ConnecticutConvert Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys This should be a central point of this discussion, imho. The social norms and technological abilities of the world have also changed almost radically since people, at least people in their mid to late 30s and older, were children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 02:28 PM
1	We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys An ex of mine became friendly with my sister, and while she did not tell me details, she remarked that it was interesting we both had the same sort of attitudes toward sex: sex was a prize or something to be gotten from women by men. She, surprisingly, didn’t use this to her benefit much and just saw it as interesting because she liked and wanted sex and didn’t see much difference with sex drive with the genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 02:24 PM
1	We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys Is this an ironic or genuine comment? I honestly do not know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 02:20 PM
3	We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys This did not happen with my marriage. The sex became better and more fun. With a child, house to care for, schedules, etc., sex frequency has declined, but that is understandable and the cost of a deeper, more meaningful life. Just saying, it isn’t inherent due to manipulation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 02:06 PM
4	Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result? I’m married, and I’ve struggled with porn addiction, but I still see sex, sexuality, sex appeal as only one of my wife’s many values. And I would hope she values me sexually too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 02:33 AM
1	Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result? This, to me as a guy, and speaking generally, concisely sums up the issue. Also, I don’t see much difference between the butt scratch leggings and normal leggings: both are immodest, but as other people have commented, layers makes one sweat and baggy can interfere with exercise routines. OP, why not just go to a woman’s only gym?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 02:30 AM
0	Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result? This, to me as a guy, and speaking generally, concisely sums up the issue. Also, I don’t see much difference between the butt scratch leggings and normal leggings: both are immodest, but as other people have commented, layers makes one sweat and baggy can interfere with exercise routines. OP, why not just go to a woman’s only gym? EDIT: OP, I just realized your issue is more societal than personal. I’m sorry. That’s just how mainstream pop culture is flowing. Look into alternative sub-cultures. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 02:27 AM
-4	Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place? Aren’t most incels delusional about their social value, and if not, refuse to improve themselves and yet still feel entitled to a certain grade of woman? Before incels were ‘a thing,’ I knew a proto-incel, and at the time it just appeared he was shooting himself in the foot - I was dating, and he was just frustrated - but in hindsight it strikes as entitled and delusional self-aggrandizement, as a sense of inherent superiority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 09:06 AM
1	Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place? Wait. Do you mean illegal? (I assume you do) Really? Children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 08:59 AM
2	Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all? This strikes me as a question I wouldn’t need to ask with a possible answer I do not want to know. My wife and I have a semi-unspoken rule of ‘need to know’ only information regarding past sexual experiences, generally speaking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 01:02 AM
1	a lot of inkels are resentful towards women not for having the right to choose but for unattractive women overestimating their attractiveness Oh. Gotcha. I get it now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/21 07:49 PM
–	a lot of inkels are resentful towards women not for having the right to choose but for unattractive women overestimating their attractiveness A women being used for sex and then ghosted is the same as a guy getting friend zoned. I’m sure unattractive girls resent unattractive guys showering attention, etc. on attractive girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 11:46 PM
5	Why don't wealthy/powerful men think they're too good for hookers/to pay for sex? There is a famous quote (by an actor, I believe) that says something along lines of “you don’t pay a prostitute for sex: you pay her to leave afterwards.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 05:53 PM
8	Is it wrong for a woman to want to wait before having sex/stay a virgin now? Good for you! (Seriously.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 10:31 PM
2	Any victims of a bait and switch? My now wife told me we were the only couple of all her friends where I had the higher libido.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 02:12 AM
2	Any victims of a bait and switch? One of the best compliments I have received: “you’re fun to have sex with AND hang out with!” (Years ago in 20s.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 02:09 AM
3	Why aren't folks having sex? I was raised in a Catholic community (schools and household), and the taboo, forbidden, heavy and loaded nature of sex is still with me. It was depressing going out into the world and meeting ‘secular’ or nominal Christians. It was so . . . off. Sterile and clinical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:37 AM