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | She updated her dating profile whilst she was on holiday but hasn’t read/replied to my message from earlier todayJust speak with her, tell her your concerns and see where it goes. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn’t want to escalate because we live in the same apartment complex ?Yes, if she's making it difficult move on. Not worth the hassle. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itI've read if you abstain from masturbation for 14 days increases your attractiveness. Meditate for a clear mind, google or YouTube mindful breathing then approach women with something that's current or if the moment. So if your in a bar and it's busy, walk up to he and say, it's busy here, is it always this busy? Let her reply and take it from there. Introduce yourself, "hi I'm x what's your name" shake her hand then crack a joke and see where it goes. No expectations! | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls number at a restaurant I usually go to, no reply back for 2 days. Will she ever respond or is it dead alreadyShe has possibly a lot on, if she replies the. Reply. In the meantime find and engage with other beauties! | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn’t want to escalate because we live in the same apartment complex ?Move on, she isn't interested. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | She updated her dating profile whilst she was on holiday but hasn’t read/replied to my message from earlier todayShe ignored you On holiday, give her a chance. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Got a girls number at her work yesterday at 8, texted, she still hasn’t texted me back, it’s 10:30 next day. Did I do anything wrong?Let her contact you, you don't know what's going on in her life. In the meantime keep engaging with other women. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls number at her work yesterday at 8, texted, she still hasn’t texted me back, it’s 10:30 next day. Did I do anything wrong?Women usually do reply, she may be at work or busy doing other stuff. Leave it until she does reply you seem less needy then. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Asked girl for her number, she replied `why’ then gave it to me anyways, but I deleted the number shortly after due to her response.Females can be very complex and they have many insecurities! You just needed to engage with her and create chemistry. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Girls that workout....I wear my headphones with nothing playing, so no one talks to me. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl calling you “desperate”. How would you react?They do... | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm looking for a wingman in Manchester UK next weekend.Good luck! | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:10 PM |
| 8 | Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls?See you Friday then! | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls?Just say that you aren't available tonight, but you are available x, see you at x o'clock at where ever. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:02 PM |
| 2 | What does this mean?She's looking for options, maybe her relationship to the bf isn't that good? | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 04:03 PM |
| 2 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenWhen you see a girl, a deep breathe, go up to her and make an observation. For example if you are in a coffee shop and they cook muffins, say to her, 'those muffins small gorgeous. I get a muffin every Monday on my way to work. To eat during my break while reading the paper." Then ask her, "what's your muffin of choice?" | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 06:35 PM |
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