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Talk about weather, sports, movies, ask for the time, ask for help about directions, ask the for a opinion, there are a lot of possibilities. Today is so hot, isn't it? I wish I could stay home doing nothing. Did you see the game yesterday? I couldn't believe the result! Did you hear about this new movie coming out this week? I'm so excited to watch it. Excuse me, do you know what time is it? Thanks, the clock is running fast, isn't? I feel like I woke up one minute ago and it's already this lat…
/r/seduction18/06/17 10:15 PM
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Sorry bro, I will be honest here and admit I don't know, I don't see a reason why she would be distant, maybe she's just really busy right and doesn't see you as a priority, maybe what you have to do, if you really like her, is to go after her. What I meant before was to stop texting for a week or so, then arrange a meet up (she would be hopefully missing you). But that's also a risk, in a way that the attraction could get less intense.
/r/seduction18/06/17 01:29 AM
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I was never a guy with social anxiety who wouldn't even talk to girl, not me nor anyone was ever able to improve their lives and relations using the help of this community, it's all horse shit, studies of body language, social dynamics and psychology are all lies, tons of guys improving their lives were just lying. The truth it, if you weren't born rich, handsome and charismatic, you can never find a girl and will die a virgin and alone. (Irony)
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:57 PM
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A number doesn't mean nothing, it's easy AF for her to give you her number and ignore your messages or give a fake number. Doing all of this doesn't even makes sense, why would she give you her number? You could be a crazy guy. You need to talk to her at first, get to know her a little better, build a bit of attraction, make her comfortable in your presence and then ask for it. I would change your strategy to something to something like this (just an example): (You guys are in the grocery store)…
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:48 PM
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Keep going out and gaming to gain more experience, and learn with it, never ask a girl for a kiss as a reward, it's like she's doing a favour, you could ask her directly: do you want to kiss me? And that's very direct and confident, or just let a silence appear between the conversation, look into her eyes, if she holds eye contact for 3 seconds, then kiss (touching her chin or her neck). That's how you should go about kiss close, raises sexual tension and doesn't leaves you looking like a high s…
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:38 PM
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Then I would start going out with other girls and just take my mind of this one, it's like this toy we had when we were young, we thought it was the best in the world and didn't even want to share with anyone, but know don't even care/remember. After some time not talking (one week or so) tell her you've been busy and want to meet her again, she will probably accept it. Don't spend too much time so the attraction goes away.
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:32 PM
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Thanks bro, great advice, that person will like you for that and probably expand your social cycle even further.
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:26 PM
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You could tell him you like her and be honest. You could man the fuck up and start being more dominant, she was already attracted to you, do you know why she shifted her focus? You took too long, bro, don't wait for the perfect moment, as soon as you get some IOIs(indicators of interest) you should start escalating: first touch her hands with high fives, if you receive compliance, then hold it, more compliance, put her arm around her back, more compliance, hug her. That's just one example, you c…
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:24 PM
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Did you already escalate physically with her? If you didn't even make out chances are she's bored. The thing is, girls want sex just as much as we do, but most of them hide it due to social pressure. If you take action, she will accept it, but if you didn't do anything after those 5 dates, then she could be bored. So I would propose a suggestive date idea, like a dinner at your place, that pretty much implies something else. Could make her more interested. Also, you are over analysing, just do w…
/r/seduction17/06/17 11:06 PM
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Parents out, fuck time. Tight car, fuck time. Dance club bathroom, fuck time. Hotel room, fuck time. A friend's house, fuck time. An empty place at your city, fuck time. Ps: Man, you're 19, are you really going to tell me you can't just say to one of your parents you are bringing a girl home and would appreciate if they could go somewhere else. I talked to my father about it two months ago (i'm 17) and he totally took my back and went out with my mom and sister.
/r/seduction17/06/17 01:19 PM
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Be direct, say you want to meet up with her some time and ask for her number. If you don't do it, you are just going to have a text buddy, if you want that, fine, but if you want to take this girl out and see if she fits what you're looking for. Then be secure and ask her for the number directly.
/r/seduction17/06/17 01:09 PM
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You were witty, fun and confident. That's it, that makes them comfortable around you and they smile. You were probably smiling too, it makes you more open and they are likely to be reciprocate. Try and be serious around girls, fewer of them will be smiling.
