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You killed me!!! XD XD XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 05:49 PM
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PORN DOES NOT EQUAL MASTURBATION! Thank you for putting it here! This should be really explained clearly in sex education nowdays... *sighs*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 05:48 PM
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Thank you soooo much for sharing this website! It's so complete and clear! Should be used for sex education pretty much everywhere!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 05:46 PM
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True story. OLD is literally looking for a diamond 💎 in apile of shit ! 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 10:22 PM
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Misogynistic cheaters 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:56 AM
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Some just want attention.... LV stuff 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:48 PM
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After blocking 🚫 Guy sent me a text. Filing a complain tomorrow at the police 🚔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:57 PM
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Exactly!!! They will say they're tortured and play the mysterious guy but they are just abusers in disguise Run!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:54 PM
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Same here. My ex used 3 different numbers to get in touch. All blocked and this close to going to the police Nvm are the WORST
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:16 AM
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Thank you for your help ! This is GOLD !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:16 PM
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Story of my fucked up BDSM life... Accepted everything just because I would get aftercare I craved love and Accepted anything Wish I could go back 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:47 AM
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You are a genius! Thank you for writing this ❤💜💕💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:39 AM
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I fully understand that! I did the same.. come on let's cheer up because our pickme days are over! Hugs for you Queen !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:48 AM
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So true!!! I accepted BDSM just because I would get fucking aftercare... bullshit! Thank Godmother pickme days are over but gosh is it hard to proudly say you enjoy vanilla these days...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:07 PM
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Same here. I Come from Italian culture and there woman are raised to be mothers and wives. Period. Your value is only taken into account if you cater to other human beings. Discovering FDS was like salvation for me: I can finally just dare to think of myself as having value through my achievements and choices outside of motherhood and or couple life. It takes quite some work to realize that I have been trained my whole life to cater to people. I'm making a lot of work with my therapy in order to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:04 PM
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I feel you. Even if leveling up is the way, craving human attention is just well... human Stay strong 💪 and thus is why FDS also exists :) 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:21 PM
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Beautiful You made me cry 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:01 PM
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Merci!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:46 AM
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You are a genius!!!! Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:22 PM
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So sorry 😞😢😐 I hope you stay strong and escape as soon as you can Many hugs from Europe ❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:46 PM
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She moved me to tears 😢😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:04 PM
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Video games make men sick My ex was addicted and spent most of his free time on it, would make it be more important than dinner... and all the rest Basically That was before FDS ... LEAVE HIM IF HE SAYS HE'S A "GAMER" = LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:57 PM
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So true! Happened to me too! Guy tells me he's not into social media etc wow I think he's soooo special...! Seems high value for two weeks ... Something felt off...so I ended it He called me back to gaslight me (that wS before FDS) Then contacted me with 3 different numbers trying to mess up my brains Was this close to going to the police Had all the screenshots ready A real psycho Worst part is je said he was working in a psychiatric hospital 🏥 poor patients it breaks my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:48 PM
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I used to be in the BDSM world and was introduced by a perverted Dom who manipulated me into really believing pain was ok. I was just craving love and remember thinking to myself: it's gonna be OK, you'll get some vanilla and aftercare if you're a good girl. I don't think this can ever be right...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:33 PM
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Beautiful!!! Your achievements are so inspiring! Never stop improving and be grateful you are so young and enlightened! I wish I had discovered FDS at 22 ... Congratulations, Sis!!! Hugs from Europe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:18 PM
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BRAVOOOOO !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:26 PM
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Preach!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:01 PM
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Run! This man doesn't realize you're the reason he could focus on his business. He's an entitled pièce of crap. Do not get his children. Run. U still can Please save yourself a life of misery !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:00 PM
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So freaking sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:33 PM
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THANK YOU FOR THIS! highly needed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:19 PM
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So true! Potential partners, Colleagues, Friends, Family members, Yourself (old pick-me sometimes coming back) NO ONE has to make you feel shitty! We need to sometimes say good bye to people but not everyone can be saved and we must be wise and follow our own path <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:06 PM
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You should really do it! The feeling of liberation it comes with is just beautiful! you then look at everything with pleasure because you kept only and only what sparks joy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:56 PM
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Bravo! stopping giving attention to people who do not deserve it!!! <3 Energy leeches need to get out of our lives!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:55 PM