/r/seduction10/06/17 01:29 AM
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Same thing used to happen with me, I competed in Gracie Jiu Jitsu and Karate and that made some guys insecure, they were like: This ain't real fighting, I could take you down with one punch, come fight me brah!! My reaction: I would imagine they were little kids, like my cousin, always craving for attention. And I would respond accordingly. Just really put them down, with my posture and words, most of them would realize they are acting like child and be embarrassed. So that's my tip: act as if y…
/r/seduction10/06/17 01:22 AM
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Oh, I've tried everything and I got embarrassed, oh, what are people going to think about me?, oh, I just want to sleep and masturbate all day. For real bro? This isn't doing nothing for you, are you really telling me you don't have even a clue of what you want to do in life, or that you don't have any interests at all? I can't accept any of those are true, there has to be something you like/ you are good at that can makes you feel better about yourself. Now do something, improve yourself, I can…
/r/seduction08/06/17 01:39 AM
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I think every comment here is on point, but I just think I would add that you could start going out with hot girl friends, that will drive her insane, she's going to be the one afraid of losing you. One thing I realised some time ago and that is very important: in a relationship, the one who cares less is always the one who has more power.
/r/seduction05/06/17 10:30 PM
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It happens to a lot of people, it's just that most don't talk about it, you were nervous, relax and then try it again. Talk to her honestly, if she doesn't want anything, then try it with another one.
/r/seduction05/06/17 01:21 AM
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This: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=O3P1jJVMnmQ And physical escalation: amplify your physical contact with girl as time goes by so she gets naughty aka wants the D. First thing you have to do, thirty seconds rule, as soon as you see a girl you like, go up to her and start a conversation. What you say doesn't really matter but how you say it. It's a party with young people wanting to have fun, doesn't seem like a hard thing to do. Just stop caring what other thinks, don't keep planning what you …
/r/seduction05/06/17 01:16 AM
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I don't think you have to tell them before. First, hook up with them, if they want to get into a relationship with you, just say you aren't looking for one right now and that she is a great person and will find someone who is looking for the same things as her. Most girls will actually believe it if you say it right. For the other ones who don't fall for it, well, you have to break some eggs to make an omelette.
/r/seduction04/06/17 11:14 PM
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Yep, putting your personality into it makes it better. I'm glad I could help. And if anyone says you shouldn't, do it anyway, you may never see her again, the worst that could happen is she ignores your messages. In the other way, the best things that could happen are so many. So, just go after what you want.
/r/seduction03/06/17 01:09 AM
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You could either go the classic way and just say what's up, which may work if you're handsome or have an interesting profile. But there is one other thing I've used: Hey (name)! Wow, I just noticed something really odd in your picture! She will most likely reply, than you say: Did you know that the lines of a person's face tells a lot about her? If she asks what it says about her, you can just say something generic which fits pretty much everyone but still seems legit like: I can see that you ar…
/r/seduction03/06/17 12:17 AM
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And as for cockblocking I would just try to be more dominant, and don't allow this to happen, be in control. This happened to me a few days ago: We had a break between classes and this girl I was trying to pull was talking to another guy who I know wants her too. When my friends came to tell me that, I just went straight to her, gave her a hug, kept my hands on her waist and said: we need to talk, after that she didn't even realised the other guy was still there and we kept talking the whole tim…
/r/seduction02/06/17 08:10 PM
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Bro, this was pretty much my life for a long time, having the perfect opportunity and not using it. What I think you should do is work in your inner game, your confidence, the way you see yourself. And also to start improving your social skills. When trying to understand why I couldn't approach a hot girl, I realised I didn't approach anyone at all, so the first thing I started doing was to try and talk to new people, guys, old ladies, cashiers, that built a certain habit of talking to strangers…
/r/seduction02/06/17 12:31 AM
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She came and approached you in a party, then she approached you on Insta. Man, what other sign do you want? Ask her right now!! Always assume she's interested in you, this will give you confidence and this will in turn make her more attracted. Waiting more will just make it harder, momentum is very important in relationships, if you don't ask now, she may be less attracted to you later, if you ask her, the worst that could happen is she gives you an excuse and that's it. Just go for another girl…
/r/seduction01/06/17 08:35 PM
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It's great to see younger guy around here, I started pick up around this age too and it was the best thing ever. Answering your question, I don't think you have worry about that, if your HS and college years go while being confident and getting lots of girls, when you get to adult life you will be so comfortable around women that it's just going to be easy AF.
/r/seduction01/06/17 01:03 AM
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Honestly, there was only one girl who ever got me on a durable relationship. She was just so nice, cared so much about me and understood me so well, that I just couldn't do anything to hurt her. But you shouldn't change yourself so that guy likes you, if you two really like each other, and it's different from what both of you have ever felt before, than I think he will be smart enough to notice it. By the way I'm 18
/r/seduction01/06/17 12:52 AM
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Totally agree with you bro. The exact same thing used to happen with me, getting every possible sign of attraction and not being brave enough to do something about it, then I was thinking about all these opportunities I missed and it hit me that every time I waited, life just passed by while I wasted moments I could enjoy if willing to step out of my comfort zone. But it doesn't happens fast, experience and time will teach you, try stepping out of this zone in every aspect if your life, not just…
/r/seduction01/06/17 12:42 AM
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