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Yes, we are enough. No matter what. We are Queens and we deserve the best. That's my new motto: a little less maybe, but high quality and beautiful. For my interior design, my clothes...even my towels. My journey is to make every moment with me a special one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:49 PM
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Agreed. I rarely went to a man's place where I felt cosy. I imagine it exists, just not in the people I met. My ex was a total child, MARVEL everywhere...and he turned out friends' bedroom in his fucking mancave. Was afraid to enter, had to "knock" in my own appartment, of which I paid a higher share of rent... fucking pickme was I! Never again. I have my own place. Many relatives have told me, find someone and keep your own place. Keep your peace and never share the mess of cleaning and laundry…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:48 PM
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Wow! So much change! Big up, Sis!!! I love the fact that you take out the trash and add value to what is really important, like your friends RSVP <3 Keep up the good work and thank you for your motivation!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:45 PM
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So true! Thank you for putting Mu feelings into words so precisely!! 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:28 PM
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Same here! FDS in my rehab from being a pickme !!! We're gonna rock this world!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:25 PM
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Your last line killed me ! XD XD 😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:31 AM
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So true, once you start...pickmes just go away....think of it as making room and decluttering your life in order to make room for beautiful valuable relationships! <3 it's working beautifully for me and even if some of those "friendships" hurt when they end, they make room for new fullfilling and deep friendships!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:15 PM
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Beautiful thoughts! THANK YOU <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:49 PM
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Thank you so much for expressing this in such a clear way! And thank you for the link! That article is gold too!!! Will re-read it a few times because it is dense and your post too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:36 PM
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Agreed. I think it should be reported nonetheless. If the number of cases go up, recognition will follow. Late I know. But it is thanks to women reporting rape by their husband that it is finally recognized as such. It is a horrible situation but it HAS to be reported. Also for mental healing. The risk is that it's not recognized but still I believe it helps healing. I speak from experience unfortunately. My case was not taken into account seriously but it helped me recover to have still tried. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:56 PM
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Go to the police! This is rape! And physical abuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:00 PM
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Soooo true! Thank you 😊💓☺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:58 PM
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So true!!! Most of time if they state they are feminists it's a warning ⚠️...make sure he's not chery picking!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:47 PM
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You are a warrior!!! Thank you! You inspired me to go for a blocking spree myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:36 AM
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True! Had this guy acting HV until I told him about some feelings I had and there it wS : gaslighting all the way. Disappointment was strong as he seemed so nice and then bam! Vet vet vet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:38 AM
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This is GOLD!!! SAVING IT FOR MOMENTS OF DOUBT! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:36 AM
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Thank you so much for this post! The more I get rid of my old self, the more I realize I have to do a huge cleanup in my circles... it saddens me but it just has to be done. Thank you for giving me courage!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:55 PM
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This is sadly true! Some guys say they like it but sad truth is they go down for 5 minutes and act tired... 10 years of dating and only 1 guy who really liked to make me cum! Sooo sad when I think of it... such a pick me for staying and actually convincing myself that cumming was not important because I could do it by myself and sex was was only for intimacy... patriarchy was strong on this one sigh I read about this girl who integrated a check on a man's ability to give head in her three months…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:39 PM
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Thank you!!! Will do this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:00 PM
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Wish I had known that ten years ago!!! I think I'll stick this on my bathroom mirror for further notice if I ever go back to dating!!! Thank you 😊💓☺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:54 PM
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I wish we all stopped mommying men so they would have to learn!! We have to unite and take no shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:40 PM
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Those guys need sex dolls not humans. Period RUN!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:36 PM
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She's one scrote too heavy in my opinion... Cats over men ALWAYS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:35 PM
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Me too! Made me spit out my Tea 🍵🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:43 PM
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He's not frugal. He's cheap. Period. RUN! FAR! BLOCK 🚫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:34 PM
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Good job!!! You're awesome! It's the same thing for me here... reading 📚 in easy... cutting off ain't But every little step is a victory against scortese and our former self! Thanks to fds I was finally able to tell off a ZVM who was leeching on me for 4 years! It works! We'll get there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:30 PM
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Audacity at its finest! Want it all but giving nothing!!! Block 🚫 and delete!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:27 PM
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Giving numbers is already sad. DARING utter it out loud is a red flag. RUN 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:26 PM
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Go away! This isn't love Merely an infatuation with you mommying him Run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:16 PM
